Georgia, I'm 29, so just barely ahead of you in life, and I have to tell you that your courage in choosing to honour yourself is phenomenal. I was also raised in the church, questioning that was terrifying for me, and also left space for me to discover my sexuality. Being sad is totally ok, needing to put that feeling down occasionally is also ok because it's heavy. All of this is to say you're doing amazingly and you're certainly not alone, even if it feels like that sometimes ❤️
Don’t worry if you feel your vlogs are “bad” because tbh they are really great! Nothing more relatable and easy to watch than a real life chat and real problems instead of a perfectly edited week of healthy eating and gym which is also great but not as comforting bc a lot of humans in their 20s struggle with identity and beliefs etc. Good luck for the move!! Sending love 💗
This has been the most comforting vlog yet. I’m currently going through a season of self discovery and can completely relate to being a people pleaser my whole life. It’s really challenging having to step away and try and figure out who you are as a person without the influence of others in your life. I hope you know + remember you are definitely not alone in this journey! Slowly coming to terms that we don’t really know what we’re doing with our lives but that is completely okay and is exactly what life is all about! Thank you for posting this and sharing your thoughts and journey with us x
I lost many family members and friends after coming out as queer but I gained so much more. I gained my true self, true friends and family and a community of people who have been through the same thing and who will support you no matter what. We're all here for you ❤
Thank you for being so raw. Don’t be too hard on yourself, I’m 35 and I’m still learning how to not be a people pleaser, set healthy boundaries whilst also learning who I am. There is no timeline on these things, take the time you need to figure out who you are and what you believe in. Also there is also nothing wrong with changing, we can’t always be the same person, we evolve and grow!
I am 45 and trust me you never really feel like you know yourself 100% . . . . You do you and people will love you, disagree with you or come in to your life or walk away! Be true to you always and it does make life easier.. Learning how to be Georgia in life is hard but learning how to be Georgia on the internet is going to be significantly harder.
I recognize and validate your feelings about how this vlog is lacking quality to you, however, for me, this vlog is beautiful. Hearing you speak about life and what it is like navigating it is what keeps me coming back to your videos. You alone are the reason why i keep coming back to your vlogs, not a list, not aesthetic video shoots, simply and amazingly and obviously *you*! Because you are stunning as a person, as a soul, and knowing just a bit of your mind and heart is absolutely an honour and truly life-changing for me 🤍
You’re like the big sister I never had and I love listening to you talk about self-discovery, your sexuality, life in general - it really helps listening to someone who seems to be going through the same things as you are or are on the same wave length. You have been such an inspiration and comfort since 2017 for me, no matter what stage of life your in.
I started going to therapy this year and learnt that holding back on sharing my thoughts and opinions with others was reinforcing me not being my true self. It added to me feeling a deep feeling of being “different” and not accepted by others which was really all in my head, therapy has changed my life and I’d 1000% recommend. Good luck Georgia, you will get there 🥰
Your 20s are the toughest thing ever! I’ve never related to a video more than this one. Omg the self discovery and soul searching 🥹 We love and support you always and forever 🌈🌈🌈💗💗💗
So happy you are finding your sexuality at such a young age. I’m 32 and just found out I’m bisexual, so I’m a bit late in the game, but you, my dear, have your whole life ahead of you, and it only gets fun from here. Cheers 😊
Was going to say the same thing as Adriana! Your still young! People are always finding out things about themselves much much later in life. Don’t hold back because of your age :)
I'm up on the Sunshine Coast and girl, being closer to the beach and all it will offer you down there will be MAGICAL. The salt in the air, the crashing waves, the way your soul just comes alive and the feeling of freedom and clarity.. I'm loving this for you. I'm here for ALL your vlogs and personally (actually, like everyone else here!) think you're such a darling and as a group we know you'll be okay. And you know you'll be okay. And do nice things for yourself. A little treat here and there. Go get 'em Georgia xx
She is TRENDING 😮❤❤❤ LOVE THIS! 43 and a LOT of ups and downs and I feeling more confident about WHO I am and why.. it takes time and honest sit down chats with yourself xxx
Girl your uniqueness is beautiful. There’s no right and wrong way to be as a person. Proud of you for even slightly voicing what your working through. Also, how stunning do you look sitting on the floor chatting ❤
Being a people pleaser and then also trying to figure yourself out is so damn hard. And doing so in front of an audience; I can only imagine! The most important thing I found in figuring myself, sexuality, beliefs and just life experiences in general, is that it is sooo sooo much easier with a support system. Yes of course you can’t have someone hold your hand for everything whilst you jump into big things, but it makes a difference to have love to fall back on and friends and family to experience things with ❤ You’ve got this, life is scary, and amazing and full of contradictions and rewards. Life’s a puzzle but it all happens for a reason! I’m 27 now and have no clue what my next step is yet 😩 but I will. Just have hope and know you have purpose!
I grew up in the church, and around Christian people and I came out as bisexual in my late teens. It was terrifying to be honest because it went against what my family and religion sort of.. taught. My parents ended up being so open and actually they kind of really worked on their own views and beliefs and have rejected the belief system that being part of the lgbtqia+ community is wrong, or a sin. I personally have moved away from (religiously/spiritually) anything that doesn't align with my core beliefs and anything that doesn't make me feel good. That'd just me. But this is a scary but amazing time for you. Finding yourself will be the best thing you ever do. I'm 33 now and always discovering myself but I can say I know myself so much more than I did in my 20s and am so much more more comfident and that did involve some sadness, and loss of relationships and friendships too but that's okay 🖤
I just want to say I love the part at the end where you sat down and talked about trying to figure out who you are in your 20’s. I just turned 30 and this is the phase I’m currently going through. I got married young and now my ex and I are currently going through a divorce. I’m back to having to make decisions for myself which I haven’t done in a long time. In fact I’ve always done things because the people around me would do them. And now I’m questioning everything and I’m on a path to self discovery. It’s a scary time but it’s also refreshing to be able to essentially wipe the slate clean and get ready for this next adventure in my life.
