Mailman here. I clear close to 100k a year but thats with working 60 hours a week. The average pay for mail carriers does not factor in overtime. One of the best jobs to have without needing a college degree. The benefits are great, pay is good (will be better after our next contract) but I'm able to provide for my three kids, own three acres of land and have a 3000 square foot house, my wife stays home with the kids. All off of my mailman wages. Im blessed to have this job, even with the challenges (working conditions). Keep on keeping on brother. This dude dodged a bullet.
My husband is a mailman/ tattoo artist who is a wonderful father, I'm proud and very thankful for him, these women don't deserve great men they want a fantasy that will eventually leave them because men want reality and someone who values them for them and not what they can do for a woman
Gotta agree, she puts on a good show but she’s triflin. How are you gonna go at the mailman for _not being ambitious?!_ like straight up, these guys out here making bank, no college loans to pay off, great hours, better benefits, retirement plans? She’s trippin, she digging for gold, and don’t know what gold looks like. Bro definitely dodged a big bullet.
Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻was owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $12,000 and got my payout of m $270,500 every months,God bless Ms Evelyn Vera🇺🇸..
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Same here waking up every 14th of each month to 210,000 dollars it’s a blessing to I and my family… I can now retire knowing that I have a steady income❤️Big gratitude to Ms Evelyn Vera
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
So im a mailcarrier.... this is one of the most ridiculous, demanding, thankless jobs... we make decent money, sacrifice wayyyy too much for it. But NOT AMBITIOUS?? Girl needs to get her crap straight. My salary as a rural carrier- $70k. 4 years in. Those are STARTING wages you read.
It's okay let her waste her best years just like the rest of them they discard/disqualify so many good men in their teens and 20s, like literally 100s or 1000s ( Heck even in their 30s) then end up alone in their less desired years Ofc they'll blame men or the lack of " quality" men but we all know who the real problem is nor is it our problem 😂
I also serve my country, as a medic, in the Air Force. I appreciate your service. You literally help the world keep running and y’all don’t get thanked enough.
@ I see. As a woman, I stay away from HR. I don’t really know what issues are used against men. But I can tell the number one issue must be sexual harassment. Anyway, it works both ways now since women want equality.
I’m a clerk for the post office I’m 9 years in and I made 88k last year this year I’m on track to make 92 so they can keep sleeping on us if they want to
Hii Im from Holland and mailmen don’t make that kind of money here. Sounds almost unbelievable. With all do respect ofcourse. How is that even possible?
@@cruz2102 in a country where you are programmed to want to be famous, be an entrepreneur, and all sorts of first-world-country promise-land stuff, many people don't want labor-intensive jobs. So jobs like mailman, oil workers, garbage collectors, hard-work jobs are often well paid. but in a country where many wouldn't mind being an employee of any job, because its better than poverty, then they don't need to be sold to do the job with high pay. In Canada and the US, many would rather be lazy, or comfortable, rather than work physically. its also hard to find employees for those jobs because of that. so they offer good pay.
She was probably one of the best woman contestants that came on the show. She just had to make some tough decisions and didn't know how to answer why she didn't chose the people that she popped without being rude or saying she already wanted the litigation guy. He won as soon as she spoke to him the first time around....
I personally wouldn’t pop on a mail person just because of their profession, but if that’s not what she wants that’s okay too. She’s still imo the most respectful, mature put together woman I’ve ever seen on this show. She just wants her guy to have a different genre for his career, nothing wrong with that. And nothing wrong with mailmen.
women go for ambitious men. Shes a woman. She doesnt need to be ambitious or even have a good career or job. We like looks, they like money & stability
@@ArionNoble ever heard of systemic oppression? Her getting paid to "control men" doesn't make her job(and other endeavors) less important than a dam mail carrier. If she can produce more tangibles with more free time, guess what. Shorty won🤷🏾♂️
@M87theGreat HR doesn't do much but allow 304s to control men. It wouldn't even be needed in a male only work environment. What tangibles? I wrote JOB SECURITY. One could be fired tomorrow. The other won't.
She's hr, she most likely puts into a 401. Postal has an actual retirement/pension. Postal also has the option to make as much as they want with overtime. My old man has 32 years as a postal employee.
@@dominicksans7204 No, he went up ready to match, but she led him on until the very end, until she admitted that she did not find him physically attractive.
