KEVIN SAMUELS REACTION - MOTHER GETS BIG REALITY CHECK
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- KEVIN SAMUELS REACTION - MOTHER GETS BIG REALITY CHECK
Hey Rivah Gang ! In this video I will be reacting to another Kevin Samuels video. This video talks about a woman who wants to know what to do to attract a high value man and also a mother who is unsure about who her sons will marry, as the young women she sees around her are not raised to effectively be a "wife" to her sons. This one is interesting! Make sure you guys smash that like button and leave a comment down below on your own opinion of Kevin Samuels but also keep sending me more reaction videos on instagram! Thanks again so much for watching !
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Volume a little too low
We need to ban smartphones.
It's so sad that black people don't see what's going on with us. When are we going to wake up... I'm a black man and my heart hurts so bad for us.
Wrong. We see/saw what was going on decades ago. 20 years….I’m not. Brother please. My heart is intact. Yours should be. There’s no saving this lost generation. Good luck if you think so.
Everybody else see it
Everyone else DOES sees it, they just don’t care enough to fix it.
He asked her questions that required easy answers but she answered like it was trigonometry smh
It was like two entirely different conversations.
It’s because they are so worried about getting checked by Kevin they are overthinking simple questions and blurting out anything on questions that require thought. They’re all over the place. Lol
Because she wasn't paying attention..she was on camera for the Gram. Lol
Because it required female accountability, that’s their Kryptonite!
One of the most important skills is listening. For it is written: wherefore my beloved brethren, let every man (meaning mankind - including women) be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath. James 1:19.
This topic needs to be addressed with a sense of urgency. The sister skirted around the question Kevin asked, but as a father of four sons I’m deeply concerned. This is the systematic destruction of our people.
Asking women to hold other women accountable is like asking children to hold other children accountable..it will never happen.
Not quite, children will interact with other children like there's nothing to lose, and more to gain. Not like women in general.
They don't accept it. It's just a fact. They get upset and stop dealing with that woman after you hold them accountable. Most
You can't talk to people about their kids.. We know this but that's the problem. It takes a village to raise a child/children but we're taking that village away being scared to confront people.
Women are more comfortable confronting men but confronting other women.. "I can't do that."
Edit: As a man, I check my friends. Men and women alike. I got friends that ain't my friends no more because I checked them and that's fine because guess what?? One thing they'll never be able to say about me is that I didn't care. They may choose to not be friends because they didn't like what I said but they definitely heard it. And if this society was set up where more people were like this then I'd be confident that eventually, they'd get the message but the way it's set up now, it's like maybe they will but likely they won't because there are too many people who won't be brutally honest.
Exactly
Facts. This is why Asian and Latin communities are strong. They understand female nature and have social controls in place to keep things from getting out of hand the way they are in Western countries.
Western men have cucked up and surrendered to the gynocracy. Boys lack positive role models. Women can't find masculine men. A total mess in the West.
Usallagy
Yes you can majority of the time. But black women you can’t. Such a shame.
Brother I’m with you. I check everyone. Everyone. I support you sir. Keep checking em. Everyone.
Yes you can talk to people about their kids. That's whats wrong now. Women just don't like to hold other women accountable sometimes. I personally wouldnt care if they get offended. Sometimes the truth hurts. No pain, no gain. Im with Kevin on this.
I’ve always found it strange that black women think it’s bad form to check other black women, but have absolutely no problem checking black men
They hate black men checking them too...so basically nobody should or can check em. They're right all the time
Older black women do. I have experienced it.
@@lisaandbeans9645 of course ma'am. Nothing is absolute but is it in the majority? I think not. It's out of hand
And they don't listen to black men either. So the question is, who do black women listen to?
GOOD POINT and you're CORRECT!☝️🙄
It's FEAR... they know women won't take accountability from each other. Can't talk to each other about community development but they can gather to try cancel or gang up against a man.
