building my actual house in the sims 4 bc my builder GHOSTED ME
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honestly jesse having a gate is so fair- privacy and security is super important. especially as a youtuber in the public eye. keep yourself safe babe!
Yea when she said random ppl are knocking on her door I was like bro wtf. I don't think wanting a gate is excessive at all?? It's perfectly normal. I'm also paranoid abt security but I think there's nothing wrong with wanting to be safe, it's only natural - one should do what they think is best to keep their minds at ease
It's honestly a great idea. if you wanted you could always put up a sign about a big dog or something and people will understand :P so proud and excited for ya babes luv ya and your info dumps. stay safe! there are also great indoor portable door locks that you can manually put in at night and its light and easy (and fantastic for travel) definitely recommend. have so so much fun designing your own world irl xoxox
@@yenovefa I think she means delivery people. In the UK we have letterboxes in the doors themselves which fit up to small parcels, but anything bigger being delivered they will knock on your door to deliver them. Its not like in America where the mail box is practically miles away from the door to the house. We don't have big fronts to our houses here, so that would be why it could seem "a bit much" to add in a security gate - it would be maybe two or three steps away from the door. And delivery people here are notoriously shit at bothering to ring intercoms to get let inside (or be told to just place the parcel down). If it makes them feel more comfortable to add one then they should go for it, but that's probably where the thinking came from.
@@yenovefa This is exactly why if I ever became a streamer or something I'd have some sort of avatar and a voice changer lol I'd just make it a character. That and prob just make sure that all my youtube/streaming stuff isn't connect to any personal emails or bank accounts
Hen, no need ever to fast forward through info dumps. They are always a hoot with dollops of profundity. I hate that your builder was a dick but I love that you stepped into the breach and are creating the house you want. Wishing you nothing but good, cozy vibes once you're settled.
+100. i love the rambling info dumps
it is so amazing to hear one of my favourite creators talk so candidly about having anxiety, it makes me feel so much less alone,.thank you and stay safe !
I had to do a double take here, I was sure I hadn't commented!
amen!
You can definitely put a keyed or numbered padlock on a fence around your house or wherever. It's your house, babe! Protect your space. You're not alone in feeling this way. Thanks for sharing! ❤
Tip to keep your living room calming with a busy wallpaper, you can wallpaper only the wall behind your settee! That way you never see it while you're using the room. Well proud of you for smashing the DIY, I hope it's bringing you lots of happiness ❤
Not a bad tip, but would not work for me. I'd still *feel* the busyness behind me
another way could be something i've seen my mom do - instead of doing the whole wall, do just a strip and paint the rest of the wall a nice corresponding color
@@ps1hagridoufofcharacter i love your username
@@TurangaNibbler thank u, i've actually been pretty conflicted about it but i appreciate it
Jesse ive also struggled with getting out the house, and something that rly helped me was doing simpler things, like going for a countryside walk, then going for a stroll to the city center, then to a supermarket. Basically easing yourself into it 😅
However everybody's different, and im sure autism makes it harder for you, but i believe you can do it :)
Edit: also, the grandad guitar thing is too precious, im sure hes proud of you wherever he is 🥹
Between anxiety(also very likely autism but between the one therapist I spoke to about it having a negative opinion of autism (I quit seeing her) and the fact that having an autism diagnosis could fuck me over in the long run when it comes to transitioning I'm not pursuing a professional diagnosis just going off of symptoms and a child psychologist telling me I should look into it after speaking with me for less than an hour) and chronic pain I don't get out of the house as often as I should or want so I bring my cat out into he backyard he loves it out their and needs to be supervised so he forces me to go out and at least get fresh air and some sun.(he is leash trained so I just have to follow him about the yard as he wanders) we also have a small corner store nearby (I live in a hamlet it's our gas station as well as general store) that I walk to once a week or so exclusively to buy myself treats that I almost never get anywhere else so that I always have something very positive to look forward to when I go there
@@ashrowan2143 I used my cat to get me outside too!
