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Hey Pea, sounds like you hung out with alot of white families...wish you would've of hung out with people of color/ethnicities there where the customs are more along the line of Filipino people...ettiquette and food wise.
My wife lived in the States for 31 years. She loves it there.. We went home to the Philippines every year in the summer to visit her family we built our house here 30 years ago..When we retired we moved to the Philippines full time..our house was already waiting for us..Now we go home to the states every March and April to visit family there and to travel around the country we love driving out west seeing all the different landscapes. THE USA has a lot to offer if you just give it a chance.. Now we dont consider ourselves expats..and we are not retiring here forever. Before i turn 69 or 70, we are moving back to the states around the west coast of fla, mainly for better health care facilities and to be around our family more as we age..
Your story sounds like my story. We lived in USA 26 years in California. Retired here in 2015. Been here 8 years. I am 70 and wife 64. Not ready to go back yet to live in USA. We stay doing health things. Like you we come and go as we choose to!
@morrishooks7536 we do love travel here, too. We love going to Singapore and Australia, but Singapore is easier to get to.. We just made reservations for next June. Celebrating our 42 wedding anniversary and my 65 birthday. Hopefully, within 5 years, we'll be living in the Bradenton fla area to spend our golden years in.. Better hospitals, better restaurants, and much better electric grid.. Hopefully, our health will still be good enough to fly back here to stay for a month to visit family
@MrSGL21 Hopefully we can put down 350k on a Villa maybe a little more by the time we decide to buy.. people are buying villas all the time.. the insurance isn't all that bad on new villa's its the old houses that aren't built for storms that are expensive to insure. We've done pretty good with our investments and saving. We have just over 800k to play with.
When my wife first arrived in the US she couldn’t believe she was actually in a city because of how quiet she said it is. One of her first comments was also “where is everyone?” Because there were houses every where but no one outside.
Yea, we really don’t hang outside. It’s more comfortable inside. Other countries hang outside bc it sucks inside.
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@@franciscoburgos787, Swede here. We're all outside in the summer... not because it sucks to be inside but because of the long, cold and dark winters we're all basically sun worshippers. ;-)
My wife arrived during the summer here. We live in Kentucky so summer time is pretty miserable outside. 36C average temperatures with 99% humidity. Once the heat breaks and summer turns to fall then there are lots more people outside enjoying the cooler weather.
As an American living in SEA, that is the one striking difference for me too, everything seems so empty and lonely in the US, even larger cities. Asia is very active and bustling at the street level.
@@travelandmore808Yes, the advent of ubiquitous internet changed society. Malls used to be at LEAST twice as busy as they are on a typical day now, and I'm under 30 years old. It's actually really sad to live your entire life and people just want to hole up inside and be left alone. And I'm guilty of that myself!
My wife lived there for 13 years before we retired back here to the Philippines. I think honestly The Philippines is certainly a great place to live and be retired. I am currently in the US, and cannot wait to get back to The Philippines. I miss my home.
I Agree with you on the tipping culture here in 🇺🇸. It wasn’t that way before and most of us Americans don’t like it either, especially, if we’re the ones picking up our orders! Glad you’re back home safely, Ms Pea! Thanks for visiting our Country and I’m glad you enjoyed your stay!
Agree 100 percent on the US tipping culture. It's out of control. Currently traveling the world and so glad I don't have to deal with any tipping at all, anywhere, in Australia, Malaysia, and many other places. In other countries where there is tipping, such as Thailand, it's maybe 10% at most.
There was one waiter at a surprisingly good restaurant - I wanted to leave him a tip because he was exceptional, but he said that he could not take it. The employers PAY their waiters here. It is bizarre to me that this is even a talking point. OF COURSE employers should pay their waiters LOL
The tipping culture thing is super recent, last 5-10 years. Before that it was cabs (but not ubers) barbers and waiters only, and maybe small amount for valets or porters at a hotel. I am in my late 30s and just ignore all other tipping than the preceding. It's basically part of the growing trend of self-victimization.
@@patrickwilliam3322 I agree, though I don't think that's the reason. I think it's because businesses can do tip pools and skim off the top, and of course if they can pay their workers less because they get more wages it's a win-win for them. So I agree, I typically don't tip outside of the things you mentioned.
Those 7 pounds didn’t look bad my dear Pea! Thank you for coming to see us and for the positive feedback. You’re welcome anytime you want to visit as you only make our lives better by your presence. See you Friday, ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@TheFilipinaPeayeah I thought about warning you about American food. I have a theory that it is genetically engineered/modified to make you crave it and it is designed to make you gain weight. That’s why I cook all my food from scratch at home and don’t eat out in restaurants much.
Yes Pea, the toothpicks were for stabbing the grapes or cheese and eating, but not many people actually do it that way. Grabbing with your hands works just as well. No one suspected you were a foreigner because you have no accent. You speak perfect English. I agree with you that tipping every worker has gotten outrageous in America and prices for any service call for a repair or just a haircut are way too high! Only 7 extra pounds? Don't worry about it.😍
I disagree, the toothpicks are most likely not for that, but for cleaning your teeth afterwards. I've literally never seen anybody in America spear a grape with a toothpick, that just sounds absurd to me. I could see them being used for the cheese and maybe olives in some sort of mini-sandwich or some similar configuration, but that's so rare it's not even worth mentioning. Where I come from (Indiana), every single person in the room would've used their fingers for the grapes AND the cheese.
I would think the toothpicks are for the cheese and cannot imagine them for the grapes. I have seen toothpicks for lunchmeat slices as well. You sometimes see a spoon if nuts are offered but sometimes not and you must use your hands. @@ghostsade3
So glad to hear you confirm that your 3-month visit to the southeast corner of the USA was a positive experience, Pea. The seven pounds you gained during your visit to the states do not make you look fat. You look just right. 👍❤
I am a 67 year old Aussie been to the States numerous times since my first visit in 1974, sometimes staying for a few months. Most americans are friendly, polite and happy to have a discussion with you but lately meeting yanks overseas I have been amazed about their lack of knowledge about their own country. I have had to explain their history to them, their politics and I had to tell one 44 year old lady from Seattle that there are only 50 States, she thought that Pluerto Rico was a State. Sad .
Yes, it amazes me also, especially the people that complain about America, they all need to go visit a Third World country!, their attitude will quickly change.
We are humbled and honored of your stellar experience as a guest, and for the warm hospitalities you received while visiting "We The People" in the U.S.A.. It's a total pleasure to hear a fresh perspective to remind us of how spoiled we are, and to remind us, if we are able, and not to busy to recognize, how much we take for granted. Your commentating is Top-Notch as always, and "We The People" know that part of your experience was based on your "outer beauty", your "inner beauty" and the energy and vibes you brought to the table. Kind of like "What goes around comes around", or like the energy you project is the energy you receive, and we all know that "The Pea" is just a big ole "tiny" love bubble. So we have nothing but LOVE for you. Next stop Canada, then somewhere in Europe and Dubai, Japan and eventually China. This would probably be after your new partnership with a television network...Can't wait! 😎
As a Southerner, I'm happy to hear that you had a good experience. I know that some of us have some serious problems, but there are also those of us who want to do our part to make the South a kinder and more welcoming place. And thanks for all the lovely videos!
I'm so happy everyone was kind to you. Makes me proud to be an American when I hear things like this. I'm sorry you will miss the peach cobbler. I'm sending this video to my Filipina that will be here in 2 months so she gets an idea of our differences.....from a Filipina. Thanks so much Pea, without your advice I probably would have never found my lovely sweet caring Filipina that I can't wait to marry. And don't worry yourself about a couple extra pounds....your personality is what makes you truly gorgeous.
@georgevigil7001 it took 1 year to get the letter saying my I129f petition was approved. Then it takes a few more weeks at the national visa center......then it goes to Manila and you make the medical and interview appointments. In all about a year and a half. But the backlog from covid is getting better so I hope you guys won't have to wait so long. I filed in July 2022.
As an American married to a Filipina and also living in the Philippines with her for the past six years. From my personal experience what people from the Philippines will miss the most is the closeness of family. The average family isn't that way back home. Combine all the amazing things Americans have back home and I would trade all of it in a second for the family unit in the Philippines. That is a big reason why I have never left. My in-laws are closer and treat me better than my blood family back home. Once you are accepted by the family ( AKA you get married ) you will be a part of it just like any of the others. Hope you like chismis though ahah. My mother and father in-law when my wife and I fight with each other will support me over my wife typically. Same with the grandparents, aunts, and uncles. I said the family unit is close right lol? Marriage is so much more important and binding here. That whole way of life just isn't something Americans typically have back home. The other thing is also the ability to have a more easy going relaxed life. Everything back home is fast paced. FAST FAST FAST. It is very hard to just slow down and not grind out life. That part might not be a big thing for a Filipina at the start since they are such hard workers. As time goes on though because of the fast pace and the grind it makes it so you have less time for each other. Making it less likely you spend quality time together. That is just my two cents on what I have lived through. I personally am homesick since well I am an American, but I am just so happy here overall it is hard to go back. What I mostly see is that like most people not from America they view America a lot like the mice in the movie Fievel goes West. When the mice were migrating they're singing "There are no cats in America and the streets are paved with gold." Only to find out there are cats and the streets aren't paved with gold at all. America is great, but it isn't as great as what many think. We have our problems and struggles too. Completely different kinds, but they are there.
