Things I wish I knew before having a Baby | Momdates #2

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  • @Marycolette
    @Marycolette  13 днів тому +39

    Hey my loves! As promised, there’s a new entry of Momdates whoop!! 💃🏽💃🏽This video was originally about 2 hrs long. Yep! I talked for that long lol. Thanks for being a safe space for me to truly express how I feel at all times. Let me know if this resonates with you in anyway, you know I absolutely loveeee to see your thoughts! All my love 💕

    • @Awhobiwom
      @Awhobiwom 13 днів тому +1

      I absolutely love these episodes. Thank you for sharing these gems with us ❤

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  12 днів тому

      @@Awhobiwomhappy to!! 💗

  • @akwesembendangmajolie5281
    @akwesembendangmajolie5281 10 днів тому +6

    You're such an eloquent speaker and story teller. I'm no where near having a baby but I literally watched so attentively like I'm expecting or something.

  • @PriscillaEhi
    @PriscillaEhi 12 днів тому +7

    PINK
    This was definitely enlightening❤. I'm 27 years old, in a relationship, but I have no idea when I'm going to be a mother. Yet pregnancy scares me, I literally have goosebumps when I encounter pregnant women.
    Having someone talk about her experience with so much love and truth, I must say that I'm convinced that the journey, though not the smoothest journey there is, is worth it.
    Thank you so much Marycolette for the Momdates series, you're impacting way more than you think. God bless you, God bless Ilo, God bless Heaven, God bless your mom❤.

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому +1

      I wish I could like this a billion times Priscilla 🥺 This is exactly one of the reasons I started Momdates and seeing your comment brought me so much joy!
      It is absolutely worth it and you’re sooooo welcome Priscilla! 🫂💗💗💗

    • @PriscillaEhi
      @PriscillaEhi 6 днів тому

      ​@@Marycolette🤗🤗🤍🤍

  • @ritathevoice
    @ritathevoice 3 дні тому +1

    Okay, I'm commenting for the first time, yay😊.
    My breastfeeding journey for my first child, was traumatizing, i didn't lactate on time, i took drugs recommended by Doctor, the midwife came once in a while pressing my breast, it was painful, it was just little that came out😢. Got home, so much pressure by everyone to breastfeed the baby, my nipples became sore and started bleeding 😭, they still told me to go ahead 😭. I felt depressed, i felt hated, like nobody cared about me or how i felt 😢. Gosh! It was too much

  • @gyhiosimmian_
    @gyhiosimmian_ 13 днів тому +2

    I’ve been enjoying this entries so far from you MC,as a teenager I think I’m privileged to learn about this at an earlier stage.You’re such a great Mom having to grow through all this because some people will still be rotting behind the scenes and maybe just never show up but thank you for sharing and also kudos to the world best Dad(Ilo).
    PINK💗💗💗

  • @ebierebere
    @ebierebere 11 днів тому +2

    Getting pregnant and the thought of having a baby one day also scares me a lot. Thank you so much MC for this insightful video, I really learnt a lot.
    PINK!!!!💕💕💕

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому +1

      I knowww. It is quite scary can’t lie but it’s nothing you can’t do 💗🫂

    • @ebierebere
      @ebierebere 5 днів тому

      @ Thank you! ❤️🫂

  • @valerieokon
    @valerieokon 13 днів тому +1

    First of all, PINK!!!!
    Now second, this was so enlightening, thank you so so much for sharing. And I know you said we’re the best o but really, who are you kidding? because you MC, are the actual BEST! Our “best” is learning work where yours is and you make our “being the best” too easy😉💕

  • @Mojirayo
    @Mojirayo 4 дні тому

    Pink💕💕 I really enjoyed watching this and took note of everything as my baby is arriving soon🥰🥰

