Imagine STILL calling it multiple personality disorder..despite the fact that multiple personality disorder doesn’t exist and it’s called DID. If she actually had split personalities, she would have known that
SkyesRandomDoodles it was used up until 1994 it hasn’t been used in a medical field since. So yeah not diagnosed, also most people don’t know until they’re older
@@emilia6500 gosh it's terrible. Ex freind said she had social anxiety and when asked what it was she said it meant she doesn't like talking to people.thats not what it means and I was mad being someone who does have it :/
you can always tell if someone is faking having 'split personalities' when they say 'uwu I have multiple personality disorder, im so psycho nya' It has been known as Dissociative identity Disorder since 1994 my dude, if you were diagnosed before then, any one of your doctors, therapists or psychiatrists will have corrected themselves and informed you of the change by now
@@MARS-th6er oh yeah no I absolutely agree that she has some kind of personality disorder, specifically BPD. I actually suffer from the same issues, I've had dissociative episodes in which I've taken in another identity and delt with the favourite person complex as well. Although I've learned to be non-toxic and manage my emotions better. But regardless of whether she has it or not, there's no excuse for her kind of behaviour. BPD could be an explanation, but not an excuse. She still has a lot of self growth to do, and her actions really don't have any justification to them. In my opinion she needs therapy and possibly medication as well. People with BPD have the capacity to improve, and I do hope that she is able to manage her symptoms better
I understand your point, but I want to inform you that not everyone calls it DID even when they have a therapist. For me (as an example) I have been diagnosed with DID and my therapist let’s me say Multiple Personality because I can’t pronounce Dissociative (my brain just doesn’t want to work that way). So maybe that’s why she’s saying Multiple Personality. (Not saying that what she’s doing is right, just wanted to clear that up :))
@@castiiellygames6913 I totally respect that and probably shouldn't have been so general in my original comment ^^ Since we're dealing with an online context here though I don't believe she's been formally diagnosed with DID as if she was i'm sure she'd opt for the easier route of just typing three letters rather than the very wordy 'multiple personality disorder'. Im really sorry if my original comment had any negative affect on you or made you feel targeted in any way ^^ that wasn't my intent at all. Ive just dealt with a lot of edgy kids trying really hard to be like Jeff the killer or make complex and scary mental illnesses seem 'fun and quirky' or making 'pyscho' into a cute girly trait. particularly in this case with Lumi using a very serious disorder that causes real, genuine struggles to excuse her shitty actions and give her a free pass. My frustration might have bubbled to the surface a little there.
10:25 this idea of "Ok but what caused your mental problems?" Is something I actually struggle with ALL THE TIME! I have always had a fairly normal life. Yet I have bipolar, ADHD and anxiety. Like, I just have them. There is no reason. Maybe I can blame a few things for the anxiety but over all there is no reason! Mental illness just happens! I hate people who fake or exaggerate mental illness and act like you HAVE to have a reason for it all. No. Many things can cause mental struggles but many people just have them for no apparent reason at all.
thing like adhd and bipolar disorder can be inhereted, and anxiety sometimes develops pretty randomly from what i know. i have adhd and anxiety too, lol. sometimes it's really difficult to find out what's caused by trauma and what came 'naturally'. also, some illnesses are just there because others caused them. i'm in therapy for like 12 years now and i still don't know if my depression comes from the adhd, my childhood trauma, or if it just kind of happened. i'll probably never know. this stuff is so complicated i hate thinking about it because i only have very few braincells left from trying to understand this video
I would disagree with this. Talking to psychologists, there is ALWAYS a reason, it can be genetic, it can be socially related, can be trauma, can be stress and can be simply just hormone change but there is always a reason for mental illnesses no matter which type. They don't just "happen"
@@glasperle77 when people say a mental illness just happens for no reason, they most of the time mean hormonal changes or similar things. those are things that you can't control at all and that do happen for no reason. sometimes the body randomly fucks up something which results in mental illness. they're the same hormonal changes that happen because of stress (be it as a result of trauma or not). at least that's what i learned years ago, lol. cute name by the way!
Well the anxiety could actually come from the ADHD and the treatment you may have gotten because of it. Bipolar is somewhat genetically but as far as I am educated (which can be wrong) has to have a trigger to properly form. I have the weird feeling that Lumi has BPD (Borderline personality disorder) which actually can come from a traumatic event in childhood and/or childhood neglect so I don't doubt the abusive past. Which by no means is an excuse for her behavior but an explanation. If one fakes mental illness they actually fit very well into cluster B personality disorders (Narcissistic Borderline and Anti social) due to their manipulative nature and craving for any kind of attention.
I have a very close friend who has been diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, and depression and he is literally the sweetest person on the planet .... tbh anyone I've met who has been diagnosed with any type of mental illness or disorder is the opposite of manipulative or rude, in fact they're some of the kindest people I've ever met. btw if ur battling mental illness you are strong and you have earned a stranger's faith •w•)b also stay hydrated and happy heehar
No, this is just false. Mental illness can and does cause people to do shitty things, and people need to understand that, otherwise they aren't real mental health advocates.
Actually, depression CAN be an explanation for acting like a jerk. I have it, and I've had, unfortunately, countless of angry outbursts because of it. It's actually a pretty common symptom of depression to have random bursts of irritation/anger. What it ISN'T, however, is an excuse. You should be held accountable and apologize for your actions, even if the circumstances were unfortunate.
Yeah. I bottled up so many of my emotions that I would have emotional outburst which really affected my relationships with people. I’m honestly so glad I’ve grown and I can talk abt my feelings.
@møønie You're correct. The alters already have names when they appear, the host doesn't get to choose. I spend a lot of time reading and learning about mental disorders simply because it's a hobby. Of course, I'm not professional but Lumi obviously has no idea what she's talking about.
@@slightlyexpiredyogurtuwu269 actually, minor correction. some/most alters have names, however some others have to be named by the host or given a name. talking as someone who interacts with systems and knows some systems who give names to their alters. hopefully that doesn't come off as rude and i'm sorry this is a month late,,
@@tamiko_ Not rude at all! I'm glad that you have experience and took your time to correct me. I'm always willing to learn more so thank you for informing me.
@@slightlyexpiredyogurtuwu269 thats not entirely true all the time, for example most of my alters have formed and had to go on naming websites and stuff to try and find something that fits, and a few of them even were named by the host and it just stuck. but yeah. this """MPD""" is probably bs
*sees Lumi’s name in the thumbnail* oh god I can’t stand this girl I had watched Nawnii’s first video and as soon as she said she had faked suicide like multiple times to get people’s attention and such I just noped the hecc out. I have very low tolerance for that kind of manipulation Edit: also that art is gorgeous; well done!
She accused an small artist on Instagram in her story a tracer when the artist number 1. reference the art 2.she gave lumi the credit 3. Lumi send her fans to bully and harrase the young artist which is disgusting not only that she will delete her post when she started the drama.
Oh gosh, I remember that. If you're talking about the artist I think you are, they're a mutual of mine and are really cool, but after Lumi did that, she (the artist) became really depressed because of the amount of hate she got. It's really petty and quite frankly disgusting that Lumi did that. I didn't think I could hate her more but now i completely detest her because of that move.
