Before You Do, After You Did | Destiny Decisions | Part 7 | Jerry Flowers
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
- Marriage does not heal toxicity. There are some things that must be uprooted in singleness and there are also some things that should be cultivated in marriage to create two whole and healthy people that will ultimately affect the world positively.
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I forgave my mom. I am 35, don't know my dad's name, mom died when i was 16, she took it all to her grave, but mom i forgive you🙌🏾
Wow, your courage speaks volumes! I love this! I wish more sisters were brave like this! ❤🫶🏾😇
@@MekaluvsJesus thank you 🌟🌟🌟
It could have been a relative or something really hard for her to bear or talk about. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN. 💜💛❤️
Your strong strong yo😢😢😢😢😢😢💪💪
Thank you for sharing!!! This minister to me !!!! I’m forty one just lost my mom and my sister in less than a year!! My dad died when I was 19 and wasn’t really a good dad. I’m having issues with loneliness and knowing my identity and purpose and my husband is now divorcing me. I have no family and I’m hurt and feeling like what is it all for. But to hear your story gives me hope because if he did it for you he can do it for me.
🙌🏾 *Before You Do Anything; Get Wisdom*
God’s not going to say yes … just because we want it. Oh my Jesus help me!
He didn't lie.
Not even 5 minutes in and it’s too hot for the park (tried to get a sermon in AND watch the kids at the same time)🥴😂😂😂 Definitely coming for my life right now! I need pen and paper for this type of teaching 😩😭🙌🏼
YES!!! ✍️✏️📝🙌🏾🙏🏾
😂
SPEAK, LORD
I said the same thing!!
IF IT AIN'T KINGDOM AND PURPOSEFUL, I DON'T WANT IT! Preach Pastor Jerry!
Wowsas. "We want Kingdom things Cultural ways. We want the favor of God and the comfort of our trauma AND dysfunction AT THE SAME TIME." -Pastor Flowers
That’s a word
" if it ain't kingdom and not purposeful, I DON'T WAIT IT"
This is literally one of the BEST sermons I have EVER heard!! Men need to hear this period!
Yeah. Everyone need to hear it, to be honest.
I’m in South Carolina but will travel to Texas to be in a Women Conference by Lady Flowers. Yes….I’m here for it❤️💙💜
Same. I went on Easter and it was great
Amen. That would be nice, in Jesus name.
Same! I would travel from Oregon 🙏🏼🙏🏼
If it ain’t Kingdom and not purposeful, I don’t want it. I don’t want it if it’s not Kingdom and purposeful.
My goodness i have probably heard so many sermons from Pastor Jerry and Pastor Tinisha but ….this one …this one hit different because it led me to really observe my patterns in my single season and my family’s systems of dis functionings …
I hope there’s more next Sunday
Thank you so much for this. It is an answered prayer. I had to make a final decision on a relationship last week and I chose Kingdom. I begin to question my decision with all the thoughts the enemy placed in my head, but this was confirmation that I chose right! Thank you!
NOTHING like confirmation for a life changing decision! I'm SO GLAD you got it. Won't he do it!!
Currently still trying to figure mine out as well. Prayers .. 🥺🤍
@@VictoriaMeeker Sometimes there's nothing to figure out. It's right in your face. It's just a matter of acceptance.
@@reginadavis1028 sometimes it is a feeling .. I know. And the Holy Spirit guiding me.. I feel it is in my face due to the fact hes married in another country and lied but I got attached to the family and him.. He’s also been abusive physically and he keeps saying he’ll change and loves me and getting the divorce .. I feel stuck and alone at this point, my family obviously is upset. Jerry has talked about that being a counterfeit scripture, sending a husband .. he push and pulls with me for two years and got stuck in the cycle. I left he came back twice.. and I engaged more this time due to his grandma passing and my heart. I’ve told him multiple times I want him to work it out with his wife or be happy but of course all the lies and stories, and gaslighting keeping a happening. He’s 29 lives at home, and takes care of family which I’m not judging it’s also a Filipino culture along with Catholic .. I’m Christian and want Kingdom. I know most people say what are you doing? But I feel stuck and attached and my heart loves him and I don’t want to be a hypocrite Christian .. he has degraded me and left me even when I got pregnant .. it’s hard and I’m still trying to keep pressing in 🥺 he now does not want to be with her, and paying her every month I guess I feel stuck in this cycle now and praying strongholds to break. I’m a giver and co dependent in some aspects dealing with a narcissistic relationship and family as well but it’s hard when he cries and says he loves me after he has threatened to slap me or drag me out of the room and I act out in his dysfunction.. just needs prayers 🥺 Jerry is definitely being used in many ways and speaking to me and I know God gives him that 🤍🤍🙏🏼
Same! I was on the fence about my divorce but this sermon confirmed that God released me from my husband. He turned from God and our family, and Jerry spoke a word into my spirit that released me! Thank you Lord
When trying to find a KINGDOM spouse. Ask yourself is he a leader. Can he LEAD-HER? The bedroom shouldn’t be the only place a man can lead you.
