Hiding In Plain Sight: Darrell Gast II v Ravontis Simpson S24 E60
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- Опубліковано 30 жов 2022
- Darrell says Ravontis will often disappear for hours and turns off her phone tracker. Ravontis says Darrell's controlling ways about where she goes and how she dresses is not okay.
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She was 15 and he was 20?!?! Nobody see the issue rn ?
Exactly
Truth
No she said 14 15 is being nice
Thank you!! I was searching the comments to see if anybody else peeped that 👀
No parenting.
She learned to be independent the hard way and he hated every bit of it. Judge was spot on!
In my early 20s I was talking to my uncle about problems i was having with my wife. I told him I was thinking about separating from my wife. He said never leave your home unless you're leaving for good. He said if you need some space just go for a drive or go have a drink. The best advice I ever gotten. This guy messed up when he abandon his family
Absolutely well said by your uncle 👏👏👏 bravo
@@gailwhite8361 Unfortunately he died a few years after he gave me that advice
Exactly you get one time to abandon me!
Facts facts facts
True. My ex-husband abandoned our family.
He had this girl since she was 14..... He never gave her a chance to grow up.
Exactly!! And he was 19 at that---they need to separate and get some identity independent of each other
@@thefreequency truth
They should grow thogether no matter how old they were when they started to mess with one another. He didn't grow up either
@@jasminasinanbegovic6225 so you condone this? Ok.....
@@mringram those are your conclusions not my words, OK. First of all if he grew up along the way he wouldn't act the way he did. They both were young when they started, not just her. Before something like that happens I bet there were many red flags, women usually ignore them and give their best to justify them sadly
He kept mentioning when she cheated but wanted to gloss over when he cheated on her. Then he left??
This is what happened to me. My children's father would threaten to leave me every other day just because he knew I was so in love with him and he controlled me with it. But it didn't take me long to stand strong! Once I noticed the pattern, I helped him out.....Right tf outta my house and life!!! Never looked back, and heve absolutely 0 tolerance for stupidity, ignorance, and BS!!!!!
@spiritual beauty right on good for you!👍😊
When she told him " When you leave, I learn to make it on my own."
That was very telling. And that's what Tyrone don't get. These women are gonna press forward and raise those kids with or without you.
We don't have a choice, with or without I think most black women expect to raise kids on their own in case their partner does not follow through.
@@cadillacdeville5828 that’s cap. Don’t let the last 20-40 years along with white supremacy and black women’s cooperation, let you think black fathers haven’t and don’t still exist. The rate of married black men has been steady around 30% for at least 30 years.
Don’t carry if you’re not married. In general the men that got married, had sons and most of those men marry before having kids. 30% of black men are married with or without kids in America. 54% of black men are single and childless. Roughly 16% of black men are responsible for 76% of our un fathered youth. Most of these mothers keep going to the same group of men dealing with idiots.
We don't have a choice most black women will end up single mothers and inherit poverty from black men and fathers.
Many studies have shown that black fathers are the most engaged of all fathers in America ..we tend to make our microcosm a macrocosm
@@Beast_Lee If they were the most engaged, its because they are not out building the world like Brad, Mr Wong, Jose and The Jyws.
So if that was the case its because they have plenty of time on their hands. You Don't need stats, you can just look around and tell whats up
That piece of knowledge she dropped at the end. Love it "Excuses are tools of the incompetent, they build monuments to nothingness, those that excel at them seldom excel at anything else." That was a whole word.
I will be using that in the very near future. It's gold!
Words members of the Divine 9 live by
It truly was.
I'm a little late to the party in seeing this episode but those words of knowledge made me say "DAMN" that was just downright intellectually deep
She's an AKA. That poem is used by black fraternities and sororities when they are pledging the sororities/fraternities.
I love the tone of Judge Star’s voice. It’s very calm, but direct. She says a lot of funny and insightful things but never in a loud or over dramatic manner. She stays poised and graceful.
I love that about her it’s something I look up to
It is sorta mesmerizing.
Yes her & Judge Lynn Toler Divorce Court. The TONE they use makes you listen. Being yelled at shuts me down instantly.
That fact that he was smirking/smiling when judge told him that his woman was in tears was just Wow 😢
When she said I'm learning to live without him I felt that
This upset me. He really tried to come up there playing the victim?!?!? Boy BYE!! sis bigger and better is awaiting you and you deserve all the blessings that will overflow your cup!