1. I have such a girl crush on Georgia 2. Your 20s aren't what people often make it out to be. 20s are hard. And honestly I'm only starting to figure shit out and I'm 32 3. I'm a recovering people pleaser. All came crashing down when I came to a breaking point because I could no longer pretend to be someone/something I'm not. Now that I feel like I'm on the other side of it, I can tell you it gets MUCH better once you stop trying to please everyone else and fit into their box 4. A little struggle is good for the soul 5. You've got this girl 💪
From a fellow religious trauma girly Maddie Zahms album “If it’s not God” is really therapeutic to listen to ❤️ you are doing amazing girl working through stuff isn’t easy
girlie im so happy for you, learning more about yourself. its hard but its necessary to evolve to your next iteration ya know. after 10 years of thinking i was gay i just came out as bisexual last year and tiktok was a HUGE part in me figuring myself out and feeling validated. you do you and never put your life on someone else's schedule x
Honestly way prefer the content where you are super real and honest. Rather than montages of the gym/walks ect. Love both but its okay to have different content x
Oh darling girl you are going to be ok... I’m quite a bit older than you and from what I see , you are going to go on to have a great life, you are doing all the right things, sometimes we outgrow friendships, sometimes people let us down, you are who you are darling and you seem to be a beautiful person, your family will accept your sexuality, it may take a while but they will because they love you, and for the people that don’t, that’s their loss, go and live your true self and you will attract likeminded people . I wish I was as wise as you in my 20’s💕
I think we all experience this, over multiple parts of our lives. I lost myself when I had children, and then again when I lost my mum this year. We are constantly questioning and learning about ourselves. It’s good to be open with yourself and ‘experiment’ with thoughts and ideas. You owe it to yourself to be happy, whatever what the season in your life
Thank you for being open and honest about this means the world to me. I’m struggling with the same thing and have been for a while and I’ve finally decided to face it. It’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Trying to unpack my feelings and thoughts without thinking of the opinions of others around me but it’s worth it because I deserve to be happy. I hope one day you, I and everyone in the comments struggling with this can come to terms about what we know deep down.The supportive atmosphere in the comments just means the world. We love your vlogs for what they are n will keep watching because we are here for u. I can’t wait to see where this move takes you and all the growth and positivity that comes with it. Sending love 💗
I believe any person on this planet is either going through, or has gone through this. It’s so good that you have this platform, so the you know you’re not alone. I grew up in a religious household, and we all went through the same. Even my friends who also grew up in religious household have done the same. My older sister recently came out, and my mom is still trying to process it. Me and our little sister already knew this (it was obvious growing up), but my mom claims she didn’t see it. Either way, you’ll get there. Remember that this is about you, and no one else. No matter what you decide in your life, there’s always a higher power saying I got you.
Well done and so brave for opening up Georgia. No pressure to share anything but I think we often don't realise how many people struggle with things like sexuality and you just don't hear about it, especially if you don't have similar friends. Life is so short so (as easy as it is to say) I think you should spend it being truest to yourself. Agree that maybe moving away will really help that
I feel like i have been where you are. I learnt that when we reject our inner most self we feel resistance in all aspects of life, when we feel like we are struggling against the world, we are really just struggling against ourselves. I believe you know your answers G and you will accept them when you are ready. We will be here waiting for you with open arms!! ❤❤❤
This is the most relatable content I've ever seen. Having so many things to thing about while navigating work, relationships and being a doggy mum can feel so overwhelming. You're doing amazing, please keep posting content that is true to yourself 🤍🫶🏼
You're doing great Georgia.🥂 I have no vlog I disliked from you. Try not to be hard on yourself. We subscribed for your genuine character. 💕💕 Also girrrrl you're pretty ♡
I’m so proud for this conversation at the end. Life is hard. I’m 28 almost 29 and honestly being in 20s is tough! Apparently 30s is better I grew up with church etc. but I am pansexual and I surprisingly was pretty supported
You will forever be my comfort human!!! I am so excited for you to go on this journey and figure out your core beliefs and what is important to you! I also think travelling is such a catalyst for showing you you don't need to live the life you were brought up in, as you see how other cultures do life! BIG BIG LOVE as always xoxoxo
This was so nice! Felt like a FaceTime chat with a friend! I went through exactly what you are going through last year and now I’m in the most fulfilling and amazing relationship with a woman I love. It takes time to work through all that so be kind and patient with yourself, you know what’s best for you! ❤
I love all the content you put out! Perfection is the enemy of progress, we are here FOR YOU. I empathize soooooo much with struggling to find yourself, I’m going through the same thingggg Literally I have no idea what I’m doing next year, let alone with my life, YOU ARE NOT ALONE
It’s okay to do things in your own time. ❤️ I did, and now at 26 Im discovering an all new side of myself and it’s being challenging yes, but also incredible. Let’s learn, feel and do this step by step 🏳️🌈
I loved your little talk at the end. I am having those exact emotions right now. Im 24 and just moved 2 hours away from my hometown and everything that I’ve ever known. I love being able to explore my sexuality but it’s scary when everything’s new. It’s nice knowing you’re not alone! ❤
It can be so hard to move places. I moved from Melbourne to Sydney 5 years ago and while it completely changed my life, I’m really grateful for everything it’s taught me. It’s going to feel scary, exciting and confusing all at once but that’s ok! Some seasons are just like that!
