Why does HR Seem To Hate You?

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  • Why does HR Seem To Hate You? Many employees feel like HR isn't your friend. And you're correct - in my experience, HR's main goal is to protect the company and limit liability. That's why so many people feel HR is cold. But is this the reality? In this deep discussion, California Employment Attorney Branigan Robertson and I discuss why HR hates their employees.
    0:00 - intro
    2:20 - Is HR out to get the employee?
    7:28 - the intellectual disconnect
    9:40 - how HR protects the company from YOU
    10:46 - why HR insists on arbitration
    15:22 - why the documentation?
    21:05 - when you get fired or quit
    20:05 - acting like a free agent
    26:12 - has HR gone too far?
    28:26 - getting the help you need
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  • @AthamAldecua
    @AthamAldecua Рік тому +602

    Because it shouldn't be called "human resources", it should be called "corporation's bodyguard"

    • @travis1240
      @travis1240 Рік тому +66

      "Human resources" is often misinterpreted as "Resources for Humans". It's "Humans AS resources".

    • @xephael3485
      @xephael3485 Рік тому +39

      or Slave Control

    • @xephael3485
      @xephael3485 Рік тому +7

      ​​@@travis1240 you're 💯% correct

    • @hazcatch_heather2588
      @hazcatch_heather2588 Рік тому +3

      🙌❤️💯🙈

    • @adesuwa9112
      @adesuwa9112 Рік тому +2

      Lmao yes! 🤣😩

  • @eq2092
    @eq2092 Рік тому +70

    The best protection for an employee is your ability to go out and get another job.

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Рік тому +7

      Or win the lottery or get a very wealthy spouse.

    • @pulidobl
      @pulidobl Рік тому +4

      THIS. 100X THIS…

    • @KingdomFromHeaven
      @KingdomFromHeaven 4 місяці тому +6

      💯 And I trust God through Jesus Christ for that ability to get another job. 🙏

    • @jillyinthecityoffical
      @jillyinthecityoffical 3 місяці тому +3

      Always save money so you have the ability to quit a job that is making you miserable

    • @eq2092
      @eq2092 3 місяці тому +1

      @@jillyinthecityoffical yup very important to have an Emergency Cash Reserve of 4 to 6 months of expenses.

  • @eq2092
    @eq2092 Рік тому +142

    I have worked at multiple Fortune 500 companies and have never encountered an HR Manager that had empathy or self-awareness.

  • @ronschramm9163
    @ronschramm9163 Рік тому +154

    As you have said in past videos...HR works to protect the business and not the employees.

  • @c0t0d0s7
    @c0t0d0s7 Рік тому +278

    I worked for a company for 11 years. I consistently got “meets” or “exceeds expectations” during the first ten years. I was diagnosed with a disability in my last year and was fired for performance.
    I should have seen it coming. After I told them about my disability, all positive feedback I received was verbal and all negative feedback was in writing. They were clearly building a case to get rid of me.

    • @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms
      @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms Рік тому +45

      This is a great reason to post all documentation for all to see. I did this to a bad boss and he ended up quitting! The boss got angry when people he met were coming up to him and getting angry with them! Also the HR rep ended up quitting because she discovered no one would work there!

    • @c0t0d0s7
      @c0t0d0s7 Рік тому +45

      Coincidentally, the year I was fired, my company was on the World’s Most Ethical Companies list. The year after I was fired, they were not.

    • @Jazzmaster1992
      @Jazzmaster1992 Рік тому +36

      I have come to understand, as time goes on, that "performance reviews" will often be used as a tool to advance/preserve employees that people in the company like, and get rid of people they don't like. I also received stellar reviews for several years on a job, until we got new management and I received the worst review possible. Mind you, I had never had performance discussions or been given any indication that I was not up to par. Nope, I was getting verbal praise, but they were building a case against me in secret. It's truly sad how often companies will weaponize their HR tools to play political games.

    • @user-bv3ns9iq5z
      @user-bv3ns9iq5z Рік тому +4

      And you’re surprised?

    • @AndroidCyclist
      @AndroidCyclist Рік тому +14

      People should not have to feel a need to disclose a disability. There are plenty of "accommodations" which benefit many employees and people should seek to understand that some things may be difficult for some and not assume bad intentions.
      Unfortunately, that isn't always the reality, and I am sorry you have had to go through that.

  • @JNYC-gb1pp
    @JNYC-gb1pp Рік тому +51

    A thing to remember: HR has access to your work email and can look through your inbox/outbox, calendar etc. Be mindful of who you email and what you say.

  • @TypincsVideos
    @TypincsVideos Рік тому +49

    The hatred is mutual.

  • @legionmartin
    @legionmartin Рік тому +117

    I've been telling people for the last 15 years never confide in HR. If you tell HR anything, you might as well get a bull horn and announce your grievance to everyone! If you ever meet with HR you need to privately record the meeting (check the legalities in your state of course) or document everything you can in writing. Leave a long paper trail, it will be harder for them to run cover for the company this way. ----Remember HR is NOT your friend.