oh fuck yes. i've seldom left the house the past two years (i'm a student) but having a regular appointment, always the same time and day, has been pretty good for me. i've actually gone out with my sister and her friend twice (!!!) this year already
listening to you autism dump about your house and tech stuff is so comforting because I always do the same and feel like everyone hates when I do it and seeing a public figure/someone I genuinely aspire to be is just so comforting and safe feeling. thank you for being you
I get that same feeling. My ex wife would just interrupt me and say, "No one cares," so now I try to keep things to like one sentence or less and seeing someone being unapologetically themselves with info dumping is comforting.
I had tickets to see Hamilton this week but my anxiety was so bad this past week that I didn't attend. $189 ticket, months of planning, wasted. So I feel you, Jesse. Thank you for sharing your life with us... makes me feel less alone.
Your house is coming along nicely! It's super cool that you're tackling it with your mom. I can very much relate to your post-covid re-masking issue. I wasn't formally diagnosed with autism until this month, but I thrived during the lockdown. I lived alone, worked from home, and never had to think of excuses to get out of social events. It's significantly harder to function outside of my comfort zone after years of living under my ideal conditions -- lots of panic attacks, stomach aches, and therapy sessions. It's great to hear you're making positive strides. More are sure to come. I look forward to watching your streams again! ❤
she just has on the cutest little sweater vest.
From what I learned in my color theory class, blue, green and purple (cool colors) have calming effects, and counter act feelings of anxiety. (Which, LOL I painted my bedroom green and I forgot this, I looked it up for you) so maybe like a lavender for the living room? Also, always go lighter and add more white to the paint (also learned that in that class) because it will look darker in the room. And if you paint the ceiling, paint that one step lighter also. I did that in my bedroom also, and it looks like the same color, it was really hard edging it, I kept going over one or the other, so I recommend painting the ceiling with color first and taping it off.
Yeah definitely go lighter than you think if your aiming for a light shade on the walls my parents repainted recently and the lightest shade is meant to be just barely not white and when the first colour my mum picked went up it was key lime green on the swatch it was barely green, went back to the hardware store and picked out a new even lighter shade and it's much better, on the swatch of this one you could barely even tell it was meant to be a shade of extremely light unsaturated green but on the walls you get just enough of a hint of that green for it to be noticeable
When I was a teenager I chose a pastel lime green for my bedroom furniture (the walls were white) and my dad said "are you sure? you'll get stressed out about it" and now that I am in my twenties I can proudly say that instead of stressing me out, that color choice soothed the sh*t out of me (pardon my French)! I do not regret it.
I find warmer tones have that effect on me. Blue is cold and harsh & alienating as a colour to me. Its not at all calming. I hate it hate it hate it with a burning passion. Makes me feel cold & I hate being cold & it makes me uncomfortable and on edge feeling. People put it in bathrooms and I'm like WHY? Now it feels colder which is the exact opposite temperature I want my bathroom to be. Brrrr....
Green is way better, but then its a warmer colour when you go for the shades I like - the more yellow greens. So I do have lots of yellow green furnishings.
Purple I used to like in my mid teens until my Mum painted my room purple. Previously it had been a lovely warm apricot/peach colour. Really warm & restful. Like nice warm pillows and duvets to snuggle up in (can not get to sleep with a cold pillow/bedding, its torture!). When it was a sunny day it sort of amplified the warmth from the sun & made it feel bright & relaxing. Plus we didn't have radiators back then so my room got cold & only got any heat if we had the gas fire on in the living room as the flue went up behind the wall I had my bed on. In comparison the purple made the room feel so cold! No matter how much sun it got, it still felt cold & darker. Not at all a pleasant wall colour to have.
