5 Ways To identify Toxic Friends

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
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  • @taisweetchilly
    @taisweetchilly 4 місяці тому +498

    Bros the black handsome squidward

  • @ewanwickward8587
    @ewanwickward8587 4 місяці тому +66

    Dang, this describes all of my friends... thanks, Black Psych2Go 🥰

  • @giornogiomama3029
    @giornogiomama3029 4 місяці тому +116

    damn you exposed all my classmates

  • @GhostboyEms420
    @GhostboyEms420 4 місяці тому +102

    Every school year theres a racist friend 😭 where you cant tell if they joking or not

    • @nocomment5001
      @nocomment5001 4 місяці тому +26

      Honestly I cant tell if I was joking either

    • @MagicMonkey96
      @MagicMonkey96 4 місяці тому +10

      Racist “friend” shit was never funny

    • @Ryeandr
      @Ryeandr 4 місяці тому +6

      It’s me

    • @moltenboss-v7e
      @moltenboss-v7e 3 місяці тому

      the racist shit is never funny ngl

    • @absolutelyunepic3072
      @absolutelyunepic3072 3 місяці тому +8

      I have friends who say racist stuff and words all the time. They are also some of the greatest people I know. One of my best friends will say something extremely edgy about black people then complain about how his dad is an ignorant idiot for saying he doesn't hire black people then next second.
      There are a lot of people who aren't actually racist but just don't subscribe to the ideology of doctoring their speech
      People who are actually racist and stupid though are pretty annoying to be around sometimes though.

  • @silentagony1019
    @silentagony1019 4 місяці тому +30

    Nah having a friend group where everyone just mutually appreciates each other’s company is a W. I’m thankful to have that friend group since high school but the friend group I met in college was way worse. Every person I met in college was not a good experience so I had to cut those “friends” out of the picture. The friends you knew the longest are always the realest ones you’ll know.

  • @urnix69
    @urnix69 4 місяці тому +64

    I had to deal with incredibly toxic friends last year and I swear, each sign you mentioned gave me flashbacks to how they treated me.
    I'm glad I understand a lot more about toxic friends and the early signs when something is wrong.

    • @SPARKYSTHOTS
      @SPARKYSTHOTS  4 місяці тому +8

      Happy to be able to help and relate. It can only get better once you're aware.

    • @Valllcorrr
      @Valllcorrr 4 місяці тому

      Aye man, The only way to go from the bottom is UP

  • @BabyDigi
    @BabyDigi 4 місяці тому +50

    4:51 bruh they do this and then get mad when u return the energy when they got good news ..! I had friends like this omfg 😭😭😭😭

  • @RufioTheThird
    @RufioTheThird 4 місяці тому +23

    Thank you for actually talking about all this bullshit.
    Make more of this, please. This was a nice watch

  • @Dogemin
    @Dogemin 4 місяці тому +11

    After looking at this video I honestly don't even think i actually have friends or toxic friends, because the interactions i have to them are so shallow if i don't speak or do anything funny with them them they just forget about me 💀
    It all feels just so superficial

  • @KingofNewYorkkk
    @KingofNewYorkkk 2 місяці тому +1

    The humor had me dying😅
    Very relatable
    Dealing with toxic friends is a soul-sucking experience. Emotional vampires that just take not give. Gotta be wary who you let in your life or else you’ll be dealing with individuals who have more red flags than China!

  • @crownedshyness9656
    @crownedshyness9656 4 місяці тому +13

    I cut 1 friend out of my life to stop walking on eggshells with her. She couldn’t deal with the fact that I didn’t care about current polictial issues.

  • @Valllcorrr
    @Valllcorrr 4 місяці тому +17

    New era of Sparky, hopefully new upload schedule 😭🙏

  • @mdxiv6453
    @mdxiv6453 4 місяці тому +21

    I have two "friends", they both rarely text me, and they both never react to anything i post on social media regardless of what it is, a meme, a workout pic, a quote, a drawing, nor do they ever ask me about it or at least compliment it irl (one of them relies heavily on me for test answers), so I'm i right to think of them as toxic because i interpreted this as fake friendship and intense jealousy, because they're always online and see what i post?

