You all probably dont give a damn but does anybody know a trick to get back into an Instagram account..? I somehow lost the login password. I love any help you can give me.
When I am on single dating site most man ask me a question what do I do for living without even introducing them self first. Right away I have instinct tells me that they are not the one who like to take responsibility and want to know if they have to support me as woman or not. Or may be how can I be beneficial to them. I feel like american man are looking more for the free ride without putting any afford. Some of them even asked me to to come to their location on the first date. That's totally insane. I don't know whats wrong with the man this days but it's totally not classy and not what gentleman should be doing.
I love your statement "TIME IS SO PRECIOUS!". Why should I have a partner who has more experience than a circus act. A High "body count" matters. Why to I have to work and pay for what she gives away to others for free?
One of your best and deepest videos ever, thank you so much. You speak about very important notions in a light and easy to understand manner. You're awesome!
You are spot on, Jaki I released a gentleman yesterday before I saw this video. After another one of your videos, made a realization that he was stringing me along. I probably knew that deep down yet, I never have applied that particular tool. Before I could state that we were not a match he beat me to it. I don't know why it's such a challenge to indicate that a person is not my match. Suppose that I'm old school and it's derived from that principle that we treat people how we want to be treated. But, with men that doesn't ever seem to be very effective. No matter their stature they always slip back to the male species that I resent. And for so many years I've had to merely let them go without a reason only to know in my heart, as you mentioned that if we prolong our consumption with them that we typically hinder the next opportunity they may come our way. Thank you for the affirmations. And if there's any insight to my content that I may not be addressing, please feel free to elaborate and expound upon your thoughts. All the best, liz
Love listening to you jaki. Thanks for being real. I think that is what our society messing these days. If we all can be ourselves and not to afraid of who we are , will get contagious and hopefully people can open their hard in away that bring happiness to one another. Thank you for everything you do.
I love the class you exude it inspires me. So thanks for putting yourself out there. What I appreciate about you is the fact that you have a desire to assist others while you have achieved your 'goal' in terms of being in a relationship. You don't just touch on common sense generic advice but give practical examples which is great and helpful! I am a Christian woman and I am not even 100% sure I want another man in my life, but I want to make sure if I make that final decision it wasn't because of the wrong reasons or 'lack of' on my part. I believe the qualities and coaching advice you give are valuable regardless of the outcome so I appreciate that, because I am only responsible for myself and I would like to make sure that I give it my all to be classy, because the tips are applicable to every day life!
lol, it's a dam game isn't it 😜 I had a great date with a guy, long lunch and glass of wine. He text a couple of days later asking if I was interested in a 2nd date, I said that would be great. 5 days later I hadn't heard from him so just texted, how was your weekend, received a text the next day and saying he would call me. Long story short I didn't hear from him again. I thought the date went well we were there for 3 hours but I did know he'd only just registered with online dating. So I wouldn't blame him that he didn't want to take things further if he'd only just started dating. I always think it's odd though, why bother asking for a 2nd date and saying you will call when you don't have any intention of doing so. Didn't really bother me because there were a few things I wasn't sure of, distance, his hours of work etc. Jaki's is alway's full of awesome advice 😊
So true, keep up the momentum.....once you've been dating for a while you learn the nuances. I think guys just lose interest. How are you supposed to keep the interest going and building with online dating, when the guy is constantly swiping left/right for the perfect person. Even after having met someone and the next weekend I had to cancel as had family over and text guy saying we'll catch up next week, but I did not hear from him. You really need to catch up every week or call or something because it's so easy for the interest to wane when you barely know someone. Guy's are not investing like they did before online dating when you would meet someone face to face physically and you see them, hear their voice, see their mannerisms. We don't have that luxury anymore, it is the other way around, it's like going a blind date, you're behind the eighth ball. Men are on not 1 but 3 online dating websites, you don't know how many people they're dating and if you were maybe their 3rd preference and not 1st. All you can do is keep the momentum going because each time you match with someone it is a little bit exciting you keep getting that little feeling and hopefully we'll eventually come across that guy that can truly see us for the amazing women we are.
It's like a job interview where you don't get the job....nobody is going to tell you why...And of course women also know very quickly if they will ever be physical with you...
