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Why Does It Take Black Men So Long To Grow Up?
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- Опубліковано 25 лют 2024
- In this clip, Bishop Patrick Wooden shares his perspective on the timing of maturity for many black men compared to others. Check it out and share your thoughts! #religion #omegapsiphi #kappa #youtube
I'm a man in my 50,s and I swear there are a lot of Brothers out here that has arrested development!! 60 plus and ain't grew up AT ALL!! 😡😡
Why is that?
J4525 You have to ask them. I got nothing for them. 🤷
I meant Jl4524.
You stated that you have nothing for them. You have a neighbor with “arrested development”please consider getting involved and be apart of them being better. We’re interdependent.
Absolutely
Too many broken blc homes. Arrested development begins in the home.
Mama gotta stop coddling her sons
Amen
Or when they went to prison. If they went real young, they come out the same person that went in. They think they're cool as a breeze, but it's quite sad to see.
@@victoriahardin1560 broken homes account for kids/adults going to prison in higher percentages.
@@chrysanthemums4963 Agreed and it's glorification.When I was growing up,people going to jail, let alone prison, was whispered about. It was an embarrassment and so rare an occurrence.Now people have become millionaires rapping about that and denigrating black women. Only in our culture,and they go to prison and come from broken homes. They are drug addicts. Why the difference?
I absolutely agree. However, too many black men don't have fathers to mentor them in manhood. They can, however, find father - like mentors in the church if they really want to grow up and mature.
This is 100% truth. But our community seems to love being last bc we well protect this toxic immature behavior to keep our owb vices. "GROW UP MAN"
I agree with ALL of this! I worked with a guy that pledged Omega Psi Phi and they literally "branded" him on his arm. This man was in his fifties and still saw nothing wrong with that foolishness. He was more loyal to the fraternity and "brothers" than he was his son he hardly saw. Pathetic.
That's your opinion. A lot of your bishops and preachers yall celebrate are Omega's , Kappa's, Alphas, Sigmas. So are they pathetic? Bishop Joseph Walker is an active member of Omega as well as E. Dewey Smith. Jamal Bryant Kappa and many more are not only part of Greek Fraternities but also Freemasonry.
Did you ever hear of peace bonds.
I worked with an Omega who feels like he has to wear his gold boots and something Omega related like a t-shirt everyday and this guy is approaching 50 if he's not already in his 50s. He dresses and walks around like he's in his 20s. A Delta called him out on it. I promise you some of these folks in these sororities & fraternities are "too much involved." What I mean by that is that's all they wear, all they talk about, the only people they hang out with, everywhere they go it's something sorority/fraternity related. They do more for their sorors and frat brothers than their own family, smh. Funny how they can afford to go to a convention for that, but can't afford to go to their family reunion.
@@lezd316 exactly!
Anything or anybody that allow is not to do the intrrnal real work, that is what we as humans gravitate to. This includes most churches. It's all surface.
We black men look for acceptance in the most immature ways, dread locks, ripped, peg leg jeans, ball caps,exaggerated beards, necklaces, etc.
Church.
Pierced ears 😞
Tattoos.
One reason is that bw like that mess
@jjmars9160 And I don't know why. I thought surely the pants to the knees would've faded by now, but the pants have gotten lower. Even women pretending to be men - that's their look. I saw a young woman last week pretending to be a dude - her pants were near the ground. It's embarrassing.
Bishop has really stated wisdom! As one who was initiated into masonic and college fraternity orders nearing 40 plus years before accepting The Lord Jesus Christ and being saved I am with thanks every breath I take that my eyes are fully awake with salvation for my priorities to be intact for my family!
Very well articulated!
I'm glad Gino has an ally! Different delivery but the truth ❗️
The Bishop here said it's okay to have women pastors. Gino's not with that!
@@scottfree7089This pastor is also applauding the advent of fraternities and sororities, something Jennings abhors. Yet, Wooden, while denigrating the elder college alumnists that have raised and donated hundreds of thousands through scholarships, toy and clothes drives, he lashes out at them for proudly wearing the colors of their individual frats while forgetting to use that same energy when 80yr old soror's are doing the same. He ingnores these same said men who are endeavoring to inspire future leaders, now adolescents, to become future leaders in this country. So, just because this negro "opines" his narrow, agendists views, he believes himself above reproof. Not over here Doc! Those "yes -men" yelling in the background might fall for the okee-doke. But not me. This, after he recently said that Donald Trump was a more God honoring President, than Joe Biden. When neither of these nearly octogenarians honor God truly. Bishop Wooden is a COGIC, Trump/Conservative Right, plant.