    • @Mattt5
      @Mattt5 4 місяці тому +2

      No, keep it irl. Don't interpret their behavior online. Imagine if someone did that to you, they could easily misinterpret and get the wrong idea. To be completely real, it's "fake" behavior to go to a youtube comment section first befofe even asking them why in person.

    • @mdxiv6453
      @mdxiv6453 4 місяці тому +3

      @@Mattt5 tbh I thought it would be awkward to ask "why don't you interact..." And I believe that social media still can reflect the nature of people

    • @OTOOO.MASHI_YUNAAII38n2
      @OTOOO.MASHI_YUNAAII38n2 2 місяці тому

      ​@@mdxiv6453​ YESSSS MAIII AUNT DOESS THGATTT TO ME ALL THE TIME AND ITS SOOO ANNOYING QMQQQQ
      Tho I get cha man-6-- in those similar situations Ive had,, they're either shy, busy, or both,, tho ive thought about it with onna my close friends too since theyre super reserved IRL too unless yall talk to them A LOT and im someone whos often scared to be open cause i might be judged xDD

  • @nikson3720
    @nikson3720 3 місяці тому +7

    Terrible friendships have fucked me up so much, i got damn trust issues. Especially if they don't respect you as a human being...

    • @GlueEater9
      @GlueEater9 3 місяці тому +2

      it's even worse when you get angry at them for what they do and all of a sudden they act like they're the victim

    • @nikson3720
      @nikson3720 Місяць тому

      @@GlueEater9 ffs this hits me in a very wrong spot. to make it worse, you tell the issue to your other friends and they blame you too for being mad, angry, disdained.

    • @vampynocturne
      @vampynocturne 12 днів тому +1

      @@GlueEater9exactly. I mentioned to my ex best friend that I have anger issues, but she kept egging me on and then acts shocked when I want to leave this ‘friendship.’ Those type of people are genuinely draining to interact with😭

  • @mrtrollnator123
    @mrtrollnator123 4 місяці тому +5

    Maybe in your friend group, you coukd be the toxic friend so its important to have self awareness and correct your mistakes

  • @CapnPassion95
    @CapnPassion95 4 місяці тому +37

    how tf does zestiness have anything to do with toxicity 😭

    • @GonGit18
      @GonGit18 3 місяці тому +1

      It has a green text in the thumbnail meaning that it's not toxic

    • @CapnPassion95
      @CapnPassion95 3 місяці тому +1

      @@GonGit18 but why would he even include that??

    • @GonGit18
      @GonGit18 3 місяці тому +3

      @@CapnPassion95 idk cause its a joke

    • @smelly1060
      @smelly1060 Місяць тому

      ​@@CapnPassion95bait, he got me too bro😂

  • @shadxwszn3
    @shadxwszn3 4 місяці тому +17

    Is just me or he looks King Von😭

    • @SPARKYSTHOTS
      @SPARKYSTHOTS  4 місяці тому +13

      Its been a while since I heard that one

  • @amaxfilmprudoctions4800
    @amaxfilmprudoctions4800 4 місяці тому +5

    8:18Just so you know your not the only one who fells like that because I used to have a friend that would cut me off whenever I was talking and it was so annoying

  • @DBO23speaks
    @DBO23speaks 28 днів тому

    yooo really thoughtful video bro,
    Also a good friend is someone who can sacrifice for you or do things they dont necessarily want to cause they wanna see you in a jolly ah mood

  • @sylersimmons6221
    @sylersimmons6221 4 місяці тому +3

    I definitely like this form of video. Although it prob won't get as many views as your previous videos did I think you can build your channel up with dedication. This feels more down to earth and is just you. I really love it. Keep up the good work man

  • @XTortion-y1v
    @XTortion-y1v 2 місяці тому +2

    should i end the friendship and forget his existence?

  • @BabyDigi
    @BabyDigi 4 місяці тому +6

    Sparky ily🤸🏾‍♀️💜

  • @applespies6923
    @applespies6923 4 місяці тому +2

    Dam, bro’s videos getting more and more fire.🔥

  • @ZenithintheMaking
    @ZenithintheMaking 4 місяці тому +5

    Damn bro you could get it.

    • @jayshgirl
      @jayshgirl 4 місяці тому +1

      Ayooooo

    • @ZenithintheMaking
      @ZenithintheMaking 4 місяці тому

      @@jayshgirl Am I wrong tho?

