His, currently, bleeding son asked him to hold him and give him back because he was gonna get his revenge 💀 Like I know it's morbid but man I wish I could be a fly in the wall when brother came back, still bleeding but armed, and dad just looked at him and said "... Aight, make it quick" That's just movie worthy
@@Hop_Off_N7 shockingly easy. Lots of games have vulnerable security exploits, Clicking links, not updating ur windows or drivers, and just being dumb and downloading files from people.
That brother really is a W mans. He protected his sister, asked his father if he could go run a fade, and then proceeded to win the fade. Then got an award and was probably on TV. Him & Choso are making the rest of us look bad.
@@somedude142 And a lot of the times, their surroundings will have ignored so many red flags it's just embarrassing. Other times, people will have alerted authorities, who proceed to do absolutely nothing and then act shocked when what was happening happens.
Make sure she know good dudes exist too 😂 it’s hard enough out here with morons like the guy in the video 😂 Xevi is dope! You’re probably a badass dad too, 🤘
@ContactsNfilters he said she stopped talking to him for years until he hit her up again. She probably though he changed in that time and gave him a second chance. A desperation for friends can do that
Damn, this hits close. I have a great friend i met on runescape. Been feiends for years now, our kids are friend. Could have easily been different, thank god it wasnt
For those of you with kind hearts and a forgiving nature: There is a difference between that and being naive. Everyone does not share your forgiving nature and, unfortunately, just because you treat people well does not mean that same kindness will be returned to you. Keep your wits about you. (I am in no way blaming the victim(s) here).
How do you deal with shitty people that you can't distance from at work? I'd like to know since its hard for me to do anything but being nice when people are hostile to me
@somedude142 All of this comes from my own experiences and I encourage anyone else who reads your comment to give their perspective on this as well: Considering it's a work environment, I'll say the obligatory "Take it to your lead/supervisor/manager/HR/etc". With that out of the way: If you've exhausted all of those options and the person/people are still a problem, you have to stand up for yourself. _How_ you do that will always depend on the current situation. I've come across my own share of assholes at work, and usually they will leave a person alone once they start getting some resistance from them. It's been rare for anything to get physical, so most of it is handled through words alone. I've never went out of my way to interact with them, but when I had to, I made it very clear that if it isn't work related then there's nothing to be said. Sometimes people just don't respond to kind gestures. That's when a firm tone comes into play. Don't have to be mean, just let it be known that you aren't someone to walk over or toy with.
@@somedude142 Give them the same energy. I find it much more easy on myself when I treat others how they treat me. Treating them like kings when we're being treated like fools does so much toll on your body and mind. You need to unlearn being nice to everyone because wrong people will take advantage of it. Start building on yourself
@@somedude142Keep being yourself. It’s hard living being angry and bitter like the ppl around you. It may start off being an act, but soon it’ll be your reality. If they mean, let them be. You be your bright personality. Don’t let anyone take that from you.
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
Only 8 years for flying across the world just to murder someone is wild. Having permanent damage to your hands and the perp getting 8 years is a slap in the face.
As an uncle to several children ,if you get anyone trying to get you to send pictures,numbers,address ,any sensitive info Inform your closest friends,guardian etc,Block the person , catalog it,just in case the same person starts trying to blackmail from long distance
most people not bout it i leaked my address in a discord server with 15k members and showed proof i lived there and its been a whole month and no one pulled up yet
I can’t believe there are people that forgiving out there. If someone told me they did that I’d go immediately to the police cause that probably is a crime
Sounds like she was pretty young at the time, and it's not like she gave him another chance to be her main man, it was just talking over the internet with an entire ocean between them. But yea, some redflags shouldn't be forgiven.
Yea exactly. What matters most at thenend of the day is YOUR REACTION to getting friendzoned. You can get friendzoned all youy want but hiw do you take that and keep moving forward ? thats what matters Uhh shane's reaction here was clearly the wrong one lol.
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
@@Harry-bn5mp Unless I misheard, she didn't cheat on him. She told him they weren't in a relationship. She may have liked him, but didn't want to take it further than light flirting. I've been there and it hurts, but you have to take it at face value that they don't want a relationship, even if they keep flirting. This is 100% on him for ignoring that, and even worse is that he intentionally went out seeking her private info to confirm his worst fears. He had nothing to gain from that and everything to lose, both from a moral standpoint and on his own emotional level. That's another level of psychosis right there. What a menance...life is pretty scary
RuneScape OMGGG this was (and still is) one of my favorite games ever, oh the nostalgia... Anyway, Xevi, thank you for your empathy and advice to us women. Especially the younger ones. Seeing a young black man speaking to a male audience, but being respectful to women, nowadays, is a big deal, unfortunately. I'm happy to watch videos from a responsible creator like that ❤
Nah, that's still a crazy choice that is made only by those that misunderstand what a large wild animal will do to a person in its territory, any human.