I have been here for four years, married, we own a townhouse. We live 6 or 7 hours' drive from most of her family. In fact, we are going for a week tomorrow, although my wife is always trying to extend to trip in conversation - a month, two weeks, etc. Her family are nice, the wedding celebration was good, but we are constantly bombarded with close and distant family requests for a money "loan." If it is not a bank loan or an important bill (as in service will be cut off if you are a day late with the payment), your "loan" goes to the back of the repayment line. Somehow, loans like that are not paid back. After all, they figure you can spare it can spare it - you are a rich American. I am on a fixed income, and what they don't see are the months in which the money runs out before the end of the month because of some unexpected repair, or yearly registration of the car, or anything else. There have been a couple of months in which we ran out of money with two weeks to go. The bills had been paid, there was food in the ref (not referee, Americans, but refrigerator) and in the cupboard. We could not do anything - we were lucky if we could scrape together the money for gas for church on Sunday. Rich American. LOL When my wife and I are at the family's place, and we get in the car to go to town for something, four or five pile in the car because they think there will be free Jollibee. We were paying utang na loob to her father - I accepted that, although I found out later that his girlfriend was mooching off of the money for his upkeep. One day before he died, she was leaving to go back to Manila for something, and on her way out, she asked me if I wanted to go to Manila with her. I did not realize that she was asking just me - I turned to my wife call out and ask her if she wanted to go to Manila, and when I turned back around, she was walking away fast. I had just been propositioned by my father-in-law's girlfriend. :-| He passed away later that year, and she did not realize that she was going to get nothing in inheritance. We have not seen her again, and good riddance. All that time, her high school age daughters had been staying in the house where we live when we go with my father-in-law, while their mother was probably scamming some other guy. The daughters were nice enough, but they are gone too. The mother is on to mooch off of someone else. There are drawbacks to staying here (traffic, basura, noise, beggars), but they are completely outweighed by the good parts - beautiful weather (endless summer), low cost of living, people in general are very nice (as long as you identify the few who will try to scam you), my wife is a gem. My church is wonderful, and they have a couple of weekly English-language Masses. I am not the Rich American there - for the most part, I am just Jim (or Sir Jim - still not used to that LOL). I have made great friends there. I wish I was picking up on the Tagalog more quickly, but one of the choir members usually whispers the translation of the homily (Taglish) in my ear. All in all, we will go for a two-week visit sometime when we can afford it, but I am pretty much staying here in the Philippines with my wife, and since she knows how almost everything works, she can boss me around, and that makes her happy LOL - all the while calling me "Boss." Funny how that works out ;-) But I am very happy here. I miss my US family and friends, but that is what Facebook and UA-cam are for. This is my new home.
@@jamesholden4571 isn't funny how women back home say we picked a Filipina so we can have a slave? Little do they know how these little women of terror can be very dominate at times!! lol. The way my wife gets to jump through hoops is because she makes me so damn happy!! I end up moving a mountain before even asking why lol. I laugh to myself at times how my wife can make me feel like the king of my castle while at the same time making me jump through hoops. I get the same thing about utang. My reply is always pulubi na ako! lol. I do help the family though just not through actual cash. Since from my personal experience has shown me money is very poorly managed most times. I also never carry cash and when asked for money by strangers I just point at my wife and we typically will buy food for kids or something to that nature. When the family asks for money from my wife she just says you have to talk to my husband since it is up to him. Which oddly enough filters about 95% of the people asking for utang. Then the 5% that do ask me are typically the ones with serious problems. IE the problem is bigger than worrying about the nose bleed.
@@alvincyrus9631 I originally came on a tourist visa. It is very easy to extend the tourist visa out like two years if I remember correctly. When I married my wife I became a permanent resident. Which if you are married is very easy to get to. Although very annoying to deal with immigration when applying. Basically they will tell you everything looks good then when you go back they say you are missing something. Happened four times to me. My advice would be to get married. Then get a permanent resident visa. There are other ways to get that status as well. Having a Filipina spouse in my opinion is the easiest way to get it. You 100% want to be a permanent resident too and not a tourist. Since you can't have a bank account here if you aren't a permanent resident amongst other things.
I was with my wife's family on a boat headed to Laki Beach in Bataan . We crossed paths with a boat headed the other way . I waived and greeted them . My brother in law asked if I knew them and why I would greet them. I replied, " imagine a world if we all greeted each other like family ." That is the way alot of Americans are taught
The "pay to play" ethic is what makes services more costly than goods. Basically, what you need to survive is dirt cheap, but what gives you enjoyment will cost you plenty! And there's a good reason why everyone is so polite to you Pea.. You're an absolute cutie!🥰🥰🤗
Win Rose first got to the US she was on complete sensory overload. She would only talk to other Filipinas and wouldn’t leave the house without me. But after almost 16 years now she’s become a social butterfly and has more close friends than she’s ever had. I’m so proud of her for the giant adjustment she made and how she looks forward to everyday now.👍
@@briandillow6767 Oklahoma, but I don’t know if it can be taught, some things just require experience and time. But advice does help so we are happy to help if we can.👍
You are an honorary American... you embody the spirit, the wit, and the kindness abound. There are darker sides of American culture, but you'll get that everywhere, in any culture. So glad you're back home and safe. Looking forward to seeing more videos.
It's called southern hospitality, Pea! Out west it's an entirely different culture, you will discover one day! Yes, Bing's most difficult challenge over the past ten years was seldom seeing people outside their homes. Now, it will soon be my turn to adjust to the Karaoke and dogs! Glad you are safely home! Great travel vlog!
Hi Pea. I have enjoyed seeing america through your eyes. Yes I am an American but it is nice getting someone else's view. As I have said before there is much more good in this country than bad. It certainly is better than the news media makes it out to be. Hopefully, if you are ever able to travel to our country again you will check out the mid western and western states. Take care and keep up the good work.
Hello Pea, as someone who has traveled to many different regions of the Philippines many times, your experience in America is similar to mine in the Philippines. You got to experience the Southern way of life in America which is completely different than a place like Los Angeles, Chicago or New York City. My experience in Luzon Island (Manila)is different than my experience in a place like Davao City. The way I was treated, the food, the culture, the hospitality will definitely differ in different regions. I am definitely glad you got to experience the nicest, and most hospitable part of the U.S. they are indeed very kind down south. I hope your next trip will be in the West Coast from San Diego up to Seattle.
I absolutely agree. The Pea has really seen the best the country has to offer. It does go down hill from here, though, especially at major financial hubs for the country. Here in Vancouver (Canada), people are polite, but about as cold as a glacier in Alaska. There are incredibly significant differences in the attitude of people in the south of the US to other places. Overall, though, there's nowhere I'd rather be in America than Texas, Alabama, or some such state. Really decent people there.
7 lbs is not an unusual gain for being on vacation. for anyone, anywhere. I thank you for seeing we are not a racist country. There are isolated incidents that are used for political purposes BUT it does not reflect this country as a whole. I am a 72 year old military veteran who attended the first integrated school in Florida in 1967 and we never had an issue. We had every mix of culture. we studied together, played together, worked together, etc. When in the military it was the same. I learned to appreciate and respect every culture I encountered in my lifetime and I have been to many places. I am so happy you told it like it is. As in every culture in every country there are those few who like to cause trouble. Here, unfortunately, these infrequent circumstances are picked up by the media and used to push whatever the political agenda is recently. When I was a kid, my traditional southern grandma would have slapped me upside the head if I ever disrespected anyone. Again, I cannot thank you enough and sorry I missed you when you were here in Florida .
Pea, you are so spot on, not one thing on your list was not right. You really have good observational skills. That was a great vlog. Welcome back to the Philippines. You make me miss some things about the US, but not the pricing for housing or hotels.
What an amazing perspective ! I was smilingly and laughing watching. You naiked it ! Traveling like you did is crazy, crazy expensive, especially like you where traveling. I've lived in both Orlando and Savannah but one thing that will take many, many more trips to understand is how incredibly massive and diverse the United States actually is. You went to 6 states but haven't seen 1% of the country yet. Country people are incredible in America. Nobody should believe the propaganda that America is a terrible racist place. I knew everyone would love your infectious wonderful personality. Awesome video !
Hi Pea, Thanks so much for the kind comments about the US. Folks in the South are definitly friendly. Prices of everyhing from rent to gas has jumped up considerably. The cost of living where I am is not as bad as a lot of places. A lot of people are going to steaming TV instead of satilite or cable. I basically pay double than what my filipina friend pays for interent and 3 times as much for TV service. Yes there is plenty of great food here. My weight is like a yoyo .Up and Down . Weight gain , another form of inflation ! . America is diverse and there is freedom to speak as you wish even though there is a certain element that doesn't want that. I'm glad that you enjoyed yourself here.
Great summary of your trip to the U.S. I enjoyed watching quite a few of your videos in this series. Reminded me of my wife when we first moved to the states back in the 80's. I want to thank You for being a Great Visitor! Much Respect to you!
Pea, great video. Glad to hear your perspective of my country. Interesting to hear your viewpoint of some of the things that we consider just basic or standard in America. Glad you had a good stay. We welcome you back at any time! You just touched the tip of the iceberg. lol.
Hi Pea! Thank you for coming to visit us here in the American south. 🙂 Rents for apartments and such were not always this bad. Prices for rent and stuff SKYROCKETED after the pandemic. In 2019 and earlier (for the most part, anyway), prices here for literally anything were far more reasonable. I live in a place where the cost of living is not so bad compared to the rest of the USA but I have to pay nearly $100/month for internet, which I have to have for my work-from-home job. I really, really miss the days of $20/month internet and I'm scratching my head on where the heck you found it here. 🙂Also...most of us don't like licorice either, ha ha! I hope you come back to see us really soon!
My guess is that we define "fast Internet" differently from someone coming from the Philippines. I'm paying $95 for 600 Mbps on fiber to the door. I'd imagine that's a heck of a luxury in many smaller countries.
Next time you come to the USA come to the Pacific NW Very differnt than the South, Not better but just different. My Filipina wife and I would be glad to host you and loan you a car. Great report. Many thanks.
That was a great video Pea. I grew up in the South and I miss it there. I now live in the western U.S. The one thing that I like here is the weather and the wide open spaces. But I miss the people from the South. I noticed a profound difference. People in the South when I lived there were much more friendly and wanted to know each other and there was much more of a feeling of community. Here in the west, people seem more unfriendly and unwelcoming and rude and it is harder to get to know your neighbors and make friends.
Pea: It's great that you got to experience more differences in cultures first hand from the Philippines and the United States. This is something that many wish to do, but sadly so many cannot. Learning about other places around the vast world we live in is a great way to actually see how huge this planet is, yet find out how small it can seem as well in some of the similarities as well as the differences. Personally I loved this series of videos because you gave so much respect to the country you visited. I've heard stories and watched videos about people traveling to other countries and did not do their research on what would and would not be allowed in the form of attitude from people in those countries, while finding themselves in a deep pile of doo-doo they created for themselves, and begging for their home country to bail them out. But it came with no surprise to me that you packed a big bag of respect and handed it out like Santa hands out Christmas presents on Dec.25th. You are just the type of person that knows that you must give respect in order to receive it. As far as bringing a Filipina back to the Western society, it all comes down to a person to person basis. Being that every person is unique, so is every situation in that matter. Maybe a trial period to see how she adjusts to the mind altering differences. Or even suggest a series of long visits to help her become aware of the differences rather than just plucking her out of the Philippines and trying to plant her in the West. As for the weight gain, you actually did awesome to not gain much more than that! Many people would have thought double that with all the new exciting flavors and portion sizes. Just the portion sizes would have had a huge part in that, but the added flavor excitement would have kept the taste buds wanting more. I am so glad that your trip was filled with happiness and safety, and I wish you many more adventures in the future to video and bring to your channel for us to enjoy as well.