    • @Snowy_Fawn
      @Snowy_Fawn 4 місяці тому

      U aint wrong😭🙏🙏

    • @mrpickles-hb6zx
      @mrpickles-hb6zx 3 місяці тому

      I'd feel uncomfortable reading this if I were him, do you think twice before typing?

    • @ZenithintheMaking
      @ZenithintheMaking 3 місяці тому

      @@mrpickles-hb6zx yea besides I'm saying he could get it if you wants it😂 I meant it in the light of a compliment

  • @LL4LIFE4021
    @LL4LIFE4021 3 місяці тому

    So good to see you again Sparky. You've turned into such a thoughtful and nice young man. Keep up the good work. Grandma loves you

  • @Snowy_Fawn
    @Snowy_Fawn 4 місяці тому +2

    Why do i feel like bros tryna rizz me up the whole video😭🙏🙏🙏

  • @Labo.43
    @Labo.43 4 місяці тому +1

    "i will edit correctly as needed"
    Proceeds to upload it raw... 😂❤

  • @Hunt9916
    @Hunt9916 3 місяці тому +1

    The only thing I have in common with my friends are video games and I fucked up one ranked game and now they won’t let me play with them anymore. When I join vc nobody talks about anything but the game, I’m so cooked I’m glad it’s summertime

  • @dillwavis
    @dillwavis 4 місяці тому +2

    holy shit dude your features are immaculate

  • @athenz7873
    @athenz7873 4 місяці тому

    Timing couldn’t have been more perfect with this video

  • @kingraf1854
    @kingraf1854 4 місяці тому +1

    Sparky uploaded hell yeah gonna be a great day

  • @connorking1386
    @connorking1386 4 місяці тому

    Hey Sparky, I’m glad your channel is growing, I love your content, and I liked your videos even more when you had the hilarious images that match the audio.

  • @JakubH339
    @JakubH339 2 місяці тому

    Great video as always
    Cheers

  • @Radio-Crab
    @Radio-Crab 3 місяці тому

    I definitely have a problem with being attentive to what my friends say. I usually chalk that up to me being half deaf though.

  • @spacemankey
    @spacemankey 3 місяці тому

    Keep grinding! Love the videos man

  • @CaleebDWD
    @CaleebDWD 4 місяці тому +6

    Fcae Reveal?!?!

  • @degagecrayon982
    @degagecrayon982 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m a little toxic but it’s mainly to shitty people, like I’ll say small rude things to my friends like “fuck you” or some stuff like that, but I’ll talk shit abt a dude to his face, I don’t go behind their backs nothin, I’m a confrontational person and I try my best to make sure people don’t end up toxic because I used to be toxic

    • @mrpickles-hb6zx
      @mrpickles-hb6zx 3 місяці тому

      I'm both un-confrontational and say whatever I want, people just hate for no reason

  • @bananacrayon87
    @bananacrayon87 4 місяці тому +2

    i love taxes!

  • @KishlaySingh-s8x
    @KishlaySingh-s8x День тому

    goddamn i just realized that i am the toxic friend.

  • @domantas8185
    @domantas8185 4 місяці тому +1

    mfw I realise all of these signs perfectly apply to me, well fuck

  • @JoesSmirkingRevenge
    @JoesSmirkingRevenge 4 місяці тому

    Dropping videos when you least expect but its most needed

  • @Rube_14k
    @Rube_14k 4 місяці тому

    A new era has begin

  • @Beamna-ex9hh
    @Beamna-ex9hh 4 місяці тому +1

    this is how i expected he looked like

    • @Mr.Mercedez
      @Mr.Mercedez 4 місяці тому +1

      I feel like bro is trying to rizz me up the whole video

  • @bekeanu4163
    @bekeanu4163 4 місяці тому +1

    mhm. that way

  • @sephariath3185
    @sephariath3185 4 місяці тому

    I've just recently had a bunch of friends being kicked out of my friend group I need to look out for this since I'm about to head to high school. I don't want to end up in high school with trust issues.

