An Update on our Gestational Carrier Journey...
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- Опубліковано 21 кві 2024
- Hi everyone! We have an update on our latest pregnancy test that we took with our Gestational Carrier. Although it's not what we wanted to see, we still believe in our journey and continue holding on to hope & faith.
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When things don’t happen easily for me I look at it like maybe that’s the Lord telling me that maybe it’s not his will for me. Just something to think about
So when things are hard we give up? Should students apply that in school? Should we quit our jobs when they’re hard? Just wondering where we draw the line here on when to give up vs keep trying.
What does that suppose to mean???? She should give up trying for another child????? I think you should go somewhere else to leave your opinion ma'am!!!!! I pray that her surrogate get pregnant soon🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾❣️
You and I must have different ideas of how God works then. You see, I believe nothing is too difficult for God. This is another hurdle in life. It shall pass.
@@emilyhoniotes2050 yes. The easy way is mostly the right one. But we have made our head already and want that 1 thing. And nothing else.
Keep positive....when you start doubting and giving up....your will power will also. It took me 13 YEARS....YEARS to have my 2nd/last baby. He is 6y now Autistic Nonverbal and the beat to my heart. So please....PLEASE keep positive ❤
The Lord gives you the desires of your heart. If you feel there is another one on the way! There will be! Proclaim it! Lay it at the foot of the cross! Our God is sooooo goood! Praying for you guys💕
Let go and let god .. I agree
I found your channel today: and I have watched quite a few videos but not all.
I love how Charlie responds to the camera/video recorder. Not clear what she is aware when she looks to the video recorder. I can say her eyes light up and I see her thinking then she has a beautiful smile.
Excellent you named the Podcast, Don't Judge, Just Love.
Entirely appropriate name as it is quite easy to judge and tell your husband and you, my opinions. Having watched a number of your videos, my feelings are no judgement only love for your Family.
You, both have an absolute energy, enormous compassion and obviously immense Faith to live your life with the Choices you have made.
Only you can understand the incredible gift your daughters provide you daily. ▪️You are a living example illustrating that the joys and Miracles of life come in unexpected forms.
You have a strong Faith. Only my view. ▪️▫️ Keep following your faith without EXPECTATION. It is the most difficult aspect for anyone.▫️▪️
No one can predict if you will have a child from anyone of these Five Embryos left. If you feel lead to continue, then leave it with God.
We only have one day at a time. We never know why we go through things......Sometimes we don't understand until years, even decades later.
Your heart break is deeply painful, every time you go through a day like today. Only those families who have gone through it can understand.
Love and Hugs .....we are all learning to let go of the Outcomes as we go through the process. The process is the Journey. The Journey is Life. 💙💖
I’m a special needs momma of 1 (my oldest who is 9), but we have 5 kiddos (2,3,5,7). I’m sure there are a lot of critics. My daughter has Aicardi (non-verbal, non-mobile w/ epilepsy) and it’s definitely hard, but you got this. 👌🏽
You are just so sweet! And the way you express yourself is so easily relatable to me. ❤❤❤
Wow, your whole family is so amazing. Thank you for sharing your beautiful life. Prayers that this pregnancy journey goes the way you hope it will❤
I wish you all the best, don't give up!
You are a great mamma 💕 I truly believe if it's meant to be then it surely is as much as you want this I know a new baby yes love babies but I think u already take on enough right now with the 3 you have maybe in a couple years would be better I hope for the best thing to happen for your family bless u ❤
You’re an incredible mommy and I know you’re going to be celebrating your new addition so soon! Sending you all so much love and blessings
Her children are suffering because of her husbands poor sperm quality or her
This post helped me a lot. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I was just told Monday our last embryo transfer was a MC. No HB at 6wks and an undersized sack. I’ve had 5 failures in the last 14 months including 2 more ER’s. I don’t know how to process because the last embryo was supposed to work and it also failed and I have no more. I just don’t understand. I’m starting to doubt the path God lead me down. Did I misunderstand ? IVF is SO humbling.
Sending prayers and love to you and your family.
Try adopting. It will fill your heart more to give a child a home who is in desperate need. That's the right thing to do.
Adopting is not always the answer , an adopted child almost killed my youngest child … nightmare , adoption has its problems , some are damaged beyond repair
@@justicebeginstoshine8069@justicebeginstoshine8069 biological kids kill family members more than adopted children by far.
@@GroundhogBabytry adopting people say! Shocker it not always the opinion. Not every adoption is a wonderful experience. You would be surprised just how many are given up by adopting parents, girls being sexually abused, and so on. Those at infant age under 6 months have the best chance of a successful adoption. Older one are normally were children was removed from abusive parents and a family member didn’t take them in. Facts matter.