@@smithynoir9980 no they don't misunderstand, they know they can be killed by a bear, they're just more afraid of the human. THAT should tell you something but it seems like you'd rather just look down on people and think they're stupid rather than understand them.
@@smithynoir9980 Men are the most dangerous game. Bears will maul a woman to death to protect their cubs/territory, but men will r*pe a woman to death over a sense entitlement/ownership over said woman. This realty is even more pronounced as young men my age are going around saying "Your body, my choice" which is a r*pe threat.
@@zombspideyspecial I understand the point when it's used for it's exaggerative affects, that the fear is very real and physical much like encountering a wild bear, but when you really get down to it, no one really chooses the wild bear over a random man and calls it a rational choice.
imagine you message someone and they get obsessive over you quick, that’s already a lot to handle but for them to also be crazy, that’s another thing 😭
1:58 Dude! Rookie mistake… never send YOUR address. There’s PO Boxes for a reason. Or just send a neutral address like a restaurant that you don’t frequent or something
Don’t tell girls to be careful- tell boys to be better! I’ve vetted all I can - mutual friends, friends of friends boyfriends, asked a million questions how do they define consent, what do u think about a woman’s right to choose, etc. They lie , men are terrifying
@ to conflate someone with narcissistic personality disorder with the ways men are clearly taught complete entitlement to women’s time/energy/bodies is silly - clearly most men aren’t literal pathological narcissists , yet why are so many men obsessive and stalkers and abusive ? It’s normalized to hell
Are people ever told to lock their doors? Or move from dangerous areas? If that happens women should be told to watch out. Trash men will always be around.
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
What an unfortunate bleach job. That's what purple shampoo and conditioner are for, to neutralize the yellow tones. Unfortunately, it doesn't neutralize obsessive stalker energy.
Dear Xevi: warning young girls... to act how, please? Not talk to men at all? Someone I exchanged a few words with at the line in the supermarket afterwards thought he had thereby earned the right to come home with me. He literally said: "... but we talked!" The answer can not be for girls to be more cautious, it has been shown that not even wearing total burkas and not speaking at all makes women safe from men. We have to warn men, boys, adolescents to realise that nobody has the right to anybody these days. We need to incorporate that into films, influencers' stances, podcasts. We might be building an equalistic society where masculinity is a choice, not a poison.
Thank you. I love the PSA but men don't get called out? I don't like that being victims is associated with a gender (so many comments saying girls are so forgiving, easy, hello she was young??) but preds aren't (only some men are crazy, we don't claim them).
It's weird, growing up I was exposed to the same 🐂💩 as everyone else but somehow I didn't grow up to be a knuckle dragging misogynist. It's almost as if parenting had something to do with it and most people simply being sexist, tribalist morons because they've always been sexist, tribalist morons. 🤷🏿♂️
I agree that it should definitely be that way, but in this case, it isn't that he was just misogynistic or toxically masculine, but that he was a completely irredeemable psycho. The former you can definitely push people away from with the right influence, but it takes a special kind of crazy to fly halfway across the world to murder someone over a perceived slight. Telling someone like that to not be bad is very likely to fall on deaf ears, but telling potential victims how to avoid them will yield more effective results. But yeah I agree, the world would be a better place if what you say were the case.
The way you presented and delivered this was so well done! It’s actually really relieving to see hard subject matter like this presented properly but also with a flair of humour in it! I dig your personality and energy my brother, earned yourself a sub! Keep up the good work!
Why would he be misogynistic? He's a fucked up crazy man doing shit that doesn't make sense. He don't got the time or the care to form an ideology like that.
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
Still the resemblance to a young Alex turner is uncanny. I thought i heard Xevi mention she lived on 505. Which explains why he so desperately sang needs to get back there.
Just google the lyrics to Arctic Monkeys- 505 The knife twists at the thought that I should fall short of the mark Frightened by the bite, though it's no harsher than the bark The middle of adventure, such a perfect place to start I'm going back to 505 If it's a seven hour flight or a forty-five minute drive In my imagination, you're waitin' lyin' on your side With your hands between your thighs
I met one of my best friends playing WoW, had some serious concerns about traveling to meet him, but it all worked out. Every time I hear this kind of story I just think “wow, I was lucky”
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
Stories like this are the reason why people are reluctant to care about male loneliness. People can empathize with feelings of isolation and longing for acceptance. What they won't tolerate is how quick dudes will crash out over being couchieless.
@deadropleropio411 It's less about the verbagae and more about his entitlement to women. He felt he was owed something and was willing to hurt her and others to get it.
