Lost my wife to cancer 5 years ago, she was 51 - and wide awake at 1am listening to this wonderful song and flipping through pics from 23 years of marriage - thank you sir
I wish I had a "lost my spouse" story. I'm 50, I'll never have a At-Least-We-Had-A-Lifetime-of-memories story. Grass is greener, even in the land of grief.
Years ago, i was driving with my wife to meet her family on the beach. When we got to the beach, I stayed in the car and she said why aren’t you getting out? I said “because I want to finish this song” I was listening to Colin Hay on Prairie Home Companion”. After the song was over, I got out and her dad got out of his car at the same time. She asked him what took him so long…he said “I was listening to Colin Hay on Prairie Home Companion”. They say a woman looks for a man like her father. I don’t know how true that is, but this lends some credence to it.
I love that story. I miss A Prairie Home Companion and Live From Here. For me, they were some of the most memorable music moments. They also gave me a lifetime of Dad jokes.
I married had 4 children with a woman I adored...bought a home in the country....drove 2 hours each way to my job...but did so gladly out of love....I lost her to depression...we divorced after 18 years and I was awarded custody of my kids....she...took her life some years after....and yet...she was my first and possibly my only real love....and so....I dedicate this to her....I forgive you....make a spot for me...when I come
So true. ❤ No disrespect to our present lives but I’m not sure, for many reasons, I’ll ever be I’ve my children’s father. We have / had beautiful children and I see him every day. Sigh. Nothing is simple or truly easy.
Whether you think this song is about losing a loved one or struggling with addiction, we can all agree Colin Hay has written some of the most beautiful songs of all time 🎵 ❤️
“Your face it dances, and it haunts me. Your laughter still ringing, in my ears. I still find pieces of your presence here... even...even after all these years.” - Unbelievable
This rendition should be released as a standalone single. It's the best I've seen or heard anywhere, including the original cut on Transcendental Highway. Colin's guitar and vocals are so powerfully elegant. Masterpiece level.
Transcendent. I just saw Colin Hay in person only hours ago in Atlanta. And while his performance of the song was incredible, I couldn't help but think of this recording, and this variation of his song. The phrasing on the line, "I just don't think" is unlike any other recording, and it is... transcendent. And the slower pace of the song is like a confession. But in the end, I guess it doesn't really matter, I was still in tears before the end of the song.
This is the most beautiful song I’ve ever heard. My dad lost my mom four years ago. They were married for 57 years. This song is about my dad since my mom’s death. This song gives voice to my fathers tragic loss. Thanks Colin.
Was thinking the same, I play acoustic and this sound grabbed me, beautiful tone and chimey like I had to look closely because it sounds like a 12 string or 9 string guitar, his music is powerful
@@70snuttodd95 I heard he usually plays with a “drop D”, which I think adds fullness to the sound. My son, before he passed away a few years ago, tried to get me to tune down and learn using it, but I never tried until I heard this acoustic version and followed the video Colin did on playing it in drop…such an awesome and under rated musician he is! And my son was right. I love it Tu Ed that way now…
I actually really dislike the sound, it sounds plastic and processed. Despite the fact that it seems to be miked up, it sounds like a cheap onboard acoustic pickup to me.
Everything about this. The lyrics kill me every time. Exquisitely honest. No pretense. No drama. His voice. The guitar. It’s just all so poignant. Thank you Mr. Hay. You are an amazing talent. This song has gotten me through some rough nights.
I heard this song for the first time on the Garden State soundtrack in 2004, when I was 18 years old. A few months later, my dad died of a massive heart attack. To this day, 15 years later, I can’t listen to this song without thinking of him and completely breaking down into tears. “Your face, it dances, and it haunts me.. your laughter still ringing in my ears. I still find pieces of your presence here, even after all these years.”
Late to this, but I feel the same way about my mama. She died of liver cancer about a month after diagnosis. Came out of nowhere, she never drank a drop in her life, just went for a checkup and her bloodwork was way off, no other family members had ever gotten cancer. But I think of her and my dad when I hear this. He passed in 09, her in 15. I was in my mid 20s and early 30s, and I miss them both terribly. I was the youngest and stayed back to help them as they were older and both had issues getting around. My older brothers left the state, so it was me and them since I was around 12.
I’m so sorry. I lost my dad last summer… the memories of him over all of the years have been flooding back since. I don’t think I’ll ever get over the pain of losing him.
Late to this post....i read this, and it made me so sad for you. I still have my dad, but he is my hero and my best friend. Reading your story broke my heart, I just really felt for you and your pain. I know you will never forget your dad, but I hope the pain has gotten easier with time, I wish this for you! ❤
I have been on UA-cam for several years and have never commented on a video.....at least not until now. This is one of the most masterful performances I have ever seen. At the same time, it's genuine. My hat is off.....
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I was the same and then I commented and have received many responses that filled my heart with support and agreeance for my headache and love for beautiful music. I love this forum
This song..😢 I saw him live last night front row center and couldn’t stop my tears from falling when he played this. It literally felt like he was singing it to me. He looked at me a few times and saw that I was crying, but I didn’t care. I think it’s important for him to know that he has the ability to hit nerves in such a beautiful way through his music. What a fantastic musician
I've been divorced for 14 years. I still haven't gotten over my ex. She was the most wonderful part of my life and gave me the most wonderful daughter. I don't know how I've been so blessed to still be in contact with her. Nowadays, I just feel blah because I do miss my ex, her smile, her laughter, her singing. If you ever have issues in your marriage don't be afraid to get counseling. I wish I would have, but I was a different person back then.
Mr Tibbs , just reflecting on your post , shit I feel exactly the same , I will never get over my ex . I know I wont . We did so much , so much , then it went wrong . I wish , as you do , I had sort counseling as well . I have told her I will love her till the day I die .Still we have a fantastic daughter, who is just so , so sound . we talk couple of times a week , so good . I am lucky in another respect , Music , and listening to this Colin Hay just inspires me to play well . Oh for my daughter and music . ciao. btw got my name up there , dont care .