I'm short myself, so I had the same thought when I saw the shorter guys. They are not gonna be as interested in them regardless of what they're like. Not sure if it is pessimistic or not.
I have found that really good looking and in shape short guys do the best. You gotta have a face carved out by the Gods or something for women to overlook the lack of height.
As a former Mailman I can say that is the most stressful job I’ve ever been at and they don’t pay enough. You remember the term going postal? Well they push people to the point of losing it. I tip my hat to all the post office carriers but the supervisors are the worse. I made double the pay as a receptionist at Kaiser Permanente
I wish you would put out more videos like this. It's funny, it's chill it's relaxed. You make jokes but you aren't trying to hate too much. Sometimes you do hate a little too much and I'm like man you being really hard on this person. But overall you add a good personality to the videos and I enjoy watching them with you even if we ain't watching them together
I used to work as a mail carrier. Don’t get me wrong, it was harder than it looked and initially wasn’t worth the pay, because I didn’t plan on staying and seeing it through for a long time. Very physically taxing. However, knowing how much perseverance it takes to see that position through, in order to receive the maximum benefit/ pay, is a true testament to anyone’s character. Especially if it’s a man I wanted a future and children with. I know he’s not giving up when things get rough. A job like that really means you know what you want for yourself and you’re not going to waiver just because of the perspective of someone who has no idea what hard work is.
Why can’t she choose a man that has a good job in her eyes? Men do this all the time, so they claim like they will choose based on a woman’s job ( only fans, escort etc). Everybody should have standards
THANK YOU!! Im really confused. She had options to choose from, she picked what she felt was the best to her. Maybe she should have kept her explanation short, maybe that would not have gotten out that offensive
Im seeing stevie watching mr lawyer and just smiling. If his got you smiling can you imagine how a woman must feel? He’s got a lot going for him on many levels
Brah HR bro vs Attorney!? Attorney bro is Thanos out this bih. Crazy thing is bro probably goin run through shawty. She breakin all her rules for bro forsurely
A “Thanos” type male seldom wants a woman on his level because he will want to lead and not compete. He would date a waitress if he finds her attractive.
@@ArionNoblebecause that's built into y'all. Women are supposed to be the nurturers, men the protectors. Of course in this day in age BOTH of those traits are becoming rarer by the day.
@@ArionNoblewomen are NOT meant to sacrifice their lives for men. Women all around the world sacrifice their lives for CHILDREN. How are y’all crying that there aren’t any feminine women left, but want them to act like good men? And stop with the generalisations, you know damn well that your average modern man wouldn’t sacrifice much for a woman, y’all don’t even want to pay for dates for women that y’all claim to like, but want us to believe that y’all would sacrifice your lives 😂
Good question. Definitely not. There’s a carousel of individuals trying to impress so will speak trying to sound intelligent and articulate. A lot of this show is just a performance imo. In organic relationships you can see a person’s character more easily. Having and maintaining good character is what sustains relationships.
A good looking woman single is only because she doesn't want to settle for liars or cheaters. The good men do not go for her because they think she is out of their league so the ones with ego's try it on. I don't blame them for staying single
Girl, there is nothing wrong with a mailman. That's crazy!!! You won't need to wonder when his is going to spend time with me. He will spend time with you all the time. And he will get benefits too. Girl bye!!!!
She was honest, cant really be mad at her...Most woman would lie about it and never talk to you again ,as painfull as it sounds. going bassed on what she said it seems like i was more so the title than the money.
Yall let’s be honest, yes a mailman earns well but even from ones I’ve personally spoken with and the way he struggled to answer his question it doesn’t take a genius to be a mailman. She seemed chatty and had a level of intellect she probably didn’t expect to hold the type of conversations she could have with an attorney. Not to mention mailmen are constantly working long hours including Saturdays and don’t have that much vacation time nor control of their schedules.
I blame Instagram for this. Women want a husband who looks good in a highlight reel. Or as I like to call them Insta-husbands. They want a husband they can brag about to their friends.
@@mkawa1566 Takes a 5 sec search to see the cast of different seasons and see they brought contestants of all races on the show. So don’t kno what ur talking about
She pop the balloon of the dermatologist! why get triggered when she pop the mailmans balloon? Dermatologist makes way more money than a mailmam and she pop his first.