True, but the same can be true for the opposite gender. I'm not downplaying the situation, I just wanted to say that just because of a few people's actions doesn't determine a whole group of people
"Get enough lonely single in their young ages from 20-30s. More public tragedies will keep happening pretty soon they'll start targeting higher-ups in Gov."
@Onyxcats Right, but the primary perpetrators of these crimes, most violent crime, are men. To bring up women or say "not all men" sounds like you're trying to displace responsibility. The issue is largely to do with how men and boys are socialized to be entitled to women and to lash out when they don't get their way. This is a men's issue and it's up to men to address it amongst themselves. Otherwise them and the women they love will remain in danger.
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
The most shocking thing about this story is how similar* it is to so many other stories, that result in tragedy and never make it outside of the local news. It’s way too familiar. *aside from the international travel detail, of course
Speak for yourself. Also, this gotta be the craziest comment on here. As a human being, yes you’re supposed to feel emotions, but learn to not react on them.
@@teoxoe So, you've never woken up early on your day off to do something you didn't want to do because the woman you had feelings for asked you for a favor? Tell me if I'm wrong but, I'm guessing you thought I said, women have 100% control over all our actions no matter what. What I was trying to say was, women have the ability to make us do something we normally wouldn't because of our emotions towards them. We have the ability to say no but, sometimes our emotions towards them make us do it anyway.
@@teoxoe See you agree with me, you just thought I meant every man will do something this extreme. All I was saying is this is an extreme example of what our emotions can make us do. Women do it too, I mean there are tons of stories of women turning into monsters because they loved their boyfriend to much.
@@Squashylemon I agree with your point. I just don’t even think this is an extreme, looking at it. Like; his emotions made him do this, but it wasn’t the woman; it was his extreme insecurity and jealousy. Jealousy over a woman that wasn’t even with him. That’s possessive. The woman didn’t make him act anyway. He was a broken human inside and dealt with it in a psycho way. Your original point still stands, and I think that yes, we can let outside forces impact our emotions. This doesn’t mean we should act on them though.
Tf? 15 for having crack which is harmless but, he has 8 for literally trying to harm someone??? The Justice System is a joke fr I feel really bad for you, bruh. .
Man that's crazy that you could hear that much commotion going on in your house and don't instantly stop what you're doing and run into the situation to defend your family
Dude, I love your content. I saw a ton of videos in my feed talking about this, but I clicked on yours because you have a real gift for storytelling. The lofi edits are perfect. Hope you never change that.
Well yea lol. gsay men tend to have little difficulty finding another alternative partner online nowadays after rejectionb. Gaay men are EVERYWHERE , especially online. Just search with a little dedication and youll probably find 3 or even 5 other potential partners in your area in a short time. ...Now... straight men looking for straight women after rejection?....Damn... Good luck with the search out there , comrades🫡 youre gonna need it🫡
Men will literally have genocides, wars, raids and lynches because of their emotions. Pretty much everything they tell is the opposite of the factual thruth 🥱
That brother had more patience and calm than Shance deserved. An intruder into your home doesn't get to decide when they are done or its over. Police should only have been called to report a body.
Thank you for emphasizing that a some dudes feel entitled to some get back and thats how they end up doing stupid shit (Over some petty shit mind you) This is probably the best outcome he could've gotten, the fact that he survived is crazy to me, maybe because the family were Muslim. Any other family and he would've never gotten to reflect on it
The fact that the brother tells the dad to let him get his 1v1 and then the dad REALLY LET’S HIM is sending me like wow what a supportive family ☺️
I mean, he got stabbed, dad knows his son needed that getback 💀💀
Mans really said "ight say less"
Brooooo
My brother said "For my sister, for my pride!" and then ran the 1s fair and square
Sittin' there like "Thats my boy" 😅
His, currently, bleeding son asked him to hold him and give him back because he was gonna get his revenge 💀
Like I know it's morbid but man I wish I could be a fly in the wall when brother came back, still bleeding but armed, and dad just looked at him and said "... Aight, make it quick"
That's just movie worthy
I think Im addicted to you telling me peoples problems
This man is entertaining as hell
But he is entertaining as fu tho
saame
Same
Samesies
"He hacks her computer."
The escalation is insane 😭
Yes! Oh he crazy crazy!
Facts, that's exactly what I said out loud during my drive home, that was purely unhinged behavior
Male incels are dangerous
TWICE, how tf is it that easy to hack somebody from a whole other country? He must have sent her a file and she downloaded it or something?
@@Hop_Off_N7 shockingly easy. Lots of games have vulnerable security exploits, Clicking links, not updating ur windows or drivers, and just being dumb and downloading files from people.
That brother really is a W mans. He protected his sister, asked his father if he could go run a fade, and then proceeded to win the fade. Then got an award and was probably on TV.
Him & Choso are making the rest of us look bad.
