JP was just plain nasty. I get a lot of men have a preference of no make up but the way he said it was horrible. I think Taylor took it really well and reacted maturely, even after being insulted. Not sure many people would remain calm and nice. Uche just annoyed me from the "recent cheater" comment onwards. Aleyah dodged a bullet. Lydia was just.... something else but whatever her and Milton seem to be moving past it and making it work. Stacey made the right choice, especially after seeing Izzys true colours. Izzy had a weird hate obsession with Johnie? Not to mention the weird af comment where he was "turned on" by Stacey arguing with her??? Then pretty much immediately kisses her shortly after Stacey breaks it off.
whenever I’m watching all of them interact, I’m screaming in my head “CAN WE ALL JUST BE REAL?? YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHAT YOURE DOING IS DRAMATIC AND IRRATIONAL! WHAT IF EVERYONE WAS JUST LIKE… REAL?!??” But thats also me watching any “reality” tv or drama film. “CMON THAT DIDNT EVEN HAVE TO BE A PROBLEM!!” Anyway, I still love watching your coverage though. And bless you for making long videos! Videos 45 min or longer are elite in my brain. K bye❤
I've never seen a single episode of any of these reality shows he discusses but man oh man, I soak up every second lol. He has me nodding and having full conversations with him through the screen, I love his takes.
I agree. I watch quite a few reaction channels, but Leo is the best with it imo. I mean yes I do like the others and most of them are funny, but the length of these and that his humor hits me better is what puts the dude at the #1 spot.
I liked Taylor. I think she was committed to the process and seemed to try. She was honest and made a difficult choice based on taking care of herself. I think Milton is great. I hope though he starts to see Lydia's horrible behavior and personality and gets the heck away from her.
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth I liked her as well. And I definitely don't think she would have left if Lydia didn't bombard her with all that Uche information. People like to blame Uche and he was a jerk with the "recent cheating" part, but quickly learned his error and I think tried to make a change. He's off and maybe it wouldn't have worked out for them. Lydia on the other hand was calculated. I every bit believe she stalked and followed him there and then created that false friendship with Aaliyah. When Aaliyah was telling her she didn't want to know anything about Uche and Lydia just kept going on and on, it made me feel so angry. She's a real Lifetime Movie villain.
@shethingsd eh aliyah and uche dated afterwards and it didn't work out mainly because uche said he didn't find her attractive so if anything Lydia helped her dodge a bullet on TV lol
My personal conspiracy theory with JP is that he heard Taylor’s accent and heard she was a teacher and thought she’d be the perfect little conservative housewife. Then, she ended up being more left leaning than he expected, maybe just brought up a gay friend or drag brunch something innocuous, and he realized his guess was wrong and had to bring something up to hate. An abundance of makeup can be a common complaint in certain religious groups, calling it attention seeking or slutty, so it would make sense for him to defer to that. Crack theory entirely based on her accent and his wardrobe 😂😂
Nope I disagree, I think he’s AFRAID she’s high maintenance, with her lash extensions, her boob (DDD)job, her heavy makeup, her hair extensions etc and he’s been very hurt and betrayed by a higher maintenance lady. He’s assuming she’s honestly not worth the trouble. I don’t believe for a second he’s not attracted to her. It’s a confirmation bias he has based on past baggage. Firefighter? Please they all have bimbo pasts He’s wanting someone more lower maintenance, more down to earth, uglier and he doesn’t know How to communicate that. He actually is in this position because he wants blind love. He’s not got a vain bone in his body. You can tell, it is all about past baggage.
@@chasitylynn8183 Kind of agree? I think more than anything hes afraid of the commitment. I think she puts a lot of effort into her appearance, and likewise it seems other aspects of her life, and he noticed. I think he realized that she does care, that she will put effort into the relationship and that she’d probably expect the same from him, which may feel like something he can’t return.
This was one of my thoughts as well. It was either that or maybe his Mom who he has a lot of trauma from wears lots of makeup or maybe resembles Taylor and it triggered him. Either way, she dodged a serious bullet because that man needs a lot of inner work before he’s ready for any relationship let alone marriage.
Coming from a women who doesn't wear makeup, ever! If I were on the show, even I would put on at least some makeup if I were meeting the person I was engaged too on NATIONAL TV!
Right? This is normal! I’m a little different from you. At home I don’t bother wearing makeup, but if I’m heading to work or if I’ll be out for more than some quick errands I like to have some makeup on. I wear more or less depending on the occasion. Most women I know who never wear makeup still tend to wear some to their weddings or to other special events. It makes you feel special and fancy.
I can tell the type of guy JP is from his outfits. Him taking shots at her make up choices rather than saying the real issue (whatever it may be for him) just reinforces my beliefs of him. She dodged a bullet.
There's a bit of irony in saying you can tell the kind of guy he is by his outfits while simultaneously taking issue with him judging her for her makeup
@@s4di.3 How is it ironic if he lives up to it? I'm not basing that on a random guy wearing US flag shirt I saw for 3 seconds at a gas station, but on a dude who has a lot of footage. People who dress that way ALL THE TIME have certain behavior and he lives up to that.
I wish they would actually have a Love Is Blind. Large people, short people, people with disabilities, people who are not the “traditional” beautiful ones. That’s what most of us are. I would much rather watch someone that is relatable finding love
For the most part audiences prefer to watch and root for conventionally attractive people. So ratings will inevitably prevent them from being true to the experiment
Well, if they did that, we'd get a whole bunch of people getting brutally body shamed on television. The body shaming is already an issue on this show, even with these super model looking people. Imagine what would happen to an average looking person here. It would just affirm the fact that a lot of people just ARE superficial and these shows only serve to gain publicity. None of this stuff has anything to do with actual love, otherwise they also wouldn't be peer pressuring people into getting engaged and married in such a short time.
I feel like JP was definitely lying. It sounded like he was making it all up to get away with not admitting that he’s just not attracted to her. He’s was trying to make her be the one to call it off by being terrible the whole time
JP honestly scares me he reminds me of an ex-husband I used to have. He was all talks during the dating phase and as soon as we got married he would act just like this guy, not answering questions didn't want to have a two-way conversation so silent but this was the first sign before it ramped up to physical abuse. In my opinion this was the first abusive tactic I noticed in the relationship he didn't have anything to get mad at me over or anything to yell at or hit me over so he just sat there silently pensively staring, it's really uncomfortable because it makes the other individual feel like wait do they actually hate me? Ya I don't like this guy!
I noticed that to. It is an emotional/verbal abuse tactic to make you confused and neurotic trying to deal with their behavior or "appease them". I called it ESPECIALLY when he said it would better better after they married (paraphrasing).....it's been 3 days and you can't keep up your facade or whatever....why would I want to risk dealing with that forever or even 2 years until the After The Alter. Nonetheless, I'm happy you got out of that situation.❤ wishing you the best in life now
The way JP suddenly stops talking almost entirely but continues smiling and nodding is so off-putting and just... awkward. Like what the hell, man? Genuinely, what is going on in his head?
I think he might just be really anxious? He might be nervous around her, so interacting with her in front of a camera crew might make him really anxious? I don't think I could be normal and lovey with my bf of 5 years in front of a whole camera crew just... watching Idk tho
Everyone is assuming JP is NOT attracted to Taylor. I disagree, I think he’s AFRAID she’s high maintenance, with her lash extensions, her boob (DDD)job, her heavy makeup, her hair extensions etc and he’s been very hurt and betrayed by a higher maintenance lady. He’s assuming she’s honestly not worth the trouble. I don’t believe for a second he’s not attracted to her. It’s a confirmation bias he has based on past baggage. Firefighter? Please they all have bimbo pasts He’s wanting someone more lower maintenance, more down to earth, uglier and he doesn’t know How to communicate that. He actually is in this position because he wants blind love. He’s not got a vain bone in his body. You can tell
@@chasitylynn8183that’s just dumb tho you can’t really shame a woman for wearing a full face of makeup while they’re filming a TV show.Even the men are put in makeup for TV.
@@chasitylynn8183 So he wants someone uglier than him because he’s insecure…..That’s a personal issue. If he’s that upset about a woman that enjoys to pamper herself then he needs to talk to someone about his past relationship problems. Not go on a tv show called “love is blind” to then judge the girl he decided to propose to over what she does to feel good about herself. That’s fucked up. Don’t hold a grudge onto a girl that it’s just getting to know you because of your past relationships, that has nothing to do with her. Gotta fix your own shit first 🤷🏾♀️
JP was like "I tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas!" Like in what world was he trying?! He just would get annoyed that she wasn't ignoring his drastic change in behavior
Right! And was still trying to stall til the wedding....if this is 3 days into our engagement and you ain't opening up to me, you think I'm gonna voluntarily sign up to a marriage without any change in behavior? Taylor came out blessed
Milton and Lydia are the definition of “I just want to be in a relationship” and they’re gonna ride that to the child of divorce they have in a couple years
Wow such a hateful comment. It’s really weird how some of y’all wish the worst for someone else’s marriage. Makes you wonder what’s going on in YOUR lives? 😳
This season has been miserable, for some reason Stacy in particular got SO under my skin. Maybe her complaints were valid but how she presented them was so baffling to me. To get so upset when he asked not to be interrupted just solidified that shes just as immature as she thinks Izzy is.
i have adhd. dishes can be a huge stumbling block if im stressed. not great but i can just toss them rather than leave dishes building up until it becomes insurmountable. sometimes you need to accept your limitations and get on with your life. asking someone on camera why they do something and that reason could create an issue with their work or personal life, makes things pretty uncomfortable. also.. why does the man pay for dinner? my rule is the first date is generally who asked for the date pays, but if they offer to split then let them because some arent comfortable being paid for - and i often do the asking, after that you split.
