3 Things You Can Say to Make Him Feel Like a Man | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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Communication is a very important part in relationships, and knowing what to say to trigger attraction in your man is a powerful skill. In this video, I reveal 3 phrases you can use to trigger that attraction and make him feel like a man.
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You helped me build my confidence so much 😊
Your advice got me two Engagements in a year. Walked away from the first because one of your videos helped me realize my worth. My husband proposed four months after I walked away from the other Engagement. Currently a happy housewife.
I took your advice on knowing your value, and copied what your wife did, that made you propose to her. My ship was sailing, and it's either he's on it or not.
He proposed fast lol.
My late hubby used to tell me he "loved me more than I will ever know". He really was my hero and my best friend.
💖
Why do women think only they deserve admiration, compliments, encouragement but the belittle men for wanting to be appreciated. It works both ways.
My husband at the beginning of our relationship said to me...
- I'm here!
- You're safe!
- You're loved!
...and made the whole difference.
thanks for that - I felt good just reading that !!!!
Wow I would love to here that ...
Inessa Gunther 🌸 wow you are so pretty, he sounds like an amazing man
Awww I bet that feels good ♡
That’s brilliant! I love it
More things men NEED to hear:
1. I’m proud of you because...
2. I admire you because....
3. You make me happy.
4. I want you.
5. I need you in my life.
I’ve been married 20 years and I always strive to make him feel my admiration and pride and remind him that he still does it for me.
👏👏👏👏👏
Sorry to be offtopic but does anybody know a trick to get back into an Instagram account..?
I was stupid lost my login password. I would love any tips you can give me!
Thank you for sharing!
That sounds wonderful and I wish I could say those things but it's difficult to say them to a surly, hypercritical man who doesn't say anything similar to the woman. A man who consistently berates and trashes his partner will never hear those things.
They're an exchangevil for evil but overcome evil with good can also be done exchange insult for insult but overcome with good. Be the best you can be for him. That will be the reflection people see of you.
I love it when he says:
1) you bring out the best of me / you influence me positively
2) i trust you
3) thank you for taking care of me
4) i’m grateful our paths in life crossed
4:30
1. You're brilliant
2. You save me
3. You're my hero
I really like this guy but I got places to go and things to do. If you have time it's definitely worth the listen.
JustAroundtheHorizon SAME
😅😅😅
So true. I was like come on...spit it out
😁😅😊
I’m dead 😂😂😂
"You're brilliant"? "You're my hero"? "You saved me"? Are you fking kidding me...??? It's sad that in order to be partnered with a straight man, women have to pretend to need rescuing; that they have to pretend to be less capable than they are just to make a man feel "like a man." Tragic. I'm not sure women today have the time or the desire to do this, probably why there are so many single people out there. On the other hand, women aren't wasting valuable time building up a man's ego, time that is better invested building herself up; which, of course, has a much bigger payoff. If I have to pretend to be in need of rescuing in order to attract him, I'll pass. This is idiocy. It feels like this video was made in 1953. It's not a woman's responsibility to make a man "feel" like a man, get real. If a man doesn't feel like a man on his own, he's not a developed person, and won't make a good partner. Ladies, if the man you're dating needs you to validate him, RUN. Unless you want to pander to him for the rest of your "relationship," seek the company of complete people who know who they are, who are comfortable with who they are, and who can ADD to your life without sucking your energy dry. My two cents.
@@NewYorkNadia Why is it tragic to understand and appreciate the way the male mind and heart is designed? As a woman, you would expect and even insist that the man you are with cater to your needs both emotional and physical. Why would you not do the same for him? And it absolutely is a woman's responsibility to care for her man by saying/doing things that will build him up - just as it is his responsibility to do the same for her. If you consider such things to be a waste of time, then a relationship is probably not the right thing for you since it requires effort on both sides.
I love when my boyfriends says:
1. "We are a team, we are in this together"
2. "I am so lucky that I found you"
3. "You are so intelligent, I could speak with you for hours"
This is the one for me
The three things that I would love to hear....
1. No one will ever hurt you again
2. You are special, there is not another woman in this world like you.
3. You are worth it.
This is the man of my dreams
1) “You’re so cute/adorable”
It just makes me feel cherished :)
2) “I’ll protect you” or “I’ll take care of you”
One time a guy was with me on this narrow and long escalator with his arm around me which made me feel unstable and I started grabbing on to the hand rails. And he looked me in the eyes and said “I won’t let you fall” with the most confident, sure-of-himself tone and I could feel that he meant it. And with just that small remark I suddenly felt safer. It’s really important for me to feel safe in his presence.