Tracking a adult via a phone is stalking! Pain and simple! that should be a deal breaker!
Only if it goes one way... my husband and I have had each others locations for years. Just as much for safety/emergency as much as anything. Marriage means complete transparency at all times anyway. Your spouse should always know where you are, what you're doing, and who you're with. That's called respecting them. Not being controlling. This dude not giving her the opportunity to see his location is the only problem with the location topic. He's just controlling and toxic in general. Has nothing to do with being able to see where your spouse is.
not if you were paying for or had a major possession, in possession and control of a 3rd party you knew nothing about or gave approval to and your partner needed to be bailed out after getting in trouble and they lied to you about everything else previous. he should've left her flat after that
That’s why she said might as well leave if you need a tracker… she was right. He named a whole bunch of reasons he doesn’t like her and he seeks counsel from other women
And...if you leave mad at your mate and leave your kids hurting its wrong.
Be mad at mom but dont punish those kids.
Exactly all he had to do was make sure his kids were good but he didn’t care about me enough to even check in on them smh
She'd better watch her back. Malicious destruction of property like that takes both time and thought! He is seething with anger.
Yep - he is super controlling! She needs to GET OUT before that anger manifests into abuse!!
He is just thinking about HIMSELF!! Classic narcissistic behavior!! Girl, you need to get out while you can - because his "anger" is going to manifest into abuse!! RUN - take your child and your belongings and get the heck outa dodge!!
He feels like he owns her. He knows he can't fully control an adult but he is tires to. He says things like he "let's" her do this and that. That's crazy. They both cheat. The relationship is over. He needs to let go of he's controlling ways and to get someone closer to his age.. She needs to spread her wings.
Very true. I knew from the beginning of him speaking stating "He let's her..", this would not work. Yes, she started off young and naive, but she is growing into her womanhood with standards.
She needs to be careful. He's not stable.
@@God-Love-Freedom I don't understand why the both are together
Judge Star Jones be preaching!!!! Please KEEP THIS JUDGE IN THIS COURTROOM 🙏!!!!!
YES I agree! she is saying things we need to hear
This guy will not even let her talk because he knew how sneaky and dirty he is. but to walk away from your family for 2 months and didn't even care about his family only himself girl run away and dont even look back just a boy trying to be a man and so damn controlling
*This is the same reason me and my child's father broke up. At 30, I will never be the same girl I was at 15.*
This is true for a lot of us
Absolutely
“Now that’s just stank!” 🤮😂Nah fr.
I have to admit I didn't think I was going to like Star Jones but she is doing an amazing job .
I thought the same but she giving good advice on these cases
Judge Star dropping straight knowledge 101 late night, " EXCUSES ARE TOOLS OF THE INCOMPETENT", A man who walks out on his kids, speaks to his character, it is known as ,''THE LIFE FOR THOSE WHO HAVE IT TWISTED''💯
He doesn't get it. He pushed her into a position to no longer consider him. To basically abandon your partner to fend for themselves is hurtful. Then to have kids that you did not take into consideration and walked away like you have no care is debilitating. and there's no coming back.
Never, you will cease to exist.
How he cut up and bleached her clothes. The tracking. This guy is psycho. She should have BEEN left him.
He truly is full of himself. The entitlement. Self serving. Disgraceful behaviour. No going back. EVER.
BINGO!!!! He has a real huge problem. He is not safe to be around. Malignant narcissist
She is so right. Living with a controlling person takes all the steam out of a relationship. It really does. And once youre hurt its just there and nevèr goes away if its not dealt with then...it just gets worse.
Sorry to say most Of what you call controlling is not even controlling you women are just fucking delusional
So it’s ok to cheat on ppl
Him putting a tracking device on her phone is extremely controlling! He needs to man up!! He left her - no car, no support, NOTHING!! But she's supposed to be ok with it and just sit and wait for him to come back??.NOPE!!! BYE!!
So he leaves her for 2 MONTHS with no car, no phone no money, and she's just supposed to be waiting for him with open arms saying "Oh baby, I missed you so much!! I'm gonna go get your slippers and cook you some dinner!!" Ummm, nope. It's called I'm gone - see ya!!
@@youngodyssey16they were in a break not cheating
GET UP , GO TO WORK, SUPPORT YOUR SELF AND CHILDREN. YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. THIS IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP. DON'T KNOW WHAT IT'S CALLED.
Exactly, “You are NOT married!”