Same thing happened to me a guy I really really liked and he was finally the one ... he ghosted me and now I’m hurt and trying to get over it and moving on but it’s def harder than I thought
I have been seeing this man exclusively even though when we meet a year and half ago I told him I want to find my soulmate. And he told me that he wants NO future together. Nothing has changed
Debbie Hickman Well, sounds like he was completely honest with you. Is there a reason you are being exclusive with a man who made it clear he doesn't want a commitment?
I went on a few dates off dating sites but they wanted to instantly in a relationship without really getting to know one another. And the more I seen this non commitment man the more he wanted me to tell him all about my dates. ( He gets off when men are interested in me ) so I stopped going on dates all together because I am not out to hurt anyone . I truly want a man who can see us with some future but not jump I. a relationship after a date or two. There has to man who is in the middle.
Huh, I'm 51 and in the same boat. Get on those online dating apps and start getting out there, the guys can tend to come and go but there is a database full of single guys out there and eventually we have to come across a guy that see's the unique value we have to offer. I think this lady needs to get with 2018 and online dating because she's not really in the same boat as the rest of us ;)
What do you do when a guy (like your case, you mentioned ) ghosted, I move forward (no writing, calling etc...) and one day we run into each other ( alone or accompanied ) ?? Do I say hello.... ignore him.... ???? I know this is going to happen because we move in the same circles, places, people, ...etc...
I limit most of my dates to under age 26 for that reason. Yes I also always pay for dinner, coffee and hotel. Many of my best dates are with women who are already married. They know what they want and do not want. It is rude to ghost I just tell her that I am not interested. If she pushes I tell " we are not a match". If she continues to push I tell her "too old".
But who wants to get engaged to someone so fast when you don't really know them well and it ends in divorce anyhow? It's good you learnt lessons but you could have done that without getting married too quickly. You say it saves time, but saves time on what, on being single. It's not a bad thing to be single, jumping from one man to another hoping to get married is insane.
Of course men can tell immediately if a woman is a match because they base almost everything on her appearance. How can anyone truly Know anything immediately upon meeting you except I am attracted to her looks? Grow up.
So true, unless the person is truly horrible, you could base it on that, but most people are on their best behaviour on a date and quite nice. So if a guy has summed you up in 3 minutes it's purely on looks. Another important thing is the voice and intonation, always a good idea to have chatted to the guy on the phone before meeting. If we're talking abut 2 or 3 dates later, they're looking for that sexual tension. And also men are on 2 or 3 online dating sites, so there is an never ending database of men and women to swipe through.
Purely physical unfortunately, unless you're being really horrible and rude on a date, which no one really is, you could base it on that. But it's pretty much your physical persona, just like if you were out, if a guy came up to you it was because he liked the look of you. He also has to like the way you speak and what comes out of your mouth but for a guy to approach you in the real world it is basically looks.
Men go off chemistry meaning can they imagine themselves being intimate with you exclusively for the rest of their lives. There's nothing evil about that but the bad part is when they KNOW they don't feel it and pursue anyway.
You are not only brilliant and beautiful, but also very real and raw, that helps people to take your valuable advice on dating!
I found you "accidentally" and love your energy and your authenticity. I am learning quickly! Thank you!
Love hearing you!
You all probably dont give a damn but does anybody know a trick to get back into an Instagram account..?
I somehow lost the login password. I love any help you can give me.
I would NEVER treat a woman so appallingly not to tell her I would not like another date, she needs to know
When I am on single dating site most man ask me a question what do I do for living without even introducing them self first. Right away I have instinct tells me that they are not the one who like to take responsibility and want to know if they have to support me as woman or not. Or may be how can I be beneficial to them. I feel like american man are looking more for the free ride without putting any afford. Some of them even asked me to to come to their location on the first date. That's totally insane. I don't know whats wrong with the man this days but it's totally not classy and not what gentleman should be doing.
Jackie, your vocabulary and the way you express yourself is incredibly amazing.🥰🌹
It is your true gift and your magic.🎁🎀
thank you. 🤗🙏
Thank you!
If women do not give me clear signals she wants a 2nd date I will not call again.
I love your statement "TIME IS SO PRECIOUS!". Why should I have a partner who has more experience than a circus act. A High "body count" matters. Why to I have to work and pay for what she gives away to others for free?
