People don’t realize being skinny means more than just fitting into clothes! People let you get away with more things when you’re both pretty in the face and body. Do you think you would’ve gotten the same reaction if you were skinny and wearing pajamas with a bonnet on? That’s a deathly combo 🤣🤣💕
K…now take those pjs + bonnet and put them on a morbidly obese woman. Who of the two will likely be noticed first, and then subsequently judged, for their disheveled appearance in public?
@@serenitylofiiii I had the same experience as you. But I think it greatly depends on where you live. Where I’m from, everyone is big. Even the doctors are obese. When I moved somewhere where people are slimmer and more into fitness, hiking, etc, that’s when I started getting treated decently.
For me I was more sexualized when I was thicker vs when I’m slim i get away with wearing less clothes and not seeming “too sexy” or “promiscuous” but if I wore those same outfits when I was thicker there was always so much hyper fixation and sexual attention on my body parts I feel like I’m taken more serious when I’m slim
Oh 110%. Naturally, I tend to run on the slim side. However, when I was on the depo shot as a teenager, it made me gain a good 30 pounds. I tend to gain weight in my chest, hips and butt. I was also a good two inches shorter than I am now in full adulthood. For a good two years of my life I had to walk around with the most ridiculous looking Jessica rabbit type proportions. It was actually deeply mortifying and I always felt very uncomfortable in my own body. Men were _disgusting_ to me too. I was just a little 13, 14 year old teenage girl and grown ass men constantly approached and harassed me.
I have experienced the same thing. I’m now slim thick after being slim my whole life. I love being voluptuous, but it comes at a price. I even had to cut off a male friend recently because he started to sexualize my fashion.
Do you feel good at a bmi of 18 ? I’m honestly genuinely asking for myself because I’m wondering what is a healthy weight that I can withstand without feeling too tired. I’m 5’7 and I weigh 185 pounds right now and I want to be around 150 or 155 lbs, that’s for a healthy weight but I don’t know. Do you think I should aim for a lower weight ?
@ honestly I am BMI 18 (130lb) cause I lost weight cause of stress, I am not underweight so I still look good, I am hoping to gain weight to bmi 20 which is 140lb for my height (5’8) and do body recomposition and gain muscle! I think 150 is great, my original goal was 150 but then i didn’t look exactly how I wanted; tldr set a realistic goal at first and then see how u feel
@@headlinerkth thanks so much! 💕☺️ That’s definitely my plan, get to 150, see if I like it or not and then move from there. If I like it, my plan like yours is to be skinny and then gain muscle for a toned but cute look for myself.
I love these kinds of videos!! So many people are trying to convince me of not losing weight because i am naturally curvy, im slim but still overweight by exactly 30 lbs. I live with my mom and shes starting to police when im eating and when i go to the gym, buying extra sweets. Its like they dont want me to look even MORE stunning like how greedy of me to stack on more privileges on top of the many others i have.
I love people who are honest! My friend and I are brutally honest lol.... she has 5 kids and looks amazing! She does not use it as an excuse, works out, and always looks good! She doesn't use having A man and kids stop her.... shes very honest with me about weight or just getting things done period!
Everything u say is literally so true. In the past when I used to be underweight, I would post fashion try on hauls on my Instagram and I've always loved fashion so it makes me happy to do that but I noticed that when I was underweight, ppl would report my stories for "self harm and eating disorders" even tho I was just showing cute outfits and then when I was a healthy weight, fit and also on the more bigger side cuz my body size has been at both spectrums, I was basically ignored, 3 ppl watched my stories and I would never get reported. I'd get back on my fitness game and start getting reports again. It's insane like wtf. Why do I have to suffer cuz someone else is insecure
Ladies, my story is almost identical to her and she speaks the absolute truth his weight loss videos. My friends actually thought that this was my channel and I was just doing it secretly. Because I went from a size 12 down to a size 0 I am also as you.I love hearing what you have to say because you took the words right out of my mouth. The only difference is I have been chubby my whole life until I lost weight.
One thing about your channel there is no sugar coating or telling women what they want to hear, the truth is truth and I love that about you. I’m currently over weight use to be skinny like size 2-4 all my life till I had my kids. I remember people always commenting on my weight that I was to skinny or any thing else negative about me, as soon as I was bigger no compliments or that I look better then being skinny, nothing so of course fake concern. I will lose the 20 pounds I gained im more determined then ever to be skinny and stay that way for life, life was much better and clothes fit me better being slim. ❤
@@200zsprite4 yes. Black men never hit on me. I’m a black woman. Black men say they like curvy women. And I guess the dusty black man did hit on me. But when I got skinny, every single type of black man started hitting on me from athletes to nerdy, black guys only date, white girls.