  • @jeccyj28
    @jeccyj28 12 днів тому +1

    The way I enjoy hearing and watching you speak MC❤it’s all love ✌🏻

  • @Dhoratee
    @Dhoratee 12 днів тому +1

    pink
    this was so insightful....
    I have been dreading getting pregnant because I felt I'm not mentally ready and this video just affirms it even further. but hopefully when the time is right

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      When the time is right 💗💗💗

  • @NessaOkan
    @NessaOkan 10 днів тому +1

    PINK PINK PINK oh my…. This video popped up randomly and yes you just got a like and a subscriber. Yours has to be the first I watched without skipping nothing. Thank you so much for sharing your experience so closely, it’s means so much to some who are yet to even conceive and still has alot of fear of this process you definitely inspire so much courage. PS; if I look like you 6months after having a baby, I’d probably never leave the front of my camera 😂 😂.. you look amazing and your baby’s name is so beautiful 🥰 God bless you for this 🙏🏿

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      Hi Nessa! You’re sooooo welcome and welcome to the family!!
      PS; Thank you so much 😘😘😘😘💗💗💗

  • @christianaholuwajuwon1754
    @christianaholuwajuwon1754 13 днів тому +1

    I can so relate to this video
    The change of having a baby is amazing ❤

  • @_favourtheyoutuber
    @_favourtheyoutuber 10 днів тому

    PINK
    MC you’re one of the most beautiful moms I’ve seen and we your subscribers are so proud of you🥰

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      Thank you so much Favour! 💗💗💗

  • @TheOyinsLifestyle
    @TheOyinsLifestyle 7 днів тому

    I loveee the way you speak Yoruba. Thank youuu for sharing this part of your life with us; I’m jotting things down tbh. ❤️

  • @Oluwalofeyishayofunmi
    @Oluwalofeyishayofunmi 13 днів тому

    I am so grateful for how open new mamas are with talking about pregnancy and motherhood. Thank you MC!

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  13 днів тому

      happy to help in any way I can! 💖

  • @DeborahEbiwariDE
    @DeborahEbiwariDE 13 днів тому

    Wow!!! MC, your courage to share all what you did is really appreciated…I mean this is truly a real and raw video. Definitely noted several points for the future pregnant/ mother me! Looking forward to your next video. PINK💞💓

  • @uduak-obonginyang6027
    @uduak-obonginyang6027 12 днів тому

    You're doing just great, Mc!❤️
    I pray God continues to supply all your needs, including His wisdom, to you and ILO for this phase.❤️
    You look realllly lovely, I'll be here next week...
    Pink, definitely!

  • @mmesomachukwuvera2804
    @mmesomachukwuvera2804 6 днів тому

    Pink!
    Well done mama bear❤

  • @magajiyaherself
    @magajiyaherself 3 дні тому

    I really really enjoyed this video especially the code switching and code mixing of Yoruba😌🤗…I love listening to MARYCOLETTE talk,it’s so soothing😊.

  • @folajay8280
    @folajay8280 7 днів тому

    PINK💕💕
    Still pretty young but now you're making me crave having a child😂. Love you always MC, this video was wholesome. God bless you and your family🫂🤍

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      awww happy to hear this! I was worried it might do the opposite and that wasn’t the intention at all. You’re welcome!

  • @ololadeojo8115
    @ololadeojo8115 9 днів тому

    PINK
    I'm not anywhere close to having a baby but I enjoyed this video to the point I was praying it does end.
    Absolutely ooking forward to the next episode

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      awwww really?! Glad you enjoyed! 💗💗💗

  • @dimmauzoegwu4319
    @dimmauzoegwu4319 12 днів тому +1

    This is such a wholesome and honest content ❤

  • @okohrachael8331
    @okohrachael8331 7 днів тому

    A beautiful video.. So much information every lady needs to know..

  • @tuminene5936
    @tuminene5936 10 днів тому

    Well done MC I think this is a really educative video for aspiring moms out there❤️
    Thank you 🙏

  • @themjoofficial
    @themjoofficial 9 днів тому

    Pink, Pink, Pink... Learnt a lot and saved for when I'm ready to be a mom.