I’ve been in a relationship with someone extremely similar to Lumi. Even down to the voice and appearance. The girl I was friends with portrayed herself as an edge lord with a slew of self diagnosed mental illnesses, faked an array of things ranging from parental abuse to attempted suicide, had a creepy infatuation with an ex of hers even though she mentally tormented him and he wanted nothing to do with her, used being ‘non-binary’ as a shield, beat me down verbally, changed her persona constantly to the extreme that even her personality would change, and overall was a giant piece of shit. I ended up blocking her after half a year of trauma but she still haunts me to this day. I sometimes even have nightmares about her, and certain things related to our friendship can trigger me into having a panic attack. I encourage all those who have friends who behave similarly to Lumi or the ex-friend that I described to distance yourselves from them as soon as possible. It might be painful at first but you will feel a million times better afterwards. The sooner you get out of there, the better.
That's definitely true and why I was reluctant, but after learning more details I decided spreading awareness was worth it so others don't get involved with her 🥺
I know right! People fake red bracelets just to get attention! It's disrespectful to the one who actually do it! Keep up the amazing work Yuki! I love your art 😆 Have a nice day! - mellow
The problem with people faking depression is that it makes people think it’s normal to have depression. Yes, a lot of people do have depression which is sad but the truth. People faking it also affected me, for so long I didn’t want to accept I had depression because I didn’t want to fake it and be disrespectful. Then, I found out that I did have it and was slowly starting to gain suicidal thoughts. Faking depression causes so many problems and I think a lot of people don’t know that it’s actually a problem and disrespectful. Btw I love your videos and your art 😊❤️
My parents didn’t even believe I had depression when I asked about it... Only after I actually got tested they finally listened. They also didn’t believe I was transgender just because that same person said it was to avoid unwanted attention. But here I am, four years later, ready to get top (and bottom eventually) surgery and Testosterone once I turn 18
I would really like to learn how you do your advanced shading and lighting stuff on your artwork! I'm getting better at being consistent with the baseline stuff such as poses and creating characters but I can't color all that well.
I love how your videos are very informative but accented with humor, and we get to watch your gorgeous speedpaints in the background while listening instead of seeing some balding guy in a studio.
I’ve been watching Yukibuns so much recently because she is an amazing artist and the way she narrates draws attention and keeps me interested in the topic, I find myself going through her videos while drawing since she inspires me so much with her talent
Spoiling your child is just another form of abuse... For example, my dad didn't know how to say no to me when I was a small child and did that spoil me? Yes, I got every I wanted and threw a tantrum when I didn't get my way. But was I better for it? No, it neglected my need to learn how to adapt, it stunted my growth as a person and meant the concept of failure was made to be something to fear, an idea that was later instilled even more in my later years due to a shitty school and that I've had to go through a lot of trouble to destroy will flaming fury. My mum had step in and teach me what no meant when she came back into my life. Ironic considering No was also apparently my first word but I digress... I'm not saying that what you said was "evil" or something, I actually agree with your general point, I just wanted to make a statement on that use of the word as somebody with a complicated history with different types of abuse...
As someone on the spectrum I feel like saying that in childhood, it can be especially difficult because you are different in alot of ways. And honestly when I heard about how lumi was clingy and manipulative I did understand where that came from. I personally got lucky with and amazing friend, but if not for him I mightve ended up clingy too. That being said lumi has done some horrible things and I'm certain autism had nothing to do with the decision making. Even if our brains function differently, we are still capable of basic human functions, such as kbowing right from wrong and need to be held accountable.
I‘ve behaved like a total brat in front of my crush and even today I feel so ashamed of myself but I just don‘t dare to face him and apologize even though I‘d really want to
I’m sure you have your reasons, but it’s best to learn to apologize rather than never learn to. He’ll probably think better of you for speaking up and admitting you’re wrong! It’s good to understand that you’re wrong, but acknowledging that you’re wrong to people - especially the ones you care about - really shows what kind of person you are! It’s scary, but it’s worth a shot! And sorry if you didn’t want the advice, I’m just trying to help out! You don’t have to go through with what I say, just take it into consideration! Good luck with your crush! ^w^
Rosie thank you a lot, I really appreciate that someone took the time to give me so genuine and kind advice you really gave me some courage . I‘m still very shy and don‘t know how I should approach him since when school begins we are split in two different classes so I really don‘t know when the right time is. And this incident is still a while ago so to bring it up again would be very weird. but I still don‘t want to give up yet since I also want to tell him I like him at least until we go separate ways so apologizing for what I‘ve done is probably easier. I was thinking about writing him a letter or so since talking isn‘t my strength and who knows who would interrupt. I really hope I can do so and thank you so much for encouraging and supporting me.
I find it horrible and disgusting how common it is that people are faking disorders. It’s getting so bad, that the moment an actual person with a disorder mentions it, they are called out and are told they just want attention. I personally am still confused about my own emotions, society has pushed me to believe that I am not depressed, and that I am an attention seeking brat, and I have no idea anymore what I’m truly feeling, and I hate the idea that there are other people who have to feel this way. If you’re reading this, and you were diagnosed, and someone called you a fake, just remember, you are valid, your emotions matter, some people just can’t understand disorders very well yet. I hope you can stay strong, fight through this, and get better ^^
I had to pause at the five minute mark because I got heated: as a person with DID, every single person I’ve ever came into contact with that claimed to have DID or OSDD and called it “Multiple Personality Disorder” was 100% faking it. The terminology was changed back in 1994, and if they say they were dx with that specific term; they’re bullshitting you. There’s a reason it was changed, and current, licensed, trustworthy professionals wouldn’t use a term that was outdated by 26 years. If anything; the mimi “child I never got to be” could be seen as age regression as a cope with childhood trauma, I call hard bullshit on the DID diagnosis.
I feel like DID is more of not understanding yourself, but since I don't have and I don't make the rules. I can't say anything. But how do you feel, and how is like to live with DID? If you feel uncomfortable with answering its fine, just tell me.
@@kysscum111 In my experience- it’s a lot of time/memory loss. Like one second it’s Monday, then I blank for days- which is stressful as can be because there will be things I bought, people I met, previous plans I “flaked” on etc. For the most part people can tell the difference between my altars. But I do think OSDD (which is similar to DID) has a subcategory of not having amnesia, no switching and even having altars that are like different versions of the person (ie: you but younger, you now, you buy work involved, etc.). Some can communicate with altars internally, others not so much. And some describe their head-spaces as a physical room, and some describe it as a blank void with a spotlight/stage. So each person experiences it differently, if you do end up asking others about their experiences keep in mind that dissociative disorders may stem from trauma, so some people will be okay with explaining why they have it, others won’t!!
As a suicide survivor, I hate when people fake it for attention or threaten it for attention, because it feels like I'm being invaildated by people using this very serious thing for attention. It's the same way with depression. It's not some "uwu I have depression. I'm so quirky," disorder. It makes it hard to even get through a day normally and it shouldn't be some meesed up way of getting clout.
As someone with many mental disorders, (Including autism and depression) I'm disgusted, although I used to manipulate people, I NEVER, NEVER blamed it on my mental disorders, I did it because I was attention starved, and that isn't a mental disorder. I got better, and I've stopped, I'm now in a happy relationship with my girlfriend, whom I love very much. Manipulating people has nothing to do with autism or depression. (there are some mental disorders that have to do with manipulating people but autism and depression are not one of them)
there was a interview with lumi where she said she was pregnant and on testosterone. and i got immediate red flags. if a trans person on t wants to have a child, they need to get off of testosterone as it will effect the baby. i didnt see many people talking about that in the comments, i dont think enough people really knew but hey here it is
"Sociopath" Everything I've heard about her is similar to my 12-year-old sister, who has anti-social behaviors. It's typically diagnosed as "Anti-social Personality Disorder," where there's compulsive lying, along with manipulation of those around them, theft, and other things that typically make the average person want to disassociate from the affected person. Then, there's the possibility of gender dismorphia, making them want to disassociate from their own identity by making a new one. I am not saying they have either of these; just felt the need to clarify! What I am saying is that these are POSSIBILITIES, not certainties. Please correct me if I am wrong.
