When I was a six-year-old a long time ago, listening to this with my dad, I had no idea what this truly meant. He tried to explain it to me, and I understood that the girl had died and the man was grieving her, but I didn’t understand how someone could die of a broken heart, or how hitting the edge of her window had anything to do with the song. When I was young, and small, and naïve, my dad made me promise to never kill myself. I was flabbergasted. Why would anyone want to do that? I couldn’t wrap my little six-year-old head around why he was making me promise this. There was no way I’d ever do such a thing, right? Well, I obeyed his promise, for years and years, and then one day when he’d had too much to drink, he started talking about howmy mom and I could do better without him and that he should just die. My heart broke, and I frantically reminded him of the promise he made me keep and that he had to do it, too. He just looked at me with broken eyes before whispering, “ok.” I don’t know if he was actually going to do that or not, but I am so glad he made me promise that. Because of him making me promise to keep living, I was able to do that same for him.
@@forsakenprotector486 Hey dude, you may be a great textual analyst, but maybe work on your people skills a little. You may need them some day, even for yourself. You can see that what this person went through was not only deeply traumatic, it reflects the more abstract meaning of the song. Aside from that, the interpretation of lyrics or poetry can validly be a personal thing.
Oh god.... I was in a week long coma around the time of this song... from trying to.... and it put me in a 6 day 7 night coma. I turned 20 in the psych ward that summer.... My older brother cool calm collected got almost irate hugging me when released... you... YOU, LITTLE GIRL (he practically raised me) ARE NEVER EVER TO DO THAT TO ME AGAIN!!!!! He stayed the whole week reading to me. It was his voice I first recall climbing so heavy but climbing to his voice. I pinky swore with him and made him do it back that I never would. That promise... the month I turned 20 saved me again.... I am 43 and though we both have had health issues and just lost our mum and of course the Queens death is painful but.... my brother saved me by making that pact with me. But promising..... never to leave each other on purpose.. Lady Dinah Lumley Donovon-Eckman
It’s weird how many times I’ve heard this song throughout the 24 years it’s been out but a random movie trailer with Pete Davidson made me fall in love with it.
I've always loved it, but I will say I loved how in that trailer when they're singing the song they're just mumbling to the beat, because no matter how much you love this song that's how you do at a party when you're drunk, lol.
Always, always when I listened to this song memories of my brother who passed away in the 90's came to my mind. I didn't know English that time. Now, I can understand the song. It is incredible how just the music can touch the heart. Music is timeless, breaking barriers of countries and languages, just emotions and feelings at the end.
Definitely, I spoke English and I never got the true meaning of the song until I watched it with the lyrics. I recently lost my ex boyfriend to cancer so now when I hear it, it has a totally different meaning. Sadness 💔
One of the greatest songs ever written. And I’m a die hard Beatles fan. So mature. Jacob’s voice is true and real. I’m 47 now. Do it again Wallflowers!
@@marthah2170 It's about sui cide. He's saying don't give up, things will get better as time passes. For now, or when you have problems that seem unsurmountable, hang in there. Like driving with only one headlight. It's still possible to continue your journey in the darkness (of the moment) with only one headlight but the sun will come up soon. This song hits home for me and always makes me cry.
My sister made my Mom’s funeral invitation card and the lyrics in the back was from this song, I’ve waited 3 years to actually listen to the song… I’m crying… tears of memories often drop like raindrops during monsoon
@@paulineerwin7685 my mom passed, this year will be 4 years and I’ve come a long way. Wasn’t easy, I’ve broke so many times but to see where I am today, smiling & content with what I got. I’m appreciate of it all, daily miracles only solidify the thought that she’s watching over me & my relatives. I’ve never been happier ❤️
Had a few drinks and tokes and was reading the lyrics to this song while playing it in my head. Been a while since I've been brought to tears by a song but for some reason it really hit the spot that night. Takes a lot to reach a hardened cynic but this is a song of deep courage beneath the bittersweet tone. Good shit.
I just lost my fiancée and best friend, he was in an accident on his motorcycle. We were best friends from 13 years old. He was only 20. I’m completely broken but I just discovered this song and I can’t explain how much I resonate with it and the lyrics. Nothing is forever, except for love. Ride high baby
My eldest brother showed me this song as a young kid. Took me years to find it again based off the few lyrics I could remember from my childhood. Though the meaning has changed from my childhood to my adult life, this tune is still just as powerful and moving.
@ngutierrez840 girl friend was way low and drove a car off a bridge and broke his heart. .. at least was how I interpreted it, now I can't listen to more than half of it wiithout choking up :( beautiful isn't it?
This is one of my favorite song. The mid tempo makes the song even more sad. it feels like ‘life goes on’ no matter what goes in my mind. Even after my only friend’s funeral.
What a great track. I remember the first girl I ever went out with had this single and let me borrow it. She let me borrow the cassette. Ahhhh 90’s music will forever have an indelible imprint on my soul.
No doubt. The second this started playing it immediately brought me back....way back to a simpler and sure time....when i knew what was gonna happen tomorrow, or at least the illusion of it. Now days, all i can think about is how everything is so uncertain and i have no idea what tomorrow will bring. Over time, one realizes the phrase "ignorance is bliss" rings true more times than not.
When my daughter got married, and we danced at her wedding, this is the song she chose. Yes, you can dance to Jakob Dylan! This was our "code word" for years. I cried. I cried like a baby.