Lol it's fear 🤣🤣
I have to agree with KS on this. At some point, Black women have to have conversations with other Black women regarding the problems in the community. Black men have tried to tell them what they need to do, but they won't listen. If responsible Black women cannot provide feedback and constructive criticism to other Black women, the black community is doomed. Point blank period.
That's the problem. People don't want to be told how to raise their kids. That's how generational cycles continues because it's not talked about
You say you can't talk to anyone about how they raise their children... What If you see a mother feeding their 5 year old alcohol and teaching them to spew profanities , think about that sis
You know “woman logic” makes zero sense. Even the best of them argue with their feelings one way or the other.
@@93deadpool true that brother
Don't mind these senseless broads
Kevin proves his points all the time, Black women will sit and listen to a lecture for 12 hours STRAIGHT about Black men "leveling up" but, the MINUTE that lecture changes to the abhorrent, unacceptable dispositions often seen from Black women and WHY they're NOT being chosen by Black men, at the levels they THINK they're entitled to, the fangs come out and everything discussed before, is IMMEDIATELY tossed out because, now, they're all caught up in their FEELINGS behind how CORRECT it is, the speaker is often ATTACKED and they won't listen to 15 minutes of it and start heading for the exits! This IS the PROBLEM and it'll continue to be until it's addressed in ALL it's honesty, just as Black men are stretched out!☝️😳
The black man is important for the black community.
Kevin Samuels is right, lines need to be crossed and toes stepped on. black women got to start checking other black women and holding them accountable.
Kevin should have asked her if he can take her to mall his treat. She would answered: YES!
Lol. I would've too. I could use more Old Navy swag.
The lack of logic from this host of the video as well as the woman in the video is not helping. Of course Black women should talk to each other about how Black girls are being raised. That's communal accountability. Figure it out. Change the dynamics. Start having meetings with like-minded women.
Like minded women is the key word in your statement , because like minded women wouldn’t have to have this convo with each other because their child would be raised with out the need of someone offering advice you know ? .. but I completely understand what you are saying and agree
@@RivahTV. Black men study the global war against Black people far more than Black women. If Kevin Samuels and others like me are able to battle women who use this system against us and ultimately against Black people, maybe Black women who get the big picture can work with us to step out of their comfort zones in order to be more effective. Otherwise, the consequences may be profoundly worse than they can imagine.
The fact is we can't talk to BW about anything like anything like nothing now a days everything is an attack. Toes need to be stepped on in order to recieve better outcomes smh.
And that’s sad
Facts man!
They don’t want to fix their problems.
Problem is for the last 40 years women have been told “ they don’t need to change ? They’re perfect the way there are , you can have it all you deserve it , you don’t need no man “ . This is the result of all this indoctrination . It’s only going to get worse !
We can fix it. Just don't be afraid to say it. I know it can be argumentive sometimes, but unless you dealing with that woman in a relationship you should never be afraid to speak your truth. Even if you're in a relationship speak your truth cause if you're not on the same level then can move on and stop wasting time! You only got one life.
First of all, I don't agree with you saying that Kevin should talk about all women and not just black women. That is deflecting. Every time he spoke about black women, you want to make it about everybody else. What good does that do? I think black women need to be accountable for raising their riff raff. You don't solve a problem by deflecting. Have the humility to accept the truth and start focusing on finding a solution. This dancing around issues doesn't solve problems. It just makes them bigger
Facts!...=🤯
He's right it may hurt to hear it but that's how you know it's true the truth hurts.
That’s not true back in the day neighbors would look after and discipline the kids if the kids did something wrong. It takes a village to raise a child not just individuals, if people don’t share their thoughts or concerns this stupidly will continue to happen.
Women definitely need to start checking each other and holding each other accountable
To all the comments correcting me for saying that we can’t tell other women about their kids , I just want to let you know that all of you are CORRECT , however I wasn’t saying we wouldn’t want to , and I also stated that if you have a good relationship with the person that you would… HOWEVER , from experience, I have seen a woman tell another woman positive reinforcing criticism about her daughter and not only did the woman completely curse her out , she did it in front of her daughter which not only negated the fact of what the other woman was trying to say to help .. it also literally is teaching the daughter not to listen to that type of opinion and the information went in one ear and out the other. So again, I agree that we should absolutely tell each other I was just stating that it is rarely ever received. It’s just the time we live in
Rivah what Kevin is saying is we as a community is in a serious situation and it will take this to wake the parents up. You see how he's speaking on this so hard.
