I totally agree with your message and personally I don’t want anything for free and if I cant afford something I will wait until I can pay full price and I don’t want anyone doing something for me for nothing because I am not going to do something for nothing unless it’s something I am doing something to help someone financially unfortunate like children or ill/ elderly . Male or female
I agree 100% that we as Men need to be 100% if a man wants a woman to shut up and do what he says then he needs to pay for everything. That’s fair Both Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence spoke on this in the 80’s. If a man wants 100% Cooperation from a Woman then he needs to be paying 100% of the running costs.
Sofia X That is simply a boundary that you set for yourself. Most men who are established and has money, assets, and investments, and most likely wants to get married will not be 32, unless you are trying to land a celebrity man, a lotto winner, or a trust fund baby. Even still, he may not want to marry you, or have children with you. Even if you do have his child, you will get child support but if he gets married later on, you and your children will be excluded from his inheritance. If you believe in hypergamy, it would make sense to marry a man who is established and have assets that will have you and your children set up well into the future. If you wait until in your 40s, when you sexual value declines drastically, you become overweight and your looks fade, the likelihood goes waaaaaay down. You will still have to work, keep up your looks, and settle for a lower value man.
I'm a brother that has had to rise from the ashes. I'm a blue collar Henry. I gave up everything to a traditional woman turned modern woman. I am a traditional provider man. My ex wife didn't have to work to pay significant bills. She wanted to go to school,so I paid for schooll,bought a house,luxury cars, the whole nine yards. When she graduated and started making her own money,then states that my money was chump change,that was the beginning of the end. So when the marriage was over I allowed her to keep all of the things acquired and I started from scratch. Now I have a new traditional wife,multiple acres of land, 2 houses and luxury cars. I have started a nonprofit business which is very profitable. My income has tripled. When a man is the BAG no one or nothing can stop him from being high value.
Absolutely agree. His words are the swift backhand in the chops when you backtalk to elders, the sit down on the bed lets chat wisdom you should receive from parents, and (if received correctly) the guidance to prevent you from continuously making the same mistake or making mistakes period in life. I appreciate him.
Black people in general are cheap as hell, but I've only ever dated two women who were remotely generous. My last blind date was with a a women who 'alligator armed' the bill, I said "don't worry, I'll pay" after her insisting I asked her just to leave nice tip for the bartender. She left £5.00 on a £65.00 bar tab; I lost her number very quickly indeed.
when I and my wife started to live together 6 months before we got married. she was shocked and happy as hell hat i wanted to pay all the bills, and i did. so much so that her girlfriends were finally talking nice about me and saying how lucky she was. she eventually convinced me to for her to pay the cable and power bill. she insisted, she wanted to contribute. she completely submitted to me . And we are still going strong 20 years later.
As I said, she wanted to pay those bills because she wanted to invest. If you didn't let her invest she would eventually stray. Women need to invest in a relationship to stay there. How many times do we hear men say they have done everything for the woman yet she still gets up and leaves? Countless times.
As a woman, I can't say Kevin bashes women. He just brings them to the reality of their dating value. He also doesn't ease up on the men. This man is amazing. I think there was only once I disagreed with him, but that's a minor infraction for a man that mostly right. This man needs to be protected
As a 40yr old man reading two kids by myself, I seriously regret not investing in myself when I was younger and had plenty of free time to do so. I spent most of my life battling depressing and feeling sorry for myself. So now I'm working as many hours as I can, while trying to develop new skills and also pursue possible career changes. I could have easily done all of this while I was younger before I had my kids. I take full responsibility. The truth hurts 🤦🏿♂️
I'm 27 now, battling depression and emotional issues, it literally eats away your time, as men i feel emotional work should be number one, its what's holding us back
@@Lewieo A little advice. Find a way to get better, any way that doesn't hurt you, and I mean any way. Books, Psychiatrist, courses. You'll have a few quick good moments when you do that over the years they start to add up. You'll look around and realize it's really working by better decisions and opportunities coming your way. You won't be able to doubt it. That can be your reality, it works.
What matters most is that you learned now and Its not too late We're here to evolve and love & you are doing the work! My grandmother is in her 90's & still hasnt changed for.the better You have so much to be proud of and you're blessed to have children As you.must already know
I was a mail carrier at the age of 20. I retired at 45. I own rental properties in the county, reside. My resume is not existent. But I left a fulfilled happy life regardless what comes. My grandfather told me America for sale get yourself a piece but,I have pieces.
I’m a 22 year old black male, about to attend medical school this Fall. I want to create a good life for me and be in the best position to help support a family.... while doing what I love, which is helping others in the field of medicine!
@Cap’n Cooks Krystal Ship Bare minimum don't get married during medical school. Watched one of my black attendings go through a divorce, the man looked dead to the world. Fought a large custody battle for the kids and I believe he had won custody of them a few days a week. He looked a lot happier at the end of my rotation, but yeah it hurt him bad. If that shit happened to him during med school would have zero time to deal with it. He was an attending so he could cancel his appointments for the court case. So wait until then to marry.
I had wish I had seen this video 2 years ago; it would have benefited me a lot. I actually wanted to book a consultation before he passed. He was literally changing the world and wanted to make traditional couples great again among everyone. May he rest in peace 🙏
I am a total white boy. I've always been inspired and motivated by my African American brothers. I grew up in a racist world but that never changed me. Your message is Iron. Steel sharpens steel. Thank you brother.
18, 6 ‘ 2, but I will not lie- I graduated high school with a pretty average rank in my class. Used to think paying for everything was stupid because some guys think paying= sex, but now I see the value. I wanna be able to pay for everything because only a truly high value man has that ability in the first place. Working toward it now. Thanks for the guidance Uncle G putting
He is so correct. This is so hard to hear. I'm 45 no children, two degrees but I haven't progressed in my professional career. I'm below average. I'm going to work harder. I've allowed anxiety and depression keep me from progressing.
If you start a business or a few side hustles you can make your income a lot faster. The way a lot of companies are structured politics (your race, gender, popularity contest etc) can get in the way. Even if you work 3 times as hard as your coworkers there’s still a glass ceiling waiting for you. Take time off to start passive incomes.
The west has a toxic mindset. If you are only valuable with a lot of money, a society will fall. Its already showed. Death of despair is real for men and women.
Kevin gave the same energy, same expectations, same discussions addressing the men as he did the women of becoming or being at the level for which you say you want. Yet his critics and detractors don't dare mention videos like this one, nor any where he's taking calls from the men (the first 3 years + men's week) of content.
