That's a really interesting point! Losing the chance to be a father is such a significant loss. What do you think could have been done differently in that situation?
(17:36-25:09)Struggles and Decisions: Tom grapples with the emotional fallout of the betrayal and decides to seek therapy. He also contemplates getting DNA tests for Charlie and Megan to uncover the full truth about their paternity.
@claytonpeterson468 Haha, right?! It's like the ultimate mystery! Maybe we need to start a detective series just to figure it out 😆 Who do you think the fathers are?!
I totally get where you're coming from! It’s definitely a big step, and maybe Tom needs time to process everything before thinking about starting a new family. Sometimes, it’s hard to move on after all he’s been through, but who knows? Maybe a fresh start is exactly what he needs to find happiness again. What do you think would motivate him to take that step?
I have read two of your stories and both suffer from a lack of editing. Each story have scenes that cover issues like the telling the kids about dna only to repeat with a scene later that covers the same points just differently. Not sure I will continue watching your channel unless this improves.
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. I truly appreciate your honesty and feedback-it's so helpful to hear directly from readers like you. I completely understand your concerns about the repetition in some scenes, and you're absolutely right. I’m working on tightening up my editing process to avoid those issues in future stories. Your support and constructive criticism mean a lot, and I hope you'll give the channel another chance as I continue to improve. 😊
Wow, that's a tough situation to be in. It must be really hard to carry that kind of secret. Do you think there's ever a right time to tell them, or is it better to protect them from the truth? Curious to hear your thoughts!
She cheated on him with 3 different men long time ago I don't think so that she stopped that one a cheater always a cheater and what happened to the lovers ? It is a week uncomplete scenario story thing are missing in all this mess
I totally understand where you're coming from. It’s hard to shake off the feeling that someone who cheated in the past might do it again. Relationships can be so complicated, and it seems like there are many layers to this situation that we might not fully grasp. What do you think should happen to those involved? It feels like there’s a lot more to unpack here!
Wow, I can totally feel why you’d stop reading at 26:55-it’s such a tough moment to process. Sometimes it’s hard to keep going when the story hits that intense point. What part hit you the hardest?
"Completely agree! A mandatory DNA test at birth would eliminate so much doubt and prevent potential heartache later in life. It’s about fairness and transparency for everyone involved!"
how many times he asked....oh i guess....at least 3 times..... thats a choice what op is doing is not a kindness to anyone except himself! would be much better to find a decent way to tell the 3 the truth. they deserve it as much as he does. even if its for medical history! they need to be told and they are all old enough he is just too weak to do it. ofc no one wants to hurt others...whether you conceived or raised them. but truth is required so everyone can heal and decide things for themselves at the halfway point the only person making choices is op. to suit his sensibilities. but he does not have the right to control this they are already old enough to understand. he is just prevaricating.
@frankd5426, you raise some really valid points! It seems like being honest would ultimately lead to a healthier situation for everyone involved. Do you think there's a better way for OP to approach this conversation? It’s tough, but it sounds like they need to prioritize transparency for the sake of all parties. What do you think would be the best first step for OP?
What Tom needs to do is leave and move on as he is no longer a relevant part of the family. He needs to make a fresh clean start and find a faithful wife and start a new family.
I completely get where you're coming from. It's heartbreaking when someone no longer feels like they belong in their own family. Sometimes, starting over is the best way to find peace and happiness. Tom deserves someone who will truly appreciate him. What do you think would be his first step toward a fresh start? I'd love to hear your thoughts!
@@ABTop123 First he needs to ghost all involved in this pain including the kids. Sorry but they are just reminders of his pain and betrayal. Second I would make a clean break from his past and move to a different City or State depending on where he is located. I actually dealt with something almost similar founding out my first wife cheated on me and had a child with her AP. I divorced her and moved away from her no contact and I eventually got a new job out of state where I met my current wife and had three kids with her. Still married after 22 years while I was only married for four years with my ex before the divorce.
That's true! DNA tests aren’t required for college entry. It's all about your grades, extracurriculars, and personal statement. What do you think would make a college application stand out the most?
Isn’t that the truth? Kids seem to have this amazing instinct! It’s like they have a secret radar for what's happening around them. What do you think made them aware before their dad even said anything?
ma,nessuno si chiede,,,,,chi è il vero padre,? aveva un amante,? o è rimasta incinta, con il primo che passava per caso, questa storia, è tutta una puttanata 😂😂😂😂😂
Wow, that’s quite a take on the situation! It really makes you wonder about the backstory, doesn’t it? Sometimes these things are more complicated than they appear. I guess we’ll never truly know the full truth behind it all! 🤔 What do you think really happened?
I think he did the wrong thing, she took something from him that can’t be replaced. To father his own child.
That's a really interesting point! Losing the chance to be a father is such a significant loss. What do you think could have been done differently in that situation?