Heavy on the youthful aspect of being thin. I was at work yesterday at there were a group of people who walked in. Men and women. I was busy so I only spared a few glances. I thought it was a mom and her teen daughter (maybe 15-18) with a few more men. When I actually looked up properly at them I realized the “daughter” was actually a woman in her mid thirties, maybe early 40s. She was wearing yoga pants, a baggy sweater & had medium length hair. Which is usually what teen girls wore. She was around 5’4 or so and just skinny everywhere. It’s absolutely crazy that from the neck down I would easily pass her off as a 16 year old just because she was thin with a smaller frame. Honestly my jaw dropped a little.
I wasn’t skinny for very long and it was due to disordered eating but EVEN IN THE HOSPITAL I noticed my new privilege. I didn’t look sickly yet at that point. People would ask me what I eat, how I look so good etc There were some other teenage girls who came into my room and I basically became their leader that was extremely strange. I got flirted with TONS, people tried to sneak me their number etc. There was a girl who asked me what I did etc and she was super young so I really avoided the topic but eventually just gave her some generic advice. Her mom and her aunt were there and they said “eww no man wants a skinny girl!! They want curves and something to grab on! Only dogs play with bones” I wasn’t even looking boney or anything. As you can imagine, they both had the same… look. Now I’m fatter but I’m definitely gonna be skinny again soon. Ain’t no way I’m going all my life without a privilege that can easily be mine
Yes I forgot to mention that when you’re thin you become an automatic role model for healthy eating and body goals - even if you’re NOT healthy 😂 this is why people are shocked when you eat a bunch of pizza or they try to police you. It’s almost like they’re mad that you’re not living up to the standard of being a skinny legend 💀
@@kindred.7313omg! Interesting you say that, people have been telling me since I was 17 yrs old that I’m not going to be skinny all my life. “Your metabolism is going to slow down after you hit 25.” “You better enjoy that food now, we’re all going to gain weight.” It’s as if they don’t want you to be thin and fit. I’m 5’9 125. OR, they will say, “You’re thin because you have a fast metabolism,” As if I just lay around eating jelly donuts and maintain a fit and toned body. They REFUSE to acknowledge that you actually have discipline and take care of your body. If they acknowledge that, then they’d have to admit that THEY have no excuses.
I’m thin(size 2-4) but have extremely large natural breast (G cup) This body type is quite rare as most thin girls are usually pear or banana shape. This body type gets the MOST hate idc what anyone says. Women will compliment a woman that is thin with a booty but never a girl with large boobs. I’ve even been called fat by women who I weigh less than and wear a smaller size. I get treated well by men, but women are NEVER complimentary about my body and always point out that my breasts are huge. I don’t get the same skinny privilege as other women. Women are visibly disgusted by my body and automatically assume I’m some sex siren trying to steal their man or I’m “seeking attention”. Mind you, I could wear a paper bag and these tits aren’t going anywhere. Skinny privilege does not extend to all skinny women. I’m much maligned for my natural body type
Truth be told, thin with big boobs is the global preference. The reactions you get likely come from extreme jealousy. It’s also possible (because it’s rare) that they assume your boobs are fake and thus you’re deliberately catering to men.
Ever notice how obese women will gaslight you for being overweight and NOT OBESE like struggling with weight is a contest?! (my biggest was the same as yours and the 250+ lb women always gaslit me!)
You're so right! It's because of how good you look in the clothes that fit well on you due to being skinny, especially if stylish. I literally had the same thing happen at a job delivering cars I used to work at with these fashionable black and white pants I wore with a black long sleeved turtleneck! Mind you, I got them preapproved over the phone to wear to avoid any drama. But when I wore them, immediately I was told by the same supervisor that had approved it that although it was technically okay, they didn't want to risk customers potentially responding negatively or "upset" the service dept manager who was strict about uniforms. So I couldn't wear it after that nor even the necklace lol. Then they put an old, overweight woman that I worked with in the customer facing role to deliver vehicles that I was supposed to be in for that day. Soon after, I then received a compliment from a male customer and another from a service worker. I since quit that job. However, I truly believe because I have more of a thin hourglass athletic figure, that's why they intensely monitored me, even down to a necklace. They just want to see you dressed down to feel better.
I agree. I also really love when Exoticals do the platinum blonde. Bonus points if they have those ultra dark brown eyes, the brown eyes that are so dark they constantly sparkle from their natural inclination to reflect light. The icy platinum creates such a striking contrast.
I definitely agree with everything she says I have this friend she's really slim and everyone is really nice to her and all the guys want to befriend her.
