My story similar to little poet fifteen years ago beautiful home on a lake. I now have a small house and enjoy my freedom my heart couldn't take another bullet at this age in my life!
i agree single and happy in my own one bed apartment and 4 cats. its difficult to meet any nice loyal caring men once you are in middle years or any for the that matter lol but i won;t rule it out just not easy and i stopped dating sites a long tiem ago no joy there.
@@reneeschroeder5583 Same here. I am alone with my daughter. It can be lonely, but I have freedom. I can't take anymore heartbreak and I'm very aware of that. I protect myself. Not looking for a man for anything at this point except maybe some lighthearted companionship.
Hi! ☺ EXACTLY!! And, this comment is for all that replied. There is NO NEED for a man....more laundry, more cooking, more CLEANINGGG!!! For what?? 😂😂😂😂😂
True learned this as well at 58. You can't pick your Family. I've learned also that. Just because you have a sister doesn't mean she's going to be your best friend. She can also be your enemy, which is sad. And also your best friend can be like your sister, that you never had.
My biggest life lesson is God is Good and wants us to love Him. How do we show we love him?We follow His commandments and the teachings of the Church that Jesus Christ started, the Holy Roman Catholic Church. This is the Truth. Read the scriptures and say your rosary every day.🙏
Susan, I agree with your decision with Bob. I was in that same situation 25 years ago, and I made the same decision, you did! Although he said he was legally separated, he wasn’t Divorced. His wife also still wanted the marriage. I also knew that his wife and most people would always think it was because of our relationship, and I couldn’t live with that. I think I would have wondered myself. I would never want to be the cause of the end of someone else’s marriage. I really appreciate you and your integrity! I just discovered your videos a few days ago. I have really enjoyed the few I have seen. I am 63, and Divorced twice after 13 years of marriage to both of them. and they both have passed away. So I have really related to you! God Bless you beautiful women! I will continue to look for your videos..,
Susan, I've never commented before, but have been a longtime viewer. You're such an inspiration. You really are. I've watched you build a lovely life for yourself, and yet at the same time I knew you faced obstacles, but your sweet spirit always shown thru. Each and every one of your videos touches me in some way. I love your gift as a filmmaker and storyteller, and the genuine, humble and honest woman that we are so lucky to get these little gems from each week. Thank you for opening your life up to us and sharing your little bits of wisdom that I know I benefit from. I absolutely love your channel and wanted you to know.
Susan, I also am a long time viewer and have never commented before as well. I absoutely live your videos! Every week you make me smile as well as cry. You touch my soul with your insightful and deep comments. I'm 58, married w/ 2 kids; 14 & 19. I have been married for 28 yrs. and am often very lonely in my marriage.(long story) I have my career, girlfriends, and a special "friend" that brings joy to my life. In my 58 yrs. on this planet I've learned that we don't have control over things even though we may like to. 🥰
It is best to be alone in this day and age. I have been alone for over 49 years, I don’t want anyone to own me. People are never really alone, God is always present.💞✝️🕊
"I cried because I had no shoes.....until I saw a man who had no feet"!!! ( I remember this from when I was 4 or 5 years old, and never forgot it). There is always someone with worse problems!!!!
THIS IS TRUE, BUT IT DOESN'T MEAN WE EVER WILL BE. i'VE BEEN WAITING 30 YEARS!!! AND HAVE GONE THRU HELL AND BACK! BUT I'M STILL HERE, ALONE AND OH SO LONELY.
I loved your comment! My grandma hugged me so tight after my heart was broken at 16 and said, "Do your best to keep the heart open when its breaking and sit at the city bus stop cuz the driver lets new ones off every 15 minutes."
The biggest lesson I’ve learned and would like to encourage others to do is: someday your parents will grow old. One of the hardest things I ever had to do was be a caregiver to my elderly parent. It’s hard. It’s tiring. And it takes a lot of patience. But it’s also rewarding and it’s the right thing to do. If you’re ever in that situation, do it. Do it with love and you’ll have no regrets.
I’ve adopted my 15 yr old grandson. I’m 68 yr old. I’m now moving out of my 55+ community because of it. God is blessing me with a nice little duplex so we will move Dec 28! You give me hope. I try to have hope and love and do what’s right. It’s funny my parents who passed would have never adopted Nicholas and they would have frowned at me but Nicholas is a blessing to me and he makes me feel young and needed. So all is good even when things may happen in life that are heart breaking and challenging. God Bless you, Vickie
How amazing you are for taking your grandson in. Nothing is more treasured than a Grandmothers love. He is blessed to have you and I am sure he knows it. God bless you both.🙏🏼♥️
What a sweet video. You may have been broke after your divorce but, you refused to be broken. I'm sorry your neighbor couldn't be OK with just being friends. I worked with a guy and became really good friends with him. He was 20 years older than me and I never thought any more of our friendship than just that. But, he eventually asked me out and I was floored. However, I said yes. I was 37 at the time. On Nov 1, we will celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary. We were engaged for over 2 years because my husband wanted me to really think about what was in store for me marrying an older man. I can't imagine my life now without him. We both have changed in so many ways. It's wonderful.
I love your comment about brokenness that I had to write it down. Being broke isn't always about money. It makes me want to move forward and have more.
I am so sorry for what you had to endure with your Vietnam veteran husband. When I was in graduate school for a Masters degree in social work, I worked at a veteran’s hospital in their psychiatric ward. These men were so damaged by what they experienced in Vietnam that I honestly don’t think anyone could reach them,although I tried so hard. In group sessions, some of them would hear helicopters and bombs going off, throwing themselves on the ground screaming. I share this only to say that you had an impossible task in trying to help him and get him outside assistance. I think of these men everyday and pray for them, because their demons are unrelenting. And you did all you could for him, which is so commendable. Most would have given up. God bless. Thankyou for sharing.
I'm a 56 years old broke woman that ran into your video ( this one) and I found it very inspiring and lovely. So I'll be here to listen to you and maybe I motivate myself to get up and do for myself. I became disabled on February 2021 and it's been hell. It's been very difficult, but I have faith and hopefully I'll be ok.
I was widowed two years ago. Financially devastated I had to rebuild my life from scratch . At first I was afraid of being broke and alone but over time came to enjoy my independence and was happy. Like you I was afraid a man would try to change me and had no desire to marry again. Life can throw you a curveball sometimes though. I’ve met a wonderful man who has no desire to control or change me in any way. He accepts me unconditionally, I had no idea men like him even existed! He makes me very happy in ways I never expected and we are planning a life together. You just never know what life has in store for you.
It took me 68 years, but I’ve learned not to judge people too quickly because you never know what’s going on in their life. Susan, one of the reasons I subscribed to your channel was because your goodness was so apparent. You should be very proud of how well you have changed your life, after the difficulties you have had. You remained strong! Gail
Your story about having no money after your divorce, reminds me of a quote that I love. “Sometimes we fall down, because there is something down there that we are suppose to find”. Your apartment is absolutely beautiful. It is a bigger canvas for you to paint. I love your stories and how you see every day things. 🤗
Abused animals will show you unconditional love as well. Three of my four dogs came from abusive homes, and it can take time to help them not be afraid. I had a dog once who cowered when I carried a trash bag past him. I can't even imagine what was done to him to make him so afraid. Now he runs and plays and takes naps on the couch. It's so heartwarming to see them heal.
I don't think I have just one life lesson to share, there's been so many in my 69 years. When I find myself "mired down" , and it's easy to do these days, I remember the line from Shawshank Redemption,"Get busy living or get busy dying". What a profound statement and profound year 2020 has been. So, wasting time on things you cannot fix and have no control over would be my life lesson for today. Just get busy living! Love to you and sweet Desi!
I just viewed this video a year later. Listening to your story gives me hope. My late husband was a veteran and self medicated with alcohol to deal with PTSD. He passed this year at 60 due to heart failure. I have been left with little financial security and am trying to figure how to rebuild my life. Your videos are inspiring. Thank you for what you do.
I have learned that I am not alone. My story is remarkably similar to yours. Thats how I am here, in a small apartment in my sons home. He came and rescued me from the deadly spiral my husband had us in and brought me home. It was so hard to walk away from 16 years of marriage but drugs steal Everything. Thank you for your testimony. I am eternally grateful. I have watched it all disappear around me and I did everything I could . But the ship sank. I am so grateful for my son and his gracious family. I am thankful for you too.
I have learned that being resentful and bitter over people and things that "did me wrong" is a waste of time. It only hurts me, not them. Thanks for your lovely post. I am so enjoying getting glimpses of your beautiful new home. And your lipstick is always so perfect. I love the shade you are wearing in this video.
