APPEAL RESULTS! He said WHAT about the JUDGE!? | What Happened To DissociaDID

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  • Please don't donate to our fundraiser for legal costs for now until we decide whether we want to pursue damages for Costa's unlawful Interference in our business or not! Thank you so much to everyone who has donated and shared in the past!
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  • @Crowley99718
    @Crowley99718 Рік тому +3194

    Throughout this whole case, I keep thinking "What a sad and pathetic little man child." Just because you rejected him and set boundaries, he tried to make your life miserable.

    • @limonlx7182
      @limonlx7182 Рік тому +188

      Exactly! He could be doing so much with his time..
      Imagine dedicating hours of your time to trying to ruin someone's life for such a petty reason.. and fail at that as well.

    • @alysmarcus7747
      @alysmarcus7747 Рік тому +17

      that's exactly it

    • @oxymoronchick7
      @oxymoronchick7 Рік тому +12

      ROFL my thoughts exactly

    • @frecklesrcute78
      @frecklesrcute78 Рік тому +10

      Exactly

    • @bethanyredd2948
      @bethanyredd2948 Рік тому +19

      That’s what abusers do.

  • @JessiViper
    @JessiViper Рік тому +964

    I would normally say let it drop, but I think he *needs* that final nail in his coffin. He needs to understand he can't get away with such control, manipulation, gas lighting, abuse, and then legal abuse. None of it is okay. Take him down.

    • @lumi33tv
      @lumi33tv Рік тому +30

      Yaaaa take him down

    • @karmica7591
      @karmica7591 Рік тому +11

      I agree so much. If they want and can, then they should do it.

    • @krisu3840
      @krisu3840 Рік тому +7

      Yeah this guy needs to see that his actions has consequences

    • @Daffodillon
      @Daffodillon Рік тому +4

      This exactly

    • @peachdreams
      @peachdreams Рік тому +7

      Yes, because the world needs to know what happens to abusers who try to hurt people - that there is consequences for legal abuse & tortious interference. Because so many who follow DissociaDID are on healing journeys, Kya & Co's content is educational & the community they have built many are trauma survivors.. Many were not able to access her helpful videos, this abuser negatively impacted multiple lives. It's not okay, and I agree he should face the consequences of such vile behaviour.

  • @alihawkins8264
    @alihawkins8264 Рік тому +1429

    You can tell this man cannot fathom a world where he is wrong, hope he finally had a reality check

    • @TeddieSage1987
      @TeddieSage1987 Рік тому +82

      Just read his tweets. You'll see that he's still in denial. He really is planning to waste everyone's time.

    • @JustAnotherPerson3
      @JustAnotherPerson3 Рік тому +4

      I can't fathom that I'm wrong either, that doesn't make me a bad man! Oh... Wait a sec... xD

    • @freidenkerin5198
      @freidenkerin5198 Рік тому +12

      It's quite seldom that narcissists actually open their eyes to the fact that they aren't infallible. Wouldn't waste my time to wait for that to happen. The best one can do is to show him indifference and boredom because they live from other peoples emotions and will then finally look for another victim.
      It's also very telling that he planned how to gain control right from the beginning. That was the sole purpose of becoming involved in DissociaDIDs business.

  • @justanotheranimator637
    @justanotheranimator637 Рік тому +768

    “His claim has ended with a whimper” what a badass line omg!!! I’m so proud of you guys!!!!!!!!!

    • @Larry_Stylinson
      @Larry_Stylinson Рік тому +26

      Yeah. I immediately wondered if Ruby or maybe Jade was close to the front. I wouldn't be surprised if that's the case. 😅
      Either way, I'm proud of them and their legal team. This was hard work and took a ton of effort. Whatever decision they will make it'll be the right one for them and I'm sure the community will keep supporting them. 😊

    • @MellowJelly
      @MellowJelly Рік тому +9

      a very estute and bookish reference to the ending of TS eliot's poem "the hollow men" which also references the novel heart of darkness!

