As a Veteran, I am so proud of you guys! Serving as an out couple is a dream many of us worked hard to make a political reality. Y'all are living the dream that older gay military folks hoped would happen in our lifetimes. We are living vicariously through your journey. You guys are doing it and others will follow! Zach, you need to start an Officers Wives and HUSBANDS club!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hugs from a boomer
I’m a US Army Veteran (1981-92) and a US Army Reserves Retiree (2003-14), which included a combat deployment to Iraq in 2004-5. All those years I was closeted and had to make relationships in my private life secondary to my military assignments d commitments. I so wished that I could have shared my personal life within my military freely and maybe I would have stayed on active duty instead of going inactive and reserves. I also had lost relationships because of my military service commitments.
Your relationship is inspirational, a bond that inspires hope in those who have not yet found love in their lives. I am glad to see you two again, please keep posting. You give hope... thank you!
Hello gentlemen… I ran across your channel by accident. I was looking at a film and when I finished one of your videos came up. I know you guys are both young, but you have no idea of what your relationship and the journey that It has taken has done for me. You are affecting more people than I believe you can possibly know. For example I am a 70 year old black man who has never found a partner so I’m living vicariously through you. You have brought me much joy and also exquisite tears. Good luck to you both and know that you are touching the heart of a universe.❤ All the best to you both…
Alistair, check that your medication isn't also causing you fatigue. I used to take a medicine for anxiety, which helped immensely, but it made me stupid tired ALL.THE TIME. Started watching you guys from the very beginning,. Your love continues to inspire. Sending lots of love to you both!
Rely liked this vlog. Been with my guy over 20 years, married for 5. We're still discovering things about each other. Not always easy -- communication -- Love him more now more than ever. You inspire me, thanks.
Zack ❣️ Alastair, I love seeing you guys. The impact you have on me has been so inspiring! I'm 55yrs and I can tell you back in the 80's, me loving another Man was the worst thing. Being a gay man in my family was terrifying. So I ran away from the world not knowing where I fit in... I never dated again after I turned 22yrs old. I wasn't attracted to women, although I tried because it was expected. I made excuses over the years from not finding the right person to health conditions, for reasons I am alone for now 33yrs. Even now I'm still terrified of people finding out after seeing today how much society wants to go backwards. I am so glad, Zack/Alastair, you have the courage to push forward. Thank you for showing all of us that this beautiful kind of LOVE is possible!!!💞 You both need your time away from the camera, but I am always happy to see your videos. Til next time, love you both 🫂🙏❤️❤️🍻😎
I have suffered from anxiety most of my life and have been on every antidepressant offered. Everyone of them made me gain a lot of weight. I watched my diet, worked out and still gained weight. I just thought my comment may help. As always, I wish you both the best!
It wasn’t until this popped up I realised just how much I miss your vlogs, I loved this lads and it was lovely to see Brando again, seeing him claim his garden in all senses was funny and cute 😁.
Glad you guys are finally moving into a house 🏡, it will give you both space to chill out. Glad to hear Alastair is managing his anxiety and I hope you are taking care of yourself, Zach 😀, Take care 👍
Personally, outside appearance will change as you age anyway, so a better inner experience is well worth the weight! Besides, Alistair is cute as he is :)
PLEASE, No matter what, make quality time for each other. I hind sight, wish I would a done that. Yep, the big D,. There’s nothing more important than ur time with each other. Nothing!! 👊
My partner and I do movie date night! We must be doing something right because our 25th anniversary is coming up in just a few months. I’m so glad you guys posted a new video! Thanks for sharing.
Congratulations on being out of the apartment and into the house! Moving may be stressful, but it sounds like being in the new place is going to be very positive for both of you. And I’m looking forward to seeing the finished version of the new Coffee & Tequila set!
Medications that deal with anxiety tend to make you gain weight, but it's the behavioural changes that makes you gain weight and not the medication in of itself. That is well known. You really have to be super vigilant with what you eat and also your level of fitness. A great way is to write down everything you eat each day in a journal and get familiar with a calorie counter. You'd be surprised how much you eat when you don't write it down and know when you are overeating.
Take care of yourselves guys. Sounds like life is very stressful right now. So good you make time for each other. So important. Best to you always. ❤️🌈
Your posts are SO inspirational. Thank you for what your do! ❤ I often wonder if you fully appreciate the uplifting impact you have upon your audience. I suspect you cannot. So, I'd encourage you both to carry on doing what you are. We relate, and we appreciate it!
