How To Emotionally *DETACH* Set Clear Boundaries and Be Happy

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024

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  • @AshaChristinaFoster
    @AshaChristinaFoster  Рік тому +19

    Oh HELLO THERE HIIII it’s meeee back at it again with another video, to help you elevate and feel great baby!!! Can we get this video to 1k likes? Today is my moms bday!!! So it’s an extra special day 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @faithinchrist6971
      @faithinchrist6971 Рік тому

      All Praises to The Lord for another year of Life for your Mom 🎊🎊
      Good stuff, Asha❤‍🔥
      The imitation voice of "If he wanted to, he would" had me rolling 🤣🤣
      I have no times to attach myself like Velcro to Dirt. I wouldn't even stick🥱🥱

  • @UniquelyHerz
    @UniquelyHerz Рік тому +68

    We want to make things work with other ppl, but not make things work for ourselves. I felt that !

  • @JaneeLeeSanders
    @JaneeLeeSanders Рік тому +14

    That last part, detaching from wanting more for your friends because you aren’t their guardian was me a few years ago! Such an important take away. It was also the main reason why I was having friction with my own friends. I don’t think I was coming from a judgmental point. But definitely was overly invested and cared wayyyyyyyy too much.

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  Рік тому

      Yes this is so key. We all want the best for our loved ones. Who doesn’t? But we are not their parents and some people are just so blind to the fact that they have this energy about them and they want to know everything about people, but they wonder why no one tells them anything and it’s just because they always have a judge mental/opinionated thing to say about their friends and no one wants to share anything with anyone with that type of energy. So I am very proud of you for recognizing that!

  • @oseazeke8148
    @oseazeke8148 Рік тому +12

    If it’s that fragile, baby let it break - Asha Christina 2023.

  • @sallytemraz8614
    @sallytemraz8614 Рік тому +35

    Class in session 📝

  • @itswellnessjess
    @itswellnessjess Рік тому +18

    "After the age of 25, it's giving prefrontal cortex activity" is sending me 😂 We should absolutely be developed by then, and the excuses pretty much expire. All I hear are FACTS!

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Рік тому +5

    It's definitely easier to out our blinders on when we are attracted to someone! I have been guilty of that before.

  • @whitneybright5471
    @whitneybright5471 Рік тому +21

    Always the message I need to hear. Literally god sent!❤

  • @sophiecatz9705
    @sophiecatz9705 Рік тому +20

    Everytime you upload a video it’s a reminder to myself to focus on me❤️ you’re a total queen, love you girl😘

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  Рік тому +2

      That’s exactly how I want you to feel! So thank you for letting me know 🥹 and I appreciate you !

    • @sophiecatz9705
      @sophiecatz9705 Рік тому

      I feel like I’m going through an upgrade and it’s very lonely, all men are bullshit and there are barely any friends once I have standards. But I think once I continue to grow the right people will find me. Where can I find more motivating people like you?

  • @staceywood7800
    @staceywood7800 Рік тому +8

    Find someone who cares, treasures and will be there for you 🙏💛✨

  • @meshiameshia
    @meshiameshia 3 місяці тому

    This video hurt me so bad literally crying cause im going through this right now 90 days later “ confused about being with me or not” idk its like this whole video u were talking to me thank God for u was a huge wake up call u never dissapoint thank you ❤️❤️

  • @Maggietheebaddie1948
    @Maggietheebaddie1948 Рік тому +2

    You spoke the truth. I stopped caring about others and gossip and focusing on me and bettering myself and detaching from bullshit and expectations and taking people for who they are. ❤

  • @saylaaclaude1998
    @saylaaclaude1998 Рік тому +1

    she's the sister and friend everyone needs ! i love you Asha 💌💌

  • @amberpalmer3708
    @amberpalmer3708 Рік тому +15

    I’m excited for the coaching!! The message on not forcing things for your loved ones and focusing on yourself was so important ❤

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  Рік тому +1

      Oh you guys are going to looooooove it I’m getting all my materials together 😇

  • @sophiecatz9705
    @sophiecatz9705 Рік тому +2

    I totally agree, when you set boundaries, you are happy. I learnt to set my boundaries from watching your videos over the years. Learning to prioritise and value your own time is so important👍🏻❤️

  • @K4Kat93
    @K4Kat93 Рік тому +3

    I needed to hear this tough love. Very blunt but yet still polite.

  • @SpanishBarbieWorld
    @SpanishBarbieWorld Рік тому +1

    You’re the very honest, confident, intelligent, high value friend that we all need !!

  • @corrinaengram8022
    @corrinaengram8022 Рік тому +2

    Needed this a friend who is like a sister sent this and I'm so thankful for her because she knows I'm so broken right now. I am gonna trust God because I know this to shall pass.