But then I also have this issue with lighting. Like don't get me wrong I love the energy efficiency of LED bulbs, which is all you can get here now (others have been banned), but most of them come in more of a blue white and its not as nice nor easy to see by as incandescent bulbs were. We had to spend ages finding warm toned white LED bulbs & they're still not perfect. Plus of course LED bulbs flicker (supposed to be slightly too fast for the human eye, but my combination of severe astigmatism plus autism makes it visible so that's "fun").
@@AlexaFaie - It depends on the blue that you use and which colors you use to compliment them. I have a tealy-blue + warmer green combo with white furniture for my bedroom right now and it’s great. Not too cool (I know what you’re talking about) but it’s still colorful and not too warm where I feel like I can’t relax. My bedroom is also my office so I need that blend of “calm yet ready to work.”
You can also add things to make it more cozy like little paper lantern lights or little prism bead decorations. I have a whole line of them in a west-facing window and at ~5 pm my whole room is filled with rainbow sparklies. And, during the full moon and at the right place, I get moon-sparklies, too. It’s really nice.
Hearing you talk so casually and confidently about your struggle with leaving the house/anxiety/finally unmasking and struggling to go back… damn, I couldn’t have said it better myself. I’m struggling with the same exact things right now, and it feels oddly comforting to know I’m not alone. Happy to see you manifest such a comfortable and cozy space for yourself, you deserve it! ✨💖🧚♂️
I developed Agoraphobia during lockdown and haven't meaningfully left my house in years now (that sounds so wild to say) so I totally applaud you for trying!! Even just going down to get my mail is a whole thing for me so I can't imagine how much I'd have to psyche myself up to go a restaurant - not to mention how hard it is to talk about it with people without it sounding like an overdone joke😅I hope you can hang out with friends soon!
Same here, I had symptoms for a long time, but COVID really kicked me over the edge. I can go outside very rarely, like once a year, but only when my security at home depends on it. It's still a nightmare. Otherwise, you know, can't even step into my own courtyard. I'm starting counseling soon. I hope we can both recover from this! At least for the occasional trip outside ;u;
@@dapper3160 I'll definitely be cheering you on!! 🤗
Hi, life-long agoraphobic here! (diagnosed in childhood, I'm 24 now and still struggle)
It’s different for everyone but the biggest thing that has helped me is fresh air and, believe it or not, losing one of my senses.
DARK sunglasses outside and a blindfold in the house (one-level home) when I have days I’m too afraid to leave my room. Less to see, less to panic about. Obs only do these if you have the means and safety but it helps me so much. I’ve had days so bad that I was terrified to get out of bed but had no choice but to leave home for whatever reason. I’ve been blindfolded everywhere from theatres to the Drs office and even the grocery stores (I don’t drive bc of anxiety).
Also, comfort items! Lots of people have things like worry stones, I have headphones and a beanie horse. On days I can’t be brave for myself, I’m brave for my beanie horse. 98% of the time my headphones aren’t even on, it just makes the world quiet. Blocking out one of my senses makes the world manageable because it’s less input and therefore helps make the world less AAAAAAAAAA. With covid when I was double masking it helped mute sense of smell (no it was not covid 😆 I used thick masks) so it was just another sense to remove and conquer.
I also bought a 15lb weighted blanket (and later a weighted vest for when I left the house) right before they got popular and it's helped so much.
Hype yourself up and realise it’s okay to have days where you stay home. I am constantly taking moments to breathe when I get the paralysing agora anxiety no matter where I am. Everything is an accomplishment. Mail, stores, even just looking out the window when the agora is bad. At its core, it's just another face of anxiety. It's something that can be conquered even temporarily. It is something that we ARE strong enough to overcome, even just for a day.
