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  • @hibiscuspalm9254
    @hibiscuspalm9254 9 днів тому +3

    Great thoughts that you shared. I’ve never lived in India or US but can agree with so many of your points as a female. I’ve also given a lot of my energy and effort on friendships that don’t matter. It hurts a lot when you do something for someone but when you need it, they are not there. I have some people in my life who call me only to talk about themself and their struggles. But when everything is good, I’m nowhere in their picture. It hurts a lot. I’ve also experienced the same with family. Now i do things with no expectations. And i no longer go beyond my way to do anything for anyone. I rather spend that energy on myself. If they call me and share their ‘sob story’, i listen and say ‘ah is it’. I don’t engage, and i honestly don’t care too. At this stage in life, I find it hard to believe when someone says they have a lot of friends. Some people in our life are acquaintances, ex-colleagues, school mates etc. not everyone is a friend. We need to know that and travel in life.
    On the food review part - i agree. Till date, my mum will never agree if i say the food at someone’s house is good. Haha.

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Really… thank you so much for the comment 🙏

    • @cheesepie455
      @cheesepie455 7 днів тому +1

      😂 about how your mom feels about food in other homes ..same with mine too...thsy just cant handle when others are complimented.😂

  • @slab322
    @slab322 День тому +1

    The grass always looks greener on the other side. Very well said. Life life positively and build on your strengths.

  • @dreamerlyrics977
    @dreamerlyrics977 9 днів тому +6

    நீங்க சொல்றது நூற்றுக்கு நூறு உண்மை ஆனால் அதைப் புரிந்து கொள்ளும் வயது 45 ஆகி விடுகிறது

  • @gardening-ft6ku
    @gardening-ft6ku 4 дні тому +1

    Very true malar! I agree to everything you said! Am in Texas but i have been through all scenarios you said! Also ball jar always worth! I bought this 5 years ago still using it.

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  4 дні тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience! 🙏

  • @vinithashousecooking5597
    @vinithashousecooking5597 9 днів тому +2

    Super malar sis😍😍😍nice vlog ungala mari than naanum neenga pesuratha kekum pothu ungaloda thoughts um enoda thoughts um ore mari irukera mari thonuthu sis unga videos ellam nalla iruku nalla panunga😍😍my best wishes

  • @vidhyasundarinalathambi7291
    @vidhyasundarinalathambi7291 5 днів тому +1

    Hi Malar , Can you please share me the link for your Kitchen ceramic canisters?

  • @rekha8919
    @rekha8919 2 дні тому +1

    Seriously I faced the same thing during get together. Canada also so similar because ppl are all same . Hi to you ❤🎉

  • @narmuchandran
    @narmuchandran 9 днів тому +2

    Exactly true Malar what you are telling about friend . I had same experience with few people. Namma kudave irundhu Nallavanga mari act pannaravanga.you are remembering the price with cents as well👌🏻and also I’m watching your video before i sleep.😊

  • @mylittleadventures2023
    @mylittleadventures2023 6 днів тому +1

    Hi Akka, i love watching your videos! Also, your home decor is beautiful! Could you share a video on your home decor items, where you bought them and how you planned and decorated them?

  • @sathyauday
    @sathyauday 7 днів тому +2

    Hi Malar I recently started watching your videos. You're so matured, caring, affectionate, patient, organized, smart, hardworking person. Glad I get to know you. You're really making an inspiration to me. I am from Seattle. Sathya

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  7 днів тому +1

      🙏 Thank you so much Sathya 🙂

  • @banumathi5601
    @banumathi5601 3 дні тому +1

    Hi Malar u r absolutely correct ❤100 percent agree this😊

  • @padmapriya5353
    @padmapriya5353 День тому +1

    Hi, Malar! The whole video felt like a therapy session. I’m listening to you while loading the dishwasher and your words make me feel so calm and validated. You radiate big sister vibes and I really love your fervor for life and its simple joys. Naangalum love marriage dhan and I used to work as a teacher back in India, so I relate to you a lot 🩵 sending lots of love your way.

  • @MinishaDanny
    @MinishaDanny 2 дні тому +1

    Hi akka… neenga solrathu 💯true… nanum USA ku new… I like your all videos..

  • @devivellingiri8302
    @devivellingiri8302 8 днів тому +1

    Very true about potluck . I have experienced Malar.

  • @arthikrishnanmoorthy8698
    @arthikrishnanmoorthy8698 6 днів тому +1

    So true ❤

  • @umayalskitchen6461
    @umayalskitchen6461 8 днів тому +1

    Can u pls suggest me how to grow money plant, mine is in water and mud, no improvment.