This was another song at my cousins funeral. She was 20 I think. This is a beautiful song but it makes me appreciate the earth and my place in it. I love my cuz and I never knew her very well and she never really noticed I was there. God has so much in store for me. I'm not making the same mistakes that she did.😌. I love you mal mal! 😩
+Lariah Swiftie Andrade Losing someone, even someone you weren't close with can be hard- but it's beneficial. Makes you consider your time spent on this earth, the things you do, the people you love. Nobody is perfect, and everything can be a lesson in the grand scheme of things. You're right to use someone elses experience to better yourself, your cousin would be happy you did- I guarantee it. Whether they knew you well or not. Legacy is a lesson.
Strigent Odin I know heaven is a better place especially in the place she was at but I love this world. And I know she is. I cry every once in a while.
I used to listen to this song when i was a kid, not realizing the meaning behind it until this morning. I played it in the car because i had a headlight out and was alone so was really tuned into the lyrics, and realized how much i relate to this song after losing my mother to suicide. The grief is truly unbearable and it haunts me every day.. this song makes it so i can feel understood now and i just really love it now..
My mom used to listen to this when I was growing up, so I learned of it and grew to enjoy this song and the band. Any time I hear this song though sort of brings me back to chilling in my moms convertible as she drove down the road. Makes me miss her and just being little. Probably gonna go call her now honestly lawl.
Please make sure to call her. Then call her again and again. This was one of my moms favorite songs. I used to tease her for it, actually. I lost her suddenly a couple of years ago. She called and texted me several times that day, but I didn't feel like talking. The next day I no longer had a mom. I'll regret that for the rest of my life. My mom and I had a complicated relationship, but you only get one mom. Please cherish yours 💞
Every time I hear this song it reminds me of my brother whom introduced me to it: Chris Ericson U.S.M.C. I now drum along to it and it fills my heart with love for my fallen brother. May the Lord Almighty allow him in his heaven. Amen
Recently, I lost my best friend to suicide. She was the first true love of my life, a soldier, a mother, and an goddamn awesome person. This song brings me to tears every time. Rock on.
I was 12 in 2000, I feel like I was way too young to appreciate how great 90s music was. I get it now, and WOW. Oh, 90s. you gave us Boy Meets World and so much great music. You're the best.
I recently met a stranger who told mw stories of how she came to get a broken heart attack. Incredible story. She and her son are left alive, praise God. Then I remembered this song. Thanks for posting and with lyrics!
This song is about grief, guilt, depession, anger. Ty, I went through it all when I lost my husband. Helped a lot! Got to be something better than this!
This song has just as much meaning to me now than it did 30 years ago. I don't miss my youth. I miss the freedom and ignorance that came with it. There is the obvious "meaning" but if you go layers deeper you can get so much more out of it.
Thanks I agree. Funny but I put this list together just to hear in the car and now I'm on my pc and I see all these views! Really nice to know so many like similar sounds.
90s are the best baby! Then the 70s come in at a close second. I wont deny the 80s had SOME good stuff, but there was so much trash in the 80s as a whole, not just musically but the trends, fashion styles, cars, economy, movies, crack, aids, reagan(lol), etc etc. The 80s was by far the worst decade between the 50s til the mid 2000s. Everything about the 80s was just hideous. Sorry Gen X'ers (im also a gen x'er, on the cusp of beginning millenial ages)
I'm 22 bur my sisters are about 10 years older than me so their music is at my deepest subconscious memory. This one resonates with me. I remember this from being a kindergartner watching my sisters go through high school having no idea what was happening.
Music is getting me through my drug detox-I cannot imagine life without music. I didn’t really pay attention to this song until I started going through withdrawals, now I’m blasting it in my headphones!
I get it now. He's the one headlight. The other headlight is the girl who died. So in his mind the car would symbolize their relationship, thus connecting the two lights. He can't move on without her. So he feels that the only way to move on is if part of her stays with him. It's almost as if he's talking to the part of himself that he desperately wants to believe contains her spirit. Very sad
As a female who grew up in trauma an has felt alone forever.. im relating to this song now at 33 staring out my window at the snow, that this to me is about the death of a piece of myself. But i dont need to be stuck in the middle forever... yes life is better.. but its not great. Its not where i know i can bring it... i dont need to keep dragging on my dead self with my now self an think ill reach my destination with one headlight. Im capable of making it with 1 headlight that can get me where the fuck i need to be. Whats so amazing about this song is everyone can relate to it in a negative way but apply it in a positive way. It wild. Music today in 2023 is fuckin nothing like older music.. im so grateful for music its helped me grow internally my entire life ❤
I've heard this song a million times since Mid 90's and this is the Very first time I've decided to paid attn to the lyrics...it's a very sorrowful but deeply moving song. As much I jam to hip-hop music, rock always teaches me something brand new
I used to wonder back then if I had a connection to this, now I know I do. I am honored! 4th Dimension in full swing... gotta love the non-linear timing. Thank you!
Me and my boyfriend listened to this when he came back on military leave to visit me. our head light was out and we held hands listening to this song. How I long to be with him… this song makes me miss him so much 😭
I remember driving home with my parents and hearing this at night watching the street lights go past. Literally, there is nothing that give me a more intense feeling of nostalgia.
***** I lost my sister, Beverly, on her birthday in 2005. I think of her when I hear this song. She was 49 and I was 44 then and we spoke every day. I was numb at the cemetary. It still hurts.