Congratulations on things to come Thank You Jesus
I know couples who would not even attempt to have another child after having one with a major lifelong disability, the fact that you both have 2 and want to continue is amazing. If you didn’t get your embryos tested pcr when they were fertilized which I wouldn’t think u had considering…it wouldn’t make a difference. U would follow through with the outcome regardless of any test u would choose life obviously and that’s the right choice. But if it doesn’t work out for the five remaining. All u need to know is you did all u can do and you guys have it your all. I don’t know your entire history. If u can keep trying etc. naturally. Than god will let u know by all means. But you do have two daughters with major special needs. I would be so concerned for their future and what u do have now. No one is promised tomorrow. Either you or your husband can suddenly die leaving the other with a world of work. Then having girls with disabilities verse boys. Girls are more vulnerable or more of a target god forbid something happened to either one of you or both. Bad people can hurt them etc. I would be very afraid to bring more children with disabilities into the world and have them be subjected to the evil of the world. You will need to make provisions and plans for them maybe that’s why u want more children to take care of them but that’s not fare to the unborn Children either. That their lives are predestined to be caregivers indefinitely. I knew of a family who had s girl with Autism and they deliberately tried for another girl to be the sisters keeper and they ended up having two boys. Everyone in my class gasped at the idea that they tried to plan to have a baby girl to be a caregiver for her future. So I really think u guys should fully consider what u are doing. You already have two out of three children, whose to say your next five won’t have major disabilities either? I know ur gonna go for it. I wish you all the best but at this point I would leave well enough alone and listen to God. If they all fail then that’s God telling you that he said no. It’s not a fail. It’s his choice not yours. We always think that because god didn’t answer our prayers the way we want him to or get the answer we want that he’s not listening or answering , no it’s we aren’t listening to his answer which is no or he has different plans for us. So I do wish you get all the blessings and wants you want but be prepared for Gods plan.
Your daughter is so beautiful.
Mi dispiace.
Non perdete la speranza ❤
If you are in God's world...just let him decide what should be or not to be instead of making it so complicated with your why's.. buts..just trust your maker and don't question him
So sorry ❣️🩷💙🇺🇸
But can i ask again..where do u get your energy??!!! Its amazing!!!! Ur amazing!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I hope the next transfer works for you guys, IVF is such an emotional roller coaster 😢
That feeling you have about other children in your life can be manifested in many ways. Try not to be so hard on yourself, and don't over analyze. Let God lead you in his time for additional children. And in the meantime, continue to celebrate the beautiful gifts that God has already given you. I am childless and 65. It broke my heart to never have children or even get to adopt. But I will continue to trust in God's decision and timing in my life. God bless you and your family.
I absolutely trust gods decision also. I hope you have had a beautiful life and enjoyed every minute of it 😊
When the time is Right it will happen, I’m sorry it didn’t work out the first time for you guys But I’m sure it will in the future, maybe you just need a little more time and patience…Things Happen For A Reason…you’ve got your hands full already Muma…Blessings from Australia ❣️❣️🌻🌻🌻
It TRULY amazes me that a mom of two, with a special needs (beautiful) child has the energy to have a 3rd baby!!! How do u do it??? Im in shock..u guys are amazing!!!! First time watching your channel tonite..u all are incredible!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
She’s a mom of 3 already and she wanted more to love 🌻🌻🌻
lift it all to God...
❤❤❤
So sorry:( praying for y’all.
Sois maravillosos todos y tú una mamá magnífica,seguro que todo saldrá bien .
Yo ya he pedido que todo salga como tú quieres .
Un fuerte abrazo desde España 🥰
You have such a beautiful home, in what state are you living?
Why?
I just know that you will get your baby!! I do truly hope that you get 2 like you wanted tho. But I am so sure you will get one!!
How many days post transfer is she? 5 day blasts?
I just cannot feel sympathy for them. Its obviously NOT meant to be. They're not supposed to bring another child into the world to exploit. And they're literally starting before its even born. I just CAN'T its all so WRONG and feels very ick. Selfish. 🤢
Have u ever heard of Granger Smith and his wife, Amber🙏? Do u know their story?? I HIGHLY encourage u to find their Channel, hear their story about their son, River, and hear their story about the baby they had with many tries of In Vitro several years after having River..if their channel and their faith does not encourage and support u, then idk what will!!! God bless u!!!❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🍼👶👼🤱👩🍼🤱👩🍼🤱👩🍼🤱👩🍼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Never push things... try fostering a child..
Seriously?? Some people cant have ANY kids at all. You have 3.
She loves be a mum
Please stop this nonsense. You already have enough on your plate. Give your existing kids your full attention. Your husband. The rest of the family. Family vlogs should be really banned. Exploiting kids for views. When the woman cannot get a grisp of common sense, why the man cant? Anything for money really
God always knows timming
Wow, the negative comments are just unreal. Do not foster. You are a young family. Theres no rush.
It’s obvious that she favors the more with it daughter than the spaced out vegetable daughter.
