how i deal with haters (+ reading MEAN comments!) | Glowing Up Ep 25

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  • @AnnetteLeeMusic
    @AnnetteLeeMusic  9 місяців тому +14

    GUYS so i didnt expect all the love in the comments but i just wna say i appreciate all your kind words!😂🫶 and don’t worry, i actually don’t have a lot of hate - the team had to scour the internet over the past few years to find material for this vid + most of them aren’t even on my own platforms haha. i know many of you are super supportive of what i do and it’s more than encouraging thank you ;)

  • @tuckwengtor9421
    @tuckwengtor9421 9 місяців тому +28

    Annette, don’t feel sad or disheartened. For every one hater out there, you have easily 20 to 30 others that appreciate your creativity and funny bones!!
    Keep your engine running as the every 20 or 30 of us out here are longing to appreciate your work!🥰

    • @corellianjedi2483
      @corellianjedi2483 9 місяців тому +1

      It's not that, she lived within 1km of of her school and about her sad family experiences. I hv a friend who's a Peranakan, his grandpa used to live in Emerald Hill but till his father he was born in 3 Room in Yishun and not that Yishun. I have another friend, White Eurasian, grandpa lived in Katong but now lived in Teck Whye. You gotta ask her what happened. Those that see are model examples. The Social Studies textbook is damn in accurate bro. Ask her if she talks bro.

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  9 місяців тому +7

      @tuckwengtor9421 haha thank you that is very kind of you !! but don't worry i'm not disheartened! + i know that there are many supportive people like you out there and i rly appreciate it🫶🏻

    • @corellianjedi2483
      @corellianjedi2483 9 місяців тому

      @@AnnetteLeeMusic Nobody said anything about Le Bernardin selling fake Kobe beef dishes, huh!!! Think about it.

  • @gracechan5845
    @gracechan5845 5 місяців тому +3

    Annette is lovely in looks and personality. Commenters who finds fault with Annette have a lot of work to do on themselves.

  • @kenrobinson1188
    @kenrobinson1188 3 місяці тому

    It shows your true comedic gift that you can read/laugh at hater comments.

  • @benquek9173
    @benquek9173 9 місяців тому +3

    Wooo thanks Annette for this! This is so good. You are really so grounded & down to earth. When I met you in person you were so easy to talk to & so kind. definitely not snobbish at all.

  • @forgarh
    @forgarh 9 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for doing this Annette! It's really motivational, and i really think that there would be haters no matter what

  • @alexischeong4730
    @alexischeong4730 9 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for sharing your experiences - the bad and ugly comments. I've learnt from you. Sad to say that even in some families, there are haters. Just stick close to the lovers 💓 and I like you!

  • @madlabyrinth
    @madlabyrinth 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Annette! I personally think you look refreshingly pretty and have a great personality. Love your contents btw! 🎉

  • @Loki274.5
    @Loki274.5 9 місяців тому +5

    I envy the amount of time your haters have to spew pointless things.
    Cos if i had that amount of time, i would rewatch all your skits esp with Sgag to relive the laughter.
    You. Are. Amazing!!

  • @mrrafraf12
    @mrrafraf12 9 місяців тому +1

    We can never please everyone in this life! Just do what you are good at and like. Life is too short to please everyone. There will always be haters.

  • @caiaaron3139
    @caiaaron3139 9 місяців тому +1

    Good job on dealing with the hate comments. It is very brave of you to put yourself out there.

  • @nelsontyc
    @nelsontyc 9 місяців тому +1

    Having met Annette in real life before, she really gave me the impression that she's a down to earth and nice person! Totally not like what the haters said at all...

  • @R0B__
    @R0B__ 7 місяців тому

    I really like your videos with Zermat. I don't have any negative comments for you. You seem very genuine. Thank you for your vlogs 😊

  • @kmwongeworldusa
    @kmwongeworldusa 9 місяців тому +1

    your English is much and much more better than majority Singaporean.Altough i am not from English school,i can feel you are talented.give my support to you

  • @AgreenTortoise
    @AgreenTortoise 9 місяців тому

    This video was so timely. Been struggling to move on from haters in life. I think you've shared such an important message and it is truly inspiring. I always love seeing you pop-up on my instagram feed, your videos are hilarious and you are so creative! Thank you for being you, Annette!
    p.s. i don't think your eyes are small

  • @BensonSiong
    @BensonSiong 9 місяців тому

    Love your content and personality Annette!! Love your Aunty Susan and Zermatt videos

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 9 місяців тому

    Hello Annette, I enjoy watching your videos, there are haters on social media, I am doing content during my free time, don’t feel discouraged. 💜

  • @danthezen
    @danthezen 9 місяців тому +1

    we love you annette!

