When you don't chase the narcissist after the discard

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  • Опубліковано 12 гру 2024

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  • @CottonWoodBlues
    @CottonWoodBlues 11 місяців тому +50

    He didn't lose me..he threw me away..there is a difference

    • @lanamorelli6480
      @lanamorelli6480 8 місяців тому +2

      🎯

    • @trivenipatil5928
      @trivenipatil5928 3 місяці тому +6

      Yes he did but thank God he did.or There would have been no way out later!!

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 Рік тому +86

    They are wolves in sheep’s clothings. And that will never change. They have no self. They mirror other people.

    • @blastprosful
      @blastprosful 11 місяців тому +1

      In my case polish devil in prada.

    • @nadinesoussi7352
      @nadinesoussi7352 9 місяців тому +4

      Absolutely spot on ,they are also parrots ,they have no substance .

    • @emmamonroe3311
      @emmamonroe3311 9 місяців тому

      @@nadinesoussi7352 Empty meat suites with no soul or conscious. Delusional thinking, superiority, violate others to lift themselves up. Con artists, thief’s, one upping people, strive for dual mothership in someone and some have ASPD.👈🏻

    • @firstlastname84
      @firstlastname84 2 місяці тому +1

      Yep, that's why it feels so shallow. Can't get beyond whatever fragment of one their selfs they want you to see

  • @mostHigh23
    @mostHigh23 Рік тому +90

    My NEX is shook.😅 He can't understand. I never want to come in contact with him ever again.

    • @lewiswright-lg2dk
      @lewiswright-lg2dk Рік тому +1

      How long were you with him may I ask?

    • @IsabellaPiesch
      @IsabellaPiesch Рік тому +9

      They don´t understand yes. Because in their minds they did nothing wrong. But the key is you have to understand...

    • @roberteugenemartinezfrias5525
      @roberteugenemartinezfrias5525 11 місяців тому +5

      What a great term: NEX! 👌🥇

    • @Jennifer-xl5fh
      @Jennifer-xl5fh 11 місяців тому +2

      Good for you but it must be very challenging

  • @drewsibleyloans
    @drewsibleyloans Рік тому +60

    Sounds like a Seinfeld episode.
    NO SUPPLY FOR YOU!!

  • @blastprosful
    @blastprosful 11 місяців тому +27

    Unless you're discarded for another supply.
    They won't care. they monkey branched.
    They've already had time to see if the new supply had what it took to replace you.

    • @RandallGlatt
      @RandallGlatt 11 місяців тому +7

      or how about if you rejected Narky. That's the ultimate power position...

    • @diojeidic.8272
      @diojeidic.8272 5 місяців тому

      He said she was broker than me 😮

  • @cherylg.3465
    @cherylg.3465 Рік тому +37

    Nine years out with no contact and no hoovering.

    • @mostHigh23
      @mostHigh23 Рік тому +8

      Good for you 😀. Not for me. The smear campaign continues.😅. But I'm NC forevah😅

    • @uberbabe585
      @uberbabe585 Рік тому +8

      Jesus, 9 years and you still bother yourself with them? 🥶

    • @NimaAbdu-z1i
      @NimaAbdu-z1i Рік тому

      ​@@uberbabe585Yeah i have forget that asshol after 9 years.I try to forget him in 7 months

    • @catlover9680
      @catlover9680 7 місяців тому +5

      I was 16 years out! Then outta the blue the narcissist commented on my fb profile! I blocked him!

  • @aussieallstar66
    @aussieallstar66 Рік тому +22

    I'm going through that now. I was trying to end it and now he is wanting to come back but wanting me to make the move towards him. I feel so trapped in his toxic web. Thank you for this explanation. His predatory nature.

    • @anonymousanonymous4238
      @anonymousanonymous4238 11 місяців тому +6

      Let him rot and move onto bigger and better things. He can sit there and wait the rest of his life. He didn't care about you so why should you him?

    • @nadzirahfarhah3423
      @nadzirahfarhah3423 6 місяців тому

      dont give in

  • @gorillamax4872
    @gorillamax4872 11 місяців тому +30

    I’ve been watching this kind of content now for about eight years. There have been many good channels with excellent Content. I really appreciate the thoughtfulness and the way that you present your opinions on these matters. I also like that you don’t show your face or identify yourself because it forces the listener to deal directly with the Contant being presented. You’re not becoming a celebrity. And celebrity UA-cam channels are one of the most toxic problems. Congratulations to you!

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the kind comments!

  • @daryl9274
    @daryl9274 10 місяців тому +6

    Don’t go away mad, just go away fraud! I have all the love I could ever ask for right here in my own damn heart!