@@DirtyDruid omg so much. i am one of 4 people in my household with adhd. the reduction in arguments and coordination is pay off alone. we are all trying to manage our adhd, but when someone wants to cook dinner, but can't because the person whose turn it was to do dishes was too burned out hasnt, so we back and forth about who is accountable and then go and order take out .... like its just a stupid argument to have and we all know it but we all work and go to school. the guilt after that become disabling. we are out of spoons, our cups are empty... rather than pay the adhd tax and over order on food we don't need - because those cooking ingredients are moulding by the second as well - our kitchen is clear, the obstacles which come with task initiation are gone... we just do our thing. i think anyone who criticises Izzy, clearly hasn't had a depressive episode in their lives and bless their hearts
How can you not think Lydia planned on running into Uche, if this actual stalker woman said something like “I feel like I’m going to run into somebody from my past”? She has proven she does not respect boundaries and does not seem to be a mentally stable person. What are the chances she would “predict” that?
It's crazy that people are even this willing to give her a pass. Are we just ignoring the part where she spent days manipulating and gaslighting Aaliyah? And this is looking past all her other clearly BPD behavior that probably isn't intentional. Just because a person isn't outright mean doesn't mean they aren't toxic.
I think it’s because most of it its based on Uches word, an he starts comming off as incredibly manipulative later. Like Uche is not ok if you ask me, he seems apathetic as f, he does manipulative things a few times. Like that phone call when Aliyah left? One moment he is saying “oh I just want to speak, i love her and just want to hear her” and then the moment she answers the phone he starts the monotonous voice emotionally void interrogation. “Why did you do this and this, then why would you do that and that” while she cries. Dismisses her emotions and reasons. With lydia he would say she was a great person and didnt think she would ever hurt someone and then when things looked bad for him started saying she was a phsyco. Dudes manipulative
The best part of Love is Blind, is after every unhinged moment of the couples deluding themselves that they’re good and in good relationships, the music swells with emotion as it fails to read the room. Gets me everytime.
Taylor is so pretty, sweet, and good lord is she patient. She didn't deserve how he tried to gaslight her. Milton is 10/10 my fave. He's fun and I weirdly loved the bend down to look at her moment 😂
Milton was the only sane one here. Hopefully Lydia doesn't manipulate him too much, but at least she'd gone to therapy and was aware of and working on her issues
Lol this season made me love the fact that I’m single, financially independent, and don’t have to deal with weird and manipulative people. I’m living comfortably with my cat and any partner I invite over better treat us both like queens 😂
I’m single too, been for 5 years now. Definitely have my moments when I feel lonely and would like all the relationship things but, overall, being single is pretty good too. You have your independence, no need to explain anything to anyone, no need for compromises and can build a life YOU want for yourself. Giving that up is not as fun and easy as people make it out to be.
My jaw DROPPED when I heard JP say her make up was caked on. How does he not understand that this was a big step in their relationship and she wanted to put her best foot forward when meeting her future husband as well as being shown on national tv. I don’t usually wear make up outside of cosplay but when I’m on any form of camera I’ll always put some on within a "natural" amount because the camera (in my personal opinion) loves highlighting flaws and can make things also appear less. If this is to be a captured memory, yeah I’d want to look my best so that when I look back I don’t feel bad about how I looked
Aliyah said in some other interview the only reason she kept blocking and unblocking Uche is because he'd send her messages. He does the same thing with her that he does to Lydia, leave out info so he'll look better.
Still waiting for the 3rd part of this... I LOVE your commentary on all the reality series. It's the only way I can watch them without dying of cringe. Thank you! I love the long vids, your opinions and humor ❤
Stacy’s got NO IDEA how entitled she sounds or the level of luxury she’s clearly had the privilege of living to be able to say so freely and nonchalantly “I just don’t ever want money to be a thing I’m stretched for or concerned about”. Whaaaaaat???!?!? My husband and I both work full time jobs, our son is 13 and we’ve never, ever been anywhere close to never having to worry, feel concerned or feel stretched regarding our finances. We’re able to live comfortably and usually buy things we want or need for the most part but things can easily get strapped at times. Especially when larger, unexpected expenses come up etc. To live in America and NEVER have to worry about your financial situation whatsoever is wild. Obviously she comes from money but she’s also clearly making bank at her job, plus being single with no kids helps too. I know nothing of this wealthy life Stacy’s obviously accustomed to and maybe I’m way off but I don’t think this is the “norm”. He’s gotta be sweating it big time now…..😬
Ok but she ain’t you , she grew up w a dad who provided for her THATS HER reality and life style. If you grew up poor and like living in a 50/50 stressed relationship that’s great but theres nothing wrong w her wanting to continue the lifestyle she has always had. She ain’t expecting anything more than what she always had .
@@Pocketdekuwu Yeah see....most of what you just said is technically correct...the problem is she's trying to force that lifestyle onto someone else. The way she spoke clearly showed that she expected him to become her new caretaker which is absolutely not right to do. If she wants to live that life on her current circumstances fine, that's right for her, but not when you force that onto someone else. Also, I really disagree on that last part, she absolutely is expecting more than what she previously has.
@@Pocketdekuwu Actually I did grow up with a father who provided for me and we were nowhere close to being poor but the economy changes, and has drastically, from back when I was growing up (left home late 90’s). It wasn’t as necessary as it is today to need 2 incomes at home …stay at home mom’s were far more common because it was much easier to live a comfortable life with one income. Jobs security was also more common, even expected to a degree, when I was growing up. But my father that provided for me also taught me the importance of independence and creating a life for myself that wouldn’t require have to depend on anyone to provide or help provide for me, which I’ve done. I’m married but if something happened to my husband or our marriage I could still support myself and my son if necessary. I knew when I left from under my parents roof, it was up to me to provide what I wanted or needed and I knew it wasn’t realistic to expect my life to stay like I was accustomed to growing up, which ultimately says more about her father and how he raised her. She expects to find a man who can support her and assist her in living the lifestyle her father provided for her. He’s kinda set her up for wanting and needing something from a partner that isn’t impossible to find but it’s not necessarily realistic and it’s based on materialism and wealth which in my opinion only, isn’t the most important thing to be looking for in a life partner. But I totally understand your point and you’re correct that she was raised wealthy and expects to maintain that life, which is great for her!
OK as someone who has literally been homeless and is unemployed at this moment, and very worried about money if I didn’t have to worry about money, I wouldn’t date someone who makes bad money choices, and would add a new stressor to my life. That’s just common sense. I think this couple are both annoying for various reasons, but I’m not really seeing why everyone’s getting on Stacy for seeing what she wants and going after it And wanting someone who’s either on her level or contributing something else. Is he has debt and doesn’t seem very financially sound. If for whatever privilege or hard work you have gotten to a place where you don’t have to worry about that and then you start picking up the slack for someone else that’s just low self-esteem sis if I didn’t have to worry about money right now. Better believe I’m not going to date someone Whose spending is going to get me back into that hole. Dealing with the realities of life is one thing, degrading yourself and your standard of living that you have developed because everyone else has to deal with a certain type of stress that you don’t is stupidity.
The longer this season went on, the less I liked Uche. He seems super manipulative to me. JP was unlikeable from the beginning solely for the amount of American flag gear he wears. Seems sus 😂 And Stacy was easily my least favorite female member of the show. “Is your face ok?” Girl chill.
Yeees, Uche treated Aliyah so bad from the start, he was always rude and dismissive with her, and that whole cheating scene was A LOT for someone who also has cheated in the past, the way he talked on the phone with her after HE omitted that he knew Lydia and DATED her, like? I totally understand her leaving after feeling betrayed by her "boyfriend" and her friend.
Aaron and jo watched this and when he said "if youd looked like this, id have liked it" jo screamed "BUT SHE DOES LOOK LIKE THIS....AND YOURE NOT LIKING IT!"
There were actually two other couples on the beach that the show cut out for abuse reasons. They had so little to work with because they had to cut around them.
There’s multiple articles about a lawsuit against the production from a contestant that got engaged regarding sexual assault, negligence and false imprisonment. The other couple is Carter and Renee and the reason why they were cut from the show isn’t that clear. Renee confirmed that they were engaged and even picked out the wedding dress and everything.
