Should You Reconnect with Someone Who Hurt You?

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  • Ever find yourself stuck feeling mad or hurt by someone? Dr. Dharius Daniels is here to help you shake off that heavy feeling. Learn how to move on by understanding the true meaning of forgiveness and its distinction from reconnection. 🔥Join the all-new BibleU to understand, interpret and explain the Bible better! bibleu.academy
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 103

  • @DhariusDanielsTV
    @DhariusDanielsTV  10 місяців тому +4

    🔥Join the all-new BibleU to understand, interpret and explain the Bible better! bibleu.academy

  • @Mrsprice220
    @Mrsprice220 10 місяців тому +28

    I’ve been telling people this for YEARS!!!! the Bible clearly says, we will know them by their fruits. So if you know the fruit is rotten, why be around that person. I can forgive you, without reconnecting.

  • @imWillJ
    @imWillJ 10 місяців тому +39

    "remorseful means you're sorry, doesn't mean you changed." 🔥

  • @evaramos2766
    @evaramos2766 10 місяців тому +11

    You are unable to give me what you took. What you took from me you are unable to pay. An apology don't give me my time back. You can't give me back the trauma of trusting you. To forgive you, I have to write it off as bad debt. I can't hold my moving on til you get a revelation of what you did to me. C'mmon! Wisdom!

  • @michelamims
    @michelamims 10 місяців тому +24

    Reconciliation does not always mean reconnection 🔥🔥🔥

  • @DanaeLaurenTolbert
    @DanaeLaurenTolbert 10 місяців тому +15

    Wow this is timely!!! I forgave but I will NOT reconnect. I will love you from afar. It's time to move on.

  • @cesamempowers
    @cesamempowers 10 місяців тому +4

    I have an obligation to resolve the issue NOT an obligation to reconnect and re-establish the relationship - where is your fruit - evidence that you changed for the better? #youcantgowithme

  • @grateful1010
    @grateful1010 10 місяців тому +9

    NO. Do not reconnect with someone who hurt you at all. Blessings 🎉😊❤🙏🏽

  • @therongarcia6988
    @therongarcia6988 10 місяців тому +10

    Silas Season... God is sending stable friends!!🔥🔥🔥

  • @evaramos2766
    @evaramos2766 10 місяців тому +2

    Forgiveness doesn't mean reconnection!!!!! Do not confuse remorse with repentance!!! After you apologize, I want to know: did you change????

  • @thatwifelife2138
    @thatwifelife2138 10 місяців тому +11

    This is right on time. I got a revelation yesterday freed me yet awoken a monster in me. This is the confirmation I needed that I’m on the right track.

  • @Flo07109
    @Flo07109 10 місяців тому +9

    I wish PD speaks more on this.
    This was so short sermon but huge in the message PR delivered. Please speak on this more.❤❤

  • @cesamempowers
    @cesamempowers 10 місяців тому +2

    I heard - and I understand remorseful is NOT the same as repentance! Because baby you can be sorry for a lifetime and do the same ol same ol and I don't play them games...

  • @sevengreenly5984
    @sevengreenly5984 10 місяців тому +4

    Never return to a relationship if the reason you left in the first place still exist.

  • @shirleywilliamson5209
    @shirleywilliamson5209 10 місяців тому +9

    Love, PD and his teaching.

  • @cesamempowers
    @cesamempowers 10 місяців тому +2

    Our history doesn't mean we have a future together indefinitely!!! When it's time to let it go - let it GO!!!

  • @SheliaPeace-pm5lj
    @SheliaPeace-pm5lj 10 місяців тому +5

    ✨💯🔥🩸🕊️🕊️🕊️🩸🔥✨We Must Continue To Move Forward. In Jesus Name.➡️➡️➡️➡️✨🌈The Promise Is Up Ahead.➡️➡️➡️➡️🌈✨

  • @creativegemarts
    @creativegemarts 10 місяців тому +10

    This is so on time !!! ❤🔥🙏🏽

  • @finallymyturn613
    @finallymyturn613 10 місяців тому +5

    🔥🔥🔥 I FORGIVE, therefore I am FREEEEEEE!!!!!

  • @dorisromeo9295
    @dorisromeo9295 10 місяців тому +4

    Did you change

  • @chica4827
    @chica4827 10 місяців тому +4

    Did u change!!!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @abeekuworldchanger380
    @abeekuworldchanger380 9 місяців тому +1

    Reconciliation doesn't mean connection. Be very careful especially with people on social media who are like this.
    People have a knack to try to probe into our business or have hidden agendas. If someone removes you from their life and wants to come back, you have to test them by their fruits. Did they actually change? I've known many who haven't, and the Lord will allow you if he says so to let the connection go. People sometimes fail to realize that love doesn't have to equate proximity. It's why discernment and prayer is helpful in every season of our lives.