Hi EU! New subscriber here, and I think you are as cute as a button. So funny! Listened to my first 2 videos today while enjoying self care. Revitalizing my pretty girl habits after starting my business. Five years in and business is great, but it is time to prioritize myself again. Sacrificed enough. It’s a joyous day one for me. Thank you for the dressing down today. Not too often I get a chance to laugh at myself, but you spoke nothing but facts. I have a few years on you. You reminded me of how I used to think and behave in my 20s. It gave me LIFE! Good luck to all the women here embracing or revitalizing their pretty woman privilege.❤🎉😂
Being slim makes literally everything look better on. It’s so much easier to dress as a thin person. I genuinely feel terrible for fat people trying to find clothes that flatter them.
Talking from my experience (I am from Brazil) since the beauty standard is thick and curvy I got sexualized for a long time (started when I was a CHILD), becoming skinny made me feel so much more comfortable in my skin.
Omgggg I got reported for my pants too. They were pinkish shorts and regular length , can you believe people complained about the color looking like my skin tone ? Versus the length bc I’d see it being like okay that’s more arguable. Like be fr it wasn’t even close!
8:25 Sunday I went on a date with a super skinny guy, usually I do not go for skinny guys. And by the way i ammy heaviest(27BMI, overweight). In the date the guy joke that I need to go to the gym 5 times. But then comment he did not like skinny girls and prefer fat girls like me. I think super skinny never get girls so then they try to get what they can and changed it. I lost 2 kgs since and will lose more an then not date him, cause I am petty.
The main difference for me was my perceived age. As a size four, I am viewed as a teenie bopper & feel dismissed. As a size 12, I was viewed as more mature & got more respect. The clothes were the same & the same age 🤷🏽♀️. I too have had hair situations that required a bonnet. The compliments I received were... your man is lucky to wake up to you looking that good.
Omg yes I agree with being taken more seriously at work . I got my first job in finance when I was thick. Within about 90 days I started losing weight and I instantly got reported once I got down to about a size 8 and wore skinny leg pants . The teachers even complained that the managers were “playing favorites” by letting me wear those pants and not them (I worked at a school.) it was a whole thing . My direct manager actually didn’t even agree with writing me up but the women and his bosses wanted him to in order to be “fair”. 🙄
Very informative video EU. 💫 When I was at my biggest (size 12 @ 15/16 years old) I always had people who wanted to go outside with me.….Literally, I was always the first one called or notified. Yes, I was always considered “pretty” but I always felt it was very passive. Maybe that’s why I was still treated nice…😬 However, I wanted to look great for Senior events and college so I lost weight (35 pounds @ 17/18 years old). When I became 20, I no longer got calls or invites to places. Then, I found out that I was always the last to know about events. My “friends” always complained about how “frail” I look, even though I was only 125 pounds @ 5’4. Everyone became mean and annoyed with me. Now, I’m at my preferred body type(athletic and lean but still petite and curvy) and I took my skincare/hair care very seriously. Read a lot of books, learned a lot of things, and made more money. Now no one is asking me to come to events/outside anymore. How ironic….🫠
When I started becoming overweight I honestly had the worst self esteem ever. I felt at my lowest. I couldn’t even scroll social media cause I’d envy the women who had flat toned stomachs. Now, I’m back to being fit, lost 30+ pounds and feel a lot more confident and have worked on self healing and moving away from comparison. For the work part. There was a beautiful Latina girl I worked with who always dressed nice and everyone had her in their mouths. She had a fit body and dressed in very trendy clothing. People would complain and try to report her. However the overweight women at my job would have their whole boobs hanging out their tank tops and no one would bat an eye.
I'm so thankful and grateful to have found this channel, a lot of the topics you've spoken on, I can completely relate with. Thank you for giving us a safe space, I appreciate it. You have so many videos, I don't know how I'm coming to watch all of them. 😂❤
So we are the same height and body type EU! I'm also 5'9 1/2 and have a natural hourglass shape. Thin and always had a booty. Yes, the comments are specific for me. You look like a model, you look expensive, you have such a tiny waist, I love your flat stomach.. I was at dinner once and a plastic surgeon told me I had the perfect body and teeth, he randomly mentioned my "perfect body" multiple times. Also the thinking you're younger thing- they always ask me if I'm still in school or when I graduate. I also think being tall we get accused of being sexy even if we are wearing a turtle neck because they think we look like models and fantasize about being with one and project that onto us.
