She said bm have superficial criteria when it comes to dating bw😂😂😂😂. I guess asking black women to be fit and friendly is like asking a stranger for a million dollars. Its simply not going to happen lol
The one thing that I learned about a lot of our people is that we're supposedly geniuses on celebrity relationships 'but very flawed with personal relationships.
Oshay you killed this Bro.. I agree with you 100%. Black women have been with White men way before Black men were even allowed to look at a white woman. If shes a dark skin woman fighting colorism but approves of interacial dating, it cancels her whole colorism argument.
The problem isn’t being problack and sleeping white. She’s Anti black male and sleeping white. That’s what the bulk of the backlash is. She had a whole rant of misunderstood and misleading stats, to bash black men, had nothing positive to say about black men, and we saw that she had a history of working for the whitest productions and being engaged to a 50 year old white man… in her early and mid 30s. Then, when he made it clear he didn’t want her and neither did the white media outlets… she started her pro black journey. We’re way more observant than that Eboni.
@@balerikirmu.11 something tells me,you already know the answer to this question, so you tell me,as far as I know he was white, idk, but she fits into the stereotype of, become pro blk,after you realize that they don't want you like that, idk,but this here destroys her reputation for sure,if it's true...like Dr Umar said " I've lost respect..that's not respectable! she might as well be a flea
Date who you want to but don't hate a certain group or gender because you have a preference 😂... And bad comes in all choices available as long as you choose them 😂
What Eboni said was based on ENTITLEMENT & PREJUDICE, not preferences or standards; Entitlement is based on EGO ! Yes, she's prejudiced against Blue Collor Workers, & it showed, through her attitude, disrespect &facial expressions. She snitched on herself, because when she heard Bus Driver, she instantly thought Black Men, & not White Men !
That is why I am not pro-black because black women always try to make sense out of chaos and then get mad when black men express their feelings and standards. Regardless of a woman's race, I'm gonna go where I'm genuinely loved and appreciated.
I have found your comment to be true on both sides. BM getting mad and insulting toward BW when we complain. AND BW being dismissive and insulting toward BM. I don't feel it's too late for a healthier American Black family , but we're gonna have to do much better listening/ forgiving each other! God bless all.
@@chaneljones3771 Here we go with the "both sides" BS!!! Our issues with each other are not the same. Most of you want BM to be Superman and forever coddling you,.But now men are saying no, most of you don't know what to do except use SIGN language.
IDGAF what Eboni or that other chick says about black men. I do care about results! KS opened my eyes to it doesnt matter what black women say, it is what they do.
My thing is the fact that women don't understand that they are being manipulated by Eboni K Williams. This whole issue was never about race to begin with. Eboni K Williams made it about race so she wouldn't look like a gold digger to the man that she actually wants. Seriously, can she prove that every person who had something to say about her comments was black? The answer is no. She started saying all of that mess to activate the black Sisterhood to protect her and they are falling for it Hook Line & Sinker
How is she a gold digger for wanting someone at her level? No one is being manipulated; the black community does have a fetish for humbling black women. You should have picked some down on her luck, defenseless black woman to humble. Eboni won't be humbled. She came back swinging and bruised your egos.
@@phijona that's why yall stay losing because no ones ego is bigger than the BW. If being humble is bad to you then The Most High will surely show you the error of your stubborn ways.
@@phijona Because she’s low level. Once a women is pass 35 their useless to men outside of sex. You see ho her white fiancé dropper her. Like most BW she’s simply undesired.
When I was growing up, my dad was a police officer, and my mother was a letter carrier. My dad had 2 college degrees. My mother had a 10th grade education, and worked as a letter carrier, and also had my half brother that she expected my dad to raise and love. Black men can be accepting and forgiving, but black women can’t.
U covered all points in your rebuttal Oshay. Knocked out the park 🏏 The contradiction is blatant and Chrissie obviously didn't think this through. Business as usual, blame it on "Jermaine". "It's always Jermaine's fault" 🤷🏾♂
7:58 What's worse is how Michael B Jordan was talked down by BW constantly. Their's a reason a lot of the community disrespect positive famous black men as being corny and square is because mainly because of a vocal minority that do this disrespect lack the discipline to live a proper life, so when they see someone else doing it, they try to bring the man down to their level.
Alot of crab in the barrel mentality amongst both men and women in the comminitah, when you come across black ppl like that, best to just avoid those said black people, ain't nothing positive coming down the pipe from them.
@@phijona just out of curiosity, what disparaging jokes has he made, because honestly I don't know shit about him outside of fruitvale, dating and breaking up with Lori Harvey, and black panther.