When the world is bad
And the agora hits
I always remember
I am a bad bitch 🖤
Same here! There are good and bad days, but we should keep trying anyway. Cheering for both of you.
good luck you folks! this sounds very scary, and i bet it is. but y’all will achieve your goals. 🥳
Honestly, this came at exactly the right moment for me. I'm at uni right now, and I hadn't left my room in weeks - not even to go to the kitchen, because it's shared. I just ordered food in and ate snacks like a rat lol. Hearing you talking about how cancelling things only makes you feel good in the moment resonated with me so powerfully; it made me realise I haven't been looking after myself. It sounds ridiculous, but that advice to at least try genuinely got me to stand up from my desk and go for a walk straight away, I made my mind up just like that. Who cares if it was a short one, or that I was in pyjamas and it was 6am, I haven't felt this inspired to better myself in months! Listening to you speak so candidly, you put into words exactly what I needed to hear, and I cannot thank you enough for being such a positive presence not just in the Sims community but on the internet in general. So seriously, thank you Jesse.
relate so much as a fellow uni student, thank you for sharing 💜
i feel for you and relate to this situation so much, my first year at uni i had to defer & restart again the next year because i got so stuck in my room. right now i still struggle sometimes, but it's improved so much. going outside and seeing sunshine/greenery can change ur mindset so much more than you'd expect, finding some quick meals you know how to do in the kitchen without getting overwhelmed, etc.
i might be projecting rn, but i really hope u can find good ways to cope and like, make baby steps back outside again. i believe in u!
Definitely go for a fence and gate if you want it! You can have climbing plants or a cute style to accent the house while giving you a barrier of safety.
You are doing absolutely stunning, absolute role model vibes right there
i love listening to your stream of consciousness about how you experience life - its really comforting to know there's someone else out there who feels the way i do. im not alone or crazy. thank you for sharing with us
the idea of your grandfather's guitars is so cute! i lost my grandad around the same time and your videos always helped me feel better
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I love the life updates!! I’ve been coming to the realization that I’m autistic and not just OCD, and I cannot express how validating it is to hear you talk about your experiences! The world can be scary and life can be hard; I love hearing anything that you feel comfortable sharing because it helps to quiet the thoughts that tell me I’m the only one struggling. Love ya!! 💜
i'm so glad i found your vids because holy shit we're so similar and hearing someone else talk about it all is really validating. i have super bad social anxiety and ADHD and its just nice seeing someone with the same shit but who is just really funny and relatable and great to watch. genuinely appreciate you!
Jess, info dump on us whenever you want. It's your channel and we're here for what you have to offer 😊 personally love hearing your info dumps and hearing what's new in life, both the thorns and roses 💖
I get ghosted by men
Jesse gets ghosted by builders
Honestly, it's so amazing that you have a such positive mindset. It's so sweet to see you talk so openly about yourself, and if you feel like it, do share more stuff about yourself, about how you feel and all. We really love you here
I love the idea of a parcel box. I’m planning to build one for my house too.
I love you!!!! Love hearing your positive affirmations and what you’re doing with the house and talk about your anxiety. I got one, understand the not wanting to leave the house…I really don’t unless for work and that is enough social interaction for me right now. You’re doing an awesome job staying positive!!!! ♥️♥️♥️ love you Jessie
I could have listened to an entire podcast from you today. I was a bit down and out of sorts and you made me feel like in a safe and homey space. Thank you 😊
Unrelated kinda, but as someone who’s mom wasn’t in their life I LOVE hearing how close you and your mother are. I’ve always enjoyed the videos where she’s in them. I kinda think it helps heal me. Apologize for rambling lol. Anyways big thank you to you and your mom! Hope the new place is the home of your dreams!💕🥹
We love the life updates with cool builds, your videos are such good vibes 💖💖💖
jesse i would love to see the progress as you work on your house! It would be such a fun series to watch you decorate your home, not to mention it would be fun learning the diy tips youve picked up haha! 💗
I cannot stress enough how important it was for me to see you today. The idea of going back to who you were, when who you were was a mask, is something I needed desperately to hear. I’ve been struggling with that for a year but couldn’t get it into words. You nailed it and I am so grateful. Thank you, Jesse. You are a gift. ❤❤❤
edit- also, yes, I wanted to ask how you were doing so it’s very welcome. Thank you for the update and the therapy. Love you.
