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  • @janhuffman2972
    @janhuffman2972 2 місяці тому +18

    To me forgiveness is letting go of the bad feelings you have at someone you hurt you badly. Doesn't mean that you will ever forget the pain they caused you. Doesn't mean you have to be friends with them again. It's means you've given yourself the reward of being free from them.

    • @barbarasherr3737
      @barbarasherr3737 2 місяці тому +7

      But this also leads to a trust issue. The other person needs to show that the apology needs to be real and truthful in order for me to forgive them. This topic has so many different aspects, it's hard because of the hurt and emotion it caused.

  • @brendaspaulding2802
    @brendaspaulding2802 2 місяці тому +7

    And here’s another way of looking at it. Do not seek revenge or grudge against anyone among your people but love your neighbors as yourself.

  • @Kammitoes
    @Kammitoes 2 місяці тому +4

    Forgiveness to me is Absolution. If I have been wronged by someone, I will work through it in my head and move along....and be more cautious the next time. I forgive easily, but I'm more cautious in where I place my trust next time in that situation. I'm more like Lyssa, I'm non-confrontational....and frankly, who needs the stress of holding on to negativity? Terrific topic, luvya guys ❤from🇦🇺

  • @charlottewillis9252
    @charlottewillis9252 2 місяці тому +4

    When I need to forgive someone I remind myself that none of us are perfect and I have needed to be forgiven. In other words we are to love others as ourselves and therefore forgive others as we would want them to forgive us. That being said it is not easy but something I do.

  • @laurieentenman5984
    @laurieentenman5984 2 місяці тому +4

    Forgiveness is a peace within yourself. If you live with anger and grudges it will eat you up inside. When you forgive someone it brings peace.

  • @laobeau
    @laobeau 2 місяці тому +2

    When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger and resentment - or embrace forgiveness and move forward. Letting go of grudges and bitterness can make way for improved health and peace of mind.

  • @BloomWithGracie
    @BloomWithGracie 2 місяці тому +1

    I believe forgiveness is a selfless act. You may never understand it. If you don't forgive, you can become bitter with the negative feelings. It's very hard to do, but I feel it's necessary. Love you both.

  • @benschmid2768
    @benschmid2768 2 місяці тому +3

    Peace for you self,forgiveness is a word,but peace is a choice in your heart and mind good luck to you .hi from 🇦🇺🇦🇺👋

  • @yvonnefitts5229
    @yvonnefitts5229 2 місяці тому +8

    I am a follower of JESUS.....and from my BIBLE I understand that forgiveness is required.....The forgiveness is for me.....the one that needs the forgiveness may not accept it, but that is not for you to control, GOD does that...Either way (forgiveness is cleansing).....That does not mean that you have to be friends with the one who wronged you, but it means that you will not hold on to the wrong .......I like what Lyssa said.....

  • @Kathypopp-j2y
    @Kathypopp-j2y 2 місяці тому +4

    Life the way it is now,I don't get upset with anything anymore. We need to start helping and getting along. How can words ever make things bad. Walk away. If

  • @charlenefoster6779
    @charlenefoster6779 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness is really for yourself. It frees you of the pain and allows you to move on.

  • @gaildavis710
    @gaildavis710 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness is forgiving and for getting about it!! Now that said, you will always remember but forgiving is pretty special!!!

  • @sharonfreitas3712
    @sharonfreitas3712 2 місяці тому +4

    If I cannot forgive, how then, can I be forgiven? Forgive me,
    my trespasses, as I forgive those who trespass against me.

  • @estellaknox9285
    @estellaknox9285 2 місяці тому +1

    I love the conversation 😊 of forgiveness

  • @JANSFAMBAM7
    @JANSFAMBAM7 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi Lyssa and Michael, Forgiveness to me is I've to work to let go of their negative doing against me, and take myself self away from them to heal my hurts through prayers and meditation I learn Forgiveness this way but trusting again hard.

  • @kimbailey61
    @kimbailey61 2 місяці тому +2

    Forgiveness is for yourself and sets you free, you don"t have to stay friends but you have to release the anger and set yourself free.

