Mkhumalo is very submissive and appreciating of Mseleku. She is beautiful and can get any man bu she chooses to be a Mseleku. This guy is too hard on this woman.
in this situation, uMseleku is a zulu man, indoda yesintu so that is all i see. being a wife and a grlfriend r too different things. as a wife u just need to look respectable.
So what are u saying she make a favour for uMseleku? .... that mind set doesn't work at all date someone because of love not feel like you are making a favour
Emshadweni umakoti uyahlonipheka cc wami if your husband don't want to wearing short things uyakuhlobipha lokho ngoba akusikhona ukuhlumeka lokho yinto enivumelana ngayo yena makhumalo Uma wakhe wake wayigqoka into emfisha kwakhe so guys asizameni ukuhlonipha amadonda ethu
Makhumalo please understand Musa is a traditional man and please sisi understand there is a difference when you are a girlfriend and when you are a wife! Please Nana you are now a Wife not a girlfriend!!!!
Makhumalo you need to understand your man girl,kushaywa edonsayo cc,but I can see that love chemistry between the ,it makes me feel jealous like,kwaaaaaa
When your husband say they don't want something bakithi let's respect that, it just clothes that he don't want his wife to be seen in. You represent your family when you are outside your home, he is your first approval, nit abangani.
Because she is failing to Baer his kids that's why she's mseleku toy She always agree in all his nonsense She can't figth shame It's bad not nice to have your own kids Always yes yes baba
@@khwezykhwezy6926 that's soo true but the sad thing is that with a little help she could have children of her own, ivf works wonders but she definitely would have to get a surrogate to carry her child... Since Musa is backward minded, he's refusing for them to get this much needed help
Those expectation should have been stipulated upfront not after marriage whereas that dresscode tickled his fancy before. Now he wants her to change her dress code and most likely izanciza zakhe turn him on wearing those short skirts. Men for u
@@nelzg5819 the difference between a single person and a married person is if you are single you can do anything you want without worrying about hurting anyone but if you are married you are now assign to an assignment of taking care of the needs of the family no longer about what you want as individual but now about family interest. Marriage is not a fun game between two individuals but about two families coming together
@@okuhledyomfana3707 yes i hear your point on communication but a responsible person should learn and understand the family they are marrying to...just like when you get a job, you can not expect the company that is hiring you to teach you everything about their brand. It is also your responsibility to learn and understand as much as you can for you to become an asset to the company. So same applies when you joining a new family and that applies to both parties
Andisanithandi maan,bt Tobza kaloku ngoku gyeel akujolwa its real usemmtshatweni respect what s he saying,love you always makhumalo wam ndodwa futiz,💕😍
I like the way you said it mjolo and marriage are way too different things when you are married you are no longer live as an individual person you get to consulte your other half almost in every decision you are making.
@@thandipeter8352 ewe xa utshatile its not about two of you now ,it include isidima sefamily ifaka abantu abadala like izinyanya and her husband respect ancestors especially u gog Flo since enala tnx ma in whatever its his logo so she need to respect nyhani ngesnxibo ,love her a lot❤️
Makhumalo when you choose to marry , dress code will change obviously cuz usuke usuhlonipha amadlozi wako munye umuzi ... mseleku .he is not wrong Kube bekungomu nye ..bamazipho ngabe awsawafaki
Ma Khumalo doesn't understand that igqebhezana sakhe sasimufanela esayi ntombi not esewu nkosikazi. If your husband feels un-easy in what u wear then try to change it. It a simple compromise
Makhumalo is really pretty like I love the way she always puts in effort in how she looks
Why does your wife have to do EXACTLY what you want? I’m not trying to father in my marriage.
MaKhumalo she is always humbled, big up girl
Makhumalo love you sis into ngawe ukuthi uyayihlonipha indoda yakho uyabonakala ukuthi weza emendweni hhayi ukuzolwa
MaKhumalo is still young, I think she just wanted to enjoy her freedom, not be controlled
Mangwabe is really shaking him up
yes kudala phela wawuseyi ntombi manje usungumfazi sisi hlukanisa phela nawe
Mkhumalo is very submissive and appreciating of Mseleku. She is beautiful and can get any man bu she chooses to be a Mseleku. This guy is too hard on this woman.
Aren't you exaggerating just a little bit? She's nooo Kim Kardashian.
Umona
in this situation, uMseleku is a zulu man, indoda yesintu so that is all i see. being a wife and a grlfriend r too different things. as a wife u just need to look respectable.