My husband and I wish you the best of luck and many happy days in El Pasos. A big hug from Brazil! Eu e meu esposo desejamos para vocês muita sorte e muitos dias felizes em El pasos. Um forte abraço do Brasil!
Balance is very important. There will always be work to do, so you have to set your limits and respect them. Your young years are passing by very fast so you have to ensure you make the best of it. Working all the time, being stressed all the time to the point you need to take pills to control your anxiety, not sure it’s necessarily good for you. When you are young, you think life is forever, but what’s the point of living a life where you’re never with the person you love the most and not making the best of your life? You really need to find balance. I am sure that if you look at your work, there are things you could delegate more to free you some time. I’ve been in management for over 32 years. I could have worked 7 days a week, 10 hours a day and would still find work to do. I haven’t listened to your other show, but I was pleased to see Al so expressive and affectionate to Zack. Take care guys. Take the word of a 62 years old man…life goes on very quickly. You have to set up your priorities in life and determine if your job helps you meet your goals. I married a flight attendant, so I know what it is to be away from my husband a lot, but unlike Zack I can fly with him at times on his layovers. It’s a way to spend time together. I have seen so many people during my career not being able to set their limits and work all the time and realize that they turned 40 years old and didn’t see their young adult life go by. These years don’t come back so it’s now or never. I guess Al will have to answer the question, is it all worth it? Will I need more and more pills as I get more and more responsibilities? Is this really what I want? Is being stressed all the time what makes me happy? Many questions that deserve an honest answer before it’s too late. Being in El Paso, I hope you are going to vote for Beto!
Pain in the military is very hard and very. Being a military spouse is very anxiety not knowing the unknown. I'm very happy for both of you that you have found each other as such a young age and that you've learned to grow together and merge together each other's lives..
Zach, I can't believe you're talking about your date night with your husband, Alastair on your vlog of this video in Texas after you went out with him to play some video games and everything, so I'm proud of you, I know you had the Southern accent!! #ritualpartner
Good to hear from you guys again, missed you both! Happy you are moving into a house too! Alastair maybe ask about zoloft ? Seems all medications have some sort of side effects it truly is trial and error, but you will find one that you can live with. Trust me, been there done that. I'm glad to hear that you are open to them. Take care of yourselves, you're like family after all these years watching your vlogs! Love you both!💙❤💙❤
Zach & Alastair, best wishes in your new home. As someone who has moved several times to & fro (South Carolina, Florida, South Carolina, Alabama, Florida, and South Carolina), I know how stressful moving can be. But, I also know how rewarding it is to make a place your own. Enjoy.
Before there was medicine with side effects people used natural things like raw milk, plants, herbs and organic essential oils with no side effects. Some organic lavender oil when you apply it to your skin and diffuse it, will make all anxiety and even depression go away with time. It even heals ptsd and helps you sleep like a baby at night.
Yes, you can talk to your doctor and change meds. You do not have to settle for weight gain. Itsmostly about the meds. Self-care is essential. I love your posts. Please review Heartstopper together. I want to hear your thoughts. Alastair, when will you get your next promotion?
Absolutely nothing wrong with taking a break from vlogging! We will be here waiting for you :) We love to see your content. Always great to see a video from you guys
Work assignments ebb and flow over the course of one's career. How fortunate are those that have partners who love and support through the tough times. I watch these videos not just to see what I've missed, but to celebrate Alastair and Zach for making an example of what could have been and what should have been for those of us with too much societal resistance.
Glad to see a vlog again, bc we don't routinely watch Tequila+Coffee and just prefer vlogs about life over podcasts about entertainment, so pls keep them coming here and there! Glad that Alistair has his anxiety under control too, that's no joke. He works so hard. Take care guys
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In my experience with anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medications, I have found that they do help in dulling negative emotions, but I also didn't feel positive emotions the same. I am not on meds anymore for that reason. I still do feel anxious, but it helps to find other strategies (journaling, listening to music, making art, etc.) to alleviate my anxiety.
Allister, as a therapist and 25 year husband of an overweight man who takes meds for anxiety and depression, I get your struggle. My husband has tried negotiating his meds with his provider. He has tried working out. He has tried going to a nutritionist. None of his actions have worked. We have concluded that his mental health is more important than his weight gain. I don't like living with a chub, but there is more to this marriage than his physical body. I suggest that you continue to talk with you shrink about your struggle to balance your physicality and with your sense of self. Thank goodness you married a man who allows you to be who you are--go Zac!!
