@@beradical695 I had a massive crush on a girl for like 7 years from when I was like 10. I got rejected early but we stayed friends, years later i tried a couple more times and she always hit me with the maybe. Every ounce of your being might be telling you that there's a chance, but the fact is that even if there is, it's so small that the the downsides just aren't worth it, king.
@@beradical695 it’s going to hurt a lot to walk away from that situation, but it will always be worse if you stay. I went through this, it was painful and I didn’t think it could get worse. Now years looking back, I wish I made the choice of walking away earlier but I am still happy I do it. Hopefully everything is alright with you my man, it does get better.
Talking to someone on the left about poverty: " You can't just tell someone to get a job! It's not that simple to get out of povertyt" Talking to the person on the left about dating: "Just get a good job and become rich and sucessful"
I like Eris but her advice is useless. It requires you to know exactly what the woman you're attracted to is attracted to and then change yourself to fit that image. Unless you are already a few steps close to that image, you're going to crash and fail because you're trying to be something you are not
Really wasn’t prepared for how bad faith she was coming off for the majority of this conversation. She finds it so easy to have an open and engaging conversation that this stumped me a little. missed the middle part of the arc I guess; whatever friendly chemistry they had initially is completely amiss.
I've never even been on a date or kissed anyone and I am 28 years old. I do not have certain person in mind or trying manage to be anything i am not except my mental illnesses. Just to live on your own is impossible and i really need anyone.
I don’t get how Steven saying he hates condoms is that bad a thing. It doesn’t mean he wouldn’t ever use them. He would just rather find another option if possible. There are plenty of things that are very obviously necessary for people to use/do to stay healthy and yet , still hate them. Like I hate needles and still get shots for vaccines. But I would 100% prefer any other option if at all possible.
Her advice of try to be the person you think the person you want wants you to be is the dumbest advice I’ve ever heard. All you have to do is give the advice of work on yourself meaning, stay in shape, take care of your responsibilities and be self reliant. If a woman doesn’t want you when you’re at your best then it’s never gonna happen anyways
Truly that's the most toxic and unhealthy way to change yourselves. You shouldn't change yourself for others especially women. You should do it for yourself
Every time I watch Destiny and someone else talk dating advice, it just makes me want to lock myself in my room and die alone. Like basically the only way to not die alone is I have to change my entire lifestyle, looks, financial situation, goals, personality, etc. Just doesn't really seem worth it. I feel like I would just be more miserable than I am now if I had to do all that just to get someone tgaf about me.
Dude, trust me, it's not as dire as you think. Making small changes a little at a time is good, and you should always try to better yourself, but I've had some of the sweetest and most wholesome people care about me even at my worst. What they talk about is generally true, but I promise you it's not law. Don't give up. Work on yourself little by little, you'll find her eventually.
I don’t understand this comment. Almost every time he discusses saying, he says that every single person on earth can become a 7 with small changes. That’s pretty uplifting imho If you’re talking about the tangents where he talks about his personal life, at 8:41 he says he tries to never give advice from his personal life. Eris makes the mistake of using her personal life a a hot woman who’s also successful to extrapolate to all normal people. that’s not the same as Destiny giving general advice intended to normal people. He always says “my personal life and personal style isn’t relevant for most people”
Same, pretty much all advice I hear from Destiny and Erudite puts me down, it's all fake it and be quiet and accommodate women and make sure to do this and that for them, while never showing your true self.
@@thebronzemanticore that's not true. I can see why you might think that, but you're looking at it from just one perspective. Things take time, whether that's relationships, building yourself up, ect. Everyone has to play the game early on and present themselves almost like you would at a job interview, but the goal is to work towards an understanding between people so you can be yourself without coming off the wrong way. Its hard to be good for ANYONE when you're at a bad place in life. For 11 years I was MISERABLE to where even my best friends were tired of me sometimes. Its not easy to care for someone at their worst. Don't buy into just one side. Things are rarely so simple. Take it a little at a time and build yourself into what YOU want to be. Eventually, people will want to be in your company more and more. I promise you
This was pleasant, and I back what Destiny said on here. Except for one little thing; people need to drop the idealism of themselves and instead go to evolve their current selves into the ultimate or respectable height of themselves. The saying "Just be yourself" is the BEST advice anyone can hear and follow through with. Because if you want a long term relationship any chick you get has to be the one to stay with you at both your best of times, AND your worst. Otherwise they're the wrong person for you, one that would leave your ass at a heartbeat when times are tough.
