EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW: What's it REALLY Like to Date an Italian Man?
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- Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
- Are you ready to dive into the alluring world of dating Italian men? 🇮🇹💕 In this juicy episode of Pink Pill, we unravel the enigma of Italian Stallions and what Black women need to know before jumping into this passionate cultural pool. From heart-thumping masculinity to their devotion to family and food, Italian men have us all bewitched!
But it's not just about the romance; we get REAL about the potential challenges of interracial and mixed dating. And ladies, stick around because I've got a special treat-an exclusive interview with a 100% Italian man sharing his thoughts on dating Black women! 😍
Whether you're curious about the dating scene or tackling serious relationship woes, this video is your golden ticket. Enroll in the Pink Pill and let's navigate the intricate dance of love and culture together. And who knows, maybe you'll find your very own Giovanni or Franco! 🌹
Check out this video for an eye-opening look at the secrets, the controversies, and the undeniable charm that comes with dating Italian men. Don't forget, like, share, and subscribe for more sizzling content that speaks directly to your femininity and power as a Black woman. Ready to fall in love the Italian way? Press play now! 🎥❤️ #PinkPill #BlackWomen #ItalianMen #DatingTips #InterracialDating
CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Introduction to Dating Italian Men
0:37 - Decoding Italian Male Stereotypes
2:47 - Exploring Giovanni Rossi's Dating Style
6:31 - Italian-American Dating Culture Insights
8:08 - Frank Onofri's Authentic Italian Dating Perspective
17:18 - North vs. South Italian Dating Dynamics
20:12 - First Meeting with an Italian Family: What to Expect
23:52 - Infidelity in Italian Relationships
31:40 - Addressing Racism in Interracial Dating
34:14 - Strategy vs. Fate in Italian Interracial Dating
38:08 - Interracial Dating Acceptance in Italian Culture
41:09 - Dealing with Relationship Issues with Italian Partners
43:46 - Italian-Black Interracial Dating Challenges
46:56 - Analyzing Italian Dating Archetypes - Розваги
Ladies please never forget that when you're dating someone it's your responsibility to study their culture, LOOK AT THEIR FAMILY DYNAMICS, look at how his family treats him, this will determine how they will treat you, does he have a healthy detachment and boundaries with his family? Is his mother overbearing? His father? Siblings? NEVER FORGET THAT YOU ARE ALSO INTERVIEWING THEM!! ARE THEY GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU? DO YOU FEEL SAFE AROUND THEM? DO THEY GOSSIP ABOUT OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS? ARE YOU MARRYING INTO A TOXIC FAMILY? me and mines come together and created our own traditions (he is Jewish) and we decide how we want extended families to be involved in our lives, not the other way around. Nobody is forced to do nothing they don't want to do and we free to live our lives from stress of extended family obligations. It's about knowing yourselves as a couple and you two becoming family. Never be desperate for any man to point where you will overlook the red flags of his family or his behavior. You have to protect each other from your extended families. ❤✌🏾
So TRUE THANKS 🎉
EXCELLENT POINTS! I think that many divorces result from marriages where this didn't happen.
“Hear, hear”
Well said
It is also THEIR JOB to study your culture as well. So that they are aware how to protect you.
I dated outside my race for the first time last year. The guy was half Italian. Several dates in we made dinner at my place together in which he brought some homemade bread to go with my Cajun pasta dish. The bread was delicious! My favorite part about Mathew was his emotional availability and his intellectual ability. This is something I’ve never quite experienced within my own race. I honestly went in with Matt not expecting very much at all as I was not all that interested in the beginning not knowing that I’d later fall for him completely. Unfortunately we weren’t a good fit for eachother but the experience left me more open minded now than I was before! Cheers!
I had a similar experience with a full blooded Italian man. I was not interested in him at the beginning but I started to fall for him. After I expressed that i was falling for him and asked him where the relationship was headed, he told me that he was not sure what he wanted so I just moved on but we are still friends
@jasmineestafia. So you basically got pumped and dumped by someone outside your race. Shocking
Yes ,we limite yourself to black men ONLY ,black men have BE dating outside Forever,but they dont want you to do it .
@@shelly8965luvwow sounds very similar.. keep going sis! I pray you come across the right one ❤😊
@@mariaseidi4023 We don't have a problem with you doing it. We just don't like wet hot girls like Halle Berry date out cause we want those ones lol.
I dated an Italian man a few years ago and it was an interesting experience. He was great at cooking, career oriented, and had friends and hobbies outside of dating. He just came to the US so his family wasn’t around but his parent called him every morning, yes he did answer those calls.
He wasn’t perfect, but neither was I so it didn’t work. He wad the first man in my life to ever raise my standards when it comes to men.