"Learning about other places around the vast world we live in is a great way to actually see how huge this planet is, yet find out how small it can seem as well in some of the similarities as well as the differences." Dead on correct!!! Sadly, only around half of Americans even have passports. Possibly in part due to finances (international travel can be expensive), and possibly also because America is so huge an varied that you can take a vacation every summer for life here and still only see a fraction of what the country has to offer. Also partly because sheer geographical logistics. In the EU, you can hop on a train and be in two or three (even four, depending) countries in a single day. But America is functionally a (really gigantic) island. Its at least a four or five hour flight from NYC just to set foot in Europe, and even longer from LAX to Asia. Still, I wish Americans traveled more. Really does enlarge one's perspective. And Americans are blessed with a "strong" Passport. It will get you into all but a dozen or so of the world's 192 countries without even needing a Visa, or easily getting one on arrival (and would you really want to vacation in North Korea anyway? 🤣).
Hi pea…I wanted to apologize for my comment about you weighing in…I should have watched the whole video…I’m glad you got to spend time in the US. You are a positive voice in a dark world. Keep the content coming 😊
Pea, I know you aren't leaving us, but that video was like the best culmination of a career. Well said, well presented, etc. You confirmed the reason for all the kind Americans, I WAS only in the south. 😊 thank you for your honest evaluation of us and our culture and country. Your tremendous beauty is far outweighed by your knowledge of our culture, and overall humanity. Thank you for being you Pea. And yes, that lady at the elevator is the majority of us southerners. God bless you and us all Ms. Pea.
Hi Pea. I am an American living in the Philippines. I have been here for 4 years. I have a quick story for you. I went on a 7 day cruise before moving here. Went with a couple of friends. We weighed one friend because we knew he was going to eat a lot. He figured he paid for it when he paid for the cruise. He had breakfast, lunch & dinner everyday. He ate at every midnight buffet except one. When we got home from the cruise we weighed him again. He had gained 12 pounds in 7 days. So you gaining just 7 pounds in 3 months is not as bad as you think. Just thought you would like the comparison so you don't feel so bad. Enjoy your videos, keep it up.
When I was in the Philippines in March, I lost 5 pounds. I am here again in Palawan, and we will see how it goes. I know a lot of it is the different activities that I do here. At home I go to the gym 5 days a week where here I go swimming, hiking and other activities with my girlfriend ❤ We will see when I get her back to America how we both do. We are both physically fit, so I think we will do alright.
You are right, the tipping thing has gotten out of control here. So have rental prices. I'm paying 2x what I was paying a year ago, and I am in a much smaller place. I've been told I could live in a fancy apartment with a list of amenities in Manila for the same. 😮 I really enjoyed your American adventures. Thanks Pea.
I am soon moving to Bohol. I’m from North Carolina. I am excited and nervous for all that you experienced. I look forward to slowing down and enjoying your slower way of life.
Things I like: Filipina Pea and her channel. (She is awesome!) Things I don’t like: Now that she is home, there is no chance of me running into her since she is not on her USA vacation. PS > You were in the South where friendliness, politeness, and hospitality are highly desired personal virtues. So, other area could have a different experience. Finally, you were beautiful at both weigh-ins.
I am so happy that you came here to the US. I enjoyed seeing how you responded to visiting to different places. It really gives me a better appreciation for my county . You were so kind and positive in your last video. It actually brought tears to my eyes to hear your thoughts and reactions to visiting here. I am now an even bigger fan you and your channel. You are one of the best vloggers. Keep up the good work. P.S , I have visited the Philippines and will eventually be bringing a Filapina back to the US .Thanks again.
Glad you had a great trip and was able to experience our culture. I guess we will all have to wait for your return trip now. It is very interesting to hear about the differences in the two cultures.
1) Some people can handle living abroad 2) Some people will get influenced by other negative people and become negative and implode your relationship. BE CAREFUL INVITING friends or whatver in your relationships.
So delighted that you enjoyed yourself so much dear Pea. 😃 You have probably discovered that “The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page …” And that coming back to where you started is not the same as never leaving … Now the question is : where will you go next Pea? Next Episode of “The Intrepid Adventures of the Famous Filipina Pea”, Volume 2, to follow shortly … 😊😘❤️
You for sure got the southern hospitality. Glad you had a good time. I can almost guarantee if you would have gone to LA or New York it would have been a completely different experience.
I would say this was a good introduction to the US but the magic is really in the Northeast, Southwest or Northwest of the US. Maine, Vermont, New Hampshire, Arizona, Colorado, Utah, Wyoming, Montana, California, Oregon, etc are the absolute best places to visit for someone like yourself who comes from a tropical / relatively flat part of the world. I don’t hold it against you that you didn’t reach out when you were in Savannah :P, and I hope you get to experience some of the other places I mentioned in the future. Welcome home…
I would tell people to avoid most of those places. Especially California and Oregon. Other than those states having a different climate than the Philippines. Why those states? What do you think a person should see in them?
I agree that you must go to the Northeast and Pacific Northwest as well as the Western States. The South is nice but just a small part of US culture and a tiny part of the US’s GDP and population.
I'm glad you enjoyed my country. I just came back from yours and your videos were helpful. I think we often take for granted the conveniences we have in America.
Overall great analysis on the usa. You did only see one region. The south is much more friendly vs the west or north east. Alot of other cultural differences between each region I notice from living in each region thru out my life. Same goes for the Philippines and its regions. I am totally for a bidet to take over the usa. Hope you get to return to other region. I do love exploring each region of pi. Btw every episode should have minimal 1 bikini shoot.
Thank you Pea! I loved this episode. Don’t take it bad but you look good just the way you are. You are braver than I am. There is no way I would weigh myself in front of anyone. 😮 Thank you again for being so amazing.
Great summary! It's incredible the details you've noticed. Things we just take for granted. You surprised me with an obvious observation which I probably wasn't able to spot due to lack of perspective... "Things are cheap, services are expensive". I enjoyed every single moment of your whole journey! But, I'm sure, we can have an equivalent, though different, one in the Philippines! Thank you! Santiago
My wive survived 5 years in America with me. The second I said we had enough resources to retire, she started planning our move back to Mindanao. We returned HOME to Mindanao on October 1st. We both hope we never have to live in America again.
My wife and I built a home in the province of Davao del Sur, but live in California. Looking forward to returning there this August. My wife has no desire to permanently live there again.
Hi Pea, very good topic. I live in the US for 4 years then moved in Europe living same country for the past 40 yrs. I’ll say no matter how much gourmet you’ve eaten nothing can be compared to Home Sweet Home. Food in foreign countries are good much more in Europe but when you’re eating it everyday you still long for the food you grew up. Much more you missed the bonds from your families, relatives and friends you’ve had before. Despite my families are in the US but honestly almost everyone I knew prefers to go home. That Filipino interaction even among strangers, smiling, friendliness, the vibes, the jokes, the warmth of our Kababayan that we carried anywhere we go. One priest said, if the church is full up and huge participation there’s Filipino community. I traveled much anywhere but only in our country I felt relaxed. I’m going early next year for much longer period and hopefully to hear from you. 😊👍
Something that surprises me is not the wildlife you saw on your travels, but the lack of wildlife in the Philippines. I live in Toronto, I believe it is something like the 10th largest city in North America and my back yard sounds like a wildlife jungle compared to what you said about the Philippines. I have raccoons, squirrels, rabbits, skunks, foxes, cats, porcupines, and I've also come across a couple small snakes (non-venomous). I have even seen a wolf on my street just a couple houses down from me one night. Not to mention all the birds. There were also a couple other animals that I'm not 100% sure what they were, but I only saw them once or twice.
She is certainly right about no wildlife in Philippines. I have been bicycling the country roads for years and I’ve yet to see a living creature A few run over snakes and frogs but the only prize was a small crocodile. Alas it was also run over
Fantastic Pea. You came, you saw and survived the US and returned home safely. Some time, you should visit us here in Toronto. Thanks for sharing your many experiences in the six states of the US by these videos. Continue to be true to yourself and be successful and safe.
I am so happy and proud of Americans for our good behavior and relieved at the same time! 1st impressions are critical! There is an image people have of America that you saw firsthand wasn’t accurate. Americans are Very friendly, and yes, we will talk to anyone around us like we’ve known them for years. We are not only friendly but helpful as well. There’s always someone around you who is willing to help if needed, no questions, no expectations, just to help, then they move on with their day. That’s the way we are. My favorite example is a N. Korean refugee who made it to America, she didn’t speak English, had a bag of groceries which fell and all the people around her stopped to help her pick everything up. Would not have happened where she is from. She was apologetic for not speaking English and people here told her that’s ok we’re sorry we don’t know Korean for you. And my absolute personal favorite is how friendly men were to her with no expectations, and as she said “Asian women are popular in America”! Hahaha… Americans love all women, but something about Asian women really draws our attention and captivates us. Again, no expectations, we just enjoy having you around!
Pea, I'm going to say something some will squawk at, but its ok. You toured the part of US where they still are cordial and considerate. The further north and east you go, the less of that you'll encounter....Im glad you didn't go there for a number of reasons. Glad you got to enjoy plenty while here and made it home safely!
Dear Pea, I'm German. I made, in the North-East, the South and the West of the US quite the same experience as you - very hospitable, often forwardly friendly and helpful people. I felt always well with Americans. You present the differences with the Philippines in a special matter - again with your mindful way of understanding people - so that I as a German can indeed learn. Remarkable. And don't mind the few pounds more - they fit you well! With or without, the man who may enjoy to be your partner in life - is a truly 'lucky prince'! Ah... I just discovered: you misspelled your name here: the correct spelling is rather "Filipina PeaRL!... 😊
Yes, the cost of living also varies from state to state. Cars, insurance, hospitals, doctors...We're still deciding what to do in about 7 years from now.
“The customer is always right” is changing, a lot of places don’t do that anymore because quite a few customers lie now and try to get things free or lowered purchase price. 😊
I think if she’s from the province and have never been away from her family, she wouldn’t want to leave. However if her family is really poor and her parents especially want to go to the US, she will do her best to convince you to bring her to the west. If she’s young and beautiful, bringing her to the west can be disastrous. It all depends on her parents. Filipinas often place their parents next to God in influence of her life.
Years ago my friend was in the Navy and married a Filipino. He brought her to the states (Ohio) to live and they were raising two sons when she just decided to leave and she never looked back. Very little contact with her two boys who were young when she left. I could see that my friend did not live a life that would cultivate a good family relationship (he was off boating and fishing every chance and left her with the boys). I just couldn't understand leaving the boys. One did eventually commit suicide and she never attended the services.
As an American man living in the Philippines now for the past 19 months, and very aware of America's problems, I wouldn't wish America on any foreigner.
