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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2019
  • Armando and Phindile Ngandu came and defined love with us. #DEFININGLOVE #RoadTo15K
    Producer: Dagmar Plaatjie
    Videographer: Bongani Baloyi
    Host & Editor: Dennis Ngango
    Connect with us:
    ➪ Email: definingdennis@gmail.com
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 582

  • @nomfundobrukwe3836
    @nomfundobrukwe3836 5 років тому +1013

    LOVE is so beautiful! I pray for everyone who is reading this to find it.. as genuine as it is.

  • @atleemadiba1811
    @atleemadiba1811 5 років тому +288

    This channel honestly reminds me never to settle 😭

  • @thatokoki2085
    @thatokoki2085 5 років тому +197

    The way Phindile's face lights up when talking about Armando😍😍😭 You can tell the love is real

  • @ayandamokwana
    @ayandamokwana 5 років тому +87

    She ADMIRES this man! Yho. She even looks at him for answers before she herself replies.

  • @sihlexoza9741
    @sihlexoza9741 5 років тому +236

    Guys Phindile has been smiling from ear to ear, throughout the video. 😍😍

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 5 років тому +84

    i want to look at my husband the way Phindile looks at hers. wow shes so happy🔥🔥

  • @luciamaduna322
    @luciamaduna322 5 років тому +55

    The wisdom Armando carries, love this 2😍😍♥️♥️

  • @thatsbahle443
    @thatsbahle443 4 роки тому +186

    UPHINDILE uthole lento ekuthiwa indoda emadodeni. Beautiful couple.

  • @rethabilemalefane4952
    @rethabilemalefane4952 5 років тому +69

    i see love in Phindiles eyes, its so beautiful to watch. may we all experience this kind of love.

  • @phumlakraai5076
    @phumlakraai5076 5 років тому +51

    Lol Phindile is really inlove the way she be looking at Armando☺ncaaww... super cute

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 5 років тому +74

    They have such perfect teeth.
    I think this might be my favourite DefiningLove. I think I’ve found the one 😂😂. This is it guys, this is my favourite one.

  • @kholofeloshongwe2872
    @kholofeloshongwe2872 5 років тому +145

    Listen to Armando talk about what a relationship is, love and saying sorry. DEM! God help me to find a mature man, with intentions and whos complete not needing me to complete him.

  • @kholofeloshongwe2872
    @kholofeloshongwe2872 5 років тому +56

    I confess! I love African man! They know how to love and treat a woman. What an amazing couple. Love love love #DEFININGLOVE

  • @snenhlanhlasibiya5103
    @snenhlanhlasibiya5103 5 років тому +40

    “Ey nizwile” 😂 she proud! I love them so much 🥺😍😍

  • @TheDuoSA
    @TheDuoSA 5 років тому +207

    Dennis, you're that guy that we will look to proudly and say "he is the guy that got quality back into youtube" anyway. Let's go get our snacks😄

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому +8

      This means a lot to me, thank you so much🙌🏿🤗

  • @thandod5697
    @thandod5697 5 років тому +42

    When Armando said "Love is...the problem starts when we want to control love" I felt that😭

  • @praisemurenzvi5187
    @praisemurenzvi5187 5 років тому +68

    Their chemistry is EVERYTHING 😭❤️

  • @zimmiejotile6679
    @zimmiejotile6679 5 років тому +400

    This channel makes us wish we had boyfriends 😭❤️💕, but szazthini😩

  • @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653
    @kekeletsomotsoeneng8653 5 років тому +154

    "You cannot expect people to give you more than they have"🔥🔥
    Thank you Defining 😭❤

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому +1

      Our pleasure🙌🏿🤗

    • @Toks81
      @Toks81 4 роки тому +2

      this spoke to me as well

  • @crownedkarbwiie8184
    @crownedkarbwiie8184 5 років тому +67

    The way phindile looks at him😭her smile😭 CAN I JUST GET MYSELF AN ARMANDO😢😢😢😢

  • @IntimacywithGod121
    @IntimacywithGod121 5 років тому +84

    "People know what to do, they just don't wanna do it"

  • @crownedkarbwiie8184
    @crownedkarbwiie8184 5 років тому +117

    First😭😭😭I'd like to thank my mom, dad, definers and everyone who knows me😭😭😭😭📸📸🏆🏆🏆🏅🏅

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому +2

      I'm so proud of you😊🙏🏿😉

  • @DEFINING
    @DEFINING  5 років тому +214

    Cav the new intro🙌🏿😭🔥 #DEFININGLOVE #RoadTo15K

  • @kagisomodutwane5361
    @kagisomodutwane5361 5 років тому +21

    The way Phindi looks at him when he explains what love is !

