How I Found Out My Husband Was Cheating On Me With 4 Women After He Passed Away - Story Time

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  • @Sunny-tc3ul
    @Sunny-tc3ul 3 дні тому +106

    He cheated then has the nerves to pass away. They really are allergic to accountability.

  • @DomMcDon
    @DomMcDon 4 дні тому +104

    First of all, you look beautiful. Secondly, this girl has amazing moral character... the fact that she went through all of this betrayal and managed to retain her dignity and morality is super commendable.

    • @Capturedbeauty777
      @Capturedbeauty777 4 дні тому +10

      Agreed, no one would blame her for crashing out; however she went through that betrayal with dignity and self-awareness. Glad she was able to find a person who she loves and respect her.

    • @thembekadorcaskhumalo866
      @thembekadorcaskhumalo866 2 години тому

      @@DomMcDon That's what I noticed too. She's gorgeous and has very good morals. It just shows how much this other gender is never satisfied.

  • @genevieveaniko6492
    @genevieveaniko6492 3 дні тому +65

    Most people don't realise that their enemies like to stay close to them and pretend to be friends... Because it gives them easy access to ruin lives, out of jealousy.

  • @augustG.I.F
    @augustG.I.F 3 дні тому +71

    I worked in the funeral business for a Decade it's more common than most folks want to believe. Entire families have even showed up.

    • @Shesfindingpeace
      @Shesfindingpeace 3 дні тому +12

      Yep 👀

    • @AuntieThree
      @AuntieThree 3 дні тому +17

      I knew of someone who passed while cheating on their wife and the funeral was MESSY
      Edit: in the act!

    • @JaneDoane
      @JaneDoane 3 дні тому +1

      😮 Mens are really something

    • @RawrB3riii
      @RawrB3riii 22 години тому +3

      Facts!!! My stepdad is a mortician...the stories!!

  • @thembekadorcaskhumalo866
    @thembekadorcaskhumalo866 4 дні тому +48

    I have never been married but I have been cheated on and I understand how cheating can mess up your life and even your self esteem. Unfortunately most men that I have interacted with, not just a relationship but just having a simple conversation with has made me feel less and less atracted to men.

  • @dulcemaria22120
    @dulcemaria22120 3 дні тому +23

    Wow destiny with the makeup and hair. Looking great!

  • @erobinson5942
    @erobinson5942 3 дні тому +26

    Even in death he’s stealing her peace; my goodness

  • @gurlwhowants2dj
    @gurlwhowants2dj 3 дні тому +49

    Hope he left her some good life insurance.

    • @chocolatemomof4
      @chocolatemomof4 3 дні тому +8

      THIS!!!!

    • @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables
      @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables 3 дні тому +8

      Sadly, because he committed suicide, that cancels his life insurance and they're not gonna pay out. There's a clause in every single life insurance policy that states that if you commit suicide, your beneficiaries get nothing.

    • @gurlwhowants2dj
      @gurlwhowants2dj 3 дні тому

      @@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables I forgot about that! Just googled and I just read that some employer and military insurance do not have the clause. I have heard people doing assisted suicide and had to talk to their insurance company about it.

    • @damngrrl
      @damngrrl 3 дні тому +3

      @@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables as a former licensed life insurance agent, this isn’t true

    • @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables
      @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables 3 дні тому

      @@damngrrl I used to work in life insurance, too. The company I worked for refused to pay if the policy holder committed suicide and a lot of others do this.

  • @tashajones3661
    @tashajones3661 4 дні тому +29

    Makeup tutorial please.... And thank you....

  • @thegypsyleo6
    @thegypsyleo6 3 дні тому +29

    😭I have completely lost hope in having a relationship/husband matter fact today after this video I realize it will just never happen for me..men are all the same….this is wilddddd😢

    • @thembekadorcaskhumalo866
      @thembekadorcaskhumalo866 2 години тому

      @@thegypsyleo6 When you say this, people think you're negative. My single life is quite amazing, thank you!

  • @FocusOnWhatYouLove-t6c
    @FocusOnWhatYouLove-t6c 3 дні тому +13

    My God , this was just awful. Props to her for her resilience. She definitely doesnt look like what shes been through. You look so pretty. 💜

  • @ITSCRYSTALRENEE
    @ITSCRYSTALRENEE 3 дні тому +10

    Cheating is universal! I was a victim of a serial cheating spouse I've been diagnosed with PTSD. It's absolutely nuts how trifling some of these men are. I agree with what you said about the women, too.

  • @Guiltyangel605
    @Guiltyangel605 3 дні тому +14

    Destiny baby! You look phenomenal! Love from LA!