i'm also autistic with really severe social anxiety and listening to you talk about the fear of letting friends down because you can't be the person you used to be resonated so much with me. it's so comforting to hear you talk about this because it's something i've always felt so alone in. thanks jesse
I love hearing the updates! I spend the whole weekends alone playing sims and always have yours or Kaylas videos on at the same time just to hear people talking without me having to actually socialise ahaha ❤
i’m autistic but i don’t have any autistic friends so it’s really comforting to listen to you talk about it & have someone to relate to in that way. it really does make me feel less alone. so don’t apologize for talking about autism or info dumping because it really is some of my favorite parts of your videos ❤️
I'm sorry if this sounds off base but I love how small and cozy (if not traditional) Jsss's house looks. It's very different from many UA-cam houses which tend to be pretty big, white, modern, open concept (at least in America). The change of pace is actually refreshing to see as someone who also lives in a smaller, older house w/ family. :)
you have just made me feel SO SEEN. I know I’m going to use the thought “I’d be miserable at home anyways” to force me out! I honestly didn’t leave the house at all for 6 months when I was 15. I wish someone had given me this advice. I probably wouldn’t have helped me then, but I wish it was just something I could’ve thought about. THANK YOU!
Love the update! I am a creature of habit who is moving states this summer so it’s so nice to hear someone else talk through their anxieties. It’s exciting! But also anxiety inducing at the same time
don’t fret about the info dumps!! honestly as another neirodivergent person i find them really interesting and relatable :)
Ah hearing you talk about personal mental shit was so great, I can relate to a lot of it. My anxiety has been holding me back for years and my dog phobia is horrific.
thank you for being so open about your anxiety and mental health. it makes me feel less alone and less weird for knowing that theres other people that feel the exact same way i do
honestly could listen to you infodump about anything for hours you have such a way with words
Thank you for the info dump babes! I’m so excited to see your house cause it’s literally my ideal viiiibe, I love it babe 💕
i love the updates! it just feels like catching up with a friend, hope that you have a great week! the house is coming along great🩵
Please, don't skip (and apologize for) your infodumps! I'm also an autistic simmer (since the first game yoooo) and you make me feel less alone. Your channel is one of my comfort channels 💜
I haven't sought out an autism diagnosis, but what you said about unmasking during Covid and not being able to go back really resonated with me. (There's nothing quite like trying to accommodate your parents' wishes by going to church only to have your first public panic attack.) Also keeping in the tangental info dump by speeding it up was **chef's kiss**
I love watching your videos so much, no other youtuber is like you! Its not just a video, it's a conversation and I love that you can vent freely and talk about anxiety and troubles in your life ❤️
Keep it real :)
Love your content so much Jesse, so relatable and it honestly feels like just hanging out with a friend. Wish you all the luck in the world with your house and can't wait for streams again! Love rewatching previous Mumbella streams ❤
Literally every single thing you said about mornings is SO relatable. Then the social anxiety? BABE SAME. I have a gate with a code, and I love ittttt. My husband is actually getting me out of the house right now and we’re going to antique shops. It’s such a struggle, bestie. I just relate to you so much, and I’m so so so amazed and proud of you! Also getting the kids copies of your keys so they can feel like your house is their space too?! 🥹 my heart.