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Change mud every 6 month ma

  • @AnithasKitchen2020
    @AnithasKitchen2020 8 днів тому +1

    Yes Malar. Well said 👍🏻

  • @sangeektvm
    @sangeektvm 7 днів тому +1

    I started listening to your videos recently and i really like it.. your words are reflection of our life in USA .. thanks for sharing 😅
    For weight loss, try early dinner , that’s helps me a lot ..

  • @DD-sh5fn
    @DD-sh5fn 8 днів тому +1

    What's u said about friends is really true Malar...
    Real friends kedaikuradhu nejamave romba kashtam than...
    Also family is our first priority nu sonnadhum correct...
    Shopping ellame super 👌
    Green sweater semma...
    Black bracelet looks good on u...
    Yes, nammala use panranga nu therinja romba kashtama irukum, namma avlo aasapattu pannirupoam...apram avangaloda ennam avlothan nu free ah vittu kadandhu vandhuruvoam...

  • @santhirasekaramajantha6440
    @santhirasekaramajantha6440 9 днів тому +1

    Super sister nan konjam payantha supabam ippo unkala parththu thaan konjam payam illama sila visayankal seiuran thank you so much sister ❤

  • @aarthiramkumar369
    @aarthiramkumar369 8 днів тому +3

    I did the weight loss diet da.. I simply stopped intake of sugar n sweet and started eating Saamai instead of rice.. that really helped me pa.. 😊 also I saw a small tablet on ur kitchen wall u watching movie.. is that an iPad or tv pa ??

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Thanks for sharing

    • @DD-sh5fn
      @DD-sh5fn 8 днів тому +1

      That's Amazon echo show...

  • @Kirthigovind
    @Kirthigovind 8 днів тому +1

    I’m Regular viewer of your wonderful videos. Your videos are awesome & motivational. Your voice & content is so Raw, friendly, Authentic & Feel Good. While listening to your video, I even forgot that video is running. Then realised that I Was hearing your voice/talking only. Out of this, Just a suggestion - try Spotify podcast.
    Since you are good speaker & no video is required in podcast. It will be much easier.. I hope so. Have a calm, happy life ahead.

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much 😊🙏🙏

  • @subhamadhan112
    @subhamadhan112 8 днів тому +1

    Hi Malar,
    What you Said in the vlog about potluck and friendship is 100./. True.

  • @lemont9061
    @lemont9061 9 днів тому +1

    Your video is so addictive.. your motivation is good.. most of the UA-camrs show their positive side only.. no one talks about the real struggle which we face here in US.. I am happy that you have understanding husband..

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      It's so hard, ma 😭 I hope you find happiness 🙏

  • @radhikakannan2147
    @radhikakannan2147 9 днів тому +2

    👏👌🏻❤️Vera level maturity da👏😍

  • @cheesepie455
    @cheesepie455 7 днів тому +1

    Yes yes, the truth is women never praise other women, not all but most. It is a very petty attitude characterized by envy.
    Also what you said about being used is true and it is better to stay clear of such people.

  • @Health_Beauty369
    @Health_Beauty369 8 днів тому +1

    True mam.

  • @PavithraDhananjeyan
    @PavithraDhananjeyan 8 днів тому +1

    True 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

  • @kalaivanisoundar3261
    @kalaivanisoundar3261 8 днів тому +1

    Nice vlog malar sister ❤

  • @7aarthiv
    @7aarthiv 9 днів тому +1

    It was really beautiful what you said about making the most of our current lives instead of regretting past decisions and comparing our lives with that of others.
    In the next video, you can may be talk about what you like about living in the USA. Living in india among relatives has its pros and cons too. May be because thats what you miss the most you feel that way.
    Despite most of us missing our parents and other relations, we have made a choice to be away for whatever reason. So we have prioritized something else.

  • @Dhanasekaran-q7m
    @Dhanasekaran-q7m 8 днів тому +1

    True malar Same.