    • @kalkidanhailu8563
      @kalkidanhailu8563 Рік тому

      ​@@Larry_Stylinson u guys really believe she is not playing

    • @Larry_Stylinson
      @Larry_Stylinson Рік тому +9

      @@kalkidanhailu8563 Considering the fact that they are literally diagnosed twice with DID by professionals - yes, I believe their diagnosis by a DID expert that's well established in his field.
      One can tell the clear differences in personalities and influences of different personalities and how it affects their body if one pays close enough attention. They only share a fraction of their life online though, so one sees only a very small and edited portion of their life that doesn't reflect all switches, etc. that happen during a day.
      They also have been in therapy for a really long time, so they obviously won't present in the same way an unaware system or an unaware host would or like a system that hasn't established (a good amount of) communication yet and that understands how their disorder looks like for them, etc...

    • @sparklight0964
      @sparklight0964 Рік тому +3

      @@kalkidanhailu8563 Does ignoring and pretending disorders you don’t understand don’t exist make you feel smart? DID is real you can learn or shut it

  • @iriesesinbloom29
    @iriesesinbloom29 Рік тому +1429

    Well done, loves. Even with all the obstacles he threw at you, this is a HUGE win. You will win the war. You've fought bravely. Well Well done. We're so proud of you!

  • @daivaperic4934
    @daivaperic4934 Рік тому +806

    That man's ego is seriously insane. I'm glad he gets nothing. He deserves even less.

    • @Amyjwashere
      @Amyjwashere Рік тому +50

      He deserves jail time for harassment along all lines

    • @Ashandonyx
      @Ashandonyx Рік тому +3

      Absolutely.

    • @BananaBreadLike
      @BananaBreadLike Рік тому +8

      This is what makes me worried he might enjoy the attention he gets on these types of videos

  • @m-jud1701
    @m-jud1701 Рік тому +843

    One thing baffles me : the court didn’t order him to pay your legal fees back ?
    It seems easy to sue someone, and have them loose tens of thousands even if they win.

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +314

      Yeah, its a bit frightening honestly

    • @peachdreams
      @peachdreams Рік тому +71

      This should be all the reason to pursue damages for his tortious interference :o People need to see this behaviour (legal abuse & harassment) is not okay.

    • @Snoogen11
      @Snoogen11 Рік тому +36

      Welcome to the "Justice" system. Unfortunately, the "system" is mandatory, and the "justice" is optional.

    • @sanjilone7278
      @sanjilone7278 Рік тому

      an infuriating system that favors the wealthy

    • @johnjohnson798
      @johnjohnson798 Рік тому +7

      It's not "justice", it's "criminal justice".

  • @shouldbewritig
    @shouldbewritig Рік тому +491

    While UA-camrs constantly clown on incels, this really was a worst case scenario of what they can do to someone on the internet. The fact that he dragged you through 3+ years of legal cases and put together enough of a case that it took this long is absolutely insane. I’m so glad that there’s finally starting to be a light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @thephamilybusiness9485
    @thephamilybusiness9485 Рік тому +582

    My face hurts from smiling so much. This is such fantastic news and we are so proud of you.

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +92

      Thank you, we couldn't have got here without you!

  • @meba444
    @meba444 Рік тому +516

    So happy for you all!! If you want to sue him back, we’ll be here for you!!

  • @namidakoh1027
    @namidakoh1027 Рік тому +252

    Justice prevails!!!!!! Omg how I am jumping for joy that this bully is backing off. His mental health is definitely messed up, he needs mental health since the BEGINNING. Such a shame of the torture he put DissociateDID through.

  • @cheetahtfk7274
    @cheetahtfk7274 Рік тому +36

    The pure narcissism of this man is mind boggling. He thinks he knows more than his many lawyers and even the judge. I just can't help but shake my head at how utterly pathetic this man child is.

  • @banANNA713
    @banANNA713 Рік тому +466

    I was not in a financial position to donate anything to the crowd fund for your lawyer, but I am so happy to hear that so many others were able to contribute. I am happy for your system that this no longer has to be a source of stress and trauma. I think we al knew that Mr. Costa had no ground to stand on!

    • @nhazex3
      @nhazex3 Рік тому +15

      Literally same! The best I could do was share the link with others. SO HAPPY FOR THEM!

  • @qiyue8156
    @qiyue8156 Рік тому +199

    Gosh this guy must have miserable life if he put so much effort into this whole case, case of someone he did not even meet. I am glad and proud of you for staying strong!