Single father of 1, 27 years of age working a 9 to 5 Kevin contributed to the kick start of my transformation process to becoming a better man. I now take accountability for all my actions, I reconciled relationships with family members as well as my sons mother for the better of his mental health as well as gained a relationship with God. It’s a beautiful process, he’s like a father I never met
I look at Kevin and just want to hug him! He makes me laugh, and reminds me of my dad. My dad is a Nigerian man, retired professional, provides for his family, no-nonsense, straight talker, tell- it-like-it-is kind of guy. Harsh but honest. 🤷🏾♀️ No “daddy’s little girl”, spoiling/princess, gives-me-whatever I want $$ relationship with us. He made it his goal to pay for our college and that’s more than a lot of parents do, so I’m so grateful to him. I have such a thick skin now partly because of him. However did pick up some of that harshness and I had to learn to tone it down a bit. No one likes a black woman- or any woman really- being that harsh because it becomes unfeminine and men don’t want to deal with it. My dad showed me a good example of how a man should be. I’m married with kids now and I hope to raise them with the same values. As the African proverb says - A friend who frowns is better than an enemy who smiles.
You're my type of woman.... I don't know if it's just me, but nowadays, I come across alot of women that want men to almost act like them, always giggling and laughing, everything is a joke, and have other feminine ways... And i can't rock with it. Men SHOULD be straightforward, men SHOULD be direct, men SHOULD be about his business...
Mr. Samuels you are spot on with everything, as always. My mother is Ethiopian, father Italian and it is very customary on both sides of my cultures to literally fight for the check at the table. If it’s a group of men and women at the table, the men ALWAYS paid as expected. I’ve never seen women in my family pay in the presence of men because just as you said, pride. it wasn’t until i got older and began dating american men that i learned it’s very common for women to touch the tab lol.
Ayeee! We got another Habesha here! I agree men should always pay for everything. I grew up in Ethiopia watching my dad pay for everything. He is a true High Value Man.
This was good!!! Thank God for my husband. He is all of the things that make a high value man even when he was in college... which is what made me fall in love with him 20 years ago. Generous, ambitious, kind, paid for everything even in college, BOLD, protective, and strong leader never a follower... thank you LORD!!!
For me the biggest takeaway, or where the rubber meets the road, is the work. Period. None of this is applicable to men who don't put in the work. As the old song from Rocky goes, "There's no easy way out. There's no shortcut home."
I'm 28 I'm currently a fitness instructor and a game theory consultant living in New York city I don't have it all together but I'm on my way thank you for the message
Who is they 🤔 Men? You right... we only see men mentioning Kevin when it comes to bashing women. They don't bring him up to hold each other accountable or to support women saying that men should pay all the bills 💅🏾
The more I watch you the more I realize you know exactly what you’re saying...you’ve paid your dues and earned the right to. This is the the truth, we all need sound advice and tough love
You are a victim of your society. You have done nothing wronh. If you are only considered valuable when making money, your society will sooner or later collapse. Look at the U.S. Death of despair is real. For men and women.
Seriously his best vid I have ever heard!!!!.... Truth, genuine passion & personal testimony. Many agree/ disagree with Kevin on various issues but on value of work & work ethic for a man especially, none should disagree. Many of our problems would be gone if his work ethic from early age were prioritized.
Interesting topic. My husband is a very giving man. He has been giving me gifts way before we were even dating. We have a son and has been carrying a wallet since 7, wearing spray cologne since around 10 and he has been wearing a watch since 12. My son when he wants something instead of asking us for it he will ask to work for extra money. He will buy me treats when he has money and he has bought me dinner as well. He takes money out of his savings account to purchase Christmas gifts and he just turned 15 years old.
Wow! You’re raising a wonderful young man who will grow up to be a high-quality man who will definitely attract a good woman. You’ve given me great tips to raise my future sons with - as well as the kind of guy my daughters should look for.
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 I read his book and the only thing I learned is too own property. He really never says how to work the system. I watched his videos and he still never tells you how to get rich.
31 years old and these videos have change my life..From this video im now getting in the habit of working, taking care of my mind,body and soul. My whole outlook now is different. Thank you for real.
I have a terrible gambling addiction and it convinced me I was a loser but the more I listen to Kevin the more I realize I am a real winner. My addiction doesn't define me but my recovery does. I am a winner in everything I do.
I'm 40, no siblings, fatherless child since the age of 9, had to be a man extremely living in Chicago which is my native city. Men like you inspire me and I am grateful to have been enough men such as your self to learn how to be a man that I need to be for me first before I can be a man for any woman.
I’m 33 years old and I can admit I wasted precious time in my teens and 20’s not staying laser focused on my purpose. Even though I have a decent life I know there’s always room for improvement. This video gave me the kick in the ass I needed to really own my shit.
Mr. Samuels I'm listening to you and you said a lot of things that makes sense and tbh honest you shed a lot of light of my own life. I'm 33 years old and don't want to be average no more.
I transitioned from working as a CNA at a skilled nursing facility to managing it. My salary jumped from $9.00 per hour to six figures. The attitude I had going in was that I wouldn't be in that CNA position for long. Right now, I weigh 190 pounds and am 5'5" but not for long. My best friend died was suffering from depression. Ready to get back to the happy and healthy me. Again, thanks for your honesty.
where the heck was mentors like this 12 years ago lmaoo, ofc youtube wasnt around but watching your videos.. really breaks stuff down and opens my eyes to the ways i always refused to wana follow.. so much thank you for your content.
Kevin I have not been studying for my real estate exam, I was going to aim for the bare minimum percentage for a passing grade on the exam but you have motivated me to go for a 100% passing rate. I too grew up blue pill beta male raised by his mother. I am determined to wake up that inner wolf that you have woken up inside of you! 🙏🏽💯
I really appreciate the way you handled the conversation with the young man. Your advise while you two spoke was really good as well the advice afterwards was great. Keep educating them Kevin. Some will listen even though some will not. Your work is not in vain.
I moved in with a man ,who resented the fact that I was poorer than him.He was always going on about the fact that he earned more.He paid the mortgage and electric bill ,but never stopped moaning ,even though I supplied the food. He dumped me because we rowed so much ,as he would always go on about "feeling used " and said I was "holding him back "! Now ,I'm rich and own a house,I don't really have much to do with men ! The way he treated me ,put paid to that. The fact was,he was not a rich man,or superior !He just acted like he was.
Speaking facts ! How can anyone be mad? Do the work that needs to be done to get where you want to be in life! Period! Don’t waste your time complaining, make it happen! ✅
This aged well. You passed 100000 and them some. This are the type of videos that make me evaluate everything about my life. Thanks for putting your boot in our asses for free.