I don't think I'll ever get over my Janis either, some days are better than others but I always feel like I'm just wandering aimlessly thru life just going from one goal to the next in an effort to stay occupied but in those rare moments that we're together I feel a sense that I'm home.
My Daughter Dana Forever30 met him years before she passed away in September 2022. She knew him from his appearances on Scrubs & I grew up listening to him ❤️🕊️🙏🏻👑🪽✝️ My Princess loved this man 🙏🏻🕊️👑✝️
Just stumbled onto Colin Hay today. I know, I'm late to the game...I'm just glad I got here. Not every musician affects us on an emotional level, This song succeeds in doing that. Truly beautiful.
Never too late Ed. Sometimes you just have to thank the fates for peeling back the onion to reveal exactly what you need for a particular moment in time. Enjoy. We're in the company of a true legend here.
As a fellow Scot...I've spent years & years telling folk that the AC/DC lads were Scottish that moved to Oz. I've only found out Colin Hay was the Men At Work guy a few months a go & that he too is Scottish...i'm so embarrassed & yes...very late to his works...however...I'm glad I've found him at this stage in my life...cause I'm ready for it & it means & feels a lot more personal & relevant to me now. I will now make it my personal mission to introduce his music to as many ppl as I can. They must be heard & fealt & enjoyed by as many as possible 😁👍❤️🏴
I've given up drinking for a couple of years now and every time I feel like a drop of "strong whiskey" I watch this video and it just makes me feel good about myself. Thanks Colin.
Thanks for the encouragement but in January 2020 I broke my leg so went into "lockdown" early, and then Covid sealed my fate; and still is! About 3 months go I started drinking again; no whiskey, just beer and wine. Sad but I didn't want to die without having a beer! I still listen to this so many times and I'm sure it will help me give up again, hopefully sooner rather than too late. I turn 70 next week so I hope I give it up soon. Where there's a will there's a way and when there's a will there's hope.
Years later I keep returning to this song, it contains all of the elements of my life written by a man who has never met me. And yet, knows everything about me.
For anyone who has lost someone to alcoholism, this song is a tragic tale of how insidious this disease is. It broke my heart to hear that Colin wrote this after his divorce and sobering up. He said the "you" in this song is "alcohol" and I can now listen to this song with his context. It means much more to me now as I've seen how powerful this relationship is with people in my own life and can appreciate his struggle.
What I love about this song, and all of his songs really, is how unassuming the lyrics are. There’s no pretense, he says exactly what he means. He says it plainly and earnestly. And it’s still incredibly moving and deep.
You are exactly right. So much strength underneath his hurt. That is what makes this song so special. He’s not feeling sorry for himself or complaining . He’s just breaking your heart.
@@pepperjanehq Yeah absolutely. As I stated in another comment everyone has the right to interpret a song anyway they feel like. I just thought it'd be interesting to some as to what the songs actually about. I myself attach my own lost love pain to this song as well.
My husband passed away about 2 weeks ago. He always loved this track from the garden State soundtrack. I can't stop listening to it and it breaks my heart. it says everything I need to feel and everything I'm going through and it's really really hard right now.
Iv'e just listened to the most beautiful Song I have ever heard and just found Colin thank you Colin you made an old man very happy l lost my Partner Roger 5 years ago we were together for nearly 40 years he was the most beautiful person l have ever known and he would love this Song thank you Colin. 🎵🎶👍
Colin has what some rightfully call a "signature voice." There are so many amazing singers, but then there are those whose voices have a truly unique signature. It's simply something you're either born with, or you're not. It is a rare gift. I could listen to him sing from the phone book.
Jason Furlong it truly is incredible. The videos do not do him justice. I've seen him live a few times now and when he hits his high notes at full volume it takes your breath away and you then realize you are witnessing something magical and unique. And his song writing skills are on another level. John Mayer himself said he wishes he could someday write a song as good as Colin can. Quite the complement right there.
tossedpenny Well said, my friend. Colin is my favorite kind of artist: he prefers the journey to any one destination, and he trusts his instincts. He truly has what they call “artistic integrity” and it’s impossible to imagine him ever losing that. Cheers.
The late actor Leo McKern who played Rumpole in Rumpole of the Bailey was the same with his speaking voice. I heard the same quote about him with his voice. They said he could read the phone book and make it sound like Shakespeare.
I'm listening to this song in the bathroom and I'm crying like a baby thinking I'm so happy having my wife and son with me. I thank everyday to life for this privilege. This song reminds me how important they are to me. Thank you Colin, you are a true artist, touched my soul. Greetings from Argentina.
Lost my wife to a stroke last year and have grown to love this song. I’m a big Colin Hay fan, but had never heard this song until she died, and it’s provided me loads of comfort. ❤️
Do you know Matty Healy, the frontman of the 1975? Number 1 public enemy of the century, he's been punished more than he should be.. (I don't want to go into that hatred any further, people won't listen either way) No one dares to stand or be seen with him; even his girlfriend leaves him at his lowest point. Yesterday, he sang this song to open the concert of his own band, the 1975. He is a man. Men tend to ignore their own hurt or feelings, but it is the way he regulates his feelings, singing the song that suits him. It is so lovely to see him finally able to regulate his feelings. We are not his family, we are just his fans.. but, we consider us as the friend of the band. We love their music. As one of his fans, I am so thankful that your song exists to save him and help him go through this darkest valley. Your artwork is amazing. This song is so beautiful.. Thank you, sir! Keep on shining like a star...❤
Ehm... nope :) It is just the magic of alternative tuning (afaik he using drop-D or DADGAD often). Because you are not used to this tuning it sounds amazing.... that is all :)
@@johnysmrz Ehm... nope, his guitar work is stellar. Yes its an alternate tuning and fairly simple, but his dynamics and technique are spot on. Good try though on attempting to seem smart from your expansive guitar knowledge, cheers :)
I wonder if you’ll find me here. I visit often. Always with a heavy heart. Remembering how good it was... until it wasn’t. I miss you every single day. I just don’t think I’ll ever get over you. 💔
I´ve listened to this Version probably a thousand times, and i still can´t get over it. It´s such a deeply touching song, played better than he ever did before. And with a huge pile of positive thinking, i´ll still be listening to it when i´m a hundred an two... Thank you so much, Mr. Hay....