Some really good advice and at 71 I'm still trying, but no luck yet, but I'm not giving up
You are so real !!! Just love your sound advice and raw expectations... Thank You for making this channel 😀🤗
I have been learning a lot about letting go the last year or so, I think this is another great lesson in letting go. Thanks for sharing 💝
Thank you for your transparency. Very refreshing! That’s exactly what has happened to me, I hold on to relationships I want but aren’t for me.
One of your best and deepest videos ever, thank you so much. You speak about very important notions in a light and easy to understand manner. You're awesome!
You are spot on, Jaki
I released a gentleman yesterday before I saw this video. After another one of your videos, made a realization that he was stringing me along. I probably knew that deep down yet, I never have applied that particular tool. Before I could state that we were not a match he beat me to it. I don't know why it's such a challenge to indicate that a person is not my match. Suppose that I'm old school and it's derived from that principle that we treat people how we want to be treated. But, with men that doesn't ever seem to be very effective. No matter their stature they always slip back to the male species that I resent. And for so many years I've had to merely let them go without a reason only to know in my heart, as you mentioned that if we prolong our consumption with them that we typically hinder the next opportunity they may come our way. Thank you for the affirmations. And if there's any insight to my content that I may not be addressing, please feel free to elaborate and expound upon your thoughts.
All the best, liz
Love listening to you jaki. Thanks for being real. I think that is what our society messing these days. If we all can be ourselves and not to afraid of who we are , will get contagious and hopefully people can open their hard in away that bring happiness to one another. Thank you for everything you do.
I love the class you exude it inspires me. So thanks for putting yourself out there. What I appreciate about you is the fact that you have a desire to assist others while you have achieved your 'goal' in terms of being in a relationship. You don't just touch on common sense generic advice but give practical examples which is great and helpful! I am a Christian woman and I am not even 100% sure I want another man in my life, but I want to make sure if I make that final decision it wasn't because of the wrong reasons or 'lack of' on my part. I believe the qualities and coaching advice you give are valuable regardless of the outcome so I appreciate that, because I am only responsible for myself and I would like to make sure that I give it my all to be classy, because the tips are applicable to every day life!
lol, it's a dam game isn't it 😜 I had a great date with a guy, long lunch and glass of wine. He text a couple of days later asking if I was interested in a 2nd date, I said that would be great. 5 days later I hadn't heard from him so just texted, how was your weekend, received a text the next day and saying he would call me. Long story short I didn't hear from him again. I thought the date went well we were there for 3 hours but I did know he'd only just registered with online dating. So I wouldn't blame him that he didn't want to take things further if he'd only just started dating. I always think it's odd though, why bother asking for a 2nd date and saying you will call when you don't have any intention of doing so. Didn't really bother me because there were a few things I wasn't sure of, distance, his hours of work etc. Jaki's is alway's full of awesome advice 😊
Can't wait to learn more nuggets; already learned so much
Thank you Jaci
So true, keep up the momentum.....once you've been dating for a while you learn the nuances. I think guys just lose interest. How are you supposed to keep the interest going and building with online dating, when the guy is constantly swiping left/right for the perfect person. Even after having met someone and the next weekend I had to cancel as had family over and text guy saying we'll catch up next week, but I did not hear from him. You really need to catch up every week or call or something because it's so easy for the interest to wane when you barely know someone. Guy's are not investing like they did before online dating when you would meet someone face to face physically and you see them, hear their voice, see their mannerisms. We don't have that luxury anymore, it is the other way around, it's like going a blind date, you're behind the eighth ball. Men are on not 1 but 3 online dating websites, you don't know how many people they're dating and if you were maybe their 3rd preference and not 1st. All you can do is keep the momentum going because each time you match with someone it is a little bit exciting you keep getting that little feeling and hopefully we'll eventually come across that guy that can truly see us for the amazing women we are.
You are so amazing and inspiring, thank you
I know within the first ten or fifteen seconds ... definitely, by twenty, thanks, superb video.
Thank you! I needed to hear this, the art of letting go.
I love your transparency and your great advice!
It's like a job interview where you don't get the job....nobody is going to tell you why...And of course women also know very quickly if they will ever be physical with you...
This is amazing. You are fantastic.Thank you.
Thank you, I release you. It reminds me of a trout I caught and then released, back to his freedom. Swim on trout and keep swimming. lol.