This message. Now, on fire 🔥 from the beginning!!!!! Whoa 🤯 The Lord spoke LOUDLY! As a single parent, a Christian, a believer of the Lords word is hard to navigate singleness topics but this right here… made so much sense because it highlighted the old wrong way and it pointed to the right kingdom way. Wether is for marriage or simply serving the Lord. May it all be for his glory. So grateful for this word! 👏👏👏
I love that man and wife are up there teaching together ❤
Whoooo! Talk some more!
Some people Writin’ they own “Word” and callin’ it “Truth.” Preach!
35:05 Mrs. Flowers just slapped me with some truth 👏🏼🙌🏼
So so so so so so good 🙌🏾❤️🔥🙏🏾!!!!!!!!!
THIS WAS OVER EXCELLENT! ...I AM SO OVERLY EXCITED FEAR DOES NOT LIVE WITH REDEFINEDTV ...
I'm screaming.. oooooooo🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Lord thank you for my friend Roshonda she gave me this to watch and I needed to hear this thank you
I don't wanna settle for anyone anymore. I only want the one I was created for. God willing, we will find each other in this lifetime.
Tired of discovering fruit was rotten after taking a bite. God give is discernment
Please, please do the sermon/conference/therapy Thursday on the “high value man”/“high value woman” 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Preach! MRS. FLOWERS!!!
Thank you Pastor and Mrs. Jerry Flowers for your role among God's people and in the body of Christ. For those who are still trying to heal their soul from all these dysfunctional and traumatic experiences, I'd love to recommend the ministry of Katie Souza by checking on his videos here on UA-cam titled; Healing Your Soul. It has 50 episodes and it'll definitely turn your life around. God bless you all.
This message is 💯 🎯 my upbringing , my life my current condition . We were talking about this JUST YESTERDAY !! I still need healing , & deliverance. BUT GOD .
Pastor Flowers, please do longer sermons 😩 you always have so much more to say, but cut it short. This was so good 🙏🏽
This is SO much confirmation. This is what I was speaking about with my sister in Christ earlier on today. Lord have mercy. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Jesus. Glory be to God. Thank you Lord, Jesus. I thank you Lord for this man and woman of God and ministry. Thank you Lord, Jesus. Glory be to God. Thank you Lord, Jesus.
whew yes, my pain has changed my whole personality and mood now that daily I have a black cloud that follows me. I’m hard on myself because I let God and myself down. I’m in a healing phase now..
I know me too!
If it ain’t kingdom and not purposeful, I DON’T WANT IT!!
You Are Definitely Talking Pastor!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
👏🏽 👏🏽powerful
This sermon was everything and more! God is good. I really learnt a lot and will continue to put all the things that was revealed to me during this sermon before God. Thank you to Pastors Mrs and Mr Flowers for being obedient God bless you both!
PASTOR JERRRRRRRYYYYY!!!!!!!!! Thank you for this message CONFIRMATION!!! May God continue to BLESS you and your Wife Tinesha with these downloads from Our Heavenly Father
🙌🏽 this is the confirmation of my singleness.
Sometimes it's not just ignorance sometimes they willfully and purposefully hurt you knowing it's wrong and still do it any way because they don't want to do anything different
Yes
My God this is so real & powerful. I needed this more than I even knew.
So good thanks 😊💛💛
This real and I'm loving it we should normalize talks like these...Mr Flowers can we have a Purity Series I'm seriously battling sexual purity due to being exposed from childhood please this is a urgent request 😢
Sincerely, I wish I could be in Houston and be part of the move of God in your church! Thank you for sharing your message. 💖♥️🙏🏽
My God, this is so freeing and so confirming all at the same time and I'm not even 30min in! Thank You Holy Spirit! And I love you guys!❤
Love this sermon! Pastor Jerry always bring the heat! May God continue to use and bless this man!!! I look forward to Sunday's and through the week.
Incredible dialog. Being healthy and whole is so important 'before' making decisions for marriage. Don't ignore red flags. They don't get better in marriage. Be prayerful before the biggest leap of your life!
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MYYYYYYY GOSHHHHH THANK YOU!!!!!!! I AM WILLING TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!! JESUS!!!! I AM WORKING ON MARRIAGE #5 MARRIAGE IS GRACE GLORY!!!!!! THIS IS IT!!!!!!!
This message was for me !
Before I do acknowledge the trauma.❤
IF IT AIN’T KINGDOM, AND NOT PURPOSEFUL, I DON’T WANT IT!
God, thank You for the joy You give me while I learn to walk in Your will. Thank You, God for Jesus so I may live with the Holy Spirit in me. God, thank You for the gifts of joy, patience and discernment so I may easily recognize Your path for me and walk in it with gratitude and glory to YOU!
This is the one!!