The man in the tan shirt, that she popped bc he’s too short, he said he gets what he wants, & he wanted her but he didn’t get it, so to say I get what I want, & by him acting so serious, is overcompensating for his lack of height, which proves that he’s insecure about it. He needs to relax & stop trying to Act taller, & just except himself first, then the woman will flock to you, bc your dominance is natural & not a forced form of control
So many men out there can learn from the second dude. The tan polo one that was left in the end with second dude seemed more closed-minded, closed off, not empathetic enough like the second dude, who seems to understand people better. Understanding that humans are inherently reactive and your duty is to not react back, but to realize that the reaction that was given was likely because of you. Introspection is key, self-awareness. Many lack this. It's a skill, a trait to learn that benefits the world around you. I'm not religious, but you can learn a lot from it. Many say evil has impacted the world today, more than people looking up to God. In other words, the idea is to be more considerate of others and yourself as a unity, rather than seeing the world in some dog-eat-dog manner. Which is just you letting ego dictate your every move, rather than your genuine self. Ego is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master. I recently commented this on my community tab.
She said she’s an HR professional at 29 so she’s likely just doing general HR work or she’s an HR supervisor, leaning more towards the former because she would’ve outright said she was a supervisor if she was so I’m guessing she does HR Administrative work and on average that’s around 40-50k/yr. She also said she’s a travel advisor, now in my experience that just means she has some affiliate link to get a discount on flights and hotels or she’s scamming. One of the two. She basically tried to be very vague with what she does but said words that make it sound a lot grander than it likely is. Also just notice how when the Attorney answered her question on what he’s done to prepare for a relationship he literally gave a nothing answer he just said words that sound nice lol
She is NOT... ready to settle. And that guy is PERFECT for settling... Dude's paradigm is properly developed, but she is NOT ready to settle, and you can tell. She's trying her best to act cool about it, but she wants a boy toy that's serious, that doesn't have time for her, so he keeps this mystery to him. She wants a "man's man", that has no time to fk around, and is build his own empire. And she just wants to walk in that mf, and put her flag on top of his tower. That dude in the end is too good for her. She is NOT ready for a guy like him. He is WAY out of her league when it comes to settling down. That mailman guy is likely her best option based on his character, but the job title does not scream "im building my empire", it screams more like "im serving another man building his own empire"... shes not ready to let go of her control and let him take charge. She has ambitions, she needs to take charge of, and it will clash with his values. So the dynamic is NOT there. He would want his woman to completely be worry free of control, no need to worry about anything, and all she'd have to do is have his kids, have her build the family while he's out there building their empire. She is NOT ready for any of it because her unresolved insecurities "require" her to seek her personal ambitions, who are tied far too tight emotionally to her to let go just yet. Although she can let it all go and settle... She has either mfs to prove wrong, or maybe she relied on some buster before to settle with and learned the hard way, and now wants to build her own little empire before giving it up to move into his...
See now he gotta put the call out. Make sure her next package is LATE! I'm talking even if she at home. Say she wasn't in and gotta go pick it up herself.
She did not explain it correctly and came out as offensive but I do get what she is saying though. She is looking for someone who is on a similar professional path as her, someone who has gone from one point to another and keeps moving even though the postal carrier is a great job and helps provide well, that is not the case
this take is kinda wierd... i dont think its entitlement to have a choice in what you want in life .... we get rejected everyday by these women because of different things so thats what women do they either accept us or reject us
She has a great laugh, based on her self description she has good values. I think that guy Ontario (wild ahh name) should NOT have popped his balloon over such a small caveat. Idk if most ppl this show actually go on a date afterwards, but he counted himself out so soon. Maybe once she got to know him better she would change her mind or there would be a discussion about what he can and cannot say abt their relationship.
Why she pop on the mailman and Dermatologist guy huh? They were the best 2, in the line ... I would not have passed up on those men. One would have been picked, probs the bearded man giving me dark skin late RIP Nipsey Hus vibes ...
Women are screwed, they chose the bear over men, now they want to shave their heads and kill society by not willing to repopulate it based off a political and sexist choice.