  • @Miriro_Moments
    @Miriro_Moments 5 років тому +43

    Love isn’t enough I feel, it’s important to have your beliefs and core values aligned, wise in how you deal with finances, relationships with family, stability, whether they will be a great parent to your future children etc. and if ever you feel out of love I think it’s important to genuinely like the other person, to have a genuine friendship too.

  • @banelemello7150
    @banelemello7150 5 років тому +41

    When Love is in control you see it breathe in your partner. I love this episode and the couple is oozing with love for each other.

  • @pepsicola9813
    @pepsicola9813 4 роки тому +31

    Armando's viewpoint on life has just changed my outlook on it. I'm in awe .

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 роки тому +1

      He is very very wise🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥

    • @molatelolehong2623
      @molatelolehong2623 4 роки тому

      He carries so much wisdom🔥🙏

  • @ongeziweunathilusaseni315
    @ongeziweunathilusaseni315 5 років тому +60

    I swear the fire emoji was made for such content ♥️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому +2

      Thank you Unati🙌🏿😁

  • @solakhanxasana26
    @solakhanxasana26 5 років тому +17

    DEFINING should be on TV haibo!!😭🔥❤️

  • @ramatsimelamolepo8242
    @ramatsimelamolepo8242 4 роки тому +13

    Lols the funny thing about Phindile saying the kiss was a defining moment for her about the guy,i felt that moment during a hug a mere hug i knew then that that was a husband for me and the hug still feels the same after 5 years of bin together. Love wins all the time and it comes wen you least expect it 😍

  • @nolusizodlalisa5573
    @nolusizodlalisa5573 5 років тому +27

    Just beautiful!! Never really paid any attention to them, this made me love them together!

  • @nthabisengbolele2750
    @nthabisengbolele2750 5 років тому +18

    His accent. .the look on her face when she looks at him... guys love is real

  • @privacychatukuta2488
    @privacychatukuta2488 4 роки тому +9

    This guy
    has wisdom, and the lady is quite a charm. Perfect 👌

  • @Muse_XoXo_
    @Muse_XoXo_ 4 роки тому +11

    Armando is such a well spoken man , I adore how he puts his words ... there's aura in his words that just leaves me in AWE...the he says that through all the uncertainty about the future what matters is the love we have NOW and how we feel NOW ...he has made me realize that love and fear does not correspond because when you love someone today and now is what matters and there's no worry about what tomorrow might happen...😍😍😍Phindile , you got a real kerper, love him now!!!!

  • @anele.nsithole5593
    @anele.nsithole5593 4 роки тому +4

    The way she smiles when she looks at him while he talks. Sooo cute 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 5 років тому +51

    I’m already melting and I’m not even halfway 😭😭

    • @b.raedani7692
      @b.raedani7692 4 роки тому

      OneAndOnly_Rori ona le drama😹😹❤️

    • @HelangMedia
      @HelangMedia 4 роки тому

      Boitumelo Raedani 😂😂😂 heyyy I’m sure you were also melting. There’s no need to deny it. It’s okay

    • @e-sportstv
      @e-sportstv 4 роки тому

      God I'm seeing this too

  • @sandilekhumalo8667
    @sandilekhumalo8667 5 років тому +106

    This channel is going on TV I tell you 🤞🤞

  • @Hello-_simplyzane
    @Hello-_simplyzane 5 років тому +27

    So happy that y’all brought a married couple. I loved this one so much.
    The maturity is different. So raw and so inspiring.

  • @murendeni4782
    @murendeni4782 5 років тому +30

    Vhathu!🤭 The way Phindile is so smitten...like she just met the guy😅

  • @lifebotshelo2134
    @lifebotshelo2134 5 років тому +45

    U know you're single and bored when it's 21:03 friday and watching beautiful unions on defining ❤️😍God i see what you're doing for others. 🙏🏾

    • @aggymaka9628
      @aggymaka9628 4 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣hits home

    • @tebogowagamahlo8310
      @tebogowagamahlo8310 4 роки тому +1

      5 months later am that single person at 21h27 watching 😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 роки тому

      For real loll!!