The Black Kraut I’m strongly for it as well. The schism to me is that the women that talk the most about hypergamy tend to not have the goods to be too hypergameous, and it easily shows. #fivefourandtwohunnitpoundsixes
Problem is when they choose to get pregnant during hypergamy, And you are a slave all of a sudden Problem is Male's are the one's that catch feelings through sexual exchanges Problem is the universal principle is all abt seeking the One for you, Which is what everyone is seeking for but won't admit to it, So everyone thinks by sleeping around is how you will find that one But how many of us in real? Problem is a problem for itself now days buddy
If I have test her than she is not worth it, as far as sex is goes no women is a grown virgin out there so it doesn't make a lot of sense to wait for it between the two people, if a women is truly a virgin than sex after marriage makes complete sense
Hypergamy has acquired 2 meanings. The first one you are talking about is what women should be. Women should seek out the most high quality men. If you are beautiful you can get lots of men. If you have virtuous, submissive, valuable qualities, you can land a great man. She is an asset to the man. That type of hypergamy is awesome. It makes the men perform better and be better. A man must acquire power. The other meaning of hypergamy is that a woman is always looking to trade up. You could be a great man handling things but once she has access to everything, she will move on to the next guy. This is the type of hypergamy that men are concerned about. You see it in athletes where they have made it. The family and their children are set for life but once he retires from the game, she is done with him and takes half. Not always on the same page as you but definitely some great hard truths spoken. This has inspired me to grind even more and push myself even harder.
@Tika Summers Well if that is the case, why do they only divorce their partners once their careers are over? Any evidence that most divorces are caused by infidelity?
Thats a toxic mindset. If you constantly judge people how much money they make, your society will sooner or later become sick. Death of despair is real in the U.S. For women and men.
Hey Kevin. My son is 23 yo. I've raised him to despise the free lunch. I guess my grandfather instilled it in my but I never knew it to be characteristic. YES, my family has benefited from it. It has provided me LEADERSHIP CLOUT/AUTHENTIFICATION. I had never heard anyone articulate this trait. Thanks for the quality content.
I will say this. This video right here got me to turn...tf...UP! I started my own school for entrepreneurs and NOW I'm about to try to turn my game up. Good lookin Mr. Samuels. 💯
Damn Kevin! You are definitely a god send to Black Men! What you are doing is helping to elevate the minds of stagnant men that don’t see their bullshit mindset. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Man rest up, thank you for challenging me and waking me up. Wish I could've called into your show and talked to you. Your passing woke me up, its still crazy you just up and left like that, kinda mad at you. You accomplished your mission in such a short time. Wish you could've lived in it longer but not for me to decide. Im leveling up right now as we speak, rest up
I have a 55 year old male friend who has never been married or had kids and lived with his parents most of his life. He would always say things like " I'm not cheap, I'm frugal and smart with my money" He has no ambition and says he'll get the things a woman needs after he finds her. I wonder if he's aware that this ship has sailed.
I became hip to Kevin when that “You’re Average at Best” video went viral. Since then I’ve been very intrigued by his content. This video here tho, bro holding church! I’ve never had someone break it down to me like that 💯% men and abundance mindset
Thank you for treating that young man with care lol I was worry for a second. There are so many children who are being raised but not taught reality of life.
What can you expect when we are all being raised by single mothers, I’m 28 now and just starting to realize the issues I have from being raised without a father/male figure now and hopefully I can teach the younger generation better than what I was taught.
They've been raised by a public "education" system that is largely bent on teaching them to be permanent failures, to ensure that the "social safety net" always needs more funding. College is even worse. Why else would you raise a generation of children to believe "all men bad" or "all persons of a certain skin color are bad" or "this other group with a different skin color can't succeed on their own unless we hold others back". I'm not saying being educated is a bad thing, but the education system is definitely broken and teaching a LOT of wrong things. Why doesn't it teach people useful things like how to pay taxes, make a budget, maintain a house or apartment, cooking, etc?
@@trikstari7687 I disagree with last part. We had economics class in Highschool. Some people didn't care to take it. Either way the library is free to read books on these subjects .
Thank you Mr. Samuels. I wish I heard your information 20 years ago. The reality check that we needed. Especially us black women. Thank u again. Giving it to us straight with no chaser. God bless you.
Thankyou Kevin, as a young man coming up I never had a man in my ear to tell me what I high value man is, I now know my ranking smh I have alot of work to do thankyou 💯💯💯💯💯💯
I agree. And it's always relative to where you're at in life. The goal is to be as "powerful" as one can. Like, how you go be a King depends on the Queen to pay her part so y'all can survive?
That's right girl! I'm not even heterosexual, but I'll be damned if I ever date a 50/50 guy! Wtf? Lol...and then expect you to cater to him . These heterosexuals going through shit for real
I'm not sure what the content will be (wanted to write this message first), but the title had me here ASAP! Had to see what was being discussed. Can't wait to dive into the monologue and discussion.
People get what they value & value what they have. Therefore a man with a monetary advantage will rank people based on wealth & a man of physical prowess will rank others based on strength.
Kevin's message is "highly" needed, as many boys are being raised by our moms. While my Dad gave me what knowledge he had, I grew and gathered my own the hard way. Young men, need this message and knowledge preteen, so they can have a format to start out in life. Unfortunately, I disagree with Kevin's 10% tipping point, when it comes to women, but I really enjoy his content.
If you want to own it all and control it all, then you MUST pay for it all!!! This is why visiting a marriage counselor before a wedding, and getting an airtight prenuptial is essential. “50/50” to a woman means that she’s paid a fee to not to have to do whatever she wants, and that marital respect and compliance is optional.
Kareem jenkins Marriage as we know it is approximately 200yrs old. Prenuptial agreements, visiting marriage counselors and divorce attorneys, getting background and credit checks, and visiting a doctors as a couple BEFORE getting married is a very new approach, and much cheaper than waiting until after the marriage has occurred. Doing so removes the “veil” of surprise and disappointment and reduces risk. Putting the accountability on each partner before the marriage takes place leaves the door open to leave before greater damage is done, and keeps everyone involved more honest. Do you see where I’m coming from?
Kareem jenkins Ultimately, the “Marriage” isn’t the relationship, which is why the state is involved in marriage as opposed to relationships. Ultimately, the relationship is the most important thing. Being married for almost 25yrs myself, I see the value in what Kevin says, especially since he’s been divorced twice. One can learn much more from failure than they can from success. And one can really learn a lot from learn from the wisdom of those who have failed because they’ve already been through the trials and tribulations of the journey. All the things I personally speak of about how to approach marriage before the wedding is because of the things I learned after bumping my head through the marriage journey. As a Married man, I agree with quite a bit of what Kevin is saying because I’ve seen it in other places and aspects.
majesticj42 your “bible” also says men should have one wife in one part, THEN it says men can have multiple wives...so which is it, ole’ faceless bible expert???
majesticj42 The thing is that we have to leave the religious books out of the marriage discussion because marriage is secular, which is different than the relationship. Marriage is a contract between the State/Government and the people involved. Therefore, marriage is a business arrangement. To be the boss of a business, then you must own and control all shares, which mean you MUST FINANCE IT ALL. There’s a very good reason that the saying “Paid the cost to be the Boss” exists.
majesticj42 No, doubt. That’s why I came up with those points to consider prior to getting into marriage. Marriage is a risk because of what you stated, so people have to take steps to either minimize or eliminate those risks. I did a video on it in my channel talking about it. Go and check it out.