  • @carolynklenk8467
    @carolynklenk8467 2 місяці тому +2

    Lyssa and Mike were in a container crisis right now at the docks across the country so supplies and materials are going to be a scarce in the next months so I suggest you stock up now!! ❤ Thanks for sharing!! Mamma Carolyn

  • @wandal.rodriguez7253
    @wandal.rodriguez7253 2 місяці тому +2

    Forgiveness is letting go of the hurt and allowing the hurt to heal.

  • @fokkosmit1750
    @fokkosmit1750 2 місяці тому +2

    forgiveness is for me, the sigh that your really lucky if i forgive. If you mess up your done.

  • @debrahudson5917
    @debrahudson5917 2 місяці тому +2

    Growing up we used to call those little bees, sweat bees because they seemed to be drawn to us if we were sweating heavily. My mother used to tell us to forgive is divine, but to forget is stupid. Forgiveness is letting the person that has wronged me that I will overlook this time, but I will remember it.

  • @marperkins2182
    @marperkins2182 2 місяці тому +1

    You all have a wonderful day and God bless you 💖

  • @kerrifoss2419
    @kerrifoss2419 2 місяці тому +1

    I heard the 🐝 buzzing the camera in my AirPod and I swatted by my ear 😂

  • @dannageil9610
    @dannageil9610 2 місяці тому +2

    SADLY I FORGIVE AND FORGET TO EASILY SOMETIMES. I LIKE TO KEEP IT PUSHIN...BEING MAD DOESNT WORK FOR ME FOR LONG.
    I AM THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO CAN CUT YOU OFF IN AN INSTANT AND NOT THINK ANOTHER THOUGHT OF THE OFFENDER. I AGREE LYSSA I DONT WANT TO SEE ANYONE STARVE BUT I DONT KEEP THEM EATING AT MY TABLE! BLESSED BE SISTAH AND FAMILIA!

  • @rhondabrown306
    @rhondabrown306 2 місяці тому +3

    Forgiveness to me is turning the situation around and knowing I am capable of making the same mistake. Pray for yourself to be forgiven for things I have done that hurt people.
    Turn your thoughts around to seeing the good in people and loving them regardless. ❤

  • @gaildavis710
    @gaildavis710 2 місяці тому

    Prayers for the people affected by Hurricane Helene and Hurricane Milton. My heart goes out to those people. Still haven't found some of them.

  • @352lambo
    @352lambo 2 місяці тому +2

    Powerful question 🤔.. I can forgive but I NEVER forget.. if someone does me wrong, I’m just as guilty for putting myself in a position to get wronged.. so I have to forgive myself also

  • @MelissaMalzahn
    @MelissaMalzahn 2 місяці тому +2

    If a person doesn't forgive they can't move on. You don't have to forgive a person to their face but have to forgive in your heart. Anger will destroy a good person. ❤❤

  • @brendaalbee7922
    @brendaalbee7922 2 місяці тому +1

    Lyssa we all need more people like you in our lives. I really love listening to you. Time for another meditation session from you. ❤❤❤ you always make me think different way to look at things. I am more like Mike.

  • @annacifelli580
    @annacifelli580 2 місяці тому +2

    Means PEACE to me ❤

  • @briangillam999
    @briangillam999 2 місяці тому +1

    Sometimes the other person will never believe they need to or want to say sorry, but you must still for your own sanity forgive that person, and hope they will one day see the error of their ways.

  • @graycieclara9351
    @graycieclara9351 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness is letting go of the resentment you feel for having been wronged. You then have to decide how you are going to proceed in the future - depending on the nature of the situation and the other person's level of willingness to behave differently in the future.

  • @nanijeanie
    @nanijeanie 2 місяці тому

    100% if you truly forgive it leaves you with a free feeling. A load lifted off your shoulders.❤❤❤

  • @jhappygirl3072
    @jhappygirl3072 2 місяці тому

    It depends on the state of mind. For example, if you have been in pain all day, my tolerance is very low. On good days, I try to think about the situation over and talk to the person and work toward the forgiveness of myself and the person involved.