Grew up w Men at Work. 40 yrs later and I stumble across Colin Hay, thanks to a Norman’s Guitar video of him playing Overkill. Then.... I find this. No words.
2 yrs ago today, I lost my husband of over 47yrs. He was a musician/guitarist & the love of my life. He loved this song, music is how he expressed his feelings. He had a whole list of love songs for us. It is now my reality as I will never get over losing him. He was an amazing person, his love was endless & unconditional. Thank you Colin.
I lost my girlfriend. 21 year to go. I dedicate this song to her, her name was Jackie. I love the song. I don't drink anymore and I drink coffee. This is a awesome song. I relate to it and it helps me so much mind, body soul spirit.😊❤❤❤❤
I drink good coffee every morning It comes from a place that's far away And when I'm done I feel like talking Without you here there is less to say Don't want you thinking I'm unhappy What is closer to the truth Is that if I lived till I was a hundred and two I just don't think I'll ever get over you I'm no longer moved to drink strong whiskey And I shook the hand of time and I knew That if I lived till I could no longer climb my stairs I just don't think I'll ever get over you Your face it dances and it haunts me Your laughter is still ringing in my ears I still find pieces of your presence here Even, even after all these years But I don't want you thinking that i don't get asked to dinner 'Cause I'm here to say that I sometimes do And even though I may seem to feel a touch of love I just don't think I'll ever get over you Yeah, if I live till I was a hundred and two I just don't think I'll ever get over you
My wife left me a couple of years ago. Broke my heart. I’ll never get over her. This song puts into words everything I want to say to her every day since.
@@NapoleonicWargaming thanks for that bro. I hope you’re right and maybe the hurt will get less as time goes by, but I think we’re allowed one true love in our lives. If you lose them, then that’s it, no second chances. Hope times prove me wrong.
Found a lot of amazing music over the years... Something about Colin's solo work that a minutely few others have... He has such a genuine nature to his lyrics and voice... no pretentiousness, no embellishment... just him speaking from his soul.
"Don't cry because its over smile because it happen" -Dr Seuss For those who have loved and lost, there may be nothing that can replace what you've lost but thats also what made it so special... Moments are gifts live in the present fully.
This is one of those songs that you love from the first moment until you realize you love it even more later. Anybody still pumping blood can relate, and can we take a moment to appreciate the incredibly warm guitar? I don't know what he paid for that instrument, but its sound is worth more than the purchase price.
I am going through my second year of the breakup of my broken heart, and I too know this is a forevermore type situation. Did you ever let anyone else love you furthermore did you ever love anyone else after that?
At least once a week, I look at Colin's tour schedule to see if he is coming within hundreds of miles of my home. If he ever plays in the midwest or south, I will be there. This guy has the gift.
Saw Colin in Las Vegas about 5 years ago. Stood up against the stage and the tears flowed without care or shame when he performed this. Song is a masterclass.
I don't know how often I've been listening to this. Colin Hay truly belongs to superstardom. Virtuosity in both music and lyrics. ART! Thank you Colin Hay!
Colin is just like a fine whiskey, he gets better and finer with age. I remember hearing this tune in Melbourne in a small local venue, it has only improved and his guitar work too, indeed! Cheers!
One of the best songs ever written. Colin is so underrated- he is a unique talent and just absolutely brilliant. Thank you, Colin for all you have done for me with your music and others that find you as great as I do.
Combination of a few things, if we're focusing solely on the tone of the instrument - first, it's just a really nice guitar! Second, the writing and performance is great. His go-to tuning is usually DADGBD or DADGAD (here it's the latter), and writing with those lets you double a ton of notes to get really big sounding open chords as well as some really nice shimmery dissonances. On top of that, he's got excellent control when it comes to dynamics and intent - he knows exactly what sound he's trying to make in each section and isn't just blindly strumming away at chords. Third, the mix is fantastic, and is actually using two input sources - the DI from the guitar's line out (that gives you a lot of that really "specific" and almost electric sound on the little melodic riffs) and the dedicated microphone on the guitar (gives a lot more resonance and body, more like what you'd hear if someone was playing a guitar right in front of you with no amplification). Mix those two together and you've got the best of both worlds, which contributes to a really cool acoustic sound!
@@vocalimpactplays217 My biggest dissapointment is listening to my songs recorded. This song for example sounds like im playing a banjo and I have a Greenfield ....thank you for your insight into the recording methodology
@@nickbonzer another way to unlock good acoustic guitar recording is to mic up the guitar in two spots: put one condenser mic 3/4 of the way down the neck, and another one south of the bridge. The sound resonates more from the fretboard and the top than it may seem. If you are using this double mic technique, you will want to avoid placing a microphone directly in front of the sound hole. It will muddy the recording, especially if your guitar has a particularly beefy sound, like that of a Gibson J45 or a Guild. If you have a studio with good sound treatment, you may also want to set up a third microphone in the middle of the room. Ideally, this one would be a ribbon mic, but those can be very expensive. A condenser microphone will do just fine.
what i love about DADGAD tuning is that when its played like this it sounds firm, but also has this vibration that almost makes me think of a cat purring.. these chords make me feel so melancholy too. absolute beauty of a song :)
There are 4 songs that resonate beyond words for me. Empty Chairs, Don Maclean Both Sides now, Joni Mitchell Overkill, Colin Hay. And this one.....I still am not over you
We were married forty three years,this song makes me think of the love we shared, cancer ended our time together but music helps tremendously. Thank-you and keep singing
Lost my wife to cancer 5 years ago, she was 51 - and wide awake at 1am listening to this wonderful song and flipping through pics from 23 years of marriage - thank you sir
My heart goes out to you. A beautiful to look back on a beautiful life that you got to share.