And think, this shit was already close to a decade old when myspace first came out and especially when it first came on the scene hard in 05....this was released in like 96
My sister law Carla C. Passed away Dec.2020 being 5months carrying my nephew both went home with the Lord this was her song I oaten to it now and really feel next to us smiling she made home
My Dad showed me this music video recently and I tell you it has opened my eyes to a lot of things. Especially 6th street by the wallflowers. When you are stuck in middle and can’t find your way open your ears and listen and talk to anybody you can learn to cope with the world we live in today. Nothing is forever except life in heaven 4:18
Thank you so much for making this. I was a twin and this brings comfort to me and the life we had. Limited as it was. Thank You. Stumbling across this song brings me closer to her.
While this song wants my foot to stomp, I am so saddened by it. I did lose my only friend. Not by a broken heart, but by driving with only one headlight. She was over center line on curve when a semi struck her. I listen to the minister as through cemetery trees...peace and love to all who have lost loved ones!!
Strigent Odin I know, right? I didn't start listening to radio until 6th grade, and I don't really at all now. But before then, the only music I knew about was the stuff my parents listened to. 80s, 90s, and yeah 70s stuff. Different types of rock and country. People though I was really messed up when I said I didn't know who Taylor Swift was.
My cousin died ten years ago and this song and him driving in the car is the strongest memory i have. He is my only friend he died three weeks after turning 25. His birthday is aug 2nd.... I miss the way you want turn the engine but the engine doesn't turn adding a raspy funny tone to it. Fuck I miss you Westin.
I’m 63 years old my daughter is in her 30s but my six-year-old grandson he knows who Bob Dylan is because he listens to the 80s music and it’s his favorite
This song hurts a lot, yesterday my friend just passed away and upon hearing this reminded me of everything we did together, her smile and her way of being
I love this song I hear ALL the time at Walmart when I’m working & I must’ve ask 20 people who sings or the name of it but apparently no1 knew then I found some1 who did & now I can’t get it out my head ❤️ it!
I'm hispanic, didn't know the name of this song, it was a nice fella at Walmart, who I use to sing a little part of the song in order to know Wich CD I was looking for, this one been my favorite ever since it was released in 1997, I think I succeed on my English skills.
I can see this song as being about suffering from depression. Losing a friend, which could be interpreted as normal feelings, to a "broken heart disease." They mention being unable to break away from the parade, or the disease, and that there has to be an opening, a way out of the maze of ugliness and greed. The "sun up ahead" of the county line, and there's a bridge to it, to a healthy mind. The person sees this as a sign that "all is good" and nothingness, which depression always feels like, will die when they reach it. Unfortunately they try and fail, hitting the window ledge, which can be seen as the barriers we put up around us with depression, never leaving our homes. The "engine doesn't turn" and the mess is something they could watch burn, and go away. When you're depressed you lose yourself and don't feel yourself (feel like somebody else). Then they mention the city walls of "dying dreams," the feeling of hopelessness. "Her death" is not somebody else, it's the speaker talking about their own inner death. But the positive comes from the main verse, claiming there's got to be something better than "in the middle," which is a way to view depression. It isn't sadness or happiness, it's the middle. It's nothingness. And they claim to "try a little" to make it through, to drive "home." And to do it is not easy because one headlight represents not being 100%, but still having just enough power to push through and keep on living.
Ashlee Anno my thought on, It became to late and he and she missed out on the love she or he should of had, letting things get in the way they couldn't fix it when they had a chance and kept pushing on with the issue still she snaps and leaves instead of trying and same with him he grew old without her, and well nothing last forever one light went out, she went to her grave without being with the one she loved or should of loved? And well some can live with the issues and make it home, when many can't finish. If they would of tried they would of finished also, they wouldn't of got stuck in the middle. And just like a burned out headlight, the other is its mate. But really just saying some cam make it work if they would of just tried. IDK coming from a depressed guy who lost his love
Thank the good Lord more & more people are finally acknowledging these older but; all-time classics they've been missing out on, trully & really do rock! Kind of gives new perspective on things ; doesn't it?!
Childhood is listening to this song and liking it because it sounds cool. Adulthood is listening to this song and feeling it because your inner child still wants you to think it's cool even with all the baggage you've accumulated over the years.
Love this song & I deeply identify with it. Recently, I tried to "check out" of this life I could no longer bear. So grateful it went so wrong & I didn't succeed. I had to hit rock bottom to try it & I did but now? Now I can some light at the end of tunnel & I have hope. I yelled it at my husband, my friends that were here. I couldn't take anymore. The weight of everything has taken a toll on me. Molestations & repeated, terrible rapes for a year at the age of 12, the trauma of that & my mother who didn't believe me & almost killed me for it. No one that cared at all about me. Too much alcoholisn I had seen in my life & what it did to me, my siblings, my entire family on both sides. Caring for a terminally ill daddy for 10 years & losing him. Caring for my mother who also died. Then taking care of my own son for three years before he died, too & that took the biggest toll of all. The last straw was being shocked out of my grief to care for my husband that had a stroke. I didn't have much left to give him & I tried so hard to care for him. I still am. Life is cruel, life isn't fair, I see it all now. I can't live in the past any longer & will do my best not to again. Why am I writing all this? Not sure why .... Maybe it's a catharsis of sorts. Maybe I had to write it all down for people that don't know me & will probably never read this. That's not the point... Not really. I'm doing this for me, I guess. Saying goodbye to everything that hurt, loving the Lord who saved me... Again! And again! Serving Him now..... Giving Him control of my life until it's really time to go. 🙏❤️🙏❤️
When I was a six-year-old a long time ago, listening to this with my dad, I had no idea what this truly meant. He tried to explain it to me, and I understood that the girl had died and the man was grieving her, but I didn’t understand how someone could die of a broken heart, or how hitting the edge of her window had anything to do with the song. When I was young, and small, and naïve, my dad made me promise to never kill myself. I was flabbergasted. Why would anyone want to do that? I couldn’t wrap my little six-year-old head around why he was making me promise this. There was no way I’d ever do such a thing, right? Well, I obeyed his promise, for years and years, and then one day when he’d had too much to drink, he started talking about howmy mom and I could do better without him and that he should just die. My heart broke, and I frantically reminded him of the promise he made me keep and that he had to do it, too. He just looked at me with broken eyes before whispering, “ok.” I don’t know if he was actually going to do that or not, but I am so glad he made me promise that. Because of him making me promise to keep living, I was able to do that same for him.