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  Рік тому +2

      Awwwww you have a very amazing friend 🥰

    • @corrinaengram8022
      @corrinaengram8022 Рік тому

      @@AshaChristinaFoster Thanks I just saw your comment sis don't know you ,but appreciate you saying something. Black women go through so much we are expected to be so strong we can be both strong and human..God Bless you sis and hope you enjoy your holidays along with GODS BLESSINGS!!

  • @sailorlionheart5344
    @sailorlionheart5344 Рік тому +5

    Asha thank you for opening my eyes every video, there's always something to learn when you speak to us 💛

  • @PorscheLatrice
    @PorscheLatrice Рік тому +5

    Whew!!!! I needed this
    Thank you❤️❤️❤️

  • @angelycvoice
    @angelycvoice Рік тому +3

    Good topic and your makeup looks so good. You look refreshed and glowy and beautiful 💁🏻‍♀️

  • @make_emfall_inlovee
    @make_emfall_inlovee Рік тому +3

    Welcome back …. Thank you for this gem 💎

  • @barbaracalabro873
    @barbaracalabro873 9 місяців тому

    Strong bounderies are crucial....calmly create yours and stick to them.💖

  • @SD-ci6kz
    @SD-ci6kz Рік тому

    Omg a dedicated bedroom video again! Thank you for this Asha!!! This really actually helps people. I was literally ruminating when I got the notification for this post.
    I am literally in the process of letting go of people I invested so much time and effort in and getting my motivation to move forward from where I am, with who and what I do have, in the present.

  • @amaona5096
    @amaona5096 Рік тому +1

    Your videos help me SO much. Its like you can put my thoughts into words and find solutions to the problems. Thank you!💖

  • @lisa99chabrol93
    @lisa99chabrol93 Рік тому +3

    Yeh when ya exercise and write in your journal it does help😇😇💐💐

  • @rivers9023
    @rivers9023 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Asha! You’re gorgeous
    Love your advice you feel like a sister to me. ❤

  • @itsDr.CC_
    @itsDr.CC_ Рік тому +1

    thanks for speaking to me. this was needed

  • @kimberlynabors4825
    @kimberlynabors4825 Рік тому +3

    This was So good and needed right now! Thank you Asha!

  • @jonellrosales510
    @jonellrosales510 Рік тому +4

    Really enjoyed this video. Thank you

  • @whitneybright5471
    @whitneybright5471 Рік тому +4

    Quality is amazing queen!❤

  • @lydiahanoucha7271
    @lydiahanoucha7271 Рік тому +1

    Girl you are GLOWINGGGG🧚✨✨✨... Love from North Africa ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @hanavaughan6956
    @hanavaughan6956 Рік тому +4

    Wow this was so great and such perfect timing 😢

  • @IasiaEarth7
    @IasiaEarth7 Рік тому +1

    This message and video was so on point! Thank you Asha 💛

  • @Ariasosaxo
    @Ariasosaxo Рік тому +1

    I haven’t watched you videos but this lesson was very much needed

  • @ruthsusername
    @ruthsusername 7 місяців тому

    brought me back to reality- thank you

  • @lisa99chabrol93
    @lisa99chabrol93 Рік тому +3

    Loving the consistency miss you girl ❤❤😊😊🙏🙏so true some ppl don't care about you jus so😊😊you got to care for yourself

  • @nerdzel185
    @nerdzel185 Рік тому +1

    queen shit fr ❤ . I love u so much, I fr think my situationship came into my life so I can watch someone like u and actually find my self-esteem and self-respect back!!! I actually am a better person now no joke
    Truly, the opposite of love is indifference

  • @jainabadarboe1047
    @jainabadarboe1047 5 місяців тому

    "If its that fragile, let it break!"

  • @hanavaughan6956
    @hanavaughan6956 Рік тому +1

    And asha… you look ABSOLUTELY stunning.. like wow
    Literally first thing I thought

  • @caribbeancurls1963
    @caribbeancurls1963 Рік тому +2

    This neeeeds more likes! Very well said thanks sis

  • @Elishajorden
    @Elishajorden Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video sis 🙏🏽🥹💚💚💚

  • @kharisspencer
    @kharisspencer Рік тому +2

    yes ive been waiting on an updated video !!!

  • @faiththeresa4515
    @faiththeresa4515 Рік тому

    Literally making things work for ourselves!!

  • @shaniyadunchie
    @shaniyadunchie Рік тому +2

    Hi Asha! I watched the video already but came back from your Instagram message ❤

  • @sukanyabose8282
    @sukanyabose8282 8 місяців тому

    I absolutely love love love your videos ❤

  • @Kimmyha43
    @Kimmyha43 Рік тому +3

    Love you and your content!

  • @faythking6123
    @faythking6123 Рік тому +1

    Helpful as always

  • @GaleMendoza-s1i
    @GaleMendoza-s1i Рік тому +1

    you look super gorgeous Asha💕💕💕💕 love your look

  • @yessiolivo9966
    @yessiolivo9966 6 місяців тому

    Big sis energy ❤

  • @thepetitepa
    @thepetitepa 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much love!!!