I usually don't comment but I love your deep dives. Something to listen to as I work on my uni assignment. AND OH MY GOD. I had to rewind and made sure I heard that properly when JP said "caked up face". Like the man who is a walking USA advertisement had the balls to say that. What a misogynistic asshole. Aside, Taylor is gorgeous so I don't know what he is on.
It's almost a lesser version of one of the earlier seasons with bartise and Nancy, except Bartise dragged it out with Nancy basically calling her ugly and saying that she's not his type but the emotional connection will grow.
She also kept repeating "I don't care about looks anymore" after they met for the first time. She clearly didn't find him attractive and I wonder if he picked up on it
Two other couples got engaged, Renee and Carter, (they got edited out but you can still spot them at the wedding dress fittings) then there was another couple that broke up in Mexico where the girl said she got SA'd by her fiancee and she's suing the show now
i CAN NOT deal w actual reality shows bc they’re such trash, so watching these long breakdowns from you both alone & with friends or a partner is such top tier entertainment
Him only having disposable plates says to me that he doesn’t know how to do the dishes. Real plates don’t have to be expensive. They aren’t a luxury item. You can pick them up second hand or at home goods/dollar tree. Even that would be better than a paper plate if you’re trying to make a good impression. Edit: I saw someone else mention that he did have real plates under the paper ones which I didn’t catch. That’s much more reasonable. Using paper/plastic ware every now and then is normal. But every day seems excessive and wasteful.
My guy I live in one of the most expensive cities in America I’m 24 and unemployed and just bought four plates for three dollars each. It is seriously not that hard to stop fucking over the environment and wash some fucking dishes every time you eat and yeah, it just shows shortsightedness. It’s not about class or money or whatever the fuck even though that is ultimately what she makes it about and why I can’t side with her completely but if you know you’re going on a show to hopefully get a partner you prepare and don’t leave shit from past hookups around like a lost and found. Lack of thoughtfulness on preparing your food and lack of thoughtfulness on preparing your home. It’s giving immaturity and I’m younger than him. Sorry but no I think Leo is right on this one and even deeper because he was like well. You didn’t give the guy a minute to prepare and get rid of past stuff, but he knew he was going on the show it’s not that hard to be considerate
@@daniellecowan459EXACTLY!!! Stacy ain’t my cup of tea but she wasn’t wrong about Izzy & his paper plates. I’m 27, all my dishes are from the dollar store for less than $20. 4 cups, 4 plates, 4 bowls, & 4 salad plates for about $20, everything including my utensils was like $50 MAX. It’s not about the money, it’s about his lack of care, intention, thought, etc.
@@daniellecowan459Thank you! I’m not American and the disposable plate thing is so bizarre to me, it’s abnormal behaviour not to use and wash actual plates pretty much everywhere in the world. But some Americans act like plates and glasses cost ten billion dollars apiece and they’re the only place on earth that has disabled people so if you say ‘hey maybe don’t pollute the earth with more plastic for no good reason’ you apparently hate both disabled and poor people. (I’m disabled and have ADHD myself before anyone jumps into the replies to accuse me of those things lol)
I cannot STAND Stacy! She’s materialistic, controlling af, she expect luxury but meanwhile, she has three different jobs where she works less hours than Izzy (they say it at some point). Idk… I can’t stand her attitude, she kept shutting Izzy down and completely block him when he tried to talk to her and was sad about her attitude towards him. I’m actually glad Izzy didn’t end up with her, he deserves so much better than her! He deserves a sweet and emotionally available girl that helps him out just as much as he’s helping her.
Her eyebrows were done too poorly for her to be so picky. Also if you walk into someone’s house and them and their relatives all look EXACTLY the same…especially if they’re blonde ypp, RUN
I really disliked her too. When Izzy was crying and she was just so cold to him saying "why are you crying 😐" I couldn't stand her. She's definitely toxic
Well johnie was willing to be emotionally open with him but he choose the party girl then was suprised that she didn't care xD it was obvious that he was more open with johnie because he told her that he had bad finances in the pods and she still wanted to try with him. He didn't tell Stacy until right before the wedding. most probably because he knew she wouldn't have been interested. So I don't rly have much sympathy for izzy
I’ve been waiting for Part2!! Thank you for 2 hours of goodness. Also, they typically film each season in one city so when they look for contestants they take applicants or reach out to people on social media that are in that area. So it’s not that weird that exes could be in the pool of potential contestants BUT the production should have done better background checking and prevented this happening. Or they knew and let it happen for the drama, who knows lol
I'm genuinely disturbed at the way Uche speaks when "communicating" by being extremely aggressive and loud and cursing. Extremely emotionally immature, not to mention mean.
I appreciate you SO DANG MUCH Leo. You literally say what I'm thinking. What a mess this season was. People just out here looking for money and air time. Not thinking about the few that go on this show taking it seriously. What a great way to inflate their doubt, trauma and lack of self esteem. Slender richie acts like he actually hates that beautiful woman... it's so uncomfortable to watch... What is this world coming to.
I’m sensing a pattern with Leah. She cheats on her old boyfriend instead of breaking up, she doesn’t come clean to him (which I would rather not know if my gf cheated, just break up with me and let me live in ignorance), she runs away when Uche is talking to her, then she leaves the show without a word. I can only assume that she never brought up her dissatisfaction with their intimacy levels with her ex before she cheated, because she’s showing a pattern of poor communication and running away from problems instead of confronting them and making the other party chase her down to get an answer.
Totally agree with you, because that's a large part of my own personal pattern too. But, just saying, if sticking around means literally filming this dumpster fire's worth of unneccessary drama pumped up by messy people showing off for Reality TV? RUN. Maybe the ONLY time this is a completely justifiable reaction, here. She lost my sympathy when she answered the phone after she had gotten the f out.
Your actually wrong if you see in a lot of her interview she talks about telling producer that she want to leave multiple times and they kept gaslighting the situation but producer told her to stay. Secondly he wasn’t honest throughout the whole process but I owe you a Im leaving. When you lied, manipulated me you’re lucky the mature thing I can do is walk away from a situation.
*Aaliyah* She said there was more to the story if that means anything. He was definitely cheating on her for over a year. If anything, the full story makes Uche look worse for the ish he said with context tbh. Regardless, they used her as a pawn to make this season "spicy" and she indeed was tricked out of an experience
Thank you so much for more of these Leo! this was by far the worst season they even made and it was soooooo hard to get through, but watching with you makes it so much better haha!
It has been a pleasure finding your channel and watching. You have fantastic opinions IMHO. The positivity and the puns bring me up and im autistic and your videos are very well edited to keep sound at a good level. I just appreciate finding more positive content creators.
I absolutely LIVE for your deep dives on these shows. I watch the shows but still anticipate your video and watch them and laugh my ass off the ENTIRE time. You never disappoint 😂
Ummmmm….WHY is Izzy holding this resentment and negativity towards Johnny still??? She’s majorly under his skin and I don’t get why he even cares anymore???
So many awful moments but this one annoyed me the MOST. Like you are literally engaged and still letting this woman wind you up? I’m no fan of Johnie but I thought it was really unfair how he went off at her when it seemed like she’d actually grown.
When Aliyah was upset about Uche going in on her for cheating, Lydia told her that Uche had personal problems he needed to change if he wanted to be with Lydia. Honestly don't think Lydia was trying to tell Aliyah bad things about Uche but wanted to give her as many facts as she could since she knows he has a habit of leaving information out.
i get where you’re coming from, and i don’t think lydia had bad intentions but aliyah multiple times was like just pls stop talking LMFAO she didn’t want to know ALL of that
@@rileymosier7731but if you watch her interview you see her say that she feels that producer kept demanding her to pry and give more information to Aliyah and that Lydia was paced until approach her numerous times throughout the experiment.
@@rileymosier7731 but you’re talking about two different scenes. It seems that they weren’t allowed to tell anyone due to the producers at the time that she was comforting Aaliyah and being vague and then when she was able to tell she unfortunately burst it out with everything which I think makes things more understandable. She wasn’t pushing Aaliyah‘s boundaries from jump. It was just that she had information that she thought would be relevant and couldn’t share and then when she finally could share it was boundary crossing to do so. Not the best, but I think she was trying to look out for someone but was stopped from doing so by the artificial constraints of the show.