😂😂 she said “I’d have to get specific info for direct advice” and takes about a guy liking a psyc major girl and her advice was “go to the gym, get a job, and there’s plastic surgery.”
When people say " jus 🐝 yurself bro" what they are trying to say is stop seeking validation because everyone thinks validation seeking behavior is gross and pathetic. They're not telling you to keep doing what you're doing because most people that struggle socially are self conscious validation seekers.
The start of this conversation was so autistic. I think the average well adjusted dude, when he imagines the person he wants to be with, imagines someone realistic and doesn’t only think about how hot they are but considers the spectrum of qualities in a partner
Being able to smell a beautiful queen’s spit, period blood, discharge and sweat after her workout would be an honor>~< I want to cherish and worship everything about girls, women are perfect creatures:3
This advice to become the person that the one you want would be attracted to is so fucking toxic. Figure out who you are, then try to be the best version of yourself. You'll attract people and if they aren't attracted to you then who gives a fuck? Want to be unattractive? Make it seem like you're trying to become the person they want and therefore have zero confidence in yourself. Confidence goes a long long way. You won't be happy with someone who's attracted to you while you're not being yourself. Short-term. It might be fun because they're hot or whatever but long-term. You spend a lot more time talking to someone then fucking them. You better like their personality and vice versa.
@@shun2702 the majority of people working from home now are not high school nerds first of all. And second are you saying that all it takes to work from home is to have had a relationship and some number of public experiences in the past? Cause I think you’ll find that like 95% of people meet that criteria.
@@MJ-jc9gj you understand that this video was about strictly saying and how working from home affects dating, right? You seem to misunderstand pretty badly what was said
@@shun2702 i understood fine there is just no reason a dude who has worked from home for like 10+ years at this point should think its going to adversely effect people so badly. It doesn't effect him poorly in the friend scene or dating scene. And he 99% of the time has met most of his friends and sexual relationships online from home first before he ever had a real world interaction with them. Its silly that he thinks everyones lives would fall apart when he is the predominant example that it doesnt have too.
@@MJ-jc9gj Except it's not as easy as you think? Idk why you try to base this off of him, but I find it weird it's hard for you to imagine how people would have trouble socializing these days. He didn't say that remote work is the big bad reason, but it sure as hell isnt helping the depressed, lonely virgin generation we've been seeing rise for the past few years
Edit: (I should add I have been in the worse case scenario in the past myself, and doing these things by taking smaller steps and setting smaller achievable goals, got me out of that situation) In the worse case scenario if you have little social skills, and are depressed and have anxiety etc, the first thing you need to try and do is seek professional help, and you can do so online too. Yet exercise and eating well, and looking after your skin and hair, will also massively help, yet this can obviously be very difficult to do so if you are depressed, and if you aren't in a position where you can flick a switch and go this is the day or week that I make these changes, try and take smaller steps, start by even just getting a fold away exercise bike and going on it for even a minute to five minutes a day, try and cut down on the junk food, or just make sure you have one healthy meal a day, or even every other day etc, buy some moisturiser, if you are not already doing so, try and play games online and talk to people through that if you are to anxious to meet people in real life. Everyone is different but I do think if you do all things I said things will definitely turn around, so again if you are not able to do those things, take smaller steps to be able to do so, and if you get to a point where you can go to gym, yoga or art classes etc, but you feel you can't talk to women there, still go, just to build up your social skills. And set yourself smaller targets, such as going on your exercise bike for five minutes a day, and eating one healthy meal a day for one week End of edit. If a guy who is currently below average looking say a 3 or a 4 out of ten, or even a 2, just gave themselves 3 years they would be shocked by how much things can turn around. In 3 years if you eat healthy, only wholemeal and organic food, no refined sugars etc (use organic honey if you want to make something sweet) find a good skin care routine, work out, find a good haircut for yourself and religiously get it cut every 4 weeks at least (Regular haircuts are good for your hair) spend some actual time picking out some outfits, get out in the sun, take vitamin and mineral tablets, drink 2 litres of water a day, and try and work your way up to a slightly above average wage, (or even average wage if you haven't got that yet) Plan your finances, move out, get a half decent car, and learn to cook etc, and give up any bad habits such as smoking, coffee, alcohol and weed etc. if any 2-4 guy did all these things for 3 years I think they would be very surprised how easy it is to find a meaningful relationship with an attractive level headed and interesting etc 18-25 year old woman. Once you look and feel better, don't mess around with dating sites, just go to the mall, coffee shops, gaming stores, wherever and when you see a girl you like the look of just intentionally cross eye paths (Give her a very subtle smile if you aren't too nervous) with her, and if she smiles and her eyes light up, go and talk to her. And you can also just join certain groups etc, go to yoga or gym class, language class, acting whatever takes your interest. Until you try to do absolutely everything you can, I don't feel you have the right to complain or even to just sit there wondering where you are going wrong.