A resounding achievement for every brother, he's gonna have a hell of a story to tell
Not to mention running a fade with permanently damaged hands
Who's the 'rest of us'
@@ottomanpapyrus9365 this guy & Choso are both "big brothers" so the rest of us would be anyone who is a "big brother". I've got 2 little sisters.
@@JujuToobootie ah gotcha
As an old head I’m sharing this with my daughter. She’s likely to heed your warning more than my own. Xevi with that PSA.
Unfortunately most girls don't learn until something bad happens to them because of some shitty person... Its sad😥
@@somedude142 And a lot of the times, their surroundings will have ignored so many red flags it's just embarrassing. Other times, people will have alerted authorities, who proceed to do absolutely nothing and then act shocked when what was happening happens.
that's sad, the''' She’s likely to heed your warning more than my own'' part''' kids be like this tho..
Make sure she know good dudes exist too 😂 it’s hard enough out here with morons like the guy in the video 😂
Xevi is dope! You’re probably a badass dad too, 🤘
What is she supposed to do with this info? lmao
bro stabbed 2 ppl damn near to death and didn’t even serve a decade… shit crazy
it's probably because he's american
Could also be bc he's ⚪️ and the uk is also, if not more, r4c!$+ @@lunix3259
@@lunix3259 Nah UK sentences are just crazy, people do 6-8 for literally killing a person look it up.
Goddamn
@@lunix3259*white
It’s so crazy how crazy can’t tell they’re crazy😭😭 like he never once stopped to think “maybe I’m doing too much?”
I'm kinda sad she didn't realize how crazy he was after the first time he hacked her computer!
@@MásCebollasPorFavor that really should've sounded the alarms in her head
@@MásCebollasPorFavor They we’re probably teens when that happened and she seemed to think she was safe in a different continent.
@ContactsNfilters he said she stopped talking to him for years until he hit her up again. She probably though he changed in that time and gave him a second chance. A desperation for friends can do that
Being that crazy is kinda like being blackout drunk, you're moving but the conscious human part of your brain isn't activated.
Explaining to people what Messenger is makes me feel old bruh
Same im a 90s kid i saw messenger rise and die....
I was born in 02 but in my country we still had old tech and websites and I felt ancient when he started explaining about messenger lol
Im from 10 and ik what messenger id
@@Justanuggybro lied about his age 😂 get off UA-cam
@@Duane-p1d ? 2010, i used messenger kids, but knew off messenger, as my parents used it
Bro really hacked a girl twice ,traveled 5000 miles and spent 1k+ on a ticket just to get send to prison for 8 years 💀
He hacked a girl...this ain't you is it?
This dude is peak delusion😭
She was not his girl
Bro who is “his girl”
This* girl…I hope you mean
Damn, this hits close. I have a great friend i met on runescape. Been feiends for years now, our kids are friend. Could have easily been different, thank god it wasnt
Do a story time
Easily? 💀
bro how bad was your relationship with your friend if it could easily gone wrong 💀
Tf you mean with easily.
"Easily"?
For those of you with kind hearts and a forgiving nature: There is a difference between that and being naive. Everyone does not share your forgiving nature and, unfortunately, just because you treat people well does not mean that same kindness will be returned to you. Keep your wits about you. (I am in no way blaming the victim(s) here).
How do you deal with shitty people that you can't distance from at work? I'd like to know since its hard for me to do anything but being nice when people are hostile to me
@somedude142 All of this comes from my own experiences and I encourage anyone else who reads your comment to give their perspective on this as well: Considering it's a work environment, I'll say the obligatory "Take it to your lead/supervisor/manager/HR/etc". With that out of the way: If you've exhausted all of those options and the person/people are still a problem, you have to stand up for yourself. _How_ you do that will always depend on the current situation. I've come across my own share of assholes at work, and usually they will leave a person alone once they start getting some resistance from them. It's been rare for anything to get physical, so most of it is handled through words alone. I've never went out of my way to interact with them, but when I had to, I made it very clear that if it isn't work related then there's nothing to be said. Sometimes people just don't respond to kind gestures. That's when a firm tone comes into play. Don't have to be mean, just let it be known that you aren't someone to walk over or toy with.
@@somedude142 Give them the same energy. I find it much more easy on myself when I treat others how they treat me. Treating them like kings when we're being treated like fools does so much toll on your body and mind. You need to unlearn being nice to everyone because wrong people will take advantage of it. Start building on yourself
Ain't nobody stealing my shine. Life is temporary & if I die, I die. But I'd rather not die with a cold dead heart well before it stops beating.
@@somedude142Keep being yourself. It’s hard living being angry and bitter like the ppl around you. It may start off being an act, but soon it’ll be your reality. If they mean, let them be. You be your bright personality. Don’t let anyone take that from you.