That was a great vlog. You guys are so open and honest about what is happening in your lives. It's great to hear that Alastair's anxiety is better under control. I think it is perfectly acceptable to ask the Dr about the medicine regimen. Like all medications they should be reviewed once and a while to make sure you're not having adverse reactions or issues. So cool to hear Zach say what we were all thinking as the dog marked his new territory with a ceremonial pee. I hope the new place in El Paso is everything you want it to be. I remember Zach having some concerns, but it looks like you're having some fun there. Love to you both! Thanks for sharing your lives with us. ❤🧡💛💙💜🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈
Trying to find the balance in life is an ongoing challenge for all of us, I hope you two could attain this goal eventually, keep it up. Alastair, please know that we as your loyal viewers adore and love you to bits, if you ever feel too stressed out with certain things, let go of some of them, the earth will still revolve around, your physical and mental health is the most important thing. As much as I want to watch you on Coffee and Tequila，please only do it when you have time and feel good about doing it. You and Zach deserve the whole world and you two still have a lifetime together ahead of you, love you both.
What does "taking command" mean? How much longer in the military? Would an occasional LIVE where you just turn on the camera and answer questions and chat with your fans be easier? Take care of yourselves. Love you guys.
Alcohol and video games sounds like an amazing date night 🥰💖💖 (Also, you two are adorable 😊) It's so weird that it is already October 😱 Feels like March was only last week. Good luck with the rest of your move and getting situated in your new place. Wishing you both the best in your mental and physical health!! 💖💖💖💖
Omg also El Paso Update we are having the Winterfest Saturday November 19 and we also have a thanksgiving parade November 24. As a former El Paso I encourage you both to go 😊
Hope you are settling in. I have a home in Las Cruces. Ill be there this weekend fir my university homecoming. Hope you can experience your neighbor city. Id be glad to show you guys around.
Incidentally, I was born at William P. Beaumont Hospital, located at Fort Bliss, Texas. My grand-parents lived on North Piedras Street about half-way between the the military base and the shopping area known as Five-Points. El Paso, as I recall, was a beautiful city back in the 1950s.
Thank you guys! For share this part of your life with us and be this transparent that is something really hard to do. I’m getting a lot of motivation from you. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Hi guys! Quick question…. How do you balance/crate trust within each other? Especially with being apart many times. I have no doubt that your love is strong but the devil has his way. God bless you and Keep shining. 🏳️🌈💙 👬
Alastair, please don't worry about the weight. I'm in the same situation as you. It's much better to not have the anxiety. Besides, you look really good! 😉
This makes me happy! I’m leaving the Army because I have not found acceptance and don’t feel comfortable raising a same-sex family in the military. But that is just me. I’m so glad it’s not like that for everyone and that it’s getting better. You two deserve to be happy and the military is better having you serve
Well as you know I follow everything love both coffee and tequila but really hold a special place in my heart for your vlogs. Alastair you look amazing adding anxiety about weight won’t help. Life goes fast gentlemen find time for each other and build those memories it will mean a lot as you move through your lives. Now get dressed up and have a quiet dinner at the The Taft. Wishing you the best now as always. Moving is stressful. ❤️
Love you guys. Glad to see your vlog again. BTW I've watched all the bonus features and Alastair's reviews, but there's something really special about these vids. LIke I said, love you guys.
What a great conversation, guys. Balance is really important in your lives. Take all the time you need to make sure you're healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually as well as physically! ... And Brando as a pumpkin!
Congrats to Alistair on the Command. Don't let the stress get you. Zack your an awesome Army Husband... You both need to take time together when you get it and leave us out of it! This is essential for your health relationship and wellbeing. We will be here guys, promise. Love a house, don't think I could do an apt again. Enjoy El Paso! Be safe!
What a great date night boys! Zach that is cringe:)lol. Alastair I feel you, my meds make me gain weight too, but it’s better than alternative, you look great, don’t worry!
Nice to see you two are happy and moving forward. And you both look fit and buff.... If Alister gained weight he carries it well and is being proactive in maintaining himself....what more could one ask? And you both got real nice guns....woof. Lol Love from Canada
I can’t lose weight on my meds either. No matter what I do. Don’t be hard on yourself. Good to see you both back. Just lost our pet of 17 years today. It will take time to adjust..good luck with the new house
Utubing and vlogging in addition to moving and working--STRESSFUL! HOPE U CAN FIND YOUR BALANCE. Alistair, if you need meds to cope, take them. A lot of us have also been in that place. Good to see and hear you again.