Hi Nicole,,In last weeks video we talk about two of Susan's favorite fall shades..so you can get the names and brands in last weeks video. They are really beautiful! Hope this helps!🍂🍁🌾
I have learned, after two different battles with cancer, that nothing is stronger than faith, hope and love. At 56, I have also learned that 80-90+ Christmas Seasons will not be enough for me, so I keep a nativity scene out all year long, I always keep twinkle lights up somewhere in my house and I am allowed to listen to Christmas songs/hymns anytime I want to. 😉🙏🏻🎄Hugs and warm wishes to all. 🤗❤️😊
The biggest lesson in life I have learned is to not compare myself with anyone else or their life, to focus on gratitude daily for what I have and not focus on what I don't have. Thanks Susan, for always being a tonic for the soul! Your videos are like mini movies that are always so touching x
I lost my husband of 50 years 2 years ago and my daughter has since disowned me because I tried to kill myself, so I have lost everyone who I loved. When I feel down I watch you and just feel so much better. Thank you.
I agree, Susan’s videos are so helpful to recharge us. I’m so sorry for all you have experienced. I think the best years are yet to come. I have tell myself that daily., but believe it.
I was very touched to my core by this video. Recently moving to an apartment with my 15 year old son to escape a toxic marriage, I know about disappointment and the crushing of dreams. But...I am determined to make the most of my remaining years on earth. I have 2 children that I adore and would not have if I hadn't gone through the tough stuff. A 27 year marriage failed but to stay would have failed myself and my children. I must have hope for my future.
You are so brave. I made the same decision when my children were 2 and 4 years old. It was scary to look into the distant future and wonder how I would do it. But we made it. God sent people along the way to help me when I needed it. Stay strong. All will be well. 💙
You know in your heart you did the right thing at the right time. I stayed far to many years and wasted the best years of my life. My children were almost grown by the time I was able to leave, but we made it and so will you. Good luck........
What I have learned in my 60 years after watching my husband battle cancer twice, my son being nearly killed in a helicopter crash and my daughter-in-law fight stage 3 breast cancer is that every single minute we have here on earth is precious- make sure you are not wasting your time on silly things that don’t matter, but investing it in your family and friends. Love is really the greatest blessing, so love the people in your life well and then open up your heart to others who need some of that love, too! ❤️
I’d have to agree. People are good!! I learned this when my three year old grandson was diagnosed with cancer. People, strangers, came out of the woodwork!! The kindness of people was humbling. That grandson is 9 years old now and healthy as a horse!!
What a moving video, saying goodbye to Oscar really got to me. In my 63 years, I've learned that love really can happen again. My story is a bit similar, sans the great life before, but was married for 24 years, he had terrible mental health issues, was extremely abusive both mentally and physically, tried to get him to get help, then Jan 3rd, 2012 he committed suicide for me to see, and he left me with huge debt. We had a house. I lost EVERYTHING. The silver lining is that after 5 years of much self reflection, a synchronicity happened out of the blue, least expecting to run in to my HS SWEETHEART who was also self reflecting, and we will have our 3 year anniversary next week. Right now though, we live 2 miles apart, we were both caregivers to our parents, so we're working on the next step of hopefully combining everything. I had come to peace of being single the rest of my life, but it took me 60 years to find "the one". Big blessings, peace, and much love to you and Desi 💜 and all of you out there 💜 ✌ 💜
OH Julie.....I am so happy for happy....I was doing sit-ups the other day and I asked myself, why am I do this? And I thought for a minute...LOL...and I heard that little voice on my head " well Prince Charming might show up and you want to be toned!" LOL.....
@@LittlePoet Susan, thank you 💜 The one word my dad used to say no matter the situation was HOPE. I came to peace with things, and I know in my heart that through your journey, there's a King waiting for you, and he will never steal your beautiful self, he'll relish in your many talents and joy. Remember what Jimi sang "Somewhere a Queen is Weeping, Somewhere a King Has No Wife " 💜💜💜💜
Oh my goodness-this is one of your most endearing videos. You are such a treasure and thank you for all that you give to us. ❤️🐶 and Desi is the cutest boy ever. To think of where he was before finding you. Bless you for giving him a beautiful life. Thank you again for this video and for sharing so many beautiful and personal stories. We are with you!
Tonight is the first time I have seen one of your programs. I can’t. Stop watching. I have sent several to my daughter who is your age and asked that she send them on to her friends. My husband died when I just turned 60. This journey called life is not easy. It certainly is adventurous. I recognize so many of the wonderful attributes you have acquired making your journey. You have so touched my entire being as I have listened,and you have filled my heart with JOY. May GOD continue to bless you and each of those who follow you. Love. Mimi
That really connected with me when you talked about the Mental Illness and drug problem your husband had. I went through something very similar with my now x-wife. She had been a heavy drug user and alcoholic before I met her in our 30's and had been through treatment 3 times before it took. I didn't know anything about alcoholism or drug addiction when we met, so when she said she had been cured I believed her. We ended up married for 30 years and had a son together. Then they legalized marijuana in Oregon where we were living and she rapidly went down hill and started using drugs of all kinds heavily and spent all of her savings. I started going to Alanon at the suggestion of a friend and learned a lot. She lost her job because of the drug use and I wouldn't give her money to support her drug habit so she filed for divorce and the judge awarded her, as a drug addict, almost $400,000. What a disaster! I doubt she'll live long enough to spend it at the rate she is going downhill and believe the judge just speeded up her demise. We've been apart 2 years now and I am at peace after moving back to my home state of ND. I didn't realize how much stress it was on me, being married to an addict, until I was divorced from her. I felt sorry for her but at the same time I had a sense of relief that I was no longer responsible for her well being. I had to realize that you can only do so much to help someone and unless they want help there nothing you can do.
Hello, my friend..yes men say alot of things, they trick us to fall in love......I too am going to move, it will be hard, but I have to move on, living on an island with no one, is very hard, but also hard to decide where to go, what one can afford, and not just to another town, but another country. What I have learned in my 66 yrs, is try not to be bitter about life, li,e my mother was, but also the only one I cam really count on, is myself. Just love your channel, and look forward every week. 🌻🌻🌻 keep safe everyone 🌹🌹🌹
Good luck on your big adventure Viktoria. I am 65 and I believe that we are at a turning point in our life. Our wisdom and experiences all start to make sense. We can now see what is important in our lives and what we can discard. Now is the time to take those steps we have been hesitant about. If not now then when? Listen to your heart.
@@BR-kk9qu thanks, but not so impressive..lol....I have so much to get rid of , figure out where I can go, just know that I will rot here, if I dont get out, after I go on pension ....
@@viktoriapettypiece5953 I can understand! It will all come together! I know it won’t be easy, but you sound determined... and that’s what it takes. Proud of you for moving forward with your life and your grandson’s!
I have been given issues in life to deal with that have made me realize that I AM a strong person. My husband passed away last year and before that, he suffered from Alzheimer's Disease for five years. I look back and wonder how I was able to deal with all of that, but the point is that I DID. Your kind words towards the end of this video brought me to tears. Please always know how special you are to all of us. Your videos always touch my heart in some way and I look forward to them every week. Thank you! XO
Oh my gosh that little Dezi is so sweet and he loves you so much Susan! You are both so blessed to have each other. I know he’s a lot of company for you. I’m soo sorry about what happened to you and Bill. That Vietnam war was so devastating to our men and so many came back home with drug and mental problems. It’s so shameful and disappointing how our own country treated our returning soldiers back then. I do believe we learned our lesson and are doing better. You are such an inspiration to watch. You are one smart lady in so many ways and are so graceful in the way you lead your life.thank you for sharing and God bless you and Dezi
The vets are still treated horribly to this day. My job involves letting with a lot of them. Don’t even have basic needs, a lot of them. It’s a shame!:-/
I understand how addiction of a loved one will wreck your life. We have a child that has struggled for 20 yrs now. You’ve been thru a lot & it explains how you’re so compassionate and full of grace. I’m so happy you’re in a place that you love & enjoy...and that Desi😍❤️well, he’s the cutest thing🥰
THANK YOU Susan I live in Australia. I'm loving your channel. Sharing your life. I am SO glad that you can feel so blessed with all that's going on in America. Blessings. Stay sweet beautiful 💜
Love is patient, love is kind, does not envy, does not boast, is not proud, not rude, not self seeking, not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs. 1 Cor 13:1. ..and ty for respecting that handsome man's marriage. The world needs more people like you. XO ❤
@@sjrogers7498 my former supervisor used to say the same thing. I worked for nearly 20 years with young children. I had interactions with people from all walks of life. I worked in homes of very elite and wealthy families to being a Head Start teacher in the inner city. It was eye opening. I did learn that some take advantage of new opportunities to enhance their lives, while other are perfectly content with whatever they have. Some resent you for even trying to open their eyes to something new. While the statement can be true in many cases, some are closed off to even what they know, they refuse to do better. Everything is a choice you make. Who decides what is better anyway?
I've learned this....married 32 years & NEVER trust a man! Of course I'm on my hub's account! Even after 32 yrs....they lie & I'm stuck in a loveless marriage!! At 30 yrs the deception started! I have no choice but to live with it.! I have no $$$ to leave. I mean 0$! So I live my life without love...affection & intimacy for 12 yrs! I remain in this hell because of money! That's all!!! So lonely!
