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  • @winfredkamene5821
    @winfredkamene5821 28 днів тому +53

    I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing.
    May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.

    • @elsiekendi9621
      @elsiekendi9621 27 днів тому +3

      Tafuta Monica utupee hio Ka story kwa loved again

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 27 днів тому

      ​@@elsiekendi9621yes I agree tu atu encourage us who have given up

    • @marthanjoki2285
      @marthanjoki2285 27 днів тому +1

      Ooioooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

    • @mamanzee3734
      @mamanzee3734 24 дні тому

      I have gone through alot for seven years,I have no job no income nothing,but am planning for an exit!but I have to quit

  • @vgeegodseed1720
    @vgeegodseed1720 28 днів тому +4

    A lady full of wisdom knowledge and courage.....in every situation love yourself first seek good relationship with God 🙏

  • @irenekinyanjui4319
    @irenekinyanjui4319 28 днів тому +15

    Our very own Stella....you were my role model kwa church nikigrow...'part of your bridal team 'she's a vibe❤❤

    • @lucymwangi2663
      @lucymwangi2663 22 дні тому +1

      What kind of a preacher is he when he can't take care of his children? Some people have turned church into something else. Anahubiri nini?

  • @ForeverDee9939
    @ForeverDee9939 28 днів тому +21

    She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue

  • @MariahNjoroge-v4i
    @MariahNjoroge-v4i 18 днів тому +7

    Monic si uanze kipindi cha married but single. Ill be the first aki tondu ma reke ngwire😢😢

  • @lucynjagi5988
    @lucynjagi5988 7 днів тому +2

    Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.

  • @Violet3734
    @Violet3734 28 днів тому +37

    Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 27 днів тому

      They come back after huko kwingine kume haribika wewe ndio unarudiwa umuoshe tena umushughulikie I saw my father come back with a paper bag

  • @maishafrance96
    @maishafrance96 4 дні тому

    Peace is everything and Stella found peace through forgiveness. Thank you Monica for being real

  • @marywanjiru4106
    @marywanjiru4106 7 днів тому +1

    This is so great bless you,,nitakutafuta mamaa 🙏

  • @lucymaina1555
    @lucymaina1555 5 днів тому

    Thanks Monica. You Educate many.

  • @kweliyake5212
    @kweliyake5212 28 днів тому +16

    I pray that you find a good man who will love you and the boys UNCONDITIONALLY.

  • @CharitymwangiMwangi-u8q
    @CharitymwangiMwangi-u8q 28 днів тому +3

    Wow i hv learned something about forgiveness God bless u so much monicah🙏🙏

  • @eddahmwangi6689
    @eddahmwangi6689 27 днів тому +1

    Very wise lady and her words are really encouraging and heart healing,may God continue to give her peace to be able to provide for her kids.

  • @marymumbibaiya8787
    @marymumbibaiya8787 27 днів тому +2

    Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.

  • @Gracethuopharis
    @Gracethuopharis 26 днів тому +2

    Ooh I know stella she is a wonderful person.stella I understand mwana wiitu nikurituhaga no God is alwaiys close the broken hearted😘

  • @Maryjohnson-zq6yb
    @Maryjohnson-zq6yb 11 днів тому

    I know this lady Stella from magumu.may Jehova come through for you and your kids

  • @Shii1990
    @Shii1990 27 днів тому +5

    I totally relate. Marriage is a total scam!

  • @margaretkairu6494
    @margaretkairu6494 27 днів тому +1

    Healing comes frm within. Monica your face is glowing.

  • @annieannie9444
    @annieannie9444 11 днів тому

    It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful

  • @Elijah-vz4sp
    @Elijah-vz4sp 24 дні тому +2

    Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤

  • @elizabethmulli3717
    @elizabethmulli3717 25 днів тому

    Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.