Always enjoy checking in with you guys and seeing how you are doing. Life is definitely a journey, and there’s plenty of challenges along the way. Hope you guys can find the balance you are after and find ways to stay positive. Wishing you all the best in your new home. 👍
Congrats on the new House! Alistair, as a chubby dude here I have to say you are perfectly fine. You know you could moderate what you eat, but you don’t have to go overboard and like make drastic changes you could just eat in moderation.
These wonderful loving couple reminded me of my dearly departed with whom I shared 30 wonderful years. My leading-man and I, went we met, were laughing until we cried and those life became less carefree over those 3 decades, we still reached for humor to cope. These two men are masculine and desirable, such that I would settle for sniffing their well used bed sheets while still warm.
I just want to say that I love y'all both. Keeping y'all in my prayers. I live with depression and anxiety. It's a lot very ng hell at times. Im glad y'all lean on one another. Keep up being the awesome sauce y'all are.
Wow I really watching you two soo much, especially this vlog,listening to you guys communicate about so much to do, very little time, and respect for each other,and the love, it's truly awesome,and congratulations on your new home,also Zack I understood what you were saying about the vlogging,if it's a situation that needs to be put on the back burner for now because, there's to much out there, don't worry we your fans will be satisfied with the other material you and your husband have out there, much love to you guys🤗🤗❤💙💖🤣💯💯💙🐶😊
So nice to see you guys. You were missed but I am so glad you have taken some time for yourselves to get settled in. Hopefully El Paso will not be so bad and it is just another step in your life together. Please take care of each other. Stay healthy and your happiness together will be stronger.
As a Veteran, I am so proud of you guys! Serving as an out couple is a dream many of us worked hard to make a political reality. Y'all are living the dream that older gay military folks hoped would happen in our lifetimes. We are living vicariously through your journey. You guys are doing it and others will follow! Zach, you need to start an Officers Wives and HUSBANDS club!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hugs from a boomer
Gay Vet here too 1972-4 US Army
@@collinsje5 Good to see there is someone else here.
@@270poundJane thumbs up
I’m a US Army Veteran (1981-92) and a US Army Reserves Retiree (2003-14), which included a combat deployment to Iraq in 2004-5. All those years I was closeted and had to make relationships in my private life secondary to my military assignments d commitments. I so wished that I could have shared my personal life within my military freely and maybe I would have stayed on active duty instead of going inactive and reserves. I also had lost relationships because of my military service commitments.
Also a US Navy veteran here. 1983-2003
Your relationship is inspirational, a bond that inspires hope in those who have not yet found love in their lives. I am glad to see you two again, please keep posting. You give hope... thank you!
So well stated M S!
Not really.
Hello gentlemen… I ran across your channel by accident. I was looking at a film and when I finished one of your videos came up. I know you guys are both young, but you have no idea of what your relationship and the journey that It has taken has done for me. You are affecting more people than I believe you can possibly know. For example I am a 70 year old black man who has never found a partner so I’m living vicariously through you. You have brought me much joy and also exquisite tears. Good luck to you both and know that you are touching the heart of a universe.❤ All the best to you both…
This is beautifully written.
I've followed you from before you were dating each other, you both are an inspiration to us all.
That is how I feel too!
I'm sure there are many viewers out there who feel like same way
Such a beautiful thing to write Michael and I wish you much joy, a loving partner ❤
Zach, remember this. Your husband is working harder for you both! I'm sure it is not easy, but it will benefit you both. Much love from Michigan
Alistair, check that your medication isn't also causing you fatigue. I used to take a medicine for anxiety, which helped immensely, but it made me stupid tired ALL.THE TIME.
Started watching you guys from the very beginning,. Your love continues to inspire. Sending lots of love to you both!
Rely liked this vlog. Been with my guy over 20 years, married for 5. We're still discovering things about each other. Not always easy -- communication -- Love him more now more than ever. You inspire me, thanks.
Zack ❣️ Alastair, I love seeing you guys. The impact you have on me has been so inspiring! I'm 55yrs and I can tell you back in the 80's, me loving another Man was the worst thing. Being a gay man in my family was terrifying. So I ran away from the world not knowing where I fit in...