16:16 You thought you were i😅l whisperer but I HAD to pause the video here bc I callled this one. I agreed on the postman, not bc his job but I think he is too secure in his life and she’s too young to understand what he really wants. & you should have known she wouldn’t pop the “short king” (even tho he’s not short lmao) bc she k asked him follow up immediately after.. tbh I see her leaving w him. But back to the pop, she chose the taller man bc he said Jesus specifically & whether she admits that or not, she’s not religious. Maybe spiritual but again I have a feeling his spirit is too steady. She likes that idea of “he might do something wild for me”. Tbh she lowkey toxic, or at least she definitely used to be. Update. 28:36 : she likes him & it’s notttt the height. She want the Attorneys money.
You can be qualified as a man but if you have no game and dont understand women you are going to struggle. Second dude also seemed way too nice, he caters to his women too much
Mailman here. I clear close to 100k a year but thats with working 60 hours a week. The average pay for mail carriers does not factor in overtime. One of the best jobs to have without needing a college degree.
The benefits are great, pay is good (will be better after our next contract) but I'm able to provide for my three kids, own three acres of land and have a 3000 square foot house, my wife stays home with the kids. All off of my mailman wages. Im blessed to have this job, even with the challenges (working conditions). Keep on keeping on brother.
This dude dodged a bullet.
🫡 backbone of America!
My husband is a mailman/ tattoo artist who is a wonderful father, I'm proud and very thankful for him, these women don't deserve great men they want a fantasy that will eventually leave them because men want reality and someone who values them for them and not what they can do for a woman
Gotta agree, she puts on a good show but she’s triflin. How are you gonna go at the mailman for _not being ambitious?!_ like straight up, these guys out here making bank, no college loans to pay off, great hours, better benefits, retirement plans?
She’s trippin, she digging for gold, and don’t know what gold looks like.
Bro definitely dodged a big bullet.
❤
How long you been there? I been at the PO for about 3 years. Cant wait to hit that 100k mark. My first year i hit like 60/70k
Hallelujah!!!! The daily jesus devotional has been a huge part of my transformation, God is good 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻was owning a loan of $47,000 to the bank for my son's brain surgery (David), Now I'm no longer in debt after I invested $12,000 and got my payout of m $270,500 every months,God bless Ms Evelyn Vera🇺🇸..
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Same here
waking up every 14th of each
month to 210,000 dollars it’s a blessing to I and my family… I can now retire knowing that I have a steady income❤️Big gratitude to Ms Evelyn Vera
Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Ms. Evelyn Vera.
I do know Ms. Evelyn Vera, I also have even become successful....
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
So im a mailcarrier.... this is one of the most ridiculous, demanding, thankless jobs... we make decent money, sacrifice wayyyy too much for it. But NOT AMBITIOUS?? Girl needs to get her crap straight.
My salary as a rural carrier- $70k. 4 years in. Those are STARTING wages you read.
It's okay let her waste her best years just like the rest of them they discard/disqualify so many good men in their teens and 20s, like literally 100s or 1000s ( Heck even in their 30s) then end up alone in their less desired years
Ofc they'll blame men or the lack of " quality" men but we all know who the real problem is nor is it our problem 😂
I also serve my country, as a medic, in the Air Force. I appreciate your service. You literally help the world keep running and y’all don’t get thanked enough.
@@dylannance4772 I thank both of you for your services 🙏 Godspeed guys 💪💪
When she said HR, every man should already know there's a problem.
They love being in control when they're in their masculine energy. 🤦♂
I’ve never heard that before. What is it about being an HR makes her a problem?
@melissajames2631 HR is used as a weapon against men. Men don't complain on the job like they do.
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I see. As a woman, I stay away from HR. I don’t really know what issues are used against men. But I can tell the number one issue must be sexual harassment. Anyway, it works both ways now since women want equality.
@melissajames2631 The medical field is now dominated by them at a 95% rate. Men are being reported because they want the air conditioning too cold.
I’m a clerk for the post office I’m 9 years in and I made 88k last year this year I’m on track to make 92 so they can keep sleeping on us if they want to
Keep up the good work!
People need people like you in this world, very much appreciated homie 💪💪 God speed. Hope you achieve anything you desire in life 🙏
Hii Im from Holland and mailmen don’t make that kind of money here. Sounds almost unbelievable. With all do respect ofcourse. How is that even possible?