JP 100% stopped opening up in their relationship because he wasn't attracted to her anymore. Saw that before he mentioned the makeup thing lmao Visually and/or physically he lost interest so he stopped trying to communicate. I don't have a lot of experience with relationships myself but I have noticed with my past 2 male partners, once they stopped being "attracted" to me, they stopped communicating/opening up with me. In the previous, it was physical attraction. In the one before that, it was emotional attraction. Mutual in both situations, but def something I've noticed myself and seen in these shitty blind relationship shows lmfaoooo
And then he tried to make it her fault instead of being honest “I just don’t feel like there’s a connection and attraction”. He is the worst kind of guy. Also, Taylor is beautiful and doesn’t ever wear that much makeup. Wtf 😂
Brooooo same. I had what seemed to be a fantastic relationship, we were both very attracted to one another physically and mentally but around the 4 year mark he just completely checked out but wouldn’t leave! It was so infuriating, we lived together and I was handling the bills because he became a bum (that part sucked too) and he would.not.leave. Like, I get it, you’re not into me anymore, go mooch off someone else instead of hanging around here with your sulky ass. Eventually he poured a beer on me and was being crazy so I called the cops, he got arrested, I think there was a temporary restraining order imposed and magically he was gone, came by with his dad to get his stuff after he got out of jail the next day and that was it. Sucks it had to get to that point though. If I had been more financially solid I would have just moved out and left him with all the bills but that wasn’t an option at the time.
41:32 *picks her jaw off the floor* every time he said “because you don’t change” my jaw opened a little bit wider until it hit the floor. What on earth?!
Yesss I've been waiting for you to come out with this one. Thankfully, you are a gem, and don't make me wait very long ❤ I mean, I would wait as long as I had to, but I'm grateful that you're quick getting videos out. This show wouldn't be even half as entertaining without your commentary. Thanks Leo!
Can't imagine saying "probably" in response to "love you more". I can't tell if I absolutely hate it or if I respect it, mans over there like "I got no time for games so I'm gonna end this now" lol.
AYE LEOOO thanks for always bringing the heat in your recaps! I’m not watching this season cause Netflix sucks ass now-but no doubt your eloquent and hilarious comments will give us all the strength to endure this cluster fuckery LOVE YOU
Aw hell yeah Leo! Coming in clutch! I’ve been refreshing many times to find something to listen to on my drive this evening and you posted at the perfect time. Already watched the first one.
Jp was creepy as hell..someone obsessively dressing like him has no place assuming and judging anything about another human. Uche was suspicious from the start not recognizing Lidya’s voice. I believe something happened but I don’t believe anything went down exactly the way he described.. Izzy deserves all of stacy’s horrible ways. They both suck. Milton shouldn’t be on the show he can definitely get a good catch in the “real world” ..Lydia however needs some help in the romance department..
45:04 but also, it’s a tv show. They SHOULD be wearing makeup because that’s a normal convention of television, movies, and theater. Like I get that later on they’ll go makeupless for things like the evening scenes in bedrooms, but most of the time you’re going to be wearing makeup in a show. As someone who does theater I’d probably have dropped this guy immediately. That’s hard to get past when he literally is unable to communicate now
Right. Like her being self-conscious or nervous to show her appearance is swept under the rug for HIS INSECURITIES! I guarantee if she came out bare faces he'd have thrown a fit
Your videos genuinely make my week. My life has been so stressful recently as a senior in high school and it's awesome to be able to unwind with you videos 😭 Ty bestie
Burning through single use plates and glassware because you can’t be bothered doing dishes (presumably) and then trying to call someone else materialistic is insane behaviour, producing a tonne of waste instead of just washing a plate and cup is peak materialism/consumerism!!
some ppl can't deal with doing the dishes omg and comparing paper plates to other things, more wasteful is makeup. so much microplastic, can't be recycled, very easily spread into the environment, difficult to filter out
Yeah, JP I think was not attracted to her out of makeup. He’s saying she wore too much, but obviously when they met, he liked what he saw it was only after that he gets quiet which doesnt make any sense to me cause shes really pretty in and out of makeup
Aliyah had every right to silently quit. She got thrown in this cage of crazy people, somehow got inbetween drama with two obsessive, sketchy people, and y’all want to fault her for not saying goodbye to a complete stranger she’s known for a week?? In hindsight, she dodged so much shit by leaving early
JP is clearly intimidated by her. His body language, the way he speaks, everything. Ive went on dates with guys like this - they make up dumb excuses over nothing because youre "out of their league."
It's interesting because on IG JohnieeEeEEEeEee is painted as a hero while Stacey the villain - but they're both equally messy 🤦♀️ and Johnnie concerns me if she's really a lawyer, who tf would want someone who acts like a 17 year old high schooler to represent them??
What did you guys think of JP? Uche and Stacey?
To quote the great Marty Huggins "bring a broom, because it's a mess"
JP was just plain nasty. I get a lot of men have a preference of no make up but the way he said it was horrible. I think Taylor took it really well and reacted maturely, even after being insulted. Not sure many people would remain calm and nice. Uche just annoyed me from the "recent cheater" comment onwards. Aleyah dodged a bullet. Lydia was just.... something else but whatever her and Milton seem to be moving past it and making it work. Stacey made the right choice, especially after seeing Izzys true colours. Izzy had a weird hate obsession with Johnie? Not to mention the weird af comment where he was "turned on" by Stacey arguing with her??? Then pretty much immediately kisses her shortly after Stacey breaks it off.
JP is a full grown baby
The beauty of men like JP is that they wear their red flags out in the open so these men are easy to avoid early on.
whenever I’m watching all of them interact, I’m screaming in my head “CAN WE ALL JUST BE REAL?? YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHAT YOURE DOING IS DRAMATIC AND IRRATIONAL! WHAT IF EVERYONE WAS JUST LIKE… REAL?!??” But thats also me watching any “reality” tv or drama film. “CMON THAT DIDNT EVEN HAVE TO BE A PROBLEM!!” Anyway, I still love watching your coverage though. And bless you for making long videos! Videos 45 min or longer are elite in my brain. K bye❤
as someone who only really "watches" reality TV shows through youtubers i love the two hour long breakdowns, you're doin the lords work leo.
I've never seen a single episode of any of these reality shows he discusses but man oh man, I soak up every second lol. He has me nodding and having full conversations with him through the screen, I love his takes.
I agree. I watch quite a few reaction channels, but Leo is the best with it imo.
I mean yes I do like the others and most of them are funny, but the length of these and that his humor hits me better is what puts the dude at the #1 spot.
My sentiments exactly.
It's like sitting down with a good friend while they go on about their obsession. You don't get it, but you enjoy the company.
I agree!
Legitimately didn't feel like ANYONE was ready to be married. Milton is honestly the best person... and that's all
Which is so weird because he is the youngest. everyone needs to grow up
I liked Taylor. I think she was committed to the process and seemed to try. She was honest and made a difficult choice based on taking care of herself. I think Milton is great. I hope though he starts to see Lydia's horrible behavior and personality and gets the heck away from her.
Aaliyah is a sweetheart too. You need to see her interview with Jessie Woo.
@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth I liked her as well. And I definitely don't think she would have left if Lydia didn't bombard her with all that Uche information. People like to blame Uche and he was a jerk with the "recent cheating" part, but quickly learned his error and I think tried to make a change. He's off and maybe it wouldn't have worked out for them. Lydia on the other hand was calculated. I every bit believe she stalked and followed him there and then created that false friendship with Aaliyah. When Aaliyah was telling her she didn't want to know anything about Uche and Lydia just kept going on and on, it made me feel so angry. She's a real Lifetime Movie villain.
@shethingsd eh aliyah and uche dated afterwards and it didn't work out mainly because uche said he didn't find her attractive so if anything Lydia helped her dodge a bullet on TV lol
My personal conspiracy theory with JP is that he heard Taylor’s accent and heard she was a teacher and thought she’d be the perfect little conservative housewife. Then, she ended up being more left leaning than he expected, maybe just brought up a gay friend or drag brunch something innocuous, and he realized his guess was wrong and had to bring something up to hate. An abundance of makeup can be a common complaint in certain religious groups, calling it attention seeking or slutty, so it would make sense for him to defer to that.
Crack theory entirely based on her accent and his wardrobe 😂😂
That's what I think as well.
Nope
I disagree, I think he’s AFRAID she’s high maintenance, with her lash extensions, her boob (DDD)job, her heavy makeup, her hair extensions etc and he’s been very hurt and betrayed by a higher maintenance lady. He’s assuming she’s honestly not worth the trouble.
I don’t believe for a second he’s not attracted to her. It’s a confirmation bias he has based on past baggage.
Firefighter? Please they all have bimbo pasts
He’s wanting someone more lower maintenance, more down to earth, uglier and he doesn’t know
How to communicate that. He actually is in this position because he wants blind love.
He’s not got a vain bone in his body. You can tell, it is all about past baggage.
@@chasitylynn8183 Kind of agree? I think more than anything hes afraid of the commitment. I think she puts a lot of effort into her appearance, and likewise it seems other aspects of her life, and he noticed. I think he realized that she does care, that she will put effort into the relationship and that she’d probably expect the same from him, which may feel like something he can’t return.
This was one of my thoughts as well. It was either that or maybe his Mom who he has a lot of trauma from wears lots of makeup or maybe resembles Taylor and it triggered him. Either way, she dodged a serious bullet because that man needs a lot of inner work before he’s ready for any relationship let alone marriage.