  • @SusaMukethi
    @SusaMukethi 22 дні тому +2

    She is so beautiful 😍 💖

  • @BenjaminWaithaka-pm5ux
    @BenjaminWaithaka-pm5ux 28 днів тому +2

    Let Go and let God,Its a lesson and an inspiration too

  • @RuthKamau-u3x
    @RuthKamau-u3x 28 днів тому +1

    the power of healing comes from within especially if u tired of kuvumilia

  • @maggienjenga8617
    @maggienjenga8617 28 днів тому +7

    True God heals and restores. I am a living testimony.

  • @rachaelkim843
    @rachaelkim843 27 днів тому +2

    I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book

  • @beatricewairimu8882
    @beatricewairimu8882 27 днів тому +1

    Maturity of another level

  • @CAROLINEWANGUI-q2q
    @CAROLINEWANGUI-q2q 26 днів тому +2

    Monica you look alike with your guest ❤

  • @BlessedSophia-h7d
    @BlessedSophia-h7d 28 днів тому +1

    Story of my life.
    One day God will speak loud.

  • @losimetoni2537
    @losimetoni2537 27 днів тому

    Very wise woman with wise words thank you so much 🙏

  • @bettiejoy-mtotowamama
    @bettiejoy-mtotowamama 28 днів тому +1

    Araria ena ûhoreru mûingî wega❤❤❤. Monica nîwaheo ihûa💐💐💐 rîthaka mûno hakuhî nduîke emotional handû haku😊😊💐💐❤️❤️

  • @RoseWangoi-k5s
    @RoseWangoi-k5s 28 днів тому +2

    Much love for u Monica ❤❤ learn alot from this channel

  • @RufinaAbisai
    @RufinaAbisai 28 днів тому

    Learnt lot especially about forgiveness. Going to put it in practice from today❤

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 28 днів тому +2

    Monicah loving your consistency 🎉 , am learning a lot 😊

  • @winniekamau2752
    @winniekamau2752 28 днів тому +1

    May God give you a good husband...what do people want

  • @elizabethwangui2008
    @elizabethwangui2008 28 днів тому +7

    Monica, you look good. The castro oil is working good on you. The guest today is hirallius

  • @NancyNyambura-ge8bi
    @NancyNyambura-ge8bi 27 днів тому

    Monica our guest today is very insightful. More grace anapopambana.

  • @anointedhandmaiden5261
    @anointedhandmaiden5261 6 днів тому

    A friend of mine divorced after 3oyrs .she was in great pain

  • @angelawangui5184
    @angelawangui5184 28 днів тому +1

    You looking good Monica. Aging like fine wine.

  • @beatricemuthoni2678
    @beatricemuthoni2678 28 днів тому +35

    Kagoni onanii ndirenda guka kuu niguo hone ndiri mundu wa kwaria nake na rugano rwakwa ni ruritu muno am very stressed

    • @trizaWairi-xt1yj
      @trizaWairi-xt1yj 28 днів тому +3

      @kagoni tuletee beatrice muthoni ahone maa

    • @alekonya1116
      @alekonya1116 28 днів тому +2

      @beatricemuthoni2678 seek the kingdom of God first...
      God wipes our tears..
      God give us unconditionally love .

    • @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
      @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj 27 днів тому

      Beatrice..follow the protocol if you wanna share your story, here kwa comment section hutasaidika my dear.

    • @catherinewanja4655
      @catherinewanja4655 27 днів тому

      Direct her😢​@@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 27 днів тому

      Contact Kagoni yeye hupeana number ya simu hapo mwisho ya video

  • @sarahnemi4593
    @sarahnemi4593 28 днів тому +5

    Divorce is painful 😢

  • @kavetim1895
    @kavetim1895 25 днів тому

    Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!

  • @lucy-vz5ur
    @lucy-vz5ur 28 днів тому

    I understand this lady very well, trust the process

  • @JaneWanjiru-ey1kc
    @JaneWanjiru-ey1kc 28 днів тому +41

    I could not believe after 20yrs we divorced. It was very painful but through prayers and accepting yourself am getting healed.