  • @trevorthai1685
    @trevorthai1685 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing your experiences Annette!! There will always be haters out there and people who tear down others to feel good, but keep glowing and staying on your path ✨
    You’re such a natural and talented individual and growing each day 🌱 and love your content!! Btw my mum watched you speak and inspire youths at Nan Hua High School recently and that’s so great too

  • @nigelchung86
    @nigelchung86 9 місяців тому +1

    Be yourself . Annette . 😊keep going .

  • @JanetReesinck
    @JanetReesinck 2 місяці тому

    Hi Annette. I'm really sad to hear all these negative comments about you and I disagree with them. I think you are being YOU - funny and genuine. Well, if those people hate you that much, they are are really spending a great deal of time watching you. Perhaps they are jealous because you are too successful! Let them be!

  • @jamesjuze
    @jamesjuze 9 місяців тому +1

    thanks for sharing this annette. somehow people are just nasty when they dont need to show their face

  • @AW-js2tc
    @AW-js2tc 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. Very well said indeed. Finally you look natural and sweet 💐.

  • @Laura-fj7dk
    @Laura-fj7dk 9 місяців тому +1

    ❤ ur shirt! May I know where u get it?

  • @matreen427
    @matreen427 8 місяців тому

    the silver spoon part… cos you sometimes film in your parents’ place (bungalow with a swimming pool)

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  8 місяців тому

      that is not at all my parents' place but appreciate you commenting here so i can clarify that! :)

  • @spencerchapmanbarra7888
    @spencerchapmanbarra7888 9 місяців тому

    As a famous person called Taylor Swift once sang in a song called Ours "people throw rocks at things that shine". You are a gem! Chin up girl....

  • @twinpok1
    @twinpok1 9 місяців тому

    Loves your videos Annette :) pls come up with videos on how to deal with workplace bullying and workplace politics :) thanks :) like how to stand up against workplace bullies etc :) it's like 1 against 5 mean girls cliques

  • @JP-ee7qq
    @JP-ee7qq 9 місяців тому

    I think that you are such a talented young lady with a lot of potential. Love your simplicity and humour. Yeah❤

  • @joshnlil
    @joshnlil 9 місяців тому +6

    Do not be affected by these nonsensical comments.

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  9 місяців тому +2

      haha dont worry im not! some of these were actually quite funny. esp the ones that confused me🤣

  • @moonhmy5517
    @moonhmy5517 8 місяців тому

    I just want to tell you
    1st, There's nothing wrong with your eyes.
    2nd, your videos are very relatable and funny.
    3rd, everyone has haters. I have lots. Public figures see their haters more because they are in eyes of the public.

  • @ellan0r
    @ellan0r 9 місяців тому

    Thanks Annette - great message! ❤

  • @wengkiong
    @wengkiong 9 місяців тому

    Haters are most probably losers in life. They treat celebrities as public toilets to dump their frustrations with life and themselves, in order to feel better. Best to ignore and move on.

  • @weaponsteam6464
    @weaponsteam6464 9 місяців тому

    the world would be a better place if there are more parents who teach their kids how to be nice to others (or at least be a decent human being) than parents who need to teach their kids how to stand up for themselves
    also Annette is bae

  • @alui5362
    @alui5362 9 місяців тому

    ur all right, annette

  • @spencerchapmanbarra7888
    @spencerchapmanbarra7888 9 місяців тому

    Its called tall poppy syndrome. People love to intentionally knock others pure jealousy! Keep it up girl your Singlish is awesome!

  • @deboraharief8606
    @deboraharief8606 9 місяців тому

    awesome Annette!!! ^^

  • @lolfashionistalove5478
    @lolfashionistalove5478 9 місяців тому

    I think u r incredibly talented ! U definitely managed to Chope 我的❤

  • @JKNana
    @JKNana 9 місяців тому

    Those hate comments does not make any sense at all! Just be u! 😍

  • @KingfisherSG
    @KingfisherSG 9 місяців тому

    Why would anyone hate Annette? You should focus your energy on positive comments. I’m sure that there are many.

  • @kevintan8503
    @kevintan8503 9 місяців тому

    I think you look cute and yes you have the Sharon au vibes! Enjoy your videos!

  • @dmang0
    @dmang0 9 місяців тому +3

    You're amazing

  • @mamemo359
    @mamemo359 5 місяців тому

    So glad I'm not a famous person. I don't even smile at my colleagues unless we are very close. I don't know how celebrities do it, esp celebrities like Felicia Chin. I've seen her a couple of times in town during her peak popularity. She will smile and wave at ppl who smile at her de and she was all alone too. It takes a lot of confidence to do that, not knowing if the person on the street is your fan, your hater or a person who doesn't even know u and is smiling to someone behind u. 😂

  • @faith7479
    @faith7479 9 місяців тому +2

    Keep doing what you do! My family ❤ you. Thanks for bringing us all the fun content.