    • @joannesaltfleet2071
      @joannesaltfleet2071 2 місяці тому

      Someone said to me to put in a complaint to hr about bullying and I said they're the last people I would put in a complaint with!

  • @GuitarsAndSynths
    @GuitarsAndSynths 10 місяців тому +24

    HR is really the internal legal department for a company

  • @user-dx1jb4zq9e
    @user-dx1jb4zq9e 8 місяців тому +10

    Every aspect of modern life is a battle ground now. It's exhausting. I'm just tired.

  • @fatesrequiem
    @fatesrequiem Рік тому +25

    HR doesn’t exist for the employee, it exists now for management to protect against lawsuits and manage Human Resources.

  • @rodemates
    @rodemates Рік тому +91

    I try to keep HR interactions to a minimum. I go there with questions my manager can't answer and they say "ask HR" but other than that I stay away.

    • @cmdr1911
      @cmdr1911 Рік тому +2

      There were complaints from our divisions of our company about us not meeting dress codes and working hours while generating 50% of the revenue. So after a remodel HR is being imbedded with us. No one is happy with more forced interaction with HR.

    • @dilsiam
      @dilsiam Рік тому +2

      I do the same, the less I go to HR the better

    • @pulidobl
      @pulidobl Рік тому

      This

    • @EvanKnightIsGood
      @EvanKnightIsGood 7 місяців тому

      This is the way

  • @boxingfan5742
    @boxingfan5742 Рік тому +36

    'Human Resources' is the most dehumanizing official business term of the corporate world that I can think of, and it's literally the name of the department that's in charge of the employees' rights within corporations. That's not a funny coincidence. That's what we are to them: resources that just happen to be human. As George Carlin so soberingly put it (about government, but in a similar respect), "They don't care about YOU, AT ALL, AT ALL, AT ALL. It's a big club, AND YOU AIN'T IN IT."

    • @muzungu9625
      @muzungu9625 Рік тому

      What is a resource and examples?
      A resource is a physical material that humans need and value such as land, air, and water. Resources are characterized as renewable or nonrenewable; a renewable resource can replenish itself at the rate it is used, while a nonrenewable resource has a limited supply.

  • @exuafra
    @exuafra Рік тому +20

    I have never been "supported" by human resources. Their job is to treat human beings like resources, i.e. commodities. So of course the relationship is antagonistic.

  • @picklerix6162
    @picklerix6162 Рік тому +137

    I worked for a large corporation for over twenty years. Suddenly, I was moved into a new group with new managers. Eventually, I was taken into a small meeting room by a middle manager and was strongly advised to take a “retirement” package and leave the company. I reluctantly took the package and left. After I left, many of my coworkers were laid off and their jobs were offshored to India or Taiwan. The good news is that I did find a better job with a 40% salary increase.

    • @deanowexford7021
      @deanowexford7021 Рік тому +5

      SWEEEET!!

    • @As-zc3kt
      @As-zc3kt Рік тому +3

      great

    • @robinfarrar3493
      @robinfarrar3493 Рік тому +8

      This doesn’t apply to 99% of employees.

    • @nunyabeezwax6758
      @nunyabeezwax6758 Рік тому +3

      Taiwan would actually be a pretty damned cool place to work though, not gonna lie. Having your job sent there without you, not so much.

    • @IK_MK
      @IK_MK Рік тому +4

      @@nunyabeezwax6758 I wish I could go to Taiwan without the constant threat of conflict or lack of support from my own government looming over me

  • @reformcongress
    @reformcongress Рік тому +38

    Human Resources are the core cause of toxic work environments because they don't stand up for what is right. The best way to influence people to do what you want them to do is to treat them with respect and with appreciation, and be sincere about it.

    • @gotinogaden
      @gotinogaden Рік тому +3

      I wouldn't say they HR can top bad managerial style or logistic issues that many companies are plagued with, but oftentimes, HR... doesn't help things.

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Рік тому

      There is right. There is wrong. Then there is politics.

    • @hernandayolearyallda
      @hernandayolearyallda Рік тому

      What kind of babble is that. If HR stood for what is right they'd be fired by the operations manager, just like every other department.

  • @Jupiterxice
    @Jupiterxice Рік тому +37

    HR is not your friend!!!!!! They do not have your best interest they are there to protect the company. Life lesson learned

  • @Aieshoo
    @Aieshoo Рік тому +17

    "Treat them with dignity and respect." SHOCKING! 😱

  • @flipyapd2321
    @flipyapd2321 Рік тому +26

    HR will always take the side of the corporation and it’s management

    • @pulidobl
      @pulidobl Рік тому +2

      Their paycheck comes from the company - not you. Remember that!

    • @Stacia1975
      @Stacia1975 3 місяці тому +1

      Always ...

  • @michaelw2263
    @michaelw2263 Рік тому +32

    Man, I really wish I found this sooner. I had to deal with a wonderful little defamation and retaliation issue at work a couple months ago. I was being slandered by my boss to other employees. Myself and another coworker decided to reported it to our contract company. Our boss turned around and retaliated by making up a bunch of lies that could potentially break our contract agreement. My company basically threw me under the bus and did not ask for my side of the story despite me being the whistleblower. They were on the verge of firing me till I told them I would be contacting my lawyer about the situation, in which they turned around and backed off real quick. But now I'm sitting here knowing I have a target on my back because my company believed my boss. The positive is I have my resume all squared away and there are options, it's just a matter of covering relocation costs, which is why I'm buying my time with the company still.