27 6’2 entrepreneur minded brother currently looking to invest in Airbnb’s and exotic car rentals this channel gave me the push I needed to get out here and secure my first car for the business now looking for my first condo to have 2 separate residual income streams hoping to hit 6 figures this year 🙏🏾
Stop saying that marriage is just a piece of paper...So is money but you get up everyday and work hard for it. So work hard for your relationship, and your marriage.
Dont even feel bad man I'm a young 24yo male , I can be honest and admit that I indeed have not a thing going on in life today aside from investments. No job , no not broke because there are investments , but none the less I have absolutely not a thing going for myself as of today and there are reasons for that I am well aware of my current status. But everything you've said and covered is indeed true. I can validate because I hang on both sides of the fense. At times I'm looking for a deal , but when able I pay full price maybe even throw a little tip in if I liked your overall service. So anybody just whining and looking for pity or trying to tell you that you're harassing anyone is just a overly sensitive male who 9/10 KNOWS that you are completely correct but is in so much denial they can't even take responsibility. That's all that that amounts to , just I just wanted to validate. And I really appreciate men like you , dropping a few jewels , inspire guys like me who's looking to get out of the slump state that I am currently in. You're positivity is flowing straight into me as well as countless others , I love what you are doing and I commend you 🙏 keep it going and may you be blessed.
I'm 32 and I manage two teams of people in a marketing agency while growing a side business with my brother. I still don't have much money because I re-invest everything. But in five years I will be a savage millionaire.
None of this bothers me because I live a simple life. I dont wanna live in the social norms of today. I dont be out here faking it and i walk proud regardless. However a lot of what he says is pretty helpful overall.
What’s more sad than a “male” complaining about paying for things is when I hear women agree with them. My kids’ father paid for EVERYTHING. And never asked me, ever.
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I totally agree with your message and personally I don’t want anything for free and if I cant afford something I will wait until I can pay full price and I don’t want anyone doing something for me for nothing because I am not going to do something for nothing unless it’s something I am doing something to help someone financially unfortunate like children or ill/ elderly . Male or female
So much to take away from this topic. I would need more characters then youtube allows.
I agree 100% that we as Men need to be 100% if a man wants a woman to shut up and do what he says then he needs to pay for everything.
That’s fair
Both Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence spoke on this in the 80’s.
If a man wants 100% Cooperation from a Woman then he needs to be paying 100% of the running costs.
That I haven’t been doing enough
The truth is annoying, but necessary.
I'm 57 years old, retired, single and overweight. Kevin Samuels has motivated me to get in shape and reinvent myself.
@@stephendailey3108 Yes I have a plan. I will be physically fit by November 1st.
🌈🌈🌈 yes you can do it it’s never too late don’t let bitter strangers from the internet to discourage you ❤️
The wall doesn't exist for us. Focus for 2-3 yrs and your life will be totally different.
Sofia X That is simply a boundary that you set for yourself. Most men who are established and has money, assets, and investments, and most likely wants to get married will not be 32, unless you are trying to land a celebrity man, a lotto winner, or a trust fund baby. Even still, he may not want to marry you, or have children with you. Even if you do have his child, you will get child support but if he gets married later on, you and your children will be excluded from his inheritance.
If you believe in hypergamy, it would make sense to marry a man who is established and have assets that will have you and your children set up well into the future. If you wait until in your 40s, when you sexual value declines drastically, you become overweight and your looks fade, the likelihood goes waaaaaay down. You will still have to work, keep up your looks, and settle for a lower value man.
@@Apoc6 settle for a lower value man? By then, she is a lower value woman, so he will be settling too.
I listen to this once a month, thank you Kevin for helping all the men that didn’t get this information from their fathers. Rest in Power ❤
I'm a brother that has had to rise from the ashes. I'm a blue collar Henry. I gave up everything to a traditional woman turned modern woman. I am a traditional provider man. My ex wife didn't have to work to pay significant bills. She wanted to go to school,so I paid for schooll,bought a house,luxury cars, the whole nine yards. When she graduated and started making her own money,then states that my money was chump change,that was the beginning of the end. So when the marriage was over I allowed her to keep all of the things acquired and I started from scratch.
Now I have a new traditional wife,multiple acres of land, 2 houses and luxury cars. I have started a nonprofit business which is very profitable. My income has tripled. When a man is the BAG no one or nothing can stop him from being high value.
How is the ex doing now?
Well done
@@jahkarimirza7286 Not happy.
I'm sure your wife is ECSTATIC!!!!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
For a single mother raised generation...this is the Father, Big Brother, and Uncle we needed. Thanks Mr. Samuels.
I second that.
I'll third that
I 4th 5th and 6th that one bro
Absolutely agree. His words are the swift backhand in the chops when you backtalk to elders, the sit down on the bed lets chat wisdom you should receive from parents, and (if received correctly) the guidance to prevent you from continuously making the same mistake or making mistakes period in life. I appreciate him.
Real talk my father and uncles are like this
This stream made me realize I’ve lost my ambitions, I’ve become lazy and I’ve become timid and I’ve always cheap. It’s time for me to change
We are with you..Respect
Black people in general are cheap as hell, but I've only ever dated two women who were remotely generous. My last blind date was with a a women who 'alligator armed' the bill, I said "don't worry, I'll pay" after her insisting I asked her just to leave nice tip for the bartender. She left £5.00 on a £65.00 bar tab; I lost her number very quickly indeed.
change into what ??
@@robertdore9592That’s almost a 10% tip, how are you tryna make it sound like that’s so bad? She could’ve walked out without tipping lmao
@@robertdore9592you should have paid for everything
when I and my wife started to live together 6 months before we got married. she was shocked and happy as hell hat i wanted to pay all the bills, and i did. so much so that her girlfriends were finally talking nice about me and saying how lucky she was. she eventually convinced me to for her to pay the cable and power bill. she insisted, she wanted to contribute. she completely submitted to me . And we are still going strong 20 years later.
AMEN TO COMMITMENT, STAYING STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE IT HAPPEN
Yessir that’s real thanks for the motivation 🖤
As I said, she wanted to pay those bills because she wanted to invest. If you didn't let her invest she would eventually stray. Women need to invest in a relationship to stay there. How many times do we hear men say they have done everything for the woman yet she still gets up and leaves? Countless times.
Sounds like a good woman!
@@markanthony1163 true that and a good man too
As a woman, I can't say Kevin bashes women. He just brings them to the reality of their dating value. He also doesn't ease up on the men. This man is amazing. I think there was only once I disagreed with him, but that's a minor infraction for a man that mostly right. This man needs to be protected
Absolutely!!
I’m sorry, but when he calls a 5’8” lean woman a linebacker, he’s basically bashing her for her height. How can you say that he doesn’t bash women?
