Tom just seems so totally down to earth, no ego, no pretense... he doesn't need to be the focus or in the spotlight... just seems like a really cool dude
you know they wanted him to reprise the Superman role in the CW-verse shows but he said. "I cant actually wear the suit. Its in my contract. No cape. No tights. No flight." Its why in the Smallville finale they had to CGI him in the suit. He flat out refused to wear it. Then on Crisis on Infinite Earths he's like "Sure i'll play Clark Kent... but I wont wear the suit. Deal with it."
@@stupidhandles I don’t think there’s any issue with having your achievements in your home. If he was a recording artist , if he was an athlete, etc…he might have some trophies/ awards. He does podcasting and has some of the memorabilia of what he’s famous for in the background. I don’t think it makes him egotistical to have memories from his profession. Especially since his podcast is centered around the show the show he is showcasing.
Everyone has done something like this, it’s a learning moment that’s why they say patience is a virtue, and it make you relatable. Thanks for sharing. At any given moment we can all have a bad day, for y’all it’s often more public then the rest of us, that has to add to the difficulty.
Christian bale talked about it. It was a hot day. They had been filming for like 13 hours. Everyone on set was hot, tired and pissed off and the director kept going let’s just try one more time. And he snapped. He said like an hour later he called the guy and apologized. He said the director was like okay let’s just wrap for the day. And the take used on screen was one they had done like 3 hours prior.
Tom Welling: When I lost my… Michael Rosenbaum: Shit! Tom Welling: Composer. Lmao 😂I love these two. They may be best friends, but they act like close brothers anytime they’re together.
I love watching stuff like this from you guys. I've been a fan, and still watch Smallvile to this day since 2003, and It's so surreal to hear from actors we love talk about these challenges and times where you're stressed and have moments like this on or off set. We're all human and any time a well known actor/actress has a stressful moment recorded and released to the public, everyone makes a big deal about it like it's abnormal. Anyway, I thought this was cool how Tom took ownership of the situation, learned from it, talked about it live, and doesn't make excuses.
You two guys created some of the most iconic television in history together on smallville…..such a much better time …..everything in the world was much better before 2006…..I don’t know what happened in that year exactly but it was something.
Most of us go through something like this in some way and it's just a sobering thing in a way becaise of thr total lack o perspective. I learned so much from the lesson and pausing. But its so hard today with all the cameras and stuff - people have bad days and moments. I totally felt this. Tom's a Good guy man. So many can't aelf reflect its almost a gift to be able to do it or see someone that can.
It hits different when you hear yourself or see yourself from another view. I used to chew gum on stage when my band played to keep my throat from getting dry for singing. I didn’t feel like I was really chewing much just sort of having it in my cheek but then I saw a video and I am just chomping the crap out of it 100 mph and it looked so horrible and unprofessional and I stopped that very day … I realize it’s not coke but still seeing it objectively was eye opening
@@AngelArm1110 right for real though you feel like it’s just tucked away in your cheek for the occasional chew and boom you could power a same village with those BPMs (bites per min) haha
I love you guys. You help me so much with my own mental health and personal growth. Taking a step back and owning up to oneself is a great life lesson. Keep it up!
We’ve all had moments where we lose our temper and instantly regret it. In a show that ran for ten seasons, it was bound to happen at some point. I’m glad Tom had enough self-awareness to realize his mistake and take responsibility for it. Not everyone has that ability.
Yep. It's a real wake up call when you realize YOUR the A-hole in a situation. People are capable of change, but most of the time are in denial they need it.
I love Michael and Tom just talking about “stuff”. Thank you guys!!! I have “totally lost it” like that too, AND it was justified! The problem is, even though it happened over a decade ago, I feel sick and upset to my core whenever I think about it. Justified or not, it’s awful. “Don’t stack the dynamite”.
I work on Tech support and unfortunately is one of these jobs where the stress can build up quite high on an average day. Having said that, I ask an apology if we handle things quite snarky at times, it is not intentional, it´s something that even the most professional can do from time to time ( I have never blowed up with a customer, but have seen quite a close calls). Great to see that even our heros deal with that kind of issues also
I agree about changing yourself once you've heard yourself on tape. For a time (still a teenage kid at the time). I was a real jerk to my sister closest in age to me. It unintentionally got caught on tape. My Dad played it back for me. I absolutely did not like the guy on the tape and made sure to change. I'm so glad I did. My sister is the best (both of them are).