I am truly sorry for loss.
I am happy for the Life that you and your precioous wife shared.
I am so sorry for your loss and I lost my Mom in 2019 and also a fiancee back in 2003 - this song is perfect - both beautiful and painful.
I wish I had a "lost my spouse" story. I'm 50, I'll never have a At-Least-We-Had-A-Lifetime-of-memories story. Grass is greener, even in the land of grief.
Am I the only one that thinks this has to be one of the best live ecoustic songs ever recorded it's flawless
you are not
I keep playing it, and it breaks my heart to think about the message in the song, but it's so beautiful. My eyes are full of tears.
I love it also..his overkill choir choir choir is great also.....
no, his solo acoustic performances are the best of the best.
You're not alone
My partner died 4 months ago today. I listen to this song to remember him. Thank you for this song.
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Lost my wife of 37 years 2 years ago. I have never felt a song like this before... rips me up in a memorable way. Thank you Colin.
Sorry, Skip, for your loss, but thank you for your perspective.
Bless you Skip!!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my partner 7 months ago. This song is so beautiful.
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best way to patch words to this emotions skip. My condolences for your loss
Someday I will be able to listen to this song without crying.
Today is not that day.
Same. Gets me every damn time.
I feel like, if that day ever comes, then this song loses its meaning.
Keep shedding a tear, when a tear needs to be shed 🤘
Not alone brother ❤
Years ago, i was driving with my wife to meet her family on the beach. When we got to the beach, I stayed in the car and she said why aren’t you getting out? I said “because I want to finish this song” I was listening to Colin Hay on Prairie Home Companion”.
After the song was over, I got out and her dad got out of his car at the same time. She asked him what took him so long…he said “I was listening to Colin Hay on Prairie Home Companion”.
They say a woman looks for a man like her father. I don’t know how true that is, but this lends some credence to it.
I love that story. I miss A Prairie Home Companion and Live From Here. For me, they were some of the most memorable music moments. They also gave me a lifetime of Dad jokes.
What a fantastic story!
Nice story.
Sooo great
Sounds like that story should be a song...
I'm just here because I need a good cry.
i listen to it daily.
One of the most under-rated Scots singer-songwriter EVER!
he really is, kind of under the radar since the 80s
Well said he's awesome
He's, unquestionably, one of the best singer- songwriters of the last 50 years
First I've heard him. Although this really isn't my normal type of music I love it! I'll be adding him to my listen list.
He is ours and we fkng love him a hell of a lot ❤
I married had 4 children with a woman I adored...bought a home in the country....drove 2 hours each way to my job...but did so gladly out of love....I lost her to depression...we divorced after 18 years and I was awarded custody of my kids....she...took her life some years after....and yet...she was my first and possibly my only real love....and so....I dedicate this to her....I forgive you....make a spot for me...when I come
So true. ❤
No disrespect to our present lives but I’m not sure, for many reasons, I’ll ever be I’ve my children’s father. We have / had beautiful children and I see him every day.
Sigh. Nothing is simple or truly easy.
Whether you think this song is about losing a loved one or struggling with addiction, we can all agree Colin Hay has written some of the most beautiful songs of all time 🎵 ❤️
I;ll drink to that!!
Another widower here stopping by for a few minutes in the lonely dark of night
You got this! You're loved!
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Sorry for your loss. Take care fellow person. With love
“Your face it dances, and it haunts me. Your laughter still ringing, in my ears. I still find pieces of your presence here... even...even after all these years.” - Unbelievable
straight from the heart of one who has been there
I know right 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 WOW
This hits hard.
yeah...........................................whew!!!!!!
The emotion in this song is so so overwhelming , it hits really hard.
This rendition should be released as a standalone single. It's the best I've seen or heard anywhere, including the original cut on Transcendental Highway. Colin's guitar and vocals are so powerfully elegant. Masterpiece level.
Transcendent. I just saw Colin Hay in person only hours ago in Atlanta. And while his performance of the song was incredible, I couldn't help but think of this recording, and this variation of his song. The phrasing on the line, "I just don't think" is unlike any other recording, and it is... transcendent. And the slower pace of the song is like a confession.
But in the end, I guess it doesn't really matter, I was still in tears before the end of the song.
Couldn't agree more - this version is incredible and deserves its own release!
Agreed Colin loves his open D tuning I [think} but man his performance that night was right in the pocket
I rather wholeheartedly agree. This performance, this rendition, is simply how it's done. Bravo, mate.
This is the most beautiful song I’ve ever heard. My dad lost my mom four years ago. They were married for 57 years. This song is about my dad since my mom’s death. This song gives voice to my fathers tragic loss. Thanks Colin.
Can we all stop for a second and appreciate the lovely tone that acoustic puts out and the playing that accompanies it. Tremendous.
a beautifully built Maton
Was thinking the same, I play acoustic and this sound grabbed me, beautiful tone and chimey like I had to look closely because it sounds like a 12 string or 9 string guitar, his music is powerful
@@70snuttodd95 I heard he usually plays with a “drop D”, which I think adds fullness to the sound. My son, before he passed away a few years ago, tried to get me to tune down and learn using it, but I never tried until I heard this acoustic version and followed the video Colin did on playing it in drop…such an awesome and under rated musician he is! And my son was right. I love it Tu Ed that way now…
@@michellenotherday1482 , sorry for your loss, music and love is the healer
I actually really dislike the sound, it sounds plastic and processed. Despite the fact that it seems to be miked up, it sounds like a cheap onboard acoustic pickup to me.