Losing weight from a size 14-16 to now a size 6 yes Im taken a lot more seriously, complimented more on my body, told i should model, people also ask for my advice on food and fitness. Women who are also skinny or thinner than me are always nice to me while bigger women (who arent actively trying to lose weight or failed at weight loss) tend to judge and comment negatively saying im too thin. Like if you think im too thin now you’re really going to hate me when I lose more weight! 😂 I even had my boss try to say i have an eating disorder because i stated i don’t eat processed junk food & im vegetarian. Sorry I dont live to eat crap & instead I eat to live a long healthy beautiful life 🌱🩷☺️
Love these videos! Im 40 and I get that I look 30 all the time. I’m 5’2 and 177lbs and curvy. Can’t wait to meet my total fitness goals! I get hit on by all races and ethnicities everywhere. I get a lot from Latino and Caribbean men because of my natural shape. I have boobs, smaller waist with butt and hips. I get alot of workout compliments. I get the “I want your stomach, thighs etc” and I’m a 12 lol. Body privilege is real. I’d say 50% of men that I attract are athletes and usually have muscles. I get the most genuine compliments from white men.
I think the “policing the body” thing is because you have curves like Barbie very guy hot bc if a girl was equally thin with no curves they still don’t care as much. They care if you are skinny and still have boobs and an ass
Ok that’s why I said at the beginning this is just MY experience and doesn’t represent the majority of others , hopefully some “think women with no curves” will chime in and we will see what they say…
What do you think of water fasting? Some people I've seen boasting about fasting for like a week or even more, do you think that's a good way to lose weight? Have you ever done a long water fast before and did you see any benefits?
Then you would show a picture and they say things like, you're not even fat! Like you said with the clothing hacks, most big people do photo hacks like figuring out angles. But there is still a difference, they just don't like seeing that!!
As a slim thick girlie, i got bullied coming up in the early 2000s by yt kids then years layer went to a ghetto blk school alot of jealous girls hated on me bc i am slim thick and shapely my waist is small af
I have a question, so when you were a bigger girl did you have a body on you? Like did you have booty, b00bs did you look like a big hourglass or was it an apple shape?
Yes hourglass (like Meg thee stallion or someone like that.) I do not have an apple shape and I’ve never had a big stomach with skinny legs or anything like that .
@ I’m sure you looked good as being overweight and skinny now. I feel like it was probably the environment you were in❤️ for those who talked sh*t was mad asf cs you had more a$$ than them & looked better
I love this topic, but please stop it with Black women! Aren’t you a Black woman? Being skinny is for yourself, and if anyone has a problem with being skinny, that’s their choice.
I actually agree with you but I understand that she’s sharing her story from her point of view and she’s black (or half black) and that’s how she experiences life. I’m asian and I’m fine listening to her story/opinion/pov.
She biracial so NO she is NOT black shes mixed. And Stop telling this grown woman what to say. You have a problem with her being proud of her racial identity you seriously need to find another channel.
Since i wouldn't talk to someone like you because i feel im not your type i honestly would like you in a Size 16 to 18 if you can handle it i do care about health alot and i just found out im a Demisexual im drawn in by people i remember through out my life but the older im getting i need to actually know you Im not really getting aroused if i don't know you so you would have to be someone i remember from my past I would really have to know you to talk and i don't really talk alot to anyone but just find your natural weight by eating right working out and maintaining a healthy life style don't worry you're beautiful so no matter what you will always look like a model
Thin privilege never went away. Society PROVES IT !!!! Keep up the great content EU. 💕💕
People don’t realize being skinny means more than just fitting into clothes! People let you get away with more things when you’re both pretty in the face and body. Do you think you would’ve gotten the same reaction if you were skinny and wearing pajamas with a bonnet on? That’s a deathly combo 🤣🤣💕
K…now take those pjs + bonnet and put them on a morbidly obese woman.
Who of the two will likely be noticed first, and then subsequently judged, for their disheveled appearance in public?
Ur insane I was literally bullied half to death by white and Black people being skinny. Now that I’m heavier set I get treated like a human being.
@@serenitylofiiii I had the same experience as you. But I think it greatly depends on where you live. Where I’m from, everyone is big. Even the doctors are obese. When I moved somewhere where people are slimmer and more into fitness, hiking, etc, that’s when I started getting treated decently.
@@EmiExóticayou must be from Indiana?
@ good guess lol! I’m from Houston Tx
For me I was more sexualized when I was thicker vs when I’m slim i get away with wearing less clothes and not seeming “too sexy” or “promiscuous” but if I wore those same outfits when I was thicker there was always so much hyper fixation and sexual attention on my body parts I feel like I’m taken more serious when I’m slim
Exactly, and people look almost annoyed that you have all the curves and are dressing how you want.
Oh 110%. Naturally, I tend to run on the slim side. However, when I was on the depo shot as a teenager, it made me gain a good 30 pounds. I tend to gain weight in my chest, hips and butt. I was also a good two inches shorter than I am now in full adulthood. For a good two years of my life I had to walk around with the most ridiculous looking Jessica rabbit type proportions. It was actually deeply mortifying and I always felt very uncomfortable in my own body. Men were _disgusting_ to me too. I was just a little 13, 14 year old teenage girl and grown ass men constantly approached and harassed me.
