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  • @SkywatcherSandra
    @SkywatcherSandra 2 роки тому +2

    You are so amazing and savvy in all areas of your life. I enjoy your channel lots. Fantastic bargains on your thrift shopping 🛍. Prayers appreciated for my first chemotherapy round 🙏 i am very weak and bed ridden 5 days now. HUGS and GOD bless us everyone

  • @wendyprissel7116
    @wendyprissel7116 2 роки тому +1

    You are such a Beautiful, Elegant Lady❤️You have such a Calming Presence❤️Your Very Soulful ❤️Thankyou for your Wonderful Videos ❤️God Bless

  • @mellonie2691
    @mellonie2691 2 роки тому +1

    I shopped at Goodwill about 5 days ago. It was a very fun day for me. I found what I was looking for and some. I’m going back soon.

  • @deborahvolz3591
    @deborahvolz3591 2 роки тому +59

    Just tell Arthur we love him and wish him well. Also remind him how blessed he is to have YOU! Yes, It’s so hard to not be depressed in todays times. But thinking of others close to us, family, friends, our fur babies, doing little kindnesses for others…send cards…gives me Joy! Just saying we need to love everyone we meet! You are such an inspiration and motivator, Sandra! I just love you! At 74, you give me hope for an aging journey like yours! You are so beautiful! Yes, pat YOURSELF on the back for what you do for your followers. Love and blessings, Sandra😍

  • @behnazfazlpour1353
    @behnazfazlpour1353 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Sandra,
    You are so amazing. I am 40 years old and your speaking inspired me.
    I was trying to improve my English by listening to several podcasts and saw one of your videos by chance. I am so glad to introduce with you.
    Thanks for your energetic comments.

  • @paintingalways
    @paintingalways 2 роки тому +1

    You’re such a gorgeous woman. Thank you so much for your wise words.

  • @biddydibdab9180
    @biddydibdab9180 2 роки тому +9

    I used to work with a woman who was the snazziest dresser. I once asked her where she found her amazing clothes and she told me she never buys new. Instead she shops thrift stores! She said it takes some effort to find good clothing but it’s worth it. Very nice video Sandra.

  • @flamingaish
    @flamingaish 2 роки тому +3

    I love how you like every single comment, that's so sweet. Although, we'd still love you even if you don't that. I'm 16 and really appreciate to "have" you at this point of my life. I really appreciate your efforts. Thankyou

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 роки тому

      I love u
      So soo much 😍😗😚😘👧❤🌷
      Really
      I like u
      💑💑💑💑💝💝💝💝🌹🌹🌹🌹🙋🙋

  • @shahnawazvlog6266
    @shahnawazvlog6266 2 роки тому +1

    Dear you look like a super model! I love thrifshoop too. great place to get the best stuffs for nothing, it always fun to visit shopping you safe so much money. been visit our local Fleet market since 1975 until the close out few years back.

  • @loveliveholistically
    @loveliveholistically 2 роки тому +1

    What great finds in the thrift store. Well done.

  • @triciamedora9274
    @triciamedora9274 2 роки тому +1

    I love this channel.
    Thank you for this channel.
    How grateful I am for you and your wisdom. Your soul is beautiful.
    PS. A little secret
    Its great to shop Goodwill in wealthy areas.

  • @kimheath5238
    @kimheath5238 2 роки тому +1

    Love the embroidery linen dress!!

  • @anneadkins4403
    @anneadkins4403 2 роки тому +135

    your wisdom is impeccable timing. I am going through health concerns and had to quit my job. Love what you said" It is only temporary" . You ate so right by saying think on the positive. You are very inspiring. Thank you for blessing my day!

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +11

      Thank you so much for your kindness for being here

    • @deborahvolz3591
      @deborahvolz3591 2 роки тому +11

      Yes, this too shall pass…my mantra thru thyroid cancer, breast cancer, and several squamous cell skin cancers….sounds awful, huh? But prayer gave me comfort and peace as I went thru treatment. I am very much over all that now. But, aging is not much fun in reality (lol) but as Sandra says try to be optimistic! Yes, this too shall pass. Get well soon🙏😍👍

    • @anneadkins4403
      @anneadkins4403 2 роки тому +3

      @@deborahvolz3591 thank you. Yes, prayer is very important. Wow you have been through a lot! I hope that you are better. Sounds like you are emotional stronger. Thank youfor the encouragement!

    • @najwaelmagboul
      @najwaelmagboul 2 роки тому +3

      So sorry for your health issue, but remember that it's a temporary phase in your life. I wish you all the best. Thanks, Najwan

    • @anneadkins4403
      @anneadkins4403 2 роки тому

      @@najwaelmagboul thank you.

  • @violetstarla
    @violetstarla 2 роки тому +9

    I absolutely love your energy and message. It all feels like a sparkle of magic or fairy dust sprinkled onto others in the world.