Amazing Sermon thank you🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
Love his preaching. Truth. Just literally saying what everyone thinks or has thought. God let your will be done. ❤
IF IT AIN'T KINGDOM AND PURPOSEFUL I DON'T WANT IT!! AMEN!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thanks!
This word was necessary
Thank you for this message at this time in my life it hit at the right time.Its a new season for me in my life thank you when I was ignorant and didn't know any better this really hit home for me.
This is so deep
SPEAK PRECIOUS HOLY SPIRIT. LORD HAVE MERCY. I THANK YOU LORD, JESUS, FOR THIS CONFIRMATION. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. GLORY BE TO GOD.
IF IT AIN'T KINGDOM AND NOT PURPOSEFUL I DON'T WANT IT AMEN!!!
Pastors' Flowers', you are both such powerful and passionate children and teachers of Gods word. Thank you so very much for being obedient to his voice . God Blessyou both 🙏 🙌 🤍!
Deliver and set free LORD. I hear her...
This was soooo good! Thank you God for this message
I messed up and entertained a counterfeit got married and had a child. Now we are separated and we have a 2 year old. I was lied to douped and deceived... Now i don't know what to do.. How to rebuild making better decisions
This teaching is evry_THANG!!!!!
My God today! Whew coming for my neck. I’m learning so much. I ask God to cover and keep you both and your ministry
My God this is one of the best entrees yet! Pastor Jerry keep feeding us this God food🙏🙏
I live in Oklahoma, but yea I'll
Be coming to an in person sermon, I always experience wakes up calls, and rejuvenation after watching a sermon.
It's crazy, because I'm more attached to this online involvement watching videos all the way through, than any church in my city.
I'm listening, keep teaching and reaching.
Your sermons open my soul in those dark, "spider web", dusty places... where I haven't dealt... oooh wee.... healing is on the other side though.
If it ain’t kingdom and not purposeful I DON’T WANT IT!!!!!!!!
This is so good. I was reflecting on some of this with my mom yesterday and much of it confirmation of my process over the past six to seven years. 🙏🏽
Preach the Truth Pastor’s Mr. & Mrs. Jerry Flowers!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾… Amen!🙏🏾
This message was real and necessary. There are so many gems in this message.
Thank you for this message 🙏🏾
He was on fire with this one lol the ladies stayed hyphy in the audience
If ain't kingdom i don't want it in my life 💯 amen
AMEN. EXACTLY. THAT WAS PRETTY GOOD ADVICE FROM HIS DAD IN A SENSE. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. THANK YOU, LORD JESUS. AMEN. 💜💛❤️
Come on pastor Flowers.. Yes!!!! Preach Holy Ghost!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This video really blessed me!!! He spoke a lot of facts and things the church need to preach about more often!! “If it’s not kingdom and not purposeful, I don’t want it”
My God you Preached that thing! I am a living witness to these truths. Thank you for this teaching. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
🙋♀️ I'm the adult 😒 but GOD! HE'S doing a work IN me! Glory!
I love when you guys do this style of teaching. It's so good for us to see healthy examples.
IF IT AIN’T KINGDOM, AND NOT PURPOSEFUL, I DON’T WANT IT! Amén 🙏🏽
Perfectly stated message, if it ain't kingdom and not purposeful, I don’t want it.
This sermon was really really edifying. Pastor you are truly anointed and I love listening to your sermons on my drives to work. It really helps me prepare my day
I was laying in bed this morning having a pity party bc I want to find someone (not just anyone) to marry. I was doing the whole “Why God….” thing as I was praying. Closed out my prayer & was like “maybe I need to watch some Pastor Flowers while I start getting ready for work” Y’all this was the FIRST video when I opened UA-cam 🙏🏼🤯
I enjoy his and her teaching omg this the real food I’ve needed 🎉
Get wisdom is to FIRST fear GOD...Proverbs 1:7; 2:6
If it ain't kingdom and not purposeful, I don't want it! Amen!! Thank you Abba, good good Father!
Wow it’s like this man is in my life right this MOMENT!! The scales are falling off my eyes!!
4:35 hit me to tha core!!!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you Holy Spirit for the answer to my question…
GLORY BE TO GOD. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. HALLELUJAH. GLORY BE TO GOD. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS.
Amen to it all.🙌🏾✊🏾. I needed to here this in my time of singleness.
Pastor I am SCREAMING 😭 thank you for keeping it all the way real. 👏🏾👏🏾
I love y'all so much !! I've been on this page for awhile & I owe y'all a big thank you for passing this wisdom & pushing me to UNLEARN
IF IT AIN'T KINGDOM AND NOT PURPOSEFUL, I DON'T WANT IT.....AMEN
If God ain’t in it, I want no part of it!!
Take It There Pastor 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank yall. Praise God.
This sermon was on 🔥 within the first 5 minutes! Sheesh!
This is soooo good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for this amazing word. 🙏🏽