This song isnt about a dead girl. The song is about a dead idea. Human decency. "broken arm of human law"
@@forsakenprotector486 Hey dude, you may be a great textual analyst, but maybe work on your people skills a little. You may need them some day, even for yourself. You can see that what this person went through was not only deeply traumatic, it reflects the more abstract meaning of the song. Aside from that, the interpretation of lyrics or poetry can validly be a personal thing.
@@BlackCanary639 fair point on people skills. But the singer litterly said the meaning
Oh god.... I was in a week long coma around the time of this song... from trying to.... and it put me in a 6 day 7 night coma. I turned 20 in the psych ward that summer....
My older brother cool calm collected got almost irate hugging me when released... you... YOU, LITTLE GIRL (he practically raised me) ARE NEVER EVER TO DO THAT TO ME AGAIN!!!!!
He stayed the whole week reading to me. It was his voice I first recall climbing so heavy but climbing to his voice.
I pinky swore with him and made him do it back that I never would.
That promise... the month I turned 20 saved me again.... I am 43 and though we both have had health issues and just lost our mum and of course the Queens death is painful but.... my brother saved me by making that pact with me. But promising..... never to leave each other on purpose..
Lady Dinah Lumley Donovon-Eckman
@theonewithallthereefer An amazing recollection. Thanks for sharing.
“I’m so alone. I feel just like somebody else. Man I ain’t changed but I know I ain’t the same”
That line right there gets me choked up :(
Favorite part of the whole song. Always has been
me too dude
I feel you
I felt like that, and still do after my wonderful dad died.
IF YOU ARE ALONE...AT LEAST YOU HAVE YOU...I DON'T EVEN HAVE ME AT THIS POINT.
This is one of the greatest things about music. You can sing a song to 85,000 people and they’ll sing it back for 85,000 different reasons.
She said it's cold it feels like independence day (September 16th) yup. It all depends who you ask and in what light
Richard Hart yeah I'm listening and it hits so hard on multiple parts of my past.
Trying to pass on someone else's quote as your own. Pfft
It is amazing what we take from and relate to in music. I think it gives us a means to explain or even justify certain aspects of our lives.
Man I ain't changed, but I know I ain't the same
It’s weird how many times I’ve heard this song throughout the 24 years it’s been out but a random movie trailer with Pete Davidson made me fall in love with it.
Alex C. I’ve always loved this song, it was very underrated I always felt.
I've always loved it, but I will say I loved how in that trailer when they're singing the song they're just mumbling to the beat, because no matter how much you love this song that's how you do at a party when you're drunk, lol.
Same. I used to listen to this with my dad years ago and now that I saw that movie trailer I'm back again
Legit the same
You make me feel old. In my head, this song could never have been 24. I need a head shrink.
Always, always when I listened to this song memories of my brother who passed away in the 90's came to my mind. I didn't know English that time. Now, I can understand the song. It is incredible how just the music can touch the heart. Music is timeless, breaking barriers of countries and languages, just emotions and feelings at the end.
So sorry for your lost 😞
Definitely, I spoke English and I never got the true meaning of the song until I watched it with the lyrics.
I recently lost my ex boyfriend to cancer so now when I hear it, it has a totally different meaning.
Sadness 💔
I too am sorry for your loss 💔😿
@@julielythgoe1171 I lost my boyfriend 27 years ago and so I still reminds me of him. I'm so sorry for your loss
Marky I'm sorry for your loss and by the way your English is fantastic and your message is so true.
My dad always sang it "one head lice" when i was younger. This song always makes me smile regardless of the meaning.
That might have been your first taste of a dad joke 🤣🤣🤣
precious!
That got me ...🥺🤗
lmaoo thats funny i heard this again last night and said that in my head
I don't understand why thats funny
One of the greatest songs ever written. And I’m a die hard Beatles fan.
So mature. Jacob’s voice is true and real. I’m 47 now.
Do it again Wallflowers!
Can you explain what the song is about it is my favorite song but I can't seem to figure it out
Looks just like his Dad for sure
@@marthah2170 It's about sui cide. He's saying don't give up, things will get better as time passes. For now, or when you have problems that seem unsurmountable, hang in there. Like driving with only one headlight. It's still possible to continue your journey in the darkness (of the moment) with only one headlight but the sun will come up soon. This song hits home for me and always makes me cry.