deconstructing from the church is such a huge mind****. But believe me that in the end it is so worth it. Myself and a few friends went through our own deconstruction journeys around the same time and it was nice to see how others have gone through it and where we all landed. Its freeing to have beliefs even if others don't share the fact ones but also being flexible enough to learn new things and allow yourself to ebb and flow with new ideas and information. There are podcasts, IG pages and such that are great to listen to around the subject of deconstructing.
luv your videos so much and you’ve honestly made me more confident in myself.. im not a Christian or even religious at all but youve kind of made me see a new light of religion and respect it even more. what i mean by this is that even though we are different in that aspect, you have made me understand it and therefore I respect it. This goes for anyone in your life and even yourself. They might not be like you in that sense but for them to just be around you and understand it is enough. For them to accept you as well is a huge part of it, the people who love you most will understand and stay and the people who are meant to go, will go :)
Hey G. I'm 25 and I can relate so much, I've been a people pleaser my whole life and I'm really trying to change that! And, as someone said, I think you never feel like you truly know yourself... I love your vlogs❤
Sending you so much love and acceptance! Be patient with yourself….it does feel like we should have ourselves figured out. However, if the goal is to keep progressing and changing, then we will have to get to know our new selves a few times through life. You got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi Georgia! I am a lot older than you but I enjoy your vlogs so much. I have 2 sons, one 25 and the other is 29 and let me say to hear what your sharing is so refreshing. I enjoyed this video so much and want you to know all the support you have on this side! Cheers from Southern California!!
hey georgia, just wanted to say that i've loved these last few vlogs! we are our own worst critic, and the most authentic vlogs that you put out are the ones that feel the most comforting - because it's so real. and just as you said; it makes us feel like we're not alone. it takes a lot of courage and hard work to dig deeper, do the work, and want to better ourselves. so be proud of yourself and give yourself some grace. sending you my love and best wishes - you got this! at the end of the day, we're all just trying to figure things out. ❤❤
Thanks for being so raw and open Georgia! I can relate! You do not need to figure it all out now. With time things will get clearer. You are amazing xx
Georgia, good luck in this big step to move to another city. I really hope you can really find your truly self in this new space. Enjoy this quietness moment that you won’t have many friends and things around there to be alone with your own thoughts and discover what you want to be
I love your vlogs so much! Thank you for being so honest/vulnerable/relatable ❤ can’t wait for the moving content 🤩 I love that you are making the leap and doing something for you (and Winnie!). So many content creators are all on the same path (couples content, engagement content, family blogger content) and I love how independent you are because that is so much more relatable to me and makes me feel supported in the path I currently find myself on.
I love this vlog just like the rest! I know it’s got to be so difficult putting yourself out there online, but your transparency is helping others who are going through the same thing! Sending you love and positivity! 💛
One of my fav vlogs! To me, it had everything. I was laughing, i relate so much to your struggles anddddd also vv obsessed w midnight. Thank you for being so real on here, i love it and it makes me feel less alone
I so know what you mean about emotions coming through. When I moved into my own place it was the first time in years I was truly alone and I found I had time to feel all the emotions I'd put aside for years. I literally cried for the first month in my new house lol feels good to process and heal though.
Honestly my 20s were very up and down.. but I’m 2 years into my 30s and they’re great 😊 you’ll have times in life where you feel this way.. but things will be better ❤
Sadly the journey that you are taking and need to take to discover who you are you may lose some family and friends as they may not agree with the choices you are making. But that is OK you are doing what is right for you, what is going to make you happy, you are discovering you. We all lose friends along the journey of life but we also gain more, more valuable ones and we keep the ones that are important to us. That will have our backs, that will support us no matter what. You’re happiness is the most important thing at the end of this all
Georgia! 20s are hard lol 30s are WAY better! I was a people pleaser too and the hardest was seeing people leave my life because our outlook/views differed BUT in their place grew beautiful, deep friendships with people who I was in alignment with. When I let go and trusted I would find my people, I did, and my career aligned too and my partnerships and all the things. It's a process and a journey for sure. I moved countries twice in that time too! As you said, leaving the comforts will help! You've got this girlie (even if some days don't feel that way lol).
I just want to say I love you.. I started watching you because you're the first person on UA-cam I felt like I could honestly relate to and that was such a comfort to me. You seem like such a sweet, down to earth person and even tho I don't know you, I want to encourage you by saying nobody knows who they are (including me) we're all just going along, doing the best we can and figuring it out as we go along. I know how hard it can be to figure out who are seperate to your family, friends and religion (I grew up in the church too) and not want to feel like you're disappointing anyone. I know my family have very strong beliefs on things, and then society have their expectations and then the expectation of women in general and everything else.. I still haven't figured out what I want for myself yet and idk if I ever will. But what I have learned is that it's okay to change your opinions on things because of your own personal growth and learning. No one is ever going to have the same life as you or experience the same things as you and that ultimately is what shapes our opinions, views and ideologies. So it's only fitting that those things will change over time as we experience new things, meet new people and become more educated on certain things. But even with all that, it's okay to still feel and be unsure sometimes. I know I am 99.9% of the time. I don't think anyone really knows who they are and I think that is something we are all searching for while also thinking that when we finally discover "who we are" suddenly everything will make sense. But maybe it's not meant to make sense? As cheesy as it sounds life is about the climb, it's about the journey and even if you never find a clear-cut answer to "who you really are", I think that's okay because humans are complicated. We're always changing, evolving and growing. But that's the beauty of it because maybe who we are changes and grows with us too. It's not a clear-cut thing and that's okay. Thank you for always being real and no matter what direction you decide to go in, I will be on this journey with you
I'm so happy you verbalized this because trying to figure out how to step into yourself is sooooo hard and stressful.....I hope nothing but the best for you because, like you said in the beginning, people are going through it with you. Even if you're not around those people and you can't lean on them, you're never alone in your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck and fight on warrior 💪💪
I was enjoying this vlog so much when you said you didn’t think it was a very good vlog! Sometimes we like the more comforting casual vlogs that are chatty more than the montages and grocery hauls! Always look forward to your uploads!