  • @saikailash3979
    @saikailash3979 9 днів тому +1

    Sis na us la New Jersey la irukan rmbaaaa seriya sonega nala nanbargal kedaipathu rmbaaa kastam but apdi kedacha rmbaaaa happy

  • @25narmadha
    @25narmadha 6 днів тому +1

    I was the only person who thought who came across these situations,now I realise mostly thats how people are

  • @Shams-cooking
    @Shams-cooking 8 днів тому +1

    True sister ❤

  • @anushiyaanu1011
    @anushiyaanu1011 9 днів тому +1

    Nenga soldrathulam unmai than akka ...kovam koraichutu epo Nan happy ah eruka murugar apram nenga than Karanam love you akka

  • @hemapadmanabhan3501
    @hemapadmanabhan3501 8 днів тому +1

    Hi Malar what you said is 100 percent true

  • @arunapraba2702
    @arunapraba2702 9 днів тому +1

    Hi sister gud morning.....dailyum enala comment pana mudiyala .,but daily am watching ur video I f i feel dullmeans after watching ur video it will motivate to me

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Thanks for your support ma! 🙏

  • @pushpadassvell2766
    @pushpadassvell2766 7 днів тому +1

    Thank you so much for saying Hi Pushpa, I love you Malar❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @mathurakarthik5496
    @mathurakarthik5496 8 днів тому +1

    Malar your videos are awesome and motivating.After 10 years, I started working after watching your video .Really eye opening and frank discussions ❤.You said so true about potluck and back bitching everyone would have faced this problem in USA .100 percent I could connect that .We are longing for true love and true relationship ❤.Some positive vibes and energy you have .You spread through videos.❤.You will reach so many heights and stay blessed .😊

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Thank you so much 😊🙏

  • @sowmiyaganapathy9613
    @sowmiyaganapathy9613 8 днів тому +1

    Yes Malar. You are right.... இக்கரைக்கு அக்கரை பச்சை... வந்து பார்த்தா தான் தெரியும்..... Compare pannama..irukiratha vachu happy ah irukalam Malar. Life easythan ... Aduthavanga mari irukka ninachathaan kastam...

  • @SrishaS-v3h
    @SrishaS-v3h 8 днів тому +1

    Hello Malar,
    New subscriber here. Recently come across your videos and really enjoy watching them.
    Ur voice is so good and the way u talk is so soothing! 👌👌
    I myself thinking to do 100 challenge to focus on my health and fitness. Will be glad to watch ur journey as well.
    I am also from east coast and as we r starting this fitness journey in January, it will not be possible to include outdoor activities. So, I am planning to follow some workout videos ( Chloe Ting UA-cam channel has awesome videos, from full body workouts to tummy, upper body, lower body… everything is there. Another option is Apple TV fitness videos. We can create our own playlists) .
    Workouts are only 20% and diet is 80%. I am planning to eat early( before 7 pm dinner) , protein and vegetables in every meal.
    Will keep sharing what works for me in the future! 😃
    Keep inspiring as always! 🙏🙏👍

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Thank you so much 😊 for the detailed comment 🙏

  • @nirmalasubb7632
    @nirmalasubb7632 9 днів тому +1

    God bless you

  • @MohammedsahlanT-ms2bf
    @MohammedsahlanT-ms2bf 9 днів тому +2

    Hi sister 😊😊❤

  • @RAKSHANISelvarathnam
    @RAKSHANISelvarathnam 7 днів тому +1

    💯 sis not only in the US but also in the UAE 🇦🇪 I too learnt so many things in one years akka and also we are happily talk to them they think about us very low I don't know why but I always think about my husband only and also I spent more time with my husband only and everyday I miss my parents exactly always pray God need a good and wealthy health and also even today here UAE climate changed winter started so I'm not well cold and fever and also never pack breakfast for my husband I'm not well but they don't know this and all they think whatever they think about us dear akka so be happy enjoy your life as you said recently I love all your videos why because your think and way of talking is like me ❤

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  6 днів тому

      Thank you ma, please take care of yourself ma

    • @RAKSHANISelvarathnam
      @RAKSHANISelvarathnam 6 днів тому +1

      Thank you akka for the love you too take care akka ❤

  • @MohanO-ny6fi
    @MohanO-ny6fi 9 днів тому +1

    Hi malar sis . Na koncham odambu sariillama irunthe
    Sis appi onga chennal pathutte
    Iruppe aduthu odambu koncham sariagiruchu onga video pathu tha enna nane
    mathikkitte ennoda pasangala nalla pathukkire nalla samachu thare sis ongala pathu tha sis na ennae mathikkitte ippo tailoring kathukkittu thachuttu irukke sis ippo ennoda family ya pathukkavu ennoda husband kku enakku fight varathulla sis thank you sis ❤❤❤

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Awesome ma, congrats for ur tailoring ma good luck