After you watch Smallville you feel like a better person, it teaches many things, trust, friendship, help the others, ego, love, death, kindness, evil, good, etc.
i first watched this on a recommendation of my ex-girlfriends uncle. I watched it again when i got married. When my son was a toddler he would waych it with me. Through out the years we would watch it together. And now his 13. We are on season 3. Rewatching it. I hope to watch it with him and his kids some day if he has a famiy of his own. Thanks to the people that made Smallville awesome and a catalyst in forming new lasting memories
It's good to put yourself outside yourself sometimes. I think everyone has almost a shock experience that shows them it's not always about yourself. Like people complaining about being stuck in traffic only to find out the reason is that someone just lost their life in an accident. It has a way of really bringing you back down and humbling you.
I just want to tell you guys thank you for starting this channel. I was never really much of a Smallville fan but after witnessing all of the horror's that come out of Hollywood and just seeing you guys how well-rounded you are. It really helps me. It's nice to see that some people make it out of hollywood and are well adjusted individuals. Your channel actually helps calm me down.
Ah, I'm so glad you guys talked about all of this. As a musician being in the biz for decades, The I've seen. *and* done many things I'd rather forget about. But you are so right, it's how we grow and learn to smarten up; survival in this industry relies on choosing to not be a dick no matter how burnt out you get.
How many times do we judge someone for a rage out video online? That's like that person's worst moment. And the whole internet treats them like that's how they are every second of every day. I treated some guys at the hardware store like crap a few years back, and I actually went back and talked to the guys and said I was sorry for it. Middle of a project, hungry, stressed, and I took it out on them. The guys were cool about it, but I still look back at my behavior with a lot of shame. We should all be a lot less judgemental when these freakouts appear. Everybody has their moments, but most of us are lucky enough that it doesn't hit the internet.
I dont watch podcats... but i love the shorts and small videos hitting my feed. I wish i watched smallville while it was first airing. I didnt watch smallville until i was maybe 30 like 5 years ago. Or maybe it was better because man. That viewing took me back. It was so nostalgic even though i had never seen the show prior. I remember seeing all the actors faces around that time so seeing them in show for the first time was truly awesome.
I know there’s a lot of harsh feelings about Smallville out there, but Tom seems like a good guy. He did his job for 10 years and I’ve never heard anyone say anything bad about working with him. Gotta give him credit where it’s due.
I’ll be honest. I’m not a podcast guy. I loved smallville through high school and well after. I’ve seen every episode. This podcast might be better than the show. With the focus on reality, mental health, and the raw interactions between everyone. I’m hooked. Thanks for this.
I honestly feel like when it’s been a long day, nothing is going right, you’re tired and stressed and just want to go home, I think going off in anger is more of a catharsis. And then once it happens and you calm down you have that “I shouldn’t have said that” moment
Everyone has done this, everyone has a frustration moment that explodes, and it is usually when you are younger and why does it happen? Exactly has Tom said, we don't have all the information and we lack patience to understand what is happening. We lack the ability to see everything at all times. How do you get better at this? Humility and age.
Anyone ever have Arnold Schwarzenegger yell at you on set? He yelled at me once thirty years ago. Wasn’t a big deal, he needed quiet on set, and someone kept trying to talk to me. It wasn’t that he was upset at me personally.
Season 10 on smallville. I was special ability for a scene that was in studio with tom directing the scene. It was a background video that was to play in a fetish nightclub. A scene i was also used in. We had shot the scene for the better part of the day and broke for lunch. Only to find that the camera operator had accidently erased the entire footage we had shot and Tom lost his shit. We got asked to come back to set shortly after and we shot as much as we could again from that point. It made for an extremely long ...tense day.
Definitely doesn't need to be leaked unless it's happened more than once and probably a few times. Like what happened to Tim on set, he learned a lesson in the then and the there. He takes it with him to this day . Tim and Michele. There both great!
This is Michael Rosenbaum’s (aka Lex) podcast, Tom was just a guest on this episode lol. He has several castmates from Smallville on this show. He recently had Kyle Gallner on an episode, he was the actor who portrayed the flash on Smallville many years ago.
I came to this video from the Edward Furlong video and thought he was a different host and they just had the two guys from Smallville on and then I realized it was the same dude from before.