@@Cahluvca It was actually a white woman on fox news who called him a nigg.. shortly after he died and then apologized. If anything, it was the white media who labeled him a r&pi9st. Deal with that and stop blaming BW for his issues and criminal history.
f**k kobe bryant! he bought a whole house for his mother-in-law! kobe's mom did some greedy s**t, so i can understand why he went low contact with her, but you do NOT buy a house for your (___)king mother-in-law who played _no_ role in your growing up. kobe made a 🤡 move by doing that.
This woman said BM use superficial criteria to select women while BW select men on height, looks, swag, fitness, and income. Superficial criteria. You can’t make this up. She sounds silly. At the end of the day, most men and women are average. Excellence is rare in the realm of human performance. It wouldn’t be excellence if it wasn’t rare. It would be common. Average even. Eboni has/had better than average looks but her character undermines her looks to the point where the men she wants don’t want her.
I remember watching a clip of Michael B. Jordan responding to a question about him not liking Black Women after Creed 1 was released. Fast-Forward, he gets with Lori Harvey, then Black Women stop talking trash about him dating White Women. 2022, Lori dumps him and talking trash online that was related towards him, now the Black Women were back to trashing him only because she dumped him and Steve Harvey talking ish as well... 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️... He's gets back with a White Woman and still doing extremely well for himself, while Lori dumps the UK brotha "Damson Idris", which he wasn't on Michael B. Jordan's level in Hollywood! The 1965 Great Society Act started the downfall of our Black Community and our Government already had a projected statistic of our destruction and it's still working right now...
Let's be real Here. The women are the biggest weakest links amongst all of us, easily manipulated, easily influenced, easily can become a traitor, and work against us in every fabric of society, answer me this why thr f*nk do we need these women around us period? Why, if she ain't already cheated. Or pin a baby on you that is not yours, ain't nothing positive come from these women and its time black men see that chit for what it is and cut these women off. 2023 to 2024 stop being a sucker for the women in our comminitah that all view us as suckered. Pookie and ray ray will always get the respect of these women. The culture is chit.
This whole racial BS with Eboni K Williams is something she started by getting off topic from a non-racial question of “would you date a bus driver.” Blue collar workers didn’t come for her over race, they came for her cuz she was sh!tying on the blue collar worker professions. Eboni turned it into a racial issue. Even DJ Envy was staying on point in regards to the initial question about her looking down on blue collar workers, not black men. Eboni turned that simple question into a racial debate when in fact it wasn’t to begin with. I’m still baffled how asking this chick if she would date a blue collar worker (of no specific race) turned into her sh!tting on blackmen. (Had to re-edit, never type and take a deuce at the same time. You get mad typos 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣)
Thank you I was saying the same thing. Even Eboni initially said it's across all races and spectrums because she said she dated all . Then all of a sudden she dissing black men and saying they're not up to par.
My issue is simple. If she's bigger than me let her be she'd have to have one hell of a personality to make up for it and their people that I like that might not be in perfect shape but that's something that's built. You can't be hostile obnoxious and big because you're not going to win in any category with any group of people.
What I find hilarious is that some BW are telling other BW to date WM or to even divest... As if the choice is up to them. Look at the numbers. They're not many WM that are looking to marry BW, much less date them. It's not up to BW to date WM, it's up to WM if they want to take a BW seriously. As history has depicted, They'll lay you down & spray you down, but they won't stay around!
The levels of deflection. Just toss the word "pick me" whenever women hold each other accountable. Her preference isn't the issue the issue is talking down and insulting those who aren't a part of her preference.
We’re just going back and forth over the same nonsense at this point. Let people live their lives and keep it moving. Why does everyone have to fit into a box and why does everyone have to do and agree with everyone else on all these issues?
i find too many of these Pro Black female channels all Stem from Hurt... The Black woman tends to still love to go for the pooky and ray rays and then when hurt, they bring down Johns and shawns. This is not just a black thing. White woman do it when hurt by Chad then all Josh's take the L. Can we just settle and say it's woman LOL
No. It’s a fact. Take a deep breath and think. Let’s be honest, black women love to date and sex black, handsome men. However, most of these men aren’t fit to raise, provide for and take care of a family so when they bounce black men in general become “shit”. But the truth is, had you selected a less attractive but very stable black man who cherished the ground you walked on you would be straight. Let’s stop the bs and get down to it. We are a superficial people and we are paying the price by losing the black family. By wanting it all you end up with nothing. Most black men who are worth something aren’t handsome men. Start making the “sacrifice” and selecting them and save your self black women. And start staying fit and feminine. Long live KS.
I think they do stem from actual hurt but its not all by pookies and ray rays. Its by BLACK MEN. Black men need to accept responsibility. ALOT of black men are players and lie to women. Alot abandon their kids. ALOT dont have a commitment mindset. ALOT dont seem to respect BW. Their hurt isnt coming from nowhere. Meanwhile in the manosphere there are incels talking about women like they know what they are talking about. Men who get laid arent as angry as many of the men in the comments section.