  • @cori_music
    @cori_music Рік тому +150

    He was so desperate to meet you, to be with you, and when he was told no, he threw a temper tantrum that put more stress on you. Dragging you and lawyers into court (I’m betting 95% of it was so he could be in the same room as you, because psychotic individuals like him do that sort of thing when they’re sickly obsessed) all to be told “You get nothing from this.”
    Kya and Co. this is a MASSIVE win for you all. And while yes, more could develop, you still won. Costa is finished with this!

    • @SillyConure
      @SillyConure Рік тому +20

      He's not psychotic, he's just evil and egocentric. People with psychosis are not evil.

    • @cori_music
      @cori_music Рік тому

      @@SillyConure I was using psychotic as an adjective/synonym for evil. Cause no normal human being does that, in fact he’s borderline NARCISSISTIC

  • @haelrc8415
    @haelrc8415 Рік тому +98

    Frankly, I'm starting to think he can't let this court case go because it would mean that his relationship with you all is finally over. He's obsessed and he can't handle the idea of being without you. I'm so proud of you all for meeting every one of his attacks against you even though I'm sure it's been exhausting and I'm so glad it's finally over.
    I'd recommend saying you want no further contact with the guy or you'll pursue everything you can get on him including interference in business, harassment, intimidation, contempt, defamation, perjury, and whatever else you can get him on. Either he sits down and shuts up or you ruin him

    • @ShikisaiMaki
      @ShikisaiMaki Рік тому +13

      This is exactly what I've been thinking too! So creepy. I hope he gives up and uses his money to get help.

    • @benbaker2965
      @benbaker2965 Рік тому +10

      One difficulty for Kya and Co is that they live in England and Costa is in Portugal. The UK court issued a no contact decree but really have no jurisdiction over a Portugal resident .

    • @cc_snipergirl
      @cc_snipergirl Рік тому +10

      Problem is that he has significantly more resources than she does. Ruining her was his strategy, and dragging it out even more is far more likely to hurt her than it is to hurt him.

  • @sereneprincess4940
    @sereneprincess4940 Рік тому +159

    Sometimes... not often, but sometimes... after years of being forced to suffer in silence... We finally use our voice, and the bullies don’t get the win.
    Kya, Mike, Whisper, and everyone else that I don’t have your names at my fingertips currently: I’m so proud of all of ya’ll. You won. You did it. You stood up to the monster & gave him the biggest two-finger salute. No matter what else happens, no matter if you decide to pursue it further... You. Won.
    Bravo 💙

  • @ice-us8ji
    @ice-us8ji Рік тому +31

    “After years of litigation, his claim has ended… with a whimper 🤭”

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +11

      Had to cut out a part after that because I started laughing 😅

    • @ice-us8ji
      @ice-us8ji Рік тому

      @@DissociaDID Lol! It was perfectly executed.

  • @staceygrahame2504
    @staceygrahame2504 Рік тому +179

    This isn’t just a win for you, this is a win for everyone who creates content! When YT wouldn’t support you, the LAW did. I hope YT are also compensating you for their part in the losses you made and all the time lost and emotional trauma from deleting your videos.
    You stood by your truth and you found the most incredible strength in order to face this monster head on. You are one of the most amazing human beings. Your determination is inspiring and I hope that from now on, the universe has nothing but wonderful things in store for you - for all of you. Because you really deserve it. For everything you’ve been through and everything you stand for and advocate, you deserve everything that is good in the world.
    A sad, abusive little man tried to take horrible advantage of you. And YOU turned that around to end up being actually STRONGER for the experience. He wasn’t able to take anything from you in the end, because you used his trauma inciting behaviour to become the most badass you, you have experienced to date. You are a mighty force to be reckoned with.
    I love you all. Thank you for allowing us to follow your story, even the most vulnerable parts. Thank you for showing us that bringing the abuser to justice, is possible. No matter how far fetched that seems.
    I cannot WAIT to see what you do next. You’re a superhero! And your super-power is your truth. ❤❤
    Sending you so much love xxx

    • @cc_snipergirl
      @cc_snipergirl Рік тому +4

      A small part of me wishes the win was in an American court to set a precedent in the jurisdiction that UA-cam lives. But I know the outcome would have probably been much different and much harder. Super happy for their win ^.^

  • @HamSammye
    @HamSammye Рік тому +67

    Heads up for those reading! Don’t even interact with him on Twitter he’s very much set in his “it’s all lies I’m the victim” mindset. Not worth it at all.