Also Christian Bale apologized to the guy and took him out to dinner. He did a wonderful radio interview where he agreed he was an a**hole and was not making any excuses. The guy was being incredibly unprofessional and distracting. I've been an Actor where I've had to give an intensely emotional performance and in my eye-line is a key grip looking bored at me. I've been polite about it, but I totally understand the anger/frustration especially if you're trying to get into the proper state and the clock is running out AND you're feeling the pressure of being the reason this movie will either succeed or fail.
Tom Cruise had a similar moment during the filming of the last Mission Impossible movie. He blew up at members of the crew for violating Covid protocols. It’s hard to imagine that such a burst of anger was the result of just one incident. What’s more likely is things were building up. Several things may have been going wrong and finally it just reached a boiling point.
I think Cruise's outburst was more understandable and he explained himself well. So many people depended on that production succeeding, on that set and off, that anything short of total compliance was selfishness.
So Cruise blew up because crew were ignoring the health and safety of those around them, and doing stuff that could shut down the production, affecting everyone's earnings? Like him or not for his off screen stuff, he is respected for his proffessionalism and commitment to the safety and wellbeing of his team, and not just those in front of the lens like so many other actors.
Pretty sure it was the millions of dollars riding on the only movie set in production at the time. Of which most of the money was his and he had gotten special license to keep the production going as long as protocol was followed. And he was yelling to be heard, it was all the crew and outside.
It’s interesting that Michael feels that someone filming your worst day and publicizing it is a good thing. I feel the opposite. If someone did that to me, I would feel a bit vindicated because the act of tattling and trying to ruin someone’s reputation is SO much worse than that explosion most of us (if not all of us) experience to one degree or another, I wouldn’t be so much apologizing as I would be wanting to know who violated my privacy and who was getting off on this. As a fan, I don’t want to every celebrity’s bad day. I don’t want to see how awful an industry it is that they can’t even have a bad day without it being leaked. That’s a sick industry to be in. There are going to be fewer and fewer talented actors and actresses if they are not protected and given a proper environment in which to work in. Have an on set psychiatrist, I don’t care, but the actors need to be in an environment where they are not double crossed.
See... people fuck up but we live in such a cancel culture where you get lynched... people make mistakes, you have perspective, time and better yourself... it is called growth and being a human! Love you guys and all involved in Smallville. You were my childhood! Much love from the UK - OH
These are good guys. You don't have to hit rock bottom to make changes though. Just know that you can do it. Your mind has more power than you might know.
I did this not two weeks ago to a guy who was revving his engine in the parking lot next to my house while I was trying to sleep. Just came out there and totally blew up at him. He was having car troubles 😞
To me, to yell at someone like that in a professional field is plan entitlement and straight-up harassment or abusive. They're not doing something that means life or death, and you can't and shouldn't have that behavior in other fields. It's absolute abuse of power.
It's part of being a good conscientious human, to look back on your past and think we could've acted better in certain situations. Question is, at what point do we stop replying those bad moments to ourselves and forgive ourselves? The answer is 'immediately'.
I got nick named in Highschool Superman and it followed me to the point I have a collection of superman. I forgot the reason why I was called that for 20 years until I hit my bottom and realized Supermans main power was calmness and leadership to sacrifice for others. I now proudly continue that nickname with my Family without any direction from me. Superman/Clark has always been so the right thing regardless of the sacrifice and that's why in a world wide poll asking what symbol do you know, The Cross was number one and S on the chest logo was number two shows how powerful this ideal really is. Thanks Tom for being down to earth and I understand why they casted you.
Yeah I had plenty of moments where I burst into anger and I lose my temper but nobody's perfect Tom it's like you learn a lesson whenever we get older and it's just something we just have to learn
Public humiliation is very humbling I most caes. It has happened to me and I do not repeat that behavior. Unless the humiliation is done to hurt a person for no good reason. Then we call that bullying I would say.
I really have struggled with self-awareness my whole life, like body image issues and social anxiety are a huge part of it. But picturing yourself from someone else’s perspective can really help you gain self-awareness and be able to change things about yourself that you would not like, if you were the other person. I’ve done a few bad things in the recent past and I definitely don’t want to be that person.
Superman and Lex talking about Batman’s anger issues
Wow. That is spot on!
Bruce had to stop and really take stock of his life at that point.
Lmaoo
Superman and Flash, depending on how ya look at it. heh.