The first time I accidently found your channel I was hooked. I shared you with a friend who shared you with one of her other friends. I was mesmerized with everything about you. You are an interesting and fascinating, loving, kind, talented and wise woman and you come off like the best friend I ever had visiting and talking just to me. I am sure each woman subscribed to your channel feels the same way, you are talking to only them. That really takes talent. I had a doctor once a long time ago who was able to make every patient feel as if they were special and his favorite. I listen to each new one several times before moving it on and then wait patiently for the next. I missed you terribly during your move and so glad that you are back. I love your modeling sessions, your music, your love of nature, wildlife. You are so classy. You have the look of movie star beauty and allure on thrift store bargains. You are one of a kind. Also love little Desi. My profile photo is of my rescue Bella. She was five years old when I adopted her and I do not know her story but I knew from the beginning it was bad. But she is well loved and happy now. It is always so rewarding when we can give unconditional love to a little one that had an owner who didn't know how to love. I wish you great happiness for the rest of your life. Thank you for your videos.
Desi is BOO-tiful....and Susan, I just love you. In my 58 years, I have learned that another person cannot make me happy. Only God. And I'm happy with that.
Susan, thank you so much for your wonderful video today. In my 63 years on this earth , I still believe in love and hope. I've lost much but there has always been so much to be grateful for. Love found me when I wasn't looking and it was perfect. After 8 months he died of an asthma attack. January 2020. I get lonely and I get sad. But I go on , and I live my best life in a simple way. I was married and had 5 children. It was a traumatic and abusive marriage. I left after 17 years with my children and I lived from month to month, but we got by , with faith and love and kindness from strangers we survived. After 24 years on my own , love found us and then he died in my arms. Only 66 years old. We planned to marry in March. Our Honeymoon was paid for a cruise on the MSC. Now I live in the gratitude of knowing what love is. I'm grateful. My children all live far away and overseas. But there is so much still to live for and still to know that life is beautiful. I resonate with your life experiences and I'm inspired by the beautiful woman you are. Bless you.
This was one of the most beautiful, honest and personal video's you have shared with us! Thank you for sharing, I feel so much closer to you now. Also, thank you for sharing your upbeat feelings on humanity, it's lifted me out of a negative mindset. You are Desi's angel and he is your best friend, a match made in heaven!
Another beautiful video. Thank you for opening your heart with your friends. I had wondered about why you started out so broke in that apartment, but I would have never asked. Your story with Bill is so sad. I’m sorry that both of you had to go through that. Desi is the luckiest little snaggle toothed boy in the world. He is a little love bug, and a gangsta.lol.❤️🐾 My mom lost my dad after 40 years of marriage. My husband and I just celebrated our 40th anniversary together. I asked her why she never remarried because she was less than 60 when he died. She said that she thought that people in great relationships want that again when they lose their love, and people in bad relationships just want to be left alone. Their marriage wasn’t happy, even though I know she loved him. She just wanted to be alone after years of a life of drama and stress from being married to an alcoholic. She just wanted peace.
I look so forward to your video each week!!! The biggest lesson I have learned in my 65 years is that God never leaves our side and never gives us more than we can handle. I lost a son in the military, he was just 20 years old. When the Marines came to my door, I wanted to run and hide.....but a small voice inside said, "What have you taught your children?" Immediately in a split second thought, I knew..."trust God in ALL things." I opened the door to the Marines for the worst news a parent could hear.....but God never left my side and I know I can handle whatever comes my way. HUGS to all of you beautiful ladies out there!!
Biggest lesson I have learned - try to learn positive lessons from negative experiences otherwise it will be too easy to be bitter. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences with us. Stay well and take good care Susan.
Your story sounds a lot like mine . I’ve been by myself since 2007 and I don’t want a relationship,I’m set in my ways now I don’t want to have to answer to anyone . I also lost everything and had to start over, I ended up with nothing and it’s ok I’ve had nice things in my life and lost them but I really don’t miss them .I love you Susan your the best. God Bless you.
I always wanted my dad to remarry after he and my mom divorced. He had two wonderful lady friends. However, after he passed away, I decided he was truly happier on his own.
You didn't want to be that person. The reason for her loss.👏🤗 If all had this integrity. On rebuilding after needing to flee a toxic marriage: I moved from a gorgeous home with my husband to a rented room I half a block from the subway.....reduced my standard of living to the bare minimum. It was liberating to get away. It took a lot to restructure. But it was crucial and vital. It was a difference between surviving or not.
Yes, oh yes, “a woman knows when it’s time to move on”. I’ve listened to my heart ♥️ when it comes to knowing where I belong. I’m 46 years old but I can completely relate.
This is the second video that I have watched of your channel, and I want to thank you for being so encouraging and so open about the difficult things you have been through. I am 55 years old and going through divorce. And it really has been the hardest thing I've been through. I've been depressed and even suicidal for awhile. But your channel lifts my spirit and makes me think that maybe I will be ok. Thank you!
Oh Sue, I am so sorry you are going through all this right now. It does get better...a lot better! You sound strong!! I am happier now then I have ever been..and I am alone. I don't have nay family here in my city...and no man in my life..but I have found a no drams life and peace. I am so glad you found me and Dez....Happy new week to you!!! xo Susan
Most true- men say a lot of things. Addiction and mental illness are one of the worst problems in our world. Have a good week Susan and Desi. Hugs, Donna 🥰☕💖 ps I use a cane and people are always helpful.
Yes, mental health and addiction have destroyed and taken so much from so many. Thank you to Susan for her honesty and addressing this in the video today. I can really relate .
I love your videos. You are such a warm, open and good-hearted person. I am glad you are being true to yourself - about the man, Bob - he is married, and you were right not to get further involved romantically. And you are happy in your life now. Bringing a man into it at this stage to remarry etc. seems unnecessary. If you want a man, you can have one without letting him take over your entire life. You have a wonderful career, apartment and Desi - and that makes you happy. I think that's wonderful. You are the person you've been waiting for all your life. Yay for you!
Smart girl! You made the right decision about the guy. I wondered what ever happened with that. Youre too happy and positive to be with a man with that kind of baggage.
Thank you Susan for sharing your deepest personal story! I can relate somewhat with your story. 3 & 1/2 years ago, my husband and I became permanent guardians with our son and DIL, to our 9 yr. old great granddaughter. Her Mom and Dad are both addicts. We are in our late 70’s, and she lives with us. But there will come a time when she will have to live with her grandparents. Challenging yes, but what a blessing she has been The lesson I’ve learned in 78 yrs., is that God is in control of everything and there are many good people still in this world! God bless you and Desi, stay safe and keep your spirits up!💕🇺🇸🍁🍂
I was just diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis. The irony is that my mother had horrible arthritis and really couldn’t stand or walk forcing me to place her in a nursing home after trying to have her live with me and we’re trying to live at her house. I took care of both my parents and my in-laws for the last 40 years. We could never go on a family vacation because someone always had to stay back just in case. None of them drove, all of them were sick and various ways.She died at the beginning of the pandemic. Three days later all of my joints started hurting.
Hi Susan! How inspiring! Lovely music and images and beautiful sentiments. Yes, life throws us some curveballs sometimes, but there's beauty everywhere if you just look for it. Michigan is beautiful in the fall. I lived in Clarkston for 17 years and I miss the fall there. I live on the gulf coast and we' still recovering from Sally, but its really beautiful here too. You are a shining example on overcoming adversity. Bravo, girl! My one thing I think I've learned in 62 years is : "Weeping may last through the night, but JOY comes in the morning" Maybe that's why I'm a morning person! Tomorrow, tomorrow, I'll love ya, tomorrow, cause tomorrow is another day! G'night and God Bless
I was married for 25 yrs to the love of my life, but after 5yrs of addiction to pills needed from an injury in a car wreck he gave up an committed suicide. This happened after losing 6 family members within 6 yrs. It took me yrs to get myself in an ok place. Then I met a guy online & he talked me into his moving in with me. Found he was addicted to dating sites! After 5yrs with me he died in his sleep! It's been 2yrs & I have had a rough time. Found out my spine is bad & both knees shot. I'm 58 & used to be unstoppable, now I can barely make it thru 8hr work day. I still feel grateful for all I have & always think that there are so many people with nothing. I love how you're always looking ahead & giving it your all. That's all we can do. I think it's good to have pets, my cats are my family, it may sound silly but they are the reason I keep going. Caring for something helps you get thru the rough spots. As for men, I don't really see anyone in my future, I'm ok with that. I actually like living alone. It's very freeing knowing that I can take care of me just fine. I have an insane sense of humor & friends I love dearly that help me on the blue days. Sorry for going on so long! Love to all the ladies out there that think nobody cares or can understand their pain, lots of us can and do. As always, sending love, peace & tranquility to you & Desi.🙏
There she is, the pretty lady on little poet! I love when u chat with the swans.... I swear they’re sending u subliminal messages! Susan, u make my heart sing! I’m being honest , torn and tattered heart sings at the sound of ur voice!Please give a kiss to Desi for me.... I’m loving her headband for Halloween 🎃!
