So she's putting her sons in a pressure cooking like environment from kindergarten onwards so they'll be able to withstand competition and pressure when they're older, completely stripping away their childhoods in the process and not allowing them to have any balance in their lives and when the older of the two tries to *tell* her how miserable he and his brother are she ignores it because his complaints don't adhere to *her* wants for their futures? You know the ones where they're completely burnt out, think self care is for wusses and rarely interact with their parents because they're too busy working towards their next accomplishment without rest or celebration because they have no idea how to find contentment in their lives or have healthy relationships that aren't all about networking? Skip to their 30's-40's where they have perfect step-ford wives who they barely care for outside networking/work requirements (like their father) and it's their turn to make their kids miserable, saying it's for their own benefit, when in reality it's for the parent's ego of having show kids they can brag about as long as no-one sees how the way they're being raised is leaving them psychologically and emotionally unprepared to have any type of meaningful life or relationships outside of their careers...but hey, they're successful so who cares, right? It is genuinely so sad that so many kids have these kind of selfish, psychologically damaging parents who do everything for their own egos and have themselves and everyone else convinced it's for the kids who are miserable.
Um filho adolescente ouvir da mãe que ela o tolera e ainda ao mesmo tempo ele vê a diferença de tratento do irmão digno de pena ,e como s ele fosse um invisível os pais só vêem o caçula ,a mãe uma corno infeliz e pai um descarado com amante ,ignoram o filho por completo.
Outro drama idiota,onde o filho e quem da as ordens,como se ele tem que ser o centro de tudo! Obrigada a mãe no final fazendo chantagem para ela vive com um marido hipócrita e traidor! Afffffffffff
asian/Chinese kids are put in the path to gaokao since they utter their first word ... military generals as mothers adrilling them 24/7 ... of course the kiddo burst a bubble
別亂下標題。標題應該叫做 兒子壓力過大，終於爆發。
我認同挫折會讓人成長😂
但有些挫折，
需要家長事後去了解孩子的想法並引導，
與其對孩子說為你好，
倒不如告訴他做了這件事的後果是什麼，
也要告訴孩子，
媽媽不爽的點在哪，
如果再犯，
媽媽就會再次生氣等等的😂
我覺得這種溝通方式會好一點⋯
讓孩子一點一點學會如何面對挫折⋯
也要給孩子選擇的機會⋯
而不是被迫只能走那條路，
還不知道為什麼😂
可怜的兄弟生活在只能补习读书的家庭😭😭😢😢
So she's putting her sons in a pressure cooking like environment from kindergarten onwards so they'll be able to withstand competition and pressure when they're older, completely stripping away their childhoods in the process and not allowing them to have any balance in their lives and when the older of the two tries to *tell* her how miserable he and his brother are she ignores it because his complaints don't adhere to *her* wants for their futures?
You know the ones where they're completely burnt out, think self care is for wusses and rarely interact with their parents because they're too busy working towards their next accomplishment without rest or celebration because they have no idea how to find contentment in their lives or have healthy relationships that aren't all about networking?
Skip to their 30's-40's where they have perfect step-ford wives who they barely care for outside networking/work requirements (like their father) and it's their turn to make their kids miserable, saying it's for their own benefit, when in reality it's for the parent's ego of having show kids they can brag about as long as no-one sees how the way they're being raised is leaving them psychologically and emotionally unprepared to have any type of meaningful life or relationships outside of their careers...but hey, they're successful so who cares, right?
It is genuinely so sad that so many kids have these kind of selfish, psychologically damaging parents who do everything for their own egos and have themselves and everyone else convinced it's for the kids who are miserable.
OMG!! I totally agree with your statement.
Um filho adolescente ouvir da mãe que ela o tolera e ainda ao mesmo tempo ele vê a diferença de tratento do irmão digno de pena ,e como s ele fosse um invisível os pais só vêem o caçula ,a mãe uma corno infeliz e pai um descarado com amante ,ignoram o filho por completo.
Outro drama idiota,onde o filho e quem da as ordens,como se ele tem que ser o centro de tudo! Obrigada a mãe no final fazendo chantagem para ela vive com um marido hipócrita e traidor! Afffffffffff
asian/Chinese kids are put in the path to gaokao since they utter their first word ... military generals as mothers adrilling them 24/7 ... of course the kiddo burst a bubble
现在的这些小屁孩就是欠抽，尤其是在青春期的的孩子，物质生活太丰富，没有受过苦难，永远不满足和不懂感恩，应该把他们或她们送到部队里受受苦
物質生活豐富是社會一定的發展結果, 但很多家長只懂得所謂物質, 卻從沒想過小孩心裡的感受!!! 如果要讓小孩受苦才會成長, 那當初就不應該生小孩!!!