  • @TheresaGelso
    @TheresaGelso 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm with you Lyssa! I forgive you, now I need time by myself to let it go. I don't need to have a conversation with said person. I give it to God and let him handle the said wrongdoing. All I want is peace now in my life.

  • @dannageil9610
    @dannageil9610 2 місяці тому +2

    LYSSA I LOVE YOUR DARK HAIR!!

  • @54maggiemoo
    @54maggiemoo 2 місяці тому +2

    Forgiving when you are wronged is hard, but you never know what the other person is going through or has gone through. I think most of the time they need a second chance. Some people are so far gone by something that has happened in their lives, that they have a hard time living a normal life. I have a friend who has been so damaged and I keep forgiving her all the time because of what she has been through. It's really hard on me, but she has a hard time every day. I try to put myself in her place. I hope this makes sense.

  • @MakingItHome1776
    @MakingItHome1776 2 місяці тому +1

    Great topic! For me, it is important to forgive because I need a LOT of grace myself. None of us are perfect, or better than anyone else.Forgiving someone is very freeing, too. That said, once I get over the initial hurt or disappointment, I am GRATEFUL. The person who wronged me just told me exactly who they are, so I can then make a clear decision to adjust my behavior accordingly. For me, it means never being a door mat again for that person. THAT is a great and valuable lesson to learn.

    • @DreamingwithDrifters
      @DreamingwithDrifters  2 місяці тому

      Well said, my Nizzle!
      🫶🥰💯

    • @MakingItHome1776
      @MakingItHome1776 2 місяці тому

      @@DreamingwithDrifters I learned it from you, Mah Schnizzle and Schnizzle-ette!

  • @firefly6027
    @firefly6027 2 місяці тому +2

    Sounds like sweat bees. They're tiny. Hope you guys are having a great day.

  • @carolynklenk8467
    @carolynklenk8467 2 місяці тому +2

    Learning to walk away isn't easy and you need to learn it!! Some people don't know how to do it!! ❤ I can walk away without any problems!! Mamma Carolyn

  • @joyceclark5723
    @joyceclark5723 2 місяці тому +3

    I have had to forgive a person but I will not forget the situation

  • @deborahmitchell6387
    @deborahmitchell6387 2 місяці тому +1

    I can forgive with time, forgetting is a defensive mechanism that I use to keep from making the same mistake again.❤

  • @rogue5369
    @rogue5369 2 місяці тому +2

    You can forgive someone and while I have forgiven someone, forgetting is a totally different thing. And I will probably never trust that person in the same way ever again.

  • @photobistro
    @photobistro 2 місяці тому +1

    Separation is a good use of Forgiveness... if someone is knowingly going in a wrong path I can't stay with them and allowing them to even become worse for them selves...

  • @SheGoneAgain
    @SheGoneAgain 2 місяці тому +1

    I am sooo glad we have the ability and heart to ‘forgive each other’. It is often harder when you have been hurt, criticized, or accused by people you love (family and/or friends) I also must be honest with myself (and you guys), in saying, it isn’t as hard to blow off semi-strangers. We don’t don’t know what they are dealing with, so I have come to the conclusion that if someone does that to me, I try to not escalate the situation. Sometimes they just need an ear. Family is another matter, family is brutally honest whether you wanna hear it or not, but do you hate them for it? No….at the end of the day, you are still family. At the end of the day, you listen to the stranger that blows you off, gives you the finger, or disrespects you because you are available at the moment. I say always forgive. As a Christian, I was taught (and believe) my Heavenly Father forgives me time & time again, so thereforeI forgive others….Can’t lie…it is sometimes a struggle…and I do my best!

  • @mattcasso8465
    @mattcasso8465 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello Mike & Lyssa, so sorry for all of the hardship and harassment that a lot of people are giving you both!
    I love you both and your family and both channels. I would totally ignore the haters! They don’t deserve for you to even comment to them! They will get karma when there time comes! The people that are giving you a hard time don’t deserve the time wasted on them to even respond. You both are so helpful to others and give from the heart. You are raising your children right and show so much love to all of them. You teach them that not everything in life is given to you and you have to work to achieve some things that you want to get to your goals. Don’t let the haters make you get down on yourselves and your dreams and happiness! Keep up the great work with your property, your channels, and your family! Love you all. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @karenmanetta3290
    @karenmanetta3290 2 місяці тому +1

    When you feel someone wrongs you but what if you are just overly sensitive and feel anyone that doesn’t agree with you, wrongs you.