@@ThinWhiteLuke Loool ha ha I had to look that name up. Haven't seen the film. What's so wrong with basically becoming healthier and meeting women in the real world ?
@@kimilsungthefirst6840 There's a difference between a woman politely smiling and a woman smiling at you because she finds you attractive, and if she is smiling you in that way, again you can tell by their eyes, they are not going to be put on edge as that is just their way of inviting you to talk to them. Never had a woman not give me her number etc after she's given me that sort of smile, it's when guys just randomly appear in front of them that they get put on edge and understandably so, again I don't know how else to describe it, but their eyes light up when they are interested (And I'm not some 10 out of 10 guy either)
@@BongoMCee I had to look up what you meant exactly by that ha. I mean it's not easy, but what else can you do, if you are struggling in regards to women. And again you can't really complain if you haven't tried your best.
I guess i misunderstood what he meant when he said he was against it. I would agree with what you guys said, but I still wouldn't say I'm against plastic surgery by itself
Orthodox means traditional or a more classically accepted form of worship. Orthodox jews usually follow more extreme versions of the laws that other jews follow. No using machines or electronics on sabbath, wearing clothes of mixed fabrics, I think you cant be around your wife when shes on her period. See the book year of living biblically
Open relationships don’t work. Guys enter into it thinking it’s benefiting them, but it ends up being their partner trying to find the next meal ticket or backup plan
Working out solves like 80% of female issues for males. If your face is really fucked up you might still have some trouble, but tbh being fit counts for a lot, like you'd be surprised by how much. Looks do matter, but men overestimate how much. Charisma can triumph over looks, but you need to be gud. Good news is for 90% of guys simply getting jacked will get you women, since it makes your face look better and you generally look hotter for women. So literally just workout for 3 months consistently and with clear goals and you will see more matches, more results. For me personally on online dating, make sure you're very sexually aggressive right away. Not like rapey, but make it known you want to have sex at some point.
I agree with you until the very end about the sexually aggresive part. I feel like this would be good if you want to hookup but I don’t believe it is a good strategy if what you seek is a long term relationship since you would undoubtedly shoos those women who wants long-term relationship away.
@@usaball9190 I recently made that mistake with long term. The girl wants you to assert man to woman relationship. So you wanna be sexy to her in every case, but just in long term relationship maybe don't escalate so much on a date to have sex and take it slower. But the initial moves must be sexual to some degree or you're friend zoned.
I started taking the gym really seriously about three months ago, and reading this was honestly reassuring, thx I also agree with you about the whole looks/charisma part. If you're naturally self-confident and charismatic, many women will feel drawn to you anyway, even if you only look average. It's easier though to get better looking than to just develop this kind of self-confidence out of nothing. Maybe you should think about giving dating advice online lmao
@@hannesboos1549 I mean I will help a guy I see in despair, but most of this is just common sense. Girls like strong and dominant men, so workout and you will get more girls. It also raises your own confidence, testosterone, your sex drive, and has a myriad of health benefits long term.
Yes and no. I'm incel, so I agree that looks are almost everything, but fuxk me man, that's 3 years at least since my genetics for muscle building are terrible. With no reward. I don't even feel that happy after finishing a workout, but it's supposed to give me endorphins. I hate this shitxhudegegdhdhr FUXK FUCK FUCN HEHDBDHD
Wait why is Destiny anti-plastic surgery? Just as one example, a nose job can be life changing for some people. Not saying it's for everyone, but to be "anti-plastic surgery" seems weird to me.