I’ve been married to a black woman for 20 years. I really want these sistas to divest or find whatever they want. Don’t talk about it, be about it. So much tough talk . 🤦🏽♂️
@PhillyAtl..., I agree. Don't know wth is wrong with these millineaum and gen Z BW. Hell, just follow what the other Non European and even European Divisters do just do im if BM are so dispecable. Heck I honestly couldn't blame women of every race divested if they have too. Not enough men who can be quality husbands worldwide to go around any as I see it due to early deaths, being in prison, abusive, etc.
Is this opposite day? Everything this woman is saying in her narration is what blk men go through all the time every single day. The one that's not allowed to have a preference is blk men. What in the hell is she talking about? 🤦🙄
Oshay bringing TRUTH TO MF POWER....DUKE WITH THE TRUTH 💯💯💯💯💯💯 I'm my own man and I'm not trying to be a meat rider, but I rock with with 100 percent shay till the wheels fall of brother ✊🏾
Eboni could say that she would not date a bus driver and nothing happens to her. Let a Black man say that he would not date a Black woman shaped like a BUS, (Lizzo) and he would lose his job and get deletion threats!
@@phijona Scientifically Unattractive? Where did you get that from? Your MISINTERPRETATION of the facial features chart? If you have nothing good to say about the deceased, say NOTHING! Who raised you?
Nah if a black man who is a multimillionaire no matter how he looks was to be asked on national tv or radio that is mostly catered to the black community would he date a woman who is a cashier or waitress etc and if he would have said something a long the lines of what ebony said.. all hell would have broken lose and he would have been forced to apologize.
When did this become about black men, she said she wouldn't date a bus driver unless he owned the bus.. How did this become about black men not being good enough for her?
I can only think of one prominent black man who dates outside the race and actually spoke about it and has not been the same since, that is Taye Diggs. Now, no one takes him seriously and he doesn't get any major roles. He has wifed up an Asian single mother.
I really don't care who swirls. Let them be as they are. Whatsmore, if an average man is not good enough for you, then go elsewhere and get the type of man you really want. The world still turns. As a matter of fact, I enjoy seeing black women with nonblack or HV men. That way they cannot blame anything on us "average" black and non-HV men.
please stop, the everyday bm who dates out for the most part are out with their partners minding their own business and its BW who are disrespectful toward them and looking crazy. BW started this mess years ago writing articles and going on talk shows talking bad about bm dating non bw before there was even social media...even was writing books about it. Most of these men who are in these relationships arent even thinking about another woman outside of the one they're with
@@adub20able This is not about me being a victim nor have I seen BW who date ‘out’ disrespect BM first hand. The division these conversations create is what I am referring to. I’ve been married for 12 yrs so I could give a damn about who people choose to be with..
I'm LIKE 230, What most Black Women in this Society that Speak like this don't understand THEY MAY NOT FIT THE REQUIREMENTS. Just talking down on Black Men. Wanna talk about what they want AND NOT WHAT SHOULD BE FAIR. But they gonna wake up one day, or it may be extremely too late. Good Video Oshay~ Wilmrbadguy
I don’t even know how she managed to switch the debate to make it race related because in the original clip she clearly stated the lack of leadership financially and leading a family was across all racial spectrums because “she knows she dated them all” so why try and spin it n make it about being pro black???
This black AND white mixed reactions to these mixed couples indicate that the Black Woman is "The Boss of This Black Environment". As such, it appears that SHE is not OK with Her Black Man's choosing to get with WW AND even bringing that WW among THEM as an alternative. Which, when he does, she automatically becomes part of the Black Structure. Unlike the BW who, when placed in the same position, would becomes part of the White Establishment, [as far as that's possible], for SHE will still retaining "her blackness" in their eyes. Males and Females are NOT the Same.
Where are they in the headlines? Where are they holding hands with Malcom or MLK? They could’ve slept with them but they weren’t the ones they respected.
She saying people misunderstood what she was trying to say. Well if that's the case who fault is it that people don't get it? I personally think people run around giving advice they don't follow. When I met my wife I could care less what anybody said or thought. People will try to tell you how they feel but if you are in love, bottom line it won't matter. All these people giving relationships advice can only tell you what they would do in a given situation. And if you got to listen to somebody else to make up your mind then don't do it.
Choosing better doesn't mean choosing richer, but that's what too many women think it is. Being rich can make you better at being a jerk if that is what one already is.