  • @krithikamurali3564
    @krithikamurali3564 8 днів тому +1

    Well said

  • @sharmi643
    @sharmi643 9 днів тому +1

    True Malar

  • @archanab1548
    @archanab1548 9 днів тому +1

    Super Malar❤

  • @VaratharajDharmaraj
    @VaratharajDharmaraj 8 днів тому +1

    Hi Malar, how are you and your family. It seems to be very cold since winter season has started. Is it a freezing cold like freezer. I am very curious to know about it. How do you handle this weather. Have you experience any natural disaster around your housing area. How is the crime rate over there. It is not easy to adapt a life in foreign countries with different cultures. Nothing is like our native country where we were born and grow up. Family, friends and relatives around us.Full of sweet and beautiful memories. I'm sure you missed your family in India very much. Of course before marriage everything was easy peasy and happy when girls stay with their parents and siblings. Well after marriage, family responsibiity comes along as well. Have to learn and experience to handle our own family with a lot of ups and downs. Maturity is very important in handling family issues. Whether it's love or arranged marriage, chemistry and understanding is needed here. There is no such thing as perfect marriage and there are a lot of challenges to be faced. It would be more easier if married couples become friends so that they can discuss any matters without hesitation and no egos. This is my opinion about marriage. Your two sons look like their father. The younger one looks cute and innocent. They seem to be helpful to you at home and obeying sons. Very well brought up. Are there any Malaysian Indian family staying around your area. Have you been to Malaysia. You should start a live chat. Think about it. Keep up your good work as always. Take care of yourself because you are very precious to your family. Wish you all the best and good luck.❤😊🎉😍😘🤗🤩☺😚👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Hi ma, thank you so much for the wonderful comment… really appreciated your response 🙏this comment says your support 🙏😊

  • @VijayaLakshmi-xq5kk
    @VijayaLakshmi-xq5kk 7 днів тому +1

    Hi suber mam❤

  • @sanvi599
    @sanvi599 8 днів тому

    Hi Malar, 😊
    Lovely vlog❤I can resonate with your thoughts and speech...you conveyed it beautifully 😊
    From many days i wanted to tell one thing...whenever i see your sons i think of Lord Muruga ... What a charm they have just like Muruga🙏🙏
    Stay blessed always, best regards from Sangeeta😊

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      🙏 Thank you so much, Sangeeta

  • @Vijayrk006
    @Vijayrk006 4 дні тому +1

    Please you tell me sister...!!
    Money doesn't matter,
    America vs london which one best for living life style in family...??

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  3 дні тому +1

      It’s very subjective, you have to choose what’s best for you and your family 🙏

    • @Vijayrk006
      @Vijayrk006 9 годин тому

      ​@@malarvanam 😅 enakku confusion ah irukku sister...!!
      America va patthi konjam sollungalen...!!
      Anga crime rate konjam athikamnu payama irukku & gun culture athikamnu solranga...
      And, racism irukkum nu solranga...!!
      So, pls upload one full information video in usa life style in Indians, Particularly tamil peoples ku....!!
      For me....😇😇😇

  • @valoriefalorie4223
    @valoriefalorie4223 8 днів тому +1

    You should become a counselor. You speak very eloquently and politely 😊

  • @Hashvanthlogitha
    @Hashvanthlogitha 9 днів тому +1

    Hi Malar akka na evlo unga vedio ku fan na en baby ku 18 month so phone ku na timming kudukurathu rompa kastam but baby thoonkurapa en time ku na pakurathu unga vedio tha akka ❤️ am Jansi😊

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому +1

      Thank you ma, please take rest ma

  • @arunapraba2702
    @arunapraba2702 9 днів тому +2

    Hi sollunga sis aruna from pondicherry

  • @niveditakarthik2545
    @niveditakarthik2545 7 днів тому

    Akka I think almost every single one of us have gone through this potluck incident 😂neenga sollumbodhu it brought back my initial potluck horror stories/memories 😂😂

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  7 днів тому

      Hahaa that’s so true 😂

  • @SA-xh6wy
    @SA-xh6wy 9 днів тому +1

    So true about the get-together & potluck. Romba mana ulaichalku appuruma, I isolated myself from people but this loneliness is really giving me happiness and now I feel like I can do things on my own. CHOOSE YOUR CHOICE - this is my motto. Also one suggestion and it's not correcting you. Naanum ipdi dhan kathukiten so maybe it will be useful for your future videos. Mens & Womens nu solla koodadhu. It's just Men & women for plural too. Thanks for talking about the potluck issue. I feel that inner happiness.