Everything about this. The lyrics kill me every time. Exquisitely honest. No pretense. No drama. His voice. The guitar. It’s just all so poignant.
Thank you Mr. Hay. You are an amazing talent. This song has gotten me through some rough nights.
Amen. This is great song writing. A musical gift card.
Amazing in concert, go see him.
He draws from a deep well of sorrow and doesn't spill a drop on the way up.
i love that..i don't say that often on this site
Very well said.
Very poetic and acurate
I've spilled a few drops because of this song.
What a glorious thing to say Andy Robertson.,tis a great song ,sung from his heart I'd say.
I heard this song for the first time on the Garden State soundtrack in 2004, when I was 18 years old. A few months later, my dad died of a massive heart attack. To this day, 15 years later, I can’t listen to this song without thinking of him and completely breaking down into tears. “Your face, it dances, and it haunts me.. your laughter still ringing in my ears. I still find pieces of your presence here, even after all these years.”
Late to this, but I feel the same way about my mama. She died of liver cancer about a month after diagnosis. Came out of nowhere, she never drank a drop in her life, just went for a checkup and her bloodwork was way off, no other family members had ever gotten cancer. But I think of her and my dad when I hear this. He passed in 09, her in 15. I was in my mid 20s and early 30s, and I miss them both terribly. I was the youngest and stayed back to help them as they were older and both had issues getting around. My older brothers left the state, so it was me and them since I was around 12.
God bless you
I’m so sorry. I lost my dad last summer… the memories of him over all of the years have been flooding back since. I don’t think I’ll ever get over the pain of losing him.
@@JoeyCavazzi quite similar story here, Eric. I hope you are doing well.
Late to this post....i read this, and it made me so sad for you. I still have my dad, but he is my hero and my best friend. Reading your story broke my heart, I just really felt for you and your pain. I know you will never forget your dad, but I hope the pain has gotten easier with time, I wish this for you! ❤
I have been on UA-cam for several years and have never commented on a video.....at least not until now. This is one of the most masterful performances I have ever seen. At the same time, it's genuine. My hat is off.....
Don't lie, I can clearly see your hat is on, sir.
Keep commenting on things that move you. UA-cam could use more real comments instead of garbage that fills our day.
You are not a UA-cam virgin anymore, welcome to the team, becarefull commenting in UA-cam is addictive...
As you can see.....
Congrats Kenny and welcome to a new world
I was the same and then I commented and have received many responses that filled my heart with support and agreeance for my headache and love for beautiful music. I love this forum
This song..😢 I saw him live last night front row center and couldn’t stop my tears from falling when he played this. It literally felt like he was singing it to me. He looked at me a few times and saw that I was crying, but I didn’t care. I think it’s important for him to know that he has the ability to hit nerves in such a beautiful way through his music. What a fantastic musician
certain songs stop you in your tracks. This song did just that. Incredibly haunting, a .masterpiece.
Andrew Santarsiero Agreed!
Andrew Santarsiero agreed truly amazing the music has that ability. But found that with other songs and artists. This is absolutely a masterpiece.
Andrew Santarsiero Totally agree. A simple yet haunting song
Andrew Santarsiero oh so true. Sadly damn true!
waiting for my real life to begin did that to me
I've been divorced for 14 years. I still haven't gotten over my ex. She was the most wonderful part of my life and gave me the most wonderful daughter. I don't know how I've been so blessed to still be in contact with her. Nowadays, I just feel blah because I do miss my ex, her smile, her laughter, her singing. If you ever have issues in your marriage don't be afraid to get counseling. I wish I would have, but I was a different person back then.
Mr Tibbs , just reflecting on your post , shit I feel exactly the same , I will never get over my ex . I know I wont . We did so much , so much , then it went wrong . I wish , as you do , I had sort counseling as well . I have told her I will love her till the day I die .Still we have a fantastic daughter, who is just so , so sound . we talk couple of times a week , so good . I am lucky in another respect , Music , and listening to this Colin Hay just inspires me to play well . Oh for my daughter and music . ciao. btw got my name up there , dont care .
I don't think I'll ever get over my Janis either, some days are better than others but I always feel like I'm just wandering aimlessly thru life just going from one goal to the next in an effort to stay occupied but in those rare moments that we're together I feel a sense that I'm home.
yep............know how you feel........
Sorry to hear that - listen to Colin's intro (long, but good). ua-cam.com/video/HaNlJ5kxWDM/v-deo.html
Yep. Same here man.
My Daughter Dana Forever30 met him years before she passed away in September 2022. She knew him from his appearances on Scrubs & I grew up listening to him ❤️🕊️🙏🏻👑🪽✝️ My Princess loved this man 🙏🏻🕊️👑✝️
I'm sorry for the loss of your Princess! 💖
Very Sorry
I lost my 15 year old son in 2009 , I will never get over him 💔
God bless you and comfort you !
That is heartbreaking 💔 You never completely heal from that.
❤
💔
Lori i wish i could say something to comfort you. Cherish those 15 years .
Just stumbled onto Colin Hay today. I know, I'm late to the game...I'm just glad I got here. Not every musician affects us on an emotional level, This song succeeds in doing that. Truly beautiful.
Better late than never
Welcome
Never too late Ed. Sometimes you just have to thank the fates for peeling back the onion to reveal exactly what you need for a particular moment in time. Enjoy. We're in the company of a true legend here.
As a fellow Scot...I've spent years & years telling folk that the AC/DC lads were Scottish that moved to Oz.
I've only found out Colin Hay was the Men At Work guy a few months a go & that he too is Scottish...i'm so embarrassed & yes...very late to his works...however...I'm glad I've found him at this stage in my life...cause I'm ready for it & it means & feels a lot more personal & relevant to me now.