  • @charliedallachie3539
    @charliedallachie3539 Рік тому +96

    Because their job is to protect the employer….not the employees?

    • @adesuwa9112
      @adesuwa9112 Рік тому +9

      Often times bad HR reps will still find the smallest reason to fire talented employees who are assets the the employer/ company overall tho. (Usually over personal issues or just straight up discrimination). The ones who go to the extreme unnecessarily are those that give HR a bad name. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @JohnSmith-nk4vn
    @JohnSmith-nk4vn Рік тому +20

    I like going into every interaction with HR, thinking that they hate me and that they're an entry-level lawyer for the company. This puts me in the correct mindset to deal with them.

  • @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms
    @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms Рік тому +43

    I have had such bad experiences with HR that I cannot trust them anymore! To solve issues between employees and employers, I recommend recording all conversations. I started doing this and now employers are angry because everyone sees what they have done!

    • @eggjewla
      @eggjewla 5 місяців тому

      Are you allowed to just record that? Are there legal consent issues?

    • @DispholidusTypus
      @DispholidusTypus 2 місяці тому

      I'm going too do the exact same thing!!! Hidden surveillance cameras don't lie unlike humans 🤥

  • @wendywebster5920
    @wendywebster5920 11 місяців тому +16

    I did have one HR person who did want to help me, but she was mainly working for the company I worked for, and basically had to do what they told her to do. Including getting me fired, even if it meant having to lie on their behalf. She did shine through that she wasn't happy about the procedures put on her, but she still participated in getting me out eventually. I never saw this HR lady again, and I learned a great deal that day, that even nice people can be bought into doing the wrong thing. And yes, they are willing to tell untrue stories to give you reasons for making you redundant. The reason I was given was that a third party could do my job better and cheaper (untrue), but the real reason was because of my disabilities, and a grievance procedure I had to initiate earlier that year, because I was unfairly treated by management that could not be resolved between management and me. And yes, there were loads of things I could have done differently and I made so many mistakes, but when you are inside a burn-out, you truly lose perspective. Boy, was I a fool. And now, 5 months later, I am still looking for another job. I am aware I sound awful, but I am not able to afford the great courses Bryan is offering, but I am learning a lot from his channel. Thank you, Bryan.

  • @dlight9849
    @dlight9849 Рік тому +82

    In today's world of workplace shootings, its shocking that people (HR, managers, coworkers) haven't learned to treat others with decency.

    • @dhenderson1810
      @dhenderson1810 Рік тому +8

      Nothing justifies shooting people.
      You need to deal with the issue in a better way.

    • @dlight9849
      @dlight9849 Рік тому

      @@dhenderson1810 You're obviously an abuser. Guess in your world if a woman is being r@ped she should just "deal with the issue." If someone is being held hostage with a gun to their head they should just "deal with the issue." How about all these mass shootings, guess we should allow shooters free reign to continue shooting, because shooting an active shooter isn't the right way to "deal with the issue."

    • @victoriahope8371
      @victoriahope8371 Рік тому +8

      People should be scared to set someone off......D light you got the thumbs up because I agree with you. Sometimes extreme stuff has to happen to get people to behave better.

    • @nwatson2773
      @nwatson2773 Рік тому +13

      i agree, violence is the only thing that gets their attention.

    • @maffytaffy1231
      @maffytaffy1231 Рік тому +7

      @@dhenderson1810 nothing? You must’ve not experienced life then

  • @Bear-cm1vl
    @Bear-cm1vl Рік тому +17

    For HR to hate you, they would have to care about you. At best an employee is a nuisance to HR "professionals", asking the same "silly" questions all the other employees have asked before. At worst, an employee is a risk to the company in a legal, financial and social way and the risk/damage has to be controlled, managed and mitigated. The HR people are motivated, paid and directed by the company officers/owners to protect the company and helping the employee is more of a side effect than an intended effect.

  • @MW-cx3sb
    @MW-cx3sb Рік тому +10

    Knowing what HR actually is, is extremely important for new/oblivious workers. HR is there for the companies status quo. Nothing more, nothing less. They are not your friend, they are there to protect the companies status quo. Its that simple.

  • @purpletigerracing7087
    @purpletigerracing7087 Рік тому +51

    Not all the bad employees started out as bad employees.
    I used to be a good employee. But now, I actively try to be the worst version of myself possible while clocked in.
    These people deserve the bare minimum, if not less.
    You pretend to pay me, I pretend to work. That's the game we play.
    I might try to be better at my next job. Depot how they treat me.n

    • @gotinogaden
      @gotinogaden Рік тому +8

      Perhaps. When I sign up a contract for X amount of money and Y number of benefits, I don't expect to get [much] more and then blame the employer(s) when I don't. But if I get yelled at, humiliated, undervalued despite going above and beyond, wrongly accused and then ,proven innocent with the whole ordeal put under the covers, looked down upon for not being part of the upper esch... management, or if I see something that deeply disturbs my trust in these people and their "better judgement" (one of the chief reasons I quit my last workplace is because a member of our team died and there was not a single honor moment or word said about them afterwards - it was as if they never existed as a human being, just a number in someone's spreadsheet) then you can damn well be sure that I will first "quiet quit" and then actually quit.