Same thing happened to me a guy I really really liked and he was finally the one ... he ghosted me and now I’m hurt and trying to get over it and moving on but it’s def harder than I thought
nelly michelle It probably has nothing to do with you. Could be a million reasons. Move on. An explanation wouldn’t change anything.
Yep they would rather be run over by an angry elephant than hurt your feelings.
A woman sent me a couple of pics on a dating website and expected restaurant ????🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐
I have been seeing this man exclusively even though when we meet a year and half ago I told him I want to find my soulmate. And he told me that he wants NO future together. Nothing has changed
Debbie Hickman Well, sounds like he was completely honest with you. Is there a reason you are being exclusive with a man who made it clear he doesn't want a commitment?
I went on a few dates off dating sites but they wanted to instantly in a relationship without really getting to know one another. And the more I seen this non commitment man the more he wanted me to tell him all about my dates. ( He gets off when men are interested in me ) so I stopped going on dates all together because I am not out to hurt anyone . I truly want a man who can see us with some future but not jump I. a relationship after a date or two. There has to man who is in the middle.
I need u😍😍
Love your authenticity
My younger daughter told me that he is a waste of my time since I am 51 years old
Huh, I'm 51 and in the same boat. Get on those online dating apps and start getting out there, the guys can tend to come and go but there is a database full of single guys out there and eventually we have to come across a guy that see's the unique value we have to offer. I think this lady needs to get with 2018 and online dating because she's not really in the same boat as the rest of us ;)
Been there! That exact thing happened to me.
Thanks for this. It has been very helpful. Btw...may I ask about your necklaces? :)
I love that...we swat 'em away! :D
9 hours for a first date is far too long!
Thank you great video!
What do you do when a guy (like your case, you mentioned ) ghosted, I move forward (no writing, calling etc...) and one day we run into each other ( alone or accompanied ) ??
Do I say hello.... ignore him.... ???? I know this is going to happen because we move in the same circles, places, people, ...etc...
Saying hello would be fine. Nothing more is needed. The ball would be in his court. Ignoring him is a waste of time as it will tell you nothing.
@@JohnDoe-er4kh Thank you!
I limit most of my dates to under age 26 for that reason. Yes I also always pay for dinner, coffee and hotel. Many of my best dates are with women who are already married. They know what they want and do not want. It is rude to ghost I just tell her that I am not interested. If she pushes I tell " we are not a match". If she continues to push I tell her "too old".
This was great!
This video was excellent
But who wants to get engaged to someone so fast when you don't really know them well and it ends in divorce anyhow? It's good you learnt lessons but you could have done that without getting married too quickly. You say it saves time, but saves time on what, on being single. It's not a bad thing to be single, jumping from one man to another hoping to get married is insane.
What does it really mean when a man or woman says she or he is not a match?
Basically, not interested or loses interest. Where as a match is when you both connect and like each other.
Either no initial attraction or if there was initial attraction, they may not like how a person handles themselves, speaks, etc.
Real talk!
How abt after three dates he follows up but he doesn’t ask u out anymore 😂
Of course men can tell immediately if a woman is a match because they base almost everything on her appearance. How can anyone truly Know anything immediately upon meeting you except I am attracted to her looks? Grow up.
So true, unless the person is truly horrible, you could base it on that, but most people are on their best behaviour on a date and quite nice. So if a guy has summed you up in 3 minutes it's purely on looks. Another important thing is the voice and intonation, always a good idea to have chatted to the guy on the phone before meeting. If we're talking abut 2 or 3 dates later, they're looking for that sexual tension. And also men are on 2 or 3 online dating sites, so there is an never ending database of men and women to swipe through.
Helene Roumel he Can tell by her attitude, her energy, her behavior.
How do men know within the first few minutes whether he will pursue a woman? What is it that he sees or makes him know?
Purely physical unfortunately, unless you're being really horrible and rude on a date, which no one really is, you could base it on that. But it's pretty much your physical persona, just like if you were out, if a guy came up to you it was because he liked the look of you. He also has to like the way you speak and what comes out of your mouth but for a guy to approach you in the real world it is basically looks.
Men go off chemistry meaning can they imagine themselves being intimate with you exclusively for the rest of their lives. There's nothing evil about that but the bad part is when they KNOW they don't feel it and pursue anyway.
About that guy that ghosted - did he do that after you slept with him?
I'm guessing yes.
Go MGTOW