I have experienced the same thing. I’m now slim thick after being slim my whole life. I love being voluptuous, but it comes at a price. I even had to cut off a male friend recently because he started to sexualize my fashion.
this video is so true, i went from BMI 36 to 18 when i was 20yrs old and my life did a 180! the biggest thing is that you are suddenly visible
Do you feel good at a bmi of 18 ? I’m honestly genuinely asking for myself because I’m wondering what is a healthy weight that I can withstand without feeling too tired. I’m 5’7 and I weigh 185 pounds right now and I want to be around 150 or 155 lbs, that’s for a healthy weight but I don’t know. Do you think I should aim for a lower weight ?
@ honestly I am BMI 18 (130lb) cause I lost weight cause of stress, I am not underweight so I still look good, I am hoping to gain weight to bmi 20 which is 140lb for my height (5’8) and do body recomposition and gain muscle! I think 150 is great, my original goal was 150 but then i didn’t look exactly how I wanted; tldr set a realistic goal at first and then see how u feel
@@headlinerkth thanks so much! 💕☺️ That’s definitely my plan, get to 150, see if I like it or not and then move from there. If I like it, my plan like yours is to be skinny and then gain muscle for a toned but cute look for myself.
@ wish you the best🙌💗
@@headlinerkth you too! And congratulations for already being so close to where you want to be🥳💕
I love these kinds of videos!! So many people are trying to convince me of not losing weight because i am naturally curvy, im slim but still overweight by exactly 30 lbs. I live with my mom and shes starting to police when im eating and when i go to the gym, buying extra sweets. Its like they dont want me to look even MORE stunning like how greedy of me to stack on more privileges on top of the many others i have.
You do what’s best for you! You can stack as many privileges as you please!
Always love the realism of these videos, they cheer you on when you ain’t looking right. But when you look right, you looked better before.😂
omg thank you for posting more on this topic, i needed motivation to get back on my health goals 😭💖
I love people who are honest! My friend and I are brutally honest lol.... she has 5 kids and looks amazing! She does not use it as an excuse, works out, and always looks good! She doesn't use having A man and kids stop her.... shes very honest with me about weight or just getting things done period!
I love being fit, it feels so good my confidence levels goes over the roof.
Everything u say is literally so true. In the past when I used to be underweight, I would post fashion try on hauls on my Instagram and I've always loved fashion so it makes me happy to do that but I noticed that when I was underweight, ppl would report my stories for "self harm and eating disorders" even tho I was just showing cute outfits and then when I was a healthy weight, fit and also on the more bigger side cuz my body size has been at both spectrums, I was basically ignored, 3 ppl watched my stories and I would never get reported. I'd get back on my fitness game and start getting reports again. It's insane like wtf. Why do I have to suffer cuz someone else is insecure
HEY I have an idea! If anyone wants to help! Let's create a social media that only has hot people!
As a thin girl, I get bullied by old overweight women and sxlly harassed by old men at EVERY job
I always feel so weird when people say I wish I had your body. It's nice but at the same time idk what to say to that. Lol
Ladies, my story is almost identical to her and she speaks the absolute truth his weight loss videos. My friends actually thought that this was my channel and I was just doing it secretly. Because I went from a size 12 down to a size 0 I am also as you.I love hearing what you have to say because you took the words right out of my mouth. The only difference is I have been chubby my whole life until I lost weight.
Tell us about it! What differences did you notice before and after losing weight?
One thing about your channel there is no sugar coating or telling women what they want to hear, the truth is truth and I love that about you.
I’m currently over weight use to be skinny like size 2-4 all my life till I had my kids. I remember people always commenting on my weight that I was to skinny or any thing else negative about me, as soon as I was bigger no compliments or that I look better then being skinny, nothing so of course fake concern. I will lose the 20 pounds I gained im more determined then ever to be skinny and stay that way for life, life was much better and clothes fit me better being slim. ❤
From my experience, being thin means you’re everyone’s type. Use discernment! I’m slim and attractive so all types approach.
@@200zsprite4 yes. Black men never hit on me. I’m a black woman. Black men say they like curvy women. And I guess the dusty black man did hit on me. But when I got skinny, every single type of black man started hitting on me from athletes to nerdy, black guys only date, white girls.
The roles reverse. The women who used to talk to you don't. The men who never said a word to you all of a sudden become an MC you never hired.
"an MC you never hired" 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀
Heavy on the youthful aspect of being thin.
I was at work yesterday at there were a group of people who walked in. Men and women. I was busy so I only spared a few glances. I thought it was a mom and her teen daughter (maybe 15-18) with a few more men. When I actually looked up properly at them I realized the “daughter” was actually a woman in her mid thirties, maybe early 40s.