They get offended? So what
I'm sure there's a very low percentage of black moms training their daughters to actually be "BETTER" versions of themselves bcz they they're in denial of needn help themselves!
2:23 That's the "die alone...in a fire" cherp. Lol
There used to be a time that you COULD talk to people about their kids…I’m from that generation and it was soooo much more peaceful bro.
Rivah, I think you missed a lot of info that Kevin was given out. You were pushing back on a few things that are due to not looking at the bigger picture.
REAL WOMAN of God that stand up & tell women w/trifling daughters & sons the TRUTH, are considered Women of Valor!
Alot of women care more about their feeling rather than life, death or their own children. They care more about their hearts than their assess.
Just think of all the questions you can't ask a woman or comment on.
Rivah that’s what he’s saying, the problem is “you can’t tell anybody about their kids” that’s the problem. Just because they get offended doesn’t mean you don’t speak up. If we keep ignoring it the problem will persist
I don’t know sis...You disappointed me when you agreed that the cycle of broken women raising broken women should continue because “you not supposed to tell nobody bout they kids”
I didn’t say you’re not supposed to i said it won’t be received , you can’t tell them as in .. it’s gonna be a huge problem if you do
@@RivahTV. I think you are really off base on this one. Women not holding other women accountable is the big problem amongst black women. There is nothing wrong with women getting together and talking about how to properly raise daughters. Learn how to get uncomfortable. All conversations are not comfortable. If you have to get uncomfortable to prove a valid point then some be it. If you lose a few friends for telling the truth then so be it. Black women will tolerate bad behavior just to keep a friend. Kevin Samuel's is 20 year older than you. How you gonna disagree with someone with 20 years more life experience than you?
Thats the point though Rivah it shouldnt offend women to talk to each other when it comes to what we all see to be a societal problem.women act like they scared to point out each others neglect and or accept it
Black women. Step up to the plate. Empower yourselves. You need nobody but YOU.
Lets not forget what rap music is doing to communities and how fathers are not in the house hold as before...Cause and effect...
You can talk to people about their kids. When I was growing up the entire neighborhood checked the kids.
You are right this generation does get offended. That was not always the case. Continuing a healthy black family is the communities responsibility
The fact that you can't talk to people about children, especially when doing wrong proves we are no longer primarily raising these kids with a "collective village" mindset. The way our culture has taken a hit it is time to start stepping on toes.
17:24 I disagree with you. You are allowed to ask parents about their children if those children are behaving like cardi b or the twerk squad. You can ask, and you must, especially if you are a mother of boys. You are LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR CHILDREN'S FUTURE.
your recording levels are to low, try increasing input level by 6db.
Thank you so much !
I'm sorry sis but this is where we have to go......we have to address sensitive situations if it's gonna bring a better outcome. We don't care about how sensitive you are about your children
Why can’t adults talk to each other about their kids? That makes no sense to me, it boggles my mind to know that everyone would love to tell a school shooters parents about their child but in this case it’s only the black women that think you really have no say so in their lives as if your not sending them off to day care and public school, they are talked about already! Why not have the conversation!!!! Please someone make it make sense, not sure if I’m hearing this correctly
What KS is saying he doesn't give a sh!t about telling other mothers is not that he isn't aware that it's taboo or rude. He is saying that no matter what it needs to happen because horrible women are raising horrible women which raise more horrible women. He is saying stop it by any means necessary and the kindest way is to talk about it. Mic drop
The way that mother beat around the bush, certain woman can see all the wrong with modern women and will still fail to hold them accountable. That was the simplest yes or no being asked and it was like pulling teeth to get an "authentic" answer. At this point admitting the obvious should be as easy as breathing.