Disorders do not excuse behaviors, they can explain why you do certain things, but you are responsible for your actions and to resolve or handle your issues especially if they harm others
being self-reflective is very important and i appreciate your transparency and honesty as a creator it really encourages people to mimic that and i think that's really cool
You talking about your attention starved past really hit home for me. I am exactly how you described. I am now in a wonderful relationship but his culture and the way he was raised makes it so he expresses love differently so often feel attention starved again. im still actively trying to work past my issues. (due to covid no therapist in my area is taking on new clients so im kinda stuck figuring things out myself..)
from everything you've said, she had borderline personality dissorder, its in the narcissistic catagory, fear of abandonment, lots of relationship issues, emotionally abusive, threats of suicide, often they either hate your or love you no inbetween
Im glad you went over the "depression is a get out of jail free card" idk if they actually did, but i had a friend who would do a lot of things to hurt people like her five boyfriends that didnt know eachother, and blame my friends and i for it, claiming that her brain was being weird, and she had anxiety that made her lie -_-
Clinical social worker - just stopped to say autism doesn't really belong in the DSM-5 because it's not a "nurture" / mental illness, but a neurological disorder. Of course, I don't have the entire book memorized but I believe autism and schizophrenia are two of the only disorders that aren't developed from trauma/mistreatment/attachment/experience issues.
I had a girlfriend EXACTLY like lumi and we dated for 7 months....people like that are twisted. I became very scared of her when she tries to dm me and get me back. I hate people like that.
pleksa Bro I can relate. I’ve also been in a relationship with someone *exactly* like that :( it’s not fun and I’m still scarred but I got out of the relationship eventually and am trying to heal
5:30 ok so this left a really bad taste in my mouth, i am not defending lumi or excusing her actions or even saying that she has dissociative identity disorder (with is the proper term multiple personality disorder is an outdated term). Now disclaimer I don't have DID but am close with people who do so this is very personal to me however i am not an expert so forgive me if i get stuff wrong . An alter being a child (or a "little" as they are called in the DID community) is EXTREMELY common due simply to how DID is formed. DID is caused by repetitive childhood trauma so the child's brain comes up with an alter who can survive their horrible circumstances, this is why having an alter being "the child you never got to be" is extremely common and makes sense, hell my best friend has a child alter that serves that purpose so it just left a bad taste in my mouth when you called that "cringe". Furthermore that alter having a "froo-froo weaboo Japanese girl name" makes total sense when looked at how DID is formed, all of the alters are created by a child's brain meaning that said alter will be based on that child's perception of traits that would allow them to survive. Using another personal anecdote the friend that i mentioned before, has a fairy alter because she grew up reading a lot of books about fairies, and when she was enduring all of this horrible childhood trauma she thought, "oh if only i was like the fairies in these books i read, then i could fly away from this abuse" and thus a fairy alter was created. Again im not defending Lumi or attacking you. You probably didn't know (i always tell myself "i can deal with dumb-asses i cant deal with assholes" not that you're a dumbass im just saying i can't really be mad at someone for not knowing something). Sorry that this was lengthy i just have a lot to say.
First red flag: 5:32 You CANNOT name an alt. That’s a fact. I know THREE people who have DID/MPD and NONE of their alters were named by them. More than half the time people don’t even know they have alts until they’re either diagnosed or someone refers to them by another name. How can you name one yourself if you don’t even know it’s there?
I’m not part of the community (I don’t know how to make videos), but I’ve only been hearing recent drama. I do hope that this storm blows over. (I’m also on the spectrum on the very high functioning side, but it seems that Lumi is playing the “oh I have autism” card, and that doesn’t give her the right to be excused of her actions.) Also your art’s cute af! Are you using Clip Studio Paint?
I've always wanted clip studio paint but I fear my mac computer which was a used bought one for Christmas of 2016 the module is either a 2009 or 2010 might be on its way out it's acting kinda funny lately so the question is does clip studio paint have a app or mobile version of it and if no what or some good alternatives for an Android user
so she might not have been faking depression she might just not have known that she actually has an underlying dissorder (BPD) often when you have bpd you spend a lot of your time misserable while also being a narcissist
Once I was talking to my friend about mental health issues and suicide and she decided to one up me...? By saying that she watched one of her good friends jump off a roof and commit not alive on her 1 story school. She had also been at that said school for only a year at that point when she told me. It was interesting. She also had no emotion for something that serious while telling me. But idk could be true ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I watch these talking while drawing videos while drawing myself. Helps out the artist making the video and it's a nice thing to be listening to in the background as you practice art.
Depression feels like drowning in an endless sea of darkness, sometimes I feel numb, sometimes I feel extremely sad and cry even at odd things like commercials that are supposed to be happy yet it make me cry and hurts my heart, seeing people happy hurts cause I can’t be I’m stuck between sorrow and numbness, depression is awful, your sad or numb, have a lot of bad thoughts and have little motivation to do anything even the most easiest things become the most exhausting things to do, and it’s worse when you have depression, anxiety and adhd, mental illnesses are bad and I wish it wouldn’t exist and should not be used in that way, to everyone who feels like me I hope you know your loved, and cared for even if you don’t think so, some days are worse than others, but hang in there, you are loved,
Not related to the topic, just wanted to say that I really love the way you draw eyes and hair. I had my anime phase LOOONG ago but you make me fall in love with it again🤣 also, was it on purpose that you cut the video at around I think 8 minutes or something and showed a lot of the steps again? Or was that so you could strech out the video to fit the voice over? Cuz I was a bit confused at first like ".. didnt she just do that"😄❤
I put this at 1.25 playback speed so I could understand it better- Also, your voice is so smooth, and it sounds like it's easy to listen to! Love your art, btw-
Trauma does not excuse behavior. I grew up with a not so great mom, and realized I had been acting more and more like her the more she hurt me. After I realized this, I didn't excuse it and keep doing it. I apologized and worked on my patience and behavior. I have tried my best to be kind to others. I do not think it was ok for me to take my emotions out on others and be inconsiderate to others just because my mother was rude and took her emotions out on me. I am trying to move on and changed my behavior. So no, as someone who wasn't the best person ever, I do not think people can excuse their behavior with their problems.
Hello, Psychologist here. Firstly, I'd like to mention how much I appreciate your videos, information and how detailed your work is. Secondly, on the topic of 'Mimi' - Even if it were true you can't / don't blame your alters [other personalities] - You take responsibility for your actions and words and apologize as necessary, Having an alter isn't an excuse to be rude / manipulative / etc. and the fact she used "Multiple personalities" further proves that she doesn't have any clue what she's talking about because no one in the field would ever call it that, It's DID or OSDD-1b which is a very similar condition. Thirdly, Depression can lead to low tolerance and irritation which can end in anger or deeper depression to the point people will lash out or withdrawal completely BUT [not diagnosing] it also seems like she has some sort of narcissistic personality disorder which includes a lot of the things you mentioned, like - excessive need for admiration/attention, disregard for others feelings, an inability to handle any criticism, and a sense of entitlement. I agree, she needs to seek professional help and needs to get herself on track to better mental health.
While I was watching this, the whole “threatening suicide if her girlfriend left her” thing was giving me deja vu. Then I realized, hey, wait a minute, this is what my toxic ex did to me! Remember kids, don’t date someone just because you’re concerned about their mental health. If they’re a good person, they’ll understand when you try and get them help in a way that doesn’t negatively impact their friends or family.