She was wearing yoga pants, a baggy sweater & had medium length hair. Which is usually what teen girls wore. She was around 5’4 or so and just skinny everywhere. It’s absolutely crazy that from the neck down I would easily pass her off as a 16 year old just because she was thin with a smaller frame. Honestly my jaw dropped a little.
You’re spitttinggggg in this one. To your first point, I used to wear so many lashes while bigger, and now mascara is enough lol.
I wasn’t skinny for very long and it was due to disordered eating but EVEN IN THE HOSPITAL I noticed my new privilege. I didn’t look sickly yet at that point.
People would ask me what I eat, how I look so good etc
There were some other teenage girls who came into my room and I basically became their leader that was extremely strange.
I got flirted with TONS, people tried to sneak me their number etc.
There was a girl who asked me what I did etc and she was super young so I really avoided the topic but eventually just gave her some generic advice.
Her mom and her aunt were there and they said “eww no man wants a skinny girl!! They want curves and something to grab on! Only dogs play with bones”
I wasn’t even looking boney or anything. As you can imagine, they both had the same… look.
Now I’m fatter but I’m definitely gonna be skinny again soon.
Ain’t no way I’m going all my life without a privilege that can easily be mine
Yes I forgot to mention that when you’re thin you become an automatic role model for healthy eating and body goals - even if you’re NOT healthy 😂 this is why people are shocked when you eat a bunch of pizza or they try to police you. It’s almost like they’re mad that you’re not living up to the standard of being a skinny legend 💀
@ yep!! The Karen’s will be like “I used to be pretty too!!! tHiS wOnT lAsT😡😡”
@@kindred.7313omg! Interesting you say that, people have been telling me since I was 17 yrs old that I’m not going to be skinny all my life. “Your metabolism is going to slow down after you hit 25.” “You better enjoy that food now, we’re all going to gain weight.” It’s as if they don’t want you to be thin and fit. I’m 5’9 125. OR, they will say, “You’re thin because you have a fast metabolism,” As if I just lay around eating jelly donuts and maintain a fit and toned body. They REFUSE to acknowledge that you actually have discipline and take care of your body. If they acknowledge that, then they’d have to admit that THEY have no excuses.
@@kindred.7313 oh my god if I had a dollar for every time a bitter older woman told me “just WAIT until you have kids and get FAT!!!”
I’m thin(size 2-4) but have extremely large natural breast (G cup) This body type is quite rare as most thin girls are usually pear or banana shape. This body type gets the MOST hate idc what anyone says. Women will compliment a woman that is thin with a booty but never a girl with large boobs. I’ve even been called fat by women who I weigh less than and wear a smaller size. I get treated well by men, but women are NEVER complimentary about my body and always point out that my breasts are huge. I don’t get the same skinny privilege as other women. Women are visibly disgusted by my body and automatically assume I’m some sex siren trying to steal their man or I’m “seeking attention”. Mind you, I could wear a paper bag and these tits aren’t going anywhere. Skinny privilege does not extend to all skinny women. I’m much maligned for my natural body type
Truth be told, thin with big boobs is the global preference. The reactions you get likely come from extreme jealousy. It’s also possible (because it’s rare) that they assume your boobs are fake and thus you’re deliberately catering to men.
@@valentinasabatini9033 move to New York City.
Ever notice how obese women will gaslight you for being overweight and NOT OBESE like struggling with weight is a contest?! (my biggest was the same as yours and the 250+ lb women always gaslit me!)
These videos are very inspiring, I’m on my weight lose journey ❤
You're so right! It's because of how good you look in the clothes that fit well on you due to being skinny, especially if stylish.
I literally had the same thing happen at a job delivering cars I used to work at with these fashionable black and white pants I wore with a black long sleeved turtleneck! Mind you, I got them preapproved over the phone to wear to avoid any drama.
But when I wore them, immediately I was told by the same supervisor that had approved it that although it was technically okay, they didn't want to risk customers potentially responding negatively or "upset" the service dept manager who was strict about uniforms. So I couldn't wear it after that nor even the necklace lol.
Then they put an old, overweight woman that I worked with in the customer facing role to deliver vehicles that I was supposed to be in for that day.
Soon after, I then received a compliment from a male customer and another from a service worker. I since quit that job. However, I truly believe because I have more of a thin hourglass athletic figure, that's why they intensely monitored me, even down to a necklace. They just want to see you dressed down to feel better.
Did she really say African men hit on everyone 😂
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I remember when one lady said when she got hit on by black men she said that's when she knew it was time to go on a diet.
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True she is right lol
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Love this topic!!!!
Yes, blonde hair on exoticals is something Beautiful! I’m a honey blonde balayage and I get followed by men, kinda annoying because I’m married. 🥰
I agree. I also really love when Exoticals do the platinum blonde. Bonus points if they have those ultra dark brown eyes, the brown eyes that are so dark they constantly sparkle from their natural inclination to reflect light. The icy platinum creates such a striking contrast.