My sister made my Mom’s funeral invitation card and the lyrics in the back was from this song, I’ve waited 3 years to actually listen to the song… I’m crying… tears of memories often drop like raindrops during monsoon
God bless you Marcus x May I ask how you are doing now ( 11mths ) later ? Love and hugs from N.Ireland xxx
@@paulineerwin7685 my mom passed, this year will be 4 years and I’ve come a long way. Wasn’t easy, I’ve broke so many times but to see where I am today, smiling & content with what I got. I’m appreciate of it all, daily miracles only solidify the thought that she’s watching over me & my relatives. I’ve never been happier ❤️
@@MasterSkoden That is wonderful news Marcus … keep up the great work ! I am sure that you’re Mom’s heart is bursting with pride x
There's powerful metaphors in this great song!
Had a few drinks and tokes and was reading the lyrics to this song while playing it in my head. Been a while since I've been brought to tears by a song but for some reason it really hit the spot that night. Takes a lot to reach a hardened cynic but this is a song of deep courage beneath the bittersweet tone. Good shit.
Still my favorite song from the 90's. So mellow but heartwrenching at the same time.
I just lost my fiancée and best friend, he was in an accident on his motorcycle. We were best friends from 13 years old. He was only 20. I’m completely broken but I just discovered this song and I can’t explain how much I resonate with it and the lyrics. Nothing is forever, except for love. Ride high baby
My eldest brother showed me this song as a young kid. Took me years to find it again based off the few lyrics I could remember from my childhood. Though the meaning has changed from my childhood to my adult life, this tune is still just as powerful and moving.
Can you please tell me the meaning of this song"? I damn love it
@ngutierrez840 girl friend was way low and drove a car off a bridge and broke his heart. .. at least was how I interpreted it, now I can't listen to more than half of it wiithout choking up :( beautiful isn't it?
Absolutely, positively love this song. What a talent the Dylans are.
I’ve always loved this song but this is the first time I’ve seen the lyrics and I’m floored. This song is deep.
This is one of my favorite song. The mid tempo makes the song even more sad. it feels like ‘life goes on’ no matter what goes in my mind. Even after my only friend’s funeral.
Still one of my faves to this day - And him being Bob Dylan's son just puts the icing on the cake❤
What a great track. I remember the first girl I ever went out with had this single and let me borrow it. She let me borrow the cassette. Ahhhh 90’s music will forever have an indelible imprint on my soul.
songs are just like bookmarks in life
Melón malone smae
Dude....
That’s the best description I’ve ever heard. Short and sweet too. Good job!
👍
No doubt. The second this started playing it immediately brought me back....way back to a simpler and sure time....when i knew what was gonna happen tomorrow, or at least the illusion of it. Now days, all i can think about is how everything is so uncertain and i have no idea what tomorrow will bring. Over time, one realizes the phrase "ignorance is bliss" rings true more times than not.
Word!
When my daughter got married, and we danced at her wedding, this is the song she chose.
Yes, you can dance to Jakob Dylan!
This was our "code word" for years.
I cried. I cried like a baby.
This was another song at my cousins funeral. She was 20 I think. This is a beautiful song but it makes me appreciate the earth and my place in it. I love my cuz and I never knew her very well and she never really noticed I was there. God has so much in store for me. I'm not making the same mistakes that she did.😌. I love you mal mal! 😩
I'm sorry :(. Btw, you actually sound like an adult on here XD
+Lariah Swiftie Andrade Losing someone, even someone you weren't close with can be hard- but it's beneficial. Makes you consider your time spent on this earth, the things you do, the people you love. Nobody is perfect, and everything can be a lesson in the grand scheme of things. You're right to use someone elses experience to better yourself, your cousin would be happy you did- I guarantee it. Whether they knew you well or not. Legacy is a lesson.
+Lariah Swiftie Andrade What happened? And be happy for her. this planet is hell. She is in a better place probably looking down at you smiling :)
Strigent Odin I know heaven is a better place especially in the place she was at but I love this world. And I know she is. I cry every once in a while.
Lariah Andrade she is fine. I know how it feels :/
I used to listen to this song when i was a kid, not realizing the meaning behind it until this morning. I played it in the car because i had a headlight out and was alone so was really tuned into the lyrics, and realized how much i relate to this song after losing my mother to suicide. The grief is truly unbearable and it haunts me every day.. this song makes it so i can feel understood now and i just really love it now..
My wife died of a long addiction and this song just says it all over 30+ years of hoping better for her. Thx for posting lyrics
I love this song. I feel sorry for someone who dies of brokent heart disease.
My mom used to listen to this when I was growing up, so I learned of it and grew to enjoy this song and the band. Any time I hear this song though sort of brings me back to chilling in my moms convertible as she drove down the road. Makes me miss her and just being little. Probably gonna go call her now honestly lawl.
Zomb3hKitteh Did you call her?
Devon Cromwell I did actually. o:
Zomb3hKitteh well now your driving with one headlight
Please make sure to call her. Then call her again and again.
This was one of my moms favorite songs. I used to tease her for it, actually. I lost her suddenly a couple of years ago. She called and texted me several times that day, but I didn't feel like talking. The next day I no longer had a mom. I'll regret that for the rest of my life.
My mom and I had a complicated relationship, but you only get one mom. Please cherish yours 💞
Fuck...
Every time I hear this song it reminds me of my brother whom introduced me to it: Chris Ericson U.S.M.C. I now drum along to it and it fills my heart with love for my fallen brother. May the Lord Almighty allow him in his heaven. Amen
This song always hits so hard...