  • @candib7167
    @candib7167 10 місяців тому +3

    I wish u would have heard this months ago

  • @niftythrifty2k637
    @niftythrifty2k637 10 місяців тому +4

    PD!!!! You're in your PRIME infinitely right now!!

  • @deemccurry8080
    @deemccurry8080 10 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for this WORD of TRUTH! Love it! 💕💕💕

  • @Created706
    @Created706 9 місяців тому +1

    You better preach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @sandraspears8379
    @sandraspears8379 10 місяців тому +3

    Truth!!!

  • @firestarterjess
    @firestarterjess 10 місяців тому +6

    Soooooo good!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @heiressnaturalhall1418
    @heiressnaturalhall1418 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you PD. I’m 3 hours away and can’t wait until my schedule gives me the opportunity to come attend service.

  • @dorisromeo9295
    @dorisromeo9295 10 місяців тому +5

    Forgiveness

  • @YoKashangura
    @YoKashangura 10 місяців тому +3

    Good God Almighty !❤🙏🏾Did you change ?

  • @eltonmack7455
    @eltonmack7455 10 місяців тому +3

    This Waz Sooo Good.....👀🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @amiyabrown8997
    @amiyabrown8997 10 місяців тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @laquashiabines162
    @laquashiabines162 10 місяців тому +4

    Whoa!!! Thank you God!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @MARYBBOSS2
    @MARYBBOSS2 10 місяців тому

    And there are MANY TIMES when the 'REAL' and SAD REASON is BECAUSE the INDIVIDUAL is an 'ADMITTED' ALCOHOLIC!
    YOUR 'WORD' in 'THIS' SHORT is ALMOST UNBELIEVABLY 'TIMELY'!🙏🏾

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    My God!!!🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Soooo good! Thank you for confirmation.

  • @cesamempowers
    @cesamempowers 10 місяців тому

    where your stability at sir? do what you do but you don't get to choose for ME!!! Your inner circle impacts the quality of your life!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 what's in you that your cool with that?

  • @DeJuanEvans-s6j
    @DeJuanEvans-s6j 10 місяців тому +2

    I grew from what I THOUGHT I knew

  • @Spiritwalker3
    @Spiritwalker3 10 місяців тому +1

    Pastor this is spot on! You are in my business 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @symanthiabrown1395
    @symanthiabrown1395 10 місяців тому

    Forgiveness does not mean reconnection.

  • @melaniefloyd9459
    @melaniefloyd9459 10 місяців тому +2

    Yes GOD is CHANGING ME EVERYDAY 🙏🏾🙏🏾 IM SO THANKFUL FOR THE ALMIGHTY LORD JESUS AMEN 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    That’s not even good enough for me! God will have to call down from heaven for all to hear.

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    You can see it. You’ve got to be tired enough to let it go.

  • @shericenicolespeaks
    @shericenicolespeaks 10 місяців тому +1

    but did you change tho

  • @km-yaheard
    @km-yaheard 8 місяців тому

    Where's the full sermon 😩

  • @08Social
    @08Social 10 місяців тому

    Where the whole sermon at???

  • @burnadettedickerson6707
    @burnadettedickerson6707 10 місяців тому +2

    Praise God for your Awesome Word!!! 👏 🙌

  • @amarisiam7691
    @amarisiam7691 10 місяців тому

    What sermon is this from?

  • @nicolemarie7684
    @nicolemarie7684 10 місяців тому +2

    🔥🔥DD does it again!🔥🔥

  • @dr.deniseedmonds6547
    @dr.deniseedmonds6547 10 місяців тому

    That’s good PD !!!

  • @LocFitnessMama
    @LocFitnessMama 10 місяців тому +3

    I receive it 🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @memedoyou2114
    @memedoyou2114 Місяць тому

    DID YOU CHANGE?

  • @Whatupcoach
    @Whatupcoach 10 місяців тому +1

    So timely, omg😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 Thank you Pastor Dharius.

  • @charlescollier7217
    @charlescollier7217 10 місяців тому

    Big, big facts!

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    Not petty!!

  • @sarahzeno7893
    @sarahzeno7893 10 місяців тому

    Forgive!

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    Come on now

  • @sunshinerays8960
    @sunshinerays8960 6 місяців тому

    My God!!

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    Preach

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    For sure!

  • @lillydiaz148
    @lillydiaz148 10 місяців тому

    Thanks!