I didn’t even finish the video but the fact that he contacted her years later is CRAZY
that’s the least crazy part fr
He definitely thought about her nonstop during all that time
no its not lmao. People fall out all the time and contact people years later. granted, it's not as extreme as this dude, obviously.
@@painexotic3757 when I said it’s crazy I meant that it was a sign of his state of mind regarding the girl. Obviously people reconnect all the time
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
Only 8 years for flying across the world just to murder someone is wild. Having permanent damage to your hands and the perp getting 8 years is a slap in the face.
This us UK, a country with a great justice system
No it is not stop crying. This is fair
@@Goo-b4m how is this a fair sentence??
It’s hands tho but you right
@@Dra_gon54 I said hands... what are you talking about?
So many of these stalker stories have devastating endings, I'm so glad Farah and her family survived. ❤
hopefully the guy can rehabilitate himself and get back into society
As an uncle to several children ,if you get anyone trying to get you to send pictures,numbers,address ,any sensitive info
Inform your closest friends,guardian etc,Block the person , catalog it,just in case the same person starts trying to blackmail from long distance
most people not bout it i leaked my address in a discord server with 15k members and showed proof i lived there and its been a whole month and no one pulled up yet
You crazy boi@@Smd-s7h
@Smd-s7h you familiar with the concept of survivorship bias?
@@lazyperfectionist3978 exactly,children go missing because of things like this every day
I think you should just tell them you aren’t comfortable at first. If after that they continue to pressure then definitely block them
Whenever I hear "had a problem" now I activate like a sleeper agent
😂
Can relate
Bruh wtf she gave him another shot after hacking her shit.... Can't make this shit up bro 😭😭
I can’t believe there are people that forgiving out there. If someone told me they did that I’d go immediately to the police cause that probably is a crime
Some people are way too forgiving
Forgiveness = stupidity I guess.
Sounds like she was pretty young at the time, and it's not like she gave him another chance to be her main man, it was just talking over the internet with an entire ocean between them. But yea, some redflags shouldn't be forgiven.
@@Cassandralathan9448so everybody should be unforgiving. What an utopia..
legit the perfect time for this to be posted
Congrats on 500k!
Indeed🎉
Thanks man and most of all thanks for watching the vids yall
nah that's the real slim shady
No that’s stans brother
It's definitely giving more Stan than Slim Shady 😂
Definitely Slim Shady obsessed with Mariah Carey 😂
@VivoZzz what's really funny about those Eminem fans is they don't see it like that.
on god, i had to see the thumbnail a second time
Your disclaimer at the end about manipulative people was very much needed. Stay frosty my Queens.
Millions get friend zoned every day.
But they dun act crazy batshit stupid.
Yea exactly. What matters most at thenend of the day is YOUR REACTION to getting friendzoned.
You can get friendzoned all youy want but hiw do you take that and keep moving forward ? thats what matters
Uhh shane's reaction here was clearly the wrong one lol.
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
@@Harry-bn5mp Unless I misheard, she didn't cheat on him. She told him they weren't in a relationship. She may have liked him, but didn't want to take it further than light flirting. I've been there and it hurts, but you have to take it at face value that they don't want a relationship, even if they keep flirting. This is 100% on him for ignoring that, and even worse is that he intentionally went out seeking her private info to confirm his worst fears. He had nothing to gain from that and everything to lose, both from a moral standpoint and on his own emotional level. That's another level of psychosis right there. What a menance...life is pretty scary
this mf crashed out over runescape women that's wild
Bro is the definition of crash out💀
Facts lmao bro was beyond a cornball calling him a crash out is disrespectful to crash outs ☠️
Shoutout to you for looking out for the youngins 🥰
Lesson of story: Always use a PO box address and never entertain suspicious strangers.
The way you structure your videos are like a smoke sesh with the quiet hommie who knows everything , it's a beautiful format🤣
Dude's got mad story tellin' skills. 🤣 I was so invested lol.
Hi
i didnt understand
Definitely one of your top uploads so far!
RuneScape OMGGG this was (and still is) one of my favorite games ever, oh the nostalgia... Anyway, Xevi, thank you for your empathy and advice to us women. Especially the younger ones. Seeing a young black man speaking to a male audience, but being respectful to women, nowadays, is a big deal, unfortunately. I'm happy to watch videos from a responsible creator like that ❤
Are you technically saying young black men are not respectful to women?? What world you live in? Like wtf!!
On today's episode of "Why Women Chose the Bear?".....
Even bear doesn't want you
Nah, that's still a crazy choice that is made only by those that misunderstand what a large wild animal will do to a person in its territory, any human.
@@smithynoir9980 no they don't misunderstand, they know they can be killed by a bear, they're just more afraid of the human. THAT should tell you something but it seems like you'd rather just look down on people and think they're stupid rather than understand them.