3) To hear him call any part of me soft, my hair, my skin, if he calls me soft-hearted, if he tells me I have a gentle touch. I like to feel delicate, not weak or a pushover, but delicate because if he perceives me as something that contrasts with his strong manliness then I feel that he’s attracted to me, which is very validating for me.
I love to hear:
1. I love you
2. You're beautiful
3. I'm so glad you're mine
+Mathew Boggs Can you do a video on how to satisfy your man without having premarital sex?
Queen Neffatri I agree! This type of video would be very useful!
I love to hear words of appreciation.
Queen Neffatri so true these r d exact things i wanna hear 💗
I agree too that
3 phrases that women love to hear:
-Tell me more.
-I feel for you.
-I am here.
+BupBe Inc (cty búp bê) Tell me more ;)
lol
How about saying "it's not your fault". Even when it is.
Keyword women, not girls
These are great, thanks for reminding me about these phrases.
I love it when a guy says:
1. You’re beautiful
2. I love how caring/kind you are
3. You’re so amazing
1. You are my queen and my crown
2. Every time i see you i fall in love with you all over again.
3. Your skin glows in the sun (black girl)
4. You make me the happiest man in this world.
5. I am proud of you
Suzie Taboh 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Love these!!!
3 phrases I wanna hear:
"is there anything I can do to make you feel better?"
"you can do it. I have faith in you"
"you are amazing the way you are"
100%
Exactly. Me too...
I'll protect you.
You're special/Don't forget how special you are.
I didn't want them; I wanted you./I chose you.
+Melissa Solley ^_^
+Melissa Solley Hell yeah :)
exactly :)
YES!
He looks so happy and proud when he’s talking about lifting the water for his wife, it’s sweet. Also when she liked his restaurant choice. ♥️
You are SOOOO right! Before I got married, my husband used to say that I made him "feel" good when he was around me. I had used your 3 "brilliant" ideas about lifting up his ego and his spirits and he couldn't stop thinking about me. When you make someone feel special, they are attracted to you, male or female. Good words encourage, bad words detract. Thank you! You reap what you sow.
My mom gives almost the same advice! My parents have been married over 35 years and she told me that she often compliments and builds up my dad. She makes sure he feels important, loved, and appreciated because he is. I love this! Thank you!
It's sad that in order to be partnered with a straight man, women have to pretend to need rescuing; that they have to pretend to be less capable than they are just to make a man feel "like a man." Tragic. I'm not sure women today have the time or the desire to do this, probably why there are so many single people out there. On the other hand, women aren't wasting time building up a man's ego, and that time can be invested in building herself up; which, of course, has a much bigger payoff.
Your mom is sooo cool. So few people in a relationship take the effort to build each other up. No surprise that divorce is at an all-time high. So sad.
Joy and Jungles Divorce is at an all-time high because there’s no longer any need for marriage. Marriages lasted much longer in the past because women were financially dependent on men. That’s no longer the case, so less and less women have a vested interest in keeping a marriage going. What’s the point? Especially if you’ve grown apart or are no longer in love with your mate. Couples can give each other power of attorney and can also will each other assets if they wish, no marriage needed, and way less pressure. The idea of marriage is very sweet but also impractical in today’s world. My two cents.
@@NewYorkNadia and it's sadly not worth "two cents"!
Hey @@NewYorkNadia ... your "two cents" is not worth 2 cents, nor sensical !!
Great video! 3 things that my guy has told me & I love to hear is:
1. You're beautiful.
2. You make smile.
3. I trust you.
+Jessica Barnes totally agree
I agree!!!
Exactly!
+Jessica Barnes just reading it makes me feel good...u r so on point
you got it!!! 👍
Oh yeah, & "You feel like home to me" waited 60 years to hear those things from someone I could respect & admire. Well worth the wait!
I love when a man lights up when he sees me!
You won't sleep with that man though will you?
@@johnsmith-gk3ek Only in marriage! 😊
Thats It Girl ! I love that. 😇
I won't settle until I have that reaction consistently.
he did that just other day, and I was blown away❤
When a man is compassionately truthful with me, that makes me fall in love with him. When I find out he lies, or lies by omission, he loses all my respect...immediately.