Men from Spain are also Nice .
So he just had sex with you and left. Figures
@@mariaseidi4023 Why aren't they marrying you then?
@@lastdragonx Black men have been dating out as they please ,passport brothers and others ,why cant black women date out too ,we live in a global world ,people travel meet diferent people ,if it work out or not only God knows ,black men dont Marry either,and live many single mums everywhere,free your mind the rest Will follow...
@@mariaseidi4023 Black women can do whatever they want but the evidence is clear. White and Non black men are not marrying you all. They are pumping and dumping you.
My fiancé is Italian. I think most Italian men are passionate, generous, and very sexy
Really i live in Germany ,im african 😂 love men from Spain,they are so sweet and sexy i have automatic atraction to then , i like this type dark hair ,olive skin ,brow eyes😂.And the accent first time i went to Spain i was schock how handsome the men are😂...
@@mariaseidi4023 That's how it was when I went to Italy. It was eye candy all day. Never saw so many super handsome, well dressed men who were hetero!
@@Christelyn1 😁😁😁Spanish men are very attentive,loving ,family oriented and guive you complements all the time ( i dont say they are perfect angels )... Sisters get your passort,sametimes you need to Change of scenery ,enougth of strugle love ...Greetings from Germany
@@Christelyn1 Italian men dress so well!!!
yes@@selfishgirlsgofirst
Hi Chris , I‘m married to an Italian from Tuscany, as your guest said they are all about family.I met his family 3 weeks after we met. Started learning the language immensely thereafter .If you want to bond easily with the family you should get aquianted with their culture,their way of life and their language. Speaking their language is a plus, then the older women of the family will see you in a different light, then communication is of atmost importance, the women of the family want you to communicated with them directly and not thru your partner.It‘s 17 years since I’ve met my husband and it‘s great, my Italian family were here in Germany where my husband , our son( from my first marriage) and I resides for Christmas , believe me we had a ball😊 During their stay we all spoke mostly Italian and of course went to church services, then this is very important to them.. Fact is if you meet an Italian and he falls in loves with you, he will set the tone of how he wishes for you to be treated, his family will recognize how important you are to him, the way he treats you will reflects how he sees you .Chris is right there are some great similarities between Italians and BP . Italy is not perfect, there is racism there, but personally I’ve not experienced it, we have a place in Tuscany and Sardinien , and I’m friends in Italy very often during Sommer and it’s been great.My son is biracial and has travel Italy without problems, ladies donot allow other people’s experience weight you down. Racism is everywhere , but you cannot allow it to dictate your life. Go out and date, use the dating apps they are wonderful and enjoy life at it’s fullest.
Grazie mille 🙏🏽.
Great advice! Thanks for sharing your experiences ❤️
Jewish or German men next please! I’ve dated both and have had excellent luck, my man is Jewish and obsessed with me ❤
Same!! So wonderful to be their number #1! To be adored and even worshipped lol 🥰❤️
@@melaninchocolate6552it only works in small percentages. Y’all are wasting black womens time lol Europeans are race loyal. They want kids that look like them.
Sidenote: My niece wants to travel to China to try all their foods. She never expressed such a desire until I came to live with her, her sisters, and her mom (I'd been teaching the girls different languages and cultures). She said she is hesitant to go to China because her mom said "Chinese people hate black people." I told her: "Where isn't there racism, colorism, sexism, etc? It's everywhere! The second you let other people deter you from what you want is the second you lose a piece of yourself. Don't be your own bully. You're so much better than that and you deserve fulfillment in your experiences." We live in a northern state that is so bland it's not even funny. Living here will have you thinking black people belong at the bottom and they should be happy about it. I have to retrain her/their way of thinking.
I had an AMAZING time in China. We did a tour as it wasn’t the easiest to navigate especially getting the best food. A small group Intrepid tour was amazing
It’s black women that are traditional. Not black men.
Only thing “traditional” about bw is ya’ll traitorous nature!!
That’s a generalization. I’ve been married to my black wife for 31 years. Here in Columbus there are a lot of Black men that have been married to Black women for decades.
@@user-ut1en2lt8l This is a black male hate channel. Don't expect any rational people here.