  • @TextureTalk1
    @TextureTalk1 3 дні тому +11

    . He had been deleting messages throughout the whole time. I’m positive there were more than 4 people he had cheated with. 😢

  • @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables
    @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables 3 дні тому +11

    And the sad thing is that because he committed suicide, if he has a life insurance policy, he just made it null and void, and the widow and kids get nothing. So, yeah. Even in death, he betrayed her.

  • @ohthechitchat
    @ohthechitchat 3 дні тому +10

    He would dissapear and turn his phone off 'I had no reason not to trust him'.😮

    • @jaijai5250
      @jaijai5250 2 дні тому +1

      Exactly. She said he’d disappear for the weekend, but she had no suspicion. Make it make sense!

  • @toscadonna
    @toscadonna 3 дні тому +25

    She should purchase a website and put all of the messages up there from the mistresses along with their names and pictures.😂

  • @professorh7024
    @professorh7024 3 дні тому +3

    Your hair and make up look amazing Destiny! 😍

  • @ohhmyyken
    @ohhmyyken 4 дні тому +29

    lord this poor lady

    • @numba1divaxxxx
      @numba1divaxxxx 3 дні тому

      I’m on a journey of following any black female creators ❤ Hoping it will inspire me to make content 😅

  • @Balgees24
    @Balgees24 4 дні тому +17

    I hope she gets in therapy, this is alot. Stalking the wife is crazy work. And this why there no a girl girl, they all know everything and still choose to be someone taken already.

  • @danibee9943
    @danibee9943 3 дні тому +6

    Makeup is fabulous Destiny!!

  • @numba1divaxxxx
    @numba1divaxxxx 3 дні тому +11

    He was very selfish, I understand mental health, but imagine hurting and wanting to create that same trauma on another 😢

  • @erobinson5942
    @erobinson5942 3 дні тому +14

    Her husband was probably a narcissist

  • @erobinson5942
    @erobinson5942 4 дні тому +12

    I’m good on marriage !

  • @rockpaperreads
    @rockpaperreads 3 дні тому +5

    Sounds like he was an empty person trying to feel a void, but that other woman was insane and extremely out of order.

  • @JLive-jt6jc
    @JLive-jt6jc 3 дні тому +6

    May she have peace moving forward.

  • @keniasharpe1610
    @keniasharpe1610 3 дні тому +11

    What is up with these sisters/best friend taking their family number MAN sheesh

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. День тому +1

      Competition with their friends, that’s why.

  • @MsCkelle
    @MsCkelle 3 дні тому +3

    I feel bad for this lady. We cannot bury our heads in the sand when the red flags are all over the place.

  • @Ilikefrogs..
    @Ilikefrogs.. День тому +1

    This video tells us so much about how mentally ill most cheaters are. This guy was sleeping with five women, including his best friend’s girlfriend AND his former mistress, and his business partner’s daughter.
    He not only had low self-esteem and needed constant validation, but he had no sense of loyalty to ANY of the people in his life, male or female.
    Sad to say, but it’s not at all surprising that he ended his life. Ladies, if you get cheated on, walk away. No matter what men try to convince us, this behaviour is psychologically abnormal.

  • @LOVELYLONDONGURL
    @LOVELYLONDONGURL 3 дні тому +4

    Destiny I love your hair! Can you share details if possible?

  • @shazj1842
    @shazj1842 3 дні тому +10

    How disgusting he was literally community 🍆,with all those liaisons he might have brought a disease back to his wife. That was some nasty, low grade trash behaviour those women indulged in.

  • @tanitaf1345
    @tanitaf1345 3 дні тому +6

    OMG destiny you're gorgeous ❤ you look like a queen 💕

  • @grahamcrackerjay
    @grahamcrackerjay 3 дні тому +4

    So trifling! People just don't care! That's why If I get a gut feeling, I'm saying something.

  • @Tess-tr4rh
    @Tess-tr4rh 3 дні тому +2

    That’s very sad, sending you prayers dear ❤

  • @jbell7105
    @jbell7105 День тому +1

    He must have been really attractive, charming and filthy rich cause whaaaat?! He had everybody on his heels!

  • @MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels
    @MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels 2 дні тому

    I am loving your glow-up, beautiful sister yesssss!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥💖♥️

  • @Clear_Night4
    @Clear_Night4 3 дні тому +1

    Destiny The Makeup! 😍💅such a pretty look
    About the story: I haven't been shocked by ppl's behavior in a very long time but this left in disbelief

  • @LovexxNinjaa
    @LovexxNinjaa 3 дні тому +4

    hair details??>🤩

  • @RawrB3riii
    @RawrB3riii 22 години тому +1

    Crazy she was more suspicious of the police...than of her husband that was never home, changing his phone passwords, drinking constantly..girl

    • @RawrB3riii
      @RawrB3riii 22 години тому +1

      And she more mad at the women than her own ex husband.