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Thank you ma 🙏

    • @Anupamaabi
      @Anupamaabi 8 днів тому +1

      I too thought of saying this but didn't know how to put it politely. You have put it across so well sis .Just to add to what you have shared sis ....
      Man - singular
      Men - plural
      Woman - singular
      Women - plural

    • @SA-xh6wy
      @SA-xh6wy 8 днів тому

      @@Anupamaabi 🙏

  • @padmavathipadmavathi4081
    @padmavathipadmavathi4081 9 днів тому +1

    ஹாய் ma நிறை ய உங்களை பார்த் து கற்று கொள்ள வேண்டும் எல்லோரும்❤

  • @nirmalasubb7632
    @nirmalasubb7632 9 днів тому +1

    Mam, Don't go by first week loss. First week will be more loss, but with passing weeks, loss will reduce. Drastically. Some weeks no loss in spite of maximum effort. Just do your best and through that motivate others. I know you will not do for others, but for yourself.

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Thanks for the update ma 🙏

  • @TamizhiniMagizhini
    @TamizhiniMagizhini 9 днів тому +1

    Hi sis video la en 2 ponnu name solunga sis tamizhini magizhini sis kitchen tour video podunga sis

  • @anushiyaanu1011
    @anushiyaanu1011 9 днів тому +1

    Nan happy ah eruken akka nenga wish panathuku thanx .... Akka en name anushiya..

  • @Dssat-2008
    @Dssat-2008 9 днів тому +1

    Hi malar. Just came to say hi ❤

  • @chencal7190
    @chencal7190 9 днів тому +1

    Hi malar, negal sonnathu athanayum unmai unmai . Malar say hi Sangeetha.

  • @RAKSHANISelvarathnam
    @RAKSHANISelvarathnam 7 днів тому

    And also my husband always ask me what's our next plan in life i always said to him go with the flow ❤😂 ok akka ❤️ bye ❤

  • @pearlparrot394
    @pearlparrot394 8 днів тому +1

    8 years aachu usa vandhu i dont have even 1 friend

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Same thing happened to me also sis, don’t feel

  • @selvikannadhasan9714
    @selvikannadhasan9714 5 днів тому +1

    Hi malar

  • @chefmeerabhai2787
    @chefmeerabhai2787 9 днів тому +1

    Hi sis how are you ❤

  • @aishnagaraj6124
    @aishnagaraj6124 8 днів тому +1

    Hi sis, this video la super aa solirukeenga sis very good mesaage for all of us . Unga job related questions kekanum epde sis therinjukanum from you pls sollunga. Also unga husband birthday aniku enaku wedding anniversary sis pls wish and bless me ellam kashtangalum naan poraadi life la nalla nelamaiku varanum nu . My name is Aishwarya .

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Sure da ma, definitely, advanced anniversary wishes to both of you ma

    • @aishnagaraj6124
      @aishnagaraj6124 8 днів тому +1

      Video la name solli wish pannunga sister pls

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      @@aishnagaraj6124 sure ma

    • @aishnagaraj6124
      @aishnagaraj6124 8 днів тому +1

      Thank you sis 😊

  • @pechiammal2192
    @pechiammal2192 8 днів тому +1

    Hi super

  • @selvikannadhasan9714
    @selvikannadhasan9714 5 днів тому +1

    My first comment

  • @anushiyaanu1011
    @anushiyaanu1011 9 днів тому +1

    Hello akka ...

  • @sangeethak333
    @sangeethak333 8 днів тому +1

    Hi

  • @cherrysanajs1655
    @cherrysanajs1655 9 днів тому +1

    Hi sister

  • @murugank7618
    @murugank7618 9 днів тому +1

    Akka (deepakirankumar) UA-cam channel weight loss exercise to follow akka I can also follow this channel give some basic exercise I am Alice from Neyveli(Cuddalore district)

    • @malarvanam
      @malarvanam  8 днів тому

      Thanks for the suggestion ma🙏

  • @radhikamathew8719
    @radhikamathew8719 9 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @sheebajohnrose133
    @sheebajohnrose133 6 днів тому +1

    Ungalai romba pidichiruku...unga phone no thanga

  • @MohanO-ny6fi
    @MohanO-ny6fi 9 днів тому +1

    Hi malar sis . Na koncham odambu sariillama irunthe
    Sis appi onga chennal pathutte
    Iruppe aduthu odambu koncham sariagiruchu onga video pathu tha enna nane
    mathikkitte ennoda pasangala nalla pathukkire nalla samachu thare sis ongala pathu tha sis na ennae mathikkitte ippo tailoring kathukkittu thachuttu irukke sis ippo ennoda family ya pathukkavu ennoda husband kku enakku fight varathulla sis thank you sis ❤❤❤