    • @bmsibisi
      @bmsibisi Рік тому

      Not bored 😂 ohh hell yeah I'm single

  • @stardustmammie
    @stardustmammie 5 років тому +10

    The way Phindi looks and giggles...! 😍

  • @TheeKanyeMsi
    @TheeKanyeMsi 4 роки тому +21

    “My spirit rose” 🤣🤣 I died
    Mutual love is such a beautiful thing

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 5 років тому +17

    In relationships People know what to do they just dont wanna do it 💯 that's so true

  • @saaranam
    @saaranam 5 років тому +71

    Love looks amazing on people ey, that intro❤ I hope everyone experiences real LOVE before leaving this world. I love you DEFINING for consistently reminding us that love still exists.

  • @sabamasaya2064
    @sabamasaya2064 5 років тому +90

    Yolz and Lwazi Jawe
    Mpoomy and Brendan Praise Ledwaba
    Lebo and Luyanda( Mehlomakools)

  • @angellamula
    @angellamula 5 років тому +110

    Denis please bring the Mehlomakools to the show 🙏🏽

    • @khunindlovu3310
      @khunindlovu3310 5 років тому +2

      Tlemma before Lebo gives birth hehehe

    • @nthatilemathe91
      @nthatilemathe91 5 років тому +1

      No, after.. Lol

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому +40

      We've already shot with them. It will come soon😊😉. Cav the vision

    • @angellamula
      @angellamula 5 років тому +3

      DEFINING I love it!☺️💃🏽the content I signed up for!☺️

    • @oagengmsiza5760
      @oagengmsiza5760 5 років тому +1

      I can't wait...

  • @nomfundomthethwa8330
    @nomfundomthethwa8330 5 років тому +11

    Phindile and Armando ; you just gave us hope that real love still exist. 😍😍I'm so in love with this video and phindile we can see love through your eyes😊😄gurl😍

  • @ayandaprincess3332
    @ayandaprincess3332 5 років тому +15

    Ohk am i the only one admiring hi accent all the time he speaks😣😣 Nkosi yam ,ukhuluma kamnandzi nangu umuntfu😚😍

  • @siphiwekhoza2195
    @siphiwekhoza2195 5 років тому +34

    This is the best UA-cam channel by far....Thanks Dennis ✌🏿

  • @zukiswaqwabe3786
    @zukiswaqwabe3786 5 років тому +3

    I can't help but smile seeing Phindile look at her man with such love eyes.

  • @mochaleaves
    @mochaleaves 5 років тому +12

    I love this guy's mindset. His perspective on love is 🤙🤙

  • @zammyzee8073
    @zammyzee8073 5 років тому +115

    Sbwl guys😍😍😍😍😍
    I'm hiding earphones under my shirt at work 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

  • @karabosekonyela6775
    @karabosekonyela6775 4 роки тому +15

    I have not heard this much truth and wisdom in a while. This guy is so wise.
    Also never rush to be in a relationship, any relationship, discover yourself 1st, I think this is even what the guy is preaching about. Be fulfilled first before you expect the next person to fulfill you.

  • @cnezinreallife
    @cnezinreallife 5 років тому +23

    This channel is the best thing that has ever happened to UA-cam 😩😭

  • @olonamakele3365
    @olonamakele3365 5 років тому +6

    Oooh man I loooove this episode here. Phindile is soooo inlove, both are so inlove. It's BEAUTIFUL!!😭...may God bless their union man, continue to be relationship goals for all of us....I can't, I just cant!!😭😭😭❤

  • @zinangoni297
    @zinangoni297 5 років тому +40

    The way they look at each other!? Yhu hayi hayi hayi! Phindile's face is red from blushing!
    Love is beautiful!
    We love the new intro!😍😱👏

  • @funtasiakhuhlane8717
    @funtasiakhuhlane8717 5 років тому +28

    It made me cry. I love love strories. Ive been married for a week and I love love stories.

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому +2

      Congratulations on the marriage🙌🏿🔥📺

    • @funtasiakhuhlane8717
      @funtasiakhuhlane8717 5 років тому +1

      @@DEFINING Thank you. ❤

    • @mufarowashenae489
      @mufarowashenae489 4 роки тому +2

      I love love stories and I have been single since birth 😣

  • @lifebeingwendii2712
    @lifebeingwendii2712 5 років тому +13

    The intro makes me tear up thinking about all the previous episodes 😭😭 Lord!!! This series stays holding up my hope on love!! Yhuuuu I'm so happy, their love is beautiful!!