  • @sheilacirioni4676
    @sheilacirioni4676 2 роки тому +2

    Sandra,sometimes it's a good day& sometimes it's a bad day. The power of positive thinking helps alot as we age. I am almost 74& right now you are reading my mind.Past mistakes,life is so short.. we need to enjoy the air,palm trees,water,sunshine,you know.🧞‍♀️💞🌴🌺☮👍🥰

  • @margaretdonohue9540
    @margaretdonohue9540 2 роки тому +1

    Great finds! I wish Arthur the best.

  • @janetwheeler382
    @janetwheeler382 2 роки тому +2

    My 16 year old granddaughter and I love Goodwill! And hail to the "linen, cotton" clothing. All that I can wear these days. Linen is expensive so finding a linen piece at a thrift store is like finding a gold mine. 😊 No polyester!! Never again. Love this video. Thanks for sharing all your wonderful wisdom. 😊🤗❤️

  • @WhisperingPines7
    @WhisperingPines7 2 роки тому +1

    I just found two skirts from Anne Klein and Talbots for $9.00 but the best purchase of all was a round oak table and four oak spindle press back chairs for $70.00 !!! These were at my St. Vincent de Paul’s thrift shop!!! I feel just great about them! I love getting quality items for a lot less!💖💐

  • @peggybaggenstoss3817
    @peggybaggenstoss3817 2 роки тому +2

    A great video. I’ve always found something good in everyone.. even the worse patients I’ve been a nurse to.

  • @2EternityButterflies
    @2EternityButterflies 2 роки тому +42

    I got so excited to see the wonderful and beautiful clothes that you found. Such a wonderful savings. It actually brightened my day. Your optimism always puts a smile on my face. You have that way of taking life experience and taking the good from it and sharing it with us. Thank you from my heart Dear Sandra. Wishing you also, a good day. Regards to you, your husband and your family. Shelley

  • @elaineknight6602
    @elaineknight6602 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Sandra, I am 75 and just yesterday found your channel. My late husband also had paranoid schizophrenia. The disease did not define him. I was married to him for 29years and yes the last 15 years were very difficult. I had four great children with him. I would not have changed anything in my life. However I do not ever share this information with any of my friends or coworkers. I feel they would judge me.(They would not understand) I was never afraid of him. He was kind and loving as long as he was receiving his medication and kept his mental appointments. At age 40 he begin to receive disability and moved to a health home were he lived 10 more years. I still think about him often. I am sorry your experience was so scary. I remarried but his children continued to see him and take him shopping etc etc.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing this with us today

    • @wendi2819
      @wendi2819 2 роки тому

      I hope your life is filled with beauty and wonderful things now!❤️

    • @thelmawechsler8303
      @thelmawechsler8303 2 роки тому

      Hi Sandra... you're a beautiful role model.....wrote a post to you related to this topic which really bothered me....could you send me a reply even if just privately?
      Perhaps a whatsapp T.W.

  • @LindoDios
    @LindoDios 2 роки тому +1

    I have been watching your videos all day long. While doing macrame crafts, laundry, and cooking. I even had my 9 year old listen to one of your videos, and we both agreed that your voice sounds like (elder) Rose from the Titanic movie. You have a beautiful voice, it’s so calming. Blessing to you and Arthur.

  • @pippypapoose
    @pippypapoose 2 роки тому +1

    I love Goodwill. I had a therapist who never talked about it but I would always see him at Goodwill. He never bought new and he always wore kakis and a polo shirt. If you take your time to look you can find great things that sometimes still have tags on them. This also helps our planet

  • @suzannewing7574
    @suzannewing7574 2 роки тому +26

    We ALL love you Sandra!! Please don't ever stop sharing your wisdom. We all look forward to every video you share with us. Hugs!

  • @marysmyth8288
    @marysmyth8288 2 роки тому +1

    dear Sandra, your energy and enthusiam is amazing , you have so much wisdoms
    love the orange top and the navy top and the beautifull linen dress ✍️
    you are a wonderful mentor

  • @teresaturin5191
    @teresaturin5191 2 роки тому +3

    💖 Your videos have so much love and truth. I also liked what you bought! The clothes were lucky to find you! 🙃

  • @clodiamk9873
    @clodiamk9873 2 роки тому +1

    Its so nice to listen to your advice. Thank you for sharing your thoughths with us.

  • @Ruth_Ani
    @Ruth_Ani 2 роки тому +1

    You made my day,I have lost a lot,got accident,face and eye damaged but I believe it will never happen again but all good things will come my way in the future.I am optimistic

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому

      Stay positive and remember the great beauty inside of you is still there!