I have lived im the USA many many years ago ohio and New Jersey. I am happy i could. Great experience. Very comfortabke country if you have some money. Yet, i would not want to live my entire life there especially not now. Philippines a much better place (if you have some money).
The United States is a great country to live in but there are flaws. I think the politicians running the country are too old and incompetent. One can qualify for social security benefits and is considered old enough to retire in their early sixties meanwhile half of the political leaders are in their seventies and eighties. The current administration is the worst of my lifetime. The average American is a moron. If it’s not celebrity gossip, something entertaining on social media, or a popular opinion that a biased news outlet that they trust says the average American knows nothing. Honestly I don’t think the American men in the comment section should bring a Filipina woman or any foreign woman to live in the states while she’s still in her twenties or thirties because she will be easily influenced by how the average American women in their twenties and thirties act.
Get out of the blue states. Pull your head out of MSNBC and CNN and you'll find a lot more of the country is still a beautiful, friendly and safe place to live
I live in both countries, I love the Philippines, but if I could only live in one county it would be the states. Rural Georgia has so much to offer, northerners just take a little longer to warm up to you but they eventually do and are very nice. I prefer to spend my winter months in the Philippines and summer months in the states.
Hi Pea, glad to see you got back safely. Great video. If you get back to America, try to stop at some of our national parks but do not get close to the wildlife. Some of the tourists are under the mistaken impression that they are tame and kept in a barn at night. We have many animals that are quite capable of killing you and some tourists get the Darwin award by not getting out of the park alive. See you Friday and take care of yourself.
Hello Pea! As an American I am glad that you had a reasonable good experience while visiting there. Unfortunately Florida is the worst place in the South to do price comparisons for just about anything especially rentals and restaurant prices. Airports are overly expensive everywhere for push carts and food purchases. Yes! You are absolutely correct with regard to tipping as it has gotten completely out of control ever since the Covid pandemic!
I am a Mexican-American and have many friends who are Filipinos. One Filipina told me she was involved in an auto accident with another car that was driven by a Mexican. The Mexican person asked my Filipina friend if she spoke Spanish (assuming my Filipina friend was a fellow Mexican). My Filipina friend informed the other driver that she did not speak Spanish. The Mexican driver called my Filipina friend a "sell-out" because she did not speak Spanish. This example shows how Filipinos and Mexicans are familiar in appearance and mannerisms.
After walking through many cities in Mexico, Puerto Rico, and watching hours of KryptoTrekker's walked through the various areas in Central Luzon, I have to admit that there are great similarities in the culture despite language differences. Having worked in maquiladoras and in Filipino call centers, a lot of the mannerisms are very similar.
As a Southerner, I'm glad you enjoyed the South here in America. Don't worry about the few extra pounds. You look great. Thank you for your videos. Thank you for coming to visit us here in the USA.
Glad you enjoyed your trip to the States! Really glad you was first introduced to our country by visiting the South first! You're always welcome here! As for the " racism " it is mostly pushed by the elite to keep us divided! People who actually do the research themselves realize this. Great video! Hope you have a wonderful week!
Thank you for your comments on "feeling welcome, and not looked down on." Racism is used as a tool in the US to subjegate certain groups. Also, the South is much, much more friendlier than the North East for instance. And much more densely populated up there too. But, most of your obsevations were spot-on! You have wisdom far beyond your years! If you come again, I would love to meet you and treat you to an authentic Italian dinner cooked by me! God's blessings and love, Ron
I do agree that racism is a tool used by some to shut down other people's freedoms like the first amendment but it's not because of racism per se.i do disagree with your prejudicial statement about the northeast and the south. When I live in the south for several years I was shocked that everyone used the N word when talking to black and about them. And I'd never been stopped by police in the north ever for having a Yankee or rebel license plate like I was in the south and threatened by police to spend a weekend in jail unless I had some cash for the sheriff. So I guess that's how southerners display friendliness. In my day the preferred term wasn't racism, it was prejudice. Like when people generalize about groups of people and assume they're all alike. It's based on ignorance.
You're right about the smell of pot. I hate it. I work across the street from a pot growing and processing plant. Sometimes, it smells so bad it make your nauseous. The tipping culture IS out of hand. I don't tip at fast food places. If I'm not sitting at a table and getting a server, I'm not tipping. Glad you had a nice visit.
As a 63 year old man who has lived in the USA his entire life my thought is USA "you can have it". I recently visited the Phillipines for 3 months and am eagerly awaiting my move to Bohol to permanently live ❤.
3 months and you’ve already turned on your country?? 😂😂 I hope you are successful there but never down your own. If the world throws you away, America is the only place that’ll bring you in 👍🏻
It is worth noting that the very culture of the US seems to shift dramatically depending upon where you are. Washington is different from Arizona, which has a different atmosphere then New York and Georgia. One person I know once said it seemes like at times the US is 50 smaller nations in a trench coat pretending to be one big nation.
@@pubwvj I know that, I am American. That said how often do you see, even in the comment section of this video comments like "The North is worse," or "Fuck California" (or New York, or any other state for that matter) "Me against my brother; my brother and I against the World," seems to be the US' unofficial motto, especially given the current political divisions. It will probably die down in a few years, but the base rivalry will remain I think
Hi Pea, I'm glad to hear your time in the US was enjoyable and rewarding for you. You are spot on about all your observations. Keep rocking. Awesome content.
Glad you got to explore the USA. As for house, hotel prices, it all depends on the state you visit. Like Oklahoma the housing market is a lot cheaper than Florida, California, New York.
I’m glad that you had a good time in the US. While we all speak the same language for the most part, different parts of the country might seem like a totally different country. In the southern United States people do seem to be a bit more friendly and strike up a random conversation with a stranger. In California you might be seen as creepy for doing the same. I’m glad that things were clean where you were at. In other parts of the country it’s dirtier and more messy than most 3rd world big cities that I’ve been too. I’ve toured many Filipino tourists through San Francisco. Most are shocked to see the masses of homeless, the garbage and human waste on the streets and sidewalks, and the smell of that human waste. California does have a lot of nice places, but people are just shocked that it’s not what they expected.
I was raised in California in the 50s and 60s. A time I now consider the golden age of California and much of America. I'm very happy living the Philippines now and will do what I must to stay here
Glad you’re back. I was in Dumaguete while you were in the states and now I’m headed back to Los Angeles. Your comments are spot on my family is originally from Tennessee and I think the next time you come back, you might want to visit other parts of the country because the south is very different Pea ❤
I'm 73 Pea & I pay cash for 99% of all my expenses. All but 1 bill normally. When making purchases on Amazon I pay cash to friends for them to order for me. -- Glad you enjoyed your trip and returned safely. -- My goal is to move to Tagaytay before I die and enjoy my remaining days in comfort there. It's beautiful there has good local food and the weather is more to my liking. -- Take care - and - "live long and prosper" !
I'm glad that you came down to the southeast states first, we're a LOT friendlier down here. You should have come here in November when the leaves turn colors, it's amazing. We don't notice it as much until someone from up north tells us!
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Don't sell yourself short, Pea. You're still Beautiful!
Hey Pea, sounds like you hung out with alot of white families...wish you would've of hung out with people of color/ethnicities there where the customs are more along the line of Filipino people...ettiquette and food wise.
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I hung out with plenty of different races and backgrounds 😊
I like the Filipinas in PI better than in America, they are much tighter!
i bet a lotta people in the states recognized you pea...
My Filipina lady said clearly to me. " i'll go wherever you go as long we stick together "
My wife lived in the States for 31 years. She loves it there.. We went home to the Philippines every year in the summer to visit her family we built our house here 30 years ago..When we retired we moved to the Philippines full time..our house was already waiting for us..Now we go home to the states every March and April to visit family there and to travel around the country we love driving out west seeing all the different landscapes. THE USA has a lot to offer if you just give it a chance.. Now we dont consider ourselves expats..and we are not retiring here forever. Before i turn 69 or 70, we are moving back to the states around the west coast of fla, mainly for better health care facilities and to be around our family more as we age..
Your story sounds like my story. We lived in USA 26 years in California. Retired here in 2015. Been here 8 years. I am 70 and wife 64. Not ready to go back yet to live in USA. We stay doing health things. Like you we come and go as we choose to!
@morrishooks7536 we do love travel here, too. We love going to Singapore and Australia, but Singapore is easier to get to.. We just made reservations for next June. Celebrating our 42 wedding anniversary and my 65 birthday. Hopefully, within 5 years, we'll be living in the Bradenton fla area to spend our golden years in.. Better hospitals, better restaurants, and much better electric grid.. Hopefully, our health will still be good enough to fly back here to stay for a month to visit family
Do t worry pea, you still look fantastic
Good luck with that. You can't afford it. Between property taxes and home owners insurance you'll be bankrupt if you move to fl.
@MrSGL21 Hopefully we can put down 350k on a Villa maybe a little more by the time we decide to buy.. people are buying villas all the time.. the insurance isn't all that bad on new villa's its the old houses that aren't built for storms that are expensive to insure. We've done pretty good with our investments and saving. We have just over 800k to play with.
When my wife first arrived in the US she couldn’t believe she was actually in a city because of how quiet she said it is. One of her first comments was also “where is everyone?” Because there were houses every where but no one outside.
Yea, we really don’t hang outside. It’s more comfortable inside. Other countries hang outside bc it sucks inside.
@@franciscoburgos787, Swede here. We're all outside in the summer... not because it sucks to be inside but because of the long, cold and dark winters we're all basically sun worshippers. ;-)
Sweden in a beautiful country. I don’t blame you. We have a town here called Solvsng, California. I haven’t been yet, but I hear it’s worth a drive.
My wife arrived during the summer here. We live in Kentucky so summer time is pretty miserable outside. 36C average temperatures with 99% humidity. Once the heat breaks and summer turns to fall then there are lots more people outside enjoying the cooler weather.
Im glad you enjoyed your visit. Im relieved you didnt experience racism. So glad!💪💪💪
As an American living in SEA, that is the one striking difference for me too, everything seems so empty and lonely in the US, even larger cities. Asia is very active and bustling at the street level.
Especially now it is so quiet here in some states. I went to the mall not to many people around and some stores are closed. Lonely.
@@travelandmore808Yes, the advent of ubiquitous internet changed society. Malls used to be at LEAST twice as busy as they are on a typical day now, and I'm under 30 years old. It's actually really sad to live your entire life and people just want to hole up inside and be left alone. And I'm guilty of that myself!
My wife lived there for 13 years before we retired back here to the Philippines. I think honestly The Philippines is certainly a great place to live and be retired. I am currently in the US, and cannot wait to get back to The Philippines. I miss my home.
