I believe any friends that gets angry and never letting go because you didn't tell them you're moving abroad are not really your friend. I feel they should understand you would have your reasons for doing that , it's okay for them to get angry but they should also learn to let fo and forgive and let the friendship continue..... Thanks for sharing 💕
I can relate, its never easy, at times its depressing but that's life, you can try to keep in touch as much as you can on your part, if they really genuine friends they'll understand, if not then its not meant to be, let it go and move on.
Firstly, I respect your willingness to talk about this. I'd say those that feel annoyed are entitled to it. According to you, you said you reached out to a few because they had something to contribute, which literally means you "used" them. You didn't tell them because you value their friendship, thus, those you didn't tell do not have value. If any of them feels offended, it's just a disappointment. Which is normal. They thought they are important enough. Now, cutting off friends. Cutting friends isn't easy but everyone thinks they are the prize. If you always feel, think, or/and act like you can cut people off, you may later realise that you don't have deep friendship. Friendship should be deemed valuable. Not a commodity. Over time, everyone get tired of those that say they cut others off. It speaks I'm unreliable, unaccountable to you. No one trust their stance, and before you leap, they vanish. You may choose not to tell people that you are traveling, but you close pals should get a clue. Traveling is not something you do in couple of days. Your close circle should know before you go abroad, and if you choose not to tell them it's fine. When you eventually tell they free to respond how they deem fit. But you can't eat your cake and have it. Remember, everyone thinks they are the prize.
That’s why I said we weren’t close friends, I just didn’t want to call us acquittance in a bit to not annoy anyone. I cut them off because it was affecting my mental health, and the relationship was starting to look a bit toxic. But now I have realized and I agree that I might have acted a bit too irrational but I guess the deed has been done
Im the one that broke up with them because a lot changed.I was no longer having time for small talks,time for calls so they thought I have changed maybe i think im better than them.Of which yes i did change but i hope they understand i had to adjust on a lot of things
Just like one of my friend who got Harvard Out of 1 to 100%, if u chat him there is a 98% chance he will not reply I usually leave a bunch of messages for him
Me my friends broke up with me due to my work schedule they sent messages hoping you to reply them immediately but due to being busy and fail to reply them in time they started saying that I'm ignoring them because i moved to abroad 😢😢 It really hurts
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It always good to let things set beyond any doubt before informing friends of your plan to travel.
Friendship breakup not so easy but life has to go on and you meet new people too.
I believe any friends that gets angry and never letting go because you didn't tell them you're moving abroad are not really your friend. I feel they should understand you would have your reasons for doing that , it's okay for them to get angry but they should also learn to let fo and forgive and let the friendship continue..... Thanks for sharing 💕
Is really difficult Friends will not understand it takes time to understand you when you travel Abroad.Thanks for the ideas
Friends have to be aware time changes sometimes u may find yourself with no time
I can relate, its never easy, at times its depressing but that's life, you can try to keep in touch as much as you can on your part, if they really genuine friends they'll understand, if not then its not meant to be, let it go and move on.
I understand you right as for me years ago when I was traveling to abroad I don't tell anybody because trust nobody
Firstly, I respect your willingness to talk about this.
I'd say those that feel annoyed are entitled to it.
According to you, you said you reached out to a few because they had something to contribute, which literally means you "used" them. You didn't tell them because you value their friendship, thus, those you didn't tell do not have value.
If any of them feels offended, it's just a disappointment. Which is normal. They thought they are important enough.
Now, cutting off friends. Cutting friends isn't easy but everyone thinks they are the prize. If you always feel, think, or/and act like you can cut people off, you may later realise that you don't have deep friendship. Friendship should be deemed valuable. Not a commodity.
Over time, everyone get tired of those that say they cut others off. It speaks I'm unreliable, unaccountable to you.
No one trust their stance, and before you leap, they vanish.
You may choose not to tell people that you are traveling, but you close pals should get a clue. Traveling is not something you do in couple of days. Your close circle should know before you go abroad, and if you choose not to tell them it's fine. When you eventually tell they free to respond how they deem fit. But you can't eat your cake and have it.
Remember, everyone thinks they are the prize.
That’s why I said we weren’t close friends, I just didn’t want to call us acquittance in a bit to not annoy anyone. I cut them off because it was affecting my mental health, and the relationship was starting to look a bit toxic.
But now I have realized and I agree that I might have acted a bit too irrational but I guess the deed has been done
Thanks for the idea but whenever I plan traveling I prefer letting it mature b4 telling anyone
Very informative and helpful
I cannot relate 😢…. My friends are good people 😎
Me i no kuku get plenty friends... Oyo for them o... Sometimes it's best for some friends to go
Queen, you know Ooni slot is still opened. I'm keeping it locked sha.
Lol! Let Ooni hold the seat
It is alot.. instead of being happy and supportive of the person… It is well
It feels bad when you don't tell your friend you're relocating but make it up to them send them stuffs
haaa haaaa.... relocating does not mean your life is better o
Time zone is big issue o. Trying to wait till evening time when you're free for the day but they already sleeping in Naija
Im the one that broke up with them because a lot changed.I was no longer having time for small talks,time for calls so they thought I have changed maybe i think im better than them.Of which yes i did change but i hope they understand i had to adjust on a lot of things
If I am traveling out of a country I will only tell my friends when I arrive where I am going 😂
😂😂😂😂
I hope you won’t be angry if they do the same to you
Just like one of my friend who got Harvard
Out of 1 to 100%, if u chat him there is a 98% chance he will not reply
I usually leave a bunch of messages for him
That’s so sad. But also remember that he might be busy. You could have a honest conversation with him and let him know how that makes you feel
Me my friends broke up with me due to my work schedule they sent messages hoping you to reply them immediately but due to being busy and fail to reply them in time they started saying that I'm ignoring them because i moved to abroad 😢😢
It really hurts
I am so sorry
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Oga, check Google, you will see plenty of them. With this kind of question, it means you are not ready at all for the application task o. 😂😂
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