  • @jq5999
    @jq5999 9 місяців тому +5

    haha inb4 edmwers......
    annette zehzeh mai huanlo those BBFA edmwers hokays? chiu are the best! 123 321 annette annette lumber huan!!! :o

  • @BenjaminKhengMusic
    @BenjaminKhengMusic 9 місяців тому +1

    UGH I bet she doesn’t know the names of cai fan dishes 😩😩😩🙄🙄🙄

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  9 місяців тому

      yah benjamin kheng also i bet both of them BKY when ordering 😫😫

  • @ZoeChua555
    @ZoeChua555 5 місяців тому

    Dont think about those haters they dont know u just jia you and be urself and ye :D NCC

  • @fusioncrews5329
    @fusioncrews5329 7 місяців тому

    lol, its completely normal for people craving attention to make fake stories about famous people. that's their way of coping with their own lives.

  • @debsmethermark8884
    @debsmethermark8884 9 місяців тому +1

    Just had a bad day at work and cried about how I seem to always meet bullies in my life (from pri sch, sec sch etc.). Now, its my boss. and just feels like she always pick on me and it really suck. Wept my tears away, got up to pump (yeap im a mum with a 9mo), and watched your video. How timely. Any advice on standing up to boss bullies? haha. Thanks for the content that brought a smile to my face :')

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  9 місяців тому

      aw im so sorry to hear that !! :(( one thing i found useful was to go into meetings expecting the worst-case things to be said to you so that it doesnt come as a shock🤣 + also go in prepared with notes so you can stay on track in conversations and not get emotional. but if it gets too abusive you should leave! i actually did an earlier episode with The Woke Salaryman discussing workplace politics and similar things i hope it'll be useful i'll link it here! ua-cam.com/video/0x3vzBlv4s8/v-deo.html
      praying that things work out for you, sending you tons of hugs 💕💕💕

  • @ThaoNguyen-hk3zl
    @ThaoNguyen-hk3zl 9 місяців тому

    Is it just me or Singlish sounds very nice

  • @mamalingmong
    @mamalingmong 9 місяців тому

    Please teach us some ways!

  • @LVPictures
    @LVPictures 9 місяців тому

    does this mean that if i camp at imm i will be able to stand 2m away from u and smile at u?

  • @xuanonoonononoonoonn
    @xuanonoonononoonoonn 9 місяців тому

    NO BUT I LOVED ASIAN BILLIONARES😭❤

  • @jasonkoh-zn1so
    @jasonkoh-zn1so 9 місяців тому +1

    I actually find you attractive and very talented. Your acting skills are better than those on MediaCorp.
    However, some of the characters you do are too similar to what Michelle Chong did previously. Should also avoid doing male characters - because they're not male/manly enough.

  • @kmwongeworldusa
    @kmwongeworldusa 9 місяців тому

    i think you can become news presenter ,like Angela lim.your pronou cation is clear and good.

  • @pohhonglim6718
    @pohhonglim6718 9 місяців тому

    Annette,to us you are 👍keep it up🍺cheers

  • @ylein6508
    @ylein6508 9 місяців тому

    Huh got haters meh, I love Annette leh. I like having her on zermatt show too.
    Btw, I find her small eyes charming leh.

  • @perryton
    @perryton 9 місяців тому

    Haters gonna hate…. They were just jealous of you.

  • @tareginda
    @tareginda 9 місяців тому

    I find it funny you are living rent free in haters brain and they even find the time and energy to spew hate online. The insult about small eyes... We are Asians, what do they expect? (give you honey ginseng tea for too much fire)

  • @jordonwee-xc7ij
    @jordonwee-xc7ij 6 місяців тому

    Annette

  • @颜-x5j
    @颜-x5j 9 місяців тому

    Why is the comments mostly in 2022? I guess that means lesser now haha.
    Either ways, haters also mean they watching you. That's good :)
    Saw you once at town but kept polite distant to not distrupt you ahah

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  9 місяців тому +1

      haha yes i'm very thankful that overall i don't have many! and aw come say hi next time! :)

  • @socioecohistorywordpress5268
    @socioecohistorywordpress5268 9 місяців тому

    👍👍💚💚🧡🧡💛💛💙💙👍👍

  • @cellsiology
    @cellsiology 9 місяців тому

    I saw some of these haters at even lorongs of Geylang, dunno what they are up to there? Do you think the haters bother about this possible made up happening about them? AOTD *think abt it*

  • @cchan4739
    @cchan4739 7 місяців тому

    was initially with u but your holier than thou attitude really did come through in this video. sorry, no longer a fan now.

    • @madmoviekid
      @madmoviekid 7 місяців тому

      If there is ever a Part 2 … don’t be surprised if you see this comment pop up -_-

  • @kichaa13
    @kichaa13 9 місяців тому

    Edmw incels

  • @pinkette
    @pinkette 9 місяців тому +2

    What if the person who accused you of having a silver spoon didnt realise your web series was....not real life 😶

  • @dlmhdlmh
    @dlmhdlmh 9 місяців тому

    I helpchu scold my hater friend FyV @viwen