  • @OkikiAjala
    @OkikiAjala 12 днів тому

    PINK! Thank you for sharing MC! 🥰

  • @CelestineNgono-bw3xt
    @CelestineNgono-bw3xt 10 днів тому

    I totally enjoyed this talk ❤❤❤😊

  • @viviandaobi1337
    @viviandaobi1337 12 днів тому

    Pink!!!
    January this year makes it one year I had a myomectomy and I can relate to not wanting visitors at the hospital. Infact I didn't tell people the name of the hospital I was in until I was discharged. Thanks for sharing. All the points are deep and very educative 🤍

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      You’re welcome Vivian! Yeah surgery is no joke and having visitors right after was the ghetto for me lol. You live and you learn right!? Also, how’d your surgery go and hope you’re feeling much better? 💗💗🫂

  • @_Jessica_O
    @_Jessica_O 11 днів тому

    PINK🤭💕
    I enjoyed this video!!! Watching your videos and having a meal>>>🥹 your voice is so therapeutic. I took notes even though I’m not planning on having a baby anytime soon😂👍 Thanks for sharing your tips!

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому +1

      Haha! I love it. I love to eat while watching something too. Glad you enjoyed Jessica 💗

  • @eniolaladipo7653
    @eniolaladipo7653 12 днів тому

    Pink!
    Thank you, MC. This is so insightful.

  • @zainabxele998
    @zainabxele998 9 днів тому

    Pink💓💓
    Thank you for sharing 🤍

  • @franciscaadeniran3735
    @franciscaadeniran3735 12 днів тому

    Pink!
    This was so insightful. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      You’re welcome Francisca! 💕

  • @Giftchile
    @Giftchile 11 днів тому

    Thank God I saw this!!! Learnt ALOT!❤❤❤

  • @missveev
    @missveev 13 днів тому

    Pink... This is very insightful and it is real for MC to be dropping yotuba in between, i am like grab a book and biro. You are really mommying well. Welldone mummy Heaven. You look beautiful as always 🥰

  • @ElizabethBalogun-u1q
    @ElizabethBalogun-u1q 12 днів тому

    Pink!❤❤
    Thank you for this MC❤

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      You’re welcome Elizabeth! 💗💗

  • @eniolabanjo1511
    @eniolabanjo1511 12 днів тому

    These topics!!!
    Please dive into them individually if you can, for the girlies in the back!
    Thank you for always making these videos.❤

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      Oh I will definitely do some individually and you’re welcome mama! 💗

  • @achenyojennifer3335
    @achenyojennifer3335 7 днів тому

    Pink 🩷
    You're so lucky I'm happy for you Mama-bear❤

  • @modupeojo1933
    @modupeojo1933 13 днів тому

    I enjoyed watching this so much. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. Pink..🎉

  • @chibuezeezinne1124
    @chibuezeezinne1124 12 днів тому

    I totally agree with what you said , all those yelling and knocking on the head or being rude to women in labour, is abuse!
    Being a nurse/midwife, who also has a nurse/midwife as a mom, I see her emphasise on the need to be empathetic, rub the woman's back, be present for her

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      It is one of the most vulnerable time of a woman’s life and I can’t even imagine anything less than empathy and kindness being shown on her. God bless your mom! She’s absolutely right

  • @house_of_naz1
    @house_of_naz1 12 днів тому

    Thank you so do much for this video
    I felt like I was listening to an elder sister ❤

  • @dikachiokoro9589
    @dikachiokoro9589 12 днів тому

    Still at the new born phase and I wanna pass out. I enjoyed this ❤
    PINK 💞

  • @Toluwaniadekoya
    @Toluwaniadekoya 12 днів тому

    Thank you for this MC❤️

  • @michelleadebiyi2341
    @michelleadebiyi2341 11 днів тому

    14:57 the third point made me emotional 🥹

  • @anulikaobiano2765
    @anulikaobiano2765 12 днів тому

    Pink.I completely agree with everything you said💯

  • @danjumadinatu
    @danjumadinatu 12 днів тому

    Pink!
    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @idarapeter
    @idarapeter 12 днів тому