@@chasitylynn8183are you a bot or a real person cause you’re literally copying and pasting this very comment every where
This was the worst season thus far. No one who you could really get behind and felt like they hid a lot of stuff that happened
I also feel like the editing was f*cking more confusing than normal too, and just plain bad. It was just a headache to watch.
They did edit out 2 couples that got engaged (due to lawsuits ) and the bachelor and bachelorette episode got cut.
They weren't even awful in an entertaining or sympathetic way, just the scum of the earth! Like I was starting to miss Shake, Shayne and Zainab!
Coming from a women who doesn't wear makeup, ever! If I were on the show, even I would put on at least some makeup if I were meeting the person I was engaged too on NATIONAL TV!
Omg same! I don't own one stitch of makeup but I would def like to look good for TV or an engagement!
OMG thank you!!! Fellow non makeup wearer here but ...does this guy not see the cameras and glam teams? What a jerk off
Right? This is normal! I’m a little different from you. At home I don’t bother wearing makeup, but if I’m heading to work or if I’ll be out for more than some quick errands I like to have some makeup on. I wear more or less depending on the occasion. Most women I know who never wear makeup still tend to wear some to their weddings or to other special events. It makes you feel special and fancy.
I can tell the type of guy JP is from his outfits. Him taking shots at her make up choices rather than saying the real issue (whatever it may be for him) just reinforces my beliefs of him. She dodged a bullet.
Literally sounds like the emotionally unavailable & draining narcissist I dated 😂
She does look better without a lot of makeup in his defense. I've seen beautiful women turn into below average with makeup ,it's not for everyone
There's a bit of irony in saying you can tell the kind of guy he is by his outfits while simultaneously taking issue with him judging her for her makeup
@@s4di.3 How is it ironic if he lives up to it? I'm not basing that on a random guy wearing US flag shirt I saw for 3 seconds at a gas station, but on a dude who has a lot of footage. People who dress that way ALL THE TIME have certain behavior and he lives up to that.
I wish they would actually have a Love Is Blind. Large people, short people, people with disabilities, people who are not the “traditional” beautiful ones. That’s what most of us are. I would much rather watch someone that is relatable finding love
For the most part audiences prefer to watch and root for conventionally attractive people. So ratings will inevitably prevent them from being true to the experiment
There's more variey on Love is Blind Brazil. Some people proved they really didn't care how the "unconventional" people looked, but others...were not
Well, if they did that, we'd get a whole bunch of people getting brutally body shamed on television. The body shaming is already an issue on this show, even with these super model looking people. Imagine what would happen to an average looking person here. It would just affirm the fact that a lot of people just ARE superficial and these shows only serve to gain publicity. None of this stuff has anything to do with actual love, otherwise they also wouldn't be peer pressuring people into getting engaged and married in such a short time.
It’s already set up for failure when they do a meet the other options after you’ve chosen someone!!
I feel like JP was definitely lying. It sounded like he was making it all up to get away with not admitting that he’s just not attracted to her. He’s was trying to make her be the one to call it off by being terrible the whole time
JP honestly scares me he reminds me of an ex-husband I used to have. He was all talks during the dating phase and as soon as we got married he would act just like this guy, not answering questions didn't want to have a two-way conversation so silent but this was the first sign before it ramped up to physical abuse. In my opinion this was the first abusive tactic I noticed in the relationship he didn't have anything to get mad at me over or anything to yell at or hit me over so he just sat there silently pensively staring, it's really uncomfortable because it makes the other individual feel like wait do they actually hate me? Ya I don't like this guy!
Oh man I’m so sorry! The only part I liked reading was that he’s your ex now. Good for you and you’re spot on with your jp comparison 👍
I noticed that to. It is an emotional/verbal abuse tactic to make you confused and neurotic trying to deal with their behavior or "appease them". I called it ESPECIALLY when he said it would better better after they married (paraphrasing).....it's been 3 days and you can't keep up your facade or whatever....why would I want to risk dealing with that forever or even 2 years until the After The Alter.
Nonetheless, I'm happy you got out of that situation.❤ wishing you the best in life now
@@pixiestxNyomouf Thx
@narleymarley666 thank you
I'm sorry that happened to you but wild to make assumptions that this guy is gonna physically abuse her 😬
The way JP suddenly stops talking almost entirely but continues smiling and nodding is so off-putting and just... awkward. Like what the hell, man? Genuinely, what is going on in his head?
Nothing good
Yes and his weird staccato peck kissing made me cringe SO hard. Like I had to cover my eyes 😂
Yes!!! It was so creepy
I think he might just be really anxious? He might be nervous around her, so interacting with her in front of a camera crew might make him really anxious? I don't think I could be normal and lovey with my bf of 5 years in front of a whole camera crew just... watching
Idk tho
He thought he’d be getting a tiny conservative patriot housewife, but she’s a normal person so he got intimidated.
I can understand PJ not being attracted to someone for wearing a lot of makeup, but there's no way that's the reason he started acting weird 😂
def the easy excuse he came up with so he didn’t have to be honest and hurt her feelings more
He's WEIRD
Everyone is assuming JP is NOT attracted to Taylor. I disagree, I think he’s AFRAID she’s high maintenance, with her lash extensions, her boob (DDD)job, her heavy makeup, her hair extensions etc and he’s been very hurt and betrayed by a higher maintenance lady. He’s assuming she’s honestly not worth the trouble.
I don’t believe for a second he’s not attracted to her. It’s a confirmation bias he has based on past baggage.
Firefighter? Please they all have bimbo pasts
He’s wanting someone more lower maintenance, more down to earth, uglier and he doesn’t know
How to communicate that. He actually is in this position because he wants blind love.
He’s not got a vain bone in his body. You can tell
@@chasitylynn8183that’s just dumb tho you can’t really shame a woman for wearing a full face of makeup while they’re filming a TV show.Even the men are put in makeup for TV.
@@chasitylynn8183 So he wants someone uglier than him because he’s insecure…..That’s a personal issue. If he’s that upset about a woman that enjoys to pamper herself then he needs to talk to someone about his past relationship problems. Not go on a tv show called “love is blind” to then judge the girl he decided to propose to over what she does to feel good about herself. That’s fucked up. Don’t hold a grudge onto a girl that it’s just getting to know you because of your past relationships, that has nothing to do with her. Gotta fix your own shit first 🤷🏾♀️
it was almost impossible to root for ANYONE this season. bunch of overgrown children tbh.
tbh i was rooting for Milton 😭, even though being the youngest I felt like he was still more mature than anyone else this season
@@anchalee9724 true. Funny how the youngest guy there was the most mature.
JP was like "I tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas!" Like in what world was he trying?! He just would get annoyed that she wasn't ignoring his drastic change in behavior
Right! And was still trying to stall til the wedding....if this is 3 days into our engagement and you ain't opening up to me, you think I'm gonna voluntarily sign up to a marriage without any change in behavior? Taylor came out blessed
Milton and Lydia are the definition of “I just want to be in a relationship” and they’re gonna ride that to the child of divorce they have in a couple years
Well they seem to be the only one happy married for 3 years so.
Wishing them well tho. No point wishing ill ❤ especially involving a child. 😬 yall really hateful
Arnt there relationship doing well
Wow such a hateful comment. It’s really weird how some of y’all wish the worst for someone else’s marriage. Makes you wonder what’s going on in YOUR lives? 😳
Y’all are exaggerating.. all they said is they are desperate.. that’s all the OP said and you start bashing them for pointing out the obvious???
This season has been miserable, for some reason Stacy in particular got SO under my skin. Maybe her complaints were valid but how she presented them was so baffling to me. To get so upset when he asked not to be interrupted just solidified that shes just as immature as she thinks Izzy is.
i have adhd. dishes can be a huge stumbling block if im stressed. not great but i can just toss them rather than leave dishes building up until it becomes insurmountable. sometimes you need to accept your limitations and get on with your life. asking someone on camera why they do something and that reason could create an issue with their work or personal life, makes things pretty uncomfortable. also.. why does the man pay for dinner? my rule is the first date is generally who asked for the date pays, but if they offer to split then let them because some arent comfortable being paid for - and i often do the asking, after that you split.
@@morri254I do too, and some other problems, and I ALWAYS have dishes in the sink. Do you use paper plates? Has it helped your general well-being?
@@DirtyDruid omg so much. i am one of 4 people in my household with adhd. the reduction in arguments and coordination is pay off alone.
we are all trying to manage our adhd, but when someone wants to cook dinner, but can't because the person whose turn it was to do dishes was too burned out hasnt, so we back and forth about who is accountable and then go and order take out .... like its just a stupid argument to have and we all know it but we all work and go to school. the guilt after that become disabling.
we are out of spoons, our cups are empty... rather than pay the adhd tax and over order on food we don't need - because those cooking ingredients are moulding by the second as well - our kitchen is clear, the obstacles which come with task initiation are gone... we just do our thing.
i think anyone who criticises Izzy, clearly hasn't had a depressive episode in their lives and bless their hearts
Agree, people were (fairly) too busy getting on Izzy for being obnoxious and gross and ignored Stacy being an absolute classist bitch 😂😂😂
Same. Stacy irritates me beyond belief. She’s just so aggressive… even her eyebrows are aggressive 😂
Leo has a strength few can match to not only be capable of watching multiple seasons of this show, but then to talk about it for hours afterwards.