  • @bernadettealmeida2847
    @bernadettealmeida2847 2 роки тому +1

    Sandra Happy Mothers Day💐you never disappoint us love you Darling , best wishes to Arthur, God Bless you both, 👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒

  • @oliviaholland6970
    @oliviaholland6970 2 роки тому +1

    Sandra,
    I certainly understand Arthur just wanting to coast and enjoy his life. My Mom is 94 and just wants to have fun. I can relate as I am soon to be 76 and am tiring of volunteering for my ladies Association, etc., etc. It seems I went from working to working. I needed to stay busy when we lost our only child to cancer and I was coping with his loss. I finally learned how to cope with the grief and expect to be with him again one day. Now, I just want to enjoy my Mom, time with my husband and the rest of my lovely extended family. I am so blessed to have my brothers and their families all in our community. We are all close and that is so wonderful. Life kicks us to the curb at times but we can finally get up and dust ourselves off and continue to move forward!
    I love wearing someone else's clothes! I have saved so much money on beautiful items. Classic is my style with a little drama once in a while. Some of my friends giggle at me when I am so proud of my savings and am twirling around showing off my latest find. I also have found lovely items for my home on Poshmark and at thrift stores. Many of my friends are starting to frequent these stores also.
    Thank you sweet lady for being here for us and sharing your life with us. I know you are so appreciated.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому

      Olivia, Thank you very much for sharing your life and your interest with me today. Our time really matters now and we really have to joy every single day and time with all of our loved ones. I am glad to hear that you like thrifting as as much as I do.

  • @marlyswilliams9949
    @marlyswilliams9949 2 роки тому +1

    Greetings Sandra. Just want to wish you a very happy Mother’s Day weekend. Howdy to Arthur. Great to hear you had a fun day out with your daughter treasure hunting. Kindest regards

  • @shirleyvigus8938
    @shirleyvigus8938 2 роки тому +1

    I have just come to view your wonderful videos. I am a single lady aged 71 and live in SWAustralia. I am where you are at with your mental attitude to life etc. I too have not had an easy life but have overcome with knowledge and gratitude. I am finding it a little hard to find like minded persons in my age group as most are hard of hearing or just want me t listen to them so they can download. You are a tonic for me as we are like minded. Please keep on sharing your wisdom and love with us as you are a treasure. Love your creative fashion choices as I love fashion too and especially natural fibres as it gets very hot here 6 months a year. You are ageless and your vitality is infectious. Stay safe and much love to you sister. Shirley ❤️☘️👍😘✝️

  • @lizleonard594
    @lizleonard594 2 роки тому +2

    Sandra I listen to you at night .I have slot of trouble sleeping. Five years ago my husband and I lost our only son he was 37 years young he died of a heroin drug overdose it just wrecked my world.I miss him so much and I know I will never get over it.We also have two beautifuldaughters and 4 grandchildren that we truly love.When I listen to you you build me up.Thank you so much for listening to me.Keep podcasting.Liz

  • @rosemarie6545
    @rosemarie6545 2 роки тому +1

    I enjoy thrift stores too! I don’t always find anything, but when I discover a well made blouse with a flattering color and shape, I buy it. I’ve lost a lot of weight so now am giving back my clothes that are in good shape. My daughter lives nearby so we do things together too. Life is good!

  • @barbarabarbour6833
    @barbarabarbour6833 Рік тому

    Dear Sandra - you are a girl after my own heart. I just adore thrift shopping, too. Much more fun as well as saving money. I find that department stores bore me with rows of identical outfits. Plus, recycling is good for the planet and we all should try it! Thank you for sharing your life with us.🙏. You are a gift to the world. 💕Bee

  • @ninajohnson6578
    @ninajohnson6578 2 роки тому +86

    Great video. One additional thought: when you feel down about something in the world …act! Make a donation or help out, volunteer and do some small thing. Small things add up after all.❤️

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +5

      Nina, This is a great trip and something that we all should do. Thank you so much for reminding us

    • @maevestewart5224
      @maevestewart5224 2 роки тому

      Ĺl

    • @jbug884
      @jbug884 2 роки тому +1

      What a wonderful lady! 🥂

    • @clouds280
      @clouds280 2 роки тому

      @@lifewithsandrahart Hi. I loved your thrift store trip. 💗
      Beautiful things! 😎
      Inspired me, today.
      You will look great. 👍
      Thank you for mentioning your husband (I was wondering about him).
      Sounds like he is happy (that's good).
      I am like you (even though I'm 67).
      I hope to do (whatever it is) - I don't know.
      You look well, and I appreciate your doing this.
      I hope all is well, and that you, too, are happy. 💗💐🌻🌸🌈☀
      I loved your show as a girl.
      Many thanks, for that.
      Black and white TV. 😥
      I miss that time in my life. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦👧
      Best.

  • @horizon8529
    @horizon8529 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you Sandra. I-am not religious but I think god put your videos in my recommendations because I recently made a tough decision to leave my husband after 16 years of verbal abuse and toxic relationship. It's like you are talking to me directly.

  • @AlviSultan
    @AlviSultan 2 роки тому +1

    Sandra, you are a wonderful person in many many ways, we love your videos and talks. Keep going and God bless! Love from Canada.