I will now make it my personal mission to introduce his music to as many ppl as I can. They must be heard & fealt & enjoyed by as many as possible 😁👍❤️🏴
I've given up drinking for a couple of years now and every time I feel like a drop of "strong whiskey" I watch this video and it just makes me feel good about myself. Thanks Colin.
Congratulations! Keep it up friend.
Proud of you! Love yourself and your family 🙏👏☺️
thanks
awesome
Thanks for the encouragement but in January 2020 I broke my leg so went into "lockdown" early, and then Covid sealed my fate; and still is! About 3 months go I started drinking again; no whiskey, just beer and wine. Sad but I didn't want to die without having a beer! I still listen to this so many times and I'm sure it will help me give up again, hopefully sooner rather than too late. I turn 70 next week so I hope I give it up soon. Where there's a will there's a way and when there's a will there's hope.
Years later I keep returning to this song, it contains all of the elements of my life written by a man who has never met me. And yet, knows everything about me.
Being old, sad, drunk, and lonely brought me here
68404 You're not alone in your loneliness, friend :)
Loser
I'll drink to that, you just describe my thoughts except I have an angel lookin over me
@@tombonaroo7937 🤣🤣
Being old, sad, drunk, and lonely is what made this song, too.
For anyone who has lost someone to alcoholism, this song is a tragic tale of how insidious this disease is. It broke my heart to hear that Colin wrote this after his divorce and sobering up. He said the "you" in this song is "alcohol" and I can now listen to this song with his context. It means much more to me now as I've seen how powerful this relationship is with people in my own life and can appreciate his struggle.
Losing my life to it now sadly
What I love about this song, and all of his songs really, is how unassuming the lyrics are. There’s no pretense, he says exactly what he means. He says it plainly and earnestly. And it’s still incredibly moving and deep.
You are exactly right. So much strength underneath his hurt. That is what makes this song so special. He’s not feeling sorry for himself or complaining . He’s just breaking your heart.
It's funny you say that because nearly everyone here thinks he's singing about a long lost lover. He's actually singing about alcohol
@@RetroTekGuyAU we paint these things in ways people can see their own pains in it. It's magic, isn't it?
@@pepperjanehq Yeah absolutely. As I stated in another comment everyone has the right to interpret a song anyway they feel like. I just thought it'd be interesting to some as to what the songs actually about. I myself attach my own lost love pain to this song as well.
You would like Hemingway.
One of the greatest song writers of our generation.
I agree 100%!!!!!
One of the greatest Dudes ever! Everybody should know that. :-/
Agree. I can't get sick of Overkill, no matter how many times I listen or play it. His acoustic version is great as well.
True comment ! No one goes close
Storyteller vs. songwriter. Colin is 100% a storyteller.
I have to listen to this one more time for the 50th time.
Still here two months later. Such a heartbreaking song!
I just discovered this song. I'm on number 25 of repeats!
I'm not sure how many times for me, but I still get something 'new' out of it every time.
Colin, in the September of his years, sober and strong, is finally getting his deserved recognition.
Love ya, mate, since way back in '82.
My husband passed away about 2 weeks ago. He always loved this track from the garden State soundtrack. I can't stop listening to it and it breaks my heart. it says everything I need to feel and everything I'm going through and it's really really hard right now.
❤
So sorry for your loss. 😔
Prayers
It gets easier.
Trust me..I know
@@davegardner5672 I'm trying to figure it out. But it's not getting easier yet..
Iv'e just listened to the most beautiful Song I have ever heard and just found Colin thank you Colin you made an old man very happy l lost my Partner Roger 5 years ago we were together for nearly 40 years he was the most beautiful person l have ever known and he would love this Song thank you Colin. 🎵🎶👍
Colin has what some rightfully call a "signature voice." There are so many amazing singers, but then there are those whose voices have a truly unique signature. It's simply something you're either born with, or you're not. It is a rare gift. I could listen to him sing from the phone book.
Jason Furlong it truly is incredible. The videos do not do him justice. I've seen him live a few times now and when he hits his high notes at full volume it takes your breath away and you then realize you are witnessing something magical and unique. And his song writing skills are on another level. John Mayer himself said he wishes he could someday write a song as good as Colin can. Quite the complement right there.
tossedpenny
Well said, my friend. Colin is my favorite kind of artist: he prefers the journey to any one destination, and he trusts his instincts. He truly has what they call “artistic integrity” and it’s impossible to imagine him ever losing that. Cheers.
When Colin sings, there is no mistaking it.
Yes, but ... then there's his GUITAR!!
The late actor Leo McKern who played Rumpole in Rumpole of the Bailey was the same with his speaking voice. I heard the same quote about him with his voice. They said he could read the phone book and make it sound like Shakespeare.
I'm listening to this song in the bathroom and I'm crying like a baby thinking I'm so happy having my wife and son with me. I thank everyday to life for this privilege. This song reminds me how important they are to me. Thank you Colin, you are a true artist, touched my soul. Greetings from Argentina.
Lost my wife to a stroke last year and have grown to love this song. I’m a big Colin Hay fan, but had never heard this song until she died, and it’s provided me loads of comfort. ❤️
Do you know Matty Healy, the frontman of the 1975? Number 1 public enemy of the century, he's been punished more than he should be.. (I don't want to go into that hatred any further, people won't listen either way)
No one dares to stand or be seen with him; even his girlfriend leaves him at his lowest point.
Yesterday, he sang this song to open the concert of his own band, the 1975. He is a man. Men tend to ignore their own hurt or feelings, but it is the way he regulates his feelings, singing the song that suits him. It is so lovely to see him finally able to regulate his feelings. We are not his family, we are just his fans.. but, we consider us as the friend of the band. We love their music.
As one of his fans, I am so thankful that your song exists to save him and help him go through this darkest valley. Your artwork is amazing. This song is so beautiful.. Thank you, sir! Keep on shining like a star...❤
What an unreal musician. His performances and music is so unique and powerful.
the guitar work is also stellar...