Okay, so I normally go on UA-cam and comment my humor, but right now, I really want to share something. I had this friend group of 6 { 7 including me }. We all had personal similarities, which I thought was really cool since I had people to relate to. It was really nice, until they started talking about self-harm. I thought they were just having a bad day and did my best to help in whatever way I could. It became a pattern. They would be nice to me one day, cancel me out the next, then beg me to help them when they were sad. I immediately noticed this since the same thing happened at home. I no longer hang out with them.
Hey I'm autistic and I wanted to say that there's no such thing as "high functioning" it's kinda an outdated term used to invalidate people who aren't good at masking. :) Just thought I'd add that tid bit of information
I agreed with practically everything you said in your video. I understand that mental health is becoming an easier topic to talk about. Awareness is growing but sometimes I feel like that is a double edged sword sometimes. When I was at one of my lowest points with my depression, choosing not to take that out on other people was (and still is) vital for me. Unless you're part of that close group pf people I can tell everything to, most people just don't need to know how broken I am. I remember a time when I was interacting with two people of polar opposites. One was severely suffering with depression and his scars showed more than he could ever say, but no one but those closest to him knew what he was going through. On the flipside, there was another person (much like the girl you spoke about in your video) who was threatening her boyfriend with threats of suicide to stay together and skipping up to us saying she'd cut herself the night before with a smile. With both images to compare between it was hard not to see one as a parody of the other. That's not to say that the girl didn't come from a difficult home or that she didn't also need help but I do find more and more that "I have mental health issues" has become a synonym for "I can act "this way" and get away with it, and if you think otherwise you're being insensitive". Mental health does make us act and feel in ways that we don't usually and it can be difficult to fight, but I've always thought that despite anything that is going on in your life, mental health related or not, we always choose how we interact with people and that choice can be pretty hard evidence for the type of people we are. Sorry for the long comment ^^ loved the video and you raise some great point ^ Also the art is amazing, subscribed ^^
When you mentioned you don’t need to have a reason for mental illness, I felt that. Even when I’m at my most happiest, my mood can drop in a matter of seconds due to depression or anxieties. It just happens, there’s not always a reason for it. Sure things that happen in life can make it worse but not every time you feel depressed or have an outburst is it chalked up to “your mental illness causing it”. Also whenever I’m genuinely having a rough time because of something going on in my life and I become super sad, my mom is just like “You’re just gonna start your period soon that’s why.” Like jeez my mom and family thinks they have me figured out without actually asking me how I feel
I have nothing to add on the drama being discussed here that hasn't been said already...But on the matter of your art: Damn is it good! I love how you draw clothes in particular.
As an Autistic (Aspergers side of the spectrum) artist thank you for a) existing with your (imo) reasonable and correct views (AND beautiful understanding of what Autism actually is. You're right, we do have a different brain, but we're not stupid.) and b) calling out that Autism isn't an excuse and never has.
there's some things that i disagree with u- first, the term "Multiple personalties" is outdated, now its called "dissociative identity disorder", and i am no doctor, but she could have DID if she had some type of trauma revolving abuse, especially abuse caused at an early age. DID is based on a child, who creats another "personality" which it would be their "alter", alters can have different roles, like protector, trauma holder, prosecutor, caretaker, etc., that's just an overall. The other thing is, when she said that her "another personality" (which actually would be her alter) is a child, it is possible, especially the fact that she said "it's the like the child i couldnt be", or something along those lines. The child alter is created from the mind to have the childhood they never had, as much as sad and or cringy it sounds, its true. The only weird thing is that Lumi said its Multiple personalities even though now everyone who knows about it knows it as DID and if you are diagnosed with it, they tell you its DID. So she can be lying about it, and honestly it wouldnt surprise me, well anyways, love your content PSA: people with DID are normal as any human being, but survivors who deal with things we could never imagine, not killers or "the beast"
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Faking a disability is gross. That is all.
she probably does have a disabillity, but what she needs to do is get off the internet and get diagnosed and see a therapist, she needs A LOT of help
Amen
M o c h i yeah, disabilities are nothing to use as an excuse (unless of course if they’re paralyzed and they can’t run or something like that)
JinxLove well spoken my friend
“ depressed “ gachas: 👁👁💧
Imagine STILL calling it multiple personality disorder..despite the fact that multiple personality disorder doesn’t exist and it’s called DID. If she actually had split personalities, she would have known that
Multiple personality disorder was the original term, they probably googled it and thought they knew everything.
i hate people self diagnosing themselves with mental illnesses and then not even knowing anything about it?? like 🙄
SkyesRandomDoodles it was used up until 1994 it hasn’t been used in a medical field since. So yeah not diagnosed, also most people don’t know until they’re older
@@emilia6500 gosh it's terrible. Ex freind said she had social anxiety and when asked what it was she said it meant she doesn't like talking to people.thats not what it means and I was mad being someone who does have it :/
@@thebluemarshmello2082 Yeah, people that self diagnose really need to do a better job researching.
you can always tell if someone is faking having 'split personalities' when they say 'uwu I have multiple personality disorder, im so psycho nya'
It has been known as Dissociative identity Disorder since 1994 my dude, if you were diagnosed before then, any one of your doctors, therapists or psychiatrists will have corrected themselves and informed you of the change by now
@@MARS-th6er oh yeah no I absolutely agree that she has some kind of personality disorder, specifically BPD. I actually suffer from the same issues, I've had dissociative episodes in which I've taken in another identity and delt with the favourite person complex as well. Although I've learned to be non-toxic and manage my emotions better. But regardless of whether she has it or not, there's no excuse for her kind of behaviour. BPD could be an explanation, but not an excuse. She still has a lot of self growth to do, and her actions really don't have any justification to them. In my opinion she needs therapy and possibly medication as well. People with BPD have the capacity to improve, and I do hope that she is able to manage her symptoms better
I understand your point, but I want to inform you that not everyone calls it DID even when they have a therapist. For me (as an example) I have been diagnosed with DID and my therapist let’s me say Multiple Personality because I can’t pronounce Dissociative (my brain just doesn’t want to work that way). So maybe that’s why she’s saying Multiple Personality. (Not saying that what she’s doing is right, just wanted to clear that up :))
@@castiiellygames6913 I totally respect that and probably shouldn't have been so general in my original comment ^^
Since we're dealing with an online context here though I don't believe she's been formally diagnosed with DID as if she was i'm sure she'd opt for the easier route of just typing three letters rather than the very wordy 'multiple personality disorder'.
Im really sorry if my original comment had any negative affect on you or made you feel targeted in any way ^^ that wasn't my intent at all. Ive just dealt with a lot of edgy kids trying really hard to be like Jeff the killer or make complex and scary mental illnesses seem 'fun and quirky' or making 'pyscho' into a cute girly trait. particularly in this case with Lumi using a very serious disorder that causes real, genuine struggles to excuse her shitty actions and give her a free pass. My frustration might have bubbled to the surface a little there.
Hell, another one faking DID ? What is it about these people???