  • @jennyphillips7496
    @jennyphillips7496 2 місяці тому +2

    I think when you forgive someone that your not supposed to ever go back on the forgiveness unless they wrong you again the same way an if that happens you forgive yourself for letting it happen for be naive. Also I think is important to say that you forgive the person. There are a lot of emotions that come along with forgiveness. Love watching much love from Indiana 🤍

  • @angelamachin1256
    @angelamachin1256 2 місяці тому +1

    i find it easier to forgive others than i do in forgiving myself. But it would all depend on what i'm forgiving, I agree everyone's idea of forgiveness is different. But i personally see it as a learning experience and try to avoid such scenarios in the future

  • @Aliceinjonesville
    @Aliceinjonesville 2 місяці тому +1

    I forgive others and myself- try to be more careful around those that wrong me but use more discernment with in myself…..

  • @jeangreenslade1790
    @jeangreenslade1790 2 місяці тому +1

    Great I’m ready to see your land cleared up. It a great time to work outside exclude the wasp

  • @adrianagarza4955
    @adrianagarza4955 2 місяці тому

    Forgiveness to me is letting go of the past especially if someone has hurt me. But at the same time is accepting people or things for what they are.

  • @tracypride6700
    @tracypride6700 2 місяці тому +3

    Forgiveness. To me, it is to forgive the one that wronged you so you don't make the same mistake or hurt someone like what happened to your self.

  • @mattcasso8465
    @mattcasso8465 2 місяці тому +2

    Mike & Lyssa, one other thing I forgot to mention is your channel isn’t the only channel being harassed lately! I have heard David last week, also Melanie & Gary going off on people, then I even heard Ros & Ant going off on some people and several other channels. Dogman was complaining as was Bobblehead and Gary & Mary too! I think some people are just do it to see who they can piss off the most. As I said in my last message it isn’t worth wasting time to comment to them!!!! 😢

  • @gratefulhearturbanhomestead922
    @gratefulhearturbanhomestead922 2 місяці тому +2

    You guys especially you mama lyssa!! You have a beautiful soul !! And continue being a great mother and wife!! Mike you are funny and great father and husband! Forgiveness is a true personal thing !! For you to move on not so much for the other person or people!! I am 60 and have had to do a lot of forgiveness and pray that have also been forgiven ! But I also had to move on or be sad and broken if I didn’t! So forgiving and forgetting is another whole thing 😊 you guys are blessed day😊😊

  • @wadeprior5203
    @wadeprior5203 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Mike how you doing hi Alyssa how you doing looks like everybody's doing okay out there keep up the good work I'm proud of both of you and the kids God bless you guys

  • @ritafirestone761
    @ritafirestone761 2 місяці тому +1

    Supplies will be in high demand because of the longshoreman strike. Trucks were trying to get stuff delivered before the strike.

  • @barbarahopkins5239
    @barbarahopkins5239 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness to me is letting go of the anger and hurt. Willing to treat them with respect. And still be willing for them to contact you and possibly make more mistakes.

  • @maryjemisonMaryjay1936
    @maryjemisonMaryjay1936 2 місяці тому +1

    We must Forgive so to-be Forgiveness ❤❤It’s Not easy @ Times ❤

  • @WhiteRockNATION
    @WhiteRockNATION 2 місяці тому +2

    💙💙💙💙 such an inspiration guys!💙💙💙

  • @shawnaherrera9424
    @shawnaherrera9424 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness is letting go of what happened and moving on with life. Doesn’t mean you have to forget but you do need to move on and let things return back to normal . If we don’t forgive it eats at you forever.