Rip
Definitely needed to be protected 😔
@@mayaalan7631 Listen again, he said that they are the size of a linebacker which is factually correct. Google the size of linebackers in the NFL.
As a 40yr old man reading two kids by myself, I seriously regret not investing in myself when I was younger and had plenty of free time to do so. I spent most of my life battling depressing and feeling sorry for myself.
So now I'm working as many hours as I can, while trying to develop new skills and also pursue possible career changes.
I could have easily done all of this while I was younger before I had my kids. I take full responsibility. The truth hurts 🤦🏿♂️
I'm 27 now, battling depression and emotional issues, it literally eats away your time, as men i feel emotional work should be number one, its what's holding us back
@@Lewieo A little advice. Find a way to get better, any way that doesn't hurt you, and I mean any way. Books, Psychiatrist, courses. You'll have a few quick good moments when you do that over the years they start to add up. You'll look around and realize it's really working by better decisions and opportunities coming your way. You won't be able to doubt it. That can be your reality, it works.
@@Lewieo hit the gym and do things you like to do ,meditate
What matters most is that you learned now and Its not too late
We're here to evolve and love & you are doing the work!
My grandmother is in her 90's & still hasnt changed for.the better
You have so much to be proud of and you're blessed to have children
As you.must already know
You’ve locked in and are getting it done NOW! Continue your evolution and push forward with all your power. All the best!
I was a mail carrier at the age of 20. I retired at 45. I own rental properties in the county, reside. My resume is not existent. But I left a fulfilled happy life regardless what comes. My grandfather told me America for sale get yourself a piece but,I have pieces.
When he said "can you shut women up with your work", I can hear the doubt of Men who can't just agonize in pain.
Foreal 🤧😭
you said a mouthful sir
I’m a 22 year old black male, about to attend medical school this Fall. I want to create a good life for me and be in the best position to help support a family.... while doing what I love, which is helping others in the field of medicine!
Good luck bro 💪🏾💪🏾
You go! Clinical rotations is the best part of medical school!
Stay encourged!!!
Awesome!
@Cap’n Cooks Krystal Ship Bare minimum don't get married during medical school. Watched one of my black attendings go through a divorce, the man looked dead to the world. Fought a large custody battle for the kids and I believe he had won custody of them a few days a week. He looked a lot happier at the end of my rotation, but yeah it hurt him bad. If that shit happened to him during med school would have zero time to deal with it. He was an attending so he could cancel his appointments for the court case. So wait until then to marry.
I had wish I had seen this video 2 years ago; it would have benefited me a lot. I actually wanted to book a consultation before he passed. He was literally changing the world and wanted to make traditional couples great again among everyone. May he rest in peace 🙏
I cannot agree more, being feminine is a lot of things but resting in the art of receiving is life changing.
The 😊😊
I am a total white boy. I've always been inspired and motivated by my African American brothers. I grew up in a racist world but that never changed me. Your message is Iron. Steel sharpens steel. Thank you brother.
lol
You're iron my brother! Well spoken..You're the B.A.G
Respect.
Much respect man your the best
Hahahaha
18, 6 ‘ 2, but I will not lie- I graduated high school with a pretty average rank in my class. Used to think paying for everything was stupid because some guys think paying= sex, but now I see the value. I wanna be able to pay for everything because only a truly high value man has that ability in the first place. Working toward it now. Thanks for the guidance Uncle G putting
He is so correct. This is so hard to hear. I'm 45 no children, two degrees but I haven't progressed in my professional career. I'm below average. I'm going to work harder. I've allowed anxiety and depression keep me from progressing.
What's ya degrees in
I’m with you on this one
If you start a business or a few side hustles you can make your income a lot faster. The way a lot of companies are structured politics (your race, gender, popularity contest etc) can get in the way. Even if you work 3 times as hard as your coworkers there’s still a glass ceiling waiting for you. Take time off to start passive incomes.
The west has a toxic mindset. If you are only valuable with a lot of money, a society will fall. Its already showed. Death of despair is real for men and women.
I am a PhD
Kevin gave the same energy, same expectations, same discussions addressing the men as he did the women of becoming or being at the level for which you say you want. Yet his critics and detractors don't dare mention videos like this one, nor any where he's taking calls from the men (the first 3 years + men's week) of content.
Tragic indeed
Single father of 1, 27 years of age working a 9 to 5 Kevin contributed to the kick start of my transformation process to becoming a better man. I now take accountability for all my actions, I reconciled relationships with family members as well as my sons mother for the better of his mental health as well as gained a relationship with God. It’s a beautiful process, he’s like a father I never met
Because you were willing to listen and act on it.
Imagine if every Black man had this level of maturity... imagine!
The part about investing in yourself, having coaches and mentors for self improvement/development
I look at Kevin and just want to hug him! He makes me laugh, and reminds me of my dad.
My dad is a Nigerian man, retired professional, provides for his family, no-nonsense, straight talker, tell- it-like-it-is kind of guy. Harsh but honest. 🤷🏾♀️ No “daddy’s little girl”, spoiling/princess, gives-me-whatever I want $$ relationship with us. He made it his goal to pay for our college and that’s more than a lot of parents do, so I’m so grateful to him.
I have such a thick skin now partly because of him. However did pick up some of that harshness and I had to learn to tone it down a bit. No one likes a black woman- or any woman really- being that harsh because it becomes unfeminine and men don’t want to deal with it. My dad showed me a good example of how a man should be. I’m married with kids now and I hope to raise them with the same values.
As the African proverb says - A friend who frowns is better than an enemy who smiles.
I hope you find the man that you deserve sister ❤️
Seeing how you were raised, you would definitely be fit for a solid man. I know you're married lol
You're my type of woman.... I don't know if it's just me, but nowadays, I come across alot of women that want men to almost act like them, always giggling and laughing, everything is a joke, and have other feminine ways... And i can't rock with it. Men SHOULD be straightforward, men SHOULD be direct, men SHOULD be about his business...
Wish I could give you a thousand thumbs up for that one, Sis!!!!!
Thanks for sharing. You’re very fortunate.
Mr. Samuels you are spot on with everything, as always. My mother is Ethiopian, father Italian and it is very customary on both sides of my cultures to literally fight for the check at the table. If it’s a group of men and women at the table, the men ALWAYS paid as expected. I’ve never seen women in my family pay in the presence of men because just as you said, pride. it wasn’t until i got older and began dating american men that i learned it’s very common for women to touch the tab lol.
Ayeee! We got another Habesha here! I agree men should always pay for everything. I grew up in Ethiopia watching my dad pay for everything. He is a true High Value Man.
I only dated Nigerian men because of this. They have that same pride that others lack.