A Bronx Tale is my favorite movie 😍😅
But seriously though, I really enjoyed this interview. I love hearing mens opinions when they're delivered respectfully and in kindness
Literally ❤🤭
Hi Chris! Great interview. I have dated a few Italian men and I was absolutely smitten with them. Great guys. The ones that I have dated had been married or dated other black women. What I love about them is how family oriented they are and they are always eager to please their woman. The men that I dated also was would invite me to their home and make dinner for me which I absolutely loved!
im italian frim new york and i only date black women. that is my prefernce cause i think we have a chemistry between us like no other ,and of course they have a very nice look
Phenomenal idea 💡 for your “Archetype” series CK! You should interview Various nationalities of men who usually ‘gel’ well with BW just like this guy! It’s also great that you chose an Italian-American 🇮🇹 🇺🇸 as he provided fantastic insight on both the US & Italy. Next up Please: Jewish Men ✡️ , British Men 🇬🇧 & Their dynamic with AA 🇺🇸 Women (they’re my f-ing Jam! They love me 😎), Persian Men 🇮🇷 (esp in California), French Men 🇫🇷, Armenian 🇦🇲 Men, French-Canadian 🇨🇦,Greek 🇬🇷, etc. In addition to Italian men. Living in LA 🌴- Men from those origins are ALWAYS hitting me up & talking me out on dates! Wayy more than “POC” 🙄 such as Asian/Latino/Blk men who have an ingrained “aspirational white or light” mentality! I wouldn’t bother with them.
Also for future reference-Please do Scandinavian Men 🇩🇰 🇸🇪 🇳🇴 & their specific perception of AA Women 🇺🇸 in particular!
Yes, I believe we are good on men who have personally manifested toxic cultural beliefs, such as "whitening of the race," ethnic cast systems, deeply entrenched colorist ideology, toxic/hyper-masculenity... no need to deep-dive on those men. We are well-acquainted, unfortunately.
@@myso-calledfastinglife9561💯✨…Amen. I’ll go where I’m wanted & treated well. And completely ignore/divest from groups who go out of their way (both overly & covertly) to show that they presume me to be inferior. Especially when I can date/be courted by the VERY same man atop of their delusional hierarchies…that they’re vying to be! 🤣 Lol, no thank you. 😎
@@kida758ABSOLUTELY 💯
Just remember ladies, you will STILL have to individually vet all the men regardless of the stereotypes/archetypes/reputation of each ethnicity. This series is an exercise in 'broad strokes' that attempts to take a deeper dive than the superficial content about black women dating other races conversation to date. I'm going to point out the positives and potential negatives with all the archetypes in hopes to gives a more wholistic view.
Thank you for bringing Frank on, Christelyn! I appreciate you both taking the time to enlighten us on different cultures. This was very informative (…and it doesn’t hurt that he is handsome with a nice voice😉)
Can you believe he's 61?! He looks amazing.
@@Christelyn1 whattt?! No way! I’m 30 and I would definitely date him. He seems very youthful in looks and spirit.
@@dearestdarling9467 He's truly a very nice man. Great friend.
@@Christelyn1 you two seem to have great chemistry so as a friend or something more, I approve! lol ❤
Thank you for this interview with an Italian man. He did share some interesting points about their culture. I am open to other cultures of men. I’m not experienced in preparing Italian dishes but open to learn.
That's what UA-cam is for. Tons of italian recipes on here.
@@BelAge I find learning new Italian cuisine to be fun to experiment with. Every year I grow my garden vegetables for the ultimate pasta sauce: sweet and hot peppers, Roma tomatoes, onions, garlic, basil, rosemary, thyme, parsley etc. Super fun and rewarding.
This was a beautiful idea and I absolutely LOVE what you're doing as a whole. However, may I add a suggestion? It was a bit too much focus on racism and colorism. He seemed a little uncomfortable. As Blk women who date and marry whte men, we should concentrate more on our similarities and what turns us on, rather than our differences. ❤❤❤
I feel the same way. I find it embarrassing when bw date non black men and immediately spew their insecurities on them. This obsession with the topic of racism and colorism especially when dating non bm needs to be retired. I’m a dsbw but I’ve NEVER brought up colorism with my bf and our relationship is just fine lmao
Thank you so much for this video! It was quite insightful. One of my childhood friends is Italian and I absolutely adore the tribal nature of his family. Whenever I see his mother, she is still so kind to me. This video reminded me that the Italian culture and family dynamics are in alignment with my values and could be a healthy relationship option. ❤🙏🏽 Thank you, CK!
This was a great conversation, C.K! A big thank you to your guest for participating in this conversation as well. Btw, you two make a nice-looking pair.😊
Maybe the Italian men in America. Italians are lovely, romantic etc however those ones in Italy can be extremely racist especially their family members. Do not rush into relationship without studying the man well.
Really? I was just telling about my experience. It's been the reverse. The Italian American guys were hesitant and shady with me, but not the Italian guys from Italy. Huh? This is really interesting.
@@lovelylana7614 Obviously I am not talking in absolute but majority are.