I never dated again after I turned 22yrs old. I wasn't attracted to women, although I tried because it was expected. I made excuses over the years from not finding the right person to health conditions, for reasons I am alone for now 33yrs. Even now I'm still terrified of people finding out after seeing today how much society wants to go backwards. I am so glad, Zack/Alastair, you have the courage to push forward. Thank you for showing all of us that this beautiful kind of LOVE is possible!!!💞
You both need your time away from the camera, but I am always happy to see your videos. Til next time, love you both 🫂🙏❤️❤️🍻😎
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I have suffered from anxiety most of my life and have been on every antidepressant offered. Everyone of them made me gain a lot of weight. I watched my diet, worked out and still gained weight. I just thought my comment may help. As always, I wish you both the best!
It wasn’t until this popped up I realised just how much I miss your vlogs, I loved this lads and it was lovely to see Brando again, seeing him claim his garden in all senses was funny and cute 😁.
Zach's story about Robert Pattinson is the hilarious and weird stuff we all did as gay adolescents.
Hilarious, yes! But speak for yourselves, haha!
Wasn't gay tho, more like creepy.
Are you seeking help for your mental illness?
Glad you guys are finally moving into a house 🏡, it will give you both space to chill out. Glad to hear Alastair is managing his anxiety and I hope you are taking care of yourself, Zach 😀, Take care 👍
Good to hear Alastair feels better about the anxiety also the *slightly* rounder face looks better in my opinion. Good to see you guys 💕
Personally, outside appearance will change as you age anyway, so a better inner experience is well worth the weight! Besides, Alistair is cute as he is :)
@@rickhernandez7666 so true.
@@rickhernandez7666 You must be into chubs….
@@patriciabeuster4556 Move along, Patricia.
I think Alistair is hotter than ever!
PLEASE, No matter what, make quality time for each other. I hind sight, wish I would a done that. Yep, the big D,. There’s nothing more important than ur time with each other. Nothing!! 👊
My partner and I do movie date night! We must be doing something right because our 25th anniversary is coming up in just a few months. I’m so glad you guys posted a new video! Thanks for sharing.
Huge congrats on your upcoming anniversary! Thirty years here and still crazy in love, I love to see other couples in it for the long haul. Cheers!
Congratulations on being out of the apartment and into the house! Moving may be stressful, but it sounds like being in the new place is going to be very positive for both of you. And I’m looking forward to seeing the finished version of the new Coffee & Tequila set!
I absolutely love u two together. I can feel the love! I literally cry every time I watch because what you have is real. SO happy for u both!
Why is there never any positive side effects from medicine like your hair will grow, you’ll lose weight, your skin will be clear and beautiful 😊
Some medications can result in weight loss actually.
Rogain grows hair, amphetamines help you lose weight, and skin supplements and hair supplements will help that too! 😂 (Ducking)
I think the positive are usually the intended effect, as opposed to the sides
Life is hard we all know that. But you know you both meant for eachother. You both look good together. Don't ever leave eachother side .
So good to see you guys getting out and having fun. A great way to boost your relationship. Stay healthy and keep having fun. Love you guys.
Medications that deal with anxiety tend to make you gain weight, but it's the behavioural changes that makes you gain weight and not the medication in of itself. That is well known. You really have to be super vigilant with what you eat and also your level of fitness. A great way is to write down everything you eat each day in a journal and get familiar with a calorie counter. You'd be surprised how much you eat when you don't write it down and know when you are overeating.
Take care of yourselves guys. Sounds like life is very stressful right now. So good you make time for each other. So important. Best to you always. ❤️🌈
Your posts are SO inspirational. Thank you for what your do! ❤ I often wonder if you fully appreciate the uplifting impact you have upon your audience. I suspect you cannot. So, I'd encourage you both to carry on doing what you are. We relate, and we appreciate it!
Very that. They are both so inspirational and impactful to us viewers.
I love you guys!! So happy to see you're doing well! ♥️♥️
It just hit me today watching this video that I have been watching you guys for the past 6 years. Much love your way ❤️
My husband and I wish you the best of luck and many happy days in El Pasos. A big hug from Brazil!
Eu e meu esposo desejamos para vocês muita sorte e muitos dias felizes em El pasos. Um forte abraço do Brasil!