The 2nd woman does not care enough about her son to have a conversation with another woman. The fear is greater tjan tje love.
And you Rivah are supporting and condoning this behavior. Feelings over facts. And on and on it goes.
Yeah women get offended but at the same time somebody has to say something. Bottom line women need to be accountable for there actions
Accountability is kryptonite to most black women today
Yes sweetie Ur wrong : We H.V.Men are Not Interested in "Feisty" Woman. !!!!!!! Generally that makes them Combative
The fact is we know people will get upset and want to fight but someone has to take that punch and say what needs to be said and do what needs to be done. Because of no one does things will remain the same.
Men have no issue with another man saying something about their sons as long as it's said with respect... It's really the women that have the most problem with it
If feelings and emotions get in the way of data, facts, and statistics, you have a problem with the reality we all share. Kevin is %1000 right!
No race of mothers can take criticisms of their children.
Yes you can. You can’t TO BLACK WOMEN ABOUT THEIR KIDS.
Our women don't listen to anyone. They are outta control
One look at these women and you know immediately she ain't getting a HQ man.
Hey keep up the great work black community. If you can never tell another human being or suggest something to another human then give up .it's over....... which we already know 😏.
Majority BW doesn't let BM raise their Sons
I agree with KS 10000% about women checking women ....iron sharpens iron...that's the only way it gets shaped..a refined piece refines the other ...point blank period
Are you teaching your daughters to be obedient submissive wives? .. Are you teaching your sons to be husbands and head of the house and leaders in the communities?? .. If not .. WHY?? 🤔
Yes you can talk to somebody about their kids. Either that or get used to inter racial marriages.
I check men all the time. Women should check each other. I’ve dated women with children and stopped dating them because of how horrible their children were. Omg! No home training!
I worry for the pool of women my son will have to choose from...smdh
The thumbnail tho🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why can't we have people who got sense on the show. This is cringe.
This lady is just want attention. She already knows how Kevin feels about women chasing men for money
You young bucks. I was the man who dated Those mother and grandmothers and I have to say they gave us older men Hell and your beat goes on with the big mouth women today
The fly swatter eyelashes and partially bleached blond hair speaks volumes.
u are wrong. Women have to teach younger women the right way. It doesnt matter that they get ofended.
Women not checking women is the problem!!!!
“You can’t talk to people about their kids”
Well, SOMEONE has to have that conversation OR things will only continue to get worse than what it already is and I’m afraid to see what that’s going to look like years down the road..
Jesus it's like pulling a tooth for her to admit a simple question
13:50 I unwittingly yelled out goddamn 😂
Tovah you hit the nail on the head !!
The audio is pretty terrible on this video lol
Thank you for telling me! Sorry I’m trying to fix it !
It's not fear IT'S FUCKING DENIAL .
Number one, I do not consent to the term black as a descriptor of our people (and wholeheartedly do not agree with the misnomer of African American). I know beyond a shadow of doubt that the greater majority of so-called "black" people are truly the Indians of the America's (but that is an entirely different subject). However, for conditioned communication purposes, I will use the term "black" as a commonly known descriptor of the population of people being talked about in these conversations. With that being said, I totally agree with Mr. Samuel's assertion that "black" women are the ones that need to check other "black" women. I say that knowing from stories of both my mom and dad describing the communities they grew up in back in the 50's/60's. I've heard them tell stories on multiple occasions of how when they were young and attended all "black" schools in the south, that if they (or anyone else) got in trouble at school (or church), they would get a whooping by the teacher at school (another "black" person of their community), get another whooping from their mom when the teacher called and told her what happened in school, and yet possibly another whooping when their dad got home. Now, I'm not advocating this practice, but I bring it up to illustrate the closeness and collective strength of our prior tight knit community's. This was only half a century ago. To think that our community's have been so broken down and dismantled, that a woman wouldn't or couldn't talk to another woman about their actions nor their child's actions, just shows how far out of wack things have become (mostly due to fear of confrontation via a possibly unstable person/woman). My point is our community needs real healing to bring back a true communal sense and nature because things were not always this way...Hopefully this is read and received in the spirit in which it was written, which was all love and a sense of pride.