@@lovelylana7614My experience as well. The American ones, most of them want to be white, so they tend to marry light/white.
Yeh, Italians are attracted to black women but they are quite racist. It's so weird hearing men born in america call themselves 'italian'. They're not. They're Italian-American.
Love this topic! Thank you
My fiancé was Italian before he passed in 2015 ever since then I can’t find a decent man to give my life to…. Food in Germany 🇩🇪 is horrible too.
I live in germany Stuttgart ,where do you live ?
I love men from Spain,
Aren't you married to a Nigerian? Lol
My condolences to you, hun. ❤
🙏🙏🙏
Christelyn, thank you agian and agian for this feature. I have followed you since your Beyond Black and White blog. Your sincere love for black girls and women is a blessing and much appreciated.
I have been married to a 3rd generation Italian American man for twenty years. Italian men are passionate, extremely expressive, traditional and mens men. And yes, ladies they are excellent providers and protectors.
They also take their passion to the bedroom and he will want to please you,......and he definitely WILL please you., agian, agian, and agian.😉
I personally believe Italian men are the sexist race of men.
Italy is known for their cuisine, art, Roman culture like tbe leaning tower of Pizazza, Venice, wine country, expensive sports cars, and the Pope and Vatican city.
Like all race, they also have distinct similarities. They love family and are devout Catholics.
Before we were married I converted into the Catholic religion. Our son went to Catholic school since kindergarten. As a family we attend Mass on Sunday.
I love being Catholic and was married in a huge historical and beautiful Cathedral church.
Some races of men are intimidated by black men. Italian men have just as much swag and are NOT concerned about black men,.....at all!
My husband is fair skinned with sky blue eyes and curly blond thick hair. Yet his strong Italian last name and expressive mannerism screams Italian. My husbands mothers family is from Northern Italy, Milan. His father is half Sicilian and Irish.
His mothers northern Italy family had issues with her dating a Scilian man for several years.
My son looks like my husband with fair skin, light eyes and dark curly hair.
My husband said growing up his parents found racism towards black Americans unexceptable. When we first started dating my mother in law was totally against
It took my husband fr to put his foot down andalso the birth of our son. We ended up being very close and they adore our son. Family is very important with Italian culture.
Also ladies my husband is the cook and he is great one. Yet, my husband is still a alpha man that protects and financially provides.
White men are not all alike. German, Irish, French, and Italian cultures are different.
Thanks for sharing your experience. You said your in-laws find racism towards black people unacceptable, but your MIL was against you dating? Sounds like she had a double standard. Hopefully she didn't cause you grief! 🙏🏾
@@inmybed08 I appreciate your comment. Yes, his mother definitely did. She is like many white people. They have no issue until their child wants a relationship with a black person. 🤷
I definitely felt some type of way about her adding unnecessary drama onto our relationship. My husband always put me first but it hurt him because he loved his mother.
When she came around we had a wonderful relationship.
I had always thought how 🤔 can she be a bad person when she raised such a wonderful son. My mother in law was a lovely lady, extremely sweet. She has passed but my son loved his Nana and she adored him.
I was closely involved with an older Italian man who waited over 10 years before taking me home to meet his mother😂.. I wasn't offended, it was for my own good. I finally met her when she was very old, in her 80s, and she was very sweet towards me. She and I got along great, and kept in touch after he died in 2018, and up until she died in 2021. HOWEVER.. he told me that his mother was extremely bigoted in her younger days. He said he tried bringing home a black woman in the 1970s, and it went horribly.❤
@@caressaclark1042 Ten years he kept you away from his mother. When you finally met her, she was kind to you. You both developed a relationship.
How sad that she denied her son ten years of peace because of her own stubbornness. She wanted to punish him because he did not choose the woman she wanted. She expected her son to want a woman like her.
I am sorry to hear they are both gone but glad she opened up.
I have a beautiful son who is in college. I have no idea what type of girl he will bring home. Right now they are all " friends."
I have never suggested a type. I just want him to be happy. And I want her to be a nice girl who loves my son ( wink 😉). I know, I sound like a old school momma but I really feel that way.
Hello Chris! I know of a few that sure did welcome African American etc.
My sister was once engaged to J. Farina. The actor D. Farina's nephew. D.F RIP. My sister and J.F lived together. I was blessed to meet D. Farina's Sister Bernadette RIP sweet one. His sister was so kind. Very welcoming family. I have a cousin who's married to an Italian and they share a child. They are still married.