@@smithynoir9980 Men are the most dangerous game. Bears will maul a woman to death to protect their cubs/territory, but men will r*pe a woman to death over a sense entitlement/ownership over said woman. This realty is even more pronounced as young men my age are going around saying "Your body, my choice" which is a r*pe threat.
@@zombspideyspecial I understand the point when it's used for it's exaggerative affects, that the fear is very real and physical much like encountering a wild bear, but when you really get down to it, no one really chooses the wild bear over a random man and calls it a rational choice.
Shout it to xevi for dropping gems on the young ladies
imagine you message someone and they get obsessive over you quick, that’s already a lot to handle but for them to also be crazy, that’s another thing 😭
At the dance competition got me weak🤣
See, Xevi had a problem. He couldn’t stop releasing banger after banger
But when he reached a million subscribers, it started to get wicked
See why alot of women fear men
...hmm Justifiable.🤷🏿♂️
@MaoZedongWasRightAllAlong-i9f what??
Oh you're looking for likes brownie points and a internet girlfriend huh
@shaquilleburton1611 idk how to respond to something this stupid 💀im not even straight plus im engaged so better luck next time kid.
@@nobodybutnene.8872 congrats bestie 🥳
1:58 Dude! Rookie mistake… never send YOUR address. There’s PO Boxes for a reason. Or just send a neutral address like a restaurant that you don’t frequent or something
I've been waiting, another upload from you!
This is wild. They weren't even dating at any point. All online and just chatting. This dude is nuts.
If I caught someone in my sister’s room hurting her, I don’t think I’d be able to stop hurtin him til one of us is flatlined…
This kind of behavior is about to get more common with the whole, "Your body, my choice" crowd. Women need to be more careful now than ever
We always needed to be careful but the modern dudes are not making it easier.
Don’t tell girls to be careful- tell boys to be better! I’ve vetted all I can - mutual friends, friends of friends boyfriends, asked a million questions how do they define consent, what do u think about a woman’s right to choose, etc. They lie , men are terrifying
Shut up foid ,go and talk Tyrone or chad about this
Obviously, boys should be raised better however at the end of the day you can only control yourself so no harm in telling people to be careful.
Agreed, but narcissists aren't really receptive to "do better". Give ladies the sight to protect themselves. Raise boys better. Avoid the narcissists.
@ to conflate someone with narcissistic personality disorder with the ways men are clearly taught complete entitlement to women’s time/energy/bodies is silly - clearly most men aren’t literal pathological narcissists , yet why are so many men obsessive and stalkers and abusive ? It’s normalized to hell
Are people ever told to lock their doors? Or move from dangerous areas? If that happens women should be told to watch out. Trash men will always be around.
Xevi always makes this problem his problem is He's ahead of himself and he definitely needs the UA-cam Gold Play Button 🐐
The PSA is top tier. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Dude was gonna off this girl and then go to a concert. Oh naw, put him under the jail
INCEL peak
You are also a incel
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
trying to kill someone over a online relationship is absolutely ridiculous
@@Harry-bn5mp no ? ? how can u cheat on someone you're not with ?
Average discord mod behavior
Yo fooorreal.
The only thing thats missing from this story is their typical disgusting underabged relationships :/
What an unfortunate bleach job. That's what purple shampoo and conditioner are for, to neutralize the yellow tones. Unfortunately, it doesn't neutralize obsessive stalker energy.
😂😂😂😂
Stan type shit😂
Dear Xevi: warning young girls... to act how, please? Not talk to men at all? Someone I exchanged a few words with at the line in the supermarket afterwards thought he had thereby earned the right to come home with me. He literally said: "... but we talked!"
The answer can not be for girls to be more cautious, it has been shown that not even wearing total burkas and not speaking at all makes women safe from men.
We have to warn men, boys, adolescents to realise that nobody has the right to anybody these days.
We need to incorporate that into films, influencers' stances, podcasts.
We might be building an equalistic society where masculinity is a choice, not a poison.
Thank you for this.
Thank you. I love the PSA but men don't get called out? I don't like that being victims is associated with a gender (so many comments saying girls are so forgiving, easy, hello she was young??) but preds aren't (only some men are crazy, we don't claim them).
It's weird, growing up I was exposed to the same 🐂💩 as everyone else but somehow I didn't grow up to be a knuckle dragging misogynist.
It's almost as if parenting had something to do with it and most people simply being sexist, tribalist morons because they've always been sexist, tribalist morons.
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I agree that it should definitely be that way, but in this case, it isn't that he was just misogynistic or toxically masculine, but that he was a completely irredeemable psycho. The former you can definitely push people away from with the right influence, but it takes a special kind of crazy to fly halfway across the world to murder someone over a perceived slight. Telling someone like that to not be bad is very likely to fall on deaf ears, but telling potential victims how to avoid them will yield more effective results.