I Agree with you on the tipping culture here in 🇺🇸. It wasn’t that way before and most of us Americans don’t like it either, especially, if we’re the ones picking up our orders! Glad you’re back home safely, Ms Pea! Thanks for visiting our Country and I’m glad you enjoyed your stay!
Agree 100 percent on the US tipping culture. It's out of control. Currently traveling the world and so glad I don't have to deal with any tipping at all, anywhere, in Australia, Malaysia, and many other places. In other countries where there is tipping, such as Thailand, it's maybe 10% at most.
There was one waiter at a surprisingly good restaurant - I wanted to leave him a tip because he was exceptional, but he said that he could not take it.
The employers PAY their waiters here. It is bizarre to me that this is even a talking point. OF COURSE employers should pay their waiters LOL
The tipping culture thing is super recent, last 5-10 years. Before that it was cabs (but not ubers) barbers and waiters only, and maybe small amount for valets or porters at a hotel. I am in my late 30s and just ignore all other tipping than the preceding. It's basically part of the growing trend of self-victimization.
@@patrickwilliam3322 I agree, though I don't think that's the reason. I think it's because businesses can do tip pools and skim off the top, and of course if they can pay their workers less because they get more wages it's a win-win for them. So I agree, I typically don't tip outside of the things you mentioned.
Those 7 pounds didn’t look bad my dear Pea! Thank you for coming to see us and for the positive feedback. You’re welcome anytime you want to visit as you only make our lives better by your presence. See you Friday, ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Stay awesome Pea. Next time you come to the U.S. we'll have to have a Pea party. Maybe 2 or 3 so we can all enjoy your company.
I promise to get rid of the weight extra-quick (and I always keep my promises) 🤣👍
@@TheFilipinaPeayeah I thought about warning you about American food. I have a theory that it is genetically engineered/modified to make you crave it and it is designed to make you gain weight. That’s why I cook all my food from scratch at home and don’t eat out in restaurants much.
The only 7 pounds that matter is her big heart. 😁💜
@@Obalanserad And a sharp mind.
U should try Cotton Candy Grapes.
Pea is such a doll. Love her personality and her amazing content. So happy I found her channel !!!
Yes Pea, the toothpicks were for stabbing the grapes or cheese and eating, but not many people actually do it that way. Grabbing with your hands works just as well. No one suspected you were a foreigner because you have no accent. You speak perfect English. I agree with you that tipping every worker has gotten outrageous in America and prices for any service call for a repair or just a haircut are way too high! Only 7 extra pounds? Don't worry about it.😍
They were putting their best "foot" forward...LOL Nobody really is that picky about finger food etiquette. :)
I disagree, the toothpicks are most likely not for that, but for cleaning your teeth afterwards. I've literally never seen anybody in America spear a grape with a toothpick, that just sounds absurd to me. I could see them being used for the cheese and maybe olives in some sort of mini-sandwich or some similar configuration, but that's so rare it's not even worth mentioning. Where I come from (Indiana), every single person in the room would've used their fingers for the grapes AND the cheese.
I would think the toothpicks are for the cheese and cannot imagine them for the grapes. I have seen toothpicks for lunchmeat slices as well. You sometimes see a spoon if nuts are offered but sometimes not and you must use your hands.
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So glad to hear you confirm that your 3-month visit to the southeast corner of the USA was a positive experience, Pea. The seven pounds you gained during your visit to the states do not make you look fat. You look just right. 👍❤
I am a 67 year old Aussie been to the States numerous times since my first visit in 1974, sometimes staying for a few months. Most americans are friendly, polite and happy to have a discussion with you but lately meeting yanks overseas I have been amazed about their lack of knowledge about their own country. I have had to explain their history to them, their politics and I had to tell one 44 year old lady from Seattle that there are only 50 States, she thought that Pluerto Rico was a State. Sad .
That’s because the majority of ones overseas aren’t exactly the average American and most likely to poor to live in their home country.
True story ... Americans are Insular
Yes, it amazes me also, especially the people that complain about America, they all need to go visit a Third World country!, their attitude will quickly change.
We pride ourselves on being ignorant. But some people are just stupid.
You mean Puerto Rico? Spelled it right 🙂
We are humbled and honored of your stellar experience as a guest, and for the warm hospitalities you received while visiting "We The People" in the U.S.A.. It's a total pleasure to hear a fresh perspective to remind us of how spoiled we are, and to remind us, if we are able, and not to busy to recognize, how much we take for granted. Your commentating is Top-Notch as always, and "We The People" know that part of your experience was based on your "outer beauty", your "inner beauty" and the energy and vibes you brought to the table. Kind of like "What goes around comes around", or like the energy you project is the energy you receive, and we all know that "The Pea" is just a big ole "tiny" love bubble. So we have nothing but LOVE for you. Next stop Canada, then somewhere in Europe and Dubai, Japan and eventually China. This would probably be after your new partnership with a television network...Can't wait! 😎
As a Southerner, I'm happy to hear that you had a good experience.
I know that some of us have some serious problems, but there are also those of us who want to do our part to make the South a kinder and more welcoming place.
And thanks for all the lovely videos!
Southerners are just awesome people ❤️👍🇺🇸
The fact she stayed in the south especially around the Bible Belt is why she had a good experience.
@@TheFilipinaPeaThank you, Pea from a North Carolina boy now living in Mindanao.
@@jasonbourne1596 All the trumpfsters. must have been in hiding??
@@TheFilipinaPea If you think about it.........................@TheFilipinaPea is now our very own Southern Peach!!
I'm so happy everyone was kind to you. Makes me proud to be an American when I hear things like this. I'm sorry you will miss the peach cobbler. I'm sending this video to my Filipina that will be here in 2 months so she gets an idea of our differences.....from a Filipina. Thanks so much Pea, without your advice I probably would have never found my lovely sweet caring Filipina that I can't wait to marry. And don't worry yourself about a couple extra pounds....your personality is what makes you truly gorgeous.
Did you go the *K1 visa route? If so, how long did the process take? They received our 129f application in February of this year.
@georgevigil7001 it took 1 year to get the letter saying my I129f petition was approved. Then it takes a few more weeks at the national visa center......then it goes to Manila and you make the medical and interview appointments. In all about a year and a half. But the backlog from covid is getting better so I hope you guys won't have to wait so long. I filed in July 2022.
As an American married to a Filipina and also living in the Philippines with her for the past six years. From my personal experience what people from the Philippines will miss the most is the closeness of family. The average family isn't that way back home. Combine all the amazing things Americans have back home and I would trade all of it in a second for the family unit in the Philippines. That is a big reason why I have never left. My in-laws are closer and treat me better than my blood family back home. Once you are accepted by the family ( AKA you get married ) you will be a part of it just like any of the others. Hope you like chismis though ahah. My mother and father in-law when my wife and I fight with each other will support me over my wife typically. Same with the grandparents, aunts, and uncles. I said the family unit is close right lol? Marriage is so much more important and binding here. That whole way of life just isn't something Americans typically have back home. The other thing is also the ability to have a more easy going relaxed life. Everything back home is fast paced. FAST FAST FAST. It is very hard to just slow down and not grind out life. That part might not be a big thing for a Filipina at the start since they are such hard workers. As time goes on though because of the fast pace and the grind it makes it so you have less time for each other. Making it less likely you spend quality time together. That is just my two cents on what I have lived through. I personally am homesick since well I am an American, but I am just so happy here overall it is hard to go back. What I mostly see is that like most people not from America they view America a lot like the mice in the movie Fievel goes West. When the mice were migrating they're singing "There are no cats in America and the streets are paved with gold." Only to find out there are cats and the streets aren't paved with gold at all. America is great, but it isn't as great as what many think. We have our problems and struggles too. Completely different kinds, but they are there.
good thoughts, thanks for sharing that.
May I ask if you are there on a tourist visa after 6 years or an SRRV? I plan on moving there in a couple years to retire with my Filipina.
I have been here for four years, married, we own a townhouse. We live 6 or 7 hours' drive from most of her family. In fact, we are going for a week tomorrow, although my wife is always trying to extend to trip in conversation - a month, two weeks, etc. Her family are nice, the wedding celebration was good, but we are constantly bombarded with close and distant family requests for a money "loan." If it is not a bank loan or an important bill (as in service will be cut off if you are a day late with the payment), your "loan" goes to the back of the repayment line. Somehow, loans like that are not paid back. After all, they figure you can spare it can spare it - you are a rich American.
I am on a fixed income, and what they don't see are the months in which the money
runs out before the end of the month because of some unexpected repair, or yearly registration of the car, or anything else. There have been a couple of months in which we ran out of money with two weeks to go. The bills had been paid, there was food in the ref (not referee, Americans, but refrigerator) and in the cupboard. We could not do anything - we were lucky if we could scrape together the money for gas for church on Sunday. Rich American. LOL
When my wife and I are at the family's place, and we get in the car to go to town for something, four or five pile in the car because they think there will be free Jollibee.
We were paying utang na loob to her father - I accepted that, although I found out later that his girlfriend was mooching off of the money for his upkeep. One day before he died, she was leaving to go back to Manila for something, and on her way out, she asked me if I wanted to go to Manila with her. I did not realize that she was asking just me - I turned to my wife call out and ask her if she wanted to go to Manila, and when I turned back around, she was walking away fast. I had just been propositioned by my father-in-law's girlfriend. :-|
He passed away later that year, and she did not realize that she was going to get nothing in inheritance. We have not seen her again, and good riddance.
All that time, her high school age daughters had been staying in the house where we live when we go with my father-in-law, while their mother was probably scamming some other guy. The daughters were nice enough, but they are gone too. The mother is on to mooch off of someone else.
There are drawbacks to staying here (traffic, basura, noise, beggars), but they are completely outweighed by the good parts - beautiful weather (endless summer), low cost of living, people in general are very nice (as long as you identify the few who will try to scam you), my wife is a gem. My church is wonderful, and they have a couple of weekly English-language Masses. I am not the Rich American there - for the most part, I am just Jim (or Sir Jim - still not used to that LOL). I have made great friends there.
I wish I was picking up on the Tagalog more quickly, but one of the choir members usually whispers the translation of the homily (Taglish) in my ear.
All in all, we will go for a two-week visit sometime when we can afford it, but I am pretty much staying here in the Philippines with my wife, and since she knows how almost everything works, she can boss me around, and that makes her happy LOL - all the while calling me "Boss." Funny how that works out ;-)
But I am very happy here. I miss my US family and friends, but that is what Facebook and UA-cam are for. This is my new home.