Stupid question but what’s the difference between bipolar disorder and DID
10:25 this idea of "Ok but what caused your mental problems?" Is something I actually struggle with ALL THE TIME! I have always had a fairly normal life. Yet I have bipolar, ADHD and anxiety. Like, I just have them. There is no reason. Maybe I can blame a few things for the anxiety but over all there is no reason! Mental illness just happens! I hate people who fake or exaggerate mental illness and act like you HAVE to have a reason for it all. No. Many things can cause mental struggles but many people just have them for no apparent reason at all.
thing like adhd and bipolar disorder can be inhereted, and anxiety sometimes develops pretty randomly from what i know. i have adhd and anxiety too, lol. sometimes it's really difficult to find out what's caused by trauma and what came 'naturally'. also, some illnesses are just there because others caused them. i'm in therapy for like 12 years now and i still don't know if my depression comes from the adhd, my childhood trauma, or if it just kind of happened. i'll probably never know. this stuff is so complicated i hate thinking about it because i only have very few braincells left from trying to understand this video
I would disagree with this. Talking to psychologists, there is ALWAYS a reason, it can be genetic, it can be socially related, can be trauma, can be stress and can be simply just hormone change but there is always a reason for mental illnesses no matter which type. They don't just "happen"
@@glasperle77 when people say a mental illness just happens for no reason, they most of the time mean hormonal changes or similar things. those are things that you can't control at all and that do happen for no reason. sometimes the body randomly fucks up something which results in mental illness. they're the same hormonal changes that happen because of stress (be it as a result of trauma or not). at least that's what i learned years ago, lol. cute name by the way!
Well the anxiety could actually come from the ADHD and the treatment you may have gotten because of it.
Bipolar is somewhat genetically but as far as I am educated (which can be wrong) has to have a trigger to properly form.
I have the weird feeling that Lumi has BPD (Borderline personality disorder) which actually can come from a traumatic event in childhood and/or childhood neglect so I don't doubt the abusive past. Which by no means is an excuse for her behavior but an explanation.
If one fakes mental illness they actually fit very well into cluster B personality disorders (Narcissistic Borderline and Anti social) due to their manipulative nature and craving for any kind of attention.
I've got depression and mine is just biological (;;;・_・)
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This drama is crazy, and fucked up af. I hope her victims are okay because she did so many bad things to them. Your art is rlly cool btw
I have a very close friend who has been diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, and depression and he is literally the sweetest person on the planet .... tbh anyone I've met who has been diagnosed with any type of mental illness or disorder is the opposite of manipulative or rude, in fact they're some of the kindest people I've ever met. btw if ur battling mental illness you are strong and you have earned a stranger's faith •w•)b also stay hydrated and happy heehar
Also, people with mentall illnesses are more likely to be harmed by other people. So it's actually kind of opposite.
Yes, true. They are sweet hearted and try to hide it. Which is why it's hard to find people with it. But good luck to him! Hope he feels well.
@@artlover5060 yeah, they're usually sensitive. Depending on the disorder they might rage or run away.
No, this is just false. Mental illness can and does cause people to do shitty things, and people need to understand that, otherwise they aren't real mental health advocates.
God you really didn’t have to make me feel so happy today-
Actually, depression CAN be an explanation for acting like a jerk. I have it, and I've had, unfortunately, countless of angry outbursts because of it. It's actually a pretty common symptom of depression to have random bursts of irritation/anger. What it ISN'T, however, is an excuse. You should be held accountable and apologize for your actions, even if the circumstances were unfortunate.
Yeah it does affect people a lot your right! But unfortunately it doesn’t really give an excuse but yeah you are very correct
@@angryari Yeah that’s why I said that at the end of the comment.
@@loveisasleep Oh ok your comepletely right!
Yeah. I bottled up so many of my emotions that I would have emotional outburst which really affected my relationships with people. I’m honestly so glad I’ve grown and I can talk abt my feelings.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK.
“Claims she has MPD. She named the identity Mimi”
No, there’s so much false information about DID right there-
@møønie You're correct. The alters already have names when they appear, the host doesn't get to choose. I spend a lot of time reading and learning about mental disorders simply because it's a hobby. Of course, I'm not professional but Lumi obviously has no idea what she's talking about.
@@slightlyexpiredyogurtuwu269 actually, minor correction. some/most alters have names, however some others have to be named by the host or given a name. talking as someone who interacts with systems and knows some systems who give names to their alters. hopefully that doesn't come off as rude and i'm sorry this is a month late,,
@@tamiko_ Not rude at all! I'm glad that you have experience and took your time to correct me. I'm always willing to learn more so thank you for informing me.
@@slightlyexpiredyogurtuwu269 no problem! ^^;
@@slightlyexpiredyogurtuwu269 thats not entirely true all the time, for example most of my alters have formed and had to go on naming websites and stuff to try and find something that fits, and a few of them even were named by the host and it just stuck. but yeah. this """MPD""" is probably bs
*sees Lumi’s name in the thumbnail* oh god I can’t stand this girl
I had watched Nawnii’s first video and as soon as she said she had faked suicide like multiple times to get people’s attention and such I just noped the hecc out. I have very low tolerance for that kind of manipulation
Edit: also that art is gorgeous; well done!
I want to like this but it has 69 likes soooo... :3
She accused an small artist on Instagram in her story a tracer when the artist number 1. reference the art 2.she gave lumi the credit 3. Lumi send her fans to bully and harrase the young artist which is disgusting not only that she will delete her post when she started the drama.
Oh gosh, I remember that. If you're talking about the artist I think you are, they're a mutual of mine and are really cool, but after Lumi did that, she (the artist) became really depressed because of the amount of hate she got. It's really petty and quite frankly disgusting that Lumi did that. I didn't think I could hate her more but now i completely detest her because of that move.
Hunk Chunk who’s the artist?
I’ve been in a relationship with someone extremely similar to Lumi. Even down to the voice and appearance. The girl I was friends with portrayed herself as an edge lord with a slew of self diagnosed mental illnesses, faked an array of things ranging from parental abuse to attempted suicide, had a creepy infatuation with an ex of hers even though she mentally tormented him and he wanted nothing to do with her, used being ‘non-binary’ as a shield, beat me down verbally, changed her persona constantly to the extreme that even her personality would change, and overall was a giant piece of shit. I ended up blocking her after half a year of trauma but she still haunts me to this day. I sometimes even have nightmares about her, and certain things related to our friendship can trigger me into having a panic attack. I encourage all those who have friends who behave similarly to Lumi or the ex-friend that I described to distance yourselves from them as soon as possible. It might be painful at first but you will feel a million times better afterwards. The sooner you get out of there, the better.
I'm really sorry you had to deal with that :-(
I had an ex girlfriend just like her.
Damn she’s still a thing? It’s better not to make vids about her because that’s what she wants. She gets off with that. She craves this attention
That's definitely true and why I was reluctant, but after learning more details I decided spreading awareness was worth it so others don't get involved with her 🥺
i think im in their server (maybe their old one)
im so sad that their art is so good :(
@@sweetkiiwiie i was in their server. their fanbase is so TOXIC. they kicked someone out for having a username similar to someone else. blagh.
I know right! People fake red bracelets just to get attention! It's disrespectful to the one who actually do it!
Keep up the amazing work Yuki! I love your art 😆
Have a nice day! - mellow
Okay but red bracelets is actually such a unique and helpful code word- thank you for the code word-
@@stellekoski your welcome freind- sorry for the late response I never get the notis 😅
wdym by red bracelet?
*cough* Gacha Kids *cough*
@@purplecaterpillar8658 Red bracelet is a code word for self harm
The problem with people faking depression is that it makes people think it’s normal to have depression. Yes, a lot of people do have depression which is sad but the truth. People faking it also affected me, for so long I didn’t want to accept I had depression because I didn’t want to fake it and be disrespectful. Then, I found out that I did have it and was slowly starting to gain suicidal thoughts. Faking depression causes so many problems and I think a lot of people don’t know that it’s actually a problem and disrespectful. Btw I love your videos and your art 😊❤️
Yeah
My parents didn’t even believe I had depression when I asked about it... Only after I actually got tested they finally listened. They also didn’t believe I was transgender just because that same person said it was to avoid unwanted attention. But here I am, four years later, ready to get top (and bottom eventually) surgery and Testosterone once I turn 18
Nyatsu that’s great! Congratulations!!
so so so so so many people fake depression and just ughdgiekweotrkwskfsls whyy
@@KasunaInsanity yayyy
I had to come early, it’s my favourite youtuber!