  • @pedroprimor9654
    @pedroprimor9654 Рік тому +60

    Just realised that this dude is Portuguese, please don't let the actions of this individual tarnish your image of Portugal and congrats on a well deserved victory.

    • @eversystemm
      @eversystemm Рік тому

      I'm sure this man doesn't friend, no worries

  • @darinalvarez1848
    @darinalvarez1848 Рік тому +160

    I would say your court costs were paid for by your loving family. You built a community like a family that takes care of each other

    • @ciara4087
      @ciara4087 Рік тому +8

      What a beautiful way of putting it, I completely agree ❤

    • @eversystemm
      @eversystemm Рік тому +4

      This was so cute :') -Ben & J

  • @jleitch6693
    @jleitch6693 Рік тому +33

    We of the Chaotic System are proud of you all and thank you all for being such an inspiration to us. You all rock 🤘

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +7

      Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @givemeprimelaughter
    @givemeprimelaughter Рік тому +118

    The way I shouted when you said it was done! I am sooo happy for you all. I know there may be more but this is a HUGE step in the right direction and worth a celebration. Sending you all my excited and happy vibes !!

  • @ThePolarisSystem
    @ThePolarisSystem Рік тому +129

    I’m so happy for you. I’m glad he’s finally getting what he deserves!

  • @GodzHarleyGirlStudio
    @GodzHarleyGirlStudio Рік тому +77

    The insanity of the “person” is absolutely astounding and completely unacceptable, inexcusable, frightening, exhausting, and I could go on for y’all. Keep going and keep doing what you’ll need to do to keep safe and protect your system. I’m sorry this all has happened and is still happening. May God bless y’all and keep ya safe. Hugz, Tree

  • @arti_smirnoff6220
    @arti_smirnoff6220 Рік тому +177

    00:35 - Backstory
    03:16 - Initial Ruling Results
    03:53 - Appeals
    04:11 - Appeals Results
    04:24 - Tweets Part 1
    05:21 - Lord Justice Arnold
    07:14 - Tweets Part 2
    08:12 - Harassment cost & TOS
    09:53 - Supreme Court & More
    10:41 - Next Proceedings

  • @Angelika5378
    @Angelika5378 Рік тому +52

    Do it! Do the counterclaim you deserve it and are entitled to it.
    Also please give us another make up tutorial for the pink eye look❤

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +16

      We did that makeup on livestream, you can watch it on the channel under our livestreams! ❤️❤️

  • @crichards037
    @crichards037 Рік тому +57

    Your smile at the end says it all - I can see the relief and joy in your eyes! I am so proud of you all, love you tons, and am thrilled that the moron finally backed down and admitted the defeat he deserves for putting you through all of this. So much love from the US! ❤

  • @birichinaxox9937
    @birichinaxox9937 Рік тому +119

    You are amazing. This situation is horrible. Your ability to defend and advocate for yourself for so long is so inspiring.

  • @DivaHill12
    @DivaHill12 Рік тому +54

    I am chuffed to bits that this portion is over. He is a vindictive, small person who needs slither back under his rock. I'm so proud of the fight you all gave him. Congratulations!

  • @melcollective1149
    @melcollective1149 Рік тому +22

    He’s disgusting. Karma will get him! Keep your head up Kya and the rest of the system. Y’all are amazing!

  • @stillpixel9233
    @stillpixel9233 Рік тому +179

    I'm so sorry you guys had to deal with this. None of you deserved it. I'm glad it's over for you guys now, I wish you all nothing but the best

  • @curlyemmm1232
    @curlyemmm1232 Рік тому +33

    Congrats congrats congrats!! I’m so happy for you guys! I will say though that letter he sent was a true testament to how delusional he was. I truly believe he thought you guys were in some deep relationship, as if being there for someone means that they owe you their love. Disgusting, and it makes the fact that he went down with a whimper all the more embarrassing.

  • @alicerobinson8779
    @alicerobinson8779 Рік тому +30

    You all must be beyond proud. You have been so strong and fierce with your fight for justice. Congratulations on your win but also for never giving up, I’m beyond happy for you!