If you had the money, would you want the mansion on the hill? When I see a huge house I always think about the people that have to clean it. Loneliness expresses the pain of being alone. Solitude expresses the glory of being alone.
MONEY 💰 dosen't buy happiness, it never has! And that's why so many celebrities do drugs , because the money didn't bring them the happiness they thought it would!
Look so forward to your video each week! Your words are so uplifting. I am trying to recreate my life after cancer and you have helped me learn to better appreciate the little things in life. I live a couple hours away and would LOVE to come to your concert! Sounds wonderful to be able to meet some of the wonderful women who are a part of this channel!
I would love meet and greet you, it would be an honor. I bought your Mr. Crazy CD and I love listening to it when I'm relaxing in my dim lit room. I would always want to support you, you are my favorite youtuber ♥ I just adore your new place. It becomes you .
I love your balcony! Good for you, to come back from being broke and alone - you are wonderfully resilient! Keep playing your music! Thanks, Susan and Desi.
I’ve been divorced for a little over a year after 30 years. I have no regrets and didn’t take much. Each decision we make are stepping stones in life. I don’t look back but only to a happier future. I no longer care about material things, I have what I need. Not much money enough to get by but I’m happy. I’m 65 and I am happy taking care of myself. I don’t need a man to be happy. I’m never depressed just look forward to each new day, I read my bible daily for strength and guidance. Your a beautiful person. I have listened to your music and your so talented. God bless you Susan and don’t listen to critics. It’s obvious they are unhappy people with nothing good to say so they try to make you feel the way they do. Looking forward to your next video. Take care, your friend from New York.
At 62 years, the lessons of life are many. One for me is to always reinvent myself. We are always evolving, embrace each day and change what is possible. For the things we can't change learn to accept and work with what is at hand. Thank You for uplifting your viewers and inviting us into your life.
Oh Susan, what an inspiration you are. I have been married for 39yrs and the last 3 years have been shear hell. The love of my life, retired military and retired JROCT teacher, mentor, G-D fearing man was not treated right by VA for his mental issues. They ask questions and that’s it give him pills that he would take for a little while then he was back to his spending sprees. Then he began to self medicate tried everything to help him. Then he fell prey to his drug dealers where they took everything. Sold the house from right under me left me destitute and in danger. Then I thought to my self, I’m stronger than this and I’m living in a beautiful area, he got into a bad relationship where a child was born so here I am starting a new life with a smile on my face because I know I did everything I could. Drug destroys the best of lives. Didn’t realize how much we had in common. I love your videos and love watching desi and his yoga gangster moves lol. I’m doing great and I’m happy.
Susan, I sincerely and warmly thank you so much for opening up your heart and life to us. You are an inspiration! I’m sorry about your Arthiritis, I am struggling with a few physical issues myself at 65. I’ll have to think about my life lesson, thanks for making me even think about it. 💖
Dear beautiful soul. My husband was addicted to pain pills and did the same thing. I know you did everything such as I did. My husband died at 39. Left me with two children to raise. One with a birth defect. I had to down size. Raised my children, one is in his twenties now. I have beautiful grandchildren. It all worked out. I love your spirit so much. You inspire me.
Thankyou for sharing your story. It’s sad about Bill but you can only do so much. You are such a beautiful person. I am blessed to have found your Channel
I really enjoy each and every one of your videos. You are a beautiful, kind and gentle soul. I am 67 years old and have had more than my share of heartache but I have pulled myself through. I look forward to staying in touch with you and all of your wonderful viewers. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Hi Susan, you are my HERO. I didn't know what happened to you. I am very proud of you my lady. I love your videos and you very much. God bless you and Desi. Enjoy your weekend and week.
Omg what a beautiful video. I waited all day for you to come on UA-cam. You brighten my day and give me confidence in life listening to you. You are so much like me and you are so wise in life. I cried as I watched your video from happiness. I loved all your answers and I could tell you was sincere. Thank you and UA-cam for putting sunshine in so many people's lives. Including mine.
Hello Bevan!! Nice to meet YOU!! I was going to comment, BUT u said everything & it was perfect!! I adore Susan & My lil Gangsta Desi, OMG LUV LUV LUV his ghost hat, LOL, KNOW he hates it!! Thank YOU kindly Dear BEAUTIFUL Sues& Des for blessing our lives each week!! God bless you and your family my sweet LOVEly friends!!!!🤗😇😗🙏🙏✌✌💘❤💖💞💟🐶🐕🕊🕊💐🌸💮🏵🌹🌺🌻⚘⚘ P.S. This video truly touched my HEART & soul deeply🤗
I’m 63, And the one thing I have learned that is important to me; I study God’s word & listen to him speak to my heart. That (for me) makes me a much better person & gives me peace, joy & love. The Best things in life are priceless.
I remember my mother had a very good friend when I was a child and she was diagnosed with cancer. I didn't have a filter and could ask her anything about how she felt, if she would die, if she was angry, and she was very practical, saying everybody dies, yes I'm angry I had other plans, I feel sick and tired. I told her she was brave and she said, I have no choice in the matter. She said, once she realized this she relaxed and thought ok I'm on this road now, long or short I'm traveling down this scary unfamiliar road. She passed away five years later. She left me her leppard print coat and cigarette case, she was very stylish. Anyway you reminded me of her as I watched your video. Your little dog Desi is so sweet, what great company for you. Bye for now.
We need to do so much more for our veterans. I'm so sorry about Bill and how it affected your marriage. But God has a plan and you are a lovely and kind woman.
Stay single. No drama. Men do say a lot of things. Enjoy your peace and quiet.
My story similar to little poet fifteen years ago beautiful home on a lake. I now have a small house and enjoy my freedom my heart couldn't take another bullet at this age in my life!
i agree single and happy in my own one bed apartment and 4 cats. its difficult to meet any nice loyal caring men once you are in middle years or any for the that matter lol but i won;t rule it out just not easy and i stopped dating sites a long tiem ago no joy there.
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@@reneeschroeder5583 Same here. I am alone with my daughter. It can be lonely, but I have freedom. I can't take anymore heartbreak and I'm very aware of that. I protect myself. Not looking for a man for anything at this point except maybe some lighthearted companionship.
Hi! ☺ EXACTLY!! And, this comment is for all that replied. There is NO NEED for a man....more laundry, more cooking, more CLEANINGGG!!! For what?? 😂😂😂😂😂
Hon. He is married. Married is married. You did the right thing. Principled. That is what it is called
I have learned, at 65, that there are people outside your family who can love you more than your family does. And, thank the Lord that they do.
Oh yes. Spot on! Thank you for this share.
True learned this as well at 58.
You can't pick your Family.
I've learned also that. Just because you have a sister doesn't mean she's going to be your best friend. She can also be your enemy, which is sad. And also your best friend can be like your sister, that you never had.
My biggest life lesson has been to love myself - more than anyone else. So many bad decisions were made because I loved someone else more.
Amen. To love myself first and more.❤
I agree.
My biggest life lesson is God is Good and wants us to love Him. How do we show we love him?We follow His commandments and the teachings of the Church that Jesus Christ started, the Holy Roman Catholic Church. This is the Truth. Read the scriptures and say your rosary every day.🙏
Susan, I agree with your decision with Bob. I was in that same situation 25 years ago, and I made the same decision, you did!
Although he said he was legally separated, he wasn’t Divorced. His wife also still wanted the marriage. I also knew that his wife and most people would always think it was because of our relationship, and I couldn’t live with that. I think I would have wondered myself. I would never want to be the cause of the end of someone else’s marriage.
I really appreciate you and your integrity! I just discovered your videos a few days ago. I have really enjoyed the few I have seen. I am 63, and Divorced twice after 13 years of marriage to both of them. and they both have passed away. So I have really related to you! God Bless you beautiful women! I will continue to look for your videos..,
Susan, I've never commented before, but have been a longtime viewer. You're such an inspiration. You really are. I've watched you build a lovely life for yourself, and yet at the same time I knew you faced obstacles, but your sweet spirit always shown thru. Each and every one of your videos touches me in some way. I love your gift as a filmmaker and storyteller, and the genuine, humble and honest woman that we are so lucky to get these little gems from each week. Thank you for opening your life up to us and sharing your little bits of wisdom that I know I benefit from. I absolutely love your channel and wanted you to know.
Susan, I also am a long time viewer and have never commented before as well. I absoutely live your videos! Every week you make me smile as well as cry. You touch my soul with your insightful and deep comments. I'm 58, married w/ 2 kids; 14 & 19. I have been married for 28 yrs. and am often very lonely in my marriage.(long story) I have my career, girlfriends, and a special "friend" that brings joy to my life. In my 58 yrs. on this planet I've learned that we don't have control over things even though we may like to. 🥰
I couldn't agree more!!!!
@@susanramos6473 I feel the same way !!
I could not have said it better,
I totally agree. Such a beautiful lady and an inspiration to us all😘
It is best to be alone in this day and age. I have been alone for over 49 years, I don’t want anyone to own me.