Two whole ass couples got deleted from this season because the dynamics were abusive
>Goes on show about love being blind
>Insults her repeatedly over her looks
Yeah makes sense to me lads
Love is blind, people are not.
For real what the hell.
How can you not think Lydia planned on running into Uche, if this actual stalker woman said something like “I feel like I’m going to run into somebody from my past”?
She has proven she does not respect boundaries and does not seem to be a mentally stable person. What are the chances she would “predict” that?
It's crazy that people are even this willing to give her a pass. Are we just ignoring the part where she spent days manipulating and gaslighting Aaliyah? And this is looking past all her other clearly BPD behavior that probably isn't intentional. Just because a person isn't outright mean doesn't mean they aren't toxic.
I think it’s because most of it its based on Uches word, an he starts comming off as incredibly manipulative later. Like Uche is not ok if you ask me, he seems apathetic as f, he does manipulative things a few times.
Like that phone call when Aliyah left? One moment he is saying “oh I just want to speak, i love her and just want to hear her” and then the moment she answers the phone he starts the monotonous voice emotionally void interrogation. “Why did you do this and this, then why would you do that and that” while she cries. Dismisses her emotions and reasons.
With lydia he would say she was a great person and didnt think she would ever hurt someone and then when things looked bad for him started saying she was a phsyco.
Dudes manipulative
The best part of Love is Blind, is after every unhinged moment of the couples deluding themselves that they’re good and in good relationships, the music swells with emotion as it fails to read the room. Gets me everytime.
JP = Just Patriotic
😂 this one wins.
Jerk Patriot
😂😂😂😂
Proud to be.....the 💯 like 🇺🇲
Taylor is so pretty, sweet, and good lord is she patient. She didn't deserve how he tried to gaslight her.
Milton is 10/10 my fave. He's fun and I weirdly loved the bend down to look at her moment 😂
Milton could do soooooooooo much better than Lydia 🤢🤢🤢
Milton was the only sane one here. Hopefully Lydia doesn't manipulate him too much, but at least she'd gone to therapy and was aware of and working on her issues
Wow. This show actually makes me grateful to be single, and I HATE being single. 😂 These people are just…despicable!!
Same!
Lol this season made me love the fact that I’m single, financially independent, and don’t have to deal with weird and manipulative people. I’m living comfortably with my cat and any partner I invite over better treat us both like queens 😂
I’m single too, been for 5 years now. Definitely have my moments when I feel lonely and would like all the relationship things but, overall, being single is pretty good too. You have your independence, no need to explain anything to anyone, no need for compromises and can build a life YOU want for yourself. Giving that up is not as fun and easy as people make it out to be.
@@KellyeeeeeYour comment is giving me destiny's child right now. I feel the same way!😂💯Preach sis!
JP is not attracted to her, it's as simple as that I think and for him, love is not blind, not even near-sighted.
My jaw DROPPED when I heard JP say her make up was caked on. How does he not understand that this was a big step in their relationship and she wanted to put her best foot forward when meeting her future husband as well as being shown on national tv. I don’t usually wear make up outside of cosplay but when I’m on any form of camera I’ll always put some on within a "natural" amount because the camera (in my personal opinion) loves highlighting flaws and can make things also appear less. If this is to be a captured memory, yeah I’d want to look my best so that when I look back I don’t feel bad about how I looked
I think JP high key wasn't attracted to Taylor once he saw what she looked like and didn't have the balls to be honest with her.
Can you blame him??? She didn't own a single piece of America-themed attire!!! (lol)
But had the bals to be a jerk and basically try to stalling her down the aisle...
@@meataidstheft LOL
@@meataidstheft😂😂😂
And my thing is JP isn't cute at all and wears American everything and HE has the nerve to treat her like that?
Aliyah said in some other interview the only reason she kept blocking and unblocking Uche is because he'd send her messages. He does the same thing with her that he does to Lydia, leave out info so he'll look better.
And tries to do it to Milton 🙄. He said "See you in the group chat, bro 😂"
I think JP stands for “just playing” cuz that’s all he’s doing to that poor girls emotions😭
Still waiting for the 3rd part of this... I LOVE your commentary on all the reality series. It's the only way I can watch them without dying of cringe. Thank you! I love the long vids, your opinions and humor ❤
Stacy’s got NO IDEA how entitled she sounds or the level of luxury she’s clearly had the privilege of living to be able to say so freely and nonchalantly “I just don’t ever want money to be a thing I’m stretched for or concerned about”.
Whaaaaaat???!?!?
My husband and I both work full time jobs, our son is 13 and we’ve never, ever been anywhere close to never having to worry, feel concerned or feel stretched regarding our finances.
We’re able to live comfortably and usually buy things we want or need for the most part but things can easily get strapped at times.
Especially when larger, unexpected expenses come up etc.
To live in America and NEVER have to worry about your financial situation whatsoever is wild.
Obviously she comes from money but she’s also clearly making bank at her job, plus being single with no kids helps too.
I know nothing of this wealthy life Stacy’s obviously accustomed to and maybe I’m way off but I don’t think this is the “norm”.
He’s gotta be sweating it big time now…..😬
Girl I thought I was the only one
Ok but she ain’t you , she grew up w a dad who provided for her THATS HER reality and life style. If you grew up poor and like living in a 50/50 stressed relationship that’s great but theres nothing wrong w her wanting to continue the lifestyle she has always had. She ain’t expecting anything more than what she always had .
@@Pocketdekuwu Yeah see....most of what you just said is technically correct...the problem is she's trying to force that lifestyle onto someone else.
The way she spoke clearly showed that she expected him to become her new caretaker which is absolutely not right to do. If she wants to live that life on her current circumstances fine, that's right for her, but not when you force that onto someone else.
Also, I really disagree on that last part, she absolutely is expecting more than what she previously has.
@@Pocketdekuwu Actually I did grow up with a father who provided for me and we were nowhere close to being poor but the economy changes, and has drastically, from back when I was growing up (left home late 90’s).
It wasn’t as necessary as it is today to need 2 incomes at home …stay at home mom’s were far more common because it was much easier to live a comfortable life with one income. Jobs security was also more common, even expected to a degree, when I was growing up.
But my father that provided for me also taught me the importance of independence and creating a life for myself that wouldn’t require have to depend on anyone to provide or help provide for me, which I’ve done.
I’m married but if something happened to my husband or our marriage I could still support myself and my son if necessary.
I knew when I left from under my parents roof, it was up to me to provide what I wanted or needed and I knew it wasn’t realistic to expect my life to stay like I was accustomed to growing up, which ultimately says more about her father and how he raised her.
She expects to find a man who can support her and assist her in living the lifestyle her father provided for her.
He’s kinda set her up for wanting and needing something from a partner that isn’t impossible to find but it’s not necessarily realistic and it’s based on materialism and wealth which in my opinion only, isn’t the most important thing to be looking for in a life partner.
But I totally understand your point and you’re correct that she was raised wealthy and expects to maintain that life, which is great for her!
OK as someone who has literally been homeless and is unemployed at this moment, and very worried about money if I didn’t have to worry about money, I wouldn’t date someone who makes bad money choices, and would add a new stressor to my life. That’s just common sense. I think this couple are both annoying for various reasons, but I’m not really seeing why everyone’s getting on Stacy for seeing what she wants and going after it And wanting someone who’s either on her level or contributing something else. Is he has debt and doesn’t seem very financially sound. If for whatever privilege or hard work you have gotten to a place where you don’t have to worry about that and then you start picking up the slack for someone else that’s just low self-esteem sis if I didn’t have to worry about money right now. Better believe I’m not going to date someone Whose spending is going to get me back into that hole. Dealing with the realities of life is one thing, degrading yourself and your standard of living that you have developed because everyone else has to deal with a certain type of stress that you don’t is stupidity.
Highly recommend watching Aaliyah's interview on catching up with the Hamiltons. It explains a lot about why she makes her decision.
WE NEED THE 3RD PART!!!! Watching this show through Leo is so much worth it, cz its so funny and entertaining🤣
The longer this season went on, the less I liked Uche. He seems super manipulative to me. JP was unlikeable from the beginning solely for the amount of American flag gear he wears. Seems sus 😂 And Stacy was easily my least favorite female member of the show. “Is your face ok?” Girl chill.
Agreed Uche came across as straight up mean later on in the show and the way he reacted to Aliyah leaving was uncalled for
Yes exactly
Yeees, Uche treated Aliyah so bad from the start, he was always rude and dismissive with her, and that whole cheating scene was A LOT for someone who also has cheated in the past, the way he talked on the phone with her after HE omitted that he knew Lydia and DATED her, like? I totally understand her leaving after feeling betrayed by her "boyfriend" and her friend.