Are you kidding me? There are married single mothers who deal with this everyday and doing everything by themselves. Marrying into poverty to a bum does not save you.
An enabler for codependency it’s really men out here that want you in a low place so you can solely rely on them
Situation ship. That's what it's called
They have a common law marriage.
What's crazy is that she got him new tires on his car from the "friend". It's very true that if a woman does not feel secure and/or safe, especially after you walking out on her and the children, she will and have to press forward on with life with or without. That's just the bottom line. I do see fault on both ends of course, but to not even check on your children and make sure their good is just dead wrong, no matter what your reason is for just up and leaving. Him wanting her to depend on him after all that is just mind-blowing. A woman will mentally and emotionally checkout before physically leaving, TRUST!!!
This type of man is soo frustrating, he has an excuse for everything 😠
He won’t shut the hell up until he’s shut down with his bs
Yep. Very little comprehension. He may agreed with u from time to time but it’s not bc he understands but to shut you up. #Pointless bc he wanna be right so bad
How can you just walk away from your children and not care if they have food or basic necessities!! That’s beyond inhumane 😡
It’s sad but they do it all the time she made the mistake by letting him come back from that.
How can a mother stay out all night while her children are at home!? You ladies keep advocating for bad behavior and it’s really sad! And you wonder why men today are leaving y’all alone and only focusing on ourselves. No accountability at all smh!
@@armondocordova3121 lmfaoooo you sound crazy. You’re applauding people who leave and traumatize their kids because they feel some type of way about the mom.. doesn’t sound like accountability. How fvcking pathetic! G2H
@@armondocordova3121 I get what you saying about her leaving the kids all night, however this about the kids. The kids are the victims here, they didn't ask to be here. Both parents need to be responsible for the kids
@@0MsNicole0 and you would agree with the moms behavior staying out all hours of the night with small children at home wouldn’t you. If you support that behavior something is wrong with your mentality. If anything you sound like the crazy one.
Judge star 🌟 dresses 👗 tastefully, and I like that she's a woman of faith.
Yes. And her make-up is always flawless.
He wants control over her. She was young and now she is growing up to be a mature woman, he can't handle it..
Going to jail over a bum it is stupidity not maturity 29 years old it probably daddy issues
You got it right on the nose Judge Star. He thought his tactics of leaving all the time would make her beg and plead for him to stay and make her stop doing what she's doing. He wanted her to depend on him. She wasn't going to take it anymore. And just like you said, she's standing on her own. He's afraid she don't/won't need him anymore.
You never need that thing that makes you feel insignificant and sometimes speechless and invisible.
Each and every woman is capable of doing everything necessary on her own.
If we find a good n equal mate we are damn lucky.
We as women really need to think more of ourselves and then n only then will we attract that quality man and father.
Just cuz a guy has a d@#$ doesnt make him a man.
My IQ dropped about 10 points just listening to this young man talk
He seem so innocent but the more we hear the scarier he seem. It all bout him to the point he abandon his family.
Lmao...this made my morning
""Excuses are tools of the incompetent. They build monuments to nothingness". Deep. I felt that.
Wow, the end of Judge Stars advice was pure poetry, wisdom and true gems. It take a lot for us to walk away and little for a male. Find you a MAN. Go back to school and work and keep going. It won't be easy but it'll be less stressful with a grown ass child by your side.
Both of them need to go their separate ways and seek counseling and therapy to learn how to deal with anger and trauma. Then learn how to co parent in a healthy way
When a man can't provide security to a women you might as well walk away the fact he cut up her clothes was just so petty and leaving his kids with nothing ain't cool he need to grow up
He is selfish bottom line. Judge's no nonsense judgement is refreshing. Love it!
Talking about his car 🚗
@@julisaortiz2576 he should have deleted her for that disrespectful 💩
@@edwardgilbert3232 it's like these people in the comments don't listen. He put the thing on her phone after he had to bail her out of jail while she was drunk driving in his car with some dude. How is everyone overlooking that?
He got up with his dirty thang and went somewhere else for seconds..I guess the payback was a bish. She can't depend on him to lead and needs to secure her own future for herself and their children.
@@edwardgilbert3232he should be in jail with his pedo self
So many BM think it’s okay to come and go out their kids lives as they want. STOP GIVING THEM BABIES LADIES!! Please protect yourselves from these LOSERS
Stop saying it's BM. Because it's not
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 statistically speaking, it is. Look up the absentee father rates. Case closed.