  • @BelindaGwala
    @BelindaGwala 5 років тому +100

    Sbwl something my sister has with her husband 😪♥️

  • @Zoey_bela
    @Zoey_bela 5 років тому +7

    I'm literally in tears. I couldn't stop smiling throughout. Their love is beautiful ❤

  • @aneledlamini4078
    @aneledlamini4078 5 років тому +14

    waze wamuhle uPhindile 😻

  • @zwakelenzimande5531
    @zwakelenzimande5531 4 роки тому +11

    What a beautiful couple, making me believe in love again, true. pure love.

  • @masegof4001
    @masegof4001 5 років тому +10

    Oh hayi lona, I can't take this.. this is amazing... Armando's wisdom ❤

  • @ntokozokhumalo7700
    @ntokozokhumalo7700 5 років тому +9

    FACCCCTTTSSSSS he is such a wise man Phindile you are blessed.

  • @sindisessions
    @sindisessions 5 років тому +6

    They are contagious. Something to wish for oneself. Love is all the silver and gold!
    Where is my definite to define love?

  • @zannymoss
    @zannymoss 4 роки тому +26

    “You shouldn’t go into a relationship looking for happiness, that should already be fulfilled” wow 😮 powerful ❤️

    • @mbuvhatshilisanani9711
      @mbuvhatshilisanani9711 4 роки тому

      Can u explain to me I don’t understand the statement

    • @zannymoss
      @zannymoss 4 роки тому +8

      TSHILI JOE it just means that you should already be happy with yourself instead of going into a relationship looking for happiness. Make yourself happy first and then find someone to share that with. Even if they leave or disappoint you its ok coz u are already happy and content.

    • @mbuvhatshilisanani9711
      @mbuvhatshilisanani9711 4 роки тому

      @@zannymoss wow dankie nee

  • @sithandazilecaroline4314
    @sithandazilecaroline4314 4 роки тому +31

    ...when she described her feelings about their first kiss....good Lord!!!....i felt it😭

  • @gugulethusithole995
    @gugulethusithole995 5 років тому +31

    Mqhele and Hlomu vibes. this love!!!

    • @MOOI448
      @MOOI448 5 років тому

      Ahhhhhh😅
      You read the book too

    • @noncedokhumalo1693
      @noncedokhumalo1693 5 років тому

      Apperently Mqhele dies on the next series🙁

    • @noncedokhumalo1693
      @noncedokhumalo1693 5 років тому

      Sorry to jinx it

    • @gugulethusithole995
      @gugulethusithole995 5 років тому

      @@noncedokhumalo1693 lets hope not ..it could be that she is living him. i want the book out already!!! it would be so sad

    • @gugulethusithole995
      @gugulethusithole995 5 років тому

      @@MOOI448 amazing book!!

  • @HelangMedia
    @HelangMedia 5 років тому +48

    Ncccaaaaewww I like the new intro 🔥🔥. It’s sooo cute. It’s sooo beautiful!!

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому

      Thank you Rori🙌🏿😊😉

  • @zannymoss
    @zannymoss 4 роки тому +7

    Phindile Rocks hle , her personality is everything ❤️❤️🔥

  • @simbulelemoko5876
    @simbulelemoko5876 5 років тому +18

    You'd swear I know them personally. Been smiling, crying throughout the video.
    Great content. Been watching since day one but this is my favourite love episode.

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  5 років тому +1

      Thank you Simbulele🙌🏿🤗

  • @ashleyaugust7867
    @ashleyaugust7867 5 років тому +6

    this is by far my fave episode, this guy is so mature and so obviously ready for this marriage. she is so smitten, aaaah it reduced me to tears.

  • @buhlemazibuko2656
    @buhlemazibuko2656 5 років тому +11

    Love is always beautiful to watch.,,,thank you for letting people share their love with us💕

  • @victoriankateko4759
    @victoriankateko4759 4 роки тому +5

    I keep coming back here, omg😪😍❤️❤️🥰 yhuuu ha.A everyone deserves this kind of love even if it's just once in your lifetime!