  • @MikeMadison-z7o
    @MikeMadison-z7o 11 місяців тому +8

    Empty buckets in character.

  • @Freethnkr
    @Freethnkr 3 місяці тому +5

    Dont think all of them expect you to beg them back
    They're too busy entertaining their new supply
    If they want your attention, it would solely be to feed their ego and trangulate you with the new supply to make it seem like you wanted them back so now the new suply is doing everything in their power to make them happy and seem like they are beter than you were..its all a game. But even that's gonna get old after a while.

  • @ainahaga
    @ainahaga Рік тому +17

    I keep thinking of my narsisist but I dont want to, cause he is leaving for Thailand and we are done. I hope I will never see him again. He can move on and have ll the supply he wants, but he will never have me again!

  • @HealthWyze
    @HealthWyze Рік тому +19

    A much better analogy than sharks would be vampires.

    • @cathy_clarinet
      @cathy_clarinet Рік тому

      I think the same 🧛‍♀️

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 Рік тому +3

      Both are after the victim's blood.

    • @JS-hb8nk
      @JS-hb8nk Рік тому +2

      Their sick, evil, twisted way sucks the very life out of people. What happens I wonder when two narcissists get together?

    • @cathy_clarinet
      @cathy_clarinet Рік тому

      @@JS-hb8nk oh that happens frequently I think

    • @JS-hb8nk
      @JS-hb8nk Рік тому +3

      @cathy_clarinet The idea of 2 Narcs together reminds me of the saying "familiarity breeds contempt"

  • @liftedenergy3693
    @liftedenergy3693 Рік тому +14

    The weirdest thing is that the past person started copying my behavior and regurgitating everything I have told her about relationships.

  • @amandaserle3343
    @amandaserle3343 3 місяці тому +2

    I discarded him right as he was starting to devalue me. Blocked him too. Never chased him throughout the 2 years he always chased after me. Was no love bombing we were friends for well over a year before trusting him enough to actually meet him. No silent treatments up until he started to devalue me . And being passive aggressive and sarcastic. I never chased him just went completely silent. Waiting to see if he apologised nope!! So hes blocked

  • @thereallisa1
    @thereallisa1 Рік тому +18

    He has hoovered me 3x in 1 year and all 3 were blatant insults. Dunno how he thinks he will make any positive strides that way!

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 3 місяці тому +1

      They are delusional. You will never understand them or their behavior.

  • @oisinroche6464
    @oisinroche6464 10 місяців тому +10

    If you drank from a well that was poison , why would you think going back to it would make you better.

  • @cajuncrackerranch7990
    @cajuncrackerranch7990 Рік тому +14

    Zero
    Nada
    Rien
    Nichts
    Faic
    Niente
    Nimic
    Wala
    A ohe mea
    Nihil
    Niente da più soddisfazione della pace.
    English translation.
    Nothing is more satisfying than peace ✌️
    And peace can never exist with a Cluster B
    Stay alert!
    Stay alive!
    Stay strong!
    Peace ✌️

  • @cathy_clarinet
    @cathy_clarinet Рік тому +11

    Really good material 👍

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 Рік тому +10

    It is soooooo nice to watch your video again ! ☕☕ Thank you ! ❤🤗

  • @eminemstrash2021
    @eminemstrash2021 11 місяців тому +8

    I have a covert narcissist that took me 4 months to figure out, by which time she went through a full cycle (idealization, devaluation, discard). Ive put up boundaries and made space, and now shes attempting a second love bombing/hoover.
    Im sitting on the side line observing, knowing and seeing everything, and shes slowly losing her mind and stability. Its really quite amazing and fascinating. Ironically in the end shes actually my puppet, whatever direction i choose will determine her reactions, its sort of funny, if it wasnt so depressingly tragic. I feel bad for her, even if shes become the same abuse that made her.

    • @RandallGlatt
      @RandallGlatt 11 місяців тому

      and that's how you stay 2 steps ahead of Narky...

    • @sazarac28
      @sazarac28 10 місяців тому

      Wow I know exactly what you’re talking about!

  • @6886a
    @6886a Рік тому +7

    Thank you Joe ❤

  • @amandaserle3343
    @amandaserle3343 3 місяці тому +1

    He lived alone was always alone 60 went to his place twice 200 miles away thank goodness. I know where he lives but he has absolutely no idea where I live or who my family and friends are. I can't believe such evil exists they know exactly what they are doing make no mistake about it evil personified toxic demons in disguise. Thank you from uk . 🇬🇧

  • @plumbmaster7022
    @plumbmaster7022 Рік тому +4

    Appreciate this stuff man. ✌️

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 3 місяці тому

    Excellent knowlegde, thank you Joe ❤

  • @debbiehepler2007
    @debbiehepler2007 Рік тому +6

    Thanks so much. Love your videos!