@@h0rriphic….You’re going to make go icy blonde!🙏🏽🤣
I definitely agree with everything she says I have this friend she's really slim and everyone is really nice to her and all the guys want to befriend her.
3:53 I do the same thing. 😂😂😂 my bonnet gets confused for a hat all the time 😂😂😂
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Hi EU! New subscriber here, and I think you are as cute as a button. So funny! Listened to my first 2 videos today while enjoying self care. Revitalizing my pretty girl habits after starting my business. Five years in and business is great, but it is time to prioritize myself again. Sacrificed enough. It’s a joyous day one for me. Thank you for the dressing down today. Not too often I get a chance to laugh at myself, but you spoke nothing but facts.
I have a few years on you. You reminded me of how I used to think and behave in my 20s. It gave me LIFE! Good luck to all the women here embracing or revitalizing their pretty woman privilege.❤🎉😂
Awww yay! Welcome to the pretty girl club 💅🏽 and yes, I’m very silly and a troll 🤭
@@ExoticalsUnitedyes turn on that pretty girl mantra❤
Being slim makes literally everything look better on. It’s so much easier to dress as a thin person. I genuinely feel terrible for fat people trying to find clothes that flatter them.
Talking from my experience (I am from Brazil) since the beauty standard is thick and curvy I got sexualized for a long time (started when I was a CHILD), becoming skinny made me feel so much more comfortable in my skin.
Omgggg I got reported for my pants too. They were pinkish shorts and regular length , can you believe people complained about the color looking like my skin tone ? Versus the length bc I’d see it being like okay that’s more arguable. Like be fr it wasn’t even close!
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Sunday I went on a date with a super skinny guy, usually I do not go for skinny guys. And by the way i ammy heaviest(27BMI, overweight).
In the date the guy joke that I need to go to the gym 5 times. But then comment he did not like skinny girls and prefer fat girls like me.
I think super skinny never get girls so then they try to get what they can and changed it.
I lost 2 kgs since and will lose more an then not date him, cause I am petty.
I have a 3 year old boy and I’m 24 years old. People think I’m 18😂
Great story!
The main difference for me was my perceived age. As a size four, I am viewed as a teenie bopper & feel dismissed. As a size 12, I was viewed as more mature & got more respect. The clothes were the same & the same age 🤷🏽♀️. I too have had hair situations that required a bonnet. The compliments I received were... your man is lucky to wake up to you looking that good.
Omg yes I agree with being taken more seriously at work . I got my first job in finance when I was thick. Within about 90 days I started losing weight and I instantly got reported once I got down to about a size 8 and wore skinny leg pants . The teachers even complained that the managers were “playing favorites” by letting me wear those pants and not them (I worked at a school.) it was a whole thing . My direct manager actually didn’t even agree with writing me up but the women and his bosses wanted him to in order to be “fair”. 🙄
Very informative video EU. 💫
When I was at my biggest (size 12 @ 15/16 years old) I always had people who wanted to go outside with me.….Literally, I was always the first one called or notified. Yes, I was always considered “pretty” but I always felt it was very passive. Maybe that’s why I was still treated nice…😬
However, I wanted to look great for Senior events and college so I lost weight (35 pounds @ 17/18 years old).
When I became 20, I no longer got calls or invites to places. Then, I found out that I was always the last to know about events.
My “friends” always complained about how “frail” I look, even though I was only 125 pounds @ 5’4. Everyone became mean and annoyed with me.
Now, I’m at my preferred body type(athletic and lean but still petite and curvy) and I took my skincare/hair care very seriously. Read a lot of books, learned a lot of things, and made more money.
Now no one is asking me to come to events/outside anymore. How ironic….🫠
When I started becoming overweight I honestly had the worst self esteem ever. I felt at my lowest. I couldn’t even scroll social media cause I’d envy the women who had flat toned stomachs.
Now, I’m back to being fit, lost 30+ pounds and feel a lot more confident and have worked on self healing and moving away from comparison.
For the work part. There was a beautiful Latina girl I worked with who always dressed nice and everyone had her in their mouths. She had a fit body and dressed in very trendy clothing. People would complain and try to report her. However the overweight women at my job would have their whole boobs hanging out their tank tops and no one would bat an eye.
So much thruth
I'm so thankful and grateful to have found this channel, a lot of the topics you've spoken on, I can completely relate with. Thank you for giving us a safe space, I appreciate it. You have so many videos, I don't know how I'm coming to watch all of them. 😂❤
I cannot get enough of these!! Keep going EU!! We love skinny &pretty privilege videos! 🫧💕
Yes. There’s a huge difference. Like you’re a completely different human being. 😒🙄I have so many stories but I don’t have the time to elaborate.