I always liked this song, one of the best I've heard throughout my entire life. Definitely brings back memories.....
Recently, I lost my best friend to suicide. She was the first true love of my life, a soldier, a mother, and an goddamn awesome person. This song brings me to tears every time. Rock on.
Sorry for your loss 😐
Melissa Akers lol year late me too tho that’s terrible
Sorry for ur loss
😢
The same thing happened to me recently
I was 12 in 2000, I feel like I was way too young to appreciate how great 90s music was.
I get it now, and WOW. Oh, 90s. you gave us Boy Meets World and so much great music. You're the best.
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I am the same age as you and i miss the 90s
Boy meets world?
Richard Genck I agree I was born in 1987 and I didn't appreciate 90's music until I was in my 20's
The Wallflowers are awesome. One headlight is a great song.
Yes I liked this song back in the 90s too, but heard it again recently in the movie "The King of Staten Island".
Pete Davidson sucks.
@@GovernorRiffRaff 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I recently met a stranger who told mw stories of how she came to get a broken heart attack. Incredible story. She and her son are left alive, praise God. Then I remembered this song. Thanks for posting and with lyrics!
This song is about grief, guilt, depession, anger. Ty, I went through it all when I lost my husband. Helped a lot! Got to be something better than this!
This song has just as much meaning to me now than it did 30 years ago. I don't miss my youth. I miss the freedom and ignorance that came with it.
There is the obvious "meaning" but if you go layers deeper you can get so much more out of it.
Piece of art.... Brilliant !!! No one could create such a master piece nowadays. Love you Wallflowers 🤗
"I turn the engine but the engine doesn't turn" good metaphor for life
its a metaphor I'm not sure he meant literally
Thanks I agree. Funny but I put this list together just to hear in the car and now I'm on my pc and I see all these views! Really nice to know so many like similar sounds.
What does that metaphor mean?
Or an old Ford! (fix or repair daily).
@Planet Goldfish Brain bullshit
When I woke up this song was playing in my head. Hadn't heard or thought of it for a long long time.
must have been a great morning
love when that happens
It reminds me of the end of a super long, epic dream that you're sad to leave and all the characters are saying their goodbyes before you wake up.
shady4091
90s was the best era of music.
"I turn the engine but the engine doesn't turn" good metaphor for life
Robbie Beaudette 80’s followed by 90’s
90s are the best baby! Then the 70s come in at a close second. I wont deny the 80s had SOME good stuff, but there was so much trash in the 80s as a whole, not just musically but the trends, fashion styles, cars, economy, movies, crack, aids, reagan(lol), etc etc. The 80s was by far the worst decade between the 50s til the mid 2000s. Everything about the 80s was just hideous. Sorry Gen X'ers (im also a gen x'er, on the cusp of beginning millenial ages)
Daughter mother passed last Saturday at 47. Funeral was today and this song came on the radio. Hits different today than it did in my 20s.
No matter when this play this track itwill always be a classic.
I'm 22 bur my sisters are about 10 years older than me so their music is at my deepest subconscious memory. This one resonates with me. I remember this from being a kindergartner watching my sisters go through high school having no idea what was happening.
Music is getting me through my drug detox-I cannot imagine life without music. I didn’t really pay attention to this song until I started going through withdrawals, now I’m blasting it in my headphones!
Good luck, hope you doing good
You doing ok?
dope?
You wrote this a year ago… hoping you are still on the right track…. If not, get back on the horse and try again- YOU CAN DO IT!!!
Hope ya made it brah
This song has deep, deep meaning for me. And despite some drummers flash and flair, this guy is doing the primary job. Keeping the beat like a clock.
I get it now. He's the one headlight. The other headlight is the girl who died. So in his mind the car would symbolize their relationship, thus connecting the two lights. He can't move on without her. So he feels that the only way to move on is if part of her stays with him. It's almost as if he's talking to the part of himself that he desperately wants to believe contains her spirit. Very sad
No don't try telling us the meaning of the song
i liked your explanation.
I think you are over analyzing. I think he is just trying to weave his way thru the BS of life.
Damn.....you are clever. Never looked at it that way
Now it makes sense! I had no idea what it meant....... Sad but that is life for ya.
This song just flows so well with that bass and the drums. Love it!
As a female who grew up in trauma an has felt alone forever.. im relating to this song now at 33 staring out my window at the snow, that this to me is about the death of a piece of myself. But i dont need to be stuck in the middle forever... yes life is better.. but its not great. Its not where i know i can bring it... i dont need to keep dragging on my dead self with my now self an think ill reach my destination with one headlight. Im capable of making it with 1 headlight that can get me where the fuck i need to be. Whats so amazing about this song is everyone can relate to it in a negative way but apply it in a positive way. It wild. Music today in 2023 is fuckin nothing like older music.. im so grateful for music its helped me grow internally my entire life ❤
I've heard this song a million times since Mid 90's and this is the Very first time I've decided to paid attn to the lyrics...it's a very sorrowful but deeply moving song. As much I jam to hip-hop music, rock always teaches me something brand new
This song isn’t complicated. Life keeps marching on. You gotta move with it
I used to wonder back then if I had a connection to this, now I know I do. I am honored! 4th Dimension in full swing... gotta love the non-linear timing. Thank you!
Man I love being a 90's kid.
me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the best!!!!!!
90's songs really kicks some asses..proud to be a 90's kid .....