    Thank God for my husband on this Journey, this man is literally the one shopping for stuff and I don’t even know what he has or hasn’t bought but I know he has gotten a whole lot, also I was thinking about the clothes for baby after he comes I just order for some clothes as he grows this is to help me reduce how much clothes the child would have dunno if that make sense although we got clothes that would last first one or 2months with my location I can shop and it gets delivered next day.

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      awwww bless him! Yeah buying as you go definitely helps! I did thesame.

  • @EllaGold-ft1up
    @EllaGold-ft1up 11 днів тому

    Pink 🎉you really inspiring🥰

  • @Rukkyrich
    @Rukkyrich 13 днів тому +1

    Thank you oo I’m learning new things

  • @Ifeoluwa_po
    @Ifeoluwa_po 13 днів тому

    This was so eye opening and was so interesting to watch😍🥰
    MC is funny, laughed a couple of times🤣😂
    Pink 💕💗💖💞💓

  • @najartali
    @najartali 11 днів тому

    Lovely video MC🫶🏾
    The government hospitals in Ghana do the procedure first and the patients are billed after the procedure

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      Oh that’s actually niceeee!!

  • @TolulopeSanni
    @TolulopeSanni 12 днів тому +1

    Pink....love it

  • @KhadijaUmar-j8k
    @KhadijaUmar-j8k 11 днів тому

    Pinkk!!🩷🩷

  • @Giftchile
    @Giftchile 11 днів тому

    PINK!!!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @dimmauzoegwu4319
    @dimmauzoegwu4319 12 днів тому

    Thank you mama❤❤❤

  • @kalioorabelema
    @kalioorabelema 11 днів тому

    I love you MC❤. You're strong

  • @Pinenilla
    @Pinenilla 11 днів тому

    Uhhhh
    You're so real and i love you for that

  • @annieanaye4749
    @annieanaye4749 9 днів тому +1

    PINK💓

  • @christianaholuwajuwon1754
    @christianaholuwajuwon1754 13 днів тому

    Very true💯
    My husband had to go and buy newborn clothes few days after she was born bcos I was embarrassed with wearing oversized clothes for a newborn 😅
    My mum was the only one that told me to buy few newborn clothes😅

    • @koyinsola2143
      @koyinsola2143 13 днів тому

      I am thankful for the mama that bought new born clothes for me as gifts because I was beyond embarrassed! My child was basking in super super super over sized wears😂

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  13 днів тому

      Lmaoooooo! The way we all just have to wing it at first and learn as we go!

  • @IniesieOkoji-ol3uf
    @IniesieOkoji-ol3uf 13 днів тому

    Heyyy Mrs MC.....I'm here earlyyyyy
    I love your vlogsss🥰❤

  • @amaka9541
    @amaka9541 12 днів тому

    Pinkkkkk!! ❤

  • @sulaimonaminat2301
    @sulaimonaminat2301 13 днів тому

    Hey MC
    Love what you do
    Thanks for sharing

  • @eberryy
    @eberryy 11 днів тому

    PINK!❤

  • @Jenniferjoseph0
    @Jenniferjoseph0 13 днів тому

    I am not yet a mom but I learnt, pink🎉

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  13 днів тому

      and you watched till the end too! 💗

  • @Omas_corner
    @Omas_corner 11 днів тому

    Pink 💕

  • @boluwatifeee
    @boluwatifeee 13 днів тому +3

    i clicked immediately i saw your notification!😭🥹

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  13 днів тому +1

      Let’s goooooo!!! 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

  • @Awhobiwom
    @Awhobiwom 13 днів тому

    Present💃🏾💃🏾

  • @Toluwaniadekoya
    @Toluwaniadekoya 12 днів тому

    Pink❤️❤️

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  12 днів тому

      Glad you got to the end! 😘🫶🏼

  • @Faustinaogbe
    @Faustinaogbe 12 днів тому

    This background 💯💯💯

  • @chiamakaohiri
    @chiamakaohiri 13 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing 🎉

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  13 днів тому

      You’re welcome Chiamaka 🫶🏼

  • @rosieezekiel
    @rosieezekiel 10 днів тому

    Pink!