DCCU
Tom just seems so totally down to earth, no ego, no pretense... he doesn't need to be the focus or in the spotlight... just seems like a really cool dude
Probably why it took him so long to fly
What the dude sat with posters and figurines of himself all around him?, yeah, totally down to earth, doesn't look narcissistic at all......
you know they wanted him to reprise the Superman role in the CW-verse shows but he said. "I cant actually wear the suit. Its in my contract. No cape. No tights. No flight." Its why in the Smallville finale they had to CGI him in the suit. He flat out refused to wear it. Then on Crisis on Infinite Earths he's like "Sure i'll play Clark Kent... but I wont wear the suit. Deal with it."
@@stupidhandles I don’t think there’s any issue with having your achievements in your home. If he was a recording artist , if he was an athlete, etc…he might have some trophies/ awards. He does podcasting and has some of the memorabilia of what he’s famous for in the background. I don’t think it makes him egotistical to have memories from his profession. Especially since his podcast is centered around the show the show he is showcasing.
@@stupidhandles How DARE he have mementos of his career? The nerve of that guy!
Tom will forever be my Superman. As a little Mexican boy growing up in the hoods of LA, smallville was always there for me.
I hear you brother. .really great show and very little of the crazy agendas that's in every show almost today
I love this comment. Tom is such a great Superman
To Tom, I just have to say that having a bad response, owning it, and learning from it is the best possible result. Super, one might say.
It’s good that Tom appreciates the lesson in this situation🙂
Tom: I lost my...
Michael: Shit
Tom: Composture
Lex and Clark right there guys.
Everyone has done something like this, it’s a learning moment that’s why they say patience is a virtue, and it make you relatable. Thanks for sharing. At any given moment we can all have a bad day, for y’all it’s often more public then the rest of us, that has to add to the difficulty.
***Than, not then.
@@jesseowenvillamor6348 there, their, they’re, it wheel bee awe write.
Christian bale talked about it. It was a hot day. They had been filming for like 13 hours. Everyone on set was hot, tired and pissed off and the director kept going let’s just try one more time. And he snapped. He said like an hour later he called the guy and apologized. He said the director was like okay let’s just wrap for the day. And the take used on screen was one they had done like 3 hours prior.
Tom & Michael. My heroes for basically 20 years now. God bless em 🫡🏆
Love these two guys. Wish they could do more together
Tom Welling: When I lost my…
Michael Rosenbaum: Shit!
Tom Welling: Composer.
Lmao 😂I love these two. They may be best friends, but they act like close brothers anytime they’re together.
I love watching stuff like this from you guys. I've been a fan, and still watch Smallvile to this day since 2003, and It's so surreal to hear from actors we love talk about these challenges and times where you're stressed and have moments like this on or off set. We're all human and any time a well known actor/actress has a stressful moment recorded and released to the public, everyone makes a big deal about it like it's abnormal. Anyway, I thought this was cool how Tom took ownership of the situation, learned from it, talked about it live, and doesn't make excuses.
You two guys created some of the most iconic television in history together on smallville…..such a much better time …..everything in the world was much better before 2006…..I don’t know what happened in that year exactly but it was something.
I miss Smallville. You guys were great together. I always thought you should have gotten a movie.
Tom Welling is such a great dude an ideal superman both on set and off.
Tom is 1 cool dude! Love Tom & Michael. ❤️❤️
Great conversation ❤❤❤
This is wonderful discussion about self reflection by Tom.
You two are the best. Thank you. ❤
Most of us go through something like this in some way and it's just a sobering thing in a way becaise of thr total lack o perspective. I learned so much from the lesson and pausing. But its so hard today with all the cameras and stuff - people have bad days and moments. I totally felt this. Tom's a Good guy man. So many can't aelf reflect its almost a gift to be able to do it or see someone that can.
Great episode. What a nice guy.
It hits different when you hear yourself or see yourself from another view. I used to chew gum on stage when my band played to keep my throat from getting dry for singing. I didn’t feel like I was really chewing much just sort of having it in my cheek but then I saw a video and I am just chomping the crap out of it 100 mph and it looked so horrible and unprofessional and I stopped that very day … I realize it’s not coke but still seeing it objectively was eye opening
"just chomping the crap out of it 100 mph" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That imagery is very funny! And it's so true, frame of reference will sneak right up on you.
@@AngelArm1110 right for real though you feel like it’s just tucked away in your cheek for the occasional chew and boom you could power a same village with those BPMs (bites per min) haha
This is such a good podcast. Everyone can relate.