I'm so proud of you Georgia!! transition is scary but it will be so worth it. Thank you for sharing because I feel the exact same way. you got this and we support you❤
Doesn't matter what age you are no one knows what they're doing. You just gotta do what feels rights at the time. Life is all about learning,growing and trying new things and finding happiness. You don't have to have it all sorted xx just enjoy where you are now and one day you look back and it will or makes sense xx
your vlogs are literally my favourite thing to watch!!! best after school wind down between studying and relaxing. and I'm so happy that you got approved!!!!! this is amazing, can't wait to watch you flourish in this new space! it'll be worth the hardships, even if it's a learning curve ❤❤❤
Honestly, i relate so much, I'm 24 and have been going through a really similar time and thinking how pointless everyday things are when you have so much your trying to work out in your own head. I swear its true that your 20's are extra hard, I feel like my brain just said okay ...time to realise everything you were avoiding... all at once lol. Just know your not alone and a lot of us are in the same boat, you got this💜
Georgia I 100% feel you. Went through such a similar thing in my early 20s (been raised in a religious household my entire life) and had a real troubling time confronting the idea that some of the beliefs I’d always been told didn’t actually reflect how I actually felt inside. One thing that really helped me is the idea that you don’t have to know exactly what you think or believe in - this will evolve and change over time! It’s okay to not know & be open to the fact that the world is a big place and everyone sees it differently (which is an incredible thing). Also would encourage you if you feel comfortable to immerse yourself in LGBTQ+ places and safe spaces and see how much of a welcoming and wholesome environment they are! Sending lots of love you got this x
i feel everything in this vlog 100% ♥️ 20s are soooo weird & having so much flexibility as well as learning to trust your choices/path after not having it in your teens/childhood is so ODD. but yes i agree that it does get better! i always like to tell myself that adulthood doesn’t always get easier but it does get better ☺️ you’re doing amazing georgia, always looking forward to seeing what you get up to next in the next chapter, good things are coming your way 💫
I'm not a Christian and not 100% sure I believe in the typical god everyone talks about I can say that when I started to discover myself and realised I was pansexual/bisexual what comforted me was that "god made you who are you and fate was has brought to where you are because of what god has planned for you" I know that this will be journey with many ups and downs for you but I think no matter who decides to support you or not you will find the people who love you and support you for you. Your journey with god is your journey and at the end of the day the bible is interrupted in so many ways to support so many different beliefs so I guess what I'm trying to say is let god show you their plan within the world beyond the bible and Christianity xx I love you and support you on journey as a long time viewer having you open up about all of this is so amazing and inspiring thank you xx
Sending love and light to you Georgia, we are here supporting you and thankful for your honesty and I am so excited to see what this new chapter brings you!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤
Georgia, I'm 29, so just barely ahead of you in life, and I have to tell you that your courage in choosing to honour yourself is phenomenal. I was also raised in the church, questioning that was terrifying for me, and also left space for me to discover my sexuality. Being sad is totally ok, needing to put that feeling down occasionally is also ok because it's heavy. All of this is to say you're doing amazingly and you're certainly not alone, even if it feels like that sometimes ❤️
Don’t worry if you feel your vlogs are “bad” because tbh they are really great! Nothing more relatable and easy to watch than a real life chat and real problems instead of a perfectly edited week of healthy eating and gym which is also great but not as comforting bc a lot of humans in their 20s struggle with identity and beliefs etc. Good luck for the move!! Sending love 💗
This has been the most comforting vlog yet. I’m currently going through a season of self discovery and can completely relate to being a people pleaser my whole life. It’s really challenging having to step away and try and figure out who you are as a person without the influence of others in your life.
I hope you know + remember you are definitely not alone in this journey! Slowly coming to terms that we don’t really know what we’re doing with our lives but that is completely okay and is exactly what life is all about! Thank you for posting this and sharing your thoughts and journey with us x
I lost many family members and friends after coming out as queer but I gained so much more. I gained my true self, true friends and family and a community of people who have been through the same thing and who will support you no matter what. We're all here for you ❤
Thank you for being so raw. Don’t be too hard on yourself, I’m 35 and I’m still learning how to not be a people pleaser, set healthy boundaries whilst also learning who I am. There is no timeline on these things, take the time you need to figure out who you are and what you believe in. Also there is also nothing wrong with changing, we can’t always be the same person, we evolve and grow!
I am 45 and trust me you never really feel like you know yourself 100% . . . . You do you and people will love you, disagree with you or come in to your life or walk away! Be true to you always and it does make life easier.. Learning how to be Georgia in life is hard but learning how to be Georgia on the internet is going to be significantly harder.