@@jamesholden4571 isn't funny how women back home say we picked a Filipina so we can have a slave? Little do they know how these little women of terror can be very dominate at times!! lol. The way my wife gets to jump through hoops is because she makes me so damn happy!! I end up moving a mountain before even asking why lol. I laugh to myself at times how my wife can make me feel like the king of my castle while at the same time making me jump through hoops. I get the same thing about utang. My reply is always pulubi na ako! lol. I do help the family though just not through actual cash. Since from my personal experience has shown me money is very poorly managed most times. I also never carry cash and when asked for money by strangers I just point at my wife and we typically will buy food for kids or something to that nature. When the family asks for money from my wife she just says you have to talk to my husband since it is up to him. Which oddly enough filters about 95% of the people asking for utang. Then the 5% that do ask me are typically the ones with serious problems. IE the problem is bigger than worrying about the nose bleed.
@@alvincyrus9631 I originally came on a tourist visa. It is very easy to extend the tourist visa out like two years if I remember correctly. When I married my wife I became a permanent resident. Which if you are married is very easy to get to. Although very annoying to deal with immigration when applying. Basically they will tell you everything looks good then when you go back they say you are missing something. Happened four times to me. My advice would be to get married. Then get a permanent resident visa. There are other ways to get that status as well. Having a Filipina spouse in my opinion is the easiest way to get it. You 100% want to be a permanent resident too and not a tourist. Since you can't have a bank account here if you aren't a permanent resident amongst other things.
What a beautiful wonderful young lady P you’re gorgeous you’re smart. I am very much enjoy watching your episodes.
I was with my wife's family on a boat headed to Laki Beach in Bataan . We crossed paths with a boat headed the other way . I waived and greeted them . My brother in law asked if I knew them and why I would greet them. I replied, " imagine a world if we all greeted each other like family ." That is the way alot of Americans are taught
The "pay to play" ethic is what makes services more costly than goods. Basically, what you need to survive is dirt cheap, but what gives you enjoyment will cost you plenty! And there's a good reason why everyone is so polite to you Pea.. You're an absolute cutie!🥰🥰🤗
Win Rose first got to the US she was on complete sensory overload. She would only talk to other Filipinas and wouldn’t leave the house without me. But after almost 16 years now she’s become a social butterfly and has more close friends than she’s ever had. I’m so proud of her for the giant adjustment she made and how she looks forward to everyday now.👍
Where do you live I’m hoping your Filipina can teach my Filipina that, mine gets here3 weeks
@@briandillow6767 Oklahoma, but I don’t know if it can be taught, some things just require experience and time. But advice does help so we are happy to help if we can.👍
You are an honorary American... you embody the spirit, the wit, and the kindness abound.
There are darker sides of American culture, but you'll get that everywhere, in any culture.
So glad you're back home and safe. Looking forward to seeing more videos.
I’m glad you got too visit us!!!
As a Filipina leaving in the US, you make me proud! You're very entertaining and smart,
It's called southern hospitality, Pea! Out west it's an entirely different culture, you will discover one day!
Yes, Bing's most difficult challenge over the past ten years was seldom seeing people outside their homes.
Now, it will soon be my turn to adjust to the Karaoke and dogs!
Glad you are safely home! Great travel vlog!
Have fun adapting, and I wish you the best
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@@TheFilipinaPea Salamat Pea!
Hi Pea. I have enjoyed seeing america through your eyes. Yes I am an American but it is nice getting someone else's view. As I have said before there is much more good in this country than bad. It certainly is better than the news media makes it out to be. Hopefully, if you are ever able to travel to our country again you will check out the mid western and western states. Take care and keep up the good work.
I look forward to comparing them, Laser 👍😊
Hello Pea, as someone who has traveled to many different regions of the Philippines many times, your experience in America is similar to mine in the Philippines. You got to experience the Southern way of life in America which is completely different than a place like Los Angeles, Chicago or New York City. My experience in Luzon Island (Manila)is different than my experience in a place like Davao City. The way I was treated, the food, the culture, the hospitality will definitely differ in different regions. I am definitely glad you got to experience the nicest, and most hospitable part of the U.S. they are indeed very kind down south. I hope your next trip will be in the West Coast from San Diego up to Seattle.
I've only been south of Manila, what other parts of Philippines would you suggest?
I absolutely agree. The Pea has really seen the best the country has to offer. It does go down hill from here, though, especially at major financial hubs for the country. Here in Vancouver (Canada), people are polite, but about as cold as a glacier in Alaska. There are incredibly significant differences in the attitude of people in the south of the US to other places. Overall, though, there's nowhere I'd rather be in America than Texas, Alabama, or some such state. Really decent people there.
@@LMason-rx9xy Alabama for sure!
7 lbs is not an unusual gain for being on vacation. for anyone, anywhere. I thank you for seeing we are not a racist country. There are isolated incidents that are used for political purposes BUT it does not reflect this country as a whole. I am a 72 year old military veteran who attended the first integrated school in Florida in 1967 and we never had an issue. We had every mix of culture. we studied together, played together, worked together, etc. When in the military it was the same. I learned to appreciate and respect every culture I encountered in my lifetime and I have been to many places. I am so happy you told it like it is. As in every culture in every country there are those few who like to cause trouble. Here, unfortunately, these infrequent circumstances are picked up by the media and used to push whatever the political agenda is recently. When I was a kid, my traditional southern grandma would have slapped me upside the head if I ever disrespected anyone. Again, I cannot thank you enough and sorry I missed you when you were here in Florida .
Pea, you are so spot on, not one thing on your list was not right. You really have good observational skills. That was a great vlog. Welcome back to the Philippines. You make me miss some things about the US, but not the pricing for housing or hotels.
What an amazing perspective ! I was smilingly and laughing watching. You naiked it ! Traveling like you did is crazy, crazy expensive, especially like you where traveling. I've lived in both Orlando and Savannah but one thing that will take many, many more trips to understand is how incredibly massive and diverse the United States actually is. You went to 6 states but haven't seen 1% of the country yet. Country people are incredible in America. Nobody should believe the propaganda that America is a terrible racist place. I knew everyone would love your infectious wonderful personality. Awesome video !
What planet are you living on?
Pea, what that family served are often called “finger foods”.
It's so interesting to hear about the differences in our countries and cultures. I'm glad you enjoyed your time here!
Hi Pea, Thanks so much for the kind comments about the US. Folks in the South are definitly friendly. Prices of everyhing from rent to gas has jumped up considerably. The cost of living where I am is not as bad as a lot of places. A lot of people are going to steaming TV instead of satilite or cable. I basically pay double than what my filipina friend pays for interent and 3 times as much for TV service. Yes there is plenty of great food here. My weight is like a yoyo .Up and Down . Weight gain , another form of inflation ! . America is diverse and there is freedom to speak as you wish even though there is a certain element that doesn't want that. I'm glad that you enjoyed yourself here.
Great summary of your trip to the U.S. I enjoyed watching quite a few of your videos in this series. Reminded me of my wife when we first moved to the states back in the 80's. I want to thank You for being a Great Visitor! Much Respect to you!
Pea, great video. Glad to hear your perspective of my country. Interesting to hear your viewpoint of some of the things that we consider just basic or standard in America. Glad you had a good stay. We welcome you back at any time! You just touched the tip of the iceberg. lol.
Hi Pea! Thank you for coming to visit us here in the American south. 🙂 Rents for apartments and such were not always this bad. Prices for rent and stuff SKYROCKETED after the pandemic. In 2019 and earlier (for the most part, anyway), prices here for literally anything were far more reasonable. I live in a place where the cost of living is not so bad compared to the rest of the USA but I have to pay nearly $100/month for internet, which I have to have for my work-from-home job. I really, really miss the days of $20/month internet and I'm scratching my head on where the heck you found it here. 🙂Also...most of us don't like licorice either, ha ha! I hope you come back to see us really soon!
Thanks John! My internet was a ‘basic’ one that came with the apartment, but it was still faster than mine at home 👍
Pretty sure you can write that off on your taxes as a work expense.
My guess is that we define "fast Internet" differently from someone coming from the Philippines. I'm paying $95 for 600 Mbps on fiber to the door. I'd imagine that's a heck of a luxury in many smaller countries.
@@billable1861in the Philippines? Lol, ok.
Next time you come to the USA come to the Pacific NW Very differnt than the South, Not better but just different.
My Filipina wife and I would be glad to host you and loan you a car. Great report. Many thanks.
That was a great video Pea. I grew up in the South and I miss it there. I now live in the western U.S. The one thing that I like here is the weather and the wide open spaces. But I miss the people from the South. I noticed a profound difference. People in the South when I lived there were much more friendly and wanted to know each other and there was much more of a feeling of community. Here in the west, people seem more unfriendly and unwelcoming and rude and it is harder to get to know your neighbors and make friends.
Pea:
It's great that you got to experience more differences in cultures first hand from the Philippines and the United States. This is something that many wish to do, but sadly so many cannot. Learning about other places around the vast world we live in is a great way to actually see how huge this planet is, yet find out how small it can seem as well in some of the similarities as well as the differences.
Personally I loved this series of videos because you gave so much respect to the country you visited. I've heard stories and watched videos about people traveling to other countries and did not do their research on what would and would not be allowed in the form of attitude from people in those countries, while finding themselves in a deep pile of doo-doo they created for themselves, and begging for their home country to bail them out. But it came with no surprise to me that you packed a big bag of respect and handed it out like Santa hands out Christmas presents on Dec.25th. You are just the type of person that knows that you must give respect in order to receive it.
As far as bringing a Filipina back to the Western society, it all comes down to a person to person basis. Being that every person is unique, so is every situation in that matter. Maybe a trial period to see how she adjusts to the mind altering differences. Or even suggest a series of long visits to help her become aware of the differences rather than just plucking her out of the Philippines and trying to plant her in the West.
As for the weight gain, you actually did awesome to not gain much more than that! Many people would have thought double that with all the new exciting flavors and portion sizes. Just the portion sizes would have had a huge part in that, but the added flavor excitement would have kept the taste buds wanting more.
I am so glad that your trip was filled with happiness and safety, and I wish you many more adventures in the future to video and bring to your channel for us to enjoy as well.
"Learning about other places around the vast world we live in is a great way to actually see how huge this planet is, yet find out how small it can seem as well in some of the similarities as well as the differences."
Dead on correct!!! Sadly, only around half of Americans even have passports. Possibly in part due to finances (international travel can be expensive), and possibly also because America is so huge an varied that you can take a vacation every summer for life here and still only see a fraction of what the country has to offer. Also partly because sheer geographical logistics. In the EU, you can hop on a train and be in two or three (even four, depending) countries in a single day. But America is functionally a (really gigantic) island. Its at least a four or five hour flight from NYC just to set foot in Europe, and even longer from LAX to Asia.