Men who don't spend money
🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐
Oh... annabella... you are traditional
These losers get offended if a woman doesn’t offer 😂 pride is dead
This was good!!! Thank God for my husband. He is all of the things that make a high value man even when he was in college... which is what made me fall in love with him 20 years ago. Generous, ambitious, kind, paid for everything even in college, BOLD, protective, and strong leader never a follower... thank you LORD!!!
For me the biggest takeaway, or where the rubber meets the road, is the work. Period. None of this is applicable to men who don't put in the work. As the old song from Rocky goes, "There's no easy way out. There's no shortcut home."
Great song! 🥊
Not just work but opportunity
This man should be standard listening as part of our rites of passage from boyhood to manhood
Haha i love the way you wrote this
I agree. It's time for Brothaz to grow up and start bossin up.
Exactly. Boss up or get bossed around. Fly up or get flown over! We out chea.*B0$$*
Pls send them my way lmaoo
I'm 28 I'm currently a fitness instructor and a game theory consultant living in New York city I don't have it all together but I'm on my way thank you for the message
Game theory as in the sense of corporate strategy.
RIP Legend, they won’t talk about how you humbled men too.
Who is they 🤔 Men? You right... we only see men mentioning Kevin when it comes to bashing women. They don't bring him up to hold each other accountable or to support women saying that men should pay all the bills 💅🏾
💯 My Legend he Definitely wake Us man up fi real. RIP brother
The more I watch you the more I realize you know exactly what you’re saying...you’ve paid your dues and earned the right to. This is the the truth, we all need sound advice and tough love
I love how Mr. Samuels took time to talk to the 19-year-old young man.
I’m 35 and broke as hell but I can’t hate the game. This has inspired me to do better 😃
You are a victim of your society. You have done nothing wronh.
If you are only considered valuable when making money, your society will sooner or later collapse. Look at the U.S. Death of despair is real. For men and women.
Im female and i wish i was this giy he has incredible energy
Damn I’m sure going to miss this MAN!
2 years later what have you done hopefully you have bossed up
@@CoreyEmillsright I’m genuinely curious to
Wow the entire stream was 💯🔥 this why appreciate you. With the calls, you called both men and women equally to task! Keep it up👍🏽
Seriously his best vid I have ever heard!!!!.... Truth, genuine passion & personal testimony. Many agree/ disagree with Kevin on various issues but on value of work & work ethic for a man especially, none should disagree. Many of our problems would be gone if his work ethic from early age were prioritized.
Rewatching all your episodes Godfather, this legacy will be passed down to my unborn kids. Thank you for your work and dedication to uplifting people.
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Interesting topic. My husband is a very giving man. He has been giving me gifts way before we were even dating. We have a son and has been carrying a wallet since 7, wearing spray cologne since around 10 and he has been wearing a watch since 12. My son when he wants something instead of asking us for it he will ask to work for extra money. He will buy me treats when he has money and he has bought me dinner as well. He takes money out of his savings account to purchase Christmas gifts and he just turned 15 years old.
@ thank you! I learned and with guidance from my Mom picked a good person to marry. It just trickles down.
Wow! You’re raising a wonderful young man who will grow up to be a high-quality man who will definitely attract a good woman. You’ve given me great tips to raise my future sons with - as well as the kind of guy my daughters should look for.
This is so admirable.
♥♥
I recommed read Rich Dad, Poor dad from Robert Kiyosaki. It blew my mind🌷🌷
I want to be a rich person to help more people🍀
@@tralaritralarajiju2652 I read his book and the only thing I learned is too own property. He really never says how to work the system. I watched his videos and he still never tells you how to get rich.
31 years old and these videos have change my life..From this video im now getting in the habit of working, taking care of my mind,body and soul. My whole outlook now is different. Thank you for real.
I have a terrible gambling addiction and it convinced me I was a loser but the more I listen to Kevin the more I realize I am a real winner. My addiction doesn't define me but my recovery does. I am a winner in everything I do.
I'm 40, no siblings, fatherless child since the age of 9, had to be a man extremely living in Chicago which is my native city. Men like you inspire me and I am grateful to have been enough men such as your self to learn how to be a man that I need to be for me first before I can be a man for any woman.
I like how he talked to the guy with respect & assertiveness.
I’m 33 years old and I can admit I wasted precious time in my teens and 20’s not staying laser focused on my purpose. Even though I have a decent life I know there’s always room for improvement. This video gave me the kick in the ass I needed to really own my shit.
Same Here Brotha. Wish I would have came across Kevin a long time ago.
You have a solid 7yrs to be any kind of millionaire you want. It only takes 7yrs to do it in America
What is your purpose? How long ago did you realize it?
Mr. Samuels I'm listening to you and you said a lot of things that makes sense and tbh honest you shed a lot of light of my own life. I'm 33 years old and don't want to be average no more.
I transitioned from working as a CNA at a skilled nursing facility to managing it. My salary jumped from $9.00 per hour to six figures. The attitude I had going in was that I wouldn't be in that CNA position for long. Right now, I weigh 190 pounds and am 5'5" but not for long. My best friend died was suffering from depression. Ready to get back to the happy and healthy me. Again, thanks for your honesty.
where the heck was mentors like this 12 years ago lmaoo, ofc youtube wasnt around but watching your videos.. really breaks stuff down and opens my eyes to the ways i always refused to wana follow.. so much thank you for your content.
Man I really love this channel. There are no short cuts in life. All Black men really needs to hear this. This is how kings are made. Kudos Kevin
Kevin I have not been studying for my real estate exam, I was going to aim for the bare minimum percentage for a passing grade on the exam but you have motivated me to go for a 100% passing rate. I too grew up blue pill beta male raised by his mother. I am determined to wake up that inner wolf that you have woken up inside of you! 🙏🏽💯
I really appreciate the way you handled the conversation with the young man. Your advise while you two spoke was really good as well the advice afterwards was great. Keep educating them Kevin. Some will listen even though some will not. Your work is not in vain.
I moved in with a man ,who resented the fact that I was poorer than him.He was always going on about the fact that he earned more.He paid the mortgage and electric bill ,but never stopped moaning ,even though I supplied the food.
He dumped me because we rowed so much ,as he would always go on about "feeling used " and said I was "holding him back "!
Now ,I'm rich and own a house,I don't really have much to do with men ! The way he treated me ,put paid to that.
The fact was,he was not a rich man,or superior !He just acted like he was.
Build with me bae
@@Kobeisgoated0808lmao fr tho.
Boy do I miss this man's Livestreams. You're missed KS.
Speaking facts ! How can anyone be mad? Do the work that needs to be done to get where you want to be in life! Period! Don’t waste your time complaining, make it happen! ✅
This aged well. You passed 100000 and them some. This are the type of videos that make me evaluate everything about my life. Thanks for putting your boot in our asses for free.
Nothing wrong with Hypergamy. Women and men should use it to their advantage especially during their prime years.