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I recognize and validate your feelings about how this vlog is lacking quality to you, however, for me, this vlog is beautiful. Hearing you speak about life and what it is like navigating it is what keeps me coming back to your videos. You alone are the reason why i keep coming back to your vlogs, not a list, not aesthetic video shoots, simply and amazingly and obviously *you*! Because you are stunning as a person, as a soul, and knowing just a bit of your mind and heart is absolutely an honour and truly life-changing for me 🤍
You’re like the big sister I never had and I love listening to you talk about self-discovery, your sexuality, life in general - it really helps listening to someone who seems to be going through the same things as you are or are on the same wave length. You have been such an inspiration and comfort since 2017 for me, no matter what stage of life your in.
I started going to therapy this year and learnt that holding back on sharing my thoughts and opinions with others was reinforcing me not being my true self. It added to me feeling a deep feeling of being “different” and not accepted by others which was really all in my head, therapy has changed my life and I’d 1000% recommend. Good luck Georgia, you will get there 🥰
Your 20s are the toughest thing ever! I’ve never related to a video more than this one. Omg the self discovery and soul searching 🥹
We love and support you always and forever 🌈🌈🌈💗💗💗
Your vlogs are so relatable!! Your honesty and openness always makes me smile so much. Honestly appreciate you for always showing up for us ❤❤
So happy you are finding your sexuality at such a young age. I’m 32 and just found out I’m bisexual, so I’m a bit late in the game, but you, my dear, have your whole life ahead of you, and it only gets fun from here. Cheers 😊
32 is pretty young and you, too, have your whole life ahead.
Was going to say the same thing as Adriana! Your still young! People are always finding out things about themselves much much later in life. Don’t hold back because of your age :)
I just realised last year, at 36!!
take you time gurl! we love hanging out with you and will be here to hear your thoughts when/if you feel ready
I'm up on the Sunshine Coast and girl, being closer to the beach and all it will offer you down there will be MAGICAL. The salt in the air, the crashing waves, the way your soul just comes alive and the feeling of freedom and clarity.. I'm loving this for you. I'm here for ALL your vlogs and personally (actually, like everyone else here!) think you're such a darling and as a group we know you'll be okay. And you know you'll be okay. And do nice things for yourself. A little treat here and there. Go get 'em Georgia xx
She is TRENDING 😮❤❤❤ LOVE THIS! 43 and a LOT of ups and downs and I feeling more confident about WHO I am and why.. it takes time and honest sit down chats with yourself xxx
Girl your uniqueness is beautiful. There’s no right and wrong way to be as a person. Proud of you for even slightly voicing what your working through. Also, how stunning do you look sitting on the floor chatting ❤
I love the rain!!! Which is why i find so intriguing seeing how much of a sun girl you are and feel absolutely the opposite to me about rain
Georgia we are so unbelievably proud of your vulnerability and just you being who you are love from the United Kingdom 🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️
Being a people pleaser and then also trying to figure yourself out is so damn hard. And doing so in front of an audience; I can only imagine! The most important thing I found in figuring myself, sexuality, beliefs and just life experiences in general, is that it is sooo sooo much easier with a support system. Yes of course you can’t have someone hold your hand for everything whilst you jump into big things, but it makes a difference to have love to fall back on and friends and family to experience things with ❤ You’ve got this, life is scary, and amazing and full of contradictions and rewards. Life’s a puzzle but it all happens for a reason! I’m 27 now and have no clue what my next step is yet 😩 but I will. Just have hope and know you have purpose!
we are here for you when your ready. God loves you no matter what, and the people who love you also love you unconditionally ❤️
I grew up in the church, and around Christian people and I came out as bisexual in my late teens. It was terrifying to be honest because it went against what my family and religion sort of.. taught. My parents ended up being so open and actually they kind of really worked on their own views and beliefs and have rejected the belief system that being part of the lgbtqia+ community is wrong, or a sin. I personally have moved away from (religiously/spiritually) anything that doesn't align with my core beliefs and anything that doesn't make me feel good. That'd just me. But this is a scary but amazing time for you. Finding yourself will be the best thing you ever do. I'm 33 now and always discovering myself but I can say I know myself so much more than I did in my 20s and am so much more more comfident and that did involve some sadness, and loss of relationships and friendships too but that's okay 🖤
Thank you for opening up
I just want to say I love the part at the end where you sat down and talked about trying to figure out who you are in your 20’s. I just turned 30 and this is the phase I’m currently going through. I got married young and now my ex and I are currently going through a divorce. I’m back to having to make decisions for myself which I haven’t done in a long time. In fact I’ve always done things because the people around me would do them. And now I’m questioning everything and I’m on a path to self discovery. It’s a scary time but it’s also refreshing to be able to essentially wipe the slate clean and get ready for this next adventure in my life.
1. I have such a girl crush on Georgia
2. Your 20s aren't what people often make it out to be. 20s are hard. And honestly I'm only starting to figure shit out and I'm 32
3. I'm a recovering people pleaser. All came crashing down when I came to a breaking point because I could no longer pretend to be someone/something I'm not. Now that I feel like I'm on the other side of it, I can tell you it gets MUCH better once you stop trying to please everyone else and fit into their box
4. A little struggle is good for the soul
5. You've got this girl 💪
From a fellow religious trauma girly Maddie Zahms album “If it’s not God” is really therapeutic to listen to ❤️ you are doing amazing girl working through stuff isn’t easy
girlie im so happy for you, learning more about yourself. its hard but its necessary to evolve to your next iteration ya know. after 10 years of thinking i was gay i just came out as bisexual last year and tiktok was a HUGE part in me figuring myself out and feeling validated. you do you and never put your life on someone else's schedule x
i LOVED this video. you should totally make more, and during sets answer like Q&A’s! This video was so different but SO good to watch 🙌🏽💗
Honestly way prefer the content where you are super real and honest. Rather than montages of the gym/walks ect.
