Thanks for sharing. I always noticed in the daily vlogs that he barely let you get a word in edgewise in your conversations while the camera was on. You are a sweetheart.
Hang in there, you should be excited for new beginnings. The house is just a house. Your possessions are just stuff. What's more important are memories and experiences and having digital pictures and videos to remind you of those times. I thought I could never part ways with my physical highschool yearbooks, but know have them scanned and saved in digital format. Now I don't have to worry about storing them. Take a picture and move on. I understand that things you've held onto for a long time gives you a feeling of comfort and security. But really, it's just stuff and what's more important are the memories.
Wow, Matthew they say every side has 2 stories and I'm glad you shared your side. I'm sorry for what you are going thru, but it sounds like the best decision to move on separately. Once a cheater always a cheater. Trust is gone. Hoping the rest of 2017 is great for you. Chin up, Better days ahead.
Suzanne L I know. but I loved him and kept the hope that he would snap out of it and come back to the Kelvin we know. That hope os now destroyed. His parents have been affected to and were giving up. They have been doing what they can to help keep the peace and not end in a disaster.
I know. That was why I finally decided to speak out and get the truth out there. I know there is better out there and just have to be patient and things will develop and get better. Once house sells and everyone gone their own way, I am sure things will get better. Just takes time.
thanks for sharing your side of the story. Kelvin did mention a couple months ago you would come home after midnight. I always thought most of your martial problems stemmed from you being unemployed right after the vacation. You mentioned how hard it was.
well it's not your fault, Kelvin's actions are his own. Matthew said they attempted consulting. I've learned when someone wants to go, there is no stopping them. not reason no nothing will stop them
You have hopefulness and you're strong like you said which is great looking forward. I'm single and yet even in that circumstance I don't even really step back and assess where I'm headed or even where I want to go in life...Indeed, often it seems like a muddling through...You have clarity and can and must check out new possibilities on all fronts of your life now.
Thanks for sharing. I always noticed in the daily vlogs that he barely let you get a word in edgewise in your conversations while the camera was on. You are a sweetheart.
Hang in there, you should be excited for new beginnings. The house is just a house. Your possessions are just stuff. What's more important are memories and experiences and having digital pictures and videos to remind you of those times. I thought I could never part ways with my physical highschool yearbooks, but know have them scanned and saved in digital format. Now I don't have to worry about storing them. Take a picture and move on.
I understand that things you've held onto for a long time gives you a feeling of comfort and security. But really, it's just stuff and what's more important are the memories.
Wow, Matthew they say every side has 2 stories and I'm glad you shared your side. I'm sorry for what you are going thru, but it sounds like the best decision to move on separately. Once a cheater always a cheater. Trust is gone. Hoping the rest of 2017 is great for you. Chin up, Better days ahead.
Suzanne L I know. but I loved him and kept the hope that he would snap out of it and come back to the Kelvin we know. That hope os now destroyed. His parents have been affected to and were giving up. They have been doing what they can to help keep the peace and not end in a disaster.
I am praying for your Heart, Body and Spirit Matthew. I am glad you haven't given up on love.. : )
WOW! You should have told your side of the story long time ago. All these people think you're a bad guy when you're not. Wish you all the best!
I know. That was why I finally decided to speak out and get the truth out there. I know there is better out there and just have to be patient and things will develop and get better. Once house sells and everyone gone their own way, I am sure things will get better. Just takes time.
thanks for sharing your side of the story. Kelvin did mention a couple months ago you would come home after midnight. I always thought most of your martial problems stemmed from you being unemployed right after the vacation. You mentioned how hard it was.
vanskizzy That day I came home late was after we separated. I needed to get out of the house and went to a friends for comfort and support.
As I said below, I did NOT delete anything of the conversation.
well it's not your fault, Kelvin's actions are his own. Matthew said they attempted consulting. I've learned when someone wants to go, there is no stopping them. not reason no nothing will stop them
BICYCLING AUNTIE it's easy to turn off notifications
Joanna Dyndor you claim you didn't push Kevin into destroying the relationship, then Matthew who did?
You have hopefulness and you're strong like you said which is great looking forward. I'm single and yet even in that circumstance I don't even really step back and assess where I'm headed or even where I want to go in life...Indeed, often it seems like a muddling through...You have clarity and can and must check out new possibilities on all fronts of your life now.