Thank you so much for this video! It means so much to hear other people talking so openly about mental health! I've really struggled post covid with masking too, and currently in such a burnout after some ✨trauma✨
You're videos always make me feel a bit better though so thank you 🥰
This looks so adorable! Thank u for sharing your new life updates, wishing u all the best 💕
Watching this made me smile and the ending of you recreating your kit wallpaper was sooo cute - you’re my favourite youtuber 🥰
I loved all your infodumping and stories so much. It was so fun to hear and also relatable
Jess I'm so glad you talked about the irrational anxiety towards the middle because I'm going through the exact same thing right now and it's affecting my life as well. It's comforting hearing you talk about how you struggle and cope with something I'm experiencing, u encourage me to get help haha
you are so real for this. i hard relate 💁🏻
also you talking about your bestie gives me hope for me finding (a) friend(s) despite how hard socializing is 💜💜💜
slay on girlie & i love seeing your house updates bc WE CAN DO ANYTHING WE PUT OUR MUNDS TO !!!!
/genuine /positive
genuinely loved hearing all these life updates, excited for your new house set up and just everything you were sharing with your friends and family sounds so nice! been following you for a while and it's been really great to see your journey so thank you for sharing!
I love watching watching you in the zone chatting it up! ❤
I’m so excited for you to start streaming again🥺❤️ I’ve missed you. But thank you for being so honest with your anxiety it makes me feel less alone. And thank you to everyone in the comments also sharing their experiences
This video is one of my faves. Listening to you get your feels out was so nice, for real. ❤ keep info dumping on us! And your new house looks so freaking cute ❤
It's so comforting to hear you talk about all this stuff. I'm going through a lot of anxiety and autism things and i feel so isolated and alone its horrible. So it's nice to know that hey other people go through this to and your not alone, so thank-you
I love hearing about your life! I'm also trying to upgrade my home myself so it's nice to see someone else doing it, too! Your kitchen looks amazing and the Sims build version looks so cozy! ❤
I'm SO beyond excited for you to be streaming again! Especially for Sims & Witcher! ❤❤
I love the info dumps they are always my fave videos ❤
the idea with your granddad's guitars is so beautiful, i love that so much
I think having your grandad incorporated into your filming space is such a great idea I can’t wait to see how it turns out irl 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Totally feel your conversation about masking and feeling like you're letting old friends down
Also I completely agree with you on black-out curtains! I love waking up with a little bit of sunlight.
I can't sleep when it's completely dark either. The darkness feels threatening somehow.
I think it's wonderful that you know who you are and work on it all the time. Good for you, Jess.
I really appreciate your openness because everything you say I resonate with so much and it makes me feel so seen and so not lonely ❤
It would be so cool if your pastel pop kit came to life in your room - the wallpaper, items, everything.
She did the wallpaper 😍
Thanks for another great video! Wishing you all the best vibes and progress on your home reno!
Yay!! i love the life update and positivity! its great to hear from you
omg i LOVE the guitars in the background idea. so happy to be able to help carry on the memory of jesses grandad in any small way
I do have to say feral absolutely describes kids eating. Just running around shoveling food into their mouths. 😂
You sharing your feelings and experiences is really helpful for me.. also inspiring because I feel the same and it’s nice to know I’m not alone. Thank you for sharing with us, I am very grateful I found you.
I love listening to you info dump and it’s so helpful to hear you talk about autism as I recently realised I have it. Your videos are just as much therapy for me as they are for you!
Going through what you're describing about canceling things, feeling relief, and then immediate regret at not even trying..
so sorry Jesse! hope ur doing better! love your vids!
i’m moving into my first apartment in a couple days so this decorating stress is ✨highly relatable✨ (also please don’t ever stop infodumping i love hearing other people talk about their interests!!)
Dude! Your 2020 story is mind blowing to me. I had gone through a very serious break up, the uncertainty of being a band Director, and not knowing if I’d have a job due to global pandemic, depression, and crying for about nine months when I found your channel and I binged all of your previous content. Crazy to think you were really going through it, when you’re saving me while I’m going through it!
i love listening to you infodump! relatable 🥰
I liked watching the info dump!! From someone who works at a tech store but know very little about tvs, it was helpful info :)) ty so much for you openness in talking about anxiety aswell. I relate a lot to your feelings
I loved hearing all of this I'm so glad your house is going better now and it's gonna be so comfy!