  • @arelidelong1188
    @arelidelong1188 2 роки тому +1

    Hi dear Sandra, you did an AWESOME job with those clothings. I loved EVERYTHING you got! 😍😘🌸🏵🌸

  • @sonnysantana5454
    @sonnysantana5454 2 роки тому +1

    weather the sun is out bright and sunny or it's a gray chilly rainy morning
    every day that you rise up to greet life is a good day

  • @rivkasrecipesandtravels9756
    @rivkasrecipesandtravels9756 2 роки тому +1

    i had to hear that, thank you for sharing a part of your life with us. ❤️

  • @judyl3492
    @judyl3492 2 роки тому +7

    I hope you know how very much you are needed by your viewers. Just letting us know we are normal and getting older is a good thing. Thank you for sharing your life and keeping us on track. I appreciate you.

  • @mariantolini
    @mariantolini 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Hearing these videos soothes me so much 💕✨🙏 I wish you and your family all the happiness and joy 💕

  • @mariellegrant6248
    @mariellegrant6248 2 роки тому +1

    Sandra, What a precious vidéo! About optimism, and also thrift shops! As for me, I buy most of my clothes and even jewels in thrift shops and I love it! Good quality and good brands for a very small amount of money! And I can really choose , and personnalyse what I wear.

  • @janetstraw191
    @janetstraw191 2 роки тому +1

    Sandra, ALL the clothes you found are fantastic - and the prices?? 👏👏👏‼️ I always enjoy your little chats - thank you so much for sharing, and bringing a little sunshine in my day‼️🙋‍♀️👍🥰💕🌞☀️🌞

    • @janetstraw191
      @janetstraw191 2 роки тому

      @David Scott What are you doing hanging around an older woman’s channel?!! Go away creep!!

  • @heathershinnie-gonzales3933
    @heathershinnie-gonzales3933 2 роки тому +5

    Good morning from Ontario Canada Sandra, loved the opening of the video showing American thrift store, they are very different than Canadian, your styles and clothing very different , I love American stores and clothes, we do understand and respect Arthur’s privacy, this is your journey and your life we know Arthur is there so just let him know we care, and in this world I agree it’s so hard to be optimistic, I really only watch the news for the weather, and try and focus on my gardening and nature, I try very hard to stay away from negative issues and people, I have found due to Covid people are more cold and hurtful, I just want to respect and show kindness, animals give us unconditional love and they get it more than people, so I agree again animals have a beautiful spirit , thank you again for your Tuesday message, God bless❤️🇨🇦🙏💐🌻🌿🌺👼🏻

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks so much for being here and sharing with thoughts with all of us today. Negative people can drain us of our energy for sure

  • @masulliv55
    @masulliv55 2 роки тому +1

    Always so exciting to find the thrift shop goodies

  • @Mowizzy1
    @Mowizzy1 2 роки тому +1

    What a gracious lady so full of wisdom and a good heart. So much love and appreciation for you, sending you well wishes all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤

  • @susanford4351
    @susanford4351 2 роки тому +1

    Oh Arthur!! I just discovered you over the past 4 days and enjoy your wisdom, your presense, your laughter, your giving me advise and just helping me through my life, MY FRIEND!!!! PLEASE reconsider about being on camera, WE LOVE YOU ARTHUR❤❤❤

  • @michelebeck1259
    @michelebeck1259 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so glad I found this channel. I thoroughly enjoy the life advice.

  • @christinadaggett6024
    @christinadaggett6024 2 роки тому +2

    I've been very stressed about what is going on in our country, with this current administration. For me, the best way to beat stress, is to get creative. I sculpt, as a hobby, and it brings me a lot of joy. Currently I am sculpting 2 trees, from paper mache. They will be farely good size, and will stand on each side of my fireplace, in my foyer/sunroom. Thank you for sharing your comforting words today. The clothes you bought are lovely. I hope you and your daughter are enjoying your time together. xxx

  • @sunshinesky3114
    @sunshinesky3114 2 роки тому +5

    Loved this one on optimizam! Mama always said look on the bright side of things, when things get bad, take a look around you, it could be worse, and always be thankful.

  • @winnersneeddiscipline4926
    @winnersneeddiscipline4926 2 роки тому +14

    Thanks for this reminder~ setbacks are temporary
    ~ don't blame yourself
    ~ Be optimistic " That's the best thing you can do ♥"
    Thank you Sandra you look so beautiful in all your outfit 😍 you are a true definition of happy living ♥😍

  • @wendykornfein3337
    @wendykornfein3337 2 роки тому +1

    Yes, temporary, these troubles or issues. Haven't thought of it this way. Thank you Sandra.

  • @WhiskeyThieves
    @WhiskeyThieves 2 роки тому

    I don't fit the demographics for this channel, but it warms my heart listening to Sandra's advice and gentle demeanor.