    • @RawrB3riii
      @RawrB3riii 22 години тому +1

      He was doing all that work, but was broke as hell. Cause it's not adding up..she never questioned him not having extra money..or spending money he didnt have for basically two failed businesses?

    • @RawrB3riii
      @RawrB3riii 22 години тому +1

      For the two year mistress..GIRL he was in a relationship! That was HER MAN. And just looking at her, girl your not unique...your a blonde white woman, who does makeup, and bakes.

  • @andreaaas
    @andreaaas 3 дні тому +3

    I noticed she has a lot to say about these women such as the 'village bike' but at the end of the day the common denominator in all of this was her husband. He obviously likes village bikes.

    • @theredeemed22
      @theredeemed22 3 дні тому +1

      Her husband was the village bike.

    • @jaijai5250
      @jaijai5250 2 дні тому

      @@theredeemed22he was the community dic*. Probably riddled with all sorts of diseases.

  • @MelNDiscourse
    @MelNDiscourse 3 дні тому +2

    She's steal trying to defend him in a way. He was mental off and the other woman was "blackmailing" him for a bag! Everyone involved invited this in their life. Why would any of the other women care about him? He was using them and they decided to use him. These dudes are equivalent to bottom feeders.

  • @shainahogan5354
    @shainahogan5354 3 дні тому +1

    u look absolutely gorgeous

  • @onlineversion
    @onlineversion 3 дні тому +4

    Did I miss why he committed suicide?? Depression or??

  • @Kim-vw4nx
    @Kim-vw4nx 3 дні тому +2

    He started cheating 2 months b4 marriage. LIE ONE
    The mistress was stalking her LIE TWO .
    She had no idea LIE THREE
    She jumped right into another relationship 🙄. 🚩

    • @Sunny-tc3ul
      @Sunny-tc3ul 3 дні тому +7

      @@Kim-vw4nx how you dismissing someone life is a red flag. As long as you know her….. Wait, do you know her? If not….how can you call her a lie? You are the red flag.

    • @piscespisces6
      @piscespisces6 3 дні тому +6

      You know her???? Are you one of the main characters in this story??? You a professional side chick??? 🤔

    • @Kim-vw4nx
      @Kim-vw4nx 3 дні тому

      No I don’t know her, I’m on the other side of the world . I just know BS when I hear it . Professional side chick (which is a silly term to begin with ) NEVER , I don’t believe in marriage let alone sneaking around with a MALE (I unlike most women understand male nature (they care for nobody but themselves THE END ). To have 4 people you CLAIM you know and are so close to you sleep with your husband and you have NO IDEA and he unalives himself and that takes you by surprise too and she claims the relationship was damn near perfect 🤦🏾‍♀️. I mean come on 🙄. Bffr either she telling half truths are she is a piece of work . No way I’m with a man 2 years and he is carrying on 3 relationships and unalives himself and I don’t sense anything . She like the idea of being married to smear in women’s face that’s why things turned out the way they did.

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. День тому

      You’re stupid.

  • @NiobeNeo
    @NiobeNeo 4 дні тому +2

    I donot believe anything that was said.

    • @Darline_ox
      @Darline_ox 4 дні тому +10

      and why is that?

    • @Kim-vw4nx
      @Kim-vw4nx 3 дні тому +1

      I agree . Something is way off

    • @lo6291
      @lo6291 3 дні тому +7

      Oh dear, this happens more than you think. In my neighborhood alone, many women find out that there is another whole family at the funeral. For context I am from south africa. It's really depressing and disgusting. It happens

    • @Arike-c3q
      @Arike-c3q 3 дні тому +6

      Yes it definitely happens a lot in Africa

    • @Darline_ox
      @Darline_ox 3 дні тому +5

      @@Arike-c3q in the caribbean too

  • @coppertonedone
    @coppertonedone 3 дні тому

    🙄

  • @Listening4n0w
    @Listening4n0w 3 дні тому +2

    Prayers for her and her babies healing 🙏🏽She was literally surrounded by a bunch of SNAKES!!!

  • @arcanesaint
    @arcanesaint 3 дні тому +5

    My goodness she was too trusting. Glad she’s free.

    • @thembekadorcaskhumalo866
      @thembekadorcaskhumalo866 2 години тому

      @@arcanesaint I was like that too. When you're innocent you think everyone is like you.