So we are the same height and body type EU! I'm also 5'9 1/2 and have a natural hourglass shape. Thin and always had a booty. Yes, the comments are specific for me. You look like a model, you look expensive, you have such a tiny waist, I love your flat stomach.. I was at dinner once and a plastic surgeon told me I had the perfect body and teeth, he randomly mentioned my "perfect body" multiple times. Also the thinking you're younger thing- they always ask me if I'm still in school or when I graduate. I also think being tall we get accused of being sexy even if we are wearing a turtle neck because they think we look like models and fantasize about being with one and project that onto us.
I hate the bullying that comes with being skinny ,bishes
Losing weight from a size 14-16 to now a size 6 yes Im taken a lot more seriously, complimented more on my body, told i should model, people also ask for my advice on food and fitness.
Women who are also skinny or thinner than me are always nice to me while bigger women (who arent actively trying to lose weight or failed at weight loss) tend to judge and comment negatively saying im too thin. Like if you think im too thin now you’re really going to hate me when I lose more weight! 😂
I even had my boss try to say i have an eating disorder because i stated i don’t eat processed junk food & im vegetarian. Sorry I dont live to eat crap & instead I eat to live a long healthy beautiful life 🌱🩷☺️
Love these videos! Im 40 and I get that I look 30 all the time. I’m 5’2 and 177lbs and curvy. Can’t wait to meet my total fitness goals! I get hit on by all races and ethnicities everywhere. I get a lot from Latino and Caribbean men because of my natural shape. I have boobs, smaller waist with butt and hips. I get alot of workout compliments. I get the “I want your stomach, thighs etc” and I’m a 12 lol. Body privilege is real. I’d say 50% of men that I attract are athletes and usually have muscles. I get the most genuine compliments from white men.
I think the “policing the body” thing is because you have curves like Barbie very guy hot bc if a girl was equally thin with no curves they still don’t care as much. They care if you are skinny and still have boobs and an ass
Ok that’s why I said at the beginning this is just MY experience and doesn’t represent the majority of others , hopefully some “think women with no curves” will chime in and we will see what they say…
What do you think of water fasting? Some people I've seen boasting about fasting for like a week or even more, do you think that's a good way to lose weight? Have you ever done a long water fast before and did you see any benefits?
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Being thicker is always associated with sex. No matter what you wear
Real!
Then you would show a picture and they say things like, you're not even fat! Like you said with the clothing hacks, most big people do photo hacks like figuring out angles. But there is still a difference, they just don't like seeing that!!
As a slim thick girlie, i got bullied coming up in the early 2000s by yt kids then years layer went to a ghetto blk school alot of jealous girls hated on me bc i am slim thick and shapely my waist is small af
@19:18 what kind of man just says that out of nowhere when you’re sending him a picture food ? 😒😠 Sorry you had to deal with that EU
Lovee yahh EU!! 🥳🥰
My question is where ya from lol I’m trynna find friends 🤣
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Only if i taller :((((
I have a question, so when you were a bigger girl did you have a body on you? Like did you have booty, b00bs did you look like a big hourglass or was it an apple shape?
Yes hourglass (like Meg thee stallion or someone like that.) I do not have an apple shape and I’ve never had a big stomach with skinny legs or anything like that .
@ I’m sure you looked good as being overweight and skinny now. I feel like it was probably the environment you were in❤️ for those who talked sh*t was mad asf cs you had more a$$ than them & looked better
I love this topic, but please stop it with Black women! Aren’t you a Black woman? Being skinny is for yourself, and if anyone has a problem with being skinny, that’s their choice.
I actually agree with you but I understand that she’s sharing her story from her point of view and she’s black (or half black) and that’s how she experiences life. I’m asian and I’m fine listening to her story/opinion/pov.
so what?😂 just because she is half black she can't talk about her experiences with other black women?
She biracial so NO she is NOT black shes mixed. And Stop telling this grown woman what to say. You have a problem with her being proud of her racial identity you seriously need to find another channel.
@@kjsos99 should keep talk how I have big white women coworker she eats unhealthy and stink?? It’s just so harsh
@@Sesen111 if she s a bully then yes
Since i wouldn't talk to someone like you because i feel im not your type i honestly would like you in a Size 16 to 18 if you can handle it i do care about health alot and i just found out im a Demisexual im drawn in by people i remember through out my life but the older im getting i need to actually know you Im not really getting aroused if i don't know you so you would have to be someone i remember from my past I would really have to know you to talk and i don't really talk alot to anyone but just find your natural weight by eating right working out and maintaining a healthy life style don't worry you're beautiful so no matter what you will always look like a model
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