Love both but its okay to have different content x
Oh darling girl you are going to be ok... I’m quite a bit older than you and from what I see , you are going to go on to have a great life, you are doing all the right things, sometimes we outgrow friendships, sometimes people let us down, you are who you are darling and you seem to be a beautiful person, your family will accept your sexuality, it may take a while but they will because they love you, and for the people that don’t, that’s their loss, go and live your true self and you will attract likeminded people . I wish I was as wise as you in my 20’s💕
I think we all experience this, over multiple parts of our lives. I lost myself when I had children, and then again when I lost my mum this year. We are constantly questioning and learning about ourselves.
It’s good to be open with yourself and ‘experiment’ with thoughts and ideas. You owe it to yourself to be happy, whatever what the season in your life
Thank you for being open and honest about this means the world to me. I’m struggling with the same thing and have been for a while and I’ve finally decided to face it. It’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Trying to unpack my feelings and thoughts without thinking of the opinions of others around me but it’s worth it because I deserve to be happy. I hope one day you, I and everyone in the comments struggling with this can come to terms about what we know deep down.The supportive atmosphere in the comments just means the world. We love your vlogs for what they are n will keep watching because we are here for u. I can’t wait to see where this move takes you and all the growth and positivity that comes with it. Sending love 💗
Nothing prepares you for how lost you feel in your early 20s… going through that right now so I feel you girl ❤️
These comments are so wholesome 🥰 I love this community
I moved from Melbourne to Gold Coast and it was the biggest change and growth I found myself and was the best decision I have made ❤
I believe any person on this planet is either going through, or has gone through this. It’s so good that you have this platform, so the you know you’re not alone. I grew up in a religious household, and we all went through the same. Even my friends who also grew up in religious household have done the same. My older sister recently came out, and my mom is still trying to process it. Me and our little sister already knew this (it was obvious growing up), but my mom claims she didn’t see it. Either way, you’ll get there. Remember that this is about you, and no one else. No matter what you decide in your life, there’s always a higher power saying I got you.
Honestly this hits closer to home to me and others than you realise xxx
It takes courage to finally be honest to yourself and find yourself and you’re doing that online too! Take your time and be kind to yourself xx
Well done and so brave for opening up Georgia. No pressure to share anything but I think we often don't realise how many people struggle with things like sexuality and you just don't hear about it, especially if you don't have similar friends. Life is so short so (as easy as it is to say) I think you should spend it being truest to yourself. Agree that maybe moving away will really help that
I feel like i have been where you are. I learnt that when we reject our inner most self we feel resistance in all aspects of life, when we feel like we are struggling against the world, we are really just struggling against ourselves. I believe you know your answers G and you will accept them when you are ready. We will be here waiting for you with open arms!! ❤❤❤
This is the most relatable content I've ever seen. Having so many things to thing about while navigating work, relationships and being a doggy mum can feel so overwhelming. You're doing amazing, please keep posting content that is true to yourself 🤍🫶🏼
You're doing great Georgia.🥂
I have no vlog I disliked from you. Try not to be hard on yourself. We subscribed for your genuine character. 💕💕
Also girrrrl you're pretty ♡
Definitely! It’s all about being genuine 🥰
always love how real and honest you are in all your vlogs, I feel as tho you'll thrive on the Gold Coast and I'm so excited for you! ♥
Tough 20s. I adore your vlogs' honesty. Your Gold Coast performance excites me! Self-discovery! You're loved forever. ✨
Honestly I love these vlogs where you just chat and be real with us. It’ll all fall into place eventually. We love you❤️
I’m so proud for this conversation at the end. Life is hard. I’m 28 almost 29 and honestly being in 20s is tough! Apparently 30s is better
I grew up with church etc. but I am pansexual and I surprisingly was pretty supported
loving the new T Swift album "i'll stare directly at the sun but never in the mirror" is one of my fave lines.
You will forever be my comfort human!!! I am so excited for you to go on this journey and figure out your core beliefs and what is important to you! I also think travelling is such a catalyst for showing you you don't need to live the life you were brought up in, as you see how other cultures do life! BIG BIG LOVE as always xoxoxo
Thank you for being so open and sharing! Your vlogs are never boring they're always such a comfort for me❤
Georgia, you’re actually wiser then then you give yourself credit for. Follow your instincts and you’ll find your own path. 💗
Also, congrats on getting the new house! 🎉
This was so nice! Felt like a FaceTime chat with a friend! I went through exactly what you are going through last year and now I’m in the most fulfilling and amazing relationship with a woman I love. It takes time to work through all that so be kind and patient with yourself, you know what’s best for you! ❤
I love all the content you put out! Perfection is the enemy of progress, we are here FOR YOU. I empathize soooooo much with struggling to find yourself, I’m going through the same thingggg
Literally I have no idea what I’m doing next year, let alone with my life, YOU ARE NOT ALONE
It’s okay to do things in your own time. ❤️ I did, and now at 26 Im discovering an all new side of myself and it’s being challenging yes, but also incredible. Let’s learn, feel and do this step by step 🏳️🌈
I loved your little talk at the end. I am having those exact emotions right now. Im 24 and just moved 2 hours away from my hometown and everything that I’ve ever known. I love being able to explore my sexuality but it’s scary when everything’s new. It’s nice knowing you’re not alone! ❤
Thankyou so much for opening up, I'm really glad you feel safe enough too. 💖💖 We are all by your side and here for the support. 💖
we are all here for you as you navigate this!! very proud of you for reflecting on this part of yourself, all the best xx
The chat at the end of this vlog is something I never knew i needed ❤
It can be so hard to move places. I moved from Melbourne to Sydney 5 years ago and while it completely changed my life, I’m really grateful for everything it’s taught me. It’s going to feel scary, exciting and confusing all at once but that’s ok! Some seasons are just like that!