P.s. Great job Rivah! You have excellent content!
You can't tell them about anything, or they get offended!
Oh it’s definitely fear sis …..Periodtttt lol
There is a way for women can talk to one another, like an open forum or townhall
"They get offended" : Then you start a Group like AA Etc....
But it's sooo easy for women to step on men's toes.
It is fear, you said "kiss that friendship goodbye" meaning you know you're gonna lose that friendship if you tell them about their parenting. That's fear.
Riveh this is the point. Hypothetical: you are raising your sons to be up standing citizen with stature. When those boys go out in this world. There isn't wives being raised. So all your work into building your sons is for not because they can't complete the bond of family. Because these girls are misguided. You have to have the hard conversations with your sister code to build both sides. I love your work and your views but this is what is killing the black families. Both sides need to do the work. Both sides need to get in the ear of these boys and girls. So I Know it is difficult to speak to these woman. But they're not listening to us so it has to come from their sisters and moms and girlfriends. keep up the good work and you are appreciated
Why can't black people talk about how other parents raise their kids? It happens with other races all the time without a problem?
If you see someone raising their son to be a violent trouble maker you gonna talk to them about it right?
Being fiesty doesn’t get you anywhere near a high end man
I got a bonnet on and a wife beater. I deserve a high value man living with my mother. WHY!?
You can't be deflecting for black women when the truth is right there in you face..you was doing OK until you started deflecting and babbling...very typical
She wore the bonnet because many black women think that a man should accept them how they are yet they could state that they deserve the highest quality of men n don’t. Think they should take any less
But you can talk to someone about they relationship, about they marriage, career choice, aspirations, decisions in general, but kids are off limits, that’s where we draw the line? No ma’am we should because we need a community of like minded individuals if we wanna grow. We need to go back to the days when kids can go to visit any adult and family and the same expectations are set. Stop the “well everyone is different” trope, if people gonna get offended so what? Truth doesn’t bring people together, it divides and in doing so you should surround yourself with like minded people.
It's crazy that we can't say that, but in todays climate you always hear women saying "where are the men to step up and help with these boys and show them guidance". So is it we can't say that about the girls or we can't say that about any child period? If men have to step up and be role models etc to all these lost young boys, why is it not on the women to do the same with the young women out here?
Because the reality of it is this…. The only conflict that women of today’s time are built for is conflict within their own body (menstrual cycle, pregnancy/giving birth, etc). As men we have always been ready and built for conflict even if it means risking our lives. As men whether it was through playing a sport/sports or actually having some sort of male figure in our lives we learnt to accept the truth even if it brings conflict with how we feel at the moment. Most women (not all) haven’t dealt with this type of forwardness and honesty in their life so it’s difficult for them when it comes to being this way.
gentz, when you see a woman with long finger nails, the chance is she is not doing much in the house or at work. just saying.
Well you're going to have to take it back to! it takes a village amongst women. And incorrect each other and each ur kids as well seriously.
I believe you missed the point. What Kevin is ultimately getting to is the fact that nothing will change unless an intervention occurs. Yes. The obvious will happen -- people will become upset. Regardless, it is a woman's choice to either let things continue to worsen; or advocate for positive change. I prefer the latter, but some people don't know how to handle uncomfortable situations ALTHOUGH they have absolutely no problem being excessively confrontational with a man.
Accountability is kryptonite for modern women !!!!
I earned every dollar that passed through my hand. No handouts. Help from my most awesome parents, yes. Would myself, love to meet a sugar momma. If they exist.
True indeed
Ks saying , Winter is coming and telling mamas their sons will be looking for a partner in the dead of winter. In a deseart.
Damn it’s like the brother a dentist pulling teeth for a straight answer 🤦
You can't talk to people about their kids and that's the problem. It takes a village. I don't care what day and age it is that's etched in stone and you can't change that fact.