Still, I wish Americans traveled more. Really does enlarge one's perspective. And Americans are blessed with a "strong" Passport. It will get you into all but a dozen or so of the world's 192 countries without even needing a Visa, or easily getting one on arrival (and would you really want to vacation in North Korea anyway? 🤣).
Glad you enjoyed your visit.... and you look great Pea 😎
Hi pea…I wanted to apologize for my comment about you weighing in…I should have watched the whole video…I’m glad you got to spend time in the US. You are a positive voice in a dark world. Keep the content coming 😊
Pea, I know you aren't leaving us, but that video was like the best culmination of a career. Well said, well presented, etc. You confirmed the reason for all the kind Americans, I WAS only in the south. 😊 thank you for your honest evaluation of us and our culture and country. Your tremendous beauty is far outweighed by your knowledge of our culture, and overall humanity. Thank you for being you Pea. And yes, that lady at the elevator is the majority of us southerners. God bless you and us all Ms. Pea.
@TheFilipinaPea If you think about it.........................@TheFilipinaPea is now our very own Southern Peach!!
No, the South has absolutely no greater propensity for dispensing genuine kindness than most all of the rest of the US, they just Think that they do.
Hi Pea. I am an American living in the Philippines. I have been here for 4 years. I have a quick story for you. I went on a 7 day cruise before moving here. Went with a couple of friends. We weighed one friend because we knew he was going to eat a lot. He figured he paid for it when he paid for the cruise. He had breakfast, lunch & dinner everyday. He ate at every midnight buffet except one. When we got home from the cruise we weighed him again. He had gained 12 pounds in 7 days. So you gaining just 7 pounds in 3 months is not as bad as you think. Just thought you would like the comparison so you don't feel so bad. Enjoy your videos, keep it up.
Well she walked a lot too!
I lost 5 lbs in 6 weeks on my last trip to Cambodia and Thailand. I ate everything that looked good and I still lost weight. It's the portion size.
@@tonysaidhiI think everyone getting her to eat food has a lot to do with it too.
Yes, but in the Philippines you drink the water, get diarrhea, and then lose 5lbs in 2 days 🤣💩
When I was in the Philippines in March, I lost 5 pounds. I am here again in Palawan, and we will see how it goes. I know a lot of it is the different activities that I do here. At home I go to the gym 5 days a week where here I go swimming, hiking and other activities with my girlfriend ❤ We will see when I get her back to America how we both do. We are both physically fit, so I think we will do alright.
You are right, the tipping thing has gotten out of control here. So have rental prices. I'm paying 2x what I was paying a year ago, and I am in a much smaller place. I've been told I could live in a fancy apartment with a list of amenities in Manila for the same. 😮 I really enjoyed your American adventures. Thanks Pea.
I have been anticipating this summary of your visit to the USA!
I am soon moving to Bohol. I’m from North Carolina. I am excited and nervous for all that you experienced. I look forward to slowing down and enjoying your slower way of life.
Things I like: Filipina Pea and her channel. (She is awesome!)
Things I don’t like: Now that she is home, there is no chance of me running into her since she is not on her USA vacation.
PS > You were in the South where friendliness, politeness, and hospitality are highly desired personal virtues. So, other area could have a different experience. Finally, you were beautiful at both weigh-ins.
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Well I’ll be back, Khan 👍❤️
I am so happy that you came here to the US. I enjoyed seeing how you responded to visiting to different places. It really gives me a better appreciation for my county . You were so kind and positive in your last video. It actually brought tears to my eyes to hear your thoughts and reactions to visiting here. I am now an even bigger fan you and your channel. You are one of the best vloggers. Keep up the good work. P.S , I have visited the Philippines and will eventually be bringing a Filapina back to the US .Thanks again.
Glad you had a great trip and was able to experience our culture. I guess we will all have to wait for your return trip now. It is very interesting to hear about the differences in the two cultures.
I’ll definitely be back, Michael - I have unfinished business in 44 states 🤣🤣
1) Some people can handle living abroad
2) Some people will get influenced by other negative people and become negative and implode your relationship.
BE CAREFUL INVITING friends or whatver in your relationships.
I have certainly enjoyed your road trip to America series. And I'm happy to have a honest outside assessment of my nation.
So delighted that you enjoyed yourself so much dear Pea. 😃
You have probably discovered that “The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page …”
And that coming back to where you started is not the same as never leaving …
Now the question is : where will you go next Pea?
Next Episode of “The Intrepid Adventures of the Famous Filipina Pea”, Volume 2, to follow shortly … 😊😘❤️
You for sure got the southern hospitality. Glad you had a good time. I can almost guarantee if you would have gone to LA or New York it would have been a completely different experience.
I look forward to comparing it to the north and west 👍😊
When New Yorkers talk it's like they are yelling at you. My experience at first, then you like them.
My thoughts exactly!!
Yes, here in LA is totally different then the south. Can not wait to move to the 🇵🇭
@@chromemondoshame you wouldn't be able to bring that pretty gun with you there. It's really nice.
I would say this was a good introduction to the US but the magic is really in the Northeast, Southwest or Northwest of the US. Maine, Vermont, New Hampshire, Arizona, Colorado, Utah, Wyoming, Montana, California, Oregon, etc are the absolute best places to visit for someone like yourself who comes from a tropical / relatively flat part of the world. I don’t hold it against you that you didn’t reach out when you were in Savannah :P, and I hope you get to experience some of the other places I mentioned in the future. Welcome home…
I would tell people to avoid most of those places. Especially California and Oregon.
Other than those states having a different climate than the Philippines. Why those states? What do you think a person should see in them?
@@rememberstayangry2366 Why don’t you explain why someone shouldn’t.
I agree that you must go to the Northeast and Pacific Northwest as well as the Western States. The South is nice but just a small part of US culture and a tiny part of the US’s GDP and population.
I'm glad you enjoyed my country. I just came back from yours and your videos were helpful. I think we often take for granted the conveniences we have in America.
Sounds like overall you enjoyed it. I love it when people come to America and enjoy it.
Overall great analysis on the usa. You did only see one region. The south is much more friendly vs the west or north east. Alot of other cultural differences between each region I notice from living in each region thru out my life. Same goes for the Philippines and its regions.
I am totally for a bidet to take over the usa.
Hope you get to return to other region. I do love exploring each region of pi. Btw every episode should have minimal 1 bikini shoot.
Hahahahaha
Let me get in shape first 🤣🤣👍
Thank you Pea! I loved this episode. Don’t take it bad but you look good just the way you are. You are braver than I am. There is no way I would weigh myself in front of anyone. 😮 Thank you again for being so amazing.
It’s especially rare for a woman, but what the heck 🤣🤣🤣
Sa imo un ako suna 😀
Great summary! It's incredible the details you've noticed. Things we just take for granted.
You surprised me with an obvious observation which I probably wasn't able to spot due to lack of perspective... "Things are cheap, services are expensive".
I enjoyed every single moment of your whole journey! But, I'm sure, we can have an equivalent, though different, one in the Philippines!
Thank you! Santiago
Thanks Santiago! I really tried hard to notice every little thing 👍
Pea” Your honesty is greatly appreciated😊
LOVE IT, YOU SAID IT TO THE POINT AS A PILIPINO GROWING UP IN TACOMA WASHINGTON
My wive survived 5 years in America with me. The second I said we had enough resources to retire, she started planning our move back to Mindanao. We returned HOME to Mindanao on October 1st. We both hope we never have to live in America again.
Im trying to be like you
My wife and I built a home in the province of Davao del Sur, but live in California. Looking forward to returning there this August. My wife has no desire to permanently live there again.
Hi Pea, very good topic. I live in the US for 4 years then moved in Europe living same country for the past 40 yrs. I’ll say no matter how much gourmet you’ve eaten nothing can be compared to Home Sweet Home. Food in foreign countries are good much more in Europe but when you’re eating it everyday you still long for the food you grew up. Much more you missed the bonds from your families, relatives and friends you’ve had before. Despite my families are in the US but honestly almost everyone I knew prefers to go home. That Filipino interaction even among strangers, smiling, friendliness, the vibes, the jokes, the warmth of our Kababayan that we carried anywhere we go. One priest said, if the church is full up and huge participation there’s Filipino community. I traveled much anywhere but only in our country I felt relaxed. I’m going early next year for much longer period and hopefully to hear from you. 😊👍
Something that surprises me is not the wildlife you saw on your travels, but the lack of wildlife in the Philippines. I live in Toronto, I believe it is something like the 10th largest city in North America and my back yard sounds like a wildlife jungle compared to what you said about the Philippines. I have raccoons, squirrels, rabbits, skunks, foxes, cats, porcupines, and I've also come across a couple small snakes (non-venomous). I have even seen a wolf on my street just a couple houses down from me one night. Not to mention all the birds. There were also a couple other animals that I'm not 100% sure what they were, but I only saw them once or twice.
She is certainly right about no wildlife in Philippines. I have been bicycling the country roads for years and I’ve yet to see a living creature
A few run over snakes and frogs but the only prize was a small crocodile. Alas it was also run over
You forgot to mention the multitude of deer founf in Scarbourough.
Hi My favourite Pea. is nice hear you share your experienced. is very valuable information. I hope I will be able to see you when I visits there.
Fantastic Pea. You came, you saw and survived the US and returned home safely. Some time, you should visit us here in Toronto. Thanks for sharing your many experiences in the six states of the US by these videos. Continue to be true to yourself and be successful and safe.
I am so happy and proud of Americans for our good behavior and relieved at the same time! 1st impressions are critical! There is an image people have of America that you saw firsthand wasn’t accurate. Americans are Very friendly, and yes, we will talk to anyone around us like we’ve known them for years. We are not only friendly but helpful as well. There’s always someone around you who is willing to help if needed, no questions, no expectations, just to help, then they move on with their day. That’s the way we are. My favorite example is a N. Korean refugee who made it to America, she didn’t speak English, had a bag of groceries which fell and all the people around her stopped to help her pick everything up. Would not have happened where she is from. She was apologetic for not speaking English and people here told her that’s ok we’re sorry we don’t know Korean for you. And my absolute personal favorite is how friendly men were to her with no expectations, and as she said “Asian women are popular in America”! Hahaha… Americans love all women, but something about Asian women really draws our attention and captivates us. Again, no expectations, we just enjoy having you around!
Pea, I'm going to say something some will squawk at, but its ok.
You toured the part of US where they still are cordial and considerate. The further north and east you go, the less of that you'll encounter....Im glad you didn't go there for a number of reasons.
