Every guy goes through the stage of putting a love on a pedestal and has his love crushed and thrown away it is a rite of passage - for some it is quick for others it is slow
For those of us who are monogamous 1 time is too many. Cheaters should date cheaters and leave decent people for other decent people and if you think it's forgivable well I don't mean to kink shame but that right there is a kink. And a particularly terrible one to come across for those of us who are in it for the long haul.
The only thing that would have been more poetic is if Kathy says to Grace "realize what you have, don't make the same mistakes I did. If you break his heart there will be no place you can hide. I will find you. If you break his heart I will make sure you pay. He did it for me and I owe him 1. Don't forget you have the power hurt him like nobody else can and if you do, the last thing you see will be my face. They will never find the pieces of your body cuz they will be scattered around the world. I hope you heed my warning cuz he doesn't deserve to have his heart broken again. I hope both die of old age in your home together cuz if you don't, you will see me again."
Why the two friends Lisa and Rose did not advise Cathy not to cheat Tom earlier. Maybe the two were interested in Tom. Now all three of them are running to Tom.
Rose only sought drama, like most women, when trying to get Tom to beat up John over Kathy's injuries. This as 15 minutes too long and needed to be cut back on the background info. Glad Tom didn't take back Kathy and her betrayal.
Well it’s sad, she blew it big time, had to take a beating to realize it, I thought maybe Tom would somehow find it in his broken heart to see if Kathy could mend it, I know marrying Grace isn’t going to completely heal the wounds, regardless what you all say, if he’s honest to himself he’ll always wonder if he could have found new happiness with Kathy, Kathy has to live with her bad choices, the John’s of the world are too numerous, they always Fuck up a good thing for everyone.
As I know from personal experience,, there is no second chance. Years later, I found someone I could trust and love, and almost 40 years later we are still together.
I don’t think so, his growing up effected him emotionally and he handled it the best way he could. Gave her a chance and then cut her out of his life and moved on.
Every guy goes through the stage of putting a love on a pedestal and has his love crushed and thrown away it is a rite of passage - for some it is quick for others it is slow
Tom's gesture with the CD was so heartfelt. Cathy's reaction made me wonder if she truly understood the depth of his love.
My ex died last year …. I finally forgive her after 40 years. I no longer think of the betrayal.
Yes you do because you still comment about it. Don't worry. I am twice devorced from cheating women. Now living my best life as a single man.
I’m so glad Tom was happy in the end
She should have called the police and also get ten a restraining order.
Wtf ??? Kathy was scum. What is your beef ?
Yes against John. Absolutely
Why is it that these breakups never reconcile and get back together, learning from their mistakes?
It is the little boy lost syndrome which allows another woman to come in and pick up the pieces
I saw/listened to 1 yesterday where he caught his wife in the laundry room with a guy & forgave her (took 3 yrs lol)
For those of us who are monogamous 1 time is too many. Cheaters should date cheaters and leave decent people for other decent people and if you think it's forgivable well I don't mean to kink shame but that right there is a kink. And a particularly terrible one to come across for those of us who are in it for the long haul.
And all I could think of was thank God and greyhound you're gone.
The only thing that would have been more poetic is if Kathy says to Grace "realize what you have, don't make the same mistakes I did. If you break his heart there will be no place you can hide. I will find you. If you break his heart I will make sure you pay. He did it for me and I owe him 1. Don't forget you have the power hurt him like nobody else can and if you do, the last thing you see will be my face. They will never find the pieces of your body cuz they will be scattered around the world. I hope you heed my warning cuz he doesn't deserve to have his heart broken again. I hope both die of old age in your home together cuz if you don't, you will see me again."
The tension between Tom and JN at the pub was intense! Who knew a simple outing could turn into such a dramatic showdown?
Tom found his Grace!!
Why the two friends Lisa and Rose did not advise Cathy not to cheat Tom earlier. Maybe the two were interested in Tom. Now all three of them are running to Tom.
Rose only sought drama, like most women, when trying to get Tom to beat up John over Kathy's injuries. This as 15 minutes too long and needed to be cut back on the background info. Glad Tom didn't take back Kathy and her betrayal.
He would do anything to win her back after she cheated!!!!
He deserves to be treated as a doormat
The cheater gets cheated on. ha ha
Well it’s sad, she blew it big time, had to take a beating to realize it, I thought maybe Tom would somehow find it in his broken heart to see if Kathy could mend it, I know marrying Grace isn’t going to completely heal the wounds, regardless what you all say, if he’s honest to himself he’ll always wonder if he could have found new happiness with Kathy, Kathy has to live with her bad choices, the John’s of the world are too numerous, they always Fuck up a good thing for everyone.
Good story and well told
It's nodded yes, not shake her head yes.
Tom was a total simp. It's a great story, really well told. What did you think about it?
not a simp and you atah
That’s what happens when you’re a shallow person…
" . . . you don't know what you got till it's gone . . ."
he really loved her so much....he never gave her a second chance
As I know from personal experience,, there is no second chance. Years later, I found someone I could trust and love, and almost 40 years later we are still together.
tom was a simp.
I don’t think so, his growing up effected him emotionally and he handled it the best way he could. Gave her a chance and then cut her out of his life and moved on.
What are you talking about?
apparently you have never experienced true love and willing to fight for it with all your might though he failed he is not a simp
Tom’s a clown
Um... listened to this earlier & it wasn't a 2 parter.. so confused
F ai