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 sorry to inform you but it is. And now that they are dating interracially more the single mother rate in other communities are on the rise….survey says its BM
@@minae9935 no it's not. It's BW like y'all that don't want the father in their lives period
@@syaira6857 yup! Wyte women in interracial relationships are now the fastest growing group of single mothers. They’re realizing they get the same BM as BW
This version of divorce court is much better than the previous version with Judge Faith
Her voice got on my nerves
Nope
Agreed …. Judge faith was ok but judge Starr really gives off those motherly vibes and advice like judge mabeline and toler…..
I didn't care for Judge Faith
Agreed
Judge Star is always looking stunning, this outfit is 🔥🤩
He talks too much instead of listening.
I agree, I was thinking that too.
He thinks he knows everything, his face expression when Star spoke was all I needed to see, he was pissed with her for talking too smh
So they was dating when she was 14??? That's an issue right there.
What man actually throws bleach on his girlfriends clothes, I've never seen that before 🤔🤦🏾
If I was the woman and he walked away I would be like "hold on you're forgetting you're children"
«Excuses are tools of the incompetent. They built monuments to nothingness. Those who excelled in them, excelled in nothing else.» Very wise words everybody should learn and apply from day to day.
She is wrong for having another man in his car. On the other hand, this is why I will always have my own. A person can walk out on you at anytime.🤷🏾♀️
Well considering the age they started dating she probably wasn’t even supposed to be driving forreal
That's it...she's tired of you buddy...and this happens...who just leave their family for 2 months 😒...
This whole relationship is toxic and dysfunction, but I honestly think it's not salvageable, with both cheating and him leaving for 2 months ,crazy
She needs to leave him. Leaving 4 2 mons no money 2 kids in house. Don’t stay with a man for 15 years. U are not married to him. Girl get your life take care of u and your kids. Judge Star u are sooo Good.
He walks away from her and the children....No guilt, No hurt, don't give a damn about them kids🙄
Why kind of man bleaches and cuts up clothes?!?
A petty dude. Pathetic
Next time... It will be murder
A narcissistic weirdo does this, and he will end up doing more harm to her if she left him alone for good because his ego will be shattered. He's dangerous.
He talks over everyone. He’s not listening.
Just co parent for sake of your kids. Girl love yourself n your kids. He doesn't seem to care.
I swear I need Ms. Star Jones's entire closet Her outfits/ ensembles I should say are on point every single day! You better give them fashion sis Yaaassssssssssssssss!!!!!!
They both out here living foul, & doing the most, instead- why not just walk away from a dysfunctional, dramatic, and toxic filled relationship like this, then co parent ( Get out of your feelings, and keep it moving, because them babies should be the first priority ) 😠💯
Facts
One ting you did wrong was left the children, you can leave the wife she deserves it but the children that a no no take them next time
I don’t see how people be in these terrible a$$ relationships with all of this stress and trauma. I would never!
I remember this one. I was in the audience right behind him lower screen
How do you get on the audience?
@@syaira6857 Through an agency I signed up with a while back. Might have info on their website.
These relationship problems seen on these programs are terrible. Love has waxed cold, no trust, no honesty, no security and no peace😢!
I like it when Judge Star spends around in her chair 😂
I think any real woman would lose respect for their man if they just up and leave her and their kids. Him coming back thinking it was all good is where he really messed up at
He was 19 yrs old grooming a 14 yr old child. I’m not surprised he was controlling and this whole groomership was messy
THIS PART RIGHT HERE! He chose a young girl to manipulate to stay in a toxic relationship.
How sis get defensive about having a GPS on her horn but get booked in her man car with the homie?..these people take being single for granted
Judge let the girlfriend off too easily. She is a mother but still staying out all night, letting some other dude drive the car the boyfriend paid for. And she ain't staying out all night out at her momma and sister's house. Please! She is stepping out on him and the Judge and the girlfriend expect him not to react to that??!. I believe him when he says that living with his girlfriend is unbearable. She looks like she has an attitude and he wasnt falling for those tears because he has probably seen it over and over. I don't agree with him not supporting his kids when left for 2 months. That's completely unacceptable but I think the Judge let the girlfriend off too easily. Because if the Judge's husband had seen driving some other woman in her car, she would go ham also.