This was outstanding. Frank’s insights were great. I’m from an immigrant family, large 22 first cousins, English not the first language. But, being Black, there was no such culture of women staying home raising kids. The woman, even to this day, works 40 hours a week out of the home, cooks amazing meals (no leftovers rarely takeout) , are primary caregivers of children. Life expectancy is shorter for women in my family because of it. When Frank described the “soft landing” after work with good smells in the house etc, how lovely is that? Btw, we are Catholic, too, and the expectations are real for marriage within the church, baptism, etc. it could even be that a family like Frank’s might be even more accepting of a Black woman if she’s Catholic. Also, respect his mother!! Praise cooking and learn because she’s not trying to give her son to a take-out lady. :-)
Wow! What an interview😊
I watch a lot of Black Female Solo Travel Vlogs and Italy is a popular destination for black ladies. Sicily is is also popular for traveling black ladies. I had no idea how many black ladies are married to Italian men in Italy. The gentleman you interviewed was so nice, and his masculinity was so polarized. Please bring more handsome masculine non black men on your show. 2024 is going to be a great year for black ladies when it comes to traveling overseas and finding love. The world is open to us and the world is ours for the taking.
DATE OUT!
MARRY UP!
EMBRACE TH GOOD LIFE!
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I love men fromSpain
If there are any Italian men/boys watching visiting this site and are interested in African/American women and feel a love for them in your heart: GO FOR IT!!! Don't make the same mistake I made so many years ago trying to please my family's expectations of who I should marry and be with to make them happy. I tell my two sons always to go for who they love deep in their heart and it does not matter what their racial makeup is as long as they love you truly. Remember, people that talk behind your back are talking to your ass.
Not only are African/American beautiful, they are the most resourceful and courageous women on the planet.
I'd guess it depends on if you're from northern or southern Italy. The northerners frowned upon the southerners because they mixed with their slaves back in the day. Hence why the southern Italians are darker skinned. With that said Id guess the southern Italians would be way more accepting
They are also darker because they are in a warmer climate that’s literally closer to North Africa/Middle East (lol)
@@elegantempress1395yes but he’s also right Siciliana are part black somewhere in they’re family tree and it’s not only bc of slavery. The moors had a hand in it as well. I personally think the Sicilians are better looking but maybe I’m biased 😆
@@soulspirationgoddess Yes Frank did his DNA and his lineage has African ancestry, and his father is Sicilian.
@@elegantempress1395 if that were the case everyone in PA (roughly 40 latitude = southern tip of Italy) and below would all have dark skin which is not the case. I'll stick with the history
The view that the Italians that came to America jumped in w those at the top of the race dynamic makes a lot of sense. I dare say all cultures/ethnicities including Africans try to do the same to the extent that they can.
This was interesting! I’ve been attracting South Asian men lately, maybe there can be a video on that particular archetype?
Me too but it’s bc they think I’m south Asian 😂
This was a very interesting video.I’ve always been interested in Italian culture and now I’m even more curious to know more about them, especially Southern Italy . Thanks for sharing.
Loved this!!! Both of my exes were from Italy and Italian American, and this is spot on!!!! I think the two cultures have a lot in common, if we can all see past our few perceived differences.
Hey girl hey!
I think it would be VERY WORTH WATCHING a panel of desirable, traditional men, some who have cheated, others who haven't. I want to hear what they suggest as the remedy of staleness in traditional marraiges/committed relationships. If they go out and work, develop themselves, become more worldy, etc but they have a SAHW/SAHM as a partner who begins to bore them. What do traditional men want they wives to do? Will they support her personal growth? Will they support her taking courses or creating a business or engaginging in community or professional associations? Will they maintain interest in still growing with her and being intentional with maintaining spark and romance?
Disgusting now how many of them except y'all that's the funny part about it 0.1%if that.... Yall the most embarrassing disgraceful things that's ever walked ..
You are doing really good work for all of us and I greatly appreciate it!🎉 I will get my application out to you again.😊
Oh yes also please add to your archetype of men the Scandinavians karma in particular the Norwegians or Norwegian Americans 🇧🇻
Thank you much ❤
He's handsome, and I love the bass in his voice.
Italian men often exude a robust and unfiltered charm, embodying a distinct cultural persona. Many of them may exhibit a more straightforward communication style, emphasizing the importance of gestures and emotions over an expansive vocabulary. The frequent use of profanity can be a turn-off for me. Their inclination towards a narrower culinary scope, predominantly favoring Italian cuisine, speaks to a deep-rooted connection to their heritage, but it may also reflect a limited exposure to other cultures.
If you choose to date an Italian man, consider those in professional fields, as they tend to be less rough around the edges compared to the average Joe, such as a construction worker.
That one part about how
Italian men being into women that are nurturing that might be the reason they look at me.