  • @ADAPTATION7
    @ADAPTATION7 Рік тому +107

    There are a lot of laws that protect the employees? Not in my book. And certainly not in the US. The consequences of a lay off for an employee are far worse than for an employer. The employer does not care how a termination will affect the life of an employee. In some cases, it can be devastating.

    • @izzo2998
      @izzo2998 Рік тому +14

      I can testify to that personally.

    • @shesaw5901
      @shesaw5901 Рік тому +7

      This!

    • @abowling5759
      @abowling5759 Рік тому +8

      Very true!….those buzzards don’t care…..😢

    • @izamalcadosa2951
      @izamalcadosa2951 Рік тому +1

      That's because, you are ignorant of labor laws in the U.S.! Listen to the attorney and learn, fool! You can sue the shit out of a company very easily in the U.S., if they fuck you in your ass!! In Europe, it's much harder! You have better benefits and labor conditions in Europe but the labor laws aren't really fairer or better than in the U.S!! Benefits and Conditions aren't the same, as labor laws! Don't confuse the two! Labor laws protecting employees in the U.S. are pretty strict compared to most countries!! I know this because I have a friend that is a domestic and international labor laws attorney. His name is Eric Bravo, Esq.

    • @yvonnepalmquist8676
      @yvonnepalmquist8676 Рік тому +2

      California differs extremely from all the other states. California is not representative of the rest of US.

  • @billybarty100
    @billybarty100 Рік тому +65

    Never talk to HR for anything. If you make a complaint or even help them during an 'investigation', that puts your name out there and you'll be gone

    • @gotinogaden
      @gotinogaden Рік тому +5

      The only time I would purposefully go to HR is on my exit interview. That's about the few times when it's worth it.

    • @bmoshareholderappleshareho855
      @bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Рік тому +9

      That means if you are experiencing workplace harassment, you must put up with it or just quit.

    • @recherche4528
      @recherche4528 Рік тому +5

      Or file a complaint with the EEOC.​@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Or file

    • @neoxnet
      @neoxnet Рік тому +7

      @@gotinogadenBrian had a video as to why you shouldn’t entertain the exit interview!

  • @heidiheidi0
    @heidiheidi0 Рік тому +91

    My best advice is this: If you have a problem with your boss, try to work it out with your boss. If you have a problem with a coworker, try to work it out with them personally. Do not escalate anything if at all possible. If you have to escalate anything, i.e. if your boss does something that cannot be dealt with through talking (harassment, bullying, discrimination), keep your head down and find another job and leave. Don't tell them why -- nothing you say will make them change their behaviors. Just go to greener pastures. It is honestly the only thing that saved me and has resulted in me having a decent reputation in my field.
    Reason for staying quiet: Even those idiotic bosses that I had have given me a decent recommendation because of my silence. Use them the way they use you.

    • @athrundead1
      @athrundead1 Рік тому +4

      or you can sue them for more money

    • @fc7307
      @fc7307 Рік тому +7

      @@athrundead1 You could but once word gets out good luck finding a new job.

    • @GuitarsAndSynths
      @GuitarsAndSynths 10 місяців тому +2

      good advice and I agree 100%

    • @GuitarsAndSynths
      @GuitarsAndSynths 10 місяців тому +1

      @@athrundead1 workers comp lawyer is what you need in these cases

    • @teeada6858
      @teeada6858 7 місяців тому +2

      And this is how the BS continues, because of cowardly behavior like this.

  • @kesayo
    @kesayo Рік тому +23

    I don’t feel bad for people in HR. It’s not like they didn’t know what they were getting into when they decided to become HR specialists. They knew exactly what it’s about, and they chose to do it. Seems like a profession that is made for dark empaths.

    • @MrEffectfilms
      @MrEffectfilms 5 днів тому

      Actually from what I understand most of the time they actually don't know. They think they're actually supposed to be there to help employees only to get a rude awakening that their duty is to the company not the grunts who work there.
      By the time this happens they're often already in too deep to back out.

  • @jayd3337
    @jayd3337 10 місяців тому +6

    I can remember one time at my job I spoke to HR. Me being me I had to be honest about the situation. The HR lady ask me how I rank the company. My question was this:"do you want me to give you a nice fuzzy number or do you want the real thing?" She asked for the real thing. My reply was: "all due respect this company is a 4 out of 10." Her eyes widen that what I said, and I let her know when you're dealing with me you're going to get honest answers. I don't need to sugarcoat, because doing so is not addressing the problem. The company seems to have flawed hiring practices, and they just have the biggest habit of turnover.
    I remember a few times I was up for promotion, but they promoted a friend or somebody who was kissing butt. After realizing the positions I was in being closed out because it was deemed not a profitable move, I sent quit caring about the job I do. If freight breakson a trailer I don't care.
    Should not kiss butt and treat everybody fairly..