Balance is very important. There will always be work to do, so you have to set your limits and respect them. Your young years are passing by very fast so you have to ensure you make the best of it. Working all the time, being stressed all the time to the point you need to take pills to control your anxiety, not sure it’s necessarily good for you. When you are young, you think life is forever, but what’s the point of living a life where you’re never with the person you love the most and not making the best of your life? You really need to find balance. I am sure that if you look at your work, there are things you could delegate more to free you some time. I’ve been in management for over 32 years. I could have worked 7 days a week, 10 hours a day and would still find work to do. I haven’t listened to your other show, but I was pleased to see Al so expressive and affectionate to Zack. Take care guys. Take the word of a 62 years old man…life goes on very quickly. You have to set up your priorities in life and determine if your job helps you meet your goals. I married a flight attendant, so I know what it is to be away from my husband a lot, but unlike Zack I can fly with him at times on his layovers. It’s a way to spend time together. I have seen so many people during my career not being able to set their limits and work all the time and realize that they turned 40 years old and didn’t see their young adult life go by. These years don’t come back so it’s now or never. I guess Al will have to answer the question, is it all worth it? Will I need more and more pills as I get more and more responsibilities? Is this really what I want? Is being stressed all the time what makes me happy? Many questions that deserve an honest answer before it’s too late. Being in El Paso, I hope you are going to vote for Beto!
Pain in the military is very hard and very. Being a military spouse is very anxiety not knowing the unknown. I'm very happy for both of you that you have found each other as such a young age and that you've learned to grow together and merge together each other's lives..
Zach, I can't believe you're talking about your date night with your husband, Alastair on your vlog of this video in Texas after you went out with him to play some video games and everything, so I'm proud of you, I know you had the Southern accent!! #ritualpartner
@Jà2Jo, your AI bot responses are ridiculous. Go away.
Hope you guys are well. Miss you on here. Hope you upload something soon.
I wish for the same! Hope they are okay.
Good to hear from you guys again, missed you both! Happy you are moving into a house too! Alastair maybe ask about zoloft ? Seems all medications have some sort of side effects it truly is trial and error, but you will find one that you can live with. Trust me, been there done that. I'm glad to hear that you are open to them. Take care of yourselves, you're like family after all these years watching your vlogs! Love you both!💙❤💙❤
Zach & Alastair, best wishes in your new home. As someone who has moved several times to & fro (South Carolina, Florida, South Carolina, Alabama, Florida, and South Carolina), I know how stressful moving can be. But, I also know how rewarding it is to make a place your own. Enjoy.
Glad you guys are doing well and keeping your flame and love alive!
Continue nurturing yourselves individually as well as each other.✌️
Before there was medicine with side effects people used natural things like raw milk, plants, herbs and organic essential oils with no side effects. Some organic lavender oil when you apply it to your skin and diffuse it, will make all anxiety and even depression go away with time. It even heals ptsd and helps you sleep like a baby at night.
Love you guys sm, I just discovered your channel a few days ago and I love every single video blog you have.
Such an amazing couple 💙
Moving is on the list of the biggest stress's. Been there several times. Thanks for coming back to being on youtube. Thanks for sharing
Yes, you can talk to your doctor and change meds. You do not have to settle for weight gain. Itsmostly about the meds. Self-care is essential. I love your posts. Please review Heartstopper together. I want to hear your thoughts. Alastair, when will you get your next promotion?
I am glad that you are getting it under control I just love watching you guys.
Absolutely nothing wrong with taking a break from vlogging! We will be here waiting for you :) We love to see your content. Always great to see a video from you guys
Welcome to ELP!! I miss my home. Those rock wall fences, oh the memories!
You two are such a great couple!
Work assignments ebb and flow over the course of one's career. How fortunate are those that have partners who love and support through the tough times. I watch these videos not just to see what I've missed, but to celebrate Alastair and Zach for making an example of what could have been and what should have been for those of us with too much societal resistance.
Glad to see a vlog again, bc we don't routinely watch Tequila+Coffee and just prefer vlogs about life over podcasts about entertainment, so pls keep them coming here and there! Glad that Alistair has his anxiety under control too, that's no joke. He works so hard. Take care guys
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Humor
Real Life topics
Graphics
Fonts
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Yes! All of the hot button issues... men lounging around on the apartment balcony.😛😛
Thanks for putting therapy and medication in a positive light.
after more than 7 years, they still the same, how much love they show toward the other melt my heart
Glad you two are doing well. Please stay safe always..
In my experience with anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medications, I have found that they do help in dulling negative emotions, but I also didn't feel positive emotions the same. I am not on meds anymore for that reason. I still do feel anxious, but it helps to find other strategies (journaling, listening to music, making art, etc.) to alleviate my anxiety.