My ex was italina. Very family oriented. Dorced, but greatfather and coparent, and he appreciates my coparenting skills: we both believe both parents are integral and we make sure we both are present. I like them, but this time im looking french 🤷🏾♀️ ive always dates strategically by what i want and desire in the culture of the men. French because I appreciate the refinement and class.
Darling ,i live in Germany ,i like Spanish,french,italian i dont know ...i love Spanish men Im very atracted to then in every way .
Just to add context to Italy & migrants from Africa, its not a color dynamic, its a religious-cultural dynamic. Many of these migrants are non-Christian and they are mostly single men, this sets families on edge. Europe in general are having issues with these migrants. Denmark is paying migrants to leave & recent elections are moving towards a conservative trend as well in many European nations. Recently, Italy has been in opposition to the general EU guidelines & made it a ruling that only biological women can participate in the Miss Italy contest, in opposition to this Miss Netherlands is a transgender male. So, this has set Italians in opposition to dictates of the EU.
You are glowing Chris!
Happy New Year CK! Italian men are handsome and have a certain swag to them. Also, I’m not sure if you’ve done a video about this before on black mom biracial vs white mom or non black mom biracial. It’s all over tik tok. What reminds me of this is the fact that Naomi Osaka sister Mari Osaka just blasted their father and is threatening to kill him. The difference between biracial of black moms vs non black moms is truly night and day.
I haven't but I'll check it out! And Happy New Year.
A lot of dating and marriage has more to do with cultural similarities than skin color because I've attracted abd been attracted to all men who shared my values, traditions, beliefs, cultural settings, etc. They just so happened to be nonblack.
From the sounds of this, “Franco” should definitely not allow his sister to date a group of men who don’t believe in marriage and make babies they don’t take care of. Perhaps everything is not just racism and bigotry 🤷🏽♀️
NO CHEATERS LADIEZ! YOU DESERVE MORE THAN THAT!
So good!
27:08 - Franc makes a good point about how cheating is viewed differently between the USA 🇺🇸 and Europe and elsewhere.
A great book on that topic is “Lust in Translation” by Pamela Druckerman
Even within Italy, Sicilians are looked down on by Northern Italians. Back in the 1930's in the US, Italians were classified as minorities. Anything north of Naples is considered Northern Italy, depending on the individual Naples may or may not be considered Southern Italian.
Applauses ❤
is he single? he's sexy. I don't vibe with his idea that the man going out to work is working hard but the mother looking after the kids is somehow not doing that. If you want your wife to be stimulating and give you her time, you need to help with childcare because you know, they're your children too...
I don't want to be horrible here but my experience with Italian men are different. the ones from UK are NOT generous at all! and when I share my experience about Italians with other women I realised we all have the same experience. they don't like to spend and they even feel comfortable asking for money.
Italian men are my preference. My mom used to crush on Andy Garcia. I love Robert Deniro. I dated an African Italian man and it was captivating when he spoke. Nothing is more attractive than an Italian man.
Have you ever been to Italy?
I have to do research on Robert Deniro's Italian background. Is his family from Northern or Southern Italy? I really can't tell.
Andy Garcia surprisingly is Cuban. He is a gorgeous man, and he always played Italian in the movies. My favorite is Al Pacino. In his younger years, he was so cute. I can just watch the Godfather and Scarface all day. 😻😻😻
Girl me too. Give me young Al Pacino any day.
@@lovelylana7614 Cuban is a relatively new culture. All of Cubans came from somewhere else Europe, Africa, and the Arawak and Taino Indians are the only natives. That's to say I would not be surprised if Italian showed up in his DNA.
My hubby is literally Giovani 😆 his mother is Italian and remarried to a fully Italian man. But be careful ladies: franco is out here making baby mommas too. My step father in law has 2 sons. They all live in Italy and are educated, from decent families, have good jobs etc. Unfortunately, they both have been with their significant others for over 10 years and have 2 kids each with no plans of a wedding in sight. Apparently this mindset has infected some parts of Italy as well.
I like the Real Millionaire speak serie better...anyway plz comment on Rachel Lindsay divorce. I think he got fed up of her pro black, activist, argumentative personna. 🙄
My mother in law and her hubby are Italian and have always considered themselves white, as does my husband, who is half Italian half Romanian. A lot of these eastern europeans and Italians seem to be oblivious to the fact that in America they were not considered white until after the industrial revolution. Whites segregated themselves from Italians, just as they did Blacks, and would be refused of services due to their Italian heritage. For a time, they were very often lynched as well. I'm from Louisiana and New Orleans was home to a large population of Italian immigrants in the late 1800s as well. Many of them came as a result of reconstruction and took over the jobs of freed slaves. There were and still are a prominent family called Gambino and I believe they were connected to the Italian mob. Anyhow the largest lynching of Italian Americans took place in New Orleans in the 1890s following several Sicilians being acquitted for a white policeman's murder. The perps were never charged. Their families at least did at least get reparations. This lynching inspired Columbus Day so that American whites could more readily identify with Italians. Of course whites wanted to take credit for "discovering" America.