  • @NewHeathen78
    @NewHeathen78 Рік тому +15

    Honestly, I would not mind companies going back to the old title of Personnel. It's descriptive and doesn't have the cattle/chattel type of overtones to it.

  • @SK-yb7bx
    @SK-yb7bx Рік тому +12

    HR aren't your friend. They exist to protect the company from you, the employee.

  • @xn0gaming
    @xn0gaming Рік тому +13

    HR is always a siamese twin of the CEO. They are just there to justify their terrible ad hoc decisions

  • @pearlrichardson4179
    @pearlrichardson4179 Рік тому +18

    THAT PART!!! The insensitivity part was the day of my supervisor's wake/funeral that they decided to eliminate my job & close the office. That was a traumatizing & mournful day. Talk about the rug being pulled out from under you & blindsided. 😔

  • @007isha4
    @007isha4 Рік тому +16

    In my honest opinion, the HR person I had to deal with was extremely unhelpful. I reported so many complains to her, even harassment incident etc. And she would constantly say "you're the manager, it's a part of your responsibility" I don't trust any HR period, they let a lot of shit happen without doing anything or being accountable. As long as it's "within the policy" and they can dodge any sort of liability they don't care about us.

  • @heidiheidi0
    @heidiheidi0 Рік тому +17

    I have worked in a place where they didnt even have an HR. That was frightening, but it is just as well. I tried, in some small way, to complain but was met with disbelief and so I stopped. I think most people that I have talked to have gotten into some struggle or conflict at some point in their careers but I never heard of a single one that was actually helped by going to HR.

  • @monterreymxisfun3627
    @monterreymxisfun3627 Рік тому +23

    This is baked into the employee-employer relationship. The stockholders want to minimize payroll. If they can do that by manipulating 2 people to do the work of 3 people they will. I was told to go to HR over an illegal non-compete. I will only do that after filing a complaint with the Attorney General's office and use anti-retaliation laws as a shield. People don't do well with HR because they haven't built their leverage beforehand.

  • @StripperMonkey
    @StripperMonkey Рік тому +10

    HR exists to protect the company, not your job.

  • @flyings.monster6845
    @flyings.monster6845 Рік тому +9

    I’m actually leaving my current company, not because they tried to cut my pay on a contract extension, but because of this sense of hostility from credentialing in HR. I frequently don’t have access to my phone and they often seem to demand an immediate response to emails with more emails and texts. They obviously don’t understand, know, or respect my work or me, so they obviously don’t need me. I’ll cut my ties and find one of the many companies that DOESN’T want to waste time and money.

  • @MrRobcher
    @MrRobcher Рік тому +12

    I dealt with hr in a low level company and after reporting sketcy stuff from management i was treated like a criminal.After that experience i avoid hr at almost all costs unless it is necessary

  • @TheCoolOwen
    @TheCoolOwen Рік тому +31

    Big fan of both Brian and Brannigan and so glad you were both able to do an episode together. Young employees need to watch since they are assuming HR is there to help them, they are not, HR is for protecting the company’s bottom line ONLY!

  • @breakmywalletmotorsport
    @breakmywalletmotorsport Рік тому +10

    I’ve found that HR is typically one of the more dysfunctional groups in the companies I’ve worked for.

  • @hamilcarbarca8659
    @hamilcarbarca8659 Рік тому +17

    My last company was a family buissiness. The owners daughter was H.R. I was fired for the first time of 42 years of working for something I didnt do but evidence is only required in court.

  • @bryansammis998
    @bryansammis998 6 місяців тому +3

    I knew some HR persons that take pride in their reputation as “scalp hunter”. They even say , with a smile:” the quickest way to the top is a high body count”

  • @jeffblack1967
    @jeffblack1967 Рік тому +6

    HR is the black Hand of the company. They are NOT there for the employee, they are there to protect the company.

  • @325xitgrocgetter
    @325xitgrocgetter Рік тому +8

    I worked at a company where we went through a few rounds of layoffs...any time the HR manager would come up to our department, we wondered who is next....I was at a nearby restaurant for lunch...and standing in line waiting to pick up my meal....the HR manager standing behind me and tapped me on my shoulder to say hello. I probably jumped about 5 feet in the air, thinking she followed me to lunch to hand me my papers....no she was getting lunch as well and just wanted to say hello.

  • @AdrianJayeOnline
    @AdrianJayeOnline Рік тому +10

    HR is on the side of the company NOT the employee, that is there role, so by default, they hate you

  • @moneyshift8190
    @moneyshift8190 Рік тому +8

    HR at my previous company was horrible. Literally nobody had a good relationship with them. All they did was add more work and red tape to already maxed out employees.

  • @giovanniduay2613
    @giovanniduay2613 Рік тому +12

    I have experienced this HR hate me thing. I was with company for 8yrs then I didn’t quit I requested to change from employment to PRN employment. The HR didn’t like it when I applied again for a full time job because there’s a open position they treated me badly even they need staff for the position opening

  • @sjh60633
    @sjh60633 Рік тому +5

    Hartford Insurance has the WORST HR department I have ever dealt with. It's all about finding ways to get you fired once your boss wants you out. They claim they are there to help you, but it's a damn lie.