You're my favorite UA-camr random person I've never seen before
Love watching her art and listening to her♥️
I came here 3 months late... I am uncultured
@@BrookeABee I came here five months late. It’s alright mate
@@brokebackqmountain 9 months. But time is an illusion now
I would really like to learn how you do your advanced shading and lighting stuff on your artwork! I'm getting better at being consistent with the baseline stuff such as poses and creating characters but I can't color all that well.
I love how your videos are very informative but accented with humor, and we get to watch your gorgeous speedpaints in the background while listening instead of seeing some balding guy in a studio.
I don't know what to say, I have never seen a person that messed up. O̶k̶,̶ ̶w̶h̶y̶ ̶i̶s̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶r̶ ̶a̶r̶t̶ ̶s̶o̶ ̶g̶o̶o̶d̶.̶
Yeah... honestly worse than Toko and Jill. And well... that’s saying something 😂
Hello fellow teenagers killing eachother brutally and if caught also get brutally murdered fans
I know people like her
okay unrelated but OMG THE MUSIC- DARK CLOUD WAS MY CHILDHOOD I LOVE THAT GAME SO MUCH- you have taste, the music from that game is legendary
:0 hi!! I’m a huge fan :3
I’ve been watching Yukibuns so much recently because she is an amazing artist and the way she narrates draws attention and keeps me interested in the topic, I find myself going through her videos while drawing since she inspires me so much with her talent
1:05 - Ooooh! I totally recognize that song! It's from Sun&Moon Temple in the Dark Cloud videogame!
Spoiling your child is just another form of abuse... For example, my dad didn't know how to say no to me when I was a small child and did that spoil me? Yes, I got every I wanted and threw a tantrum when I didn't get my way. But was I better for it? No, it neglected my need to learn how to adapt, it stunted my growth as a person and meant the concept of failure was made to be something to fear, an idea that was later instilled even more in my later years due to a shitty school and that I've had to go through a lot of trouble to destroy will flaming fury. My mum had step in and teach me what no meant when she came back into my life. Ironic considering No was also apparently my first word but I digress... I'm not saying that what you said was "evil" or something, I actually agree with your general point, I just wanted to make a statement on that use of the word as somebody with a complicated history with different types of abuse...
"yeetus the fetus" GiRL I CHOCKED
As someone on the spectrum I feel like saying that in childhood, it can be especially difficult because you are different in alot of ways. And honestly when I heard about how lumi was clingy and manipulative I did understand where that came from. I personally got lucky with and amazing friend, but if not for him I mightve ended up clingy too. That being said lumi has done some horrible things and I'm certain autism had nothing to do with the decision making. Even if our brains function differently, we are still capable of basic human functions, such as kbowing right from wrong and need to be held accountable.
I‘ve behaved like a total brat in front of my crush and even today I feel so ashamed of myself but I just don‘t dare to face him and apologize even though I‘d really want to
I’m sure you have your reasons, but it’s best to learn to apologize rather than never learn to. He’ll probably think better of you for speaking up and admitting you’re wrong! It’s good to understand that you’re wrong, but acknowledging that you’re wrong to people - especially the ones you care about - really shows what kind of person you are!
It’s scary, but it’s worth a shot! And sorry if you didn’t want the advice, I’m just trying to help out! You don’t have to go through with what I say, just take it into consideration! Good luck with your crush! ^w^
Rosie thank you a lot, I really appreciate that someone took the time to give me so genuine and kind advice you really gave me some courage . I‘m still very shy and don‘t know how I should approach him since when school begins we are split in two different classes so I really don‘t know when the right time is. And this incident is still a while ago so to bring it up again would be very weird. but I still don‘t want to give up yet since I also want to tell him I like him at least until we go separate ways so apologizing for what I‘ve done is probably easier. I was thinking about writing him a letter or so since talking isn‘t my strength and who knows who would interrupt. I really hope I can do so and thank you so much for encouraging and supporting me.
I literally subscribed after you said “I will doo doo on your pillow, do you want to clean human doo doo off your pillow?” 😂😂😂 your humor is awesome!
I have to say that your soft shading is on point. It's so easy on the eyes and compliments your art really well. You have true talent!
I find it horrible and disgusting how common it is that people are faking disorders. It’s getting so bad, that the moment an actual person with a disorder mentions it, they are called out and are told they just want attention. I personally am still confused about my own emotions, society has pushed me to believe that I am not depressed, and that I am an attention seeking brat, and I have no idea anymore what I’m truly feeling, and I hate the idea that there are other people who have to feel this way. If you’re reading this, and you were diagnosed, and someone called you a fake, just remember, you are valid, your emotions matter, some people just can’t understand disorders very well yet. I hope you can stay strong, fight through this, and get better ^^
I had to pause at the five minute mark because I got heated: as a person with DID, every single person I’ve ever came into contact with that claimed to have DID or OSDD and called it “Multiple Personality Disorder” was 100% faking it. The terminology was changed back in 1994, and if they say they were dx with that specific term; they’re bullshitting you.
There’s a reason it was changed, and current, licensed, trustworthy professionals wouldn’t use a term that was outdated by 26 years.
If anything; the mimi “child I never got to be” could be seen as age regression as a cope with childhood trauma, I call hard bullshit on the DID diagnosis.
I genuinely hope that this didn't cause harm to your system💙
I feel like DID is more of not understanding yourself, but since I don't have and I don't make the rules. I can't say anything. But how do you feel, and how is like to live with DID? If you feel uncomfortable with answering its fine, just tell me.
@@kysscum111 In my experience- it’s a lot of time/memory loss. Like one second it’s Monday, then I blank for days- which is stressful as can be because there will be things I bought, people I met, previous plans I “flaked” on etc. For the most part people can tell the difference between my altars. But I do think OSDD (which is similar to DID) has a subcategory of not having amnesia, no switching and even having altars that are like different versions of the person (ie: you but younger, you now, you buy work involved, etc.).
Some can communicate with altars internally, others not so much. And some describe their head-spaces as a physical room, and some describe it as a blank void with a spotlight/stage.
So each person experiences it differently, if you do end up asking others about their experiences keep in mind that dissociative disorders may stem from trauma, so some people will be okay with explaining why they have it, others won’t!!
“this is why lumi left a bad taste in peoples mouth”
me, eating: 👁👄👁
As a suicide survivor, I hate when people fake it for attention or threaten it for attention, because it feels like I'm being invaildated by people using this very serious thing for attention. It's the same way with depression. It's not some "uwu I have depression. I'm so quirky," disorder. It makes it hard to even get through a day normally and it shouldn't be some meesed up way of getting clout.
Your voice is so soothing, and I like your art. :)
As someone with many mental disorders, (Including autism and depression) I'm disgusted, although I used to manipulate people, I NEVER, NEVER blamed it on my mental disorders, I did it because I was attention starved, and that isn't a mental disorder. I got better, and I've stopped, I'm now in a happy relationship with my girlfriend, whom I love very much. Manipulating people has nothing to do with autism or depression. (there are some mental disorders that have to do with manipulating people but autism and depression are not one of them)
Yukibunns: do you want to clean dodo of your pillow?
Me: ... It's not like I have something better to do during cuarantine.
corantine? what the f-
“Corantine”? Is that quarantine for Coraline?