  • @DebraDockler-os2sb
    @DebraDockler-os2sb 2 місяці тому +2

    To forgive so you can be forgiven ❤

  • @gprospector
    @gprospector 2 місяці тому +3

    Mike very good subject!
    To me, forgiveness comes from the heart. I have had a few people do me wrong in various ways. I too am guilty of hurting others. In my 66 years I have learned that to forgive someone is NOT easy 15:10 . It takes prayer, meditation, and inward resolve. The last person who wronged me it took all I had not to smash his face. But after some time of prayers and inward searching. I forgave his actions. I still don’t talk to him, but I am past the negative feelings.
    One needs to rid themself of negative feelings in order to make positive decisions.
    Love you guys. One more thing, prayer works! God is real. Keep Jesus in your life and ask him for guidance. He will never let you down. Just remember His timing is perfect but might not coincide with your timeline. Keep the faith.

  • @ritagillikin3007
    @ritagillikin3007 2 місяці тому

    You can forgive someone who has done you wrong.Cause you have to for give ,to be able to move forward.Put the past in the past.You won't forget what happened but you can forgive some things and still remain friends.

  • @cherigraf7531
    @cherigraf7531 2 місяці тому +2

    I was told by a priest years ago. We need to forgive and move on, but we don’t have to forget what was done. We have the right to protect ourselves. ❤

  • @brendamcbride5418
    @brendamcbride5418 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm with lissa❤❤❤

  • @andreavaz2010
    @andreavaz2010 2 місяці тому +2

    We have to learn to forgive others if we want God to forgive us. Unforgiveness brings a lot of negativity in our lives. As for forgetting, I believe we have to work on it and let it go. Try to love your enemies and that will set you free.

  • @DoyourthingChristina
    @DoyourthingChristina 2 місяці тому +1

    I love this video. It’s made me think about a lot of things. However; for me, forgiveness depends on the situation and how I deal with it or them. I’m an easy going person, I forgive pretty easily for the most part. But if I feel disrespected or my loved ones were disrespected, it’s harder for me. And when I say disrespected, I mean in a really wrong way. After a while, I’ll forgive although I’ll never forget. There’s sooooo much to say on this topic with so many scenarios. With heart felt hugs, much love ❤

  • @charlotteforrester3118
    @charlotteforrester3118 2 місяці тому

    Forgiveness,to me, is forgiving the other person for the wrongdoing and forgiving myself for hanging onto the hurt and anger. In my opinion, the forgiving of oneself is essential to receive the blessing. I believe letting go of the bad opens the door for the blessing. ❤❤❤❤

  • @wandaking4229
    @wandaking4229 2 місяці тому +3

    Being a retired Walmart employee, each store chooses certain things to donate to places in need. I chose to forgive an ex boyfriend for him doing me wrong. I told him though I won't forget it and will be cautious of him. I will never trust him anymore. Friendly but not to the extent of being close again. Hatred hurts you more than them.

  • @Jean-sh3xu
    @Jean-sh3xu 2 місяці тому

    Always forgive from the heart ❤️

  • @loragoodman8161
    @loragoodman8161 2 місяці тому

    Good subject! I’m a lady in my 80’s and am still learning to forgive, and hope that I was forgiven many times. I’ve had much more time in my life to think and understand things better. ❤

  • @kellycarter1426
    @kellycarter1426 2 місяці тому

    To me forgiveness means to heal your heart. To live your life off of that hurt, will never let you truly love life. Forgiveness is Devine. As we make mistakes in life that’s how we grow mentally. I hope my words gives you a different way to think about it. Always love and peace sent from me to your family. ❤

  • @brendahaire8824
    @brendahaire8824 2 місяці тому

    I believe that we have to forgive to be able to free yourself of the hurt and anger that you feel toward that person. At that point you walk away from that person. God says forgive those who hurt you, but you don’t need to keep them in your circle of friends. I believe it hurts the most when it is family but you still walk away. I am with Lyssa on this. ❤

  • @stephenkennedy9205
    @stephenkennedy9205 2 місяці тому

    Sometimes it takes a while for the pain of being wronged to go away but ultimately we must forgive. Forgiveness is Golden and Lyssa none of us is perfect only God is. We all fall short in the sight of God. God Bless from your Canadian Friend. If the nest was in the ground you got a great percentage they were small "Yellow Jackets"

  • @nancyinnevada2785
    @nancyinnevada2785 2 місяці тому

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @carldenardo3626
    @carldenardo3626 2 місяці тому +3

    Up north they are called swet bees

    • @carldenardo3626
      @carldenardo3626 2 місяці тому +1

      You guys have a wonderful night hope to meet you guys when I am in hot springs

  • @RidgeLife
    @RidgeLife 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes! Mine was rejected last year!!!