@@cruz2102 in a country where you are programmed to want to be famous, be an entrepreneur, and all sorts of first-world-country promise-land stuff, many people don't want labor-intensive jobs. So jobs like mailman, oil workers, garbage collectors, hard-work jobs are often well paid. but in a country where many wouldn't mind being an employee of any job, because its better than poverty, then they don't need to be sold to do the job with high pay. In Canada and the US, many would rather be lazy, or comfortable, rather than work physically. its also hard to find employees for those jobs because of that. so they offer good pay.
Postal workers, UPS, FedEx all of them have great careers. She’s a clown straight up.
I was feeling her... but her denying the mailman for his job is lame as hell. 😂😂😂 Girl bye
These are the type of dudes that keep America moving... doing the real every day work.
There's something inauthentic about her.
She was probably one of the best woman contestants that came on the show. She just had to make some tough decisions and didn't know how to answer why she didn't chose the people that she popped without being rude or saying she already wanted the litigation guy. He won as soon as she spoke to him the first time around....
Former 204b for the US Postal Service here... Made 100k at 19.
204b is a supervisor/ carrier hybrid. How often did you supervise?
I personally wouldn’t pop on a mail person just because of their profession, but if that’s not what she wants that’s okay too. She’s still imo the most respectful, mature put together woman I’ve ever seen on this show. She just wants her guy to have a different genre for his career, nothing wrong with that. And nothing wrong with mailmen.
Can't wait to your next video!
There's no way she's HR....the way she dissed him being a mailman when his job is better than hers...LOL hilarious.
women go for ambitious men. Shes a woman. She doesnt need to be ambitious or even have a good career or job. We like looks, they like money & stability
What makes a mailman better than her position?
@@M87theGreat job security. HR is literally used to control men.
@@ArionNoble ever heard of systemic oppression? Her getting paid to "control men" doesn't make her job(and other endeavors) less important than a dam mail carrier.
If she can produce more tangibles with more free time, guess what. Shorty won🤷🏾♂️
@M87theGreat HR doesn't do much but allow 304s to control men. It wouldn't even be needed in a male only work environment. What tangibles? I wrote JOB SECURITY. One could be fired tomorrow. The other won't.
Women that go on pop the balloon shows are for recreational use only.
Recreational 😂😂🙏
She's hr, she most likely puts into a 401. Postal has an actual retirement/pension. Postal also has the option to make as much as they want with overtime. My old man has 32 years as a postal employee.
My hubby is retired postal worker, he has full pension with great medical
Great commentary bro. I was the tall dude with the glasses that’s on this episode. Can’t believe 🍊🎈📌💔😤
We were rooting for you😢
Didn’t you end up with a match
@@dominicksans7204 No, he went up ready to match, but she led him on until the very end, until she admitted that she did not find him physically attractive.
No surprise that a HR Manager is interviewing prospective employees.
I'm short myself, so I had the same thought when I saw the shorter guys. They are not gonna be as interested in them regardless of what they're like. Not sure if it is pessimistic or not.
I have found that really good looking and in shape short guys do the best. You gotta have a face carved out by the Gods or something for women to overlook the lack of height.
As a former Mailman I can say that is the most stressful job I’ve ever been at and they don’t pay enough. You remember the term going postal? Well they push people to the point of losing it. I tip my hat to all the post office carriers but the supervisors are the worse. I made double the pay as a receptionist at Kaiser Permanente
Wouldn't be surprised to find the mailman earns more than the others, except maybe the lawyer guy..
she a whole red flag if u see the contradictory front she has on, then you know.
She sleeping on the mail man the one thing mailmen know how to do is deliver packages 📦
As has been said before, a man will sacrifice his happiness for his family. A woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness let that sink in.
Say it louder for the people in the back!
Not every woman brother. And not every man either.
@@Grisclysay it louder for the othe guy
@@Grisclythank you
This is how you guys just get easily radicalized ! Grow up ! Quote like this only makes you more angry at the world
I wish you would put out more videos like this. It's funny, it's chill it's relaxed. You make jokes but you aren't trying to hate too much. Sometimes you do hate a little too much and I'm like man you being really hard on this person. But overall you add a good personality to the videos and I enjoy watching them with you even if we ain't watching them together
26:08 LOOK AT THE COMEDIAN’S FACE WHEN SHE SAYS SHES NOT HIGH MAINTENANCE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭 wheeeww chileee im crying real tears 😭
Boy saw right through that smokescreen. 29 without anyone leaves a lot of questions
There are alot of well articulate brown and black American men, they are smart enough not to get on these shows.
