I frequently reflect on whether she truly cared about me. There may have been a time when she did, but her actions and silence speak volumes. Despite everything I invested in the relationship, I've learned that not everyone reciprocates that love and effort. Once trust is broken, it’s difficult to salvage what was once there, and it’s important to move on. Just like a book, life is meant to be lived forward, not backward. That chapter has closed, and now it’s time for me to begin writing my next one.
I feel and thought the same way if they even cared and they did care but not after break because they move on quick and don't come back and act like they hate you and you don't exist so that's what helped me move on
With insecure attachment styles (fearful avoidant) I think they do and still do, they just suppress their feelings for you so far down at the time of the breakup (as a defense mechanism) its hard to see.
Sometimes he/she cares, sometimes not, it really depends on lots of things, duration of the relationship, the dumper in question, the reason(s) for the break up... the life experiences of the dumper since the break up.. sometimes someone is just done and he/she leaves and stops caring, other times the caring part doesn't stop necessarily, the dumper just changes direction, the dumper may even come back after a time... all cases are not the same...
I frequently reflect on whether she truly cared about me. There may have been a time when she did, but her actions and silence speak volumes. Despite everything I invested in the relationship, I've learned that not everyone reciprocates that love and effort. Once trust is broken, it’s difficult to salvage what was once there, and it’s important to move on. Just like a book, life is meant to be lived forward, not backward. That chapter has closed, and now it’s time for me to begin writing my next one.
I feel and thought the same way if they even cared and they did care but not after break because they move on quick and don't come back and act like they hate you and you don't exist so that's what helped me move on
Same mine is in relationship already and still haven’t gotten divorced yet smh ..
With insecure attachment styles (fearful avoidant) I think they do and still do, they just suppress their feelings for you so far down at the time of the breakup (as a defense mechanism) its hard to see.
@@dante6985man stay away from avoidants, NARC's, all of these cluster b ppl gonna do you real hard & leave you nowhere.
Sometimes he/she cares, sometimes not, it really depends on lots of things, duration of the relationship, the dumper in question, the reason(s) for the break up... the life experiences of the dumper since the break up.. sometimes someone is just done and he/she leaves and stops caring, other times the caring part doesn't stop necessarily, the dumper just changes direction, the dumper may even come back after a time... all cases are not the same...
Very helpful and some clarity. Thank you ..❤❤
Did your ex gf support you during your mother’s passing?
Paz! Good news, DONT CARE so not watching this one ❤😉
@@Lkay4867 Lol!!!! 🤣 I’m so happy to hear that! You’re definitely on the right track 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 keep it up 👍🏽