  • @nightfurynova1217
    @nightfurynova1217 Рік тому +41

    I legit started crying - or tearing up at least lol - when you said, "Please DON'T donate to our fundraiser". I am so beyond grateful that things are looking up, and I'm so happy for you guys!! Lots of love to you all, you're some of the strongest and most enduring people I have ever seen or heard about.
    Thank you for all the work you do!

  • @bonesand4ll
    @bonesand4ll Рік тому +33

    as a portuguese fan... we do not claim him!!!
    jokes aside, i am so happy for you all. you deserve to be free from this after so much stress.

  • @axolotlboi13
    @axolotlboi13 Рік тому +45

    I believe in you all! Stay strong and keep pushing until you get what you deserve! Go go go!

  • @AbiSaysThings
    @AbiSaysThings Рік тому +17

    It's scary that someone can do this. It's easy to imagine a situation where someone is less able to fight this and has basically lost the moment legal action is taken. You've done amazingly, but nobody should ever even have to be in this situation.

    • @razzledazzledorito6552
      @razzledazzledorito6552 Рік тому +1

      Now that you mention that, that is pretty terrifying. I hope Costa does not dig his claws into any other unsuspecting people. Especially women since it seems that’s what he’s looking for essentially.

  • @love-me-dead
    @love-me-dead Рік тому +31

    I'm tearing up at my work desk because I've been waiting for this to finally come to an end. Your system means a lot to our system. It broke us when your videos were removed. I'm so thankful you have your content back. You all helped us through a lot of trauma and have been a huge source of comfort for many of our headmates, including myself. You helped me, the host, realize that there is nothing to be ashamed of to be part of a system. Thank you for the continuous inspiration. SENDING LOTS OF LOVE!!

  • @AmbushedSunny
    @AmbushedSunny Рік тому +16

    Barely half-way through the video and DAYUM. Having an a-list judge on your side makes me have hope that this shit will be done by this year I hope. Good luck!!!

  • @maggiefreeman8419
    @maggiefreeman8419 Рік тому +51

    So happy this is finally, maybe, hopefully, coming to an end! What a nightmare it seemed like! He’s so messed up for putting you through all of that. So happy for you! ❤️

  • @iris__and_rhizomes
    @iris__and_rhizomes Рік тому +48

    I'm extremely proud of you. Extremely. I have polyfragmented DID and I'm painfully aware of how much this must have personally cost you. Mr. Costa is obviously a psychopath. Those people are a danger to all of society. You have stood up to evil, and we are all safer for it. Brava!

  • @ojazzyone6812
    @ojazzyone6812 Рік тому +22

    I’ve never even seen this guy, and he makes my head hurt. Can’t imagine what it was like for you. But hey, It’s almost done! And thanks to y’all who donated, too! Congratulations, DissociaDID! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @thedestinysystem
    @thedestinysystem Рік тому +64

    We’re so happy for all of you! Wishing you all the best for the future.
    - Alice

  • @weronikalinda4917
    @weronikalinda4917 Рік тому +40

    Even though from the very beginning I knew this was the only fair rulling a judge could've made, I'm still so relieved and happy for you guys! 🥰 Congratulations! 💗

  • @S3m57
    @S3m57 Рік тому +12

    Just finding out about your full story today. I would have donated! Every day, new people find out about your story and want to help. If you need help again, dont hesitate to reach out again!

  • @Fenix_system
    @Fenix_system Рік тому +40

    So proud of you guys! Your strength in fighting both this and generally for system representation is beyond inspiring. Seeing you win against a man who clearly thought he could take advantage of you because you have DID gives us hope.
    -sending love from the Fenix system

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +7

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @irishedawg
    @irishedawg Рік тому +34

    Justice has prevailed and for the moment, all is right in the world. So so happy for you guys. Take time to enjoy this. You guys have more than earned it. Much love ❤

  • @lizcabreraspencer4294
    @lizcabreraspencer4294 Рік тому +34

    You did good, hunny. It’s settled for now. Take a few deep breathes. You are okay and safe. So happy for you.

  • @Kiicka
    @Kiicka Рік тому +9

    I am so embarrassed, being Portuguese. I'm so so sorry, we're not all like this. What a despicable man. I'm happy for you, it's so good watching you breathe in relief concerning this case.