  • @AestheticallyCookie
    @AestheticallyCookie 8 днів тому

    Pink 🥹❤️

  • @jeccyj28
    @jeccyj28 12 днів тому

    Pink💗

  • @adekunledorcas8540
    @adekunledorcas8540 12 днів тому

    Pink💗💗

  • @abdulkareemzainab8010
    @abdulkareemzainab8010 12 днів тому

    Pink 😊🥰

  • @GrowingWithM
    @GrowingWithM 12 днів тому +1

    No kids but really enjoyed this

  • @dahjukundove
    @dahjukundove 10 днів тому +1

    #pink

  • @DrYolzz
    @DrYolzz 12 днів тому

    PINK
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NatashaYamala30
    @NatashaYamala30 12 днів тому

    Pink 😍😊

  • @tayomi1703
    @tayomi1703 День тому

    Pink
    Well done Mc❤

  • @ChroniclesOfUli
    @ChroniclesOfUli 12 днів тому

    Pink 🎊💕❤

  • @BukaJuliet
    @BukaJuliet 13 днів тому

    Pink🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
    You're right on the period part ...

  • @Marvfr_
    @Marvfr_ 12 днів тому

    Pink💗 (I have a mime from here already MC)☺️

  • @ritathevoice
    @ritathevoice 3 дні тому

    Pink🎉❤😂

  • @oyindarmolar
    @oyindarmolar 13 днів тому

    Pink 💕💕💕💕

  • @diogoobidiaso
    @diogoobidiaso 12 днів тому

    Pink❤

  • @fynigbogeh
    @fynigbogeh 8 днів тому

    Piiinkkk❤

  • @RayoKayy
    @RayoKayy 11 днів тому

    Pink😊😊😊❤

  • @Ms_ibk
    @Ms_ibk 11 днів тому

    Pink💃🏾

  • @estherchabuka3869
    @estherchabuka3869 13 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @Kosiso-by1mc
    @Kosiso-by1mc 13 днів тому

    Pink😊

  • @thereandbackintime
    @thereandbackintime 9 днів тому

    PINK

  • @valerieokon
    @valerieokon 13 днів тому

    Ran so fast to watch this I nearly fell 😅

  • @oyinkanadebowale4557
    @oyinkanadebowale4557 7 днів тому

    I would say avoid “newborn” clothes and buy 0-3 months.
    I Nigeria, what they classify as “newborn” is actually 0-3 months clothes.

  • @stellahvlogs5358
    @stellahvlogs5358 7 днів тому

    PINK😂

  • @Toluwaniadekoya
    @Toluwaniadekoya 12 днів тому

    Your Yoruba is too good😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AVfittings
    @AVfittings 13 днів тому

    Pink

    • @AVfittings
      @AVfittings 13 днів тому

      I’m not even married or any where closed to getting pregnant but I enjoyed this video so much

    • @Marycolette
      @Marycolette  7 днів тому

      Glad you did!

  • @anns_diaries
    @anns_diaries 12 днів тому

    PINK 🩷🩷🩷

  • @priscillaoyetunji
    @priscillaoyetunji 12 днів тому

    P.I.N.K ❤

  • @giftadewuyi8981
    @giftadewuyi8981 11 днів тому

    💕Pink

  • @blessingjames874
    @blessingjames874 12 днів тому

    Pink😂