Can relate on the oh shit I've unmasked and now idk how to go back to that, but honestly I don't think I'd want to? I hope you get more happiness and calm from being able to just vibe instead of masking all the time
Love your vids!!
Thank you for sharing!! Your positivity is infectious 👏🏻👏🏻
Glad to hear things are coming along with your house. Thanks for keeping us updated. I hope the positive vibes continue to grace you and stay well. BTW lmfao on the sped up part of the video.
I liked those positive affirmations at the start, I oughta try them out! I've been working on my anxiety for years and I really appreciate it when you talk about it 💚 Re-wiring your brain is a pain in the ass but so worth it.
Your work on the house is looking great! Excited to see the pastel pop office irl!
Love the positive affirmations!! Good look in your reno, I'm on the same journey with my new house and also planned it out for fun in the Sims 😂
absolutely love when you info dump, pls never stop
TBH it is therapeutic as a person with autism and ADHD to hear someone be so relatable while playing my favourite game. The morning person who hates morning thing, the socialising struggle with masking but not wanting to give up, wanting a gate to stop people invading your space, it's all familiar. Love a good infodump from you, keep at it!
Love ya Jess! I enjoy these life/info dump/therapy session videos. 9 think they help us out just as much, I always feel happier/more positive after watching your videos as well. And the house/your house looks amazing!
Honestly I love the infodump videos. It reminds me why I love you so much as a human and youtuber. Good luck with all the work ahead! Can’t wait to see the final product😍
the layout of your new place looks so cute!!!! i hope everything goes well❤
If you want to keep the living room calm but still have a pop of pattern it might be a good idea to do an accent wall where the fireplace is maybe ! Love watching u plan out your dream home
i also have a blue couch in quite an old/eclectic apartment. i've found that focusing less on colors/fabrics and more on natural materials makes the space blend together a lot better. there's a lot of color in my living room but also a lot of woods, metals, and glass, a lot of it secondhand. so there's a lot going on, but it's easier to mix and match natural materials rather than colors imo. definitely is a trust the process sort of thing, and the great thing about it is you can always change it up again, especially if you lean into more of the eclectic side of design! :) also, when in doubt - throw a lamp or plant down and call it a day.
OMG please make more of these infodump videos, for some reason they're rlly comforting to me, ur amazing
Girl, listening to you info dump was so amazing 🤩
Thank you for sharing, we are always here to listen💖 It's nice to know that I am not the only person who's brain works that way sometimes!!! Love your content as always! Also loving your DIY, it makes me so excited to decorate my ne flat!!!!!!! Sending positive vibes only💕
the part about the routine, being a morning person, and sleeping habits sounded like you took it from my brain. i am glad i am not alone, we got this :-) also tough when most of my friends are night owls. then i get my socialization in when i'd actually prefer to be prepping for bed/sleeping... and then i get up late and i don't get my morning time. other stuff is highly relatable and you aren't alone, but that hit me in particular. thanks for sharing and always love to see what you're making!
Thank you so much for your positivity, as well as your openness and honesty. It’s a nice combination :)
I love how you share and infodump. Your house looks great. ❤
Mate, this was the most comforting video… it’s like catching up with an old friend who communicates in the same way that I do. Love you girl xxx
I’m so glad you speak so freely and candidly about your experiences with anxiety and autism. I don’t think enough people understand how debilitating anxiety can be for some! I’m sending you so many hugs! I love the mantra of “even if I fail, at least I tried!” 💕
Ooof so sorry to hear about your building woes :( My family his also had a SHITE run of builders with every project we've tried to do, including builders leaving a house half finished, ghosting and then declaring bankruptcy, not doing the plumbing properly so water came pouring through the ceiling, not insulating bedrooms during a loft conversion so I lived my whole teen years in a freezing room. It's so hit and miss who you get in that industry and it's so frustrating. I hope everything works out though x