I used to work as a mail carrier. Don’t get me wrong, it was harder than it looked and initially wasn’t worth the pay, because I didn’t plan on staying and seeing it through for a long time. Very physically taxing. However, knowing how much perseverance it takes to see that position through, in order to receive the maximum benefit/ pay, is a true testament to anyone’s character.
Especially if it’s a man I wanted a future and children with. I know he’s not giving up when things get rough. A job like that really means you know what you want for yourself and you’re not going to waiver just because of the perspective of someone who has no idea what hard work is.
Why can’t she choose a man that has a good job in her eyes? Men do this all the time, so they claim like they will choose based on a woman’s job ( only fans, escort etc). Everybody should have standards
THANK YOU!! Im really confused. She had options to choose from, she picked what she felt was the best to her. Maybe she should have kept her explanation short, maybe that would not have gotten out that offensive
Ikr. If she likes the lawyer, than that's her preference.
@@krisfirstofhername.8444 yeah. for her it might be more so the title of what the man does and not the money as much
your are technically right, but i think saying it on a public platform people will tear you appart
Im seeing stevie watching mr lawyer and just smiling. If his got you smiling can you imagine how a woman must feel? He’s got a lot going for him on many levels
Zest
Mailcarrier is a well paid, hardworking, respectable job. Not to mention government benefits and 401k. This man is doing good for himself.
Someone needs to give that mailman a hug🥺😢
would you date him?
@@maryamadedeji24 Yes if he was a man of God sure💞
why does everyone think being busy all the time is good
Brah HR bro vs Attorney!? Attorney bro is Thanos out this bih. Crazy thing is bro probably goin run through shawty. She breakin all her rules for bro forsurely
A “Thanos” type male seldom wants a woman on his level because he will want to lead and not compete. He would date a waitress if he finds her attractive.
As a lostal carrier like him. We are doing pretty well and most of us make over 100k a year EASY
If you want 12 hours a day with one off day 😂 foh
If she’s not high maintenance then why look down on the postal guy?
It's called ignorance, blue-collar worker's tend to get looked down on.
@@abc4781 exactly that. shes more worried about job title rather then how much money the job makes.
Why would you want your woman to be your best friend? You're gonna call your woman your bff? These men are delusional.
They don't understand women. They don't realize they don't love like we do. We will lay our lives down for those we love. They NEVER will.
Men got to like you first if they want to commit to you 🤷♂️
@@ArionNoblebecause that's built into y'all. Women are supposed to be the nurturers, men the protectors. Of course in this day in age BOTH of those traits are becoming rarer by the day.
@@ArionNoblewomen are NOT meant to sacrifice their lives for men. Women all around the world sacrifice their lives for CHILDREN. How are y’all crying that there aren’t any feminine women left, but want them to act like good men? And stop with the generalisations, you know damn well that your average modern man wouldn’t sacrifice much for a woman, y’all don’t even want to pay for dates for women that y’all claim to like, but want us to believe that y’all would sacrifice your lives 😂
When she said yes to astrology, I thought my prediction was coming true. 😂😂😂
Damn. The "winner" is about to bite the bullet with this one
i have a question, is this show conducive to an organic relationship(s) as these people seem and act in a superficial manner.
Good question. Definitely not. There’s a carousel of individuals trying to impress so will speak trying to sound intelligent and articulate. A lot of this show is just a performance imo. In organic relationships you can see a person’s character more easily. Having and maintaining good character is what sustains relationships.
@@mothegoat6865 mmh as young man i have to ask people in successful marriages or relationships on how to navigate through the journey.
Ytube deleting my comments,…I’ve tried to post 3 times…let’s see if this stays up
They deleted again
UA-cam always deletes comments especially if you have a difference in opinion
She was always going to choose the tall, well-spoken guy.
Partner is a red flag word.
Sending love to the mailmen out there. 💪.
Honestly....I would love to be a mailman. It looks like a great gig to me
08:34 as a woman this is a red flag to me. Just like a good looking woman who is still single is often a red flag to men.