Lol
(My friend, it's "quarentine". 😂)
@MinnowClaw why didn’t i think of that i-
'Curantine.'
Grammar 100
there was a interview with lumi where she said she was pregnant and on testosterone. and i got immediate red flags. if a trans person on t wants to have a child, they need to get off of testosterone as it will effect the baby. i didnt see many people talking about that in the comments, i dont think enough people really knew but hey here it is
"Sociopath"
Everything I've heard about her is similar to my 12-year-old sister, who has anti-social behaviors. It's typically diagnosed as "Anti-social Personality Disorder," where there's compulsive lying, along with manipulation of those around them, theft, and other things that typically make the average person want to disassociate from the affected person. Then, there's the possibility of gender dismorphia, making them want to disassociate from their own identity by making a new one.
I am not saying they have either of these; just felt the need to clarify!
What I am saying is that these are POSSIBILITIES, not certainties. Please correct me if I am wrong.
Disorders do not excuse behaviors, they can explain why you do certain things, but you are responsible for your actions and to resolve or handle your issues especially if they harm others
im going to be haunted by the thought of doodoo pillows forever, thanks yuki.
being self-reflective is very important and i appreciate your transparency and honesty as a creator
it really encourages people to mimic that and i think that's really cool
You talking about your attention starved past really hit home for me. I am exactly how you described. I am now in a wonderful relationship but his culture and the way he was raised makes it so he expresses love differently so often feel attention starved again. im still actively trying to work past my issues. (due to covid no therapist in my area is taking on new clients so im kinda stuck figuring things out myself..)
You art is always so beautiful!
from everything you've said, she had borderline personality dissorder, its in the narcissistic catagory, fear of abandonment, lots of relationship issues, emotionally abusive, threats of suicide, often they either hate your or love you no inbetween
Im glad you went over the "depression is a get out of jail free card" idk if they actually did, but i had a friend who would do a lot of things to hurt people like her five boyfriends that didnt know eachother, and blame my friends and i for it, claiming that her brain was being weird, and she had anxiety that made her lie -_-
How do you not get more views? The art is beautiful, your voice is soothing, and you've always made good points.
Okay but the art in the back is amazing 😳👌💖
Drama aside, your art skills are goals
Clinical social worker - just stopped to say autism doesn't really belong in the DSM-5 because it's not a "nurture" / mental illness, but a neurological disorder. Of course, I don't have the entire book memorized but I believe autism and schizophrenia are two of the only disorders that aren't developed from trauma/mistreatment/attachment/experience issues.
YESS THIS VIDEO IS SO WELL MADE ur content is amazing yuki!!!!
I had a girlfriend EXACTLY like lumi and we dated for 7 months....people like that are twisted. I became very scared of her when she tries to dm me and get me back. I hate people like that.
pleksa
Bro I can relate. I’ve also been in a relationship with someone *exactly* like that :( it’s not fun and I’m still scarred but I got out of the relationship eventually and am trying to heal
5:30 ok so this left a really bad taste in my mouth, i am not defending lumi or excusing her actions or even saying that she has dissociative identity disorder (with is the proper term multiple personality disorder is an outdated term). Now disclaimer I don't have DID but am close with people who do so this is very personal to me however i am not an expert so forgive me if i get stuff wrong . An alter being a child (or a "little" as they are called in the DID community) is EXTREMELY common due simply to how DID is formed. DID is caused by repetitive childhood trauma so the child's brain comes up with an alter who can survive their horrible circumstances, this is why having an alter being "the child you never got to be" is extremely common and makes sense, hell my best friend has a child alter that serves that purpose so it just left a bad taste in my mouth when you called that "cringe". Furthermore that alter having a "froo-froo weaboo Japanese girl name" makes total sense when looked at how DID is formed, all of the alters are created by a child's brain meaning that said alter will be based on that child's perception of traits that would allow them to survive. Using another personal anecdote the friend that i mentioned before, has a fairy alter because she grew up reading a lot of books about fairies, and when she was enduring all of this horrible childhood trauma she thought, "oh if only i was like the fairies in these books i read, then i could fly away from this abuse" and thus a fairy alter was created. Again im not defending Lumi or attacking you. You probably didn't know (i always tell myself "i can deal with dumb-asses i cant deal with assholes" not that you're a dumbass im just saying i can't really be mad at someone for not knowing something). Sorry that this was lengthy i just have a lot to say.
Kinda off topic, but your art is really cute, pretty and inspiring! :3
Keep it up!
〜 Kohana 〜 I agree!
Y’all sure do got a lot of drama for just drawing cute anime girls
it sure is something else, lol
First red flag: 5:32 You CANNOT name an alt. That’s a fact. I know THREE people who have DID/MPD and NONE of their alters were named by them. More than half the time people don’t even know they have alts until they’re either diagnosed or someone refers to them by another name. How can you name one yourself if you don’t even know it’s there?
And she's obviously self diagnosed because professionals don't call it Multiple personality disorder anymore, that's an outdated name.
To break from the disturbing topic, I got to say, I love your art. I love your shading and highlights and the awesome amount of detail. Good work.
Hey, I know this video is old but the ankles and eyes on the speedpaint in the background are amazing! You are truly an amazing artist!
Give the shading tutorial thoo
when you shared your personal story i was shocked because i heavily related to it ... also you sound super smart when you talk, i admire that ^_^
I'm glad that I found your channel, your videos are so AMAZING!! You are easily my favorite artist UA-camr!
I’m not part of the community (I don’t know how to make videos), but I’ve only been hearing recent drama. I do hope that this storm blows over.
(I’m also on the spectrum on the very high functioning side, but it seems that Lumi is playing the “oh I have autism” card, and that doesn’t give her the right to be excused of her actions.)
Also your art’s cute af! Are you using Clip Studio Paint?
Yes, that's clip studio paint!
I've always wanted clip studio paint but I fear my mac computer which was a used bought one for Christmas of 2016 the module is either a 2009 or 2010 might be on its way out it's acting kinda funny lately so the question is does clip studio paint have a app or mobile version of it and if no what or some good alternatives for an Android user
Storm Tellier it does! It has an ios version but it’s a monthly/yearly subscription
i love your voice! i always use your videos as my bgm while drawing:)
so she might not have been faking depression she might just not have known that she actually has an underlying dissorder (BPD) often when you have bpd you spend a lot of your time misserable while also being a narcissist
Once I was talking to my friend about mental health issues and suicide and she decided to one up me...? By saying that she watched one of her good friends jump off a roof and commit not alive on her 1 story school. She had also been at that said school for only a year at that point when she told me. It was interesting. She also had no emotion for something that serious while telling me. But idk could be true ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Thats a *y i k e s*
my brain is in constant whiplash between the things you are saying and the art you are making--instant subscribe
You really put a lot of effort into your videos, the art is always amazing and you do an astounding amount of research. Love your vids 💖
I watch these talking while drawing videos while drawing myself. Helps out the artist making the video and it's a nice thing to be listening to in the background as you practice art.
10:11 thats not something you, a stranger, can dictate.
Depression feels like drowning in an endless sea of darkness, sometimes I feel numb, sometimes I feel extremely sad and cry even at odd things like commercials that are supposed to be happy yet it make me cry and hurts my heart, seeing people happy hurts cause I can’t be I’m stuck between sorrow and numbness, depression is awful, your sad or numb, have a lot of bad thoughts and have little motivation to do anything even the most easiest things become the most exhausting things to do, and it’s worse when you have depression, anxiety and adhd, mental illnesses are bad and I wish it wouldn’t exist and should not be used in that way, to everyone who feels like me I hope you know your loved, and cared for even if you don’t think so, some days are worse than others, but hang in there, you are loved,
Clicked so fast
It made my day when you said “Mayhaps” !!!