  • @AriaEmily
    @AriaEmily Рік тому +8

    I am truly happy for all of you! That man deserves to get sent to jail for his harrassment. What a disgusting individual.

  • @g0atfather
    @g0atfather Рік тому +35

    Oh this is bloody fantastic! So happy that you guys are FINALLY getting towards something good. Very relieved for you guys and hope you're doing well.

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +7

      Thank you so much lovely! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @marie8553
    @marie8553 Рік тому +28

    I have nothing but love for you and your system. Your strength and resilience is a massive source of inspiration to me. Please continue to look after yourselves and fight the injustices.
    I have been a silent follower since the early days and am so sorry for all you have been through, but am so proud (I don’t think that’s the right word but I can’t think of the one I’m trying to say) of how far you’ve all come and that you’ve continued to stay true to your initial intent with this channel, raising awareness and inspiring thousands.
    Thank you so much for everything. 💕

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +7

      Thank you for being with us for so long and such a wonderful comment ❤️❤️

  • @kaceycoss576
    @kaceycoss576 Рік тому +17

    BIG WIN! My cheeks hurt from smiling!!!! Very proud of you all loves!!!

  • @ElevatorLunch
    @ElevatorLunch Рік тому +14

    I’d like to say, you explain all of this with very impressive clarity. I’m a lawyer (my work is actually quite closely associated with the type of litigation you’re involved with) and I’m very impressed with how on top of the legal issues you are and how well you explain them. Well done and congratulations!

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +4

      Thank you! Our lawyer is very good at explaining everything to us concisely and we ask a lot of questions haha

    • @luellaheetderks9311
      @luellaheetderks9311 Рік тому

      You are so very smart and capable. You have lots of champions in your corner. You deserve a life of ease. I wish you wellness and well-being on your recovery journey. Peace dear one.

  • @heheregles
    @heheregles Рік тому +29

    OMG I’m so happy for you!! This is absolutely amazing! You did so good, you did not let him break you. You’ve won!

  • @BlueGangsta1958
    @BlueGangsta1958 Рік тому +35

    Oof this is premiering right at my bed time and I have work tomorrow. Sad times

  • @sleepypup
    @sleepypup Рік тому +9

    Honestly the true genuine smile at the end of this video has me sobbing. That smile is a win in itself 😭

  • @fatimab.6415
    @fatimab.6415 Рік тому +6

    This man is the definition of an OBSESSED CREEP!!! Stay safe and wish you all the best! So happy for youu

  • @valentinarojashernandez8593
    @valentinarojashernandez8593 Рік тому +69

    Glad everything went well for you guys!!! Lots of love and support! Stay safe!! 🥰🥰

  • @MrsAngle_
    @MrsAngle_ Рік тому +43

    I’m glad to see the small wins on the way through this rough time for you guys. No matter what happens next, we will be here for you guys🖤🖤

    • @DissociaDID
      @DissociaDID  Рік тому +15

      Thank you so much, it really does mean the world to us ❤️

  • @bythechelseashore
    @bythechelseashore Рік тому +15

    This is so wonderful to hear ! I don’t want to tell you all what to do, it is your decision alone. In my head though I’m like, “Make him regret ever reaching out to you in the first place.”

  • @oHalloweenie
    @oHalloweenie Рік тому +7

    He needs to be criminally charged and monitored, his behavior is very abusive and concerning. He weasled his way into your life and from the very beginning tried to manipulate, isolate and control you. He then put you through all of this because you rejected him, his behavior is dangerous and unsettling and criminal.

  • @musicalstrash
    @musicalstrash Рік тому +54

    I truely hope this is over for you, Kya&Co. You’re all so strong, and we stand behind you no matter what :). ❤

  • @hoper1294
    @hoper1294 Рік тому +24

    I'm so happy for you guys and can't wait to celebrate when this is all over. Love you guys!

  • @vloggingwithkerry
    @vloggingwithkerry Рік тому +7

    That's great news! I'm so happy for all of you!. 🎉 🎊
    I know I shouldn't be celebrating too early. But, you all deserve the world and are all so lovely 💖

  • @kylie4568
    @kylie4568 Рік тому +3

    I'm so happy to hear this news. What a pathetic excuse for an individual he is. If you ask me, I'd say make him pay for the years of abuse and leave him with nothing but his damaged ego. It's what he deserves. But on the other hand, I could totally understand if you decide not to pursue, because he's not worth any more of your precious time and/or just to be done with this debacle. Whatever you decide, we'll support you all the way.❤

  • @CassStCloud
    @CassStCloud Рік тому +14

    I don't think I've ever been so sympathetically overjoyed and so bloody frustrated at the same time. I truly hope things continue to go in your favour and you will soon no longer have to think about this crazy poor excuse for a human ever again. Sending love and hope, always!