Brian04510 Like English class.
And yet you don't know how periods and spaces work. I don't know if I'd call that 'top of my class.' Unless you're in special ed or something...
Devon Cromwell Fucking chill dude, no need for that kind of shit. This isn't an English essay. Leave him be.
Me and my boyfriend listened to this when he came back on military leave to visit me. our head light was out and we held hands listening to this song. How I long to be with him… this song makes me miss him so much 😭
I was just introduced to this song and man… I’m hooked.
I remember driving home with my parents and hearing this at night watching the street lights go past. Literally, there is nothing that give me a more intense feeling of nostalgia.
God bless you, Bridget Loughlin. I miss you, sister. This song reminds me so much of our fun times. And finally, your death kills me.
Aw I'm so sorry for your lose. I bet your sister is very missed. And Bridget, I hope you're doing okay 😊
Jenna Daykin Thank you. Bridget passed away in 2000. Please pray for her.
Will do. You have my complete support *****
***** I lost my sister, Beverly, on her birthday in 2005. I think of her when I hear this song. She was 49 and I was 44 then and we spoke every day. I was numb at the cemetary. It still hurts.
that was sweet.
They linked their Myspace. Starting to realize just how old this is... Damn.
myspace is for musicians..It still exists
And think, this shit was already close to a decade old when myspace first came out and especially when it first came on the scene hard in 05....this was released in like 96
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Solía escuchar esta canción de camino a la universidad en invierno, solo la escuchaba cuando la pasaban por radio y era mágico.
2016 & this song is still gooood!
Fuck yeah!
double fuck yeah!
Stephan Garnica aka #silentgamer Yes!!
yeah!!!!!
Lol this is a funny ass comment section xD
Phenomenal song. Absolutely one of a kind. Proud to have grown up on this
My sister law Carla C. Passed away Dec.2020 being 5months carrying my nephew both went home with the Lord this was her song I oaten to it now and really feel next to us smiling she made home
I use to sing this line in my head at work(This place is always such a mess,sometimes I think I’d like to watch it burn)it get me though the day.
Thank you Bob Dylan for this young man.
Anna Golden and thank you Bob Dylan's dad for Bob Dylan
Eh, he was young 20 years ago.
wha...?
@@Aly_224 and thank you Bob Dylan's Grand parents, for Bob Dylan's parents
@@onefreebird1research your singers, boi
This song has such a distinctive feeling
One of the greatest rock songs of the nineties. Arguably One of the greatest songs of all time.
Never heard of this band before but will have to check them out.
I LOVE this song.....its become such a classic for me!! TY WF's!
Awesome song. And what a beautiful voice and solid snare drum. Thanks for the music...
I love the MySpace advert at the end lol. It's a real time stamp.
Thank you so much my angel gabe for saving me again and in most painful time of my life but also the last . God bless your hero sweet soul .
Damn this song is such a classic and classics are best! Proud to be a 90s kid!
Good music
Love this song! They will be performing live in our Hard Rock Cafe in Tampa on July 5, 2019!
"I'm so alone, and I feel just like somebody else. Man, I ain't changed, but I know I ain't the same." Those lyrics hit hard. 💔
My Dad showed me this music video recently and I tell you it has opened my eyes to a lot of things. Especially 6th street by the wallflowers. When you are stuck in middle and can’t find your way open your ears and listen and talk to anybody you can learn to cope with the world we live in today. Nothing is forever except life in heaven 4:18
Thank you so much for making this. I was a twin and this brings comfort to me and the life we had. Limited as it was. Thank You. Stumbling across this song brings me closer to her.
Love this Beat!....and the lyrics.......can't walk away without being hooked.Been one of my favorites for years.... XXXOOO
was in a pretty bad accident today that totaled my truck. I dedicate this to you, halfa. It almost always had a half a tank.
man 41 yrs old and woke up to this song in my head... 😅
Great song,nice beat. Gorgeous lead singer,love his voice.
Thank you, this helped me with some of lyrics I never got. So sad, but I love Jakob's delivery and the music is awesome.
Heard this when I was young. Still awesome
While this song wants my foot to stomp, I am so saddened by it. I did lose my only friend. Not by a broken heart, but by driving with only one headlight. She was over center line on curve when a semi struck her. I listen to the minister as through cemetery trees...peace and love to all who have lost loved ones!!
My English teacher played this for us in class and I couldn't not look it up the moment I got home from school. Why can't music still be this good?
+McK K So true... I love country and I listen to the stuff that was made in the 70's XD. sadly music evolves
Strigent Odin I know, right? I didn't start listening to radio until 6th grade, and I don't really at all now. But before then, the only music I knew about was the stuff my parents listened to. 80s, 90s, and yeah 70s stuff. Different types of rock and country. People though I was really messed up when I said I didn't know who Taylor Swift was.
McK K
Smh, Her music sucks. I love bob fm since its my local radio station. I sometimes listen to dubstep working out tho..
sounds like one cool teacher
Just like his Dad, Jakobs voice has that same cool Dylan quality mystique to it. Listening to either is like being in a trance-like altered state.