Not related to the topic, just wanted to say that I really love the way you draw eyes and hair. I had my anime phase LOOONG ago but you make me fall in love with it again🤣 also, was it on purpose that you cut the video at around I think 8 minutes or something and showed a lot of the steps again? Or was that so you could strech out the video to fit the voice over? Cuz I was a bit confused at first like ".. didnt she just do that"😄❤
as a person with a younger sister with diagnosed autism, i can say that autism has nothing to do with abusing or manipulating others.
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DOO DOO PILLOWS. >:[
Bruh what is it with ppl surrounded by controversy and doxxing people and faking stupid ass things...
(Idk how to spell it but whatever)
Well it is spelled i-t
I just started watching you! your art is amazing and I love hearing you talk!
I put this at 1.25 playback speed so I could understand it better-
Also, your voice is so smooth, and it sounds like it's easy to listen to! Love your art, btw-
Trauma does not excuse behavior. I grew up with a not so great mom, and realized I had been acting more and more like her the more she hurt me. After I realized this, I didn't excuse it and keep doing it. I apologized and worked on my patience and behavior. I have tried my best to be kind to others. I do not think it was ok for me to take my emotions out on others and be inconsiderate to others just because my mother was rude and took her emotions out on me. I am trying to move on and changed my behavior. So no, as someone who wasn't the best person ever, I do not think people can excuse their behavior with their problems.
This is the only art youtube I watch that isn't in drama oh my Lord I just want to listen to topics while drawing qwq
Hello, Psychologist here. Firstly, I'd like to mention how much I appreciate your videos, information and how detailed your work is. Secondly, on the topic of 'Mimi' - Even if it were true you can't / don't blame your alters [other personalities] - You take responsibility for your actions and words and apologize as necessary, Having an alter isn't an excuse to be rude / manipulative / etc. and the fact she used "Multiple personalities" further proves that she doesn't have any clue what she's talking about because no one in the field would ever call it that, It's DID or OSDD-1b which is a very similar condition. Thirdly, Depression can lead to low tolerance and irritation which can end in anger or deeper depression to the point people will lash out or withdrawal completely BUT [not diagnosing] it also seems like she has some sort of narcissistic personality disorder which includes a lot of the things you mentioned, like - excessive need for admiration/attention, disregard for others feelings, an inability to handle any criticism, and a sense of entitlement. I agree, she needs to seek professional help and needs to get herself on track to better mental health.
Please do a lineart and skin tutorial! Pleaseeee
Omg I love your shading techniques
While I was watching this, the whole “threatening suicide if her girlfriend left her” thing was giving me deja vu. Then I realized, hey, wait a minute, this is what my toxic ex did to me! Remember kids, don’t date someone just because you’re concerned about their mental health. If they’re a good person, they’ll understand when you try and get them help in a way that doesn’t negatively impact their friends or family.
Okay, so I normally go on UA-cam and comment my humor, but right now, I really want to share something. I had this friend group of 6 { 7 including me }. We all had personal similarities, which I thought was really cool since I had people to relate to. It was really nice, until they started talking about self-harm. I thought they were just having a bad day and did my best to help in whatever way I could. It became a pattern. They would be nice to me one day, cancel me out the next, then beg me to help them when they were sad. I immediately noticed this since the same thing happened at home. I no longer hang out with them.
Hey I'm autistic and I wanted to say that there's no such thing as "high functioning" it's kinda an outdated term used to invalidate people who aren't good at masking. :) Just thought I'd add that tid bit of information
i feel like lumi is just trying to guilt trip everyone.
I agreed with practically everything you said in your video.
I understand that mental health is becoming an easier topic to talk about. Awareness is growing but sometimes I feel like that is a double edged sword sometimes.
When I was at one of my lowest points with my depression, choosing not to take that out on other people was (and still is) vital for me. Unless you're part of that close group pf people I can tell everything to, most people just don't need to know how broken I am.
I remember a time when I was interacting with two people of polar opposites. One was severely suffering with depression and his scars showed more than he could ever say, but no one but those closest to him knew what he was going through.
On the flipside, there was another person (much like the girl you spoke about in your video) who was threatening her boyfriend with threats of suicide to stay together and skipping up to us saying she'd cut herself the night before with a smile.
With both images to compare between it was hard not to see one as a parody of the other. That's not to say that the girl didn't come from a difficult home or that she didn't also need help but I do find more and more that "I have mental health issues" has become a synonym for "I can act "this way" and get away with it, and if you think otherwise you're being insensitive".
Mental health does make us act and feel in ways that we don't usually and it can be difficult to fight, but I've always thought that despite anything that is going on in your life, mental health related or not, we always choose how we interact with people and that choice can be pretty hard evidence for the type of people we are.
Sorry for the long comment ^^ loved the video and you raise some great point ^ Also the art is amazing, subscribed ^^
Wow, your hair drawing is quite impressive imo :D
i really liked this video, but a few things really irked me. like using "high functioning" for autistic people and armchair diagnosing sociopathy.
When you’ve never even heard of Lumistarbun and your handle has always been Lumi 😖
The 84 dislikes are Lumi and her personalitys
i watched alot of videos about Lumi, but I was mostly waiting for yours :>
I honestly love your art style!!
When you mentioned you don’t need to have a reason for mental illness, I felt that. Even when I’m at my most happiest, my mood can drop in a matter of seconds due to depression or anxieties. It just happens, there’s not always a reason for it. Sure things that happen in life can make it worse but not every time you feel depressed or have an outburst is it chalked up to “your mental illness causing it”.
Also whenever I’m genuinely having a rough time because of something going on in my life and I become super sad, my mom is just like “You’re just gonna start your period soon that’s why.”
Like jeez my mom and family thinks they have me figured out without actually asking me how I feel
i remember being the first one to comment on her princess ash video, being the first one to support her. ohhh booy do i regret it now...
I have nothing to add on the drama being discussed here that hasn't been said already...But on the matter of your art: Damn is it good! I love how you draw clothes in particular.
your voice is really calming and is really nice to listen o while doing chores or drawing 🤗
Her description of herself sound like an OC I could have done when I was 13 lol
As an Autistic (Aspergers side of the spectrum) artist thank you for a) existing with your (imo) reasonable and correct views (AND beautiful understanding of what Autism actually is. You're right, we do have a different brain, but we're not stupid.) and b) calling out that Autism isn't an excuse and never has.
I know this doesn’t have anything to do the video but can you do a how to Shade hair tutorial?
there's some things that i disagree with u- first, the term "Multiple personalties" is outdated, now its called "dissociative identity disorder", and i am no doctor, but she could have DID if she had some type of trauma revolving abuse, especially abuse caused at an early age. DID is based on a child, who creats another "personality" which it would be their "alter", alters can have different roles, like protector, trauma holder, prosecutor, caretaker, etc., that's just an overall. The other thing is, when she said that her "another personality" (which actually would be her alter) is a child, it is possible, especially the fact that she said "it's the like the child i couldnt be", or something along those lines. The child alter is created from the mind to have the childhood they never had, as much as sad and or cringy it sounds, its true. The only weird thing is that Lumi said its Multiple personalities even though now everyone who knows about it knows it as DID and if you are diagnosed with it, they tell you its DID. So she can be lying about it, and honestly it wouldnt surprise me, well anyways, love your content
PSA: people with DID are normal as any human being, but survivors who deal with things we could never imagine, not killers or "the beast"