  • @isabellaamaral7081
    @isabellaamaral7081 Рік тому +16

    that's wonderful! i'm so so happy for you! i hope this nightmare will be over soon. sending you love and support.

  • @haygirlhayy
    @haygirlhayy Рік тому +6

    I can't believe someone would be so openly predatory. It's awful how he is so relentless and invasive with absolutely no empathy, especially after manipulating you. I can't imagine how used and abused you must feel to accept help or potentially trust someone and they treat you this way. I adore watching your videos and have for years; I feel awful I couldn't monetarily support you through the trial. I deeply respect your resiliency through all of this and if you keep putting out your lovely content, you will surely financially recover in no time.

  • @zuzpager
    @zuzpager Рік тому +6

    His gaslighting is making me feel sick. I'm so happy you are free from this for now. No matter your decision, we're with you

  • @chloehm2976
    @chloehm2976 Рік тому +19

    I'm so glad that this seems to be coming to an end for you all ❤ You all did great and you stayed strong throughout it all. I'm sure I can say for all your supporters that we're proud of you guys and all it took to get this far

  • @schenanigans
    @schenanigans Рік тому +10

    Congratulations on this nightmare finally (hopefully) coming to an end!
    So horrible that there are people who see a person who is open about a lifetime of trauma and struggles and decide to just tack a few extra in for funsies
    What a sad, little boy Costa is

  • @mogwai247
    @mogwai247 Рік тому +10

    I think your past self would be so proud of who you have become. You were always strong, but standing up against an abusive person as it’s happening is probably something your child self could only dream of. You all have done so well, so so very well. Congratulations!

  • @jinxly420
    @jinxly420 Рік тому +8

    You gave him an opportunity for a clean break, and he didn't want it. You're entitled to damages, so if it is not too stressful for you to go through, I hope you proceed with the quantum stage of the case and get what you're owed!❤

  • @rg6954
    @rg6954 Рік тому +59

    I’m so happy you all have gotten through this, and thank you for updating us along the way. We appreciate you all so much!!!

  • @tharamphala2451
    @tharamphala2451 Рік тому +3

    I am absolutely behind whatever you guys decided to do! I would pursue damages and legal costs from him personally, but it’s entirely your choice! I’m so proud of you, well done! 🥰

  • @HannahO__O
    @HannahO__O Рік тому +1

    HIS CLAIM HAS ENDED WITH A WHIMPER! oh my god I'm so happy for you all!!!

  • @Yue_mariin00
    @Yue_mariin00 Рік тому +2

    Entitled people with money are so dangerous 😪 I'm so happy to hear this lovely piece of news at least💗💗 you all are sooo strong and resilient, sending much much love to everyone in the system, you all did amazing❤️

  • @nicoleo4280
    @nicoleo4280 Рік тому +7

    What a NIGHTMARE. Having three years of this to deal with (on top of everything else life throws at you) is just wild. I wish you all the best in reaching this finish line, and that any stretch of distance left is purely a glory lap.

  • @gk9546
    @gk9546 Рік тому +6

    He is seriously obsessed with this... I am in shock and really proud of the way you handled things. I hope he is stopped because this much of legal abuse should be considered criminal.

  • @HCYmartian
    @HCYmartian Рік тому +5

    What a freaking abusive leech. So happy for you and glad you had such a competent judge! That's not something one should take for granted either; there are so many corrupt workers in the legal field.

  • @kennethporter3078
    @kennethporter3078 Рік тому +2

    ❤ proud of you. just hope you know not all people are like him, and do care about you again I'm so proud 💙

  • @yukiandkanamekuran
    @yukiandkanamekuran Рік тому +7

    Yes lets gooo!! Remembering the first video, WOW this guy is a CREEP!!!! I'm so sorry you had to deal with his controlling and egotistical behavior. That is straight up violation of your consent. Coercion is not consent either. He is a creep. I am so sorry that this all happened, but I am glad a huge chunk of it is over.
    I also love the two outfits you wore for this video!! Very pretty!!