A good looking woman single is only because she doesn't want to settle for liars or cheaters. The good men do not go for her because they think she is out of their league so the ones with ego's try it on. I don't blame them for staying single
Kandi was looking for some flaws in her match so bad, but bruh stood on business
She has the right to choose guys stop being salty
Girl, there is nothing wrong with a mailman. That's crazy!!! You won't need to wonder when his is going to spend time with me. He will spend time with you all the time. And he will get benefits too. Girl bye!!!!
She was honest, cant really be mad at her...Most woman would lie about it and never talk to you again ,as painfull as it sounds. going bassed on what she said it seems like i was more so the title than the money.
I been wanting to work for them forever
0:40 dude is also desperate asf he was tryin way too hard to get a woman that dont want him
24:40 too serious..? Are you slow? You realize how important of a question that is?? 😂
shes like 90% forehead when you take that wig off 😂💀💀
😂
That’s Clearly Her Real Hair At The Top So Her Forehead Is Already Out
Yall let’s be honest, yes a mailman earns well but even from ones I’ve personally spoken with and the way he struggled to answer his question it doesn’t take a genius to be a mailman. She seemed chatty and had a level of intellect she probably didn’t expect to hold the type of conversations she could have with an attorney. Not to mention mailmen are constantly working long hours including Saturdays and don’t have that much vacation time nor control of their schedules.
Real sad dude seemed nice. She should know people who work for the government make good money.
I blame Instagram for this. Women want a husband who looks good in a highlight reel. Or as I like to call them Insta-husbands. They want a husband they can brag about to their friends.
Why does this show only use black people? why not bring in single people from all races?
There are other versions that do that
The bachelor is for you
@@mkawa1566 Takes a 5 sec search to see the cast of different seasons and see they brought contestants of all races on the show. So don’t kno what ur talking about
She pop the balloon of the dermatologist! why get triggered when she pop the mailmans balloon? Dermatologist makes way more money than a mailmam and she pop his first.
Bruh wasn't a dermatologist, he said a medical tech at a derm office.
@CeeJeffRun he still make more money than a mail man and she still popped his balloon.
This is a male Pandering channel. And I'm a 36 yo male. My own everything
Yeah ppl gotta stop being so sensitive cuz someone doesn’t wanna date for you for what you do, so
Society is doomed.
The man in the tan shirt, that she popped bc he’s too short, he said he gets what he wants, & he wanted her but he didn’t get it, so to say I get what I want, & by him acting so serious, is overcompensating for his lack of height, which proves that he’s insecure about it. He needs to relax & stop trying to Act taller, & just except himself first, then the woman will flock to you, bc your dominance is natural & not a forced form of control
Haven't seen one of these in a minute!! Let's go😂
Why complain about her choice she was one of the most respectful ladies on that show
Her reason for popping was dumb especially seeing how much mailman makes. Also, to say because he a mailman meaning he not ambitious is crazy
@zidane8452 you need a high-school degree for that position, cut it out. Nothing ambitious about being a mailman. Especially if you not promoting.
So many men out there can learn from the second dude. The tan polo one that was left in the end with second dude seemed more closed-minded, closed off, not empathetic enough like the second dude, who seems to understand people better. Understanding that humans are inherently reactive and your duty is to not react back, but to realize that the reaction that was given was likely because of you. Introspection is key, self-awareness. Many lack this. It's a skill, a trait to learn that benefits the world around you.
I'm not religious, but you can learn a lot from it. Many say evil has impacted the world today, more than people looking up to God. In other words, the idea is to be more considerate of others and yourself as a unity, rather than seeing the world in some dog-eat-dog manner. Which is just you letting ego dictate your every move, rather than your genuine self. Ego is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master. I recently commented this on my community tab.
When I watched this yesterday, I knew you was gonna react to it. LOL
She said she’s an HR professional at 29 so she’s likely just doing general HR work or she’s an HR supervisor, leaning more towards the former because she would’ve outright said she was a supervisor if she was so I’m guessing she does HR Administrative work and on average that’s around 40-50k/yr.
She also said she’s a travel advisor, now in my experience that just means she has some affiliate link to get a discount on flights and hotels or she’s scamming. One of the two.
She basically tried to be very vague with what she does but said words that make it sound a lot grander than it likely is.