  • @619ken
    @619ken Рік тому +19

    Joe, love your videos and voice. How do you know so much? Experience it personally?

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 11 місяців тому +5

    One narc broke up with me by saying let's be friends. So I run into her and basically just say hi. An hour laer I get an email saying she felt really uncomfortable and she thought we agreed to be friends. 🤣

    • @callmeishmaelk767
      @callmeishmaelk767 11 місяців тому +2

      Then of course that was followed up by more emails saying she's really concerned about me. Lol

    • @CottonWoodBlues
      @CottonWoodBlues 11 місяців тому +3

      My ex narc suggested that too..I politely declined the offer. I would have been fine being a "friend", but not after having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship where he was the "love of my life" kind of relationship..nope. too late to try the "just friends" now.

    • @KK-sg5gl
      @KK-sg5gl 10 місяців тому +1

      lol mine said let’s be friends and then ghosted me for three weeks, then pretended nothing happened when I ran into them.
      Yup I left that in a hurry! 😂

  • @daryl9274
    @daryl9274 10 місяців тому +1

    They expected wrong! I’m stronger than that period! I really didn’t need any of em! Their mistake misjudging me!

  • @MikeMadison-z7o
    @MikeMadison-z7o 11 місяців тому +7

    Empty buckets

  • @Banobile1
    @Banobile1 8 місяців тому +1

    Such brilliant insight. 🙏

  • @adamslosar5574
    @adamslosar5574 Рік тому +5

    What’s really fun as you get to watch them go through a divorce with you, but before you divorce you need to get into therapy for a year and then you can just watch the shit show

  • @dezonwill33
    @dezonwill33 5 місяців тому +2

    My ex narcissist expected me to chase and beg for her to return I did the opposite and went no contact for 3 years come to find out it hurt her little ego so she was stalking me plotting revenge mad because she couldn’t use triangulation with me and the new supply’s) all them lies she told the new supply’s) about me stalking her wanting her back she looked stupid because of my no contact even her family members and friends was asking her did I reach out so she’s embarrassed and started plotting revenge but so much she can do now that my girlfriend lives with me shes stopping all Hoovers and my ex narcissist is a coward so she won’t cross that line with my lady

  • @firenote21
    @firenote21 4 місяці тому +2

    no they are not ..sorry to spoil it to you ..they are very busy with the new supply..they dont even remember you. sad but true.

  • @SUPREMELEGEND
    @SUPREMELEGEND Рік тому +15

    Narcissist is not comparable to an animal. Thats oversimplified. Becayse narcissist knows what its doing is wrong, and then hides and lies about it. Shark does not know what its doing is wrong.

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 Рік тому +2

      Joe is trying to explain how BOTH are Predators, which is true. That what I got from it

    • @SUPREMELEGEND
      @SUPREMELEGEND Рік тому +5

      @@SagittariusBabe87 it's a very small brain comparison which absolves the narc of all responsibility and accountability, which I simply will not allow.

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 Рік тому +6

      @@SUPREMELEGEND I understand 😔
      NARCISSISTS are the WORST, never accountable, terrible people.

    • @scottoz7891
      @scottoz7891 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@SUPREMELEGENDDumb Geniuses. Fooling you in the beginning. And getting Very sloppy AND stupid near the end...

    • @RandallGlatt
      @RandallGlatt 11 місяців тому +2

      Animals are out of Narkys league. My god look at the incredibly empathy dogs posses

  • @Dazz3881
    @Dazz3881 Рік тому +6

    🙏🎯🎱🙏

  • @palomahair8616
    @palomahair8616 Рік тому +4

    😢

  • @B-Nia
    @B-Nia Рік тому +5

    🙋🙋🙋

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 6 місяців тому +1

    They freak

  • @taraarrington2285
    @taraarrington2285 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m doing so much better

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird3639 9 місяців тому +1

    But he said he is preparing his life for a girl his parents would chose for him and i respected his wishes. He keeps blocking and unblocking his whatsapp profile pic from me.

  • @TriniStarr3527
    @TriniStarr3527 8 місяців тому

    🙏💙

  • @Soulfulnutritionandwellness
    @Soulfulnutritionandwellness Рік тому +11

    Everything about this is Artistic!♥️🧡🤎💚
    I’m glad your back Joe!
    🤍☕️
    #happysunday