John Brace: He does accompany himself well, doesn't he.
indeed.
Ehm... nope :) It is just the magic of alternative tuning (afaik he using drop-D or DADGAD often). Because you are not used to this tuning it sounds amazing.... that is all :)
@@johnysmrz you're right he totally sucks, ha.
@@johnysmrz Ehm... nope, his guitar work is stellar. Yes its an alternate tuning and fairly simple, but his dynamics and technique are spot on. Good try though on attempting to seem smart from your expansive guitar knowledge, cheers :)
I wonder if you’ll find me here.
I visit often.
Always with a heavy heart.
Remembering how good it was... until it wasn’t.
I miss you every single day.
I just don’t think I’ll ever get over you.
💔
🙏❤🩹
I´ve listened to this Version probably a thousand times, and i still can´t get over it. It´s such a deeply touching song, played better than he ever did before. And with a huge pile of positive thinking, i´ll still be listening to it when i´m a hundred an two... Thank you so much, Mr. Hay....
Grew up w Men at Work. 40 yrs later and I stumble across Colin Hay, thanks to a Norman’s Guitar video of him playing Overkill. Then.... I find this. No words.
Me too.
Same here....
Totes
Colin is one of the most unappreciated songwriters in the English world.
As always, this man tells chilling stories in his songs.
But I also want a to put my hands up for the sound guy. This mix is insanely good
2 yrs ago today, I lost my husband of over 47yrs. He was a musician/guitarist & the love of my life. He loved this song, music is how he expressed his feelings. He had a whole list of love songs for us. It is now my reality as I will never get over losing him. He was an amazing person, his love was endless & unconditional. Thank you Colin.
Thank you Colin for articulating one of the most difficult things to say when you are hurting beyond belief.
X
Colin can BREAK YOUR HEART and within moments HE HEALS IT AGAIN - with the PROMISE in HIS SPIRIT!
GOD BLESS YOU COLIN - FOREVER
My mother died a year ago. After listening to this, I ugly-cried more than I have for a whole year.
Thank you Colin, you beautiful man.
Hugs on what I know is a hard day. 💙
When the heart breaks the soul awakens. Sometimes loss is the greatest driver of necessary change.
How has Colin not had a proper renaissance? Good lord what heart breaking brilliance.
Need s a bit more rock
I lost my girlfriend.
21 year to go. I dedicate this song to her, her name was Jackie. I love the song. I don't drink anymore and I drink coffee.
This is a awesome song. I relate to it and it helps me so much mind, body soul spirit.😊❤❤❤❤
21 years ago?
What a cup of coffee can change ❣️
When I sit down and try to write a song... this is the kind of song I hope I’ll write.
The absolute most underrated guitarist or musician from the fucking 80s
I drink good coffee every morning
It comes from a place that's far away
And when I'm done I feel like talking
Without you here there is less to say
Don't want you thinking I'm unhappy
What is closer to the truth
Is that if I lived till I was a hundred and two
I just don't think I'll ever get over you
I'm no longer moved to drink strong whiskey
And I shook the hand of time and I knew
That if I lived till I could no longer climb my stairs
I just don't think I'll ever get over you
Your face it dances and it haunts me
Your laughter is still ringing in my ears
I still find pieces of your presence here
Even, even after all these years
But I don't want you thinking that i don't get asked to dinner
'Cause I'm here to say that I sometimes do
And even though I may seem to feel a touch of love
I just don't think I'll ever get over you
Yeah, if I live till I was a hundred and two
I just don't think I'll ever get over you
Thank you
So kind from you! Thank you so much ☺️🤗
My deepest gratitude. Thank you.
I would like your comment but it's at 102
My wife left me a couple of years ago. Broke my heart. I’ll never get over her. This song puts into words everything I want to say to her every day since.
Sorry to hear that bro. I'd like to say it'll get better. Maybe it will, 10 years on, it hasn't for me. But what can we do?
@@NapoleonicWargaming thanks for that bro. I hope you’re right and maybe the hurt will get less as time goes by, but I think we’re allowed one true love in our lives. If you lose them, then that’s it, no second chances. Hope times prove me wrong.
Keep the faith my friend. My grandfather use to say that when one door closes another opens. He was a great man but terrible cabinet maker...
This may be the most sad and beautiful song I know
I always think I can get thru this song without tearing up. I've listened to it a hundred and two times and I have yet to not tear up.
The end of this song blows my mind! I burst into tears every time. Such a great writer and musician.
This is the best version of this song. Magical. Stunning. How is he that good?
I DOUBLE DOWN ON THAT - THIS PERFORMANCE WAS BLOODY FUCKING BRILLIANT..!
I think a lot of the magic comes from his pure intentions..
Right? Better than the recording, better than when he first sang it. Sublime.
It just comes from a very deep real space, from his soul.
Found a lot of amazing music over the years... Something about Colin's solo work that a minutely few others have... He has such a genuine nature to his lyrics and voice... no pretentiousness, no embellishment... just him speaking from his soul.
My father was a wonderful man, this reminds me of him.
Same here 💔
I just lost my mom and totally understand. Im really sorry for your loss 💙 I'm devastated
Such a beautiful song, I lost my girlfriend nearly five years ago and these lyrics are very meaningful to me. Thanks Colin.
Im sorry Adam x
Same exact thing here. July 9, 2014.
I lost my son in 1980 and this song says it all for me crying happy
I am sorry to hear that. I lost mine last year, and like you, this song means so much.
Condolences.....to move on.....
Just found this tonight. How heartbreakingly beautiful. What a talent.
"Don't cry because its over smile because it happen"
-Dr Seuss
For those who have loved and lost, there may be nothing that can replace what you've lost but thats also what made it so special...
Moments are gifts live in the present fully.
Lost my Dad a month ago. Instead of crying the song makes me remember all of the good times.... Thanks Colin!!!