My cousin died ten years ago and this song and him driving in the car is the strongest memory i have. He is my only friend he died three weeks after turning 25. His birthday is aug 2nd.... I miss the way you want turn the engine but the engine doesn't turn adding a raspy funny tone to it. Fuck I miss you Westin.
sorry to hear that
I’m 63 years old my daughter is in her 30s but my six-year-old grandson he knows who Bob Dylan is because he listens to the 80s music and it’s his favorite
Bill Burr and Pete Davidson brought me here
That trailer was actually really fuckin good. First ad I’ve watched all the way through in a minute
Heeey, nana na nanana, NOTHING LASTS FOREVER nananana nanana IN THE MIDDLE 🎶
Same here. I'm definitely gonna check that movie out
Bill Burr and Pete Davidson brought me back.
the king of staten island?
This song hurts a lot, yesterday my friend just passed away and upon hearing this reminded me of everything we did together, her smile and her way of being
Hey bro I'm sorry for your lost. Just know she's loving you right now in heaven
Every time I hear this song, I can't help but think of her. Lost her to suicide 3 years ago.
I think about her EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
Sorry for your loss. This song really hits close to home for many.
One of the best Lyrical songs ever!
I love this song I hear ALL the time at Walmart when I’m working & I must’ve ask 20 people who sings or the name of it but apparently no1 knew then I found some1 who did & now I can’t get it out my head ❤️ it!
this song gives you feels
kevinthibodeau yep
I'm hispanic, didn't know the name of this song, it was a nice fella at Walmart, who I use to sing a little part of the song in order to know Wich CD I was looking for, this one been my favorite ever since it was released in 1997, I think I succeed on my English skills.
Love this tune!!
Brings up so many memories!!!
And Good Beat!!
All time Fav’s Forever!!!!
🤘🤘🤘❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘
I've liked this tune since it was realeased ,after viewing lyrics I now like it that much more
I can see this song as being about suffering from depression. Losing a friend, which could be interpreted as normal feelings, to a "broken heart disease." They mention being unable to break away from the parade, or the disease, and that there has to be an opening, a way out of the maze of ugliness and greed. The "sun up ahead" of the county line, and there's a bridge to it, to a healthy mind. The person sees this as a sign that "all is good" and nothingness, which depression always feels like, will die when they reach it. Unfortunately they try and fail, hitting the window ledge, which can be seen as the barriers we put up around us with depression, never leaving our homes. The "engine doesn't turn" and the mess is something they could watch burn, and go away. When you're depressed you lose yourself and don't feel yourself (feel like somebody else). Then they mention the city walls of "dying dreams," the feeling of hopelessness. "Her death" is not somebody else, it's the speaker talking about their own inner death.
But the positive comes from the main verse, claiming there's got to be something better than "in the middle," which is a way to view depression. It isn't sadness or happiness, it's the middle. It's nothingness. And they claim to "try a little" to make it through, to drive "home." And to do it is not easy because one headlight represents not being 100%, but still having just enough power to push through and keep on living.
Ashlee Anno wow so deep what you wrote is exactly the way I feel now :(
thank you so much I love how you explain this
Thanks, I needed your comment.
That was really deep, but very true.
Ashlee Anno my thought on, It became to late and he and she missed out on the love she or he should of had, letting things get in the way they couldn't fix it when they had a chance and kept pushing on with the issue still she snaps and leaves instead of trying and same with him he grew old without her, and well nothing last forever one light went out, she went to her grave without being with the one she loved or should of loved? And well some can live with the issues and make it home, when many can't finish. If they would of tried they would of finished also, they wouldn't of got stuck in the middle. And just like a burned out headlight, the other is its mate. But really just saying some cam make it work if they would of just tried. IDK coming from a depressed guy who lost his love
Guys, this was the very first song I was IN LOVE with. I can’t wait to see this movie
Thank the good Lord more & more people are finally acknowledging these older but; all-time classics they've been missing out on, trully & really do rock! Kind of gives new perspective on things ; doesn't it?!
that was awesome. it made me cry. i miss my daughter samantha so much
jackie tryon sorry
jackie tryon so sorry for you’re pain and loss God Bless You💔🙏
Reminds me of early 00's and my step dad
A kinetic typography of this song would be just amazing.
Childhood is listening to this song and liking it because it sounds cool.
Adulthood is listening to this song and feeling it because your inner child still wants you to think it's cool even with all the baggage you've accumulated over the years.
Love this song & I deeply identify with it. Recently, I tried to "check out" of this life I could no longer bear. So grateful it went so wrong & I didn't succeed. I had to hit rock bottom to try it & I did but now? Now I can some light at the end of tunnel & I have hope. I yelled it at my husband, my friends that were here. I couldn't take anymore. The weight of everything has taken a toll on me. Molestations & repeated, terrible rapes for a year at the age of 12, the trauma of that & my mother who didn't believe me & almost killed me for it. No one that cared at all about me. Too much alcoholisn I had seen in my life & what it did to me, my siblings, my entire family on both sides. Caring for a terminally ill daddy for 10 years & losing him. Caring for my mother who also died. Then taking care of my own son for three years before he died, too & that took the biggest toll of all. The last straw was being shocked out of my grief to care for my husband that had a stroke. I didn't have much left to give him & I tried so hard to care for him. I still am. Life is cruel, life isn't fair, I see it all now. I can't live in the past any longer & will do my best not to again.
Why am I writing all this? Not sure why .... Maybe it's a catharsis of sorts. Maybe I had to write it all down for people that don't know me & will probably never read this. That's not the point... Not really. I'm doing this for me, I guess. Saying goodbye to everything that hurt, loving the Lord who saved me... Again! And again! Serving Him now..... Giving Him control of my life until it's really time to go. 🙏❤️🙏❤️