Thank you. Uche was super manipulative to me. Very calculating and emotionalness
Aaron and jo watched this and when he said "if youd looked like this, id have liked it" jo screamed "BUT SHE DOES LOOK LIKE THIS....AND YOURE NOT LIKING IT!"
Lydia's all for show. If Izzy or Uche said they wanted her, Milton would be dumped so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. Especially if it was Uche.
There were actually two other couples on the beach that the show cut out for abuse reasons. They had so little to work with because they had to cut around them.
Hold up, you might need to provide more context. Abuse reasons?
Can you add a source?
There’s multiple articles about a lawsuit against the production from a contestant that got engaged regarding sexual assault, negligence and false imprisonment. The other couple is Carter and Renee and the reason why they were cut from the show isn’t that clear. Renee confirmed that they were engaged and even picked out the wedding dress and everything.
I usually don't comment but I love your deep dives. Something to listen to as I work on my uni assignment. AND OH MY GOD. I had to rewind and made sure I heard that properly when JP said "caked up face". Like the man who is a walking USA advertisement had the balls to say that. What a misogynistic asshole. Aside, Taylor is gorgeous so I don't know what he is on.
It's almost a lesser version of one of the earlier seasons with bartise and Nancy, except Bartise dragged it out with Nancy basically calling her ugly and saying that she's not his type but the emotional connection will grow.
I like that at some point every contestant shows WHY they'd end up on a show like this...
She also kept repeating "I don't care about looks anymore" after they met for the first time. She clearly didn't find him attractive and I wonder if he picked up on it
they both clearly weren't feeling each other from the beginning
@@kxd4103 agreed
I think he wasn’t her usual type but it looked like she tried pretty hard.
Eh, can't blame her. Regardless, she tried to make it work like an adult. Shake said worse and others, she said the typical thing on LIB tbh
@@kxd4103 true
Two other couples got engaged, Renee and Carter, (they got edited out but you can still spot them at the wedding dress fittings) then there was another couple that broke up in Mexico where the girl said she got SA'd by her fiancee and she's suing the show now
Lmfao that Lion King cut about Izzy’s hat/disco ball type head had me busting out laughing like a maniac thank you 😂😂😂
That intro was FANTASTIC, Leo! Well done!! I can’t wait for this delectable deep dive!
How do you "fall in love" with 3 people in one week? Milton has been taken for a fool.
The only reason I open up youtube anymore is for Leo and his breakdowns. And the reality show dissections. Thank you for doing the lords work.
i CAN NOT deal w actual reality shows bc they’re such trash, so watching these long breakdowns from you both alone & with friends or a partner is such top tier entertainment
Him only having disposable plates says to me that he doesn’t know how to do the dishes. Real plates don’t have to be expensive. They aren’t a luxury item. You can pick them up second hand or at home goods/dollar tree. Even that would be better than a paper plate if you’re trying to make a good impression.
Edit: I saw someone else mention that he did have real plates under the paper ones which I didn’t catch. That’s much more reasonable. Using paper/plastic ware every now and then is normal. But every day seems excessive and wasteful.
I just can’t get over how Leo absolutely LOATHES the Netflix music and it cracks me up every time he imitates it lmfaoooooo😂
I love these breakdowns so much because I don’t have the patience to sit through the actual Netflix series I much rather have Leo walk me through it 😭
I’m in love with your personality/humor. Everyone needs a Leo in their life
Stacey clutching invisible pearls about solo cups like we can’t see her pennywise makeup job smh
My guy I live in one of the most expensive cities in America I’m 24 and unemployed and just bought four plates for three dollars each. It is seriously not that hard to stop fucking over the environment and wash some fucking dishes every time you eat and yeah, it just shows shortsightedness. It’s not about class or money or whatever the fuck even though that is ultimately what she makes it about and why I can’t side with her completely but if you know you’re going on a show to hopefully get a partner you prepare and don’t leave shit from past hookups around like a lost and found. Lack of thoughtfulness on preparing your food and lack of thoughtfulness on preparing your home. It’s giving immaturity and I’m younger than him. Sorry but no I think Leo is right on this one and even deeper because he was like well. You didn’t give the guy a minute to prepare and get rid of past stuff, but he knew he was going on the show it’s not that hard to be considerate
@@daniellecowan459EXACTLY!!! Stacy ain’t my cup of tea but she wasn’t wrong about Izzy & his paper plates. I’m 27, all my dishes are from the dollar store for less than $20. 4 cups, 4 plates, 4 bowls, & 4 salad plates for about $20, everything including my utensils was like $50 MAX. It’s not about the money, it’s about his lack of care, intention, thought, etc.
@@daniellecowan459Thank you! I’m not American and the disposable plate thing is so bizarre to me, it’s abnormal behaviour not to use and wash actual plates pretty much everywhere in the world. But some Americans act like plates and glasses cost ten billion dollars apiece and they’re the only place on earth that has disabled people so if you say ‘hey maybe don’t pollute the earth with more plastic for no good reason’ you apparently hate both disabled and poor people.
(I’m disabled and have ADHD myself before anyone jumps into the replies to accuse me of those things lol)
Stacey sure stopped being so easy & fun in a hurry when the finance talk came out, huh Izzy? 😂
I cannot STAND Stacy! She’s materialistic, controlling af, she expect luxury but meanwhile, she has three different jobs where she works less hours than Izzy (they say it at some point).
Idk… I can’t stand her attitude, she kept shutting Izzy down and completely block him when he tried to talk to her and was sad about her attitude towards him.
I’m actually glad Izzy didn’t end up with her, he deserves so much better than her! He deserves a sweet and emotionally available girl that helps him out just as much as he’s helping her.
Her eyebrows were done too poorly for her to be so picky. Also if you walk into someone’s house and them and their relatives all look EXACTLY the same…especially if they’re blonde ypp, RUN
I really disliked her too. When Izzy was crying and she was just so cold to him saying "why are you crying 😐" I couldn't stand her. She's definitely toxic
Well johnie was willing to be emotionally open with him but he choose the party girl then was suprised that she didn't care xD it was obvious that he was more open with johnie because he told her that he had bad finances in the pods and she still wanted to try with him. He didn't tell Stacy until right before the wedding. most probably because he knew she wouldn't have been interested. So I don't rly have much sympathy for izzy
I’ve been waiting for Part2!! Thank you for 2 hours of goodness. Also, they typically film each season in one city so when they look for contestants they take applicants or reach out to people on social media that are in that area. So it’s not that weird that exes could be in the pool of potential contestants BUT the production should have done better background checking and prevented this happening. Or they knew and let it happen for the drama, who knows lol
JP stands for Jordan Peele, cuz his relationship was essentially a joke on TV
I'm genuinely disturbed at the way Uche speaks when "communicating" by being extremely aggressive and loud and cursing. Extremely emotionally immature, not to mention mean.
I appreciate you SO DANG MUCH Leo. You literally say what I'm thinking. What a mess this season was. People just out here looking for money and air time. Not thinking about the few that go on this show taking it seriously. What a great way to inflate their doubt, trauma and lack of self esteem.
Slender richie acts like he actually hates that beautiful woman... it's so uncomfortable to watch...
What is this world coming to.
I’m sensing a pattern with Leah. She cheats on her old boyfriend instead of breaking up, she doesn’t come clean to him (which I would rather not know if my gf cheated, just break up with me and let me live in ignorance), she runs away when Uche is talking to her, then she leaves the show without a word. I can only assume that she never brought up her dissatisfaction with their intimacy levels with her ex before she cheated, because she’s showing a pattern of poor communication and running away from problems instead of confronting them and making the other party chase her down to get an answer.
Totally agree with you, because that's a large part of my own personal pattern too. But, just saying, if sticking around means literally filming this dumpster fire's worth of unneccessary drama pumped up by messy people showing off for Reality TV? RUN. Maybe the ONLY time this is a completely justifiable reaction, here. She lost my sympathy when she answered the phone after she had gotten the f out.
Your actually wrong if you see in a lot of her interview she talks about telling producer that she want to leave multiple times and they kept gaslighting the situation but producer told her to stay. Secondly he wasn’t honest throughout the whole process but I owe you a Im leaving. When you lied, manipulated me you’re lucky the mature thing I can do is walk away from a situation.
In a previous episode she said she had talked to her ex about their problems before cheating
*Aaliyah* She said there was more to the story if that means anything. He was definitely cheating on her for over a year. If anything, the full story makes Uche look worse for the ish he said with context tbh. Regardless, they used her as a pawn to make this season "spicy" and she indeed was tricked out of an experience
“I don’t really feel like age makes a difference” “P LA T E S!!! PLatessss makes a difference”
Absolutely obliterated and d 3 a d on the floor.
I just audibly gasped... did jp really just say that???😂😂
Bro...