  • @Tjamp
    @Tjamp Рік тому +21

    ''HR and the people they support''. I aint sure who you refering to, but they for sure aint there for the employees. They're there to protect the company and the companys interst.

    • @joniheisenberg
      @joniheisenberg Рік тому

      True

    • @hernandayolearyallda
      @hernandayolearyallda Рік тому

      Lol, you mean like every other department, from sales to marketing, to finance to legal and accounting. When did the accounting department last do your personal taxes. Accounting is only for the company. DUH!

    • @Tjamp
      @Tjamp Рік тому

      @@hernandayolearyallda You completely misunderstand the premise. The accounting department, finance, sales etc. are not presented as someone who 'looks after the employees' however the HR department is. Insanely stupid comment. Probably a HR assistant who drank the coolaid. Stupidity at its finest.
      Read your company handbook for each department. I am sure you will not find a single department where it's stated that they're there for the employees and their wellbeing, but 100% something along those lines are there for the HR department.
      DUH!

  • @philpatt970
    @philpatt970 Рік тому +17

    HR is paid by the corporation. They will always work for who pays them.

    • @Creepystalker102
      @Creepystalker102 Рік тому +1

      Everyone is paid by the corporation. Tired of this lame excuse for being a drain on your own community

    • @philpatt970
      @philpatt970 Рік тому

      The truth hurts didn’t it?

  • @Turco949
    @Turco949 Рік тому +13

    The requirement of employee to sign the arbitration form pre-employment or otherwise grounds for disqualification/termination should not be legal. I don't understand how supreme court can be pro for such unfair thing!

    • @manny9323
      @manny9323 Рік тому +4

      If you don’t understand how the Supreme Court is pro unfair things you need to learn more about the Supreme Court

    • @Turco949
      @Turco949 Рік тому +3

      @@manny9323 Regardless of their stance on the subject, this is clearly and widely happening much like the "Equal Opportunity Employer" nonsense. We all know there is hardly anything "equal" in job opportunities and hiring process.

  • @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms
    @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms Рік тому +11

    I just had a company ask me to sign a severance agreement! I refuse to do so because they have lied to my face about everything! In that agreement, I was told not to seek counseling for the psychological damage they inflicted on me!

  • @xephael3485
    @xephael3485 Рік тому +26

    Human Resources treats you as a resource/commodity to be used and disposed of...

    • @jekw23
      @jekw23 Рік тому +3

      Exactly right, it’s in the name. People are a resource of the company

    • @billybarty100
      @billybarty100 Рік тому +2

      Yeah they're the ones who guarantee your promotion at 5 years in writing, but you get fired instead cause the COOs son needs a job right at your 5th year.

    • @andyn6053
      @andyn6053 Рік тому +4

      Thats why people are practicing quiet quitting

  • @h3lio5
    @h3lio5 Рік тому +4

    “Hate” isn’t the right word. “Indifferent” would be better. They are there to protect the company, that is all.

  • @rlmiller007
    @rlmiller007 11 місяців тому +4

    I had 8 years of stellar reviews at a very large cable company. My wife got very ill. My sup put in my yearly review that I used to much FMLA and lowered my score until they could build a case to fire me as well. ( I did march right in to HR and tell them that by law they couldn't put that in a review) HR is not for employees

  • @johnburr9463
    @johnburr9463 Рік тому +19

    This explains a LOT about some of the experiences I've been through. Thank you for doing this interview.

  • @Jerrard1983
    @Jerrard1983 Рік тому +5

    I had a previous immediate supervisor who went into a conference with Human Resources. The conversation apparently was about him wanting to grieve about our district manager's management style and oddly his attempting to advocate for the staff to get better wages. Apparently, the conversation ended with him being so frustrated that he gave his immediate resignation
    When this was shared with me I immediately explain to my colleague that he skipped over steps. He was supposed to attempt to try to find a resolution with our District manager. Even him asking if the Regional Manager could be a part of the conversation. But going to HR about someone's management style was not a legitimate reason unless our DM was doing something illegal. Additionally, rates are standard with each position having a specific rate that aligns with industry standards. He should have been asking for clarity on what was standard instead of looking for a resolution.

  • @dhenderson1810
    @dhenderson1810 Рік тому +18

    The fact is, a lot of employers and HR don't care about the employees.
    In employment, everyone is using each other to achieve their own ends. As long as you know your employer is not your friend, and you are not theirs.

    • @PaperRaines
      @PaperRaines Рік тому

      I mean it's still human to human, no matter how big the company is. Any relationship has a mutual benefit to it, but yes a job is going to come with different boundaries and parameters than say a platonic friendship, or a romantic relationship..... but, they all have a boundary and parameters somewhere. What you said can apply to any human to human exchange
      At the end of the day every individual has to make choices and live with them, better choices will yield you better results. But there's no place to escape the possibility of disappointment, failure, or rejection. A job may not be your friend, but you can mentally clock out of your job whenever you want. You can't do that with a friend
      It's all about, choices

    • @muzungu9625
      @muzungu9625 Рік тому

      HR people are just employee themselves

  • @howardshair3235
    @howardshair3235 Рік тому +5

    Document everything and make sure you have copies before the company cuts off your computer access to emails/texts.