People are never really alone, God is always present.💞✝️🕊
AMEN SISTER :)
@@conniemurphyover70stillgla47 OH, NO, PLEASE DEAR GOD SEND ME A GOOD MAN TO LOVE ME AND ME HIM!!! I WILL NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!
And she has Desi😀😀😀
Sometimes living with someone is more lonely than living alone.
@@MsLouisVeeyes which really is the best of all!
"I cried because I had no shoes.....until I saw a man who had no feet"!!! ( I remember this from when I was 4 or 5 years old, and never forgot it). There is always someone with worse problems!!!!
Susan, Your story is lovely. You are very wise to avoid the married man.
ONE THING I HAVE LEARNED LATE IN LIFE, EACH OF US DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.
THIS IS TRUE, BUT IT DOESN'T MEAN WE EVER WILL BE. i'VE BEEN WAITING 30 YEARS!!! AND HAVE GONE THRU HELL AND BACK! BUT I'M STILL HERE, ALONE AND OH SO LONELY.
@@dannagordon9618 Hi! ☺ YES, YES, YES you WILL be & you WILL be in my 🙌🙌🙌's!! ☺
That says it all!
Each of us deserves to be loved. Happiness is the thing we can work out ourselves
Oh! and one more thing my Grandma Agnes told me: "Honey, no man is worth getting that upset over:. Truer words were never spoken. lol
Awesome grandma!
Wow, wow, wow. Powerful lesson
My beautiful and forever young Grandma said the same thing to me...Valuable lesson forever.
I loved your comment! My grandma hugged me so tight after my heart was broken at 16 and said, "Do your best to keep the heart open when its breaking and sit at the city bus stop cuz the driver lets new ones off every 15 minutes."
@@TamiMarieIsAGardener lol I LOVE that. I think our grandma's would have loved one another.
I have learned that God has always watched over me for all these years and I am so grateful
The biggest lesson I’ve learned and would like to encourage others to do is: someday your parents will grow old. One of the hardest things I ever had to do was be a caregiver to my elderly parent. It’s hard. It’s tiring. And it takes a lot of patience. But it’s also rewarding and it’s the right thing to do. If you’re ever in that situation, do it. Do it with love and you’ll have no regrets.
Yes, agreed... Thank you.
I’ve adopted my 15 yr old grandson. I’m 68 yr old. I’m now moving out of my 55+ community because of it. God is blessing me with a nice little duplex so we will move Dec 28! You give me hope. I try to have hope and love and do what’s right. It’s funny my parents who passed would have never adopted Nicholas and they would have frowned at me but Nicholas is a blessing to me and he makes me feel young and needed. So all is good even when things may happen in life that are heart breaking and challenging. God Bless you, Vickie
Your grandson is so blessed to have you in his life. He is safe and loved with you. 💙
How wonderful you are!
How amazing you are for taking your grandson in. Nothing is more treasured than a Grandmothers love. He is blessed to have you and I am sure he knows it. God bless you both.🙏🏼♥️
Vickie, what a God given gift. You are both so fortunate to have each other. I love this story, God bless
Having brought you together now -- may the angels keep you and Nicholas in their arms always!
What a sweet video. You may have been broke after your divorce but, you refused to be broken.
I'm sorry your neighbor couldn't be OK with just being friends. I worked with a guy and became really good friends with him. He was 20 years older than me and I never thought any more of our friendship than just that. But, he eventually asked me out and I was floored. However, I said yes. I was 37 at the time. On Nov 1, we will celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary. We were engaged for over 2 years because my husband wanted me to really think about what was in store for me marrying an older man. I can't imagine my life now without him. We both have changed in so many ways. It's wonderful.
This is a beautiful story.
My dad was over 20 years older than my mom. They had a lovely marriage.
I love your comment about brokenness that I had to write it down. Being broke isn't always about money. It makes me want to move forward and have more.
Wow. That's beautiful. I am 54 and single. Never married. I am praying God will bring an older man into my life.
I am so sorry for what you had to endure with your Vietnam veteran husband. When I was in graduate school for a Masters degree in social work, I worked at a veteran’s hospital in their psychiatric ward. These men were so damaged by what they experienced in Vietnam that I honestly don’t think anyone could reach them,although I tried so hard. In group sessions, some of them would hear helicopters and bombs going off, throwing themselves on the ground screaming. I share this only to say that you had an impossible task in trying to help him and get him outside assistance. I think of these men everyday and pray for them, because their demons are unrelenting. And you did all you could for him, which is so commendable. Most would have given up. God bless. Thankyou for sharing.
I'm a 56 years old broke woman that ran into your video ( this one) and I found it very inspiring and lovely. So I'll be here to listen to you and maybe I motivate myself to get up and do for myself. I became disabled on February 2021 and it's been hell. It's been very difficult, but I have faith and hopefully I'll be ok.
I m single
I m 54 year old
Looking true love ❤❤
I'm so sorry about your situation. I know this is an older post, so I hope this finds you well.
Until we walk in another person shoes. We have no idea grounds they covered. I enjoy your journey so much. ❤️
Such beautiful photography and music! Always a poignant message and dialogue. Such a talented lady!! :)
I was widowed two years ago. Financially devastated I had to rebuild my life from scratch . At first I was afraid of being broke and alone but over time came to enjoy my independence and was happy. Like you I was afraid a man would try to change me and had no desire to marry again. Life can throw you a curveball sometimes though. I’ve met a wonderful man who has no desire to control or change me in any way. He accepts me unconditionally, I had no idea men like him even existed! He makes me very happy in ways I never expected and we are planning a life together. You just never know what life has in store for you.
It took me 68 years, but I’ve learned not to judge people too quickly because you never know what’s going on in their life. Susan, one of the reasons I subscribed to your channel was because your goodness was so apparent. You should be very proud of how well you have changed your life, after the difficulties you have had. You remained strong! Gail
Your story about having no money after your divorce, reminds me of a quote that I love. “Sometimes we fall down, because there is something down there that we are suppose to find”. Your apartment is absolutely beautiful. It is a bigger canvas for you to paint. I love your stories and how you see every day things. 🤗
I love that quote! Thank you for sharing!
I simply love Desi. Makes me want to adopt an abused animal and show him unconditional love. You are a true lady!!
Please do! They are so sweet, waiting on someone to love them. I have several. I am much loved back!!!
Sharon Ward please do🙏🏻
They give back much more than they take. Pure love.❤️🐾
Abused animals will show you unconditional love as well. Three of my four dogs came from abusive homes, and it can take time to help them not be afraid. I had a dog once who cowered when I carried a trash bag past him. I can't even imagine what was done to him to make him so afraid. Now he runs and plays and takes naps on the couch. It's so heartwarming to see them heal.
I don't think I have just one life lesson to share, there's been so many in my 69 years. When I find myself "mired down" , and it's easy to do these days, I remember the line from Shawshank Redemption,"Get busy living or get busy dying". What a profound statement and profound year 2020 has been. So, wasting time on things you cannot fix and have no control over would be my life lesson for today. Just get busy living! Love to you and sweet Desi!
Love that line! I haven’t thought about it in years! It’s truly wise! Thank you.
I just viewed this video a year later. Listening to your story gives me hope. My late husband was a veteran and self medicated with alcohol to deal with PTSD. He passed this year at 60 due to heart failure. I have been left with little financial security and am trying to figure how to rebuild my life. Your videos are inspiring. Thank you for what you do.
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I have learned that I am not alone. My story is remarkably similar to yours. Thats how I am here, in a small apartment in my sons home. He came and rescued me from the deadly spiral my husband had us in and brought me home. It was so hard to walk away from 16 years of marriage but drugs steal Everything. Thank you for your testimony. I am eternally grateful. I have watched it all disappear around me and I did everything I could . But the ship sank. I am so grateful for my son and his gracious family. I am thankful for you too.
I have learned that being resentful and bitter over people and things that "did me wrong" is a waste of time. It only hurts me, not them. Thanks for your lovely post. I am so enjoying getting glimpses of your beautiful new home. And your lipstick is always so perfect. I love the shade you are wearing in this video.
Hi Nicole,,In last weeks video we talk about two of Susan's favorite fall shades..so you can get the names and brands in last weeks video. They are really beautiful!
Hope this helps!🍂🍁🌾
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I have learned, after two different battles with cancer, that nothing is stronger than faith, hope and love. At 56, I have also learned that 80-90+ Christmas Seasons will not be enough for me, so I keep a nativity scene out all year long, I always keep twinkle lights up somewhere in my house and I am allowed to listen to Christmas songs/hymns anytime I want to. 😉🙏🏻🎄Hugs and warm wishes to all. 🤗❤️😊
The biggest lesson in life I have learned is to not compare myself with anyone else or their life, to focus on gratitude daily for what I have and not focus on what I don't have. Thanks Susan, for always being a tonic for the soul! Your videos are like mini movies that are always so touching x
I lost my husband of 50 years 2 years ago and my daughter has since disowned me because I tried to kill myself, so I have lost everyone who I loved. When I feel down I watch you and just feel so much better. Thank you.