Taylor needs to run, not walk.
Thank you so much for more of these Leo! this was by far the worst season they even made and it was soooooo hard to get through, but watching with you makes it so much better haha!
It has been a pleasure finding your channel and watching. You have fantastic opinions IMHO. The positivity and the puns bring me up and im autistic and your videos are very well edited to keep sound at a good level. I just appreciate finding more positive content creators.
Please keep going 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I absolutely LIVE for your deep dives on these shows. I watch the shows but still anticipate your video and watch them and laugh my ass off the ENTIRE time. You never disappoint 😂
Ummmmm….WHY is Izzy holding this resentment and negativity towards Johnny still???
She’s majorly under his skin and I don’t get why he even cares anymore???
So many awful moments but this one annoyed me the MOST. Like you are literally engaged and still letting this woman wind you up? I’m no fan of Johnie but I thought it was really unfair how he went off at her when it seemed like she’d actually grown.
When Aliyah was upset about Uche going in on her for cheating, Lydia told her that Uche had personal problems he needed to change if he wanted to be with Lydia. Honestly don't think Lydia was trying to tell Aliyah bad things about Uche but wanted to give her as many facts as she could since she knows he has a habit of leaving information out.
i get where you’re coming from, and i don’t think lydia had bad intentions but aliyah multiple times was like just pls stop talking LMFAO she didn’t want to know ALL of that
Exactly love. He is a shady man
@@rileymosier7731but if you watch her interview you see her say that she feels that producer kept demanding her to pry and give more information to Aliyah and that Lydia was paced until approach her numerous times throughout the experiment.
@@brooklynnmiller2102it’s still not right tho.. she was asking for her boundaries to not be crossed and they were
@@rileymosier7731 but you’re talking about two different scenes. It seems that they weren’t allowed to tell anyone due to the producers at the time that she was comforting Aaliyah and being vague and then when she was able to tell she unfortunately burst it out with everything which I think makes things more understandable. She wasn’t pushing Aaliyah‘s boundaries from jump. It was just that she had information that she thought would be relevant and couldn’t share and then when she finally could share it was boundary crossing to do so. Not the best, but I think she was trying to look out for someone but was stopped from doing so by the artificial constraints of the show.
I am also drinking Leo haha life is so hard right now but your long videos honestly help me escape reality a little bit. I appreciate you my man
I am screaming at Milton and diglett with hair 🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣🤣😭
JP 100% stopped opening up in their relationship because he wasn't attracted to her anymore. Saw that before he mentioned the makeup thing lmao Visually and/or physically he lost interest so he stopped trying to communicate. I don't have a lot of experience with relationships myself but I have noticed with my past 2 male partners, once they stopped being "attracted" to me, they stopped communicating/opening up with me. In the previous, it was physical attraction. In the one before that, it was emotional attraction. Mutual in both situations, but def something I've noticed myself and seen in these shitty blind relationship shows lmfaoooo
yeah he definitely didn't want her anymore, was really clear there wasn't any chemistry between them but the way he acted towards her was messed up
And then he tried to make it her fault instead of being honest “I just don’t feel like there’s a connection and attraction”. He is the worst kind of guy.
Also, Taylor is beautiful and doesn’t ever wear that much makeup. Wtf 😂
Brooooo same. I had what seemed to be a fantastic relationship, we were both very attracted to one another physically and mentally but around the 4 year mark he just completely checked out but wouldn’t leave! It was so infuriating, we lived together and I was handling the bills because he became a bum (that part sucked too) and he would.not.leave. Like, I get it, you’re not into me anymore, go mooch off someone else instead of hanging around here with your sulky ass. Eventually he poured a beer on me and was being crazy so I called the cops, he got arrested, I think there was a temporary restraining order imposed and magically he was gone, came by with his dad to get his stuff after he got out of jail the next day and that was it. Sucks it had to get to that point though. If I had been more financially solid I would have just moved out and left him with all the bills but that wasn’t an option at the time.
41:32 *picks her jaw off the floor* every time he said “because you don’t change” my jaw opened a little bit wider until it hit the floor. What on earth?!
Yesss I've been waiting for you to come out with this one. Thankfully, you are a gem, and don't make me wait very long ❤ I mean, I would wait as long as I had to, but I'm grateful that you're quick getting videos out. This show wouldn't be even half as entertaining without your commentary. Thanks Leo!
Jp stands for jumping potato cause he’s got the emotional IQ of a potato
Jiminy Pebbles for sure
Where tf is part 3 LEO
WE NEED PART 3 I AM BEGGING
Can't imagine saying "probably" in response to "love you more". I can't tell if I absolutely hate it or if I respect it, mans over there like "I got no time for games so I'm gonna end this now" lol.
Who woulda thought the guy who's entire personality is "Merica!!" would be beyond boring
AYE LEOOO thanks for always bringing the heat in your recaps! I’m not watching this season cause Netflix sucks ass now-but no doubt your eloquent and hilarious comments will give us all the strength to endure this cluster fuckery LOVE YOU
You should be a psychologist for couples…. Your point are always on points 😂😂😂😂😂💪🏾
JP could stand for Jaded Patriot
I've watched this vid multiple times. still waiting on the part 3...!! i can't wait!
It made me laugh that Leo had to look up "going Dutch" but knew about "Dutch oven".
congrats on 600k!!! what a milestone!!! you deserve it ♥️
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SACRIFICE LEO, 1.5+ HOUR LONG VIDEOS MEAN SO MUCH TO ME
Aw hell yeah Leo! Coming in clutch! I’ve been refreshing many times to find something to listen to on my drive this evening and you posted at the perfect time. Already watched the first one.
Jp was creepy as hell..someone obsessively dressing like him has no place assuming and judging anything about another human. Uche was suspicious from the start not recognizing Lidya’s voice. I believe something happened but I don’t believe anything went down exactly the way he described.. Izzy deserves all of stacy’s horrible ways. They both suck. Milton shouldn’t be on the show he can definitely get a good catch in the “real world” ..Lydia however needs some help in the romance department..
What's crazy is that Taylor is GORGEOUS without makeup! Damn she deserves better than him.
The "it's fine" ranty had me laughing so hard i think i pulled a muscle 😅😂😥
and talking to the wet towel was iconic on the nose! 😂😂😂
45:04 but also, it’s a tv show. They SHOULD be wearing makeup because that’s a normal convention of television, movies, and theater. Like I get that later on they’ll go makeupless for things like the evening scenes in bedrooms, but most of the time you’re going to be wearing makeup in a show.
As someone who does theater I’d probably have dropped this guy immediately. That’s hard to get past when he literally is unable to communicate now
Can’t believe he had the audacity to make the makeup an issue when he had many bigger issues.
Right. Like her being self-conscious or nervous to show her appearance is swept under the rug for HIS INSECURITIES! I guarantee if she came out bare faces he'd have thrown a fit
Your videos genuinely make my week. My life has been so stressful recently as a senior in high school and it's awesome to be able to unwind with you videos 😭 Ty bestie
You were spot on when you said JP looks like Elijah Wood mixed with Robin Williams. So fucking accurate. xD
Please part 3!! Don't leave us hanging!!! 😅
The production value is out of this world I love this
There is nothing toxic about not wanting to be with a woman that wears a ton of make-up.
Burning through single use plates and glassware because you can’t be bothered doing dishes (presumably) and then trying to call someone else materialistic is insane behaviour, producing a tonne of waste instead of just washing a plate and cup is peak materialism/consumerism!!
some ppl can't deal with doing the dishes omg and comparing paper plates to other things, more wasteful is makeup. so much microplastic, can't be recycled, very easily spread into the environment, difficult to filter out
Yeah, JP I think was not attracted to her out of makeup. He’s saying she wore too much, but obviously when they met, he liked what he saw it was only after that he gets quiet which doesnt make any sense to me cause shes really pretty in and out of makeup
honestly if you watch their reveal it doesn't seem like either of them were attracted to each other from the moment they meant. there was no chemistry
Aliyah had every right to silently quit. She got thrown in this cage of crazy people, somehow got inbetween drama with two obsessive, sketchy people, and y’all want to fault her for not saying goodbye to a complete stranger she’s known for a week?? In hindsight, she dodged so much shit by leaving early
This season was awful. Thanks for making this video, added value for sure
JP is clearly intimidated by her. His body language, the way he speaks, everything. Ive went on dates with guys like this - they make up dumb excuses over nothing because youre "out of their league."
girl... he wasn't intimidated he clearly wasn't attracted to her and she wasn't feeling him either from the reveal
OMG IM SO HAPPY ! Gonna listen to that like a podcast at the office tomorrow 😂
It's interesting because on IG JohnieeEeEEEeEee is painted as a hero while Stacey the villain - but they're both equally messy 🤦♀️ and Johnnie concerns me if she's really a lawyer, who tf would want someone who acts like a 17 year old high schooler to represent them??
i love these long videos, i love listening to you break it down while i do my work or when i bullet journal!