  • @benowens9590
    @benowens9590 Рік тому +12

    I remember receiving a letter in the mail a few days after resigning a job saying that I was terminated due to "voluntarily quitting".
    That was the first time I've ever seen a letter like that after resigning a job. I wonder if that is the reason why I was having a difficult time finding a new job for a few months after leaving that company.

    • @JakoWako
      @JakoWako Рік тому +7

      My best guess would be that they wanted to document you quit your job so that their unemployment insurance doesn’t go up. Also, I read that it takes on average three months to find a new job so don’t feel demotivated for not finding a new job within a month. Hope you found a better position!

    • @PurplePinkRed
      @PurplePinkRed 8 місяців тому +3

      I'm not sure about the US, but in Australia, "voluntary quitting" a job delays your ability to apply for unemployment benefits. That's why many will turn up late to work repeatedly to get fired instead so they can apply for benefits straightaway. They could be just digging the knife in for the last time for the fun of it. Narcissists love that stuff.

  • @loveandparty4118
    @loveandparty4118 Рік тому +6

    Yeah HR never liked me no matter how hard I tried. They always had something to criticize me about no matter what I did. Oh well someday they'll be old and start to hate themselves since they can't work like robots anymore.

  • @captflam5266
    @captflam5266 Рік тому +7

    you need to to get your financial independance to get rid of those nasty recruiters and HR and those stupid interviews and employee infantilisation. loyalty goes both ways

  • @fidgetykoala
    @fidgetykoala Рік тому +7

    -Some HR people don't even have a background in business studies, especially here in Europe. Some of them went for random (usually humanities related) degrees and then did a course in HR. Those people are in charge of deciding who is in and out of the company, and most of the time I realised that the recruiter didn't have a clue about all the technicalities involved within the position. The interview was more about 'understanding' if I was a good fit. Organisational behaviour is not a thing, it's a conceptual mash-up of principles derived from psychometry, leadership and behavioural psychology. When applying for SMEs, I had practically direct contact with the real employer and I frequently got employed. When applying for larger companies, it is quite difficult to get past the first step of the interview once HR is involved. This should ring a bell, I hope most of the HR function will be automised, I think AI will have a less biased approach to managing the personnel across the various stage of the candidate journey and beyond.

    • @rarr2130
      @rarr2130 Рік тому +1

      It's so true. I'm from a central-european country and all HR departements here seem to be full of some random people witout any appropriate experience or business education. That's why I like working for small business. When you can talk to a company owner it's so much easier to get a job, they are much more reasonable.

    • @fidgetykoala
      @fidgetykoala Рік тому

      @@rarr2130 exact, Europe is far behind the US, although loads of courses are outlined following US business criteria without a realistic alignment within the EU businesses' infrastructure.

  • @hsharma3933
    @hsharma3933 Рік тому +14

    Isn’t HR themselves a type of arbitration for management?

    • @ArchTeryx00
      @ArchTeryx00 Рік тому +2

      Bingo. They're an internal, in-house arbitration firm.

  • @ArchTeryx00
    @ArchTeryx00 Рік тому +3

    Really, "Human Resources" has only two basic goals:
    1) To execute the will of the managers, and
    2) To protect the company from lawsuits, mainly from workers
    And they are quite ruthless at both. Some HR departments, however, let their power go to their head and actually go rogue. I had that happen at University of Michigan when I accidentally stepped on some professor's toes, and HR *instantly* moved to fire me - against both my boss' and HIS boss' wishes and the latter was pretty senior management. On the word of someone who had no direct authority over me, and who turned out to be a junior professor. Eventually it resulted in a termination hearing where I basically told them - fire me and get sued for wrongful termination and discrimination under the ADA. And both my bosses backed me up. Then, and ONLY then, did they back down. I wasn't fired.
    They got the last laugh, though. I was laid off within a few months of the whole mess.

  • @hag12100
    @hag12100 Рік тому +3

    Unless your job involves duties within HR or senior / c-suite management, minimize your interactions with HR as much as possible. Avoid exposure as best as you can because a low profile can allow you to keep a job.

  • @eggjewla
    @eggjewla 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for talking about this topic, great collaboration!

  • @drew8235
    @drew8235 8 місяців тому +3

    New job, new employee orientation a few months in. HR rep goes "we're not like other HRs, we're here for YOU".
    I laughed so hard. I laughed my hole off.

  • @uacbpa
    @uacbpa Рік тому +1

    This is excellent information. Great video. Thank you.

  • @amybee9
    @amybee9 Рік тому +3

    Wow! Thank you for doing this interview. Validates a lot of things I have seen and experienced in my career.