Thats really hard...especially now with this pandemic..later will be too late for your daughter and she will be crying
May you feel God's loving presence & strength this very day.
Praying and God Bless!
I agree, Susan’s videos are so helpful to recharge us. I’m so sorry for all you have experienced. I think the best years are yet to come. I have tell myself that daily., but believe it.
I so sorry, Gail.
I was very touched to my core by this video. Recently moving to an apartment with my 15 year old son to escape a toxic marriage, I know about disappointment and the crushing of dreams. But...I am determined to make the most of my remaining years on earth. I have 2 children that I adore and would not have if I hadn't gone through the tough stuff. A 27 year marriage failed but to stay would have failed myself and my children. I must have hope for my future.
I love your determination Karen. That, and a prayer, is all you need. 🤗
Congratulations on finding the strength to leave. So many women are never able to.
You are so brave. I made the same decision when my children were 2 and 4 years old. It was scary to look into the distant future and wonder how I would do it. But we made it. God sent people along the way to help me when I needed it. Stay strong. All will be well. 💙
The best is yet to come. Stay strong.
You know in your heart you did the right thing at the right time. I stayed far to many years and wasted the best years of my life. My children were almost grown by the time I was able to leave, but we made it and so will you. Good luck........
What I have learned in my 60 years after watching my husband battle cancer twice, my son being nearly killed in a helicopter crash and my daughter-in-law fight stage 3
breast cancer is that every single minute we have here on earth is precious- make sure you are not wasting your time on silly things that don’t matter, but investing it in your family and friends. Love is really the greatest blessing, so love the people in your life well and then open up your heart to others who need some of that love, too! ❤️
I’d have to agree. People are good!! I learned this when my three year old grandson was diagnosed with cancer. People, strangers, came out of the woodwork!! The kindness of people was humbling. That grandson is 9 years old now and healthy as a horse!!
What a moving video, saying goodbye to Oscar really got to me. In my 63 years, I've learned that love really can happen again. My story is a bit similar, sans the great life before, but was married for 24 years, he had terrible mental health issues, was extremely abusive both mentally and physically, tried to get him to get help, then Jan 3rd, 2012 he committed suicide for me to see, and he left me with huge debt. We had a house. I lost EVERYTHING.
The silver lining is that after 5 years of much self reflection, a synchronicity happened out of the blue, least expecting to run in to my HS SWEETHEART who was also self reflecting, and we will have our 3 year anniversary next week. Right now though, we live 2 miles apart, we were both caregivers to our parents, so we're working on the next step of hopefully combining everything. I had come to peace of being single the rest of my life, but it took me 60 years to find "the one".
Big blessings, peace, and much love to you and Desi 💜 and all of you out there 💜 ✌ 💜
OH Julie.....I am so happy for happy....I was doing sit-ups the other day and I asked myself, why am I do this? And I thought for a minute...LOL...and I heard that little voice on my head " well Prince Charming might show up and you want to be toned!" LOL.....
@@LittlePoet Susan, thank you 💜 The one word my dad used to say no matter the situation was HOPE. I came to peace with things, and I know in my heart that through your journey, there's a King waiting for you, and he will never steal your beautiful self, he'll relish in your many talents and joy. Remember what Jimi sang "Somewhere a Queen is Weeping, Somewhere a King Has No Wife " 💜💜💜💜
Oh my goodness-this is one of your most endearing videos. You are such a treasure and thank you for all that you give to us. ❤️🐶 and Desi is the cutest boy ever. To think of where he was before finding you. Bless you for giving him a beautiful life. Thank you again for this video and for sharing so many beautiful and personal stories. We are with you!
Tonight is the first time I have seen one of your programs. I can’t. Stop watching. I have sent several to my daughter who is your age and asked that she send them on to her friends. My husband died when I just turned 60. This journey called life is not easy. It certainly is adventurous. I recognize so many of the wonderful attributes you have acquired making your journey. You have so touched my entire being as I have listened,and you have filled my heart with JOY. May GOD continue to bless you and each of those who follow you. Love. Mimi
That really connected with me when you talked about the Mental Illness and drug problem your husband had. I went through something very similar with my now x-wife. She had been a heavy drug user and alcoholic before I met her in our 30's and had been through treatment 3 times before it took. I didn't know anything about alcoholism or drug addiction when we met, so when she said she had been cured I believed her. We ended up married for 30 years and had a son together. Then they legalized marijuana in Oregon where we were living and she rapidly went down hill and started using drugs of all kinds heavily and spent all of her savings. I started going to Alanon at the suggestion of a friend and learned a lot. She lost her job because of the drug use and I wouldn't give her money to support her drug habit so she filed for divorce and the judge awarded her, as a drug addict, almost $400,000. What a disaster! I doubt she'll live long enough to spend it at the rate she is going downhill and believe the judge just speeded up her demise. We've been apart 2 years now and I am at peace after moving back to my home state of ND. I didn't realize how much stress it was on me, being married to an addict, until I was divorced from her. I felt sorry for her but at the same time I had a sense of relief that I was no longer responsible for her well being. I had to realize that you can only do so much to help someone and unless they want help there nothing you can do.
Hello, my friend..yes men say alot of things, they trick us to fall in love......I too am going to move, it will be hard, but I have to move on, living on an island with no one, is very hard, but also hard to decide where to go, what one can afford, and not just to another town, but another country. What I have learned in my 66 yrs, is try not to be bitter about life, li,e my mother was, but also the only one I cam really count on, is myself. Just love your channel, and look forward every week. 🌻🌻🌻 keep safe everyone 🌹🌹🌹
Good luck on your big adventure Viktoria. I am 65 and I believe that we are at a turning point in our life. Our wisdom and experiences all start to make sense. We can now see what is important in our lives and what we can discard. Now is the time to take those steps we have been hesitant about. If not now then when? Listen to your heart.
Wow! You are impressive. I wish the best of everything on your move!
@@BR-kk9qu thanks, but not so impressive..lol....I have so much to get rid of , figure out where I can go, just know that I will rot here, if I dont get out, after I go on pension ....
@@viktoriapettypiece5953 I can understand! It will all come together! I know it won’t be easy, but you sound determined... and that’s what it takes. Proud of you for moving forward with your life and your grandson’s!
I have been given issues in life to deal with that have made me realize that I AM a strong person. My husband passed away last year and before that, he suffered from Alzheimer's Disease for five years. I look back and wonder how I was able to deal with all of that, but the point is that I DID. Your kind words towards the end of this video brought me to tears. Please always know how special you are to all of us. Your videos always touch my heart in some way and I look forward to them every week. Thank you! XO
@Jackie Hillson Thank you, Jackie. Your kind words mean so much to me.
Oh my gosh that little Dezi is so sweet and he loves you so much Susan! You are both so blessed to have each other. I know he’s a lot of company for you. I’m soo sorry about what happened to you and Bill. That Vietnam war was so devastating to our men and so many came back home with drug and mental problems. It’s so shameful and disappointing how our own country treated our returning soldiers back then. I do believe we learned our lesson and are doing better. You are such an inspiration to watch. You are one smart lady in so many ways and are so graceful in the way you lead your life.thank you for sharing and God bless you and Dezi
The vets are still treated horribly to this day. My job involves letting with a lot of them. Don’t even have basic needs, a lot of them. It’s a shame!:-/
I understand how addiction of a loved one will wreck your life. We have a child that has struggled for 20 yrs now. You’ve been thru a lot & it explains how you’re so compassionate and full of grace. I’m so happy you’re in a place that you love & enjoy...and that Desi😍❤️well, he’s the cutest thing🥰
THANK YOU Susan
I live in Australia. I'm loving your channel. Sharing your life. I am SO glad that you can feel so blessed with all that's going on in America. Blessings. Stay sweet beautiful 💜
Thank you, Kathy, for your compassion on those of us in the USA.
@@carolynsanner8253 THANK you too. For staying safe. I care. 💞
I was nervous thinking you weren't going to post! I feel so much better. My weekend isn't complete without watching you and Desi!
Me, too...
Myself as well !!!
And me too!
Susan is a gift 💕
@@CupCaked me as well look forward to the videos
The biggest lesson to me is don't believe and trust people too quick, follow your gut God is with us every step of the way.
Yes that’s true! There’s a spark of Divinity in each and every one of us!
Love is patient, love is kind, does not envy, does not boast, is not proud, not rude, not self seeking, not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs.
1 Cor 13:1. ..and ty for respecting that handsome man's marriage. The world needs more people like you. XO ❤
So very hard to do, under certain circumstances... then there is God❤
A lady always knows when to leave.
I have learned that most people are just doing the best they know how... and when you know better, you do better. Love your videos, Susan! Take care.
That really is true.
Creme Brulee I’m speaking from my personal experience. I’m a teacher and may see things differently than others.