This is one of those songs that you love from the first moment until you realize you love it even more later. Anybody still pumping blood can relate, and can we take a moment to appreciate the incredibly warm guitar? I don't know what he paid for that instrument, but its sound is worth more than the purchase price.
What a song what a voice
Great instruments help, but the life of the instrument is the person playing it.
I love it when I find a new gem to add to my playlist.
For anyone who has loved and lost , they will feel and breathe every last syllable of this song , truly heartbreaking ❤️
“Without you here there is less to say” 😓
Finally UA-cam’s algorithm has found a most phenomenal artist of LOVE
He broke up with me when I was 20. At 59, this song hits home. Ily A.F. Always will.
I feel you Steph.
I am going through my second year of the breakup of my broken heart, and I too know this is a forevermore type situation. Did you ever let anyone else love you furthermore did you ever love anyone else after that?
At least once a week, I look at Colin's tour schedule to see if he is coming within hundreds of miles of my home. If he ever plays in the midwest or south, I will be there. This guy has the gift.
Saw Colin in Las Vegas about 5 years ago. Stood up against the stage and the tears flowed without care or shame when he performed this. Song is a masterclass.
One of the last true troubadours amazing singer songwriter and musician 👏
I don't know how often I've been listening to this. Colin Hay truly belongs to superstardom. Virtuosity in both music and lyrics. ART! Thank you Colin Hay!
I'm moved to tears every time i hear this.... every single time
Me too.
damn man , me too
Chas N. Same here,
This and 'Waiting for my Real Life to Begin' hit me every time, and I'm here for it.
Colin is just like a fine whiskey, he gets better and finer with age. I remember hearing this tune in Melbourne in a small local venue, it has only improved and his guitar work too, indeed! Cheers!
Honestly, I was never a big fan of Men at Work, but Colin will always have a special place in my heart.. incredible talent!
What a perfect performance of a perfect song. His vocal phrasing is so relaxed and full of character. Absolutely beautiful.
This is one of the most sad and beautiful songs that I have ever heard. I think this is the best Colin has ever done.
This just shredded me... your ability to captivate your listener is tremendous....Mr. Hay, thanks for the enlightenment.
The nuances in this performance are something I hope everyone hears...it's what makes it
And only six people have figured it out, I live with one that doesn't hear anything special about songs like this...very sad
One of the best songs ever written. Colin is so underrated- he is a unique talent and just absolutely brilliant. Thank you, Colin for all you have done for me with your music and others that find you as great as I do.
Would love to play drums on any of your tours. I’m not a hack - been on the thick of things with big national bands.
This song makes me bawl. It's so good and so relatable when you've lost someone close to you.
How does his guitar sound that good? It’s magical
Party because he's using an open tuning. The other part is his finger magic.
Combination of a few things, if we're focusing solely on the tone of the instrument - first, it's just a really nice guitar! Second, the writing and performance is great. His go-to tuning is usually DADGBD or DADGAD (here it's the latter), and writing with those lets you double a ton of notes to get really big sounding open chords as well as some really nice shimmery dissonances. On top of that, he's got excellent control when it comes to dynamics and intent - he knows exactly what sound he's trying to make in each section and isn't just blindly strumming away at chords.
Third, the mix is fantastic, and is actually using two input sources - the DI from the guitar's line out (that gives you a lot of that really "specific" and almost electric sound on the little melodic riffs) and the dedicated microphone on the guitar (gives a lot more resonance and body, more like what you'd hear if someone was playing a guitar right in front of you with no amplification). Mix those two together and you've got the best of both worlds, which contributes to a really cool acoustic sound!
I've heard orchestras that filled the room less than his single guitar.
@@vocalimpactplays217 My biggest dissapointment is listening to my songs recorded. This song for example sounds like im playing a banjo and I have a Greenfield ....thank you for your insight into the recording methodology
@@nickbonzer another way to unlock good acoustic guitar recording is to mic up the guitar in two spots: put one condenser mic 3/4 of the way down the neck, and another one south of the bridge. The sound resonates more from the fretboard and the top than it may seem. If you are using this double mic technique, you will want to avoid placing a microphone directly in front of the sound hole. It will muddy the recording, especially if your guitar has a particularly beefy sound, like that of a Gibson J45 or a Guild.
If you have a studio with good sound treatment, you may also want to set up a third microphone in the middle of the room. Ideally, this one would be a ribbon mic, but those can be very expensive. A condenser microphone will do just fine.
Probably the most beautiful song ever
Colin Hay is a next level, underrated songwriter.
How fortunate I am, to have heard this song and this live version.
Our brains always remember it, coffee helps me to and forget it. Perfect song...well done Colin. Thank you.
what i love about DADGAD tuning is that when its played like this it sounds firm, but also has this vibration that almost makes me think of a cat purring..
these chords make me feel so melancholy too.
absolute beauty of a song :)
Never knew this was the tuning. I just played in drop D. I bet this is much easier. 🤦🏻♂️
How rich is the tracking on that guitar, too? Beautiful
I was hoping someone would say what the tuning is. Thanks
There are 4 songs that resonate beyond words for me.
Empty Chairs, Don Maclean
Both Sides now, Joni Mitchell
Overkill, Colin Hay.
And this one.....I still am not over you
I wish I could like (love) this vid every time I watch.
This is one of the most inspired, brilliant pieces of music I have ever heard. Colin Hay is just amazing.
What a song! Absolutely true. We who have loved that deeply and lost this totally know you have written our song. Thank you brother.
It's been 8 months since you passed, and I miss you Pops. Could really use some of your cranky ass wisdom and humor right now. Love you so much Dad.
We were married forty three years,this song makes me think of the love we shared, cancer ended our time together but music helps tremendously. Thank-you and keep singing
I cry every time I hear this song.
This is what pure talent looks and sounds like.
This guy is truly a gem...