But yeah I agree, the world would be a better place if what you say were the case.
@@lunix3259He literally shows on how the mindset the guy had was common and that you shouldn't have it.
This vid did it's job well.
The way you presented and delivered this was so well done! It’s actually really relieving to see hard subject matter like this presented properly but also with a flair of humour in it! I dig your personality and energy my brother, earned yourself a sub! Keep up the good work!
Shane wasn't deep in love, he was deeply into misogyny.
We need to stop conflating these two.
Lmao
bullshit. hes crazy but its got nothing to do misogyny you clueless moron
How
Why would he be misogynistic?
He's a fucked up crazy man doing shit that doesn't make sense.
He don't got the time or the care to form an ideology like that.
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
Awewsome storytelling AND an important PSA!!
He was smart enough to hack into computers but not to know that the police would have access to his google searches?
Yeah that's bullshit
Probably through keyloggers and links. He likely got various account passwords this way.
Legend has it he moved to the UK where he became the leadsinger of legendary rockband arctic monkeys and changed his name to Alex Turner.
Legend has it you’re wrong
Should've been the guy from Kaiser Chiefs
@@12Kcalico legend has It he was joking
Still the resemblance to a young Alex turner is uncanny. I thought i heard Xevi mention she lived on 505. Which explains why he so desperately sang needs to get back there.
Just google the lyrics to Arctic Monkeys- 505
The knife twists at the thought that I should fall short of the mark
Frightened by the bite, though it's no harsher than the bark
The middle of adventure, such a perfect place to start
I'm going back to 505
If it's a seven hour flight or a forty-five minute drive
In my imagination, you're waitin' lyin' on your side
With your hands between your thighs
I met one of my best friends playing WoW, had some serious concerns about traveling to meet him, but it all worked out. Every time I hear this kind of story I just think “wow, I was lucky”
judii denchhhh
Men mistake friendliness for flirting like no other.
Only the simps
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
@@Harry-bn5mp no ? ? how can u cheat on someone you're not with ?
That's cause freindliness from women are rare.
If women didnt reject most men then this issue wouldnt occur.
I literally just ate and then this dropped?
ATHENA, YOU CONSPIRE AGAINST ME!!!
what's this reference
Stories like this are the reason why people are reluctant to care about male loneliness.
People can empathize with feelings of isolation and longing for acceptance. What they won't tolerate is how quick dudes will crash out over being couchieless.
i feel like this is more than a crash out, yknow since he planned everything.
@deadropleropio411 It's less about the verbagae and more about his entitlement to women. He felt he was owed something and was willing to hurt her and others to get it.
True, but the same can be true for the opposite gender. I'm not downplaying the situation, I just wanted to say that just because of a few people's actions doesn't determine a whole group of people
"Get enough lonely single in their young ages from 20-30s. More public tragedies will keep happening pretty soon they'll start targeting higher-ups in Gov."
@Onyxcats Right, but the primary perpetrators of these crimes, most violent crime, are men. To bring up women or say "not all men" sounds like you're trying to displace responsibility. The issue is largely to do with how men and boys are socialized to be entitled to women and to lash out when they don't get their way. This is a men's issue and it's up to men to address it amongst themselves. Otherwise them and the women they love will remain in danger.
congrats on 500k! idk how recently you passed it but its 100% deserved, love the vids
3:28 the Ariana Granada and Glenda the good witch of it all starts right here
This educated, humorous, entertaining young man is literally my favorite channel. For a minute, too. Keep cranking em out! Ty! ❤
4:41 losing his red stuff is funny 💀
every time I watch your videos, your subs are growing. Good job!
You do not!
I repeat
You do not get a gift From someone who tried to HACK you!
Wtf was she even talking to him for???
Look at the end of the day, she did cheat on him and lie to him. He absolutely should not have taken it that far though. He obviously has some really deep rooted issues with self-esteem, which makes him 1000x more sensitive to betrayal.
@@Harry-bn5mp no ? ? how can u cheat on someone you're not with ?
"Messenger like Skype", damn i'm getting old!
I like the green screen background type videos alot better than the sitting down talking head videos ngl
"So he hacks her computer" 🤣🤣 solves all of his problems
The most shocking thing about this story is how similar* it is to so many other stories, that result in tragedy and never make it outside of the local news. It’s way too familiar.
*aside from the international travel detail, of course
"Ahh bismillah" got me dying 😂
I love that word.
Ladies you have so much power over our emotions this is just one example.
Speak for yourself. Also, this gotta be the craziest comment on here. As a human being, yes you’re supposed to feel emotions, but learn to not react on them.