+le th " I want you "
+lorri Bell many men will want you, few will love you. You have to do the choosing. One PUA with many UA-cam videos says he has been in a "relationship" every day since he was 19 yo and he in his 30s now. His idea of a relationship is his erection inside a vagina. One night stands are a relationship! Yea, he wants you...but he doesn't love you.
"compassionately truthful" Please give example. Is this before or after you both have bumped uglies?
le th Sooooo AGREE👍
PERIOD!
I like to hear
"You're smart"
"I believe in you & I know you can do it"
"Smile again" "your smile is worth it"
I told my office computer guy he was my hero yesterday. Well, I had someone tell him in Chinese for me. The smile on his face said he knew exactly what I felt. It made my day to see him smile so big! I didn't even know then how powerful those words are until now.
I love to hear:
1. I want to protect & take care of you
2. You are my priority
3. I love you the most
I would like to hear " I appreciate you. "
+Celia Vega That's a great one for me too!!
A man I am attracted to said that to me, hugging me, "I appreciate you." But, he has not pursued or contacted me, thereafter...meaning it seems he was not interested seriously, maybe just "sisterly." Grr.
I appreciate you
The _actual_ content pertinent to the title starts at 3:40
You're welcome.. :)
EDIT: he finally spits it out at 4:26
Thank you! He usually gets right to the point. Some of that was annoying.
Ernestine Lyons Indeed. Kind of like a mosquito bite. Not the worst thing in the world, but irritating. You're welcome, my dear. I _love_ your name by the way :)
3 things I love to hear from him
1. You look wonderful
2. You're smart
3. You made my day
I love it when he says,
" I always have time for you"
You make me smile
I love to her your laugh
Your are such a kind and generous person
"My God you're beautiful. " We like that.
+Janet Ward Heard that again today rom the same patient that says it to me whenerver I see him.
+Janet Ward But You ARE beautiful! :)
+Janet Ward Yes! That never gets old!
For me, when I hear "you are beautiful" if he sees me for the first time, I might feel he is talking about my body for he didnt have TIME to know ME... So his vision doesnt go deep than the skin ))) So he doesnt see ME but the skin and bones... But if it's a man that we have a relationship already and he knows me better that would be totally another thing )) I would sure love that TOO!!!! That really doesnt get old!!! ))))))
"said a little prayer over the spider soul" Loved that! My first thought was "Kill it? Why? Relocate it!" and then you said that bit! Love it!
+Tarryn Munro me too ^^
Haha, I know! so perfect.
+Tarryn Munro LOL i found that so cute and funny, little spider soul aww...
we are taught not to kill spiders...just set em free elsewhere.
i love hearing "your a good mom" or "I'm proud of you" or " i love you and never want to lose you" that's always gives me happy tears
I tell him he is my "Captain America". Because he protect me from things I am blind from; he conquers my doubts and bring me peace.
Felicia W stealing that one! thx :)
I love that! My guy is a big fan of Marvel movies and even has a plastic Captain America shield in his apartment.
I love that. I call my "friend" Captain America.
"You're sexy" ...Because it makes me feel that way as soon as I hear it
"I love that about you" ...Because adding that in relation to one of my distinct characteristics makes me feel like I am being valued for the individual that I am
"What do you think about that" ...Because it makes me feel like me and my opinions are an important part in that person's life
Better: You make me feel sexy. I can't stop looking at your ass.
If he says you are sexy, your logic kicks in and compares yourself to a supermodel. If he says you have a nice ass, again logic and comparison kicks in. By pass logic.
why do you make such a comparison? im a woman, and I assure you I wouldn't have such thoughts about supermodels, I would relate it to our relationship, and depending on the level of intimacy I'd either feel good or offended. sorry, you are not a woman (at least that's my impression) and you can't say that for us, it really says a lot about YOUR comparisons, not ours!
bingo!
Dorota Pierścińska
Carol Janssen-Horky. Thank you very much!
I love these tips Mathew. Thank you!
For me, I love it when a man says:
1. You're Amazing! Then tells me why :)
2. I love that you're my woman. Its nice when a guy feels like he's hit the jackpot with you.
3. It's okay how you feel. Nothing like feeling heard and having your feelings validated.
Absolutely love number 3
As a woman it makes my heart happy to lift up my guy and to communicate some of the things I love, respect or admire about him! Us girls want our men to make us feel special, but we shouldn’t forget they like feeling that way as well!