I love Tom's episodes that he directed they were part of the best episodes of Smallville.
Good job protecting the individual who needed to change and saw it. To that person I say thank you for recognizing and changing yourself.
I've never watched one episode of Smallville, but I enjoy watching this podcast for the conversations.
Great conversation. A lot to learn from this on my end. Thanks guys.
Love this guy. Both of them!
I love you guys. You help me so much with my own mental health and personal growth. Taking a step back and owning up to oneself is a great life lesson. Keep it up!
We’ve all had moments where we lose our temper and instantly regret it. In a show that ran for ten seasons, it was bound to happen at some point. I’m glad Tom had enough self-awareness to realize his mistake and take responsibility for it. Not everyone has that ability.
Great clip! You know how many people refuse to admit they were wrong.
It's amazing the amount of insight you can get from another perspective.
What a great story with a lesson.
Very well presented.
Tom is a cool dude. He’s totally correct.
Yep. It's a real wake up call when you realize YOUR the A-hole in a situation. People are capable of change, but most of the time are in denial they need it.
I love Michael and Tom just talking about “stuff”.
Thank you guys!!!
I have “totally lost it” like that too, AND it was justified! The problem is, even though it happened over a decade ago, I feel sick and upset to my core whenever I think about it. Justified or not, it’s awful. “Don’t stack the dynamite”.
It’s such a joy to see these old geezers chatting old times.
Wisest thing someone can do is say, "I don't have all the information".
I love the series, I’m watching it now as a matter of fact I’m in season 7 ! And your podcast popped on google! Love y’all ❤
Love you guys
What an awesome podcast!!!
I don't care what anyone says, I loved Smallville. Was the first Superman inspired thing I had liked since Christopher Reeve played the role.
I work on Tech support and unfortunately is one of these jobs where the stress can build up quite high on an average day. Having said that, I ask an apology if we handle things quite snarky at times, it is not intentional, it´s something that even the most professional can do from time to time ( I have never blowed up with a customer, but have seen quite a close calls). Great to see that even our heros deal with that kind of issues also
Love this. And the word you're looking for his "ego" 👊🏻
"Hopefully" Amen brother.
Plus it shows us that yeah they're famous people but theyre also just people and we gotta remember they have emotions just like us
Hes so real ❤ good on him
What a brilliant fuckin podcast is this? I'm hooked. Finally something real to talk about...
I agree about changing yourself once you've heard yourself on tape. For a time (still a teenage kid at the time). I was a real jerk to my sister closest in age to me. It unintentionally got caught on tape. My Dad played it back for me. I absolutely did not like the guy on the tape and made sure to change. I'm so glad I did. My sister is the best (both of them are).
After you watch Smallville you feel like a better person, it teaches many things, trust, friendship, help the others, ego, love, death, kindness, evil, good, etc.
I worked the last two seasons of Smallville, and these guys were total pros.
This podcast is definitely therapeutic for you guys
i first watched this on a recommendation of my ex-girlfriends uncle. I watched it again when i got married. When my son was a toddler he would waych it with me. Through out the years we would watch it together. And now his 13. We are on season 3. Rewatching it. I hope to watch it with him and his kids some day if he has a famiy of his own. Thanks to the people that made Smallville awesome and a catalyst in forming new lasting memories
Respect
It's good to put yourself outside yourself sometimes. I think everyone has almost a shock experience that shows them it's not always about yourself. Like people complaining about being stuck in traffic only to find out the reason is that someone just lost their life in an accident. It has a way of really bringing you back down and humbling you.
I just want to tell you guys thank you for starting this channel. I was never really much of a Smallville fan but after witnessing all of the horror's that come out of Hollywood and just seeing you guys how well-rounded you are. It really helps me. It's nice to see that some people make it out of hollywood and are well adjusted individuals. Your channel actually helps calm me down.
Ah, I'm so glad you guys talked about all of this. As a musician being in the biz for decades, The I've seen. *and* done many things I'd rather forget about. But you are so right, it's how we grow and learn to smarten up; survival in this industry relies on choosing to not be a dick no matter how burnt out you get.
How many times do we judge someone for a rage out video online? That's like that person's worst moment. And the whole internet treats them like that's how they are every second of every day. I treated some guys at the hardware store like crap a few years back, and I actually went back and talked to the guys and said I was sorry for it. Middle of a project, hungry, stressed, and I took it out on them. The guys were cool about it, but I still look back at my behavior with a lot of shame. We should all be a lot less judgemental when these freakouts appear. Everybody has their moments, but most of us are lucky enough that it doesn't hit the internet.