  • @Erica-en2qz
    @Erica-en2qz Рік тому +2

    Happy Birthday to your mom!🎉

  • @ThePeacesweeetie101
    @ThePeacesweeetie101 Рік тому

    saving lives out here

  • @shine2678
    @shine2678 9 місяців тому

    Thank you soooo much!!!❤❤❤

  • @susanmccabe6217
    @susanmccabe6217 Рік тому

    I love you so much 😍 best teacher ever . And i will say it over and over . Mind u im 30+ 😅

  • @KBfitnesss
    @KBfitnesss Рік тому +2

    I love your personality

  • @MaryBarbie-l1h
    @MaryBarbie-l1h Рік тому

    You look stunning! What is the lip combo? I’ve been searching for something similar 🥺

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  Рік тому

      Omgosh it’s pay my rent one size beauty LIP liner. Then it’s buxom power full plump lip balm in Dolly fever. And lip gloss. It’s my legit go to!

  • @belovednbeauty328
    @belovednbeauty328 Рік тому

    I’m trying to be strong and think wiser for me . 😢

  • @soniamajumdar6518
    @soniamajumdar6518 Рік тому +1

    My favourite girll slaying again ...😍✨.. love from India ...❤

  • @dairiesofa
    @dairiesofa Рік тому +1

    Here from the IG group chat ❤

  • @jessicalong6011
    @jessicalong6011 5 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @KBfitnesss
    @KBfitnesss Рік тому +1

    I love it i love it all

  • @LauraMSandu
    @LauraMSandu Рік тому +1

    Hiii from the ig broadcast channel!! ❤

  • @Toocoolnessa
    @Toocoolnessa Рік тому +1

    great video girl

  • @danielastoica3354
    @danielastoica3354 7 місяців тому

    We would like the lists with what produces dopamine, oxytocin etc. ❤ Many thanks and best regards

  • @lavenderhoney777
    @lavenderhoney777 Рік тому

    I want to share with you a problem. I am a college student 1st year.
    There is a girl in our department, she used to be my closefriend, now we are not. So she spread rumors about me. She told everyone in our department not to share any notes / study material to me. And there is not a single one in our class disobey her.
    I am just asking , my mental condition is not well. I am suicidal. I suffered from severe depression. But still now I'm surviving my life with the help of , medicine and medication. I don't know what to do in this moment. I started hating my college. Please tell me the solution , it'll be very helpful:)
    Thank you !

  • @alliel.4762
    @alliel.4762 Рік тому

    Truth!

  • @hope3894
    @hope3894 Рік тому +1

    Yay ❤❤

  • @evav3167
    @evav3167 9 місяців тому

    ❤thank you

  • @cinnamongirl7519
    @cinnamongirl7519 11 місяців тому

    🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 amazing content!!!!

  • @honeymayfair-rt9tc
    @honeymayfair-rt9tc 11 місяців тому

    👏👏👏

  • @theoo.o
    @theoo.o Рік тому +1

    Asha’s that blunt big sister I go to when I know what I need to do but don’t want to😫

  • @numertrzy5108
    @numertrzy5108 5 місяців тому

    i don't want to be in romantic dynamic, I would rather be in the financial one

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes

    ‼️‼️

  • @nadeigejean9824
    @nadeigejean9824 Рік тому +1

  • @poisedwithpurposeco
    @poisedwithpurposeco Рік тому +4

    The heart is deceitful! Yes ma'am! Perfect timing for this video, especially since it applies to friendships too. Have a blessed week A-team! 🥰🩷🎀

  • @PearlOabile-v9b
    @PearlOabile-v9b Рік тому +1

    Love youuuuu❤❤❤❤

  • @ayoolaakisanmi4242
    @ayoolaakisanmi4242 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful woman

  • @melissabarrett3088
    @melissabarrett3088 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @monique1389
    @monique1389 Рік тому

    I love you boo

  • @yaniquewilson8362
    @yaniquewilson8362 Рік тому +1

    Girl I miss see u in your room

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  Рік тому +1

      I’ll be in my room my studio and my car! We have three places now🥰

  • @law11school11girly
    @law11school11girly 9 місяців тому

  • @joliearytravels
    @joliearytravels Рік тому

    He keeps liking half naked girls pictures 😢 and searching up other women on Instagram. I spoke to him about it and the conversation got flipped on me. 🙄 I feel like I should’ve let it go, and stay quiet. He’s been unbothered, I’m trying to be unbothered like him but it’s so hard. It bothered me that he’s still following those women he’s been searching up. I just want to not care anymore. 😢 I unfollowed him on social media. I’m so angry.

  • @CreatewithQueen
    @CreatewithQueen Рік тому

    My beautiful I miss you

  • @Brittbabe17
    @Brittbabe17 Рік тому +2

    I needed every word. Thank you so much for this video

  • @theoo.o
    @theoo.o Рік тому +1

    Like I do that Tequila 🫣🤣 okay not too much now

  • @stephanie387
    @stephanie387 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