“You’re so beautiful”
“You give me so much life”
“I love making you smile”
“I love listening to you”
“You balance me”
I think every woman wants to hear her man say she's beautiful and that he loves her
You want to feel like a hero? THEN ACT LIKE ONE! My advice to all you guys out there.
Like he said....you must put the wood first lady,Fire need wood.
yes, I agree completely. actions speak louder than voice
funny how you take man's side. you and Mathew forget that it's a mutual relationship/connection. you just happen to be on one side, and your view is very limited. what about same sex relationships? who is the wood and who is the fire? and do you praise your woman on every little thing she does? do you say, 'honey the chicken is absolutely delicious today, so much better than two days ago, you are so refined :)?
I m not a same sex specialist,but i feel that the western woman is soo entitled.They think that all the men must provide, protect and die for them.Feminist have destroyed the family units and destroyed the men.Single mother raise the kid...men dont want to marry anymore because of divorce laws.All we need is that you put a little wood in the fire and its to much for the woman.If your men don't tell you that your chicken is good, it's because like 90% of woman ...you date a bad boy and good men are boring for you.Have a nice day lady Dorota.
You are so right, Zarack666
It melts me when my man says, “You take such good care of me!“
It makes me know he recognizes how hard I am trying to make him feel #1!!!
Matt, yesterday I told a man I am very proud of you and I told him why and after a while he thanked me for this. He said I had impressed him so much that he could not react at that moment.He felt speechless but super happy. According to him, nobody tells him so and he was really fascinated.Use that sentence in your videos because it goes a long way.And appreciation is really powerful too.
phrases start at 4:27 ;-)
+Sheila Wood THANK YOU!
youre a blessing to this universe
Victoria Daisy
Thank u
Sheila Wood thank u
"I've got this" When I'm stressing over something. It just melts off all my muscle tension and gives me a warm realization that someone has my back and focus on the fact that I can trust him to take care of it and therefore me.
That's great I get so caught up in my feelings and stress I don't even look at things like that I really need to I'm very blessed to have my husband he loves me fears I don't ever have to worry about anything I'm took care of he's a very hard worker and passionate about his work I'm the reason he gets up and breaths sometimes I take things for granted and forget just how good and how lucky I am to have a man who fights protects and and everything he does is related to providing for the both of us
3 phrases I love:
1.- you’re sexy
2.- I’ll do this (whatever is needed) for you.
3.- I trust you.
When a man tell me he respects me and shows me that respect. He gets the heat. Every time. 🔥
Yes
I have a long distance relationship which is hard but we didnt really need any help Matthew cos it is all coming naturally from the heqart. We just need to sort out where we are goign to settle together... thats not so easy but I think we both have room mto be negotiable.
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3 things what i love to hear :
1. I miss you.
2. You make me smile.
3. I want to stay with you.
I love your storytelling method of teaching. Super effective! :) Three phrases I love to hear:
1. You're going to be such an amazing mom someday
yes yes yes yes!!!
I just had to smile. Without even knowing this....I have at different times due to different situations used all three and he flipped out!!! Puts a smile on my face just thinking how quickly he tells me he cherishes me and loves my unconditionally!! Thanks Mat!!!!!!
Women love security, so "I'll be here for you, I'll take care of you and protect you, I appreciate you, and you're so special to me" Of course "I love you and your beautiful" is something every woman wants to hear
Sandra D you nailed it perfectly!! Thanks.
Sandra D - I agree also👍
❤things my man tells me that I love to hear every single time❤:
1) you're beautiful in and out
2)i can't control myself around you
3)your lips/eyes/smile etc. is/are sexy
4)why are you so cute?
5)how do you manage to become more and more gorgeous day by day?
6)i want to feel every single thing you feel
"I feel so good when im with you"
1. "I know you are capable, but I'd still like to protect what I find valuable."
(something that displays trust in competence combined with displaying value)
2. "That really makes sense. I really see where you are coming from / going with ..."
(I sometimes need confirmation that I effectively communicated what I was intending.)
Alternatively: "Would you mind running that by me again in different terms? I was listening, but I'm not sure I caught all the meaning I know you were trying to convey."
3. I know you're Ok, or you will be, but I want you to know that it's Ok if you ever are not Ok. I'm here for you.
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I will not make fun of your fears if you trust me enough to express them.