  • @pamelahomeyer748
    @pamelahomeyer748 9 місяців тому +1

    I did work in one life insurance company inside Houston Texas where it was very obvious that the HR department strictly there to protect the corporation. It was a big wake-up call for me and I was always very careful about accessing the HR department before accepting a job

  • @ALCRAN2010
    @ALCRAN2010 Рік тому +4

    Great video Brian!
    Listened all the way through because, ya never know when you're going to need this information...

  • @alexdavidson9204
    @alexdavidson9204 Рік тому +2

    Very informative & a reminder of the state of the social contract or lack thereof between employer & employee. There were a lot of good points that people need to be aware of regarding the terms of their employment. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. Thanks for another great video Brian. Branigan was an excellent guest. Perhaps in the future you could delve more deeply into performance appraisals.

  • @8383kathy
    @8383kathy 13 днів тому

    Brilliant discussion. I could listen to you guys all day! 😃

  • @WearingBlackAlways
    @WearingBlackAlways Рік тому +2

    I think we can divide HR into 2 types, groups or categories: #1.) Guard dogs or enforcers for the business owner/s and #2.) Employee support - those who are supposed to assist and answer employee concerns, benefits, etc. Personally, I never had any problem with Group#1 and I think you will only encounter them if you are suspected of violating any company policies. I am however very pissed at HR Group #2 because most of the time they are not doing their jobs.

  • @DynV
    @DynV Рік тому +2

    I love how 9/10 videos that mention they'll include a URL doesn't do it.

  • @abowling5759
    @abowling5759 Рік тому +4

    Really learned a lot!….wish I had this information years ago…..wow….
    Confirms what I’ve always suspected was true…..keep all of this truth-telling coming…..
    Thank you for this video ♥️

  • @michaelgoff4504
    @michaelgoff4504 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for this conversation. Yeah, I've definitely learned some lessons here the hard way.

  • @TheConqueror009
    @TheConqueror009 Рік тому +3

    19:37 that's how it is being a LEO and in the military. You are always being watched.

  • @jamok3
    @jamok3 Рік тому +1

    The both of you guys are awesome.

  • @jennyc5100
    @jennyc5100 Рік тому +3

    Great video!!

  • @LassieFarm
    @LassieFarm Рік тому +4

    HR isn't there to help me

  • @stephenbayer3909
    @stephenbayer3909 Рік тому

    Great info, thank you.

  • @arkboi2145
    @arkboi2145 Місяць тому

    As someone who has worked in Human Resources (HR) for a time, I can tell you that HR is there to strictly benefit the company or business, not the people who work for the company or business. HR’s sole purpose and reason for existing, is to manage humans, whom a company or business views as simple tools, a resource, to achieve an end goal. HR then attempts to protect the company’s or business’s investments and assets by trying to ensure those tools act and behave in the exact and proper way that they were hired (bought) for, that those tools are following all the proper designated processes and procedures (to avoid legal issues), and ultimately that those tools don’t end up dulling or breaking all together (burn out and/or performance issues). Otherwise, those dull or broken tools will be quickly and easily thrown away and a new tool will be acquired as swiftly as possible as a replacement.
    EVERYTHING an HR department does, is ultimately from this lense. If it ever seems like your HR department “cares” about you or is doing something nice for you, know that the ulterior motive behind it stems from the singular purpose and goal I mentioned above. It’s basic psychological manipulation tactics.

  • @freesiahevnosey6124
    @freesiahevnosey6124 Рік тому +2

    i find this so ironic. at my previous job a manager stole my phone

  • @petersouthwell5971
    @petersouthwell5971 7 місяців тому +1

    HR is there to make sure the company doesn't do anything that gets them sued by employees. That's basically the purpose. They're compliance officers.

  • @salinasdoubledutch
    @salinasdoubledutch Рік тому +1

    Great interview

  • @mrn13
    @mrn13 Рік тому +1

    Very important understanding is that HR duty is to protect the Company. Then, depending on country and context, they can be very helpful in terms of on the job trainings, obvious personal crisis and so forth.

  • @shafserious2805
    @shafserious2805 15 днів тому

    This channel is golden (from UK)

  • @macmedic892
    @macmedic892 Рік тому +10

    It’s because of all the Toby jokes, isn’t it?

  • @SeraphoftheRoundTable
    @SeraphoftheRoundTable 11 місяців тому +1

    The more and more I hear about how you are in a constant battle with your employer and HR the more I feel I should start my own business and do my own thing and work for myself. At that point it's only me and the customer.

  • @maureenmurphy7817
    @maureenmurphy7817 6 місяців тому

    At 27:00 through 28:00, I immediately thought of communications that came out when IBM personnel were ridiculing older employees as dinsaurs, etc. E-discovery is a wonderful thing.

  • @JanJan4Infinity
    @JanJan4Infinity Рік тому +3

    As long as you know your rights as an employee then it should not matter whether Human Resources likes you or not. Just like you they are simply doing their job to earn a paycheque.

  • @homembombadasamsung9772
    @homembombadasamsung9772 Рік тому +1

    Thank for the vídeo.

  • @cats4992
    @cats4992 8 місяців тому

    I love you guys are together i watch you both!!! ❤️ 🙂