I like Gino Jennings, he tells it just like it is written in the Bible,no more no less. Every time I listen to this pastor, he always has something to say about all the wrong that black folks do and he never talks about those wholesome God fearing WT folks. The BK man is public enemy #1
@@scottfree7089Do you have a link, if so I'll have to remove my comment! Thanks.
@@V_-4-_VENDETTA71 That's because dude's a plant. An agendist-grata. Thanks to feminist groups and their ilk, he's handing Black men to media spinners on a platter, while ignoring women's complicity in our peoples decline. But don't stop listening. He loves dropping soundbites. He revels at the sound of his own voice. Stay tuned.
From my experience with other cultures. It's not just black men...
I don't like it when society creates this delusion.....
I like Bishop Wooden. And he's not necessarily wrong he's actually right in many ways in regards to black fraternities. But some that are older are actually in graduate chapters and most of them are leaders, that do most of the organization's community service, and leadership programs. Some are even 60-80 years old. So just because you are older and wear your shirts or caps doesn't mean you are childish. It means you just appreciated being a part of the organization. I bet if you're 60 and have on a church of God and Christ cap on you won't open your mouth one bit.
No the black greek letter organizations are the black gatekeepers. They will throw people “a bone” with some charity and scholarships but they are NOT for uplifting and helping the black community
Look up the black boule and see why they were truly created AND if you are a Christian then you have no business being in one of those organizations. There are so many videos about it here on UA-cam please research
This is the bishop's bread and butter - this, abortion, and homosexuality. It gets the likes and thumbs up, but he RARELY correlates scripture except for homosexuality and I've only seen that once. Nothing about the sins of fornication and adultery or lust. Just him there talking.
Have y'all heard the filth that has come out of Bishop's mouth? Not only as if he is immature and street but unsaved.
@@victoriahardin1560 Triggered much 😂
@omofumaighodalo432 Absolutely, like Paul and Peter, when I see a supposed grown man calling himself a man of GOD speaking filth from the pulpit.
He’s absolutely right. 100%
I'm so thankful for the doors that God has allowed to be open in my life and even more thankful for the doors he forced to stay shut. He knows me better than I know myself and wants what's best for me.
Amen!!! 🙏🏾
I'm so sick of people denigrating black men. Stop it. We as black people are not all alike, there is righteous and unrighteous period. " Man looks at the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart"
Have you seen any other male group representing a fraternity outside of a college campus over the age of 22/25?? No. Only black men and women glorify Greek organizations. And btw if you are a Christian, you have no business even pledging to that mess in the first place.
The truth is hard to accept, these are only group that expect their women to help build them, think OK for their woman to have a hard life but give soft life other ethinc when rich while expecting blk woman's to support them like second wife in their non black relationship
"Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the ❤"
That's exactly what he said when mentioning God wants you to mature. Internal spiritual growth exudes externally. This is where dressing modestly comes from.
Modestly: in an unassuming manner; without vanity or arrogance
The way you dress up your external appearance is a reflection of arrogance, vanity, insecurity, immaturity..etc internally (w/in the ❤)..or lack thereof.
@chrisan Please remember that before you pledge your allegiance to an ungodly group. The problem wrong with most black men is that they don’t want or welcome anything that is in opposition to their own way of thinking. So most of them stay stagnant the same as some of you that get offended by what the pastor said.
This is the bishop's bread and butter - this, abortion, and homosexuality. It gets the likes and thumbs up, but he RARELY correlates scripture except for homosexuality and I've only seen that once. Nothing about the sins of fornication and adultery or lust. Just him there talking.
You're preaching Bishop Wooden Sir. I had to listen to this snippet 10x more
Thank you so much for addressing this issue. I see it so much! However, I believe this is very deep in the psyche of the people in these Greek organizations. Could it be that everyone wants to feel a little superior to someone? A sort of secret society? Or, as you stated, a sign of imaturity? 🤔
FINALLY, someone else states one of the glaring issues in our “culture”. But it’s hard for blacks to let go of it because of the pledging to the false gods of the “divine nine”.
The thumbnail is misleading, I don't know Ricky Smiley personally but I believe he has taken care of his children. Sure he jokes a lot and celebrates his group of fraternity. But he's a grown man.
Rickey Smiley became rich mocking the church, particularly the black church.
He never talks bad about those good God fearing wholesome WT folks.
Hush
@@kennethc9996 never fails, struck nerves strike first 😂
Apparently, this preacher has never met a white teenager or college student in his life.
Does anyone know what these fraternities and sororities really represent? How do they go with being a child of TMH God? I am so glad I had a chance to take in all Pastor Stephen Darby taught. He was a true Man of God.