  • @thisandthatadventures
    @thisandthatadventures 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m with you Mike. If someone wrongs me or my family I’m done with them but stay mad. I remove them completely from my life. I don’t forgive till years later most times. By then I just don’t care anymore lol

  • @beverlyjack6341
    @beverlyjack6341 2 місяці тому +1

    My sister was one to hold on to grudges against people. Even when they asked for forgiveness she held on to the hate. So this hurt no one but her. Her bad feelings did not hurt the other person it hurt her in more ways than one. I believe it caused her dis ease in her body and eventually that turned into disease. She passed away recently never to forgive even our mother for silly things that happened when we were little. We are now in our 70's. Be kind to your self.

  • @bonnieanderson1166
    @bonnieanderson1166 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgive the person and forgive yourself to get peace ❤

  • @brookeburks6268
    @brookeburks6268 2 місяці тому +1

    We ordered our tp from Amazon because they were pretty much out in our town.

  • @barbaracarter9120
    @barbaracarter9120 2 місяці тому +1

    I can forgive but I never forget

  • @glendabrekke5475
    @glendabrekke5475 2 місяці тому +1

    forgiveness to me is to let go of the anger or hurt you feel. Live and let live whether that means friends or not. Holding onto the hurt only hurts you. Anxiety sets in if you hold onto it. Ice over the bites help. If it keeps swelling there's a stinger you need to get rid of,

  • @melissashostetter1666
    @melissashostetter1666 2 місяці тому +2

    This is what it means to me we were hit by a dump truck I’m a quadriplegic my daughter died and I really had to take it to the cross forgive him and then leave it there! That’s why we call it an accident!😢

  • @jemeissie
    @jemeissie 2 місяці тому +1

    forgiveness depends on what the person has done to you and how much pain it has caused. There are people in my life that I will never forgive not now not later never not. and there are those that I forgive but never forget what they have done but who are still given a chance to prove that they are sincere.

  • @FrancesJones-d5q
    @FrancesJones-d5q 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness is to forgive that person but , I can forgive ,but I can't forget.

  • @MARY-yl6bo
    @MARY-yl6bo 2 місяці тому +2

    Forgiveness. If someone wrongs me I don't do forgiveness, I say nothing, let them stew on what they did, I'm not going to waste my time forgiving someone just to make them feel better.
    If someone chose not to forgive me, so be it, it's their call, I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

  • @davidT43-86
    @davidT43-86 2 місяці тому

    don't remember the last time I was wronged. I just keep to myself and like Lyssa said I just up and walk away from the negativity at the time. if I'm out side working and my friend comes down owner of the house to see how I'm doing then starts talking negativity about something. I just pack up my things and go back into the house away from the problems. been this way since I was 17 years old. if someone wronged me It would takes a while to get my trust back. next day is a new day.

  • @goldierox516
    @goldierox516 2 місяці тому

    Forgiveness ❤over over and over again just keep forgiving .not easy sometimes that’s for sure

  • @AuntieAnn
    @AuntieAnn 2 місяці тому +2

    Forgiveness to me is putting the wrong behind you. Forgetting the wrong doing is the hardest part.