  • @velabacela2535
    @velabacela2535 5 років тому +12

    Im screaming RN. I love these two😍😍😍

  • @zeejele68
    @zeejele68 3 роки тому +3

    Phindile my darling I bow down to you for seeing love above all beariers that we r told dnt make it esp as mzansi ladies and Armando I respect you for looking beyond all things but looking at her heart,I love individuals who look above all the norms and perceptions of others its magical,I love this love connection,All the best to you both!

  • @neoeuw
    @neoeuw 5 років тому +4

    Phindile is so beautiful, the way they look at each other 😭😭😭❤️

  • @ntokozothwala7086
    @ntokozothwala7086 4 роки тому +8

    "communication simplifies life"

  • @ZintleMalgas
    @ZintleMalgas 5 років тому +4

    How Phindile's face lights up. Urg man, uthando luhle! 😍❤️

  • @zinzilemsiza1284
    @zinzilemsiza1284 5 років тому +26

    We don't deserve you, yessess!!🙌👏 and the new intro is so beautiful💕

  • @sindisiwedayimani4125
    @sindisiwedayimani4125 5 років тому +15

    Ndise classin Dennis!
    But I love love so I can't wait to watch this

  • @moiponematlhwane2723
    @moiponematlhwane2723 5 років тому +10

    Absolutely beautiful. To love and be loved is a special thing!!!

  • @xolisilemadi6300
    @xolisilemadi6300 5 років тому +8

    I heard him saying NJEH so sweet😘😍😍😍

  • @masegof4001
    @masegof4001 5 років тому +9

    Phindile is so inlove 😭😍❤

  • @bongiwezaca2721
    @bongiwezaca2721 4 роки тому +19

    I know I’m 7 months late but wow 🤩..so glad I bumped into this channel a few weeks ago..gives me hope that I’ll still find real love

    • @DEFINING
      @DEFINING  4 роки тому +2

      Welcome to the Family Bongiwe🙌🏿💕🔥

    • @mapaseka926
      @mapaseka926 2 роки тому

      I am almost 2 years late

  • @hlangahgwamanda7413
    @hlangahgwamanda7413 4 роки тому +22

    this guy is very smart yooh...everything he says just makes sense....congrats MAGWALA

  • @RendyLuna
    @RendyLuna 2 роки тому +2

    Phindy is such a vibe, the smile and happiness she exudes , oh my Gosh 🥰

  • @naledinaledi2716
    @naledinaledi2716 4 роки тому +7

    True love really does exist I've seen it through this......I really cant get enough 😢❤

  • @AsiveN
    @AsiveN 5 років тому +7

    Yho the way she looks at him 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️

  • @dollynghixulifwa9513
    @dollynghixulifwa9513 5 років тому +5

    Phindile is so endearing ...so sweet

  • @sangepiliso7403
    @sangepiliso7403 5 років тому +4

    What a cute couple. The love is evident everywhere!! The looks, the voices, the smiles yonke into nje is love. Congratulations to the Ngandu's.

  • @realshxtrecords3655
    @realshxtrecords3655 4 роки тому +9

    Ncooh man this was the best "Defining Love interview" I've watched so far 😍😍😍 they were so real and honest & you could tell they were both speak from the bottom of their hearts ❤😍😍😍💯

  • @LILITHAMALIWA
    @LILITHAMALIWA 5 років тому +7

    The love fever I get from these videos... LOVE is so beautiful and thank you for reminding us.

  • @siyambungu
    @siyambungu 5 років тому +10

    Awww man. Love is beautiful 😭❤🙌

  • @gillehrer2824
    @gillehrer2824 5 років тому +57

    His accent is so strong... it sounds like mine... and I'm not a native speaker of English!

  • @Ndaafa
    @Ndaafa 5 років тому +5

    She's so happy. 😭❤

  • @ngwanamolwelasagagwe9392
    @ngwanamolwelasagagwe9392 5 років тому +9

    Defining what are you doing to us ❤️❤️❤️love is beautiful

  • @tsakanimahlawule5473
    @tsakanimahlawule5473 5 років тому +9

    Love the new intro, it's beautiful 💯💯. Every love story and journey on defining love is beautiful.

  • @goldenglits981
    @goldenglits981 5 років тому +10

    Defining love has me so hooked to this channel 😭😭❤❤❤

  • @Kandy199
    @Kandy199 5 років тому +10

    Phindile's laugh is so cute, she just lights up talking about mans. love it!!!