  • @riv3ter370
    @riv3ter370 Рік тому +11

    You’re a far more mature person than I am, because my first thought was “now you wring him out of every goddamn penny you can and leave him scrambling to repay those loans from mommy and daddy” 😌❤️ So pleased for you, and may many more good things come your way.

  • @KateandBree
    @KateandBree Рік тому +5

    Well done, Kya & lawyers. Now, you can take a deep breath, let everything actually sink in and decide the next step. You may find that now that’s he’s out of your life, it is literally not worth bringing him back in. Time to move on.

  • @bethyeager6209
    @bethyeager6209 Рік тому +18

    Ahh im so excited for you and this video. Your system is so strong, positive, and motivating 😭💕

  • @thaylisleitzke5320
    @thaylisleitzke5320 Рік тому +13

    WE. ARE. SO. DAMN. HAPPY. AND. PROUD. OF. YOU. ALL!!!!
    There are so many of us close by and I'm feeling aaaaaall the feels lol the body even teared up a little haha
    Watching DissociaDID videos was what helped the others to connect to me (the host) a couple of years ago.
    This case with Costa is messed up and we would NEVER want for you to have to deal with all this shit. That being said, y'all dealed with this is such a honored and well thought way, that our main protector (which used to be my persecutor back then, btw) took many notes on how to prevent and also deal with this kind of stuff.
    We intend to speak openly about our system soon, so we know it's gonna be usefull. Thank you for that.
    Again, we'd prefer we didn't have anyone modeling this, but it wasn't for nothing.
    Y'ALL ARE F*** AMAZING
    - Mosaico System

  • @nuppsie
    @nuppsie Рік тому +4

    I don’t know what to say except that I am so so happy for you! On the other hand I‘m angry that people like him exist, that simply can‘t take a no and trying to bring other’s into that same miserable state that they are in. But don’t wanna think about that today, now it‘s time to celebrate your win!

  • @Hey_Itz_Ace
    @Hey_Itz_Ace Рік тому +1

    Im really glad for the good news, hope this man comes to his senses and grow up.😊

  • @victoriae725
    @victoriae725 Рік тому +9

    Well, this is absolutely wonderful news! I'm very happy for you all and wish you the best in reaching a proper conclusion :D

  • @jackf6725
    @jackf6725 Рік тому +3

    This is the best news. What a terrible person that is, never having heard the word no. You've fought so well. I'm so happy for you!

  • @bobsleann
    @bobsleann Рік тому +2

    I will never feel like I'll say this enough but as a Portuguese person I am so sorry you've had to go through this and I swear we are not all like this. This person needs help and a hobby

  • @RandomSwiftie13
    @RandomSwiftie13 Рік тому +2

    I'm so so happy for you! It will all be over soon! Love from India ❤

  • @bethhelminiak5063
    @bethhelminiak5063 Рік тому +6

    I am so pleased for you! And proud of you for persisting through this ridiculous process. I'll continue to pray for you that he is unable to further negatively affect you in any way. You're lovely, and a beacon of light to all of us who struggle with mental health challenges.

  • @olivialewis3368
    @olivialewis3368 Рік тому +5

    As someone who has followed the growth of your channel from its early days until now, words cannot convey how ecstatic I am for you all! I know I'm a stranger on the internet, but I'm so, so incredibly proud of you all and in awe of your strength. Even if it isn't completely over, I hope you have the chance to enjoy some very well deserved peace of mind. No matter what happens from here on out, you've always got me and so many others standing behind you

  • @nessieunhinged
    @nessieunhinged Рік тому +3

    I am so happy for you all! I just feel ashamed as a Portuguese person, what a man child!!

  • @syrazie
    @syrazie Рік тому +4

    we've been here since this damned case got started and it is so relieving to see you guys finally getting the justice you deserve for this. your work is yours, no one else has claim to it. we are so proud of you guys for continuously proving that survivors are the strongest people on this earth. thank you for fighting, we will be behind you no matter what.

  • @jwfk6619
    @jwfk6619 Рік тому +4

    I got goosebumps all over, o my gosh, amazing news!!! So so happy for you!!!