What the hell was this? Chris, please do better!
U guys make an amazing couple😊😊😊❤❤
Could you do an archetype profile of a White “pointdexter”? Very book smart, science, math, sci fi, but a bit socially awkward needing plenty of time to peel back layers of his personality? I’m married to one for 17 years and our first date was awkward with a capital A. But, he was romantic, funny, and protective, too.
Hi Chris!
I'm wondering if there will be a follow up for the successful networking for introverts program.
now we're talking
Hey Christelyn, can you do a video on Alfre Woodard?
Wow. Those percentages are wild and scary.
This man is handsome. Love his voice!
For those of you who came here after the TikTok clip on interracial dating, black man vs black woman, it’s here 38:38.
Great video. Thank You, this was quite interesting and insightful. 💜
It's interesting how he mentioned church may have a lot to do with the Italian men marrying.
I’ve only had a few heavy make-out sessions with Italian young men, and really enjoyed them!🥰 That’s all I’ve got to contribute.❤
I'd like to see how intercultural dating differences could play out in terms of age. I would think that young women would have more adapting to do than older women.
I appreciate Franco's honesty and Chris' mention of some the history between Italians and Black people in the US.
Corbin bleu is black and his mom is italian real world stars irilanan and i forget the other girls name ate black and Italian so it depends
The Italian Man/BW combo is more common. FINE ass Taimak Guerrillo, RDK’s kids, etc.
He's biracial.
Great video. I would absolutely love to learn Italian and buy a place there. Beautiful language and country. Something for the future.
The first wave of Italian/Sicilian migration took place in New Orleans, Louisiana. After the emancipation of the slaves, Italians, specifically Sicilians, were brought to the south to do the work of the former slaves. Italians in the south were placed under Jim Crow. It was not uncommon for an Italian family to have a child with brown skin, brown eyes, jet black hair and another child with green eyes and red hair (like in my family). They were discriminated against by the southern whites at the time, because they were seen has legitimizing African/Americans. In 1891, 11 Italians were killed, some lynched, by an angry mob of the citizenry after being found not guilty of the murder of the chief of police of New Orleans; there unfound accusations of "mafia." At the time, the French Quarter was almost renamed Little Palermo, because there were so many Sicilians living there. Of the lynching, President Theodore Roosevelt said "It was a good thing." In 1999 the movie "Vendetta" came out which tells this story. There is also the book with the same title by Richard Gambino. Like most of our American history, the book and movie straighten out some misinformation.
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Hey Chris miss you on UA-cam looks like Rachel Lindsay and Bryan abasallo from the bachelorette broke up I remember you covering this story now I am so sad and losing hope please make a video on this
CK you look so beautiful and radiant feminine. You will never age. Yes Italian men love bw. I love Italy and the men are 🤌. Definitely now open to date outside my race.
It's Crazy How They Separated The Blk Family. I'll Nvr Dilute My Blood With Them Although I Know A Lot Of Us Do. It's Sad How We Fight Each Other Instead Of Loving Each Other. I Know A Blk Man You Once Loved Hurted You And You'll Probably Never Break That Soultide No Matter How Many Europeans You Sleep With, But I'm Not Mad At You, It's Your Choice. I Understand Blk Women Rage & Disappointment With Us Blk Men. It's Your Giving Rights To Date Outside. All This Self-Hate On BOTH Sides Will End Soon In The Future Generations.
I want an Italian husband and a baby named Giovanni ❤ time to plan another trip to Italy lol
Ha!
Come to Spain ,Spanish men are also gorgeouse
Hello Christelyn, he is very handsome! I appreciated this interview with Frank, great story. More videos like this would be awesome. Thanks.🙂
This man sounds sooooo good. You should interview him for like 3 hours or just ask him to read us a novel or something. My goodness.
You should hear him speak in Italian. He makes a grocery list sound so good.
They are cut from the same cloth as Afro men including in some cases colorists
I visited Italy in 2019 with 30 Pink Pill members, and we are mostly dark skinned. We were welcomed with open arms and the men literally chased me lol...I didn't get that vibe at all.
@@Christelyn1good to know. Others have a diff experience. Maybe it’s the area within the country
@@drtruth5291 Could be. We went first to Rome, and then Sorrento/Amalfi Coast.