The Black Kraut I’m strongly for it as well. The schism to me is that the women that talk the most about hypergamy tend to not have the goods to be too hypergameous, and it easily shows. #fivefourandtwohunnitpoundsixes
Royce Jay They want to wait until after 40 to try to be hypergamous.
Their hypergamy is what keeps us competitive
Problem is when they choose to get pregnant during hypergamy,
And you are a slave all of a sudden
Problem is Male's are the one's that catch feelings through sexual exchanges
Problem is the universal principle is all abt seeking the One for you,
Which is what everyone is seeking for but won't admit to it,
So everyone thinks by sleeping around is how you will find that one
But how many of us in real?
Problem is a problem for itself now days buddy
If I have test her than she is not worth it, as far as sex is goes no women is a grown virgin out there so it doesn't make a lot of sense to wait for it between the two people, if a women is truly a virgin than sex after marriage makes complete sense
I’m 28 years old, live on my own, and have a job,but hearing Mr. Samuels call us his boys is so heart warming and feels very fatherly. RIP
Hypergamy has acquired 2 meanings. The first one you are talking about is what women should be. Women should seek out the most high quality men. If you are beautiful you can get lots of men. If you have virtuous, submissive, valuable qualities, you can land a great man. She is an asset to the man. That type of hypergamy is awesome. It makes the men perform better and be better. A man must acquire power.
The other meaning of hypergamy is that a woman is always looking to trade up. You could be a great man handling things but once she has access to everything, she will move on to the next guy. This is the type of hypergamy that men are concerned about. You see it in athletes where they have made it. The family and their children are set for life but once he retires from the game, she is done with him and takes half.
Not always on the same page as you but definitely some great hard truths spoken. This has inspired me to grind even more and push myself even harder.
@Tika Summers Well if that is the case, why do they only divorce their partners once their careers are over? Any evidence that most divorces are caused by infidelity?
Thats a toxic mindset. If you constantly judge people how much money they make, your society will sooner or later become sick.
Death of despair is real in the U.S. For women and men.
Hey Kevin. My son is 23 yo. I've raised him to despise the free lunch. I guess my grandfather instilled it in my but I never knew it to be characteristic. YES, my family has benefited from it. It has provided me LEADERSHIP CLOUT/AUTHENTIFICATION. I had never heard anyone articulate this trait. Thanks for the quality content.
I will say this. This video right here got me to turn...tf...UP! I started my own school for entrepreneurs and NOW I'm about to try to turn my game up. Good lookin Mr. Samuels. 💯
Are you married?
He speaks nothing but the truth, a man should pay for everything, as a man just get a women you can afford
Buying a woman is disingenuous
Won’t last
Damn Kevin! You are definitely a god send to Black Men! What you are doing is helping to elevate the minds of stagnant men that don’t see their bullshit mindset. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Timeless. You're still dropping gems on me, even from beyond the grave. RIP Godfather. Salute.
Man rest up, thank you for challenging me and waking me up. Wish I could've called into your show and talked to you. Your passing woke me up, its still crazy you just up and left like that, kinda mad at you. You accomplished your mission in such a short time. Wish you could've lived in it longer but not for me to decide. Im leveling up right now as we speak, rest up
I have a 55 year old male friend who has never been married or had kids and lived with his parents most of his life.
He would always say things like " I'm not cheap, I'm frugal and smart with my money" He has no ambition and says he'll get the things a woman needs after he finds her. I wonder if he's aware that this ship has sailed.
bro get him to watch Kevin fast
It hasn’t sailed away but he got to put in the work. He can right the ship cause he’s still breathing
That man said “You got no money, you broke!” followed by a bomb drop! 🤣🤣🤣😭 The goat KS! ☝🏽
I became hip to Kevin when that “You’re Average at Best” video went viral. Since then I’ve been very intrigued by his content. This video here tho, bro holding church! I’ve never had someone break it down to me like that 💯% men and abundance mindset
Thank you for treating that young man with care lol I was worry for a second. There are so many children who are being raised but not taught reality of life.
Damn, I ain’t gonna lie, this one stung but only because the truth hurts.
Keep doing what you’re doing Mr. Samuels, young men need to hear this.
All men need to take heed not just young men
Loving this channel so much!
We need you sooo bad 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏽❤❤🎯
As the old adage states: "You have to pay the cost to be the boss." I truly don't understand the mind set of this younger generation of males.
What can you expect when we are all being raised by single mothers, I’m 28 now and just starting to realize the issues I have from being raised without a father/male figure now and hopefully I can teach the younger generation better than what I was taught.
They've been raised by a public "education" system that is largely bent on teaching them to be permanent failures, to ensure that the "social safety net" always needs more funding. College is even worse.
Why else would you raise a generation of children to believe "all men bad" or "all persons of a certain skin color are bad" or "this other group with a different skin color can't succeed on their own unless we hold others back".
I'm not saying being educated is a bad thing, but the education system is definitely broken and teaching a LOT of wrong things. Why doesn't it teach people useful things like how to pay taxes, make a budget, maintain a house or apartment, cooking, etc?
@@trikstari7687 I disagree with last part. We had economics class in Highschool. Some people didn't care to take it. Either way the library is free to read books on these subjects .
In my previous marriage I actually said that line.
The Way People Are Raised.
Kevin can really sit there with no callers and still have have good show ❤️
100% men suited up and capable, backbone to make things reality.
Thank you Mr. Samuels. I wish I heard your information 20 years ago. The reality check that we needed. Especially us black women. Thank u again. Giving it to us straight with no chaser. God bless you.
Thankyou Kevin, as a young man coming up I never had a man in my ear to tell me what I high value man is, I now know my ranking smh I have alot of work to do thankyou 💯💯💯💯💯💯
I agree. And it's always relative to where you're at in life. The goal is to be as "powerful" as one can. Like, how you go be a King depends on the Queen to pay her part so y'all can survive?
Age 35, 745 credit score, wages in the top 15%, 3 duplexes all paid off. 10k stock portfolio, not married but not single.
That’s amazing
I'd say don't get married but in the end ur the boss
Prenup if you get married. Protect yourself
Get married. I say that, what's the reason for accumulating all of that if it's not for your family. After you die, who takes ownership of it.
@@vernonpaigejr.1517 Marriage for poor people
I like that. My Father always said “A man wh wants your money don’t want you”. I don’t want to trade traditional roles with men.
A woman who wants your money dont want you. See how that mentality exposes both genders for using the opposite sex for money
@@KenchiOMO Great point
That's right girl! I'm not even heterosexual, but I'll be damned if I ever date a 50/50 guy! Wtf? Lol...and then expect you to cater to him . These heterosexuals going through shit for real
Your father lied 🤥 to you
@@KenchiOMO women usually want men for their money not the other way around. Even if she had all the money if the world she expects him to provide.
Thank you!!! It is refreshing to know that real men are still here
Most men aren't cheap. They are just tired of giving and not receiving anything in return. Or so little that its pointless.