Gotta love how destiny keeps blaming his reddit community for acting like incels, and then he keeps showing the most pessimistic, deterministic view of dating and women imaginable. Consistency steven, c'mon
its not that hard to get 6-8 girl. above average pretty girls are perfectly attainable by normal men. the issue is u have kids like destiyn who never want to leave sc2, never go to gym, wear shit clothes etc. Any guy can get a pretty girl if they try. the idea that a large % of guys if they try cant get a decent girl is ultra cope.
Guys just remember, if she says no, it hurts short term, if she says maybe it hurts long term.
Listen to this man. I'm going through the worst time in my life so far by far because of this.
@@beradical695 I had a massive crush on a girl for like 7 years from when I was like 10. I got rejected early but we stayed friends, years later i tried a couple more times and she always hit me with the maybe. Every ounce of your being might be telling you that there's a chance, but the fact is that even if there is, it's so small that the the downsides just aren't worth it, king.
@@pihajzvetrom1120 even if there is a chance the truth is it’s not worth it you were never her first choice shell never be that into you.
@@beradical695 it’s going to hurt a lot to walk away from that situation, but it will always be worse if you stay. I went through this, it was painful and I didn’t think it could get worse. Now years looking back, I wish I made the choice of walking away earlier but I am still happy I do it. Hopefully everything is alright with you my man, it does get better.
@@pihajzvetrom1120 bro maybe means no. Stop trying you look so desperate. Go talk to other women and shoot your shot there.
When I go to the gym and see someone who has a lot of work to do I'm just impressed and motivated by their effort. Same with runners etc.
Yeah this person sounds like they don't leave the house often.
27:28 "maybe one day I'll dye my hair blue"
Foreshadowing
Talking to someone on the left about poverty: " You can't just tell someone to get a job! It's not that simple to get out of povertyt"
Talking to the person on the left about dating: "Just get a good job and become rich and sucessful"
I fuckin love and respect undefined abstract concepts so FUCKING much.
You must be a MrGirl viewer!
Unironically better content than the main channel. Thank you daliban
Oh man i love women so much it hurts, i love women, i loooove women, I LOVE WOMEN
Can you define love?
She has been broken by hollywood stereotypes
I can't love things I can't define.
I like Eris but her advice is useless. It requires you to know exactly what the woman you're attracted to is attracted to and then change yourself to fit that image. Unless you are already a few steps close to that image, you're going to crash and fail because you're trying to be something you are not
Really wasn’t prepared for how bad faith she was coming off for the majority of this conversation. She finds it so easy to have an open and engaging conversation that this stumped me a little. missed the middle part of the arc I guess; whatever friendly chemistry they had initially is completely amiss.
I LOVE WOMEN
I've never even been on a date or kissed anyone and I am 28 years old. I do not have certain person in mind or trying manage to be anything i am not except my mental illnesses. Just to live on your own is impossible and i really need anyone.
Watch tykwondoe
@@unknowndu9637 yessir
13:25 Arcadum reference, fucking hilarious
lul
I've understood 17.9% of it
By the grace of Tyr, I love women!
I don’t get how Steven saying he hates condoms is that bad a thing. It doesn’t mean he wouldn’t ever use them. He would just rather find another option if possible. There are plenty of things that are very obviously necessary for people to use/do to stay healthy and yet , still hate them. Like I hate needles and still get shots for vaccines. But I would 100% prefer any other option if at all possible.
Imagine having to wear a condom while getting a shot, now that would be annoying!
Everyone hates condoms. Doesn’t mean I don’t use them.
Her advice of try to be the person you think the person you want wants you to be is the dumbest advice I’ve ever heard. All you have to do is give the advice of work on yourself meaning, stay in shape, take care of your responsibilities and be self reliant. If a woman doesn’t want you when you’re at your best then it’s never gonna happen anyways
Truly that's the most toxic and unhealthy way to change yourselves. You shouldn't change yourself for others especially women. You should do it for yourself
Every time I watch Destiny and someone else talk dating advice, it just makes me want to lock myself in my room and die alone. Like basically the only way to not die alone is I have to change my entire lifestyle, looks, financial situation, goals, personality, etc. Just doesn't really seem worth it. I feel like I would just be more miserable than I am now if I had to do all that just to get someone tgaf about me.