deconstructing from the church is such a huge mind****. But believe me that in the end it is so worth it. Myself and a few friends went through our own deconstruction journeys around the same time and it was nice to see how others have gone through it and where we all landed. Its freeing to have beliefs even if others don't share the fact ones but also being flexible enough to learn new things and allow yourself to ebb and flow with new ideas and information. There are podcasts, IG pages and such that are great to listen to around the subject of deconstructing.
There’s a whole family of us waiting to welcome you with open arms if and when your ready ❤️
luv your videos so much and you’ve honestly made me more confident in myself.. im not a Christian or even religious at all but youve kind of made me see a new light of religion and respect it even more. what i mean by this is that even though we are different in that aspect, you have made me understand it and therefore I respect it. This goes for anyone in your life and even yourself. They might not be like you in that sense but for them to just be around you and understand it is enough. For them to accept you as well is a huge part of it, the people who love you most will understand and stay and the people who are meant to go, will go :)
Hey G. I'm 25 and I can relate so much, I've been a people pleaser my whole life and I'm really trying to change that!
And, as someone said, I think you never feel like you truly know yourself...
I love your vlogs❤
Sending you so much love and acceptance! Be patient with yourself….it does feel like we should have ourselves figured out. However, if the goal is to keep progressing and changing, then we will have to get to know our new selves a few times through life. You got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi Georgia! I am a lot older than you but I enjoy your vlogs so much. I have 2 sons, one 25 and the other is 29 and let me say to hear what your sharing is so refreshing. I enjoyed this video so much and want you to know all the support you have on this side! Cheers from Southern California!!
I LOVE YOU! Sending so much love, you're never alone ❤
hey georgia, just wanted to say that i've loved these last few vlogs! we are our own worst critic, and the most authentic vlogs that you put out are the ones that feel the most comforting - because it's so real. and just as you said; it makes us feel like we're not alone. it takes a lot of courage and hard work to dig deeper, do the work, and want to better ourselves. so be proud of yourself and give yourself some grace. sending you my love and best wishes - you got this! at the end of the day, we're all just trying to figure things out. ❤❤
Thanks for being so raw and open Georgia! I can relate! You do not need to figure it all out now. With time things will get clearer. You are amazing xx
Georgia, good luck in this big step to move to another city. I really hope you can really find your truly self in this new space. Enjoy this quietness moment that you won’t have many friends and things around there to be alone with your own thoughts and discover what you want to be
I love your vlogs so much! Thank you for being so honest/vulnerable/relatable ❤ can’t wait for the moving content 🤩 I love that you are making the leap and doing something for you (and Winnie!). So many content creators are all on the same path (couples content, engagement content, family blogger content) and I love how independent you are because that is so much more relatable to me and makes me feel supported in the path I currently find myself on.
I love this vlog just like the rest! I know it’s got to be so difficult putting yourself out there online, but your transparency is helping others who are going through the same thing! Sending you love and positivity! 💛
You are the main character
You are wonderful
Your friends and family love you unconditionally
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Challenge your faith! It's not a rejection of faith. Love you whatever the weather
One of my fav vlogs! To me, it had everything. I was laughing, i relate so much to your struggles anddddd also vv obsessed w midnight. Thank you for being so real on here, i love it and it makes me feel less alone
I so know what you mean about emotions coming through. When I moved into my own place it was the first time in years I was truly alone and I found I had time to feel all the emotions I'd put aside for years. I literally cried for the first month in my new house lol feels good to process and heal though.
Honestly my 20s were very up and down.. but I’m 2 years into my 30s and they’re great 😊 you’ll have times in life where you feel this way.. but things will be better ❤
Sadly the journey that you are taking and need to take to discover who you are you may lose some family and friends as they may not agree with the choices you are making.
But that is OK you are doing what is right for you, what is going to make you happy, you are discovering you.
We all lose friends along the journey of life but we also gain more, more valuable ones and we keep the ones that are important to us. That will have our backs, that will support us no matter what.
You’re happiness is the most important thing at the end of this all
Georgia! 20s are hard lol 30s are WAY better! I was a people pleaser too and the hardest was seeing people leave my life because our outlook/views differed BUT in their place grew beautiful, deep friendships with people who I was in alignment with. When I let go and trusted I would find my people, I did, and my career aligned too and my partnerships and all the things. It's a process and a journey for sure. I moved countries twice in that time too! As you said, leaving the comforts will help! You've got this girlie (even if some days don't feel that way lol).