The first commandment is "No other God" furthermore Bible says to Raise a child the right way, it also shows who we should trust... >>Psalms 118:8-9 KJV
yes, now Pastor Darby was a true man of Yah. He spoke on things, 3-8 years ago, that the church today won't speak on today. RIP pastor Darby. While this pastor is so-so, his ministry does not feed me like Pastor Darby. I still look at his videos
This guy is got to be to most honest speaking minister
@MB-iv4mqThe question is why is she a single black mother raising her child/children on her own in the first place???🤔😐 Where are the fathers to these children??? Dead, In Prison, Just a sperm dump, Neglected his family/ responsibilities, "servicing his country", moved on and started another family, raising someone else's child/children with the new woman he's currently with???? Get knowledge, wisdom and understanding 🧠. TMHYAH created Man first...not Woman. The Men are supposed to lead his household. But, in all honesty so called black Men & black Women are both in their wrongdoings 😢. And, the Father places judgements on us accordingly!
@MB-iv4mq that's another truth and a sad truth
I 100% approve this message!!!
I've noticed in this.
I love everything about my Brass men, some Brass men are stuck in the trend mentality. They refuse to stand in leadership positions, they are followers. There's an abundant of brilliance laying unclaimed in the minds of Brass men, so many of them aren't traveling in their full potential.
He's right on this one.
I was wondering about this myself
Sir that is due to generational trauma, from slavery along with single parent households due to absent fathers, many a dysfunctional household plagues our communities
1) Black fraternities are not "college" fraternities.
2) Expresssing pride in an organization does logically infer a lack of maturity.
3) Clearly this minister has not researched the origin and impact of black fraternities and sororities in the black community.
Clearly you haven't either. Refer to the first commandment!
You must admit, you won't see a 50-60 year old white person with Greek fraternity apparel on
I do agree with you Bishop
My African American brothers and sisters have clearly never been to Greece 😂🤔🤣
Yes all society will have bad apples, however he speaking on the American Greeks
These are greek-letter organizations not greek.
PREACH, FROM THE TOP OF MY HEART.
VERY SIMPLE, THEY DON’T THEIR CREATOR.
Very few fathers in the home. Most are being raised by single women who allow their sons to do whatever they want so they won't suffer from loneliness.
This problem is very well outlined...what is the answer to it?
Hell Yeah i agree.
It is what it is
You know it's just the truth anyhow my takeaway
Yes, I agree.
LOL @ Rickey Smiley!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
1000%
IF THE PHARISEES WERE NOT GOING TO ENTER THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN ..... WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU'RE DIFFERENT???
They grow up,grow up in what,if you duck and dodge everything
Just another excuse, there is a time and place for everything 😂 you can’t judge a man by his attire, I am a Veteran so I guess I can’t Rep my branch of service.
disagree. certain job interviews and occupations, men must dress a certain way and they will be judged by their attire.
So if you wear effeminate clothing, we can't judge that you are effeminate? Okay.
There is a time and place for everything
I disagree
This is true. People outside of the black community know it very well. This is partly why its difficult for black men to get respect, even if they are NOT like this. Don't blame racism. Blame Pookie and Ray Ray.
We generally age slowly. This is actually a blessing, a physical advantage. Unfortunately, what is a physical advantage turns out to be a social disadvantage since we are big kids competing against non-black peers who have aged more rapidly.
That's an excuse. Aging slowly on the outside does not prohibit you from maturing mentally, emotionally & spiritually on the inside. We women mature gracefully on the outside as well but you find us maturing on the inside quite well (we are great mothers, graduate college, hold down jobs, families) ... We don't have time for anymore excuses. Get into books, prayer, mentors... whatever it takes to grow properly. PLEASE STOP THE EXCUSES.
Are you okay? You seem bitter. @@oneblessedladyallsbrook1057
@@oneblessedladyallsbrook1057 I don’t agree that black women mature faster.
I disagree!!
This has nothing to do with the level of maturity of a black man. I'm tired of hearing those who have NO WORKING knowledge of fraternity and sorority organizations speak on them. This is no different than an individual representing any type of organization they've been a part of for years.
He has already spoken on the topic of these divine 9 organizations and they have their roots in Greek God's and are direct opposition to the gospel of Jesus Christ. The spirit is not calling us to secret societies like the masons nor is he calling us to organizations that have their foundations in Greek demonic influence
I have yet to see,a non African American,past 26 years of age,running around in Greek fraternity/sorority gear.Other races,when they graduate undergrad,they leave the Greek stuff behind.
@@thesheepdog 💯
I’ve actually never seen a grown white man outside of a college campus reppin his fraternity
He must have wanted to pledge but couldn't.
Neither the black man nor the black woman have grown up. Both feed off of each other.
Sir quit lying