Then he should have dated and adult and not a 14 year old
If he can't take what he dishes out then he should've left and stayed gone then 🤷🏾♀I don't know one person that gets cheated on and disrespected and not return the favor, that's the way of the world and if doesn't like it then don't start it. Simple as that. She's going light on him in my opinion because I would've had him balled up in the corner crying like a lil b!tch messing with me like that, I am a cheating disrespectful man's worse nightmare💅🏾😂😂😂
Mr. Gast should've stayed gone. You can't trust her because you don't trust yourself. Why even go on divorce court....just leave and stay gone to do your thing. You got it backwards in the first place with 2 kids no wedding ring = no commitment. Pretty lady; you've got to do better for yourself!
Ms. Star’s hair is always on point
She needs to get a JOB. SHE kept allowing him to treat her like that.
So sad that people just don't respect and cherish their partners.
She wasn’t worried about how they were going to eat but you worried about how they’re gonna eat. She was worried about it. She get her ass up out there and go to work. Stop relying on other people but I’m sure her mother taught her better.
He about that 304 LIFE and can't take a TASTE of HIS OWN MEDICINE. Furthermore, where the in the HELL are her PARENTS.
My exact question????
More episodes please!!
I think when a person leaves in the way he did and she had nothing at home is something u cannot get past. I could not respect him anymore. She should have let him stay gone and make sure he can always see his children. That was beyond mean and disrespectful. They need to just be great parents and not have a personal relationship.
This relationship is OVER.. they are cheating on each other & neither feels safe or secure. So sad she now has 2 kids with a man who’s shown if he’s not with her, he does nothing for their kids
Lol the CC says “get a$$ to the prom” instead of getting *asked* to the prom 😂😂
That's just Stank!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😍
She doesn’t need any cable or satellite. You should be telling her to sit down and read a book with those kids.😊
Her entire life can’t be focused on the children.
He really doesn't have a real obligation to her but he does to his children. They're not married and that's why you don't depend on a man if he's not your husband.
I find it crazy how this woman destroyed her own home and no one is telling her , did you think about your kid or how they was going to hurt him
That part
Everybody story ain’t sad
What home she was preyed on by a pedophile seems y’all overlooking that part
Judge was spot on
At what point will the judges start calling out child abuse? These grown adults, mostly men, but women too, come to court and have the nerve to show their faces on national television after grooming young people and engage in a "relationship" with underage people. It's disgusting and it never gets addressed head-on.
No matter what a young person says or does, they are not mentally or emotionally capable of being in relationships with adults. It's a real sickness and perversion to allow these folks to act like they are not predators of the worst kind.
Yup this be my only gripe with DC is that a lot of these predators come on here comfortably speaking on a relationship they had with a child
When one walks out, and leaves, what’s not realized, is, you’re showing/teaching the other how to do tf without you
I'm disappointed they both even showed up to fight for this trainwreck of a relationship, sht been dead let it go
Stop letting people track your phone. That is unhealthy and you will never have a trusting, loving relationship. ❤️
The remedy is get your own phone
City Boys down 100 points smh
And another thing if she was single, why didn’t she leave that man’s house? She doesn’t pay any bills she has no right to be there. She should’ve took all of that stuff to where she was when she is single.
This girl'a family FAILED her! Let me find out my 14-15 yo daughter is with a grown man; HE'd be running to the police before I did!
Both need counseling to navigate this. Their lack of communication leaves a LOT of room for foolishness and misunderstanding. Both need to feel heard and respected.
She should have thought about all of that eating and transportation before she had that guy in his car.
Bruhhhhh these "dudes". Always so easy for them to walk away from responsibility and still not see the error in their ways. Smh! I said what I said.
Come on man Move on just leave this woman alone, You still Hurt over the cheating
Hes a real jerk..and he freakin cheated..hes a control freak..shes better off without the little 💩
this is why I love being a couples counselor to keep people on the right track and build healthier homes... there are too many videos such as these !
She was 15 years old and HIM 22 YEARS OLD🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢 when they started to date.
He was a predator
I think he has mini-strokes every time he's forced to actually listen to her.
Judge had me rolling 🤣 😂
So they got together when she was 14 and he was 20? Am I mathing right? What in the Dateline is going on?!?
It's time for them to go they're separate ways period take care of the kids and move on
Excuses are tools of the incompetent. They build bridges to nowhere and monuments of nothingness! -President Barack Obama
Excellent quote Judge Star!
You’ve made my day. Thanks
He does not get that he is the problem. She will never feel secure with him. She needs to just leave.
“That’s just stank!” 😂😂😂😂