  • @guenetgirma8941
    @guenetgirma8941 2 роки тому +2

    I am 64 years old. But this morning I was asking myself was I supposed to have a child for the sake of my husband? Would he have lived longer if we had children? I am not a person of 'if not' as such but didn't know why I thought this way and today when I hear you saying in this video "... Quit blaming yourself for past things that have happened that is out of our control... ". This has comforted me much and come to my sense. I thank God for connecting me to your channel for you had been my inspiration and strength next to God.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому

      I am happy that you are going to quit blaming yourself for the past. Keep your eyes on the future and what it holds

  • @doveandolive1153
    @doveandolive1153 2 роки тому +50

    I'm guilty of rehashing past stuff in my head which then sours or saddens my moods. I'm learning to understand they are just thoughts and old memories (which does play tricks on us as we don't always remember it exactly as it was 😉) You are 💯correct 'life is not static' & 'setbacks are temporary' ♥ and patting ourself on the back is a great thing - think of it as part of our self-care. Wow what great thrift finds, loved all your selections, they all suited you so well, lovely clothes; hope I can be so lucky to find some treasures. Sounds like you had a wonderful day with our daughter, good to hear Arthur is living his life his way. Have a beautiful week and thank you for sharing with all of us.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you Barbara and I really appreciate your knowing how happy I was to have this day with my daughter

    • @halah.2073
      @halah.2073 2 роки тому +2

      Hi Barbara, I too am guilty of ruminating. I'm trying to train myself to not take every thought as a fact and instead try to look at it from a distance, something that is separate from me. Sometimes I do so well, others not so much.

    • @helenwalker716
      @helenwalker716 2 роки тому +1

      I’m really starting to put old hurts aside. Don’t need them anymore.

  • @astridcooper9391
    @astridcooper9391 2 роки тому +1

    You are such an inspiration. Stay blessed and take good care of yourself and Arthur xx

  • @christined2495
    @christined2495 2 роки тому +52

    Hi Sandra, I am glad to hear Arthur is enjoying his days, as long as he is happy that’s all that matters.
    I was laughing when you talked about your pet eyes looking at you thinking what can I do for you, my cat Stella looks at me each morning saying What can YOU do for me lol
    I have two goodwills I can shop in, one is better then the other, but many days I leave empty handed, but once in awhile I do find a treasure….I think Friday I am going to go to Goodwill now that I saw this video..
    Love your hair this length so much❤️❤️❤️

  • @lavine1219
    @lavine1219 2 роки тому +2

    i’m only 19 but your wise words and comforting presence makes me feel a lot better. thank you! 🥺❤️the gramma i never had

  • @chowes41
    @chowes41 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Sandra. I am also optimistic. But people always try to pull.me down for it by pointing out the bad side of everything!

  • @libbyneves5457
    @libbyneves5457 2 роки тому +2

    Thrifting together was one of my favorite activities with my mother. Thrifting is a low pressure activity.
    Thank you for your encouraging messages, Sandra. I am not that much younger than you, but many of your expressions and down to earth words remind me of my mother, and other people who tried to keep me straight.

  • @maryfrey
    @maryfrey 2 роки тому +2

    Wow! That is a high-end Goodwill! Love all your bargains. I love that you're 83 and still wearing leggings and jeans! And I think you should keep your hair short like it is...it's very becoming.

  • @marilynpolzin8361
    @marilynpolzin8361 2 роки тому +4

    I’m 79 and have been diagnosed with high blood pressure and osteoporosis. I’ve been extremely healthy and this has been a hard realization. I’ve always exercised ( gym 3 times a week for weight lifting machines) and eat a dash diet, mostly plant based going on 3 years. I’m generally very optimistic, but have been obsessed with my BP readings and food intake. Listening to you is helping. Thank you so much. Thanks for sharing how you clean the thrift shop clothes. I need to get more natural fibers clothes.

    • @wendi2819
      @wendi2819 2 роки тому

      I'm 70 and just learned I have cardiomyopathy. My Drs say I have to lose a great deal of weight, almost out out salt, eat clean and get my BP down as soon as possible. It's very scary. I know how you feel. I wish you good health! And many good years!

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 роки тому

      Hi ❤❤

  • @freeasabird5187
    @freeasabird5187 2 роки тому +3

    Love thrift shopping. My mother in law got me started in the 1980’s, so grateful for her wisdom. I have had some great purchases. Now I take my grandchildren. They were really impressed when I was looking for a rash vest for swimming, paid $5 instead of $30. The grandkids couldn’t wait to get home to tell mum who also does thrift shopping unbeknown to the kids😊

  • @denisejames855
    @denisejames855 2 роки тому +1

    Optimism is top priority to me these days. We have both had some serious health issues, some ongoing. We are both in our mid and late 70s and have been together 54 yrs. Situations have changed over that time, some bad choices and more good choices. I really believe what you say in that everything is temporary. To me, each day is new and it doesn't matter if I'm out and about or home crafting or cleaning there is always something positive somewhere in that day. I have reached the time in my life that negativity has no place, there has been plenty of it over time but now is the time to enjoy each moment I have on this planet. I thought I would never recover from the death of Mum 3 years ago, at age 90, it still hurts deeply but I now try to live every day as she did even when she was riddled with pain she tried to be positive. We only have one life. Thank you for your wisdom and graciousness.