Not me over her cheesing when he said put on that size 4 black dress, red bottoms, and Tom Ford perfume...Okay babe 🥰
Sis 💯
Absolutely 👍🏽
I'm not sure what the content will be (wanted to write this message first), but the title had me here ASAP! Had to see what was being discussed. Can't wait to dive into the monologue and discussion.
Real talk here. I thought I was dealing with something size 6-8. Hard work is the key.
32:37 confident intelligent assertive 32:46 competitive intriguing and aggressive 33:09 bold ambitious generous
This is GOLD! I'm completely on board with Kevin's message.
People get what they value & value what they have. Therefore a man with a monetary advantage will rank people based on wealth & a man of physical prowess will rank others based on strength.
Agreed
Exactly. He thinks everyone needs to be on his financial level to be considered “high level” & loved by someone. 🤣🤣🤣
Kevin's message is "highly" needed, as many boys are being raised by our moms. While my Dad gave me what knowledge he had, I grew and gathered my own the hard way. Young men, need this message and knowledge preteen, so they can have a format to start out in life. Unfortunately, I disagree with Kevin's 10% tipping point, when it comes to women, but I really enjoy his content.
Kevin really has inspired me to step up my game to take better care of my man. With his insight, i learned that i have to work harder to deserve him.
Kevin your sound effects are killing me .
How you spoke to that young man was so gentle.❤
If you want to own it all and control it all, then you MUST pay for it all!!! This is why visiting a marriage counselor before a wedding, and getting an airtight prenuptial is essential. “50/50” to a woman means that she’s paid a fee to not to have to do whatever she wants, and that marital respect and compliance is optional.
Kareem jenkins Marriage as we know it is approximately 200yrs old. Prenuptial agreements, visiting marriage counselors and divorce attorneys, getting background and credit checks, and visiting a doctors as a couple BEFORE getting married is a very new approach, and much cheaper than waiting until after the marriage has occurred. Doing so removes the “veil” of surprise and disappointment and reduces risk. Putting the accountability on each partner before the marriage takes place leaves the door open to leave before greater damage is done, and keeps everyone involved more honest. Do you see where I’m coming from?
Kareem jenkins Ultimately, the “Marriage” isn’t the relationship, which is why the state is involved in marriage as opposed to relationships. Ultimately, the relationship is the most important thing. Being married for almost 25yrs myself, I see the value in what Kevin says, especially since he’s been divorced twice. One can learn much more from failure than they can from success. And one can really learn a lot from learn from the wisdom of those who have failed because they’ve already been through the trials and tribulations of the journey. All the things I personally speak of about how to approach marriage before the wedding is because of the things I learned after bumping my head through the marriage journey. As a Married man, I agree with quite a bit of what Kevin is saying because I’ve seen it in other places and aspects.
majesticj42 your “bible” also says men should have one wife in one part, THEN it says men can have multiple wives...so which is it, ole’ faceless bible expert???
majesticj42 The thing is that we have to leave the religious books out of the marriage discussion because marriage is secular, which is different than the relationship. Marriage is a contract between the State/Government and the people involved. Therefore, marriage is a business arrangement. To be the boss of a business, then you must own and control all shares, which mean you MUST FINANCE IT ALL. There’s a very good reason that the saying “Paid the cost to be the Boss” exists.
majesticj42 No, doubt. That’s why I came up with those points to consider prior to getting into marriage. Marriage is a risk because of what you stated, so people have to take steps to either minimize or eliminate those risks. I did a video on it in my channel talking about it. Go and check it out.
27 6’2 entrepreneur minded brother currently looking to invest in Airbnb’s and exotic car rentals this channel gave me the push I needed to get out here and secure my first car for the business now looking for my first condo to have 2 separate residual income streams hoping to hit 6 figures this year 🙏🏾
Hey hope your endeavor is going well I can help you design a space that travelers will ❤️❤️❤️
Its been a year brotha! How’s everything looking?
@@TheCoDRoyalty I’m in engaged and have my first child on the way bro it’s crazy haha
@@TheHipHopTrucka Congrats bro! Happy to hear that! Keep up the grind 💯
“Women respect resources “ KS
den what will happen if you lost your resources doe?
My girl literally told me the other day, "omg you are just so abundant in resources 😍" inside I was like 😂 because I heard it from KS first
Kevin is hilarious 😂 im up watching old videos to catch up
Same hahaha
Laugh to keep from crying right?
Same.
@@sirreginaldlee3576 why would she be crying?
lol that makes two of us
Stop saying that marriage is just a piece of paper...So is money but you get up everyday and work hard for it. So work hard for your relationship, and your marriage.
The episodes were really good before the blow up. The callers were genuinely seek guidance. This show is a great reality check for all.
Dont even feel bad man I'm a young 24yo male , I can be honest and admit that I indeed have not a thing going on in life today aside from investments. No job , no not broke because there are investments , but none the less I have absolutely not a thing going for myself as of today and there are reasons for that I am well aware of my current status. But everything you've said and covered is indeed true. I can validate because I hang on both sides of the fense. At times I'm looking for a deal , but when able I pay full price maybe even throw a little tip in if I liked your overall service. So anybody just whining and looking for pity or trying to tell you that you're harassing anyone is just a overly sensitive male who 9/10 KNOWS that you are completely correct but is in so much denial they can't even take responsibility. That's all that that amounts to , just I just wanted to validate. And I really appreciate men like you , dropping a few jewels , inspire guys like me who's looking to get out of the slump state that I am currently in. You're positivity is flowing straight into me as well as countless others , I love what you are doing and I commend you 🙏 keep it going and may you be blessed.
Funny to hear Kevin mention a year ago that he wanted to get his channel to 100k when now he's almost at 800k lol.
Now he almost at 1 million
Lmao
Now he actually over a million
You need to do this show for the men EVERY WEEK!!! This is the best stream you have ever done, bar none.
I'm 32 and I manage two teams of people in a marketing agency while growing a side business with my brother. I still don't have much money because I re-invest everything. But in five years I will be a savage millionaire.
None of this bothers me because I live a simple life.
I dont wanna live in the social norms of today. I dont be out here faking it and i walk proud regardless.
However a lot of what he says is pretty helpful overall.
What’s more sad than a “male” complaining about paying for things is when I hear women agree with them.
My kids’ father paid for EVERYTHING. And never asked me, ever.
Well that's stupid because both my parents equally paid for me and ny siblings and that's how it should be.
Your a bum
“My kids father” but never married you?
@@amerokeewiya1320Black men don't come from a marriage culture... they descend from bucks who breed Black women 🦌
I agree with everything you said..
I wish I had a mentor like you in my life..
I really liked the part "any of us will sooner or later have to deal with some sort of *ism*"
Yup
Whew!! I am here for all of it!! Taking notes + doing my part.
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