I just want to say I love you.. I started watching you because you're the first person on UA-cam I felt like I could honestly relate to and that was such a comfort to me. You seem like such a sweet, down to earth person and even tho I don't know you, I want to encourage you by saying nobody knows who they are (including me) we're all just going along, doing the best we can and figuring it out as we go along. I know how hard it can be to figure out who are seperate to your family, friends and religion (I grew up in the church too) and not want to feel like you're disappointing anyone. I know my family have very strong beliefs on things, and then society have their expectations and then the expectation of women in general and everything else.. I still haven't figured out what I want for myself yet and idk if I ever will. But what I have learned is that it's okay to change your opinions on things because of your own personal growth and learning. No one is ever going to have the same life as you or experience the same things as you and that ultimately is what shapes our opinions, views and ideologies. So it's only fitting that those things will change over time as we experience new things, meet new people and become more educated on certain things. But even with all that, it's okay to still feel and be unsure sometimes. I know I am 99.9% of the time. I don't think anyone really knows who they are and I think that is something we are all searching for while also thinking that when we finally discover "who we are" suddenly everything will make sense. But maybe it's not meant to make sense? As cheesy as it sounds life is about the climb, it's about the journey and even if you never find a clear-cut answer to "who you really are", I think that's okay because humans are complicated. We're always changing, evolving and growing. But that's the beauty of it because maybe who we are changes and grows with us too. It's not a clear-cut thing and that's okay. Thank you for always being real and no matter what direction you decide to go in, I will be on this journey with you
I feel this is my fav vlog of yours. Be gentle on yourself xx
I'm so happy you verbalized this because trying to figure out how to step into yourself is sooooo hard and stressful.....I hope nothing but the best for you because, like you said in the beginning, people are going through it with you. Even if you're not around those people and you can't lean on them, you're never alone in your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck and fight on warrior 💪💪
I was enjoying this vlog so much when you said you didn’t think it was a very good vlog! Sometimes we like the more comforting casual vlogs that are chatty more than the montages and grocery hauls! Always look forward to your uploads!
I'm so proud of you Georgia!! transition is scary but it will be so worth it. Thank you for sharing because I feel the exact same way. you got this and we support you❤
loving the honesty in your vlogs, thank you for being real georgia! 💖
Doesn't matter what age you are no one knows what they're doing. You just gotta do what feels rights at the time. Life is all about learning,growing and trying new things and finding happiness. You don't have to have it all sorted xx just enjoy where you are now and one day you look back and it will or makes sense xx
having kids in ur 20s made me feel even more not myself yet I wanted kids bahah yet i feel lost, so i get u so much
loved how open and honest you were in this vlog, it's honestly so comforting
I love this I feel like im going through such a similar thing and learning I'm not along is so comforting! Your doing so amazing I love you!!
your vlogs are literally my favourite thing to watch!!! best after school wind down between studying and relaxing. and I'm so happy that you got approved!!!!! this is amazing, can't wait to watch you flourish in this new space! it'll be worth the hardships, even if it's a learning curve ❤❤❤
Honestly, i relate so much, I'm 24 and have been going through a really similar time and thinking how pointless everyday things are when you have so much your trying to work out in your own head. I swear its true that your 20's are extra hard, I feel like my brain just said okay ...time to realise everything you were avoiding... all at once lol. Just know your not alone and a lot of us are in the same boat, you got this💜
It's all normal, I'm in 40s just now, and going through similar. Get a therapist however...helps you to really unpack.
But you got this 👍
Georgia I 100% feel you. Went through such a similar thing in my early 20s (been raised in a religious household my entire life) and had a real troubling time confronting the idea that some of the beliefs I’d always been told didn’t actually reflect how I actually felt inside. One thing that really helped me is the idea that you don’t have to know exactly what you think or believe in - this will evolve and change over time! It’s okay to not know & be open to the fact that the world is a big place and everyone sees it differently (which is an incredible thing). Also would encourage you if you feel comfortable to immerse yourself in LGBTQ+ places and safe spaces and see how much of a welcoming and wholesome environment they are! Sending lots of love you got this x
i feel everything in this vlog 100% ♥️ 20s are soooo weird & having so much flexibility as well as learning to trust your choices/path after not having it in your teens/childhood is so ODD. but yes i agree that it does get better! i always like to tell myself that adulthood doesn’t always get easier but it does get better ☺️ you’re doing amazing georgia, always looking forward to seeing what you get up to next in the next chapter, good things are coming your way 💫
also this vlog makes me want to come back to youtube and vent about the same issues BIG time
Go you Georgia, so proud ❤ you’re blooming and finding your best self x
I'm not a Christian and not 100% sure I believe in the typical god everyone talks about I can say that when I started to discover myself and realised I was pansexual/bisexual what comforted me was that "god made you who are you and fate was has brought to where you are because of what god has planned for you" I know that this will be journey with many ups and downs for you but I think no matter who decides to support you or not you will find the people who love you and support you for you. Your journey with god is your journey and at the end of the day the bible is interrupted in so many ways to support so many different beliefs so I guess what I'm trying to say is let god show you their plan within the world beyond the bible and Christianity xx I love you and support you on journey as a long time viewer having you open up about all of this is so amazing and inspiring thank you xx
Sending love and light to you Georgia, we are here supporting you and thankful for your honesty and I am so excited to see what this new chapter brings you!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤
All power to you Georgia. Sending you love and light.
Keep on living your best life G! Don’t worry. Be happy. 😘
Georgia listen! Lol no one! doesn’t matter what age, knows what they are doing! You just do what makes you feel the best version of you! ❤
Love you Georgia!!!! I absolutely love your videos. And I love how raw and honest you are in this one. Thanks so much for being you!
thank you so much for sharing! loved your message in this vlog. congrats on the move!
This was honestly my favourite vlog. 🥰🥰