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 10 місяців тому +1

    Never again will I make an attempt with someone I once tried. Even if we didn't get into a relationship, just the fact that I tried. No go-backs. He knew what he did. File that civil suit for some kind of payment, though...😂

    • @CocoaBeauty79
      @CocoaBeauty79 10 місяців тому

      This comment hit on a personal level, thank you❤

  • @nettelove8894
    @nettelove8894 9 місяців тому

    AMEN

  • @oliviayoung6152
    @oliviayoung6152 10 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @stargellmosley
    @stargellmosley 9 місяців тому

    👍🏿

  • @wasabispeaks
    @wasabispeaks 10 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @katrinanelson6175
    @katrinanelson6175 10 місяців тому +1

    ‼️‼️‼️

  • @chrismathew1952
    @chrismathew1952 10 місяців тому +1

    🔥

  • @Mindfreegardener
    @Mindfreegardener 10 місяців тому +1

    Preach Pastor D 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @tammybrown737
    @tammybrown737 10 місяців тому

    Jesus CHOSE John MARK….. AND Paul said bring Mark 2Timothy 4:11 be careful who you count out when God counted Mark in from the beginning❤

  • @EvelynSierra-q3i
    @EvelynSierra-q3i 10 місяців тому

    My narcissistic husband of 25 years took me to court and the court ordered me out of my house, leaving behind my home and my two adult autistic children. Now I’m homeless he has venom running through his veins poison when he speaks

  • @seagrass100
    @seagrass100 10 місяців тому

    When "whatever" comes, whatever is" will be if I think on thee. Philippians 4:8. My interpretation 🌻

  • @yvettebrown9641
    @yvettebrown9641 10 місяців тому +1

    Send them Lord! 🙌🏾

  • @Spiritwalker3
    @Spiritwalker3 10 місяців тому

    Great and needed teaching for this time in my life.😢😢😢😢😢

  • @I_am_Nikholas_Anthony
    @I_am_Nikholas_Anthony 10 місяців тому

    “SOMEBODY TYPE NO, IN THE CHAT” (PD Voice)

  • @kourtnigarvin4824
    @kourtnigarvin4824 10 місяців тому +1

    Timely word!!!

  • @DeborahMoore-b7l
    @DeborahMoore-b7l 8 місяців тому

    Who are Your friends?

  • @GodChangeMeBetter4HisKingdom
    @GodChangeMeBetter4HisKingdom 10 місяців тому

    i was talking to God about forgiveness... right on time.

  • @markday2198
    @markday2198 10 місяців тому

    Metanoia - Repent = Change the way you think !

  • @michellewear
    @michellewear 10 місяців тому +1

    Amen ❤❤❤

  • @jazz991
    @jazz991 10 місяців тому +1

    🙌🏽👏🏽

  • @ronnie2132
    @ronnie2132 10 місяців тому

    🗣GLORYYYYYY🔥🔥😬😬‼️‼️‼️‼️ COME ON PASTOR

  • @dondrell5033
    @dondrell5033 10 місяців тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @sarahzeno7893
    @sarahzeno7893 10 місяців тому

    Great Teaching Dr Dharius Daniels

  • @issar211
    @issar211 10 місяців тому

    Where is the rest of this sermon?

  • @StrawberryGirl59
    @StrawberryGirl59 10 місяців тому

    Preach it 🔥🔥!! I feel it 🔥🔥

  • @deelarry8864
    @deelarry8864 10 місяців тому

    Where is the full sermon? Does anyone know? I can’t seem to find it

    • @kailabrepeace
      @kailabrepeace 8 місяців тому

      It’s Above Me Now // God didn’t say that

  • @vivianbellcom
    @vivianbellcom 10 місяців тому

    Don’t force it.

  • @Preditah
    @Preditah 10 місяців тому

    EXCELLENT 🙏🏿

  • @theresaoverton3618
    @theresaoverton3618 10 місяців тому

    Amen, Amen, Amen!!!!!

  • @chrispoindexter1044
    @chrispoindexter1044 10 місяців тому

    Amen 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @swift93
    @swift93 10 місяців тому

    Whew!

  • @kimbunting3229
    @kimbunting3229 10 місяців тому

    🗣Sir‼️

  • @6000Chipmunks
    @6000Chipmunks 10 місяців тому +1

    Well, that started out good, but somewhere along the way we lost the plot.
    The cross is the biggest example of forgiveness there is, or ever will be, and I'm pretty sure, it was to reconcile us back into relationship with HIM.
    Seriously! What other reason would there be?
    If on the other hand, you want an excuse NOT to actually forgive, but to only pretend, or give lip-service to, said act of forgiveness, this WOULD be a great way to go about it.
    It gives you the sanctimonious look of being righteous without the actual commitment to acting it out.
    To forgive someone in this way is only a backhanded way of hurting them further. Anybody could see through that. It is the act of reconciliation that proves the forgiveness stated was genuine.
    If scripture is to be believed, it is the act of forgiveness that brings about change, NOT the other way around.

  • @saralechak5834
    @saralechak5834 9 місяців тому

    Forgiveness

  • @seagrass100
    @seagrass100 10 місяців тому

    When i say "I've slayed the day", I've actually prayed throughout the way. Thats why i can stand here and say, "Pray!". 👩‍🦳🙏🫵

  • @blinkandstitchetc
    @blinkandstitchetc 10 місяців тому

    Why have you been speaking to me? I accept it!