Allister, as a therapist and 25 year husband of an overweight man who takes meds for anxiety and depression, I get your struggle. My husband has tried negotiating his meds with his provider. He has tried working out. He has tried going to a nutritionist. None of his actions have worked. We have concluded that his mental health is more important than his weight gain. I don't like living with a chub, but there is more to this marriage than his physical body. I suggest that you continue to talk with you shrink about your struggle to balance your physicality and with your sense of self. Thank goodness you married a man who allows you to be who you are--go Zac!!
That was a great vlog. You guys are so open and honest about what is happening in your lives. It's great to hear that Alastair's anxiety is better under control. I think it is perfectly acceptable to ask the Dr about the medicine regimen. Like all medications they should be reviewed once and a while to make sure you're not having adverse reactions or issues. So cool to hear Zach say what we were all thinking as the dog marked his new territory with a ceremonial pee. I hope the new place in El Paso is everything you want it to be. I remember Zach having some concerns, but it looks like you're having some fun there. Love to you both! Thanks for sharing your lives with us. ❤🧡💛💙💜🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈
Trying to find the balance in life is an ongoing challenge for all of us, I hope you two could attain this goal eventually, keep it up. Alastair, please know that we as your loyal viewers adore and love you to bits, if you ever feel too stressed out with certain things, let go of some of them, the earth will still revolve around, your physical and mental health is the most important thing. As much as I want to watch you on Coffee and Tequila，please only do it when you have time and feel good about doing it. You and Zach deserve the whole world and you two still have a lifetime together ahead of you, love you both.
I see the other posts of men who have hidden their sexuality for years,I'm a 57 year old man who also lives vicariously through you Zach and Allistair
Alastair: I didn't want kids around me.
Me: I'll drink to that!
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I just love the quality of your filming and your film editing. It works so well and welcomes us in.
David merry christmas :D
What does "taking command" mean? How much longer in the military? Would an occasional LIVE where you just turn on the camera and answer questions and chat with your fans be easier? Take care of yourselves. Love you guys.
He has been given a company grade command. In the infantry for instance that would be 4 platoons of troops.
Something in me knew there'd be an upload this week, I miss my boys 😭
My young men. So good to see you both in a vlog, keep well,,
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I love his accent so adorable they are so adorable and glad to see them happy and healthy together just found their channel and am a new follower ❤️
Good evening guys this is bruce the vet , i need to THANK you both for all the updates and video's
Alcohol and video games sounds like an amazing date night 🥰💖💖 (Also, you two are adorable 😊)
It's so weird that it is already October 😱 Feels like March was only last week.
Good luck with the rest of your move and getting situated in your new place. Wishing you both the best in your mental and physical health!! 💖💖💖💖
Omg also El Paso Update we are having the Winterfest Saturday November 19 and we also have a thanksgiving parade November 24. As a former El Paso I encourage you both to go 😊
I hope life gets easier for the both of you. Glad y'all took the time to have date night! 💞
Hope you are settling in. I have a home in Las Cruces. Ill be there this weekend fir my university homecoming. Hope you can experience your neighbor city. Id be glad to show you guys around.
Good luck on life Zack and Alastair.
Incidentally, I was born at William P. Beaumont Hospital, located at Fort Bliss, Texas. My grand-parents lived on North Piedras Street about half-way between the the military base and the shopping area known as Five-Points. El Paso, as I recall, was a beautiful city back in the 1950s.
Thank you guys! For share this part of your life with us and be this transparent that is something really hard to do. I’m getting a lot of motivation from you. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Congrats on the move guys! Great vid. Always great to see you men living life, laughing and loving. Be Well, Keep Strong!
Hi guys! Quick question…. How do you balance/crate trust within each other? Especially with being apart many times. I have no doubt that your love is strong but the devil has his way. God bless you and Keep shining. 🏳️🌈💙 👬
Alastair, please don't worry about the weight. I'm in the same situation as you. It's much better to not have the anxiety. Besides, you look really good! 😉
Wishing you two all the best! You’ll get your “Owens” house in due time!
This makes me happy! I’m leaving the Army because I have not found acceptance and don’t feel comfortable raising a same-sex family in the military. But that is just me. I’m so glad it’s not like that for everyone and that it’s getting better. You two deserve to be happy and the military is better having you serve
Well as you know I follow everything love both coffee and tequila but really hold a special place in my heart for your vlogs. Alastair you look amazing adding anxiety about weight won’t help. Life goes fast gentlemen find time for each other and build those memories it will mean a lot as you move through your lives. Now get dressed up and have a quiet dinner at the The Taft. Wishing you the best now as always. Moving is stressful. ❤️
Happy New Year guys! I hope everyone is doing great, and continue doing so forever and ever.