  • @sharynm79
    @sharynm79 2 роки тому +5

    Wow!!! That price difference between retail and thrift shop is amazing and outrageous!!! I know media really tries to brainwash us to buy buy buy! And then if you fall into that trap, a little later you have a giant donate bag with lots of wasted money. Thank you for doing all that comparison work. Amazing!!! Love to all of you!!

  • @AdsMum100
    @AdsMum100 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this and all your videos Sandra, they bring a lot of comfort to me. My dear dear Mummy passed away a week ago, she had endured the ravages of vascular dementia for a number of years. I try to focus on the fact that she has been released from all that she endured. Your kind smile, voice and wisdom really help. Thank you so much x

    • @andreabontempo643
      @andreabontempo643 2 роки тому

      So sorry to hear about your mom. My mom has vascular dementia too. It is so hard to see a parent losing their memory. It's so tough. Hang in there.

  • @suemoore3985
    @suemoore3985 2 роки тому +1

    Sandra, you are such an inspiration! Love your videos so much! Thank you...❤️

  • @sandien.9084
    @sandien.9084 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Sandra........it is always wonderful to hear your soft tone voice giving us words of wisdom. I love the hints about thrift store shopping. You are so fortunate to have a daughter down there to shop and visit with. I really loved some of your items, the blue and white checked blouse really caught my eye. And I am eager to see your sweater. You know how tight things are right now and most likely will get worse before it gets better. So, I have decided to find a remote job (on the computer) to make ends meet and put a bit away just in case, or for something wonderful. However, as you said, things are only temporary. I just turned 78 and this new adventure sounds great to me. Crossing my fingers I can find something good. I never exdpected to go back to work, but it seems so many people are working from home, that it really makes sense to me. BTW>>>your hair looks beautiful, as does your make up. You are so natural looking, but beautiful. Thank you for sharing all you do. xoxox Sandie

  • @dianelopresti9352
    @dianelopresti9352 2 роки тому +12

    Good Afternoon Sandra, Awesome advice. As my husband's full time caregiver for almost four years, there is no end to my stress. It finally caught up with me recently when I was hospitalized with what was suspected to be a stroke. Fortunately, all is well. You are right on about being optimistic. When I think of all the things that Tony and I can no longer do as a couple such as traveling and dining out, I focus on our lovely home environment that we can spend our days in and that I have been blessed with a wonderful aide to help with Tony. You are a treasure. Blessings, Diane

  • @valmorck4814
    @valmorck4814 2 роки тому +1

    Thrift shops also do good things for our communities...helping the disabled or local hospitals or other community services! Thank you for modeling your great finds!

  • @viviangautier2160
    @viviangautier2160 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Sandra! You are so beautiful. 🤗 I am very happy Arthur is doing fine. A big hug for him. Tomorrow is my 51 birthday! And I was kind of sad. 😢For some reason every birthday that I celebrate I get sad because I
    could not have kids and I still struggling with that. Then I listened to you and I said tomorrow is my birthday!!!! 🎉 so I have to be happy, optimistic and grateful! 😊 tomorrow I am going to thank God for my life, my husband, my mother and father, and for my beautiful 8 years old niece that is my life. Tomorrow I am going to be optimistic! Thank you Sandra! Big hug for you. ❤😊

  • @aliciacervantes2441
    @aliciacervantes2441 Рік тому

    Sandra, hi 👋🏼🌷
    I I know this is an older video but I liked it and enjoyed the same. I imagine how much your daughter enjoys the time being with you. I still have my mother and time with her is very valuable.
    I loved your findings at the thrift store, I love them. Specially the colorful blouse and the blue and red checkered one.
    I enjoy listening to you and I am sharing your videos with my friends. We live to share interesting content.
    Have a blessed day my dear Sandra 👋🏼🌷

  • @maryannmcgowen5070
    @maryannmcgowen5070 2 роки тому +1

    Great finds & saving the planet! Wonderful to have a Mother/Daughter Day! Thank you for sharing!

  • @stephanieharries7746
    @stephanieharries7746 2 роки тому +2

    My thoughts are that I cannot believe I got spot on that she spent $50 I said it out loud I was by myself I said $50 and then Sandra said $50 but I'm a big fan of Goodwill myself and I was thinking that she did a great thing and end and I think Goodwill needs to give her a commission check and also thank you for a wonderful video I'm thoroughly enjoyed it I got a lot out of it too

  • @bettyherold6179
    @bettyherold6179 2 роки тому +1

    Love watching your videos! I love thrifting! Good advice too.

  • @karenpalmer3985
    @karenpalmer3985 2 роки тому

    You and Arthur are so cute. I miss seeing you together. You are our rompers room mom. I am75 so you would be my big sis. Thank you for sharing.