    • @Dhemaxxfamily
      @Dhemaxxfamily 28 днів тому +7

      You will be loved again

    • @loco871
      @loco871 28 днів тому +1

      20years too but God is Great getting back to my feet again

    • @johngichango
      @johngichango 28 днів тому +1

      )/

    • @janegithumu8906
      @janegithumu8906 28 днів тому

      Sending hugs🫂, mine ended after 15yrs...healing is a process,still working on it

    • @swaglive4856
      @swaglive4856 26 днів тому

      Me too. I don't regret though

  • @salomenewsome4188
    @salomenewsome4188 12 днів тому

    Is kagoni expecting. Congratulations

  • @ngonyoesther
    @ngonyoesther 23 дні тому

    Cool woman and full of humour....❤

  • @MarthaMukuha
    @MarthaMukuha 28 днів тому +5

    But husbands wenye wako kwa leadership kwa church wako na kashida.

  • @mercynjeri7086
    @mercynjeri7086 16 днів тому

    Wisdom 🎉🎉

  • @teresianjeri-k7l
    @teresianjeri-k7l 28 днів тому +1

    Looking-good Monica... ....this story weeee.....feel the pain. Yaani mtu anakuacha with the kids,anaeda kulea za wenyewe,i fear marriage sometimes 😢😢😢

  • @janemuthoni584
    @janemuthoni584 28 днів тому +6

    Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….

    • @ngonyoesther
      @ngonyoesther 23 дні тому

      @@janemuthoni584 divorce is painful than death...may God sustain marriages

  • @terrymichael2541
    @terrymichael2541 28 днів тому +6

    Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife

    • @janewaithera8835
      @janewaithera8835 28 днів тому +2

      There is no juju its a choice.. Life is all about choices

  • @JaneWagaki-p1o
    @JaneWagaki-p1o 27 днів тому

    Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana

  • @shirowkihara6577
    @shirowkihara6577 27 днів тому

    Have given up on love,the psychological torture I went through with that narcissist is unexplainable, unforgettable experience 😢

  • @warigiapurity8252
    @warigiapurity8252 28 днів тому +18

    Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end.
    When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.

    • @shironjuguna5853
      @shironjuguna5853 28 днів тому

      I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!

    • @LucyWangui-h2o
      @LucyWangui-h2o 28 днів тому

      Sure

    • @reginamumbi4418
      @reginamumbi4418 27 днів тому

      Nikuri maundu maingi mageragirwo na NGAI niakoragwo na gitumi nigetha aturute stella hingura aingi nigetha andu matige kwitha kana gwitwa.

    • @petermuhoro1510
      @petermuhoro1510 27 днів тому

      @@warigiapurity8252 this statement is not accurate. I know of many kikuyu men who are exceptional single dads!

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 27 днів тому

      Ndio wapewe dowry na watoto wakipata kazi wakue wana itisha black tax

  • @veronicadeker4589
    @veronicadeker4589 28 днів тому

    My friend Stella be strong mamaa, I can witness that

  • @carolineberger8889
    @carolineberger8889 25 днів тому

    Njeri kirema from Germany ❤

  • @stellakaranja7659
    @stellakaranja7659 22 дні тому +2

    Monicah the deborah of our generation keep shinning for the love,telling my story without tears?what shall i render to Jevoha who heal the broken hearts,to the broken heart there is God in heaven take you heart there am a witness i have tasted him for sure he is good.

  • @elizabethk8500
    @elizabethk8500 23 дні тому +1

    Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through

  • @lizzymjombas8538
    @lizzymjombas8538 28 днів тому +1

    Marriage is made of 2,a husband and a wife...the role of a husband in a marriage is crucial as well as of a wife...

  • @b.3940
    @b.3940 28 днів тому +6

    After 21 years of riding the marriage pain train, I stopped it and walked out. The best decision I have ever made.