Dude, trust me, it's not as dire as you think. Making small changes a little at a time is good, and you should always try to better yourself, but I've had some of the sweetest and most wholesome people care about me even at my worst.
What they talk about is generally true, but I promise you it's not law. Don't give up.
Work on yourself little by little, you'll find her eventually.
I don’t understand this comment. Almost every time he discusses saying, he says that every single person on earth can become a 7 with small changes. That’s pretty uplifting imho
If you’re talking about the tangents where he talks about his personal life, at 8:41 he says he tries to never give advice from his personal life. Eris makes the mistake of using her personal life a a hot woman who’s also successful to extrapolate to all normal people. that’s not the same as Destiny giving general advice intended to normal people.
He always says “my personal life and personal style isn’t relevant for most people”
Same, pretty much all advice I hear from Destiny and Erudite puts me down, it's all fake it and be quiet and accommodate women and make sure to do this and that for them, while never showing your true self.
@@thebronzemanticore that's not true. I can see why you might think that, but you're looking at it from just one perspective.
Things take time, whether that's relationships, building yourself up, ect. Everyone has to play the game early on and present themselves almost like you would at a job interview, but the goal is to work towards an understanding between people so you can be yourself without coming off the wrong way.
Its hard to be good for ANYONE when you're at a bad place in life. For 11 years I was MISERABLE to where even my best friends were tired of me sometimes. Its not easy to care for someone at their worst.
Don't buy into just one side. Things are rarely so simple. Take it a little at a time and build yourself into what YOU want to be. Eventually, people will want to be in your company more and more.
I promise you
@@Rohtix if a person wants me to "play a game", why the fuck do I need to put up with them?
This was pleasant, and I back what Destiny said on here. Except for one little thing; people need to drop the idealism of themselves and instead go to evolve their current selves into the ultimate or respectable height of themselves. The saying "Just be yourself" is the BEST advice anyone can hear and follow through with. Because if you want a long term relationship any chick you get has to be the one to stay with you at both your best of times, AND your worst. Otherwise they're the wrong person for you, one that would leave your ass at a heartbeat when times are tough.
Female leftist dating advice let’s go finally the key to success is revealed
Who also for sure doesn’t go outside very often. I mean.. I LOVE WOMEN
😂😂 she said “I’d have to get specific info for direct advice” and takes about a guy liking a psyc major girl and her advice was “go to the gym, get a job, and there’s plastic surgery.”
When people say " jus 🐝 yurself bro" what they are trying to say is stop seeking validation because everyone thinks validation seeking behavior is gross and pathetic. They're not telling you to keep doing what you're doing because most people that struggle socially are self conscious validation seekers.
“Maybe blue someday..” Show nuff🤣
27:15 brooooo
LOL I immediately looked for this.
No more conversations with fake vtubers
The start of this conversation was so autistic. I think the average well adjusted dude, when he imagines the person he wants to be with, imagines someone realistic and doesn’t only think about how hot they are but considers the spectrum of qualities in a partner
13:55 rant went crazy
Being able to smell a beautiful queen’s spit, period blood, discharge and sweat after her workout would be an honor>~< I want to cherish and worship everything about girls, women are perfect creatures:3
Dangerously based, her piss as well. Especially if she is a four foot ten Asian girl.
📸📸📸📸📸 caught on 8k HD 60 fps
My brother in christ. You are down apocalyptic
Pray for this man with me 🙏🏼
I cannot accept this comment
Divorcestiny is so coooked
I dont watch the main channel at all. daliban hq is where its at baby. Destiny is light years behind this dude
This advice to become the person that the one you want would be attracted to is so fucking toxic. Figure out who you are, then try to be the best version of yourself. You'll attract people and if they aren't attracted to you then who gives a fuck? Want to be unattractive? Make it seem like you're trying to become the person they want and therefore have zero confidence in yourself. Confidence goes a long long way.
You won't be happy with someone who's attracted to you while you're not being yourself. Short-term. It might be fun because they're hot or whatever but long-term. You spend a lot more time talking to someone then fucking them. You better like their personality and vice versa.
They didn't give any advice lmfao. I'll socialize more tho since I don't have an interacting job.