  • @RadiantNomad
    @RadiantNomad 2 роки тому +42

    Yes, Im definitely optimistic about the coming changes in my life: traveling, learning a language and moving to the other side of the world!

    • @livingdoll3445
      @livingdoll3445 2 роки тому +6

      Hello from Annie thank you for the lovely video it is exciting going to thrift shops I like to go weekly if I can but lately have not been well some sort of flu thing but on the mend. I cheered myself up to be optimistic and went to local op shop where they had a end of season sale they always have you can buy a bag of clothes for $5 yes it is amazing and such a bargain I was on top of the world I got 13 summer tops for that $5 I got them home fast and washed them could not wait to wear them they look fabulous on me and are of many colours and variety of patterns and designs. Last year got great bargains at same store I got winter clothes bag for $5 as well and had lots of Jackets Blazers and Jumpers etc such great buys saved hundreds of dollars for sure. I always put eucalyptus in wash to clean and disinfect those clothes from op shops, and get a kick out of the fact that I am recycling something giving it a new life and it is worth while doing so for the planet too, so this is one thing that always makes me happy when I get a bargain. I wish there were more good things in my life to make me feel more happy and optimistic, well I try to imagine these nice things happening, it gives me some hope.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому

      Great news!

  • @savannahsmiles1797
    @savannahsmiles1797 2 роки тому +2

    THANK you...I just went thru a BAD patch. Lost the promising job that turned out to be a huge nothing burger of misrepresentation and couldn't participate in lies and unethical stuff. Got notice the same day of lease not renewing, which I wasn't expecting. It looks bleak and scary as I was just getting over my financial mess from the whole covid stuff. I have NO idea how to FIX this in time, but have to trust that it will ALL workout despite the setbacks.

    • @maggiedoor6093
      @maggiedoor6093 2 роки тому

      I hope things are better for you now, often events like yours push us into something better.

  • @rnbham39
    @rnbham39 2 роки тому +2

    Your channel is a Godsend!!! I am so thrilled to have happened upon it. Thank you for sharing and giving of your self. I adore your videos. So wise, applicable and real. 😍

  • @tamathagilbert5816
    @tamathagilbert5816 2 роки тому +41

    Good Morning Sandra:)!
    Sending you and Arthur and your family, warm and kind greetings.
    I am so in awe of how you graciously share of updates regarding Arthur and yourself, yet simultaneously, keep intact and respectful of the privacy of yall's progress and relationship. Its really admirable, especially since, you give so much of yourself helping others. But it is very clear that you honor your relationship as priority, and I think that is wonderful, because these days Sandra, sometimes priorities get lost. But I wanted to tell you, the work you do, is so impactful in a positive way for so many people. It literally is a ministry unto itself. Just wanted to send you some positive encouragement, wish you a beautiful day, and tell you, that you and your family are truly a beautiful Blessing and thank you for all you do through your video content.
    Kindness Always,
    Tamatha

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +6

      Tamatha, Thank you so much for your inspirational and encouraging post. You are so kind and absolutely have made my day today. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of us. Love your way

    • @kathleenbradley6383
      @kathleenbradley6383 2 роки тому +5

      Beautifully said, Tamatha. I agree with your comment completely.

    • @tamathagilbert5816
      @tamathagilbert5816 2 роки тому +3

      @@lifewithsandrahart 🙏🙏🙏

    • @tamathagilbert5816
      @tamathagilbert5816 2 роки тому +2

      @@kathleenbradley6383 🙏😊🙏

  • @joancronin2
    @joancronin2 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u beautiful Sandra!! That made my day u are such an inspiration luv ur stories!!💕

  • @brendabrooks9699
    @brendabrooks9699 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Sandra I’ve commented a few times and was telling you how very hard the aging thing is on me. However I wanted to let you know that over the last couple weeks I’ve been suffering with sciatica never knew pain could be so bad. All I done was stood up. I had pain in my back and down my right leg it is horrible pain. And after 19 years I finally had to break and go to the doctor. They gave me a shot of steroids and also subscribed me a 6 day supply of methyl predisolone. Well I realized when all this was happening what is important and I’ll never complain about aging again or a little weight gain. I seriously feel like I’ve had a second chance at life because in my anxiety mind I had cancer that was pushing against the nerve but I now know that’s not the case. I’m still in a little pain but I feel so blessed to be rid of the pain and it’s like the world is a different place. That’s exactly what I’m concentrating on now is my beautiful children and grandchildren and everyone else in my life. I love listening to you and I really feel my negativity is gone. And I was seriously probably the most negative person you could ever know . Burgos bless!!

    • @brendabrooks9699
      @brendabrooks9699 2 роки тому

      That last part was supposed to be God Bless You!!