    • @alicekagochi7869
      @alicekagochi7869 27 днів тому +1

      Don't make me fear life tondu maah 😭😭 God have mercy on us

    • @tabithangugi-g6m
      @tabithangugi-g6m 25 днів тому

      ​@@alicekagochi7869May God grant you according to the desires of your heart.May you receive the only n only God made for you.... SUITABLE For YOU

  • @teslamumo1396
    @teslamumo1396 28 днів тому

    Jipe nguvu, God is on your sides, he will also be pay one day

  • @nectarblue
    @nectarblue 26 днів тому +4

    If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.

    • @lucymwangi2663
      @lucymwangi2663 22 дні тому +1

      I agree. Many of them don't love their kids

    • @carolinekokengo5331
      @carolinekokengo5331 21 день тому

      Hata wakisii hawapendi watoto Mimi nikona mtoto bt Huwa hashuguliki ni wanawake tu ndio ameweka first priority

    • @christinewachira9010
      @christinewachira9010 13 днів тому

      @@carolinekokengo5331 from experience it's like they are bewitched.

  • @marykamau4214
    @marykamau4214 28 днів тому

    I know this lady Stella waa the story I know nikienda your wedding aki❤

  • @marygathoni8014
    @marygathoni8014 28 днів тому +3

    Single life is not a joke aki ask me 🙆🙆

  • @FAITHWANGARI-vp5tn
    @FAITHWANGARI-vp5tn 28 днів тому

    This lady she so mature

  • @paulinewaruguru442
    @paulinewaruguru442 28 днів тому +4

    Strong of a woman forgiveness is the first stage of healing

    • @rose_wangari
      @rose_wangari 28 днів тому

      Soree… hira whuot😮

    • @missk8647
      @missk8647 27 днів тому

      Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.

  • @arinyunjuguna7542
    @arinyunjuguna7542 28 днів тому +2

    😢 no matter what ww have to gride to reach our final destination ,,,God heal our inner soul , strength us in all time of difficult

  • @juliusmuhia1353
    @juliusmuhia1353 28 днів тому

    That's true ciana icokaga na thutha huwezi amini but sometimes women makes it happens

  • @veronicadeker4589
    @veronicadeker4589 28 днів тому

    I quit after 7yrs😢😢😢, was very sad morning when he wrote a message akasema nisikupate huko😢😢😢😢

  • @rechomunini2730
    @rechomunini2730 10 днів тому

    My father did the same n I hate men to date💔😢

  • @dorismakena5467
    @dorismakena5467 7 днів тому

    Point of correction...uhiki waku wathukirio ni muthuriguo....

  • @sussymuthonimauthia7230
    @sussymuthonimauthia7230 28 днів тому +2

    Hi Monica,, kindly share the contacts for the castor oil lady
    Thanks

  • @MaggyNganga-hb7ol
    @MaggyNganga-hb7ol 28 днів тому +1

    My marriage lasted for only 3 years, and was a church wedding.

  • @janekariuki5241
    @janekariuki5241 26 днів тому

    Wow wow good woman

  • @ElizabethNjau-k7v
    @ElizabethNjau-k7v 28 днів тому

    I understand😢. Ndekite uhiki ngiikara 15 years,,I am single for ten years😢😢😢natihahuthu

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 28 днів тому +4

    A good story teller at the same time feeling for her 😊
    Uhiki we Murio 😅

  • @elizabethk8500
    @elizabethk8500 23 дні тому

    Life is spiritual……

  • @EMMANUEL-GODWITHUS5976
    @EMMANUEL-GODWITHUS5976 28 днів тому +6

    IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DRAW CONCLUSIONS FROM ONE SIDE OF THE STORY. UNTIL YOU HEAR FROM THE OTHER PARTNER.

    • @Eunice-gl9fh
      @Eunice-gl9fh 28 днів тому +11

      Whatever the other side of a story may be,if there is infidelity,the case is done.