Glad you got to enjoy plenty while here and made it home safely!
The old age tradition of, down home southern hospitality alive and well it appears, "beauty"
Dear Pea, I'm German. I made, in the North-East, the South and the West of the US quite the same experience as you - very hospitable, often forwardly friendly and helpful people. I felt always well with Americans. You present the differences with the Philippines in a special matter - again with your mindful way of understanding people - so that I as a German can indeed learn. Remarkable. And don't mind the few pounds more - they fit you well! With or without, the man who may enjoy to be your partner in life - is a truly 'lucky prince'! Ah... I just discovered: you misspelled your name here: the correct spelling is rather "Filipina PeaRL!... 😊
Yes, the cost of living also varies from state to state. Cars, insurance, hospitals, doctors...We're still deciding what to do in about 7 years from now.
“The customer is always right” is changing, a lot of places don’t do that anymore because quite a few customers lie now and try to get things free or lowered purchase price. 😊
I think if she’s from the province and have never been away from her family, she wouldn’t want to leave. However if her family is really poor and her parents especially want to go to the US, she will do her best to convince you to bring her to the west.
If she’s young and beautiful, bringing her to the west can be disastrous. It all depends on her parents. Filipinas often place their parents next to God in influence of her life.
That’s all true, Teui 😳👍
Years ago my friend was in the Navy and married a Filipino. He brought her to the states (Ohio) to live and they were raising two sons when she just decided to leave and she never looked back. Very little contact with her two boys who were young when she left. I could see that my friend did not live a life that would cultivate a good family relationship (he was off boating and fishing every chance and left her with the boys). I just couldn't understand leaving the boys. One did eventually commit suicide and she never attended the services.
I'm American and I rather be in the Philippines due to all of the lunacy here
100% agree
We have some lunacy too, but of a different type 😊
As an American man living in the Philippines now for the past 19 months, and very aware of America's problems, I wouldn't wish America on any foreigner.
I’ll add your vote to the pile, Thomas 👍🤣
I have lived im the USA many many years ago ohio and New Jersey. I am happy i could. Great experience. Very comfortabke country if you have some money. Yet, i would not want to live my entire life there especially not now. Philippines a much better place (if you have some money).
The United States is a great country to live in but there are flaws. I think the politicians running the country are too old and incompetent. One can qualify for social security benefits and is considered old enough to retire in their early sixties meanwhile half of the political leaders are in their seventies and eighties. The current administration is the worst of my lifetime. The average American is a moron. If it’s not celebrity gossip, something entertaining on social media, or a popular opinion that a biased news outlet that they trust says the average American knows nothing. Honestly I don’t think the American men in the comment section should bring a Filipina woman or any foreign woman to live in the states while she’s still in her twenties or thirties because she will be easily influenced by how the average American women in their twenties and thirties act.
Get out of the blue states. Pull your head out of MSNBC and CNN and you'll find a lot more of the country is still a beautiful, friendly and safe place to live
I live in both countries, I love the Philippines, but if I could only live in one county it would be the states. Rural Georgia has so much to offer, northerners just take a little longer to warm up to you but they eventually do and are very nice. I prefer to spend my winter months in the Philippines and summer months in the states.
Enjoyed this Pea! You are welcome here anytime! We appreciate you so much ! Thank you for your wonderful content! Love ya Pea! God bless 😊🙏🏻😘❤️
you crack me up.. love your channel and share it with all my friends..
Hi Pea, glad to see you got back safely. Great video. If you get back to America, try to stop at some of our national parks but do not get close to the wildlife. Some of the tourists are under the mistaken impression that they are tame and kept in a barn at night. We have many animals that are quite capable of killing you and some tourists get the Darwin award by not getting out of the park alive. See you Friday and take care of yourself.
Hello Pea! As an American I am glad that you had a reasonable good experience while visiting there. Unfortunately Florida is the worst place in the South to do price comparisons for just about anything especially rentals and restaurant prices. Airports are overly expensive everywhere for push carts and food purchases. Yes! You are absolutely correct with regard to tipping as it has gotten completely out of control ever since the Covid pandemic!
But at least Florida is free.
@@rayray2076 As compared to what?
@@MikeSmith-frog cali, Illinois, New york, MI, NM. You know the blue states. are you that stupid?
I am a Mexican-American and have many friends who are Filipinos. One Filipina told me she was involved in an auto accident with another car that was driven by a Mexican. The Mexican person asked my Filipina friend if she spoke Spanish (assuming my Filipina friend was a fellow Mexican). My Filipina friend informed the other driver that she did not speak Spanish. The Mexican driver called my Filipina friend a "sell-out" because she did not speak Spanish. This example shows how Filipinos and Mexicans are familiar in appearance and mannerisms.
After walking through many cities in Mexico, Puerto Rico, and watching hours of KryptoTrekker's walked through the various areas in Central Luzon, I have to admit that there are great similarities in the culture despite language differences. Having worked in maquiladoras and in Filipino call centers, a lot of the mannerisms are very similar.
As JO KOY points out in his shows. Filipinos and Mexicans are like cousins. Linked by the Spanish. They are similar in so many ways.
your personality is amazing pea! I love it!
As a Southerner, I'm glad you enjoyed the South here in America. Don't worry about the few extra pounds. You look great. Thank you for your videos. Thank you for coming to visit us here in the USA.
Everybody is nice to you because you look beautiful and exotic to boot: pretty has its privileges!!
Glad you enjoyed your trip to the States! Really glad you was first introduced to our country by visiting the South first! You're always welcome here!
As for the " racism " it is mostly pushed by the elite to keep us divided! People who actually do the research themselves realize this.
Great video! Hope you have a wonderful week!
Thank you for your comments on "feeling welcome, and not looked down on." Racism is used as a tool in the US to subjegate certain groups. Also, the South is much, much more friendlier than the North East for instance. And much more densely populated up there too. But, most of your obsevations were spot-on! You have wisdom far beyond your years! If you come again, I would love to meet you and treat you to an authentic Italian dinner cooked by me! God's blessings and love, Ron
Stop simping dude, she isn't having dinner with you...
Just enjoy her content.
I do agree that racism is a tool used by some to shut down other people's freedoms like the first amendment but it's not because of racism per se.i do disagree with your prejudicial statement about the northeast and the south. When I live in the south for several years I was shocked that everyone used the N word when talking to black and about them. And I'd never been stopped by police in the north ever for having a Yankee or rebel license plate like I was in the south and threatened by police to spend a weekend in jail unless I had some cash for the sheriff. So I guess that's how southerners display friendliness. In my day the preferred term wasn't racism, it was prejudice. Like when people generalize about groups of people and assume they're all alike. It's based on ignorance.
Then I’ll remember that I have a free dinner invite! Thanks Ron 🤣🤣🤣❤️
@@jasoncatron1039 ...think again schmuck!
Pea you look great i was so glad you came here hope you can do it again
I find your videos informative and funny! I love your sense of humor!
You're right about the smell of pot. I hate it. I work across the street from a pot growing and processing plant. Sometimes, it smells so bad it make your nauseous. The tipping culture IS out of hand. I don't tip at fast food places. If I'm not sitting at a table and getting a server, I'm not tipping. Glad you had a nice visit.
As a 63 year old man who has lived in the USA his entire life my thought is USA "you can have it". I recently visited the Phillipines for 3 months and am eagerly awaiting my move to Bohol to permanently live ❤.
3 months and you’ve already turned on your country?? 😂😂 I hope you are successful there but never down your own. If the world throws you away, America is the only place that’ll bring you in 👍🏻
Then get out clown
@@Southern_gentleman. i agree I find it hilarious how they find the need to bash America and start a UA-cam channel 😂
It is worth noting that the very culture of the US seems to shift dramatically depending upon where you are. Washington is different from Arizona, which has a different atmosphere then New York and Georgia.
One person I know once said it seemes like at times the US is 50 smaller nations in a trench coat pretending to be one big nation.
I guess you missed the fact that it is called the United States.
Hahahahaha
Great analogy 🤣🤣
@@pubwvj I know that, I am American. That said how often do you see, even in the comment section of this video comments like "The North is worse," or "Fuck California" (or New York, or any other state for that matter)
"Me against my brother; my brother and I against the World," seems to be the US' unofficial motto, especially given the current political divisions. It will probably die down in a few years, but the base rivalry will remain I think
@@christracey5813you missed my point.
@@TheFilipinaPea I agree great analogy
Hi Pea, I'm glad to hear your time in the US was enjoyable and rewarding for you. You are spot on about all your observations. Keep rocking. Awesome content.
Glad you got to explore the USA. As for house, hotel prices, it all depends on the state you visit. Like Oklahoma the housing market is a lot cheaper than Florida, California, New York.
Welcome home Pea. I'm glad you survived the insanity of our country and we're returned safely to the beauty of the Philippines.
I’m glad that you had a good time in the US. While we all speak the same language for the most part, different parts of the country might seem like a totally different country. In the southern United States people do seem to be a bit more friendly and strike up a random conversation with a stranger. In California you might be seen as creepy for doing the same. I’m glad that things were clean where you were at. In other parts of the country it’s dirtier and more messy than most 3rd world big cities that I’ve been too. I’ve toured many Filipino tourists through San Francisco. Most are shocked to see the masses of homeless, the garbage and human waste on the streets and sidewalks, and the smell of that human waste. California does have a lot of nice places, but people are just shocked that it’s not what they expected.
I was raised in California in the 50s and 60s. A time I now consider the golden age of California and much of America. I'm very happy living the Philippines now and will do what I must to stay here
Glad you’re back. I was in Dumaguete while you were in the states and now I’m headed back to Los Angeles. Your comments are spot on my family is originally from Tennessee and I think the next time you come back, you might want to visit other parts of the country because the south is very different Pea ❤
I'm 73 Pea & I pay cash for 99% of all my expenses. All but 1 bill normally. When making purchases on Amazon I pay cash to friends for them to order for me. -- Glad you enjoyed your trip and returned safely. -- My goal is to move to Tagaytay before I die and enjoy my remaining days in comfort there. It's beautiful there has good local food and the weather is more to my liking. -- Take care - and - "live long and prosper" !
Pea your looking really good. Don't put yourself down!
You always make me smile Ms. Pea! You're adorable! 💕
Hey Pea you should try England next time Not much difference but a lot slimmer people
Hi Pea glad you had a good trip. I have traveled all around the States and most people you meet are good people.
I'm glad that you came down to the southeast states first, we're a LOT friendlier down here. You should have come here in November when the leaves turn colors, it's amazing. We don't notice it as much until someone from up north tells us!
Hi Pea, I'm glad you made it back to PI safely.