I dont watch podcats... but i love the shorts and small videos hitting my feed.
I wish i watched smallville while it was first airing. I didnt watch smallville until i was maybe 30 like 5 years ago.
Or maybe it was better because man. That viewing took me back. It was so nostalgic even though i had never seen the show prior. I remember seeing all the actors faces around that time so seeing them in show for the first time was truly awesome.
I also own season 8 of Smallville, alongside the complete series.
Almost done watching Smallville. I'm on season 8, which I feel is a very dark season and I find that very interesting.
You're gonna love Season 9. It was probably my favorite season.
I'm almost there.
i happen to love season 8 however the season finale is utter shit
Clayne Crawford on the set of the Lethal Weapon tv series. Funny thing both that and Terminator Salvation was from MCG.
Yeah, that guy is a piece of work. McG also happens to be a REALLY terrible director, which probably doesn't help.
I know there’s a lot of harsh feelings about Smallville out there, but Tom seems like a good guy. He did his job for 10 years and I’ve never heard anyone say anything bad about working with him. Gotta give him credit where it’s due.
I’ll be honest. I’m not a podcast guy. I loved smallville through high school and well after. I’ve seen every episode. This podcast might be better than the show. With the focus on reality, mental health, and the raw interactions between everyone. I’m hooked. Thanks for this.
I still can't help but think of Tom and Michael as being so much younger...time passes way too fast.
I was glad to see him appear in Lucifer.
Yes they'll be forever both heroes to me ..Superman & Lex Luther!!
Did the same once while sick n at home with a migraine and to this day I feel awful! I apologized immediately n again but still feel terrible
Oh good for you!!!
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Smallville was such an *amazing show!* Very well cast, written and acted.
I honestly feel like when it’s been a long day, nothing is going right, you’re tired and stressed and just want to go home, I think going off in anger is more of a catharsis. And then once it happens and you calm down you have that “I shouldn’t have said that” moment
Everyone has done this, everyone has a frustration moment that explodes, and it is usually when you are younger and why does it happen?
Exactly has Tom said, we don't have all the information and we lack patience to understand what is happening. We lack the ability to see everything at all times.
How do you get better at this? Humility and age.
Anyone ever have Arnold Schwarzenegger yell at you on set? He yelled at me once thirty years ago. Wasn’t a big deal, he needed quiet on set, and someone kept trying to talk to me. It wasn’t that he was upset at me personally.
THERE IS NO BATHROOM!
By any chance were you eating his cookie?
Season 10 on smallville. I was special ability for a scene that was in studio with tom directing the scene. It was a background video that was to play in a fetish nightclub. A scene i was also used in. We had shot the scene for the better part of the day and broke for lunch. Only to find that the camera operator had accidently erased the entire footage we had shot and Tom lost his shit. We got asked to come back to set shortly after and we shot as much as we could again from that point. It made for an extremely long ...tense day.
That last story was about Steve Martin !!! 😂
Definitely doesn't need to be leaked unless it's happened more than once and probably a few times. Like what happened to Tim on set, he learned a lesson in the then and the there. He takes it with him to this day . Tim and Michele. There both great!
Took me ‘bout halfway through the video to realize he’s been talking with the guy that played Lex on the show. lol
This is Michael Rosenbaum’s (aka Lex) podcast, Tom was just a guest on this episode lol. He has several castmates from Smallville on this show. He recently had Kyle Gallner on an episode, he was the actor who portrayed the flash on Smallville many years ago.
I came to this video from the Edward Furlong video and thought he was a different host and they just had the two guys from Smallville on and then I realized it was the same dude from before.
Damn, hurts me to see Tom gray out, this guy was my idol in highschool
Tom seems down to earth. We all make
Mistakes.
What Denim jacket is Tom sporting in this IoY?
I love denim jackets and wonder what style he’s got there
That appears to be an unlined Filson short cruiser.
Also Christian Bale apologized to the guy and took him out to dinner. He did a wonderful radio interview where he agreed he was an a**hole and was not making any excuses. The guy was being incredibly unprofessional and distracting. I've been an Actor where I've had to give an intensely emotional performance and in my eye-line is a key grip looking bored at me. I've been polite about it, but I totally understand the anger/frustration especially if you're trying to get into the proper state and the clock is running out AND you're feeling the pressure of being the reason this movie will either succeed or fail.