I find them somewhat rakish, not colorist. They love black women and just women in general
@@drtruth5291 Might be to do with Featurism. I don't think black women with larger features are treated in the same way. They're also not respectful to black men. One actually killed a Nigerian man in broad daylight in Rome a few years back.
I like the idea of living somewhere slow paced and not driven by success and grind at least for a little
I hope the Chicago mayor heard your point that we’re not immigrants.
Feels like a lot of marriages were kinda fake back in the day, (and still are) people just accepted marriage as the norm because people moved in similar religious groups that binded them to marriage. Now our society is so much more emotionally/psychologically advanced and women are requiring less from men commitment wise and have babies out of wedlock more often. Society has always been in a moral deficit and division, but more so now because people are veering off into their own way of beliefs and values (more than before) and now marriage is not a bandaid solution to that anymore with our freedom as women. And a lot of people back in the day were unhappily married and people dont have to tolerate that and society is not telling them to anymore.
You have the same theory as me :)
It's one of the reasons I scoff at people who'll go as far as saying black people are cursed. On the contrary - we're blessed to be of a land that provides for us spontaneously. We're blessed to not have to rely on 'development' for our survival.
Of course, without that drive, we're likely to remain the poorest demographic in the world... but we own the cradle of humanity and we're the oldest living phenotype. No war or breakdown of global commerce will threaten our survival.
On the flipside -- Jews, the smartest and most productive of us, are living in a perpetual, existential crisis. The Hans nearly starved to death (and could actually in the near future), and the Caucasians way up north were whittled down to but a handful of vicious Vikings before finally managing to develop out of frozen hell. They remain today, cold, both figuratively and literally.
Generally, Blacks have had it easiest... and STILL, when we show up to the US and UK our Nigerians and Ugandans kick academic and financial ass.
Just subscribed :)
Errrm! Sorry to put a spanner in the works, but almost all ancient civilizations, with the exception of China, were in the Southern hemisphere. Even ancient Greece and Rome began in southern Europe. In fact the Greeks thought northern Europeans very stupid and lazy😂. How perceptions change.
They can play LOU FERIGNO and WHITNEY HOUSTON in a Movie Biopic
He’s hot ❤
thank you! yeh he's hot. Can totally imagine him in bed.
Productive = Slavery
Laise Faire = Paradise
Yes when Italians peoples come in USA, they have to fight because the government wanted to classified them as black. People who come from Iran faced the same problem too.
I thought they lived in New Jersey
Just watch some Spike Lee movies..."Do the Right Thing", "Jungle Fever"...those will give you a true depiction of the Italian American-Black American dynamics. Like Spike Lee, I grew up in Brooklyn (Flatbush=Caribbean immigrants), probably the most ethnically diverse "city" in the world; every ethnic group had their own neighborhood...Bed Stuy=Black, Sheepshead Bay=Jewish, Bensonhurst=Italian, etc, but as far as Bensonhurst there was a well known unwritten rule that black people better not go into Bensonhurst!!! I appreciate Frank's honesty on the racial dynamics (sorry, but I think Chris was trying to minimize and romanticize it a bit). I'm black and married to a northern Italian (born/raised in Italy), and even he sees the HUGE difference between American Italians (very clanish/borish) and continental Italians (they don't make a deal about being Italian, they just are)...he can not relate. And trust me, ladies, Italian men (Italy) are not out "looking" for black women. If they happen to meet one that they like and vibe with her, then they seem to have no problem with it. One big exception I must state is that Italians look upon Black Americans and Black Africans VERY differently, your American-ness goes a long way. Sorry for the long post.
thank you for your realistic take on this. some of these "swirlers", and their followers, live in delulu land.
🇨🇵 men next, please. Then 🇬🇷 men. 😋🤤
Italian men do not respect men who create fatherless homes. Call it the influence of the church or 'patriarchy" or whatever, but over there, men actually gate-keep each other (and women do the same among themselves as well).
When I think about it, it doesn't mean the women are let off the hook to be irresponsible. It just means that women's lives are made a little easier---i.e., it's easier to "choose better". Out-of -wedlock births are not uncommon, especially in the north, but from what I've seen, people still stay together, but don't necessarily get married, i.e., mother is single on paper but the father is in the home. I'm not sure how these couples are counted in the stats, but regardless, Italy has way, way, way less of the social problems created by the lack of fathers in the home.
Juicy (but sad) story: My husband was a consultant for a small regional airline that needed to reassign pilots to new routes. Pilots also don't have a great reputation, either; and let's just say, of the Italian and German pilots for this one route, of course a few Italian pilots (but no German ones) were outed for having families on each side of the border!! Che storia!
What is casual racism?