Be grateful you have the children you have, and your plate is full
She is grateful and she also shares it with whomever wants to learn and grow with her as she cares for her family... It sounded rude for you to say that like you did... Like she's some ungrateful mother, greedy wanting moreA and more... Who's to say when her plate is full, we are not her nor feel what she does.. If she wasn't able to or just not taking care of her kids then maybe say something to that person but not in a rude way... Also ONLY GOD SHOULD JUDGE ANYONE ON ANYTHING NOT YOU OR I OR ANYONE ELSE... I HOPE THIS LADY GET THE KIDS SHE WANTS TO HAVE AND AS MANY AS THEY CAN LOVE N TAKE CARE OF WETHER IT BE ONE OR TEN MORE... GOD BLESS HER AND GIVE HER THE STRENGTH SHE NEEDS TO KEEP FIGHTING FOR WHAT SHE LOVES AND DESERVES...
I know you don't want 2, but two embryos next time?
She said on IG that her doc won’t do 2 at a time because twin pregnancy is automatically high risk and so she (the doc) never transfers more than 1 at a time.
@AaWa-dp4oq Hmm, that's interesting. I had twins (pregnant at 34, delivered at 35), and was not considered high risk.
@@wileybunch2001 most OBs consider twins high risk. Not all. But hers is one of the ones who does.
@@wileybunch2001 I don't know what country you live in, but any multiple pregnancy/birth in the US is considered high risk. So much could go wrong even before birth. One twin could even pass.
@@GroundhogBaby US, SF Bay Area.
I'm having issue with the terminology. Its a surrogate. Gestational carrier sounds incredibly pretentious...but you do you.
I do hope it works out for you though.
Obviously her heart is NOT full or she wouldn't be whining about this, or even attempting to bring another child into the world to exploit online.
You can do whatever you want have another or adopt or both ppl need to stop hating. Yuck . And stop responding to hate comments just block them . ❤
Maybe God's trying to tell you something 🤷🏻♀️
God has nothing to do with infertility, keep your religious convictions to yourself! Also this family is doing IVF in order to have another child that won’t have the same conditions as her daughters
Please protect your kids. Stop posting them publicly for money. It’s not fair to them & you’re serving them up on a silver platter to predators
I doubt you care
I could not agree more. You can certainly advocate without endangering your children, especially children who will need to be protected their entire lives. Sure, talk about it - make posts, videos, podcasts, etc…just don’t use the kids🤷🏼♀️ Lobby for more education for medical professionals, host a walk/run to raise money for others with the same or similar disorders/for research, or start a charity/fund. I just cannot support these family vloggers using their children in this manner…
Why do u want more kids? Arent u tired of taking care of the twins?
Piease dont have anymore children
Your both going to have to wahe up every 2 or 3 hours for the new born your going to be to tired for the care of the other children JESUS HOLY NAME AMEN
The reason it didn't work is 2 things, one you have enough children and your hands are full with 2 severely disabled children. Fate will not allow you to bring another child into that, but fate will allow you to not be selfish and open up your home to a child already on this earth that needs a forever home. DO THE RIGHT THING AND ADOPT A CHILD IN NEED!
Seriously? What’s wrong with you?It’s her business and her right to do what she wants. Your opinion belongs somewhere dark and moist not here.
@@RebeccaS3980oh okay👌🏻if you say so. You and I both know she has no business bringing more kids into that situation. Her 2 disabled kids need lots of time and attention. She already has a son, who probably doesn't get the attention he deserves. Everything happens for a reason. Don't be afraid to express your opinion.
@@RebeccaS3980I mean she’s sharing her life with the world. This leaves you open to other people’s criticisms 🤷♀️ not everyone is going to like you.
It’s not their job or people struggling with infertility to adopt. Children in system are not something you just buy 🙄
@@allisonwelton5926 who said anything about children in the system??? That's a whole different topic.
Narcissistic people. Just thinking in theirselves needs and gratifications. Bringing a new baby in a very difficult dwell, just because.
That's a ridiculous thing to say. I hope your day/life improves so you're not so nasty.
I hope God fixes what’s wrong in your life and your heart. If you think special needs children are a burden because their needs aren’t like every other “normal” child, you’re clearly lacking in your life. I will pray for you.
well, she did knowingly have her third child knowing it would have the same genetic problem as the second child. 🤷♀️
Who hurt you buddy? It's going to be okay. Free hugs 🤗
Agreed. People can be so selfish at times. That is no kind of life for any child, but if a person wants to be helpful they can adopt one of the numerous kids on this earth looking for a family to love them.
It looks like their house reeks like boiled eggs.
Left one comment already. I did want to leave a second. Watched even more of your videos......then took a Rabbit Hole dive into CGD and rare diseases.
You are doing an incredible job bringing awareness to this entire grouping of rare diseases. I understand your kiddos are in an exceptionally rare sub category.
Advocating, being a full time Medical Mom and caring for your entire household.....kudos and blessings to you.
Any negative posts in your comments sections show an entirely lack of understanding about your Story, let alone the nature of CGD's.
Mama bear, you are most deserving of more babies. Your Mom skills are out of this world. I hope one of these Five works.
It Only Takes One. 💛🩵💜
What awareness? None of these reels involve awareness, just exploitation.