@@sjrogers7498 my former supervisor used to say the same thing. I worked for nearly 20 years with young children. I had interactions with people from all walks of life. I worked in homes of very elite and wealthy families to being a Head Start teacher in the inner city. It was eye opening. I did learn that some take advantage of new opportunities to enhance their lives, while other are perfectly content with whatever they have. Some resent you for even trying to open their eyes to something new. While the statement can be true in many cases, some are closed off to even what they know, they refuse to do better. Everything is a choice you make. Who decides what is better anyway?
That is so true! If only I had more people to stay in touch.God Bless
I love the woods. Deer birds critters the colors of the seasons its magical
I've learned this....married 32 years & NEVER trust a man! Of course I'm on my hub's account! Even after 32 yrs....they lie & I'm stuck in a loveless marriage!! At 30 yrs the deception started! I have no choice but to live with it.! I have no $$$ to leave. I mean 0$! So I live my life without love...affection & intimacy for 12 yrs! I remain in this hell because of money! That's all!!! So lonely!
Me too.
I left a cheating husband and live on only $1000 a month social security and happy having peace of mind.
The first time I accidently found your channel I was hooked. I shared you with a friend who shared you with one of her other friends. I was mesmerized with everything about you. You are an interesting and fascinating, loving, kind, talented and wise woman and you come off like the best friend I ever had visiting and talking just to me. I am sure each woman subscribed to your channel feels the same way, you are talking to only them. That really takes talent. I had a doctor once a long time ago who was able to make every patient feel as if they were special and his favorite. I listen to each new one several times before moving it on and then wait patiently for the next. I missed you terribly during your move and so glad that you are back. I love your modeling sessions, your music, your love of nature, wildlife. You are so classy. You have the look of movie star beauty and allure on thrift store bargains. You are one of a kind. Also love little Desi. My profile photo is of my rescue Bella. She was five years old when I adopted her and I do not know her story but I knew from the beginning it was bad. But she is well loved and happy now. It is always so rewarding when we can give unconditional love to a little one that had an owner who didn't know how to love. I wish you great happiness for the rest of your life. Thank you for your videos.
Desi is BOO-tiful....and Susan, I just love you. In my 58 years, I have learned that another person cannot make me happy. Only God. And I'm happy with that.
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Desi seems so much more relaxed these days! I am so happy to see him seem so comfortable now!! Thanks for your candor!
YES! wE HAVE NEVER SEEN HIM RUN AROUND LIKE HE DOES NOW!!! I' SO HAPPY FOR BOTH OF YOU!!!
Susan, thank you so much for your wonderful video today.
In my 63 years on this earth , I still believe in love and hope. I've lost much but there has always been so much to be grateful for. Love found me when I wasn't looking and it was perfect. After 8 months he died of an asthma attack. January 2020. I get lonely and I get sad. But I go on , and I live my best life in a simple way.
I was married and had 5 children. It was a traumatic and abusive marriage. I left after 17 years with my children and I lived from month to month, but we got by , with faith and love and kindness from strangers we survived.
After 24 years on my own , love found us and then he died in my arms. Only 66 years old. We planned to marry in March. Our Honeymoon was paid for a cruise on the MSC.
Now I live in the gratitude of knowing what love is. I'm grateful.
My children all live far away and overseas. But there is so much still to live for and still to know that life is beautiful.
I resonate with your life experiences and I'm inspired by the beautiful woman you are.
Bless you.
I just love Desi and your relationship with him...he trusts you❣️.
People just want to love and be loved, to be acknowledged, to belong 🙏
This was one of the most beautiful, honest and personal video's you have shared with us! Thank you for sharing, I feel so much closer to you now. Also, thank you for sharing your upbeat feelings on humanity, it's lifted me out of a negative mindset. You are Desi's angel and he is your best friend, a match made in heaven!
I'm so happy you posted. I'm not sure I could handle those questions! You are so full of grace!
Another beautiful video. Thank you for opening your heart with your friends.
I had wondered about why you started out so broke in that apartment, but I would have never asked.
Your story with Bill is so sad. I’m sorry that both of you had to go through that.
Desi is the luckiest little snaggle toothed boy in the world. He is a little love bug, and a gangsta.lol.❤️🐾
My mom lost my dad after 40 years of marriage. My husband and I just celebrated our 40th anniversary together.
I asked her why she never remarried because she was less than 60 when he died.
She said that she thought that people in great relationships want that again when they lose their love, and people in bad relationships just want to be left alone. Their marriage wasn’t happy, even though I know she loved him.
She just wanted to be alone after years of a life of drama and stress from being married to an alcoholic.
She just wanted peace.
Peace....oh yes, so highly underrated....God Bless you and your Mom...
Your raw honesty is so refreshing in a world where we often see the opposite. Thank you for sharing.
Susan, you are so beautiful and do not look 66. Snuggles, cuddles and rubs to Desi from Canada❤And I am so happy that you have a balcony. And thatview
I look so forward to your video each week!!! The biggest lesson I have learned in my 65 years is that God never leaves our side and never gives us more than we can handle. I lost a son in the military, he was just 20 years old. When the Marines came to my door, I wanted to run and hide.....but a small voice inside said, "What have you taught your children?" Immediately in a split second thought, I knew..."trust God in ALL things." I opened the door to the Marines for the worst news a parent could hear.....but God never left my side and I know I can handle whatever comes my way. HUGS to all of you beautiful ladies out there!!
What a beautiful video. My greatest life lesson (am 70) is that God will take care of me and I never have to doubt that. Ever.
Thank for being so open and vulnerable with your viewing friends! Your attitude is lovely and so inspiring. God bless!
Biggest lesson I have learned - try to learn positive lessons from negative experiences otherwise it will be too easy to be bitter.
Thank you for sharing your personal experiences with us. Stay well and take good care Susan.
That is superbly profound. Thank you.
Your story sounds a lot like mine . I’ve been by myself since 2007 and I don’t want a relationship,I’m set in my ways now I don’t want to have to answer to anyone . I also lost everything and had to start over, I ended up with nothing and it’s ok I’ve had nice things in my life and lost them but I really don’t miss them .I love you Susan your the best. God Bless you.
So true, I have been alone for a while and you get to the point that you do not want to change to make room for anyone.
I always wanted my dad to remarry after he and my mom divorced. He had two wonderful lady friends. However, after he passed away, I decided he was truly happier on his own.
You didn't want to be that person. The reason for her loss.👏🤗
If all had this integrity.
On rebuilding after needing to flee a toxic marriage:
I moved from a gorgeous home with my husband to a rented room I half a block from the subway.....reduced my standard of living to the bare minimum. It was liberating to get away. It took a lot to restructure. But it was crucial and vital. It was a difference between surviving or not.
Yes, oh yes, “a woman knows when it’s time to move on”. I’ve listened to my heart ♥️ when it comes to knowing where I belong. I’m 46 years old but I can completely relate.
This is the second video that I have watched of your channel, and I want to thank you for being so encouraging and so open about the difficult things you have been through. I am 55 years old and going through divorce. And it really has been the hardest thing I've been through. I've been depressed and even suicidal for awhile. But your channel lifts my spirit and makes me think that maybe I will be ok. Thank you!
Oh Sue, I am so sorry you are going through all this right now. It does get better...a lot better! You sound strong!! I am happier now then I have ever been..and I am alone. I don't have nay family here in my city...and no man in my life..but I have found a no drams life and peace. I am so glad you found me and Dez....Happy new week to you!!! xo Susan
Most true- men say a lot of things. Addiction and mental illness are one of the worst problems in our world. Have a good week Susan and Desi. Hugs, Donna 🥰☕💖 ps I use a cane and people are always helpful.
I use a cane also and yes, people can be VERY helpful 🙂
Yes, mental health and addiction have destroyed and taken so much from so many. Thank you to Susan for her honesty and addressing this in the video today. I can really relate .
I love your videos. You are such a warm, open and good-hearted person. I am glad you are being true to yourself - about the man, Bob - he is married, and you were right not to get further involved romantically. And you are happy in your life now. Bringing a man into it at this stage to remarry etc. seems unnecessary. If you want a man, you can have one without letting him take over your entire life. You have a wonderful career, apartment and Desi - and that makes you happy. I think that's wonderful. You are the person you've been waiting for all your life. Yay for you!
"You are the person you've been waiting for all your life" I just love that so much.
Smart girl! You made the right decision about the guy. I wondered what ever happened with that. Youre too happy and positive to be with a man with that kind of baggage.
Thank you Susan for sharing your deepest personal story! I can relate somewhat with your story. 3 & 1/2 years ago, my husband and I became permanent guardians with our son and DIL, to our 9 yr. old great granddaughter. Her Mom and Dad are both addicts. We are in our late 70’s, and she lives with us. But there will come a time when she will have to live with her grandparents. Challenging yes, but what a blessing she has been The lesson I’ve learned in 78 yrs., is that God is in control of everything and there are many good people still in this world! God bless you and Desi, stay safe and keep your spirits up!💕🇺🇸🍁🍂
"the cloths are on their own": you said it just as my brain said the same thing LOL! Thank you for the beauty you bring to my life every weekend.