I could explain this in the 80hd & PTSD space of my brain. Emotions are hard sometimes.
It's an objective truth when you see yourself on film, in the moment, in action.
I made sure to drop everything to watch Smallville every week. Until season 8 when Lana Lex, and other people were gone.
Tom Cruise had a similar moment during the filming of the last Mission Impossible movie. He blew up at members of the crew for violating Covid protocols. It’s hard to imagine that such a burst of anger was the result of just one incident. What’s more likely is things were building up. Several things may have been going wrong and finally it just reached a boiling point.
I think Cruise's outburst was more understandable and he explained himself well. So many people depended on that production succeeding, on that set and off, that anything short of total compliance was selfishness.
So Cruise blew up because crew were ignoring the health and safety of those around them, and doing stuff that could shut down the production, affecting everyone's earnings?
Like him or not for his off screen stuff, he is respected for his proffessionalism and commitment to the safety and wellbeing of his team, and not just those in front of the lens like so many other actors.
Pretty sure it was the millions of dollars riding on the only movie set in production at the time. Of which most of the money was his and he had gotten special license to keep the production going as long as protocol was followed. And he was yelling to be heard, it was all the crew and outside.
It’s interesting that Michael feels that someone filming your worst day and publicizing it is a good thing. I feel the opposite. If someone did that to me, I would feel a bit vindicated because the act of tattling and trying to ruin someone’s reputation is SO much worse than that explosion most of us (if not all of us) experience to one degree or another, I wouldn’t be so much apologizing as I would be wanting to know who violated my privacy and who was getting off on this. As a fan, I don’t want to every celebrity’s bad day. I don’t want to see how awful an industry it is that they can’t even have a bad day without it being leaked. That’s a sick industry to be in. There are going to be fewer and fewer talented actors and actresses if they are not protected and given a proper environment in which to work in.
Have an on set psychiatrist, I don’t care, but the actors need to be in an environment where they are not double crossed.
Anyone else think Tom's talking about Steve Martin at the end?
See... people fuck up but we live in such a cancel culture where you get lynched... people make mistakes, you have perspective, time and better yourself... it is called growth and being a human! Love you guys and all involved in Smallville. You were my childhood! Much love from the UK - OH
You sound old asl. Stop whining
These are good guys.
You don't have to hit rock bottom to make changes though.
Just know that you can do it. Your mind has more power than you might know.
I did this not two weeks ago to a guy who was revving his engine in the parking lot next to my house while I was trying to sleep. Just came out there and totally blew up at him. He was having car troubles 😞
To me, to yell at someone like that in a professional field is plan entitlement and straight-up harassment or abusive. They're not doing something that means life or death, and you can't and shouldn't have that behavior in other fields. It's absolute abuse of power.
I have not had this happen yet, but I know it will, and I do not look forward to that humbling moment.
This makes me think of that Randy Quaid skit where he fucking loses it on set lmao.
It's part of being a good conscientious human, to look back on your past and think we could've acted better in certain situations. Question is, at what point do we stop replying those bad moments to ourselves and forgive ourselves?
The answer is 'immediately'.
I got nick named in Highschool Superman and it followed me to the point I have a collection of superman. I forgot the reason why I was called that for 20 years until I hit my bottom and realized Supermans main power was calmness and leadership to sacrifice for others. I now proudly continue that nickname with my Family without any direction from me. Superman/Clark has always been so the right thing regardless of the sacrifice and that's why in a world wide poll asking what symbol do you know, The Cross was number one and S on the chest logo was number two shows how powerful this ideal really is. Thanks Tom for being down to earth and I understand why they casted you.
Yeah I had plenty of moments where I burst into anger and I lose my temper but nobody's perfect Tom it's like you learn a lesson whenever we get older and it's just something we just have to learn
Public humiliation is very humbling I most caes. It has happened to me and I do not repeat that behavior. Unless the humiliation is done to hurt a person for no good reason. Then we call that bullying I would say.
I really have struggled with self-awareness my whole life, like body image issues and social anxiety are a huge part of it. But picturing yourself from someone else’s perspective can really help you gain self-awareness and be able to change things about yourself that you would not like, if you were the other person. I’ve done a few bad things in the recent past and I definitely don’t want to be that person.