Also just notice how when the Attorney answered her question on what he’s done to prepare for a relationship he literally gave a nothing answer he just said words that sound nice lol
Skirt is way too short for a dating show meeting people for the first time. What message she trying to send
She is NOT... ready to settle. And that guy is PERFECT for settling... Dude's paradigm is properly developed, but she is NOT ready to settle, and you can tell. She's trying her best to act cool about it, but she wants a boy toy that's serious, that doesn't have time for her, so he keeps this mystery to him. She wants a "man's man", that has no time to fk around, and is build his own empire. And she just wants to walk in that mf, and put her flag on top of his tower. That dude in the end is too good for her.
She is NOT ready for a guy like him. He is WAY out of her league when it comes to settling down. That mailman guy is likely her best option based on his character, but the job title does not scream "im building my empire", it screams more like "im serving another man building his own empire"... shes not ready to let go of her control and let him take charge. She has ambitions, she needs to take charge of, and it will clash with his values. So the dynamic is NOT there. He would want his woman to completely be worry free of control, no need to worry about anything, and all she'd have to do is have his kids, have her build the family while he's out there building their empire.
She is NOT ready for any of it because her unresolved insecurities "require" her to seek her personal ambitions, who are tied far too tight emotionally to her to let go just yet. Although she can let it all go and settle... She has either mfs to prove wrong, or maybe she relied on some buster before to settle with and learned the hard way, and now wants to build her own little empire before giving it up to move into his...
See now he gotta put the call out. Make sure her next package is LATE! I'm talking even if she at home. Say she wasn't in and gotta go pick it up herself.
😂🤣😂🤣👏🏽👏🏽
She did not explain it correctly and came out as offensive but I do get what she is saying though. She is looking for someone who is on a similar professional path as her, someone who has gone from one point to another and keeps moving even though the postal carrier is a great job and helps provide well, that is not the case
The best pop the baloon episode in my opinion.
that man in the white is so educated im surprissed she didnt just drop her panties right there when he spoke
1:42
Bro has the Rick James look going
this take is kinda wierd... i dont think its entitlement to have a choice in what you want in life .... we get rejected everyday by these women because of different things so thats what women do they either accept us or reject us
She has a great laugh, based on her self description she has good values. I think that guy Ontario (wild ahh name) should NOT have popped his balloon over such a small caveat. Idk if most ppl this show actually go on a date afterwards, but he counted himself out so soon. Maybe once she got to know him better she would change her mind or there would be a discussion about what he can and cannot say abt their relationship.
100k easy with a little OT
Stevie knight got a crush lol
Watch this whole episode!!! Surprise x 2
10:32 relax. This is not a good job 😂. Amazon and ups is 💩💩💩 on usps
So HR is an ambitious job but a mailman is not 🤔🙄. Slow
Shocker love to travel
Smh
Why she pop on the mailman and Dermatologist guy huh? They were the best 2, in the line ... I would not have passed up on those men. One would have been picked, probs the bearded man giving me dark skin late RIP Nipsey Hus vibes ...
Women are screwed, they chose the bear over men, now they want to shave their heads and kill society by not willing to repopulate it based off a political and sexist choice.
30:44 I need to be able to talk like that 😩
16:16 You thought you were i😅l whisperer but I HAD to pause the video here bc I callled this one. I agreed on the postman, not bc his job but I think he is too secure in his life and she’s too young to understand what he really wants. & you should have known she wouldn’t pop the “short king” (even tho he’s not short lmao) bc she k asked him follow up immediately after.. tbh I see her leaving w him. But back to the pop, she chose the taller man bc he said Jesus specifically & whether she admits that or not, she’s not religious. Maybe spiritual but again I have a feeling his spirit is too steady. She likes that idea of “he might do something wild for me”. Tbh she lowkey toxic, or at least she definitely used to be.
Update. 28:36 : she likes him & it’s notttt the height. She want the Attorneys money.
Big facts.
You were wrong about dude in all black. Dead wrong. He actually got a match. Now am side eying your judgment because you were so loud and wrong 😅😅
You can be qualified as a man but if you have no game and dont understand women you are going to struggle. Second dude also seemed way too nice, he caters to his women too much
#Algoboost
Sayin you want to break the “black stereotype while saying I fuck wit cuh dawg forreal is crazy lol