She just out here making excuses 4 why she dates white men. Trying 2 throw dirt on bm talking about we ain't going 2 college like we use 2. Damn right they're not. College is nothing more than a debt trap & many of our brother's & many sisters as well have figured this out. U come out of college wt a degree that doesnt pay 4 itself & u cud be in serious financial trouble Ur job pays 150 annually but u got 88k of debt in student loans. & plz don't fall behind on those payments. Bc if u do then there goes ur credit. More ppl in tye black community understand that trade schools are the best way 2 go. & I'm loving it
She said bm have superficial criteria when it comes to dating bw😂😂😂😂. I guess asking black women to be fit and friendly is like asking a stranger for a million dollars. Its simply not going to happen lol
Exactly🤣
right thats all we ask for
If irony and hypocrisy had a face
She really just projected big time. There expectations for bm is high but other races it’s low
Ironically those are the first things they change when they date white men.
The one thing that I learned about a lot of our people is that we're supposedly geniuses on celebrity relationships 'but very flawed with personal relationships.
Preach
I can see very clearly that African American men hate melanated women with a passion. Its embarrassing from where I look.
are we still talking about the geriatric, she’s 40 divorced and destined to stay single forever. Let her disappear into obscurity.
You see she leap frogged over the swirl question when Envy checked her. Eboni is a 🤡
Thx you.
yeah,she straight dodged that question
post the video
Oshay is leaning in this Sunday morning! Appreciate the sermon.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿😆
Oshay you killed this Bro.. I agree with you 100%. Black women have been with White men way before Black men were even allowed to look at a white woman. If shes a dark skin woman fighting colorism but approves of interacial dating, it cancels her whole colorism argument.
The problem isn’t being problack and sleeping white. She’s Anti black male and sleeping white. That’s what the bulk of the backlash is.
She had a whole rant of misunderstood and misleading stats, to bash black men, had nothing positive to say about black men, and we saw that she had a history of working for the whitest productions and being engaged to a 50 year old white man… in her early and mid 30s.
Then, when he made it clear he didn’t want her and neither did the white media outlets… she started her pro black journey. We’re way more observant than that Eboni.
THE H*E GOT HER N*****R WAKE UP CALL & SHE TURNED PRO-BLACK !
Being a follower of radical feminism has been enabled by many in the "pro black" space
Wow 👌 👏 great comment, she's only talking pro blk talk because they don't want her,that's the only reason
Eboni was married. Was he blk or yt?
@@balerikirmu.11 something tells me,you already know the answer to this question, so you tell me,as far as I know he was white, idk, but she fits into the stereotype of, become pro blk,after you realize that they don't want you like that, idk,but this here destroys her reputation for sure,if it's true...like Dr Umar said " I've lost respect..that's not respectable! she might as well be a flea
No one discriminates against dark skinned BW more than dark skinned BW.
Date who you want to but don't hate a certain group or gender because you have a preference 😂... And bad comes in all choices available as long as you choose them 😂
Thank you.. Life is too short... Folks need to mind their own damn BIDNESS!
What Eboni said was based on ENTITLEMENT & PREJUDICE, not preferences or standards; Entitlement is based on EGO !
Yes, she's prejudiced against Blue Collor Workers, & it showed, through her attitude, disrespect &facial expressions.
She snitched on herself, because when she heard Bus Driver, she instantly thought Black Men, & not White Men !
That is why I am not pro-black because black women always try to make sense out of chaos and then get mad when black men express their feelings and standards. Regardless of a woman's race, I'm gonna go where I'm genuinely loved and appreciated.
I have found your comment to be true on both sides. BM getting mad and insulting toward BW when we complain. AND BW being dismissive and insulting toward BM. I don't feel it's too late for a healthier American Black family , but we're gonna have to do much better listening/ forgiving
each other! God bless all.
@@chaneljones3771 Here we go with the "both sides" BS!!! Our issues with each other are not the same. Most of you want BM to be Superman and forever coddling you,.But now men are saying no, most of you don't know what to do except use SIGN language.
That's the " sistahood" for you.
As I asked before
Someone knows who her ex boyfriend is dating now ??
a white woman or a black woman ?
Please help me to know
😂😂
@@chardoncrepuWe're not sure. He doesn't have social media to my knowledge.
look at how the sista's was treating Michael B. Jordan the other day...There's a lot of double standards going on !!!!!!!!!!!
So us saying stop picking pookie and ray ray means to them, go get a millionaire. SMH.
How is she pro black and dating white?
She's anti black male. Forget her.
She is not pro black at all. She is pro bedwinch.
She failed at swirling 😂😂😂😂😂
IDGAF what Eboni or that other chick says about black men. I do care about results! KS opened my eyes to it doesnt matter what black women say, it is what they do.
My thing is the fact that women don't understand that they are being manipulated by Eboni K Williams. This whole issue was never about race to begin with. Eboni K Williams made it about race so she wouldn't look like a gold digger to the man that she actually wants. Seriously, can she prove that every person who had something to say about her comments was black? The answer is no.
She started saying all of that mess to activate the black Sisterhood to protect her and they are falling for it Hook Line & Sinker
They're not being manipulated since they share the same mindset as Eboni.