Goon, I love women, goon. Goon! I love women. I love women. Goon. Women! Women!
Can't be a chad and be in an open relationship.
hell yeah this rules
Destiny's nuts if he thinks I'm eating a meal with a bunch of meat eaters
Lmao Destiny how can you say work from home and doordashing every meal is bad when that is literally your life?
There is a difference between a dude in a relationship that has the experience of doing shit irl and a HS nerd working only from home at early 20s
@@shun2702 the majority of people working from home now are not high school nerds first of all. And second are you saying that all it takes to work from home is to have had a relationship and some number of public experiences in the past? Cause I think you’ll find that like 95% of people meet that criteria.
@@MJ-jc9gj you understand that this video was about strictly saying and how working from home affects dating, right? You seem to misunderstand pretty badly what was said
@@shun2702 i understood fine there is just no reason a dude who has worked from home for like 10+ years at this point should think its going to adversely effect people so badly. It doesn't effect him poorly in the friend scene or dating scene. And he 99% of the time has met most of his friends and sexual relationships online from home first before he ever had a real world interaction with them. Its silly that he thinks everyones lives would fall apart when he is the predominant example that it doesnt have too.
@@MJ-jc9gj Except it's not as easy as you think? Idk why you try to base this off of him, but I find it weird it's hard for you to imagine how people would have trouble socializing these days. He didn't say that remote work is the big bad reason, but it sure as hell isnt helping the depressed, lonely virgin generation we've been seeing rise for the past few years
Edit: (I should add I have been in the worse case scenario in the past myself, and doing these things by taking smaller steps and setting smaller achievable goals, got me out of that situation) In the worse case scenario if you have little social skills, and are depressed and have anxiety etc, the first thing you need to try and do is seek professional help, and you can do so online too. Yet exercise and eating well, and looking after your skin and hair, will also massively help, yet this can obviously be very difficult to do so if you are depressed, and if you aren't in a position where you can flick a switch and go this is the day or week that I make these changes, try and take smaller steps, start by even just getting a fold away exercise bike and going on it for even a minute to five minutes a day, try and cut down on the junk food, or just make sure you have one healthy meal a day, or even every other day etc, buy some moisturiser, if you are not already doing so, try and play games online and talk to people through that if you are to anxious to meet people in real life. Everyone is different but I do think if you do all things I said things will definitely turn around, so again if you are not able to do those things, take smaller steps to be able to do so, and if you get to a point where you can go to gym, yoga or art classes etc, but you feel you can't talk to women there, still go, just to build up your social skills. And set yourself smaller targets, such as going on your exercise bike for five minutes a day, and eating one healthy meal a day for one week End of edit.
If a guy who is currently below average looking say a 3 or a 4 out of ten, or even a 2, just gave themselves 3 years they would be shocked by how much things can turn around. In 3 years if you eat healthy, only wholemeal and organic food, no refined sugars etc (use organic honey if you want to make something sweet) find a good skin care routine, work out, find a good haircut for yourself and religiously get it cut every 4 weeks at least (Regular haircuts are good for your hair) spend some actual time picking out some outfits, get out in the sun, take vitamin and mineral tablets, drink 2 litres of water a day, and try and work your way up to a slightly above average wage, (or even average wage if you haven't got that yet) Plan your finances, move out, get a half decent car, and learn to cook etc, and give up any bad habits such as smoking, coffee, alcohol and weed etc.
if any 2-4 guy did all these things for 3 years I think they would be very surprised how easy it is to find a meaningful relationship with an attractive level headed and interesting etc 18-25 year old woman.
Once you look and feel better, don't mess around with dating sites, just go to the mall, coffee shops, gaming stores, wherever and when you see a girl you like the look of just intentionally cross eye paths (Give her a very subtle smile if you aren't too nervous) with her, and if she smiles and her eyes light up, go and talk to her. And you can also just join certain groups etc, go to yoga or gym class, language class, acting whatever takes your interest.
Until you try to do absolutely everything you can, I don't feel you have the right to complain or even to just sit there wondering where you are going wrong.
So cope bro
Sounds like an in-depth tutorial on how to become Patrick Bateman.
@@ThinWhiteLuke Loool ha ha I had to look that name up. Haven't seen the film. What's so wrong with basically becoming healthier and meeting women in the real world ?