    • @cordova2593
      @cordova2593 4 місяці тому

      Don’t even worry about high school or keeping friends from middle school, just be friends with people who want to be friends with you, participate in clubs or sports and enjoy it. The amount of shit that changes throughout high school is insane so dont be stuck tryna please people who don’t rock with you

  • @O.H306
    @O.H306 3 місяці тому +2

    He actually looks like his pfp

  • @colbyfroude2941
    @colbyfroude2941 4 місяці тому +2

    Damn I didn’t know you had a human form

  • @YeDoubleGo
    @YeDoubleGo 3 місяці тому

    Everybody got that one zesty friend in their group 😂

  • @Iii1ii
    @Iii1ii Місяць тому

    Boy gimme the chapters

  • @XtraFactor
    @XtraFactor 4 місяці тому +5

    Am I the toxic friend?

    • @LittyMinnie143
      @LittyMinnie143 3 місяці тому +1

      Are u categorized in 1 or more of the video’s scenarios????

  • @MythiliKulothungan-p2r
    @MythiliKulothungan-p2r 3 місяці тому

    Among three of us...a frnd who sits beside me told that she has no content to talk with me...She avoids but when I ask her she reacts like nthg happened

  • @rikutheguru4674
    @rikutheguru4674 3 місяці тому

    About to start calling out ppl for #4. 😏

  • @wiebelvr8008
    @wiebelvr8008 3 місяці тому +1

    Cmon we all act a lil bit zesty sometimes.... Right?

  • @jaylenbarnes2.079
    @jaylenbarnes2.079 4 місяці тому

    Great Video

  • @Xynocam
    @Xynocam 4 місяці тому +1

    now make a video on how to make friends so i can identify them pls

  • @AromaticTea.
    @AromaticTea. 4 місяці тому

    yuletide ranger ahh appearance

  • @madchillmandem
    @madchillmandem 3 місяці тому

    Lowkey I’m that kind of friend but I try to be nice

  • @Piiiiiiiiit
    @Piiiiiiiiit 4 місяці тому

    Unfortunately my whole friendgroup is zesty, because i too, am zesty😔

  • @ga0937
    @ga0937 3 місяці тому

    Bro actually looks like his pfp🔥

  • @arthur_agatapa9418
    @arthur_agatapa9418 4 місяці тому

    actual great video for teens! ngl i wish i had that a bit earlier

  • @Exclusivesadblues
    @Exclusivesadblues 4 місяці тому +3

    Does this include siblings and family members too?

  • @samlosophy5894
    @samlosophy5894 4 місяці тому +4

    Yo

  • @MollyTakesMolly
    @MollyTakesMolly 4 місяці тому +1

    You should be a model

  • @mrpickles-hb6zx
    @mrpickles-hb6zx 3 місяці тому

    I just realized you look exactly like your pfp, just lighter

  • @The_Fat_Wads
    @The_Fat_Wads 4 місяці тому

    W vid man

  • @madchillmandem
    @madchillmandem 3 місяці тому

    I am one of those 4 friends in the beginning of the video

  • @TshegofatsoMhlanga-w1z
    @TshegofatsoMhlanga-w1z 5 днів тому

    Damn 😮😮ur handsome

  • @Wood_969
    @Wood_969 3 місяці тому

    Cool

  • @africandude
    @africandude 4 місяці тому +1

    W

  • @NoahsLore
    @NoahsLore 3 місяці тому

    Yo, is your shutter speed low or am I just lagging?

  • @M4RIIIIIII
    @M4RIIIIIII 2 місяці тому

    U look like hardrock bruh

  • @Greenyguy
    @Greenyguy 4 місяці тому

    interesting

  • @gameingdude2266
    @gameingdude2266 4 місяці тому

    The discord link won’t work

  • @Goku_blackfan1553
    @Goku_blackfan1553 3 місяці тому

    Gay black wojak profile picture

  • @Nilinili-i2y
    @Nilinili-i2y 4 місяці тому

    :)

  • @caleblebaron1179
    @caleblebaron1179 4 місяці тому +2

    no offence but please never show your face, not calling you ugly i just like the images better

  • @arayangodfrey1971
    @arayangodfrey1971 4 місяці тому +3

    Sparkythots 🤝 TommyNFG

  • @beamangel3497
    @beamangel3497 3 місяці тому +1

    I will be so interested in hearing your red flags on women and men... Please 🥲