Facts 👏🏽.
How is she a gold digger for wanting someone at her level?
No one is being manipulated; the black community does have a fetish for humbling black women. You should have picked some down on her luck, defenseless black woman to humble. Eboni won't be humbled. She came back swinging and bruised your egos.
@@phijona that's why yall stay losing because no ones ego is bigger than the BW. If being humble is bad to you then The Most High will surely show you the error of your stubborn ways.
@@phijona Because she’s low level. Once a women is pass 35 their useless to men outside of sex. You see ho her white fiancé dropper her. Like most BW she’s simply undesired.
When I was growing up, my dad was a police officer, and my mother was a letter carrier. My dad had 2 college degrees. My mother had a 10th grade education, and worked as a letter carrier, and also had my half brother that she expected my dad to raise and love. Black men can be accepting and forgiving, but black women can’t.
i refuse to listen to bw even talk at all at this point. just go abrod while they talk to themselves. who cares what they say anymore?😊
Passport ready. Wheels Up!!!
Bryon Allen owner of the Grio also married to white women
Man, we not going to even talk about how they did Donald Glover....
U covered all points in your rebuttal Oshay. Knocked out the park 🏏
The contradiction is blatant and Chrissie obviously didn't think this through. Business as usual, blame it on "Jermaine". "It's always Jermaine's fault" 🤷🏾♂
Protecting comes from obedience to common sense. Women jump into the lions den and complain men didn't protect her.
Is it that her mother was a single mother who drove a bus during her upbringing?????
Oshay you killing em again. 💯 percent spot on.
7:58 What's worse is how Michael B Jordan was talked down by BW constantly. Their's a reason a lot of the community disrespect positive famous black men as being corny and square is because mainly because of a vocal minority that do this disrespect lack the discipline to live a proper life, so when they see someone else doing it, they try to bring the man down to their level.
Michael B Jordan has made unsavory jokes about black women in the past and tried to make us forget by pandering.
@@phijona You don't mean the milk thing?
Alot of crab in the barrel mentality amongst both men and women in the comminitah, when you come across black ppl like that, best to just avoid those said black people, ain't nothing positive coming down the pipe from them.
@@phijona just out of curiosity, what disparaging jokes has he made, because honestly I don't know shit about him outside of fruitvale, dating and breaking up with Lori Harvey, and black panther.
@@phijona stop. Making fun of weave back in 2008 has nothing to do with the man he is now
Koby couldn't even die in peace without being hated on. Never even said anything negative about sisters.
Actions speak louder than words.
The sad part is all the BW who trashed him was where his money went when he died.
Hyena culture
@@Cahluvca It was actually a white woman on fox news who called him a nigg.. shortly after he died and then apologized. If anything, it was the white media who labeled him a r&pi9st. Deal with that and stop blaming BW for his issues and criminal history.
f**k kobe bryant! he bought a whole house for his mother-in-law!
kobe's mom did some greedy s**t, so i can understand why he went low contact with her, but you do NOT buy a house for your (___)king mother-in-law who played _no_ role in your growing up.
kobe made a 🤡 move by doing that.
She is definitely PRO SWIRL.
You can date whomever you want, but you can NOT be speaking on the black community if you won’t even start a family with your own people. Period.
Says who?
Agreed.
Big Facts💯
Typically in strong patriarchal cultures, men build families with whatever women they want. Men create society and culture, women adopt it.
@@RoderickSpode Says logic.
This woman said BM use superficial criteria to select women while BW select men on height, looks, swag, fitness, and income. Superficial criteria. You can’t make this up. She sounds silly.
At the end of the day, most men and women are average. Excellence is rare in the realm of human performance. It wouldn’t be excellence if it wasn’t rare. It would be common. Average even. Eboni has/had better than average looks but her character undermines her looks to the point where the men she wants don’t want her.
U said it twice in two paragraphs.100%!!!!!!!
I remember watching a clip of Michael B. Jordan responding to a question about him not liking Black Women after Creed 1 was released. Fast-Forward, he gets with Lori Harvey, then Black Women stop talking trash about him dating White Women. 2022, Lori dumps him and talking trash online that was related towards him, now the Black Women were back to trashing him only because she dumped him and Steve Harvey talking ish as well... 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️... He's gets back with a White Woman and still doing extremely well for himself, while Lori dumps the UK brotha "Damson Idris", which he wasn't on Michael B. Jordan's level in Hollywood! The 1965 Great Society Act started the downfall of our Black Community and our Government already had a projected statistic of our destruction and it's still working right now...
Let's be real Here. The women are the biggest weakest links amongst all of us, easily manipulated, easily influenced, easily can become a traitor, and work against us in every fabric of society, answer me this why thr f*nk do we need these women around us period? Why, if she ain't already cheated. Or pin a baby on you that is not yours, ain't nothing positive come from these women and its time black men see that chit for what it is and cut these women off. 2023 to 2024 stop being a sucker for the women in our comminitah that all view us as suckered. Pookie and ray ray will always get the respect of these women. The culture is chit.
Go overseas ✈️✈️ and let these modern BW marry themselves strong independent and don’t need a man remember 😎 Sysbm✈️✈️✌🏾
Shut up
Yep. Wheels up.
This whole racial BS with Eboni K Williams is something she started by getting off topic from a non-racial question of “would you date a bus driver.” Blue collar workers didn’t come for her over race, they came for her cuz she was sh!tying on the blue collar worker professions. Eboni turned it into a racial issue. Even DJ Envy was staying on point in regards to the initial question about her looking down on blue collar workers, not black men. Eboni turned that simple question into a racial debate when in fact it wasn’t to begin with. I’m still baffled how asking this chick if she would date a blue collar worker (of no specific race) turned into her sh!tting on blackmen. (Had to re-edit, never type and take a deuce at the same time. You get mad typos 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣)
She ain’t talk about blue collar white men😂😂 come on you cant be serious
She brought up black people so she made it a racial thing and called out Kevin Samuels anyone that followed similar ideology on comedy hype.
Thank you I was saying the same thing. Even Eboni initially said it's across all races and spectrums because she said she dated all . Then all of a sudden she dissing black men and saying they're not up to par.
@@Slyme1bigSo your saying only black men work blue collar jobs?
@@revilloteoj1934 if u read it that what I said. Read it carefully tho because I know comprehension is a struggle for ppl on UA-cam
Its because many know calling out her type is rare....
My issue is simple. If she's bigger than me let her be she'd have to have one hell of a personality to make up for it and their people that I like that might not be in perfect shape but that's something that's built. You can't be hostile obnoxious and big because you're not going to win in any category with any group of people.
What I find hilarious is that some BW are telling other BW to date WM or to even divest... As if the choice is up to them. Look at the numbers. They're not many WM that are looking to marry BW, much less date them. It's not up to BW to date WM, it's up to WM if they want to take a BW seriously. As history has depicted, They'll lay you down & spray you down, but they won't stay around!
They don’t want to hear that part
@Onna Margret they're only interested in a small minority of black women, and that's usually for casual sex.
Why no topics on Shanquilla.... Talk about this so it doesn't fall to wayside!
The delusion is baffling smh
What she did is no different than telling a lie. Passport
The levels of deflection. Just toss the word "pick me" whenever women hold each other accountable. Her preference isn't the issue the issue is talking down and insulting those who aren't a part of her preference.
My assumption is that there was something in the prenup that she did not want and decided it was better to do bad all by herself.
SHE TRIED TO FORCE HIM TO PICK HER... OVER HIS OWN KIDS....
SO HE DUMPED HER !
@@makoshark69x96 omg she's a dab
Talk to em Oshay, these arguments from these women are foolish this is another one of them double standards they benefit from.
We’re just going back and forth over the same nonsense at this point. Let people live their lives and keep it moving. Why does everyone have to fit into a box and why does everyone have to do and agree with everyone else on all these issues?
I don’t understand where this is coming from all of my friends that graduated with me from Prairiview A&M Married black women. Class ‘88 ALL!
good for them but this isn't about your friends though
Kind of hard to use that as an example since that school is predominantly black.
i find too many of these Pro Black female channels all Stem from Hurt... The Black woman tends to still love to go for the pooky and ray rays and then when hurt, they bring down Johns and shawns. This is not just a black thing. White woman do it when hurt by Chad then all Josh's take the L. Can we just settle and say it's woman LOL
THAT IS SIMPLISTIC NONSENSE !
No. It’s a fact. Take a deep breath and think. Let’s be honest, black women love to date and sex black, handsome men. However, most of these men aren’t fit to raise, provide for and take care of a family so when they bounce black men in general become “shit”. But the truth is, had you selected a less attractive but very stable black man who cherished the ground you walked on you would be straight.
Let’s stop the bs and get down to it. We are a superficial people and we are paying the price by losing the black family. By wanting it all you end up with nothing. Most black men who are worth something aren’t handsome men. Start making the “sacrifice” and selecting them and save your self black women. And start staying fit and feminine. Long live KS.
I think they do stem from actual hurt but its not all by pookies and ray rays. Its by BLACK MEN. Black men need to accept responsibility. ALOT of black men are players and lie to women. Alot abandon their kids. ALOT dont have a commitment mindset. ALOT dont seem to respect BW. Their hurt isnt coming from nowhere. Meanwhile in the manosphere there are incels talking about women like they know what they are talking about. Men who get laid arent as angry as many of the men in the comments section.
These women be making sht up in they head
I’ve been married to a black woman for 20 years. I really want these sistas to divest or find whatever they want. Don’t talk about it, be about it. So much tough talk . 🤦🏽♂️
This is a woman's comment. Yah right.
YOU ARE JUST AS BAD AS THEY ARE !
@@makoshark69x96 Because??
@@PhillyAtl I agree with you bro. Just go.
@PhillyAtl..., I agree. Don't know wth is wrong with these millineaum and gen Z BW. Hell, just follow what the other Non European and even European Divisters do just do im if BM are so dispecable. Heck I honestly couldn't blame women of every race divested if they have too. Not enough men who can be quality husbands worldwide to go around any as I see it due to early deaths, being in prison, abusive, etc.
"A checklist of superficial criteria" oh you know she hating.
3:51 "choose better" does not mean "choose money". It means "choose character" which women seem to be allergic too.
Absolutely and a half, they are so contradicting
Why didn't she stay that about Maya Angelou and the famous feminist liar Alice Walker? Who all married white men. Funny how she ignored that.
Bm are not mad. We don’t gaf if y’all divest! BYEEEEEEE
We are seriously close to DOOM for our people. Seriously!!!
It's sad how much we hate ourselves.
We're way past DOOM into a full-blown apocalypse. 😳
It’s already over.
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT BECAUSE....
ALL THE BEST BLACKS ARE WORSHIPPING THE WHITES !
HALF BREED BABIES DO NOT HELP THE BLACKS ONE BIT !
IT DILUTES OUR POWER & OUR STRENGTH !
Good rhetoric Oshay, all facts.
I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH YOU OSHAY!!!
I think she simply got use and was dumped.
What do black men want from black women other than be fit feminine and friendly with 1 to no kids didn't realize that was superficial.
That's not being strong and independent, according to them.
So frustrating. So many enemies and black-men haters on social.
Is this opposite day? Everything this woman is saying in her narration is what blk men go through all the time every single day. The one that's not allowed to have a preference is blk men. What in the hell is she talking about? 🤦🙄
Its gaslighting BW have been doing forever
Typical word salad and mental gymnastics. In other words....a bunch of BS trying to sound intelligent.
Taking them down one at a time O shay you have my support
Oshay bringing TRUTH TO MF POWER....DUKE WITH THE TRUTH 💯💯💯💯💯💯 I'm my own man and I'm not trying to be a meat rider, but I rock with with 100 percent shay till the wheels fall of brother ✊🏾
I like how she takes date better men translate to finance not character
Actions speak louder than words.
Cornell West is married to an Ethiopian Woman
When the grift has been allowed to become so ingrained, infighting is the only form of discourse.
SO men arent shame for everything? we cant say anything with out them coming at us TF.
Eboni could say that she would not date a bus driver and nothing happens to her.
Let a Black man say that he would not date a Black woman shaped like a BUS, (Lizzo) and he would lose his job and get deletion threats!
Kevin Samuels said that black women were scientifically unattractive and nothing happened to him.
Well, actually... respectfully...
@@phijona Scientifically Unattractive?
Where did you get that from? Your MISINTERPRETATION of the facial features chart?
If you have nothing good to say about the deceased, say NOTHING!
Who raised you?
Nah if a black man who is a multimillionaire no matter how he looks was to be asked on national tv or radio that is mostly catered to the black community would he date a woman who is a cashier or waitress etc and if he would have said something a long the lines of what ebony said.. all hell would have broken lose and he would have been forced to apologize.
She has indeed gotten A LOT of backlash for it.
Shaped like a bus. 😂😂😂😂😂 unfortunately there are far too many that do look like Greyhounds with long ass horse hair hanging off the back. 😅😅😅😅
When did this become about black men, she said she wouldn't date a bus driver unless he owned the bus.. How did this become about black men not being good enough for her?
Projection
@@vanessaroper3028 who's projecting?
I can only think of one prominent black man who dates outside the race and actually spoke about it and has not been the same since, that is Taye Diggs. Now, no one takes him seriously and he doesn't get any major roles. He has wifed up an Asian single mother.
And I think James Earl Jones.
She mix
@@mikekeyes78 she is mixed but not a black woman. She is half asian. most black woman with 4c hair would not identify with her
I really don't care who swirls. Let them be as they are. Whatsmore, if an average man is not good enough for you, then go elsewhere and get the type of man you really want. The world still turns.
As a matter of fact, I enjoy seeing black women with nonblack or HV men. That way they cannot blame anything on us "average" black and non-HV men.
Unfortunately they will still find a way.
That's y relationship don't work because women think about money and all men think about is looks
All this sh*t just needs to stop. The everyday BM who dates ‘out’ does not treat BW respectfully-I’ve seen it, first hand.
Due to black women embracing ratchethood and single motherhood, yes, that's true. Why respect a woman like that?
please stop, the everyday bm who dates out for the most part are out with their partners minding their own business and its BW who are disrespectful toward them and looking crazy. BW started this mess years ago writing articles and going on talk shows talking bad about bm dating non bw before there was even social media...even was writing books about it. Most of these men who are in these relationships arent even thinking about another woman outside of the one they're with
neither do the black woman who date out treat black men respectfully so stop being a hypocrite and playing the victim.
@@adub20able This is not about me being a victim nor have I seen BW who date ‘out’ disrespect BM first hand. The division these conversations create is what I am referring to. I’ve been married for 12 yrs so I could give a damn about who people choose to be with..
@@spiritualbaepodcast but yet you’re on this comment board, talking about it….
I love how people consider speaking on a subject a "meltdown". If we as a whole ignored you, you'd have a meltdown
I'm LIKE 230, What most Black Women in this Society that Speak like this don't understand THEY MAY NOT FIT THE REQUIREMENTS. Just talking down on Black Men. Wanna talk about what they want AND NOT WHAT SHOULD BE FAIR. But they gonna wake up one day, or it may be extremely too late. Good Video Oshay~ Wilmrbadguy
Why we acting like only black people drive the bus
I don’t even know how she managed to switch the debate to make it race related because in the original clip she clearly stated the lack of leadership financially and leading a family was across all racial spectrums because “she knows she dated them all” so why try and spin it n make it about being pro black???
I'm still waiting on all these passes these B-Dubs keep saying we have as brothas. You can't even date a light skin sista without catching hell!
That's so true.
This black AND white mixed reactions to these mixed couples indicate that
the Black Woman is "The Boss of This Black Environment". As such,
it appears that SHE is not OK with Her Black Man's choosing to get with WW
AND even bringing that WW among THEM as an alternative.
Which, when he does, she automatically becomes part of the Black Structure.
Unlike the BW who, when placed in the same position, would becomes
part of the White Establishment, [as far as that's possible], for
SHE will still retaining "her blackness" in their eyes.
Males and Females are NOT the Same.
Martin luther King Jr dated a white woman too.,so did malcolm x.
When did mlk date a white woman
Where are they in the headlines? Where are they holding hands with Malcom or MLK? They could’ve slept with them but they weren’t the ones they respected.
No Luke Warm pro blacks 😂
Make it make sense 🤷🏿♂️
Let the church of Oshay say amen. Preach
The only thing i can agree with her is on the pro-black men dating white women or non black women.
I really believe, most of these bloggers have mental issues. The internet has turned into journals for em to regurgitate b.s .
Exactly.
I can not until real men get in front of these women and have real conversations
But if you date a pookie or Ray Ray, your point falls short.
A man will put his life on the line for his woman and children no amount of money can do that
Lol!! Tell that to single mothers
Eboni looks like she's related to that guy she was with the resemblance is uncanny
It’s nasty for grown ppl to be worrying about who dating who
No it isn't. It's just weird after a certain point. Never nasty. Bad choice of words
Her stank-face when she answered tells it all ...
I've learned to not put much weight to what any pro black says. I pay attention to actions because they reveal everything.
Smart
Great video and absolutely no lies told.
Btw Oshay your right ive never seen a brother go on the tubes and say that
You on point on this content..
You're always on point 💯💯💯
She saying people misunderstood what she was trying to say. Well if that's the case who fault is it that people don't get it? I personally think people run around giving advice they don't follow. When I met my wife I could care less what anybody said or thought. People will try to tell you how they feel but if you are in love, bottom line it won't matter. All these people giving relationships advice can only tell you what they would do in a given situation. And if you got to listen to somebody else to make up your mind then don't do it.
I just want this divester to do one thing for me. Let me see you do the swirl 😂🤣😂🤣😂 Miss if he owns the bus. FOH!!!!!!
Choosing better doesn't mean choosing richer, but that's what too many women think it is. Being rich can make you better at being a jerk if that is what one already is.
@Oshay123.._._ don't exactly know how that works.
She just out here making excuses 4 why she dates white men. Trying 2 throw dirt on bm talking about we ain't going 2 college like we use 2. Damn right they're not. College is nothing more than a debt trap
& many of our brother's & many sisters as well have figured this out. U come out of college wt a degree that doesnt pay 4 itself & u cud be in serious financial trouble
Ur job pays 150 annually but u got 88k of debt in student loans. & plz don't fall behind on those payments. Bc if u do then there goes ur credit. More ppl in tye black community understand that trade schools are the best way 2 go. & I'm loving it
Talking bout a GUT punch..Get her Bro
Hearing a black woman dog men for their standards is rich…. She is on the wrong end of delusion.
Most black men have the same standard as Brad. Once you leave don’t come back with you and brads creation. Keisha hates being an outcast….
BM Starve the Market and sit back n watch.