@@kimilsungthefirst6840 There's a difference between a woman politely smiling and a woman smiling at you because she finds you attractive, and if she is smiling you in that way, again you can tell by their eyes, they are not going to be put on edge as that is just their way of inviting you to talk to them. Never had a woman not give me her number etc after she's given me that sort of smile, it's when guys just randomly appear in front of them that they get put on edge and understandably so, again I don't know how else to describe it, but their eyes light up when they are interested (And I'm not some 10 out of 10 guy either)
@@BongoMCee I had to look up what you meant exactly by that ha. I mean it's not easy, but what else can you do, if you are struggling in regards to women. And again you can't really complain if you haven't tried your best.
What a surprise.
Wait, why is he against plastic surgery?
It usually makes people look worse.
Also it probably isn't a viable option for most people when it comes to self improvement.
I guess i misunderstood what he meant when he said he was against it. I would agree with what you guys said, but I still wouldn't say I'm against plastic surgery by itself
Cause it's pointless, and a waste of money
@@nomercynodragonforyou9688 so are 99% of american film and television
what is an orthodox jew? a jewinsh person who follows orthodox christianity? I am BIG consfused
Orthodox means traditional or a more classically accepted form of worship. Orthodox jews usually follow more extreme versions of the laws that other jews follow. No using machines or electronics on sabbath, wearing clothes of mixed fabrics, I think you cant be around your wife when shes on her period. See the book year of living biblically
Open relationships don’t work. Guys enter into it thinking it’s benefiting them, but it ends up being their partner trying to find the next meal ticket or backup plan
Working out solves like 80% of female issues for males. If your face is really fucked up you might still have some trouble, but tbh being fit counts for a lot, like you'd be surprised by how much.
Looks do matter, but men overestimate how much. Charisma can triumph over looks, but you need to be gud. Good news is for 90% of guys simply getting jacked will get you women, since it makes your face look better and you generally look hotter for women. So literally just workout for 3 months consistently and with clear goals and you will see more matches, more results.
For me personally on online dating, make sure you're very sexually aggressive right away. Not like rapey, but make it known you want to have sex at some point.
I agree with you until the very end about the sexually aggresive part. I feel like this would be good if you want to hookup but I don’t believe it is a good strategy if what you seek is a long term relationship since you would undoubtedly shoos those women who wants long-term relationship away.
@@usaball9190 I recently made that mistake with long term. The girl wants you to assert man to woman relationship. So you wanna be sexy to her in every case, but just in long term relationship maybe don't escalate so much on a date to have sex and take it slower. But the initial moves must be sexual to some degree or you're friend zoned.
I started taking the gym really seriously about three months ago, and reading this was honestly reassuring, thx
I also agree with you about the whole looks/charisma part. If you're naturally self-confident and charismatic, many women will feel drawn to you anyway, even if you only look average. It's easier though to get better looking than to just develop this kind of self-confidence out of nothing.
Maybe you should think about giving dating advice online lmao
@@hannesboos1549 I mean I will help a guy I see in despair, but most of this is just common sense. Girls like strong and dominant men, so workout and you will get more girls. It also raises your own confidence, testosterone, your sex drive, and has a myriad of health benefits long term.
Yes and no. I'm incel, so I agree that looks are almost everything, but fuxk me man, that's 3 years at least since my genetics for muscle building are terrible. With no reward. I don't even feel that happy after finishing a workout, but it's supposed to give me endorphins. I hate this shitxhudegegdhdhr FUXK FUCK FUCN HEHDBDHD
Wait why is Destiny anti-plastic surgery? Just as one example, a nose job can be life changing for some people. Not saying it's for everyone, but to be "anti-plastic surgery" seems weird to me.
Destiny works from home, lmao
Its over
Gotta love how destiny keeps blaming his reddit community for acting like incels, and then he keeps showing the most pessimistic, deterministic view of dating and women imaginable. Consistency steven, c'mon
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its not that hard to get 6-8 girl. above average pretty girls are perfectly attainable by normal men. the issue is u have kids like destiyn who never want to leave sc2, never go to gym, wear shit clothes etc. Any guy can get a pretty girl if they try. the idea that a large % of guys if they try cant get a decent girl is ultra cope.