My physician told me i had anxiety due to low vitamin D levels. Have your Dr. Check your blood levels.
Love you guys. Glad to see your vlog again. BTW I've watched all the bonus features and Alastair's reviews, but there's something really special about these vids. LIke I said, love you guys.
What a great conversation, guys. Balance is really important in your lives. Take all the time you need to make sure you're healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually as well as physically! ... And Brando as a pumpkin!
Congrats to Alistair on the Command. Don't let the stress get you. Zack your an awesome Army Husband... You both need to take time together when you get it and leave us out of it! This is essential for your health relationship and wellbeing. We will be here guys, promise. Love a house, don't think I could do an apt again. Enjoy El Paso! Be safe!
Thanks! Agreed. I’m a house guy. We have too much ish for an apartment
Welcome back! Missed your vlogs 🙂
Your relationship is beautiful
What a great date night boys! Zach that is cringe:)lol. Alastair I feel you, my meds make me gain weight too, but it’s better than alternative, you look great, don’t worry!
You guy need to do that more often and have lots of fun. You only live once. Be crazy together.
The fact that you laugh together so much is great🎉
Nice to see you two are happy and moving forward.
And you both look fit and buff.... If Alister gained weight he carries it well and is being proactive in maintaining himself....what more could one ask?
And you both got real nice guns....woof.
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Love from Canada
omg so happy to see you guys!
I can’t lose weight on my meds either. No matter what I do. Don’t be hard on yourself. Good to see you both back. Just lost our pet of 17 years today. It will take time to adjust..good luck with the new house
Utubing and vlogging in addition to moving and working--STRESSFUL! HOPE U CAN FIND YOUR BALANCE. Alistair, if you need meds to cope, take them. A lot of us have also been in that place. Good to see and hear you again.
Always enjoy checking in with you guys and seeing how you are doing. Life is definitely a journey, and there’s plenty of challenges along the way. Hope you guys can find the balance you are after and find ways to stay positive. Wishing you all the best in your new home. 👍
I love that you areboth worried about each other’s streee andwork load. Stay in touch with each other.
Congrats on the new House! Alistair, as a chubby dude here I have to say you are perfectly fine. You know you could moderate what you eat, but you don’t have to go overboard and like make drastic changes you could just eat in moderation.
These wonderful loving couple reminded me of my dearly departed with whom I shared 30 wonderful years. My leading-man and I, went we met, were laughing until we cried and those life became less carefree over those 3 decades, we still reached for humor to cope. These two men are masculine and desirable, such that I would settle for sniffing their well used bed sheets while still warm.
I had my Basic & AIT at Ft Bliss but back in 1985! I then went to Schofield Barracks, HI! Love all your vids, U2 are great!
Take care of yourself while your still young, you'll be glad you did when you get older
What can I say. I so love you guys cause I love the love you create.
I just want to say that I love y'all both. Keeping y'all in my prayers. I live with depression and anxiety. It's a lot very ng hell at times. Im glad y'all lean on one another. Keep up being the awesome sauce y'all are.
Good to Alastair looking healthier and it’s so good to see you 2 having fun!
May Creator Bless, Guide and Protect you both!
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This is/was beautiful! Thank you both for sharing your life and love with us! :)
Favourite Couple.... you always make me feel good and happy... 💘
Even for a guy your age I highly recommend Centrum Silver it's just better for you! Have you ever tried umzu vitamins? I take Redwood,
Wow I really watching you two soo much, especially this vlog,listening to you guys communicate about so much to do, very little time, and respect for each other,and the love, it's truly awesome,and congratulations on your new home,also Zack I understood what you were saying about the vlogging,if it's a situation that needs to be put on the back burner for now because, there's to much out there, don't worry we your fans will be satisfied with the other material you and your husband have out there, much love to you guys🤗🤗❤💙💖🤣💯💯💙🐶😊
Alistair is an angel sent by God for Zach. He got this angelic touch. May your love for each other endures forever. 🌈👨❤️👨💗
You guys just popped up in my suggested vids. You guys are so endearing. I need to watch from the beginning ❤️
I love you guys so much. Thanks for always being so amazing!
So nice to see you guys. You were missed but I am so glad you have taken some time for yourselves to get settled in. Hopefully El Paso will not be so bad and it is just another step in your life together. Please take care of each other. Stay healthy and your happiness together will be stronger.