    • @Gingin7321
      @Gingin7321 2 місяці тому

      Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting

  • @annamaybeekman
    @annamaybeekman 2 місяці тому +1

    I HAVE NEVER HAD MY TAXES REJECTED.. I DID TURBO TAX YEARS AGO MY TAXES WERE SIMPLE. THE LAST 10 YRS IVE HAD MY OWN BUSSINESS AND I HAVE A PROFESSIONAL DO MY TAXES

  • @sheilamichaels6268
    @sheilamichaels6268 2 місяці тому

    I believe that when someone has wronged me, it is my responsibility to address the issue with the person. If they then apologize and we can be reconciled, that is great. If not, I have said my peace, and I can walk away knowing I did the right thing. There is always the possibility that the other person doesn't realize how seriously they hurt me, and when they realize it, the situation can help them become a better person. I would want someone to do that for me.

  • @BHJourney1
    @BHJourney1 2 місяці тому

    I'm still subscribed to both Dd5 and Dad and I believe I'm still subscribed to Shootin the Sheets with the Smiths too. 👍❤

  • @likebutton5445
    @likebutton5445 2 місяці тому

    For me, I think forgiveness hinges on 2 things - whether the person who wronged me is an important feature in my life, and also whether I can truly accept that they wronged me, and by that I mean that I can fully move on without constantly questioning in my head, and to the other person, why.. If someone important to me wrongs me, and I can accept that, then they are forgiven and we must move forward. If I couldn't accept the wrong, there's no chance of forgiveness as I'd turn myself in knots forever asking myself why, so I'd have to walk away. If someone not important to me wrongs me, I can accept that, but I feel no obligation or need to forgive, as they don't live in my heart and in my head.

  • @carolynland9523
    @carolynland9523 2 місяці тому +1

    Forgiveness is letting go of the emotions you have against someone who has hurt or betrayed you. You are doing it more for your own sanity than for the person who hurt you. But once you have forgiven that person you have to let it go or you truly haven’t forgiven them. You may never have the same relationship with that person again but you can be civil and treat them with kindness. And if you have wronged someone then be man or woman enough to ask for forgiveness and admit that you were wrong or made a mistake. I know a lot of people find it hard to admit they were wrong but we have to ask for forgiveness as well as give it….it makes life so much more enjoyable. And Mike, those bees are yellow jackets…they are terrible in spring and especially in fall..they have nest underground.

  • @tracyboyd4867
    @tracyboyd4867 2 місяці тому

    Depends on circumstances if it was a small betrayal you can probably talk about it and remain friends but if it was a betrayl to unk and yourselves forgive for your own piece of Mind but trust wouldnt be there anymore like you could never be besties again...❤

  • @B2GOG
    @B2GOG 2 місяці тому +1

    If someone does me wrong, Im usually upset for 24 hours while I calm myself and try to think of the situation with a rational mind. I ask myself if it's something that will even matter in 10 years from today. When I was younger, I held on to the anger, and it will eat you up inside. Things that seem severe and devastating usually don't matter in 10 years. The negativity of harboring hurt feelings isn't worth letting the anguish affect everyone around you. As I got older, I realized that if I stayed angry, then I would let them get to me. Some things are clearly more severe than others, but Im certainly much more forgiving as I age. 😂 That doesn't mean you forget, but that you can either accept that none of us are perfect and still be friends or move on from the relationship and just surround yourself with positivity and not let it ruin your day, or year. 😅 I dont just let someone walk all over me either, I just get more selective! 😜 The only thing you have control over is the way you react to things. We can't change others.

  • @kerrylynnparsons7879
    @kerrylynnparsons7879 2 місяці тому +2

    Z❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @debbiesparks7010
    @debbiesparks7010 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi Mike and Lyssa, thats odd the toilet paper is getting low in the stores. I know it did during 2020 when the virus going around. I forgive people even if they dont apologize and just move on from it. And let it be. We all make mistakes. Thats bad about being stung. I know that hurts. Maybe it was yellow jackets. I always keep Benadryl on had just in case. I know the boys are excited about the shouse. Thats bad about the Internet . Hopefully it will get better. Have a great day and God Bless DWD ❤

  • @brendamoody1309
    @brendamoody1309 2 місяці тому

    You just have to forgive,then the peace you have from with in is unmeasureable.In gods word forgive an it shall be forgiven. Love you both Lyssa an mike. Look up mike what is that.? Sorry not sorry just teasing you. Have a 👍 good night. Catch you on the next one. Byeeeeee! 😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤👍