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- Опубліковано 7 жов 2024
- So nice to listen to the pitter patter of the pouring rain while walking around my garden looking for plants to clean up.
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I think your garden is a triumph. So many of your plants have thrived on their own, due to your special soil mix & careful cultivation. Much love 💚💚💚
Thanks for the vote of confidence, Lea. Thanks also for your continued support. 🤗😘🥰
If this acquaintance comes by and insults your garden but asks you for more succulents, I would call her a frenemy😒 Your garden is beautiful and she's probably just jealous. Not many people can keep a beautiful succulent garden and a UA-cam channel while also looking after their husband who is ill with cancer, and then continue to keep your garden and UA-cam channel going after he passes away. You have a lot of strength and that woman is envious. Love you, Liz💜 keep up the great
work and never lose your beautiful heart!!
@@DizzyfishArt I’d hand her some pots to clean and say “here, make yourself useful!” 😂🙌🏼 she wouldn’t come back!!
I was trying to be a good influence on her. 8 years I think is plenty of patience. Will now cut her loose or at least keep her at arms length. Thank you!🥰
Tried that before and off she went....😂🤣
@@GrowingSucculentswithLizK She's had more than enough of your time.
Someone who criticized while you're going through this is not your friend. Love you Liz from the USA 💙
Thanks, Kristi. Hope you're doing well with what you're going through. Thinking of you. 🥰
A person who lacks the sensitivity to know what you are going through and how difficult it must be to even keep urself from not going under with all tat you have been going through and then the ultimate loss.. is not a friend. For sure. I wonder why people have to have an opinion about everything. I still think u have a collection that rivals anybodys. And there r times when even the garden reflects the pain u have gone through. But somewhere spring will come again. I saw some glorious yellow blooms . Daffodils? I dnt know what they are. You are doing your best. I have seen ur garden at its best. Form is temporary. Class is permanent. A bit relieved to see baby P rallying around a bit. Lots of love and prayers sent for both of u. XOXO
I did not notice them until I was editing the video. Yes, they are daffodils. 🥰
Greetings from Boston. (I’m originally from Thailand) I just started gardening 2 months ago, and I fall in love with succulents. One thing I found entertaining me the most during this last two months is your channel. Yes, at first I saw your channel as my succulents care manual, but now you’re like my friend/my older relatives. Enjoy watching you everyday. You are one of the most happy person I’ve ever met (both IRL and on social media) even though you’re going through your tough time, but you always stay happy!
I’m really sorry for your loss. This message from me is just to let you know that you inspire me in many ways. Please keep doing this. Your work is precious. 😊
Thank you very much for your heartfelt, wonderful comment. Makes me feel happy to know this and gives me encouragement. You also inspire. Have a fantastic day! 🥰
Total frenemy, you have more patience than me, I would tell her to piss off. Glad Pedro has perked up.
I will never understand why some people have to talk like this to others. They are the problem, not you, not your garden. You are great!!! Send hugs to you and Pedro from germany😊
Thank you, Lucia. 🥰
I’ve watched many people in this platform doing their plant things. You are helpful and funny to watch. It’s an amazing collection too. Plants are therapy and they do help with grieving. People’s opinions are not important, I only give plants to people I know will take good care of my babies. Have as much fun as you can and enjoy your new life. Your hubby will always be in your heart and mind. Hopefully Pedrito is feeling better❤❤❤
Thank you very much. 🥰
Your acquaintance has zero EQ (emotional quotient), but that is her problem not yours. Love to Pedro, good to see he's feeling better!
Thanks very much, Bonnie. Have a great day! 🥰
I’m so glad that Pedro is getting better now, and all your succulents are so gorgeous 👍
A 'friend' who can't show at least a little empathy and kindness during your struggle is not your friend. Your plants are beautiful and I wish I lived in a climate to have a bounty of succulents like yours -- thanks for sharing with us! Keep doing your best to take care of yourself and moving forward ❤
Sadly, in the world we now live in, we still have to be civil to such people. I was able to hole her off for a couple of years and now have to do that again for the next couple of years again. 😔 Thanks for watching, Lauren and have a fantastic weekend! 🥰
@@GrowingSucculentswithLizKVery true! 'Kill them with kindness' and don't let them too close. Keep holeing her away, don't let her suck your glowing energy. Sorry it's like that.. And it's been lovely here in Virginia/US, thanks! Cheers!❤❤
Hey Liz, hope all is well! I am new to succulents and you are my inspiration. I watch you every day. ❤🪴🙏☀️ thank you for being here. when I am having a rough night of chronic pain I turn on your show and your constant talking makes me forget 😂 keep doing your thing we love you 🔥🤙🪴🙏🔥⛽️
Oh, thank you so much. Hope my voice make those aches go away. BEGONE PAIN!!!!! Thanks for watching and take care. 🥰
@@GrowingSucculentswithLizK you “Make me smile” everyday!!! I am sending you vibes and prayers to heal the heart ♥️ Thank you for being here. You are a good friend to me in my heart. Stay with us on your journey we will lift you up.
Thank her for her observation do not know if she is a friend or enemy but never deny a person if they ask of you for something you have blessings to you liz ❤
Been supporting her for 8 years. She sells succulents and takes plants from my garden even when I'm not around. I will still continue to give her the chance to redeem herself, but at arms length. Thanks for watching, Rosa. Have a great day! 🥰
Hi Liz, hang in there and continue doing what you're doing as only you'll know what's best for you during this time. Most persons don't quite understand what it is to process this situation until they go through it themselves as I've encountered same from friends of mine. You stay resilient and true to yourself ❤. We, your virtual friends and fellow plant-succulents enthusiasts are right here with you. You and P hang in there, sending much love and understanding from Mel in Trinidad. 🫂 🤗 ❤️
Thank you so much, Melissa. 🥰
06:35 😂😂😂😂😂
I wish I were a bee,flying in your garden.🥰
Recently, my mom just recieved a surgery. I am in the bad mood ,too . Every morning, I find myself having difficulty to go to the hospital and visit her.The succulents on my balcony calm me down and pull me together, too,
Hope your Mom get well soon. Thanks for watching and take care of yourself. 🥰
@@GrowingSucculentswithLizK 🤗🤗🤗
Goodness, friends like that can be trying. I have them too. Not sure of their authenticity. I hope you didn't give her any plants. Your succulents are amazing, and I watch all your videos. When feeling blue, I care for my succulents to lift my mood.
Hello from DC/Maryland/Virginia.
What is the name of that Aeonium that’s frozen hardy?
@@ElizaGagarin Aeonium leucoblepharum (Yemen Form)
@@Evelynmay88 thank you. I have to grow frost hardy succulents cause I hate to bring them in and out of greenhouse or in my house.
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Olá tudo bem sou nova no seu canal. Estou amando ver seus vídeos, aprendendo muito também. Não pare de gravar, cuidar e nos ensinar a cultivar nossas suculentas, vc é muito especial , e não dê ouvidos a amigos que não são amigos. Pessoas que tentam nos por pra baixo não são amigos. Fica em paz, cuide de vc, do seu passarinho, faça o que te faz feliz! Felicidades..Deus abençoe. Sou aqui do Brasil 🇧🇷..😘
Yes that’s definitely a frenemy and don’t need people like that in your life especially now Liz x
Glad Pedro is doing better and I love Panda Face too.
Much love from Melbourne ❤
Thank you, Chris. Have a wonderful evening. 🥰
😎❤🌹 good morning so very chef laughing is very good you have a wonderful and pleasant day love you🌹🌹🌹❤❤
Thank you, Jillian. Many ❤️ to you! 🥰
your garden is very appealing to me! I love visiting you and your succulents and Pedro each single time. Please continue to take care 💞
Thank you, I will. 🥰
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I am sorry to hear your husband passed away, my condolences for you an family, pls be strong love from Brunei Darussalam
Thanks very much. 🥰
The audacity of people saying harsh words and in the end asking for free plants or asking for favors.
I was dumbfounded when she said that on the way out. "Next time, can you give me some of this and this...." I just said...."Yes! Sure. No worries." 🤣
I don't believe in the freely concept. She's either a friend or an enemy and you know which she is. Especially now you need positive people in your life...not users. ❤ to you and Pedro!
Thanks, Molly. Will definitely keep her at bay. 🥰
May the Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make His face shine on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord turn His face toward you and give you peace.
Numbers 6:24-26
Be strong, God is with you. 😊
Thank you so much, Josie. He is always with me and I am always grateful and thankful for all his blessings. 🥰
Hi Liz sending you lots of Love to you and Pedro ❤ you have a beautiful garden 😊 u inspire me and I thank you so much 😊 lol I like your singing you make me happy
I'm glad, Ofelia. Been practicing my chops lately. Good thing we have good insulations. Neighbors can't hear me. Thanks for watching. 🥰
I would not be friends with that person. As the years have gone on, I have weeded out people like that from my life. I’m about to be 46 and literally only have only a few, less than a hand count that are good friends in my life. I’ve had a ton of “fake friends” and acquaintances over the years. But now I just don’t have the time or want to have those kinds of people in my life. You deserve better Liz. That frenemy is just USING you for you beautiful succulents. If she was a REAL friend she would be HELPING YOU and not expect anything in return. She would actually be there through the bad and good and would not say such inconsiderate things. She would KNOW the reason and be understanding. I say ditch that “friend”. She’s not worth your precious time.
❤ You!!!!!!!
I still believe in the saying...."Keep your friends close and your enemy closer." It's such a small succulent community where I live and still best to be civil. Just that I will be very busy in the future.....for her. 😁 Thanks for your very helpful insight. 🥰
@@GrowingSucculentswithLizK ❤️
Hello 😢😢 I loved watching Pedro he was a beautiful Budgie I'm so so sorry for your loss. I lost my first budgie a few weeks ago I feel your pain 💔 😔
Oh my goodness, Dianne. I'm so sorry for your lost. 🤗😘 May your budgie meet my Pedro in heaven and have fun together. Don't know about you but I'm tired from crying at the moment. I've got an idea.