LOL....I could not help myself!!!!
Yes I was thinking the same thing lol😀
Too good to be true.!
I love the way you film the beautiful trees and nature around your new home. 🌻
I was just diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis. The irony is that my mother had horrible arthritis and really couldn’t stand or walk forcing me to place her in a nursing home after trying to have her live with me and we’re trying to live at her house. I took care of both my parents and my in-laws for the last 40 years. We could never go on a family vacation because someone always had to stay back just in case. None of them drove, all of them were sick and various ways.She died at the beginning of the pandemic. Three days later all of my joints started hurting.
Hi Susan! How inspiring! Lovely music and images and beautiful sentiments. Yes, life throws us some curveballs sometimes, but there's beauty everywhere if you just look for it. Michigan is beautiful in the fall. I lived in Clarkston for 17 years and I miss the fall there. I live on the gulf coast and we' still recovering from Sally, but its really beautiful here too. You are a shining example on overcoming adversity. Bravo, girl! My one thing I think I've learned in 62 years is : "Weeping may last through the night, but JOY comes in the morning" Maybe that's why I'm a morning person! Tomorrow, tomorrow, I'll love ya, tomorrow, cause tomorrow is another day! G'night and God Bless
I was married for 25 yrs to the love of my life, but after 5yrs of addiction to pills needed from an injury in a car wreck he gave up an committed suicide. This happened after losing 6 family members within 6 yrs. It took me yrs to get myself in an ok place. Then I met a guy online & he talked me into his moving in with me. Found he was addicted to dating sites! After 5yrs with me he died in his sleep! It's been 2yrs & I have had a rough time. Found out my spine is bad & both knees shot. I'm 58 & used to be unstoppable, now I can barely make it thru 8hr work day. I still feel grateful for all I have & always think that there are so many people with nothing. I love how you're always looking ahead & giving it your all. That's all we can do. I think it's good to have pets, my cats are my family, it may sound silly but they are the reason I keep going. Caring for something helps you get thru the rough spots. As for men, I don't really see anyone in my future, I'm ok with that. I actually like living alone. It's very freeing knowing that I can take care of me just fine. I have an insane sense of humor & friends I love dearly that help me on the blue days. Sorry for going on so long! Love to all the ladies out there that think nobody cares or can understand their pain, lots of us can and do. As always, sending love, peace & tranquility to you & Desi.🙏
There she is, the pretty lady on little poet! I love when u chat with the swans.... I swear they’re sending u subliminal messages! Susan, u make my heart sing! I’m being honest , torn and tattered heart sings at the sound of ur voice!Please give a kiss to Desi for me.... I’m loving her headband for Halloween 🎃!
If you had the money, would you want the mansion on the hill? When I see a huge house I always think about the people that have to clean it.
Loneliness expresses the pain of being alone. Solitude expresses the glory of being alone.
MONEY 💰 dosen't buy happiness, it never has! And that's why so many celebrities do drugs , because the money didn't bring them the happiness they thought it would!
Look so forward to your video each week! Your words are so uplifting. I am trying to recreate my life after cancer and you have helped me learn to better appreciate the little things in life. I live a couple hours away and would LOVE to come to your concert! Sounds wonderful to be able to meet some of the wonderful women who are a part of this channel!
I would love meet and greet you, it would be an honor. I bought your Mr. Crazy CD and I love listening to it when I'm relaxing in my dim lit room. I would always want to support you, you are my favorite youtuber ♥ I just adore your new place. It becomes you .
I love your balcony! Good for you, to come back from being broke and alone - you are wonderfully resilient! Keep playing your music! Thanks, Susan and Desi.
I’ve been divorced for a little over a year after 30 years. I have no regrets and didn’t take much. Each decision we make are stepping stones in life. I don’t look back but only to a happier future. I no longer care about material things, I have what I need. Not much money enough to get by but I’m happy. I’m 65 and I am happy taking care of myself. I don’t need a man to be happy. I’m never depressed just look forward to each new day, I read my bible daily for strength and guidance. Your a beautiful person. I have listened to your music and your so talented. God bless you Susan and don’t listen to critics. It’s obvious they are unhappy people with nothing good to say so they try to make you feel the way they do. Looking forward to your next video. Take care, your friend from New York.
At 62 years, the lessons of life are many. One for me is to always reinvent myself.
We are always evolving, embrace each day and change what is possible. For the things we can't change learn to accept and work with what is at hand.
Thank You for uplifting your viewers and inviting us into your life.
Men do say a lot of things, and even though they often mean them when they say them, things change and feelings change.
To all first time viewers or new subscribers, you are always welcomed here and this channel will not disappoint!!!
Oh Susan, what an inspiration you are. I have been married for 39yrs and the last 3 years have been shear hell. The love of my life, retired military and retired JROCT teacher, mentor, G-D fearing man was not treated right by VA for his mental issues. They ask questions and that’s it give him pills that he would take for a little while then he was back to his spending sprees. Then he began to self medicate tried everything to help him. Then he fell prey to his drug dealers where they took everything. Sold the house from right under me left me destitute and in danger. Then I thought to my self, I’m stronger than this and I’m living in a beautiful area, he got into a bad relationship where a child was born so here I am starting a new life with a smile on my face because I know I did everything I could. Drug destroys the best of lives. Didn’t realize how much we had in common. I love your videos and love watching desi and his yoga gangster moves lol. I’m doing great and I’m happy.
You have taught us: openness, living, generosity, hopefulness, ambition for better in ourselves. Thank you!
Biggest life lesson: Do your best every day. Treat yourself with kindness. Live in Hope.
Susan, I sincerely and warmly thank you so much for opening up your heart and life to us. You are an inspiration! I’m sorry about your Arthiritis, I am struggling with a few physical issues myself at 65. I’ll have to think about my life lesson, thanks for making me even think about it. 💖
Dear beautiful soul. My husband was addicted to pain pills and did the same thing. I know you did everything such as I did. My husband died at 39. Left me with two children to raise. One with a birth defect. I had to down size. Raised my children, one is in his twenties now. I have beautiful grandchildren. It all worked out. I love your spirit so much. You inspire me.
Sometimes the darkest moments of our lives helps us rise above the ashes to realize our truest blessings. You are such an inspiration to us all.
Thankyou for sharing your story. It’s sad about Bill but you can only do so much. You are such a beautiful person. I am blessed to have found your Channel
Thank you so much for this beautiful message. Love and beloved 💞 you are a beautiful woman and soul.. Love & Light with Blessings 🙏 Namasté
I really enjoy each and every one of your videos. You are a beautiful, kind and gentle soul. I am 67 years old and have had more than my share of heartache but I have pulled myself through. I look forward to staying in touch with you and all of your wonderful viewers. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
One of the many many lessons in my 51 years is to choose my battles, that’s to seek peace and follow it.
Hi Susan, you are my HERO. I didn't know what happened to you. I am very proud of you my lady. I love your videos and you very much. God bless you and Desi. Enjoy your weekend and week.
Omg what a beautiful video. I waited all day for you to come on UA-cam. You brighten my day and give me confidence in life listening to you. You are so much like me and you are so wise in life. I cried as I watched your video from happiness. I loved all your answers and I could tell you was sincere. Thank you and UA-cam for putting sunshine in so many people's lives. Including mine.
Hello Bevan!! Nice to meet YOU!! I was going to comment, BUT u said everything & it was perfect!! I adore Susan & My lil Gangsta Desi, OMG LUV LUV LUV his ghost hat, LOL, KNOW he hates it!! Thank YOU kindly Dear BEAUTIFUL Sues& Des for blessing our lives each week!! God bless you and your family my sweet LOVEly friends!!!!🤗😇😗🙏🙏✌✌💘❤💖💞💟🐶🐕🕊🕊💐🌸💮🏵🌹🌺🌻⚘⚘ P.S. This video truly touched my HEART & soul deeply🤗
I’m 63, And the one thing I have learned that is important to me; I study God’s word & listen to him speak to my heart. That (for me) makes me a much better person & gives me peace, joy & love. The Best things in life are priceless.
Susan, since watching your channel I have made more efforts in decorating my home with old things
Thank you for being so candid and sharing personal details about yourself. You have my admiration and respect. ❤
Lovely video Susan. I laughed a little, cried a little, and as always you made me think hard. ❤
I remember my mother had a very good friend when I was a child and she was diagnosed with cancer. I didn't have a filter and could ask her anything about how she felt, if she would die, if she was angry, and she was very practical, saying everybody dies, yes I'm angry I had other plans, I feel sick and tired. I told her she was brave and she said, I have no choice in the matter. She said, once she realized this she relaxed and thought ok I'm on this road now, long or short I'm traveling down this scary unfamiliar road. She passed away five years later. She left me her leppard print coat and cigarette case, she was very stylish. Anyway you reminded me of her as I watched your video. Your little dog Desi is so sweet, what great company for you. Bye for now.
We need to do so much more for our veterans. I'm so sorry about Bill and how it affected your marriage. But God has a plan and you are a lovely and kind woman.