@@teoxoe So, you've never woken up early on your day off to do something you didn't want to do because the woman you had feelings for asked you for a favor? Tell me if I'm wrong but, I'm guessing you thought I said, women have 100% control over all our actions no matter what. What I was trying to say was, women have the ability to make us do something we normally wouldn't because of our emotions towards them. We have the ability to say no but, sometimes our emotions towards them make us do it anyway.
@ I get what you’re saying, but this individuals case is an extreme example. I don’t even think the women dictated his actions; he’s just crazy.
@@teoxoe See you agree with me, you just thought I meant every man will do something this extreme. All I was saying is this is an extreme example of what our emotions can make us do. Women do it too, I mean there are tons of stories of women turning into monsters because they loved their boyfriend to much.
@@Squashylemon I agree with your point. I just don’t even think this is an extreme, looking at it. Like; his emotions made him do this, but it wasn’t the woman; it was his extreme insecurity and jealousy. Jealousy over a woman that wasn’t even with him. That’s possessive. The woman didn’t make him act anyway. He was a broken human inside and dealt with it in a psycho way. Your original point still stands, and I think that yes, we can let outside forces impact our emotions. This doesn’t mean we should act on them though.
You never miss! Huge salute to you!
Just found your channel and I love how you simplify and summarize the story for us. Make sit so easy to follow.
8 years for attempted murder? I got 15 years for having some crack on me
Tf? 15 for having crack which is harmless but, he has 8 for literally trying to harm someone??? The Justice System is a joke fr
I feel really bad for you, bruh. .
@@DaijaBrooks and Life in prison for tax evasion
😂😂😂 I swear I can listen you tell stories like this all day! I'm informed and amused, thank you!!! 🎉
The way homie describes the fight. 😂
not gonna lie my boy xevi is the best story teller on youtube and tik tok hands down respect my boy 💯💯
Bro adds hella made up details to the stories but it just makes it better 😭😂
*"See Shane had a problem"*
Man that's crazy that you could hear that much commotion going on in your house and don't instantly stop what you're doing and run into the situation to defend your family
Ray William Johnson from the Hood🔫🗣️🔥
Love to see you grow Xevi!!! Happy for you man!
Imagine being smart enough to hack someones computer, but not smart enough to wipe your Google history.
Dude, I love your content. I saw a ton of videos in my feed talking about this, but I clicked on yours because you have a real gift for storytelling. The lofi edits are perfect. Hope you never change that.
And they women are emotionally...Also I ain't never seen a Bear do this over a rejection WTF lol
Well yea lol. gsay men tend to have little difficulty finding another alternative partner online nowadays after rejectionb. Gaay men are EVERYWHERE , especially online. Just search with a little dedication and youll probably find 3 or even 5 other potential partners in your area in a short time.
...Now... straight men looking for straight women after rejection?....Damn... Good luck with the search out there , comrades🫡 youre gonna need it🫡
Men will literally have genocides, wars, raids and lynches because of their emotions. Pretty much everything they tell is the opposite of the factual thruth 🥱
Xevi dishing out these videos like no tomorrow. I appreciate your grind and messages man
better than 99% of PSA's these days
Pushing boundaries of modern day storytelling. Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to the Xevi Era 💥
I love the way he explains and tells the story, cant get tired of pinch wactching all these vids. gg
A new youtuber to Subscribe, yeah 🤘🏻 continue comme ça !
this man could make a 2 hour video and I'd watch it all
I would be proud to date someone like Shane he seemed devoted and caring.
Go do it
500k 🙌
This middle aged standard issue Louisiana white lady been hooked on your channel for a minute. I can say I knew you when.
The narration is unmatched
That brother had more patience and calm than Shance deserved. An intruder into your home doesn't get to decide when they are done or its over.
Police should only have been called to report a body.
But then he would catch a charge
nah, once shane gave up that was it. anything more than that and you can't really reason self defense, you just become a murderer.
@@PhoenicopterusR yup, he smart for that.
Entertaining, great storytelling, and good looking out making the world better and safer for women and young girls. That’s why he’s my new fav!
Doing all that and only getting 8 years is mad work
You’re the black Mr.Ballen bringing real stories to life.. you brought me out of some tough times with your energy NEVER STOP ❤❤❤❤
Ggs on 500k btw
Dude Im so glad there are men like Farah's brother, Love them bro
Thank you for emphasizing that a some dudes feel entitled to some get back and thats how they end up doing stupid shit (Over some petty shit mind you)
This is probably the best outcome he could've gotten, the fact that he survived is crazy to me, maybe because the family were Muslim. Any other family and he would've never gotten to reflect on it
One video in and I'm already in love with your story telling. This is some top notch shit right here! Hope you blow up.
Two facts the makes this story even worse:
1. At the time she was 13 and he was 20.
2. Since this happened in 2014, he is probably out of jail.
Tf