"I am 9 inches... 9 LOONG inches taller then 5'!" hahahaha nice
Hannah Elizabeth o
Hannah Elizabeth 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When he said 9 inches I thought this guy must be exaggerating bear until he stated the facts.
I'm 5'4 and my boy friend is 6'3
Lol
As a woman and a mom and a wife it is such a tremendous blessing to hear my husband say you are a wonderful mom, to our children.
*Three phrases to ignite a woman:*
1) I've never seen anything so beautiful in my entire life
2) I love the way you take care of and cater to me
3) I'm the luckiest man alive
beautiful yes, slave no. help me help you not help you help you help you
Catering to your man isn't being a 'slave'. A woman should naturally nurture and cater to her man. It should be automatic.
I would love to hear:
-I am here for you when you need me.
-You are special and one of a kind.
You are hilarious dude! So far you are my favorite, most solid type of guidance in this relationship area (video wise), because of your intention. Thanks~
1. ur beautiful
2.ur smart
3. that is the reason I love you more than any 1
Thank you Mat,
My man is a boxer and he gets so happy and masculine when i praise him and his trainings, i remember i sincerle said " it is beautiful to watch your training" he got so overwhelmed and said , thank you my heart thank you so much for your support
Mathew, first of all.... Thank you SO MUCH for sharing this on UA-cam and take so much love and effort in doing so! I've learned so much about relationships, men, myself as a woman and my role in a healthy relationship.
So to answer your question. I think that women love to hear these three phrases:
- That means so much to me, thank you (because we want to make you feel important and noticed as a man)
- What would I do without you? (This may sound a bit cheesy but it actually works! It makes us feel important and noticed as a woman. Our presence, opinions and actions matter)
- You are perfect (this one doesn't need any explanation does is haha)
+Claire Volger
I agree! I love to hear, I appreciate that or that means so much to me. You feel heard and that you were helpful to him.
+Claire Volger I really would love to agree with her..., as in first place I think for us is be appreciate...and that feeling then we are unique and they need us ...!
I would say: Thank U for be with me and love me
U are mean a lot for me
U are the best - are one of the millions and you chose me... :)
Ilze Konovalova
I always tell my husband "thank you," "You're the best," and "I don't know what I would do without you." :)
Any man that actually wants to hear my opinion makes me smile ... I'm pretty shy and have been through a lot of abuse ... I am with a very sweet man that actually speaks to me in kind ways and loves to hear me talk too ... I am so excited about being with him ... It is great .. FYI I'm 62 and he's 72 ... but I am smitten ... We just love doing anything together ..
Women want to hear:
1) You are beautiful
2) You are beautiful
3) You are so beautiful
[extra point for saying she's smart]
That's it. Pretty simple?
Extra points if he KNOWS she's smarter and TELLS her that.
Beauty is just one word... How about the inner beauty?
Your joy is so contagious! I
Appreciate Your wife for building you up and your sharing your knowledge with us. Makes me want to step out and seek a true healthy relationship.
LOVE your vibe, Matthew!!
I love it when someone asks me questions about me. It shows that the have a genuine interest in who I am and that they've put effort into thinking about me. I like hearing accolades, but there's nothing like someone asking me about what I'm thinking and feeling. When they show that they are actively interested in my answers that feels amazing :)
I love to hear....
“I miss you”
“You’re gorgeous/beautiful”
“You’re my woman.” I love knowing I’m valued and important to him.
The 3 things are simple enough to remember and use to make someone feel special
Thanks, Matt!! I am so impressed with HOW you present all this valuable information!! I have the feeling, that I really want to start dating again! I kinda thought I am just not pretty and young enough any more... you gave me the information that I needed to hear. Thank you!!! :) My three sentences that I love to hear: 1."I am here for you and I see you" 2. " you are so sexy to me, you make me feel so hot", 3. "you are my world"
I have been watching quite a number of your video's today - thank you for delivering your message in such a humorous and light hearted way. I have had a good laugh and at the same time learnt some new lessons...so thank you Matt!
Matt, love your kindness and good energy! Keep spreading those good vibrations!
I guess for my close friends or my dad. I like hearing as his son as I get older as a young adult:
1) Awww, that's absolutely amazing!
2) It's okay/it doesn't matter; I just want you to be happy.
3) I'll always be here to help you become a better man because I love you.
yes
I love being called his Princess!!