I'm not supposed to, but what do you say about having virtual Ice Cream? I'm having Mango and Vanilla.😁
@GrowingSucculentswithLizK Yes my favourite ice cream too but I must admit I love all icecream lol. I still cry when I think of my little girl Missy yes they might fine each other ❤️ . You do amazing job on your video's ❤️ I loved the story of Pedro thank you for it 😊 ❤️
Hello from. Arizona 🌵
Hello there, Jaimey. Thanks very much for watching. Have a LOVELY DAY. 🥰
Hi I love watching you I have learnt over the years so much from you I live in Melbourne I wish I was near you to help you I have lots of succulents too and I have 13 Budgies I love my plants and Budgies ❤😊😊😊
Thanks very much, Dianne. Birds of the same feather, flock together. 🤗😘
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Hi Liz, I’ve followed you for many years. I’m so sorry for your lost. Have you considered a control temperature greenhouse for your precious succulents. It’s really heartbreaking to loose all these beautiful plants every winter. I know as I lost 99% of my stock in one winter here in Scotland. We really don’t have the weather for succulents outdoors. I’m hopeful that I’ll get my greenhouse soon.
The greenhouse is still in the cards. I have to finish the work on my house first. Goodluck on your greenhouse. Thanks for watching. 🥰
Pedro! 🐦 Liz that wasn't nice for your friend to say that to you about your garden! It still looks nice to me. 🌵🌱🪴❤
Thank you. 🥰
Bahçeniz güzel siz hergün daha iyileşiyorsunuz bebek p.de.Mutlu sağlıklı günler dilerim.😊
Thank you so much. 🥰
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Your garden is amazing! I'd be like a kid in a candy shop! Much love to you and baby p 🥰
Thanks, Rebecca. 🥰
maganda umaga from cebu❤❤❤
Good evening, Ibyang. 🥰
I think she honestly has no sense of self-awareness. It's so sad, but hopefully she will see this post and realize..and give you some succulents instead of taking from you after she insulted you. Glad to see that Baby P is on the mends.
I actually buy from her, and she takes from me and sells them. 🤣
Hello from TN. What are the brown balls on your plants? Glad that baby P is doing better.
Sorry for your loss. 😢
Lightweight expanded clay aggregate (LECA) stones
@@BaconBitz24 tysm
I’m only to the middle of watching your video but when you say you have to “Let Go” of some of your succulents does that mean you will be selling some? ❤
Not selling. Selling will take up so much of my time. I'm merely not propagating them anymore, is what I meant. Thanks for watching. 🥰
@@GrowingSucculentswithLizK Oh ok! Gotcha! 👍🏻
Sounds a lot like jealousy to me. Shame on her. Most likely just looking for free plants 🙄. Some people don't feel good about themselves unless they are making others feel bad. Anyway, glad to see you and Pedro in better spirits. Your videos always bring a smile to my face, and usually a good laugh as well! I love when you gasp, as if you're discovering one of your own plants for the very first time! It's great! ❤
You've hit the hammer on the head, Nichole. She's a very jealous/envious person. Always reporting to me the wrong doings(in her mind) of others. 🤣 Translation for the GASP..... I can't remember having these plants and still alive. Then I take a breath and it all comes flooding back...😂 Thanks for watching, Nichole.🥰
Friend?!? 🙄I’d tell her to go pound sand!! A friend would help you in your garden not criticize you - she’s no friend and stop giving her plants! You need positive & supportive people in your life and she’s not it…next time she “stops by” don’t answer the door😂👍🏼 …sending ❤️
That’s my thoughts too. A friend would be helping Liz out with the gardening chores etc. and not criticising! She sounds like an energy vampire. Good idea about not answering the door. lol
The past few years, I've been holding off in letting her come over because of the Boss. He doesn't want her visiting while he's alive. 🤣 I thought I'd give her a chance this time that the Boss is gone. But I think he's right. 🥰
I believe in giving people a chance always, even the vampires...🤣 But I'm having second thoughts now. Thanks, Susan. 🥰
Wow that person sounds rude. Sorry, but it kinda sounds like someone who’s trying to take advantage of your kindness😅
For some people, I think it's best to play stupid. She's been taking advantage of me for years but I still let her.😁 One day, I'll get back what is due me... I hope. 😁🥰
Toxic person. Sorry for your loss. I am curious if you have drainage holes in your pots?
Yes they all do, Rita. Thanks for watching and have a great day. 🥰
Your acquaintance has no empathy or compassion I'm afraid..so rude to say something like that.. a real friend would want to help in anyway possible.. Cut her loose Liz 😂 positive helpful vibes only! (Im sure shes got the message by now anyway) 😊
No she doesn't, and probably never will.😭 It's good to deal with different people. It teaches me patience and resilience. Thanks for watching, Karen and have a fantastic day! 🥰
Your “friend” is not your friend. Sounds like she is using you as a source for free plants. I would dump her.
Thanks you! 🥰
The garden is lovely ok some need cleaning which you are doing❤some don’t survive that’s the plant life with succulents.🦘❤️🐨
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