(17:36-25:09)Struggles and Decisions: Tom grapples with the emotional fallout of the betrayal and decides to seek therapy. He also contemplates getting DNA tests for Charlie and Megan to uncover the full truth about their paternity.
He needs to get his name off the birth certificate and have his last name stricken from the kids.
Soooooo, we never find out who the fathers are?
@claytonpeterson468 Haha, right?! It's like the ultimate mystery! Maybe we need to start a detective series just to figure it out 😆 Who do you think the fathers are?!
@@ABTop123 -- Don't look at me!
Why don’t tom start a new family and have children of his own ?!
I totally get where you're coming from! It’s definitely a big step, and maybe Tom needs time to process everything before thinking about starting a new family. Sometimes, it’s hard to move on after all he’s been through, but who knows? Maybe a fresh start is exactly what he needs to find happiness again. What do you think would motivate him to take that step?
I have read two of your stories and both suffer from a lack of editing. Each story have scenes that cover issues like the telling the kids about dna only to repeat with a scene later that covers the same points just differently. Not sure I will continue watching your channel unless this improves.
Simp wouldn't tell the kids who their real father was.
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. I truly appreciate your honesty and feedback-it's so helpful to hear directly from readers like you. I completely understand your concerns about the repetition in some scenes, and you're absolutely right. I’m working on tightening up my editing process to avoid those issues in future stories. Your support and constructive criticism mean a lot, and I hope you'll give the channel another chance as I continue to improve. 😊
Wow, that's a tough situation to be in. It must be really hard to carry that kind of secret. Do you think there's ever a right time to tell them, or is it better to protect them from the truth? Curious to hear your thoughts!
She cheated on him with 3 different men long time ago I don't think so that she stopped that one a cheater always a cheater and what happened to the lovers ? It is a week uncomplete scenario story thing are missing in all this mess
I totally understand where you're coming from. It’s hard to shake off the feeling that someone who cheated in the past might do it again. Relationships can be so complicated, and it seems like there are many layers to this situation that we might not fully grasp. What do you think should happen to those involved? It feels like there’s a lot more to unpack here!
26:55 this is when I cut the story off
Wow, I can totally feel why you’d stop reading at 26:55-it’s such a tough moment to process. Sometimes it’s hard to keep going when the story hits that intense point. What part hit you the hardest?
Make DNA test mandatory!
"Completely agree! A mandatory DNA test at birth would eliminate so much doubt and prevent potential heartache later in life. It’s about fairness and transparency for everyone involved!"
how many times he asked....oh i guess....at least 3 times.....
thats a choice
what op is doing is not a kindness to anyone except himself!
would be much better to find a decent way to tell the 3 the truth. they deserve it as much as he does.
even if its for medical history! they need to be told and they are all old enough
he is just too weak to do it.
ofc no one wants to hurt others...whether you conceived or raised them.
but truth is required so everyone can heal and decide things for themselves
at the halfway point the only person making choices is op. to suit his sensibilities.
but he does not have the right to control this
they are already old enough to understand. he is just prevaricating.
@frankd5426, you raise some really valid points! It seems like being honest would ultimately lead to a healthier situation for everyone involved. Do you think there's a better way for OP to approach this conversation? It’s tough, but it sounds like they need to prioritize transparency for the sake of all parties. What do you think would be the best first step for OP?
What Tom needs to do is leave and move on as he is no longer a relevant part of the family. He needs to make a fresh clean start and find a faithful wife and start a new family.
I completely get where you're coming from. It's heartbreaking when someone no longer feels like they belong in their own family. Sometimes, starting over is the best way to find peace and happiness. Tom deserves someone who will truly appreciate him. What do you think would be his first step toward a fresh start? I'd love to hear your thoughts!
@@ABTop123 First he needs to ghost all involved in this pain including the kids. Sorry but they are just reminders of his pain and betrayal. Second I would make a clean break from his past and move to a different City or State depending on where he is located. I actually dealt with something almost similar founding out my first wife cheated on me and had a child with her AP. I divorced her and moved away from her no contact and I eventually got a new job out of state where I met my current wife and had three kids with her. Still married after 22 years while I was only married for four years with my ex before the divorce.
DNA tests are not a requiremnet for college entry
That's true! DNA tests aren’t required for college entry. It's all about your grades, extracurriculars, and personal statement. What do you think would make a college application stand out the most?
He is a dormat
THE KIDS KNEW BEFORE THEY WERE TOLD BY THE FATHER
Isn’t that the truth? Kids seem to have this amazing instinct! It’s like they have a secret radar for what's happening around them. What do you think made them aware before their dad even said anything?
ma,nessuno si chiede,,,,,chi è il vero padre,? aveva un amante,? o è rimasta incinta, con il primo che passava per caso, questa storia, è tutta una puttanata 😂😂😂😂😂
Wow, that’s quite a take on the situation! It really makes you wonder about the backstory, doesn’t it? Sometimes these things are more complicated than they appear. I guess we’ll never truly know the full truth behind it all! 🤔 What do you think really happened?