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +1

      I am so happy that you have gotten the right care and that your pain has subsided. I wish you a wonderful life pain-free and keep up your positive attitude. Good for you! Thank you for sharing

  • @luloops
    @luloops 2 роки тому

    I love your channel. I turned 60 this year and my name is Sandra so I knew your channel was a must. 🙂 I have been thrifting since the 80's as a young woman. I love the thrill of the hunt. I have thrifted so many beautiful vintage and high end items through the years. Love all your thrift finds.

  • @kristinecampbell5585
    @kristinecampbell5585 2 роки тому +22

    Love listening to you on Tuesday mornings with my coffee. You have a way of resetting the negatives to positives. ❤️ I was thinking last week that I would like to go to the thrift store for some gently used clothes. Now my mind is made and I will go this week.😉 Have a beautiful day Beautiful 💖

  • @cruisinnc
    @cruisinnc 2 роки тому +1

    You look so beautiful today! And as usual, your wisdom and experiences are on targer.

  • @kristinheimburg330
    @kristinheimburg330 2 роки тому +2

    Loved seeing your GW finds! Let's see your closet.

  • @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts
    @FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts 2 роки тому +5

    Good morning another thought provoking video.. I still haven’t figured out who I am at 71. What’s the old joke; if you want to make God laugh make a plan, lol I just turn my life over to the Lord each day and let him lead. That doesn’t mean that I can’t make any plans, but I what learned this far in life with my husband’s illness and then ultimately death, you only can do a minute at a time sometimes that’s all we can grasp. Have a blessed day everybody, believe on the blood ❌⭕️❌⭕️
    my best photograph with me and my 4 children together when we went to Lion Country Safari when they were small, right before my first marriage ended.. I made copies, framed it and gave it along with their Christmas gifts a few years back they loved it.

  • @Intellect3544
    @Intellect3544 2 роки тому +1

    I'm new to your channel and I'm loving your wisdoms and teaching us on how to survive, live life to the fullest and be optimistic again. As I haven't been living my life as I should, that will change soon. Thank you so much and I think you are so lovely and beautiful ❤️ 💐

  • @teresachadwell465
    @teresachadwell465 2 роки тому +6

    You're such a lovely person and a joy to watch. I understand about Arthur but let him know we're thinking of him. A snapshot of him once in awhile would be nice, if possible.

  • @lorellamastropasqua4908
    @lorellamastropasqua4908 2 роки тому +1

    I love your videos you cheer me up I need this positivity so much thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️❤️❤️

  • @heatherwhittaker6169
    @heatherwhittaker6169 2 роки тому +1

    Your visits are so much appreciate 💓 this is so true about animals...I love them and spending time with them will keep you positive...even just feeding the birds will help..Thank you Sandra blessings .

  • @sherry1674w
    @sherry1674w 2 роки тому +1

    Dear Sandra, you are very in tune with Goodness! God bless you and your hubby and your family. Yes, we have a mind that needs us to direct it. Loving ourselves no matter what is important. Many blessings, Sherry :)

  • @Judithcardonaa
    @Judithcardonaa 2 роки тому +52

    Hi! I love today's video, I'm 18 and I feel that your videos open my eyes!! btw I love how your blush looks, I love the tone❤️

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +8

      Thank you and welcome I’m so happy to have you here. I have an 18 year old granddaughter so I get it!

    • @50toinfinityatleast
      @50toinfinityatleast 2 роки тому +1

      She’s quite beautiful isn’t she? And I love the way she tells us things from her point of you. I think it’s very helpful and enjoyable as well.

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr 2 роки тому

      Hi
      How are u sweet friend 😍❤

  • @terrigodfrey8260
    @terrigodfrey8260 2 роки тому +1

    In my winters in Florida a friend and I went every Saturday to thrift stores and West Palm Beach yard sales. We found the most beautiful things and clothes for a song! Such a treat. Your "new" clothes are beautiful.

  • @VedZed0
    @VedZed0 2 роки тому +1

    You have such a wonderful flow to how to speak ...I'm nearing 50...to put it in a nut shell..your videos helps me put my life in perspective and helps and reminds me to come to terms with the past..which is not an easy thing..but you do give that nudge to carry on. Blessed to hear you speak. 🙏

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  2 роки тому +1

      Veda, Thank you for sharing and letting me know. I’m happy to have you here

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Sandra for your wisdom and encouragement x

  • @michellehamric6856
    @michellehamric6856 2 роки тому +3

    Such a timely and delightful video, Sandra! It just happens that my friend and I shopped at our local Goodwill today. My really big find was a beautiful gray jacket from Banana Republic ( tags still attached) that had been $178 for only $12. AND, it was a perfect fit and good color for me. it's actually more for Spring, Fall, Winter instead of for hot humid weather. My friend and I had so much fun shopping, laughing, lunching, and sharing together.

  • @maryloureeve9938
    @maryloureeve9938 2 роки тому +1

    Hello Sandra, you are looking great underneath the life you are living at this times. Yes, life gets to us and we have to live in courage and optimism.