    • @pearlynina7597
      @pearlynina7597 27 днів тому +1

      Kuja useme your side.

    • @janewamaitha3407
      @janewamaitha3407 27 днів тому

      Are you the accused ama?

    • @IshalliveN
      @IshalliveN 26 днів тому

      😂😂 thinking of the same ​@@janewamaitha3407

    • @marywangari2555
      @marywangari2555 22 дні тому +1

      Enda umtafute atwambia, the truth bearer is bold but the guilty is always afraid

  • @annmwariri3059
    @annmwariri3059 25 днів тому

    Mm cjai olewa lkn ile heartbreak nlipata after kupata ball cjai heal adi waleo 11yrs ago. Matua mangi mundu datuaga ni kweda, peace is paramount!

  • @ceciliawairimu8087
    @ceciliawairimu8087 День тому

    She's my friend aki

  • @hannahwakonyo414
    @hannahwakonyo414 28 днів тому

    Very true ruo mundu aiguwaga

  • @doctordeeM
    @doctordeeM 13 днів тому

    The story is nice but Kagoni keep interfering please let the guest talk 😮

  • @JudyMuluki
    @JudyMuluki 26 днів тому +1

    I know her from naivasha alikua anatupea job ya kuosha manguo kwake

  • @danielmurage4926
    @danielmurage4926 28 днів тому

    three is a crowd.. divorce is murder..... there is no fury like a woman scorned.....

  • @pauline2604
    @pauline2604 28 днів тому

    Not with a narcissist 😢eti single hood isn't good nooo

  • @marygitau3869
    @marygitau3869 25 днів тому

    Kagoni let's the lady talk ,, niuramuhingica muno,

    • @reginanjuguna3229
      @reginanjuguna3229 24 дні тому

      Yes ni kama ako slow akili...maswali unnecessary !!

  • @janetwakio6074
    @janetwakio6074 28 днів тому +1

    Waiting 😊

  • @MonicNdinda
    @MonicNdinda 28 днів тому

    Woooi ngai hee hinya wakwohera uria wahikitie tondu weeeh 8yrs 😢

  • @janewaithera8835
    @janewaithera8835 28 днів тому

    Doing right or wrong its not coz of being a pastor,born again or not..its an individual choice

  • @reginanjuguna3229
    @reginanjuguna3229 24 дні тому +1

    The intetviewers rhetorics are boring! Follow the story...

  • @Tabby-hq7jl
    @Tabby-hq7jl 27 днів тому +1

    Nawe kagoni niracokera muno ati nduranyita aai

    • @janewamaitha3407
      @janewamaitha3407 27 днів тому

      Analeta confusion na flow ya story juu ya kukatakata....

  • @marthakabiru6396
    @marthakabiru6396 28 днів тому +2

    Let me remain single forever never married but am happy I have no story huwa najisikia

  • @BlessingKanario
    @BlessingKanario 24 дні тому

    Tuletee connie muuru pls

  • @swaglive4856
    @swaglive4856 26 днів тому

    Njaa ni kuuru okorwo wekite uhiki. 😂😂😂 niangenia

  • @AfrimaxKikuyu
    @AfrimaxKikuyu 20 днів тому

    Kagoni maundu nii uthodekete biu riu,maitu niaguciarwo

  • @Magywanaks
    @Magywanaks 28 днів тому

    congratulations kangoni

  • @salomenewsome4188
    @salomenewsome4188 12 днів тому

    Mwanamke huwa kwa marriage alone

  • @terrykarey
    @terrykarey 28 днів тому

    Love is not enough

  • @marywangari2555
    @marywangari2555 22 дні тому

    Lucy ūcio eitire etwo nī mūthuriwe malaya, aririkana wendo wake, wothe warī wa mūthuriwe....uuuiii

  • @wamaithakamau8175
    @wamaithakamau8175 28 днів тому +1

    Is it really that bad to be married as a second wife plz msinitusi just asking