Oh, and getting those mid day texts saying that they are thinking about you is something that just lights me up every day!!
I love to hear "I adore you" and also "anything for you" (for instance after thanking him for something he did). I also love to hear "you make me so happy" -- music to my ears. :)
My favorite: "I'm here for you," and hearing him defend me in front of others.
Matthew ! You are hilarious and a great communicator ;) Will keep these three phrases safely stored for use with the man I love. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.
Brilliant! I will be using these on my husband.
I love this video😁I really do. Mathew always gives so much love from himself. Thank you,Mathew, and all the best to your family!
Matt I am loving your videos. You are freaking brilliant!!! A couple of your messages have already saved me from some bad dates. You are my date-life hero. Thank you for making such a huge impact on my life!!!
I get so pumped and positive with your videos, that I can do this! I can keep the man I'm with that I love so much! Your tools are amazing. I feel so empowered that I know it's going to come across positive to him.
Love watching your videos!
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This topic is very important for women, Thank you for making this video!
Matt, you ARE brilliant! I learned so many things from your videos, I had no clue about. I am now determined to make it right this time when I meet someone special :). Thank you so much for what you do!
I have said similar phrases, and he blushed
You are Brilliant, you are my hero, you saved me! thanks man i never thought about these 3 words...!! 😁😁
I’ve watched quite a few of your videos Matt and I have to say this one made me laugh out loud as well as touch my heart in that your advice is so sensible. Thank you for your refreshing delivery!
I try to say these to my love bug every once and awhile and they really do work I'm so glad he's confidence has come up so much
I saw these two sentences in someones comment and I totally agree:
"I love that about you" ...Because adding that in relation to one of my distinct characteristics makes me feel like I am being valued for the individual that I am
"What do you think about that" ...Because it makes me feel like me and my opinions are an important part in that person's life.
Also, I love it when a guy tells me:
1. 'hey, it's okay to not always be okay. I'm here for you.' I love that, because I have the tendency to always want to do well and it's exhausting and occasionally, I just need to take a breath and rest. It is my challenge to take care of myself, more and better.
2. You are so much stronger than you think you are.
3. I caught myself smiling and realized I was thinking of you.
And I love it when he shows me or someone else that he is my boyfriend and I'm his girlfriend. Whether that is by verbalizing it or putting his arm around me/putting his hand on the small of my back/holding hands, all of these feel great.
I also really love it when he verbalizes that he likes taking care of me (in the small things, too).
This is a great video! Thanks for making me laugh! I love your videos :)
i love how you mix humor and education, it’s so engaging
Thank you so much for your brilliant, insightful, specific instruction! You are such a great inspiration for those of us who want to have amazing love relationships.
-"You make me Vital!"
-"You make me want to be active"
-"You are the most important one i consider"
Also when a man compliments authentically.
When a man shows you he acknowledges and adores your uniqueness.
And in a higher state of love, empathy and true connection... Example: A mans wife hurt her leg, that he says to the doctor "we hurt our leg" doctor asks, Whos the one with the injury? My wife, but its hurting us!"
Hi Mat, first of all thank you for your advices. Well, there are 3 phrases I love to hear from the man I'm in love with. Number one : I love you. Number 2 : You are beautyful. Number 3 : You are my best friend. Assia from France
Thank you for all the very informative and helpful videos, sir Matt! 👏
My man always says these phrases to me and my heart melts everytime.
1. You can do it!
2. Thank you for being there for me.
3. I pray that God gives you strength and peace of mind.
4. I am blessed for having you.
5. I'll support you all the way.
6. I love you. ❤️
He tells me you are definitely the one i could spend my life with, you’re going to be a good mother and whenever he calls me mama I secretly melt
My mom loves ❤️your videos 👍🏽she’ll be getting the book that you have written with your friend!! And she mentioned to me the 3 things a woman wants to hear from her man are.... 1. You’re Special 2. I love ❤️ you. 3. You are so beautiful to me.
Mathew, I honestly love you! I love your energy, it's extremely positive. I can't help but smile when listening to you and watching you speak. Keep it up and thanks so much for helping us women to really see that men are not as complicated as we think and there are simple ways to really get to know them. Keep up the good work! 💞💞💞
Any way that he can say "you are important or what you do is important," is what I like to hear.
"I love you" - without strings attached
"I need you"
"You are a blessing to me"