So what are u saying she make a favour for uMseleku? .... that mind set doesn't work at all date someone because of love not feel like you are making a favour
Emshadweni umakoti uyahlonipheka cc wami if your husband don't want to wearing short things uyakuhlobipha lokho ngoba akusikhona ukuhlumeka lokho yinto enivumelana ngayo yena makhumalo Uma wakhe wake wayigqoka into emfisha kwakhe so guys asizameni ukuhlonipha amadonda ethu
Makhumalo please understand Musa is a traditional man and please sisi understand there is a difference when you are a girlfriend and when you are a wife! Please Nana you are now a Wife not a girlfriend!!!!
Uqinisile uMseleku unkosikazi kumele agqoke into ezokwenza indoda yakhe ihlonipheke.
Tobza, I love your assertiveness girl.
thumbs up to the lady...a relationship where u only take orders its a no
What power joh, let her live life too like other women
Well said 👏
So now that he married her he wants her to change even the way she dresses..and he refuses to see the wrong in that 😳
Yes ngoba ushade yena
Makhumalo you need to understand your man girl,kushaywa edonsayo cc,but I can see that love chemistry between the ,it makes me feel jealous like,kwaaaaaa
When your husband say they don't want something bakithi let's respect that, it just clothes that he don't want his wife to be seen in. You represent your family when you are outside your home, he is your first approval, nit abangani.
So profound ✊
Well said. Indoda uma ishaya umthetho emzini wayo kufanele uhlonishwe. UMakhumalo uthi wayegqoka isigqebhezana ayemthanda uMseleku uma esigqokile. Hayi bo! Usese Faziland manje akaseyona intombazane eyenza umathanda sekubusa umthetho wendoda kufanele awuhloniphe. UMseleku yindoda yoMzulu efuna ukwakha umuzi wayo ngenhlonipho naye abe nesithunzi emphakathini nasemzini wakhe.
Well said
Akasesiyo intombi
What about when your wife say she doesn't like something, the husband doesn't have to respect that?
@@theeahlume1010 Competition doesn't work lol, the wife must obey the husband.
Ngithanda ubaba mseleku mayethi bakhona abenza izinto angazithandi kodwa akasiqinisi isandla uyababuka nje🌝 uyabonake Makhumalo kushuthi indoda iyakuthanda wena ngoba ifuna wehluke kondlebe kazizwa. Bayeke laba asebehlule hlonipha indoda yakho ntombi qhubeka ungayeki
Bizo you got it girl. Mseleku got a wife in you. And you mesh the standard.
Love the way you are MaShobane, you're pretty woman you respect ikhaya lakwaMseleku, keep it up gal, I wish you were Mamkhulu ❤
Ay Kodwa Baba uMseleku uyndoda❤ one of the intelligent man I know. Ubani ongangihlanganisa naye noma kakodwa nje
I'm afraid this wife is the one who has his heart. The first two wives must just pack up and leave... They are wasting their time here.
Because she is failing to Baer his kids that's why she's mseleku toy
She always agree in all his nonsense
She can't figth shame
It's bad not nice to have your own kids
Always yes yes baba
@@khwezykhwezy6926 that's soo true but the sad thing is that with a little help she could have children of her own, ivf works wonders but she definitely would have to get a surrogate to carry her child... Since Musa is backward minded, he's refusing for them to get this much needed help
Makhumalo got true love shsim
Women need to understand the marriage and expectations that are part of the package
Those expectation should have been stipulated upfront not after marriage whereas that dresscode tickled his fancy before. Now he wants her to change her dress code and most likely izanciza zakhe turn him on wearing those short skirts. Men for u
@@nelzg5819 the difference between a single person and a married person is if you are single you can do anything you want without worrying about hurting anyone but if you are married you are now assign to an assignment of taking care of the needs of the family no longer about what you want as individual but now about family interest. Marriage is not a fun game between two individuals but about two families coming together
True but communicate your expectations before the marriage so that you give the person a choice
@@okuhledyomfana3707 yes i hear your point on communication but a responsible person should learn and understand the family they are marrying to...just like when you get a job, you can not expect the company that is hiring you to teach you everything about their brand. It is also your responsibility to learn and understand as much as you can for you to become an asset to the company. So same applies when you joining a new family and that applies to both parties
Andisanithandi maan,bt Tobza kaloku ngoku gyeel akujolwa its real usemmtshatweni respect what s he saying,love you always makhumalo wam ndodwa futiz,💕😍
I like the way you said it mjolo and marriage are way too different things when you are married you are no longer live as an individual person you get to consulte your other half almost in every decision you are making.
Thobza..you are loved..
@@thandipeter8352 ewe xa utshatile its not about two of you now ,it include isidima sefamily ifaka abantu abadala like izinyanya and her husband respect ancestors especially u gog Flo since enala tnx ma in whatever its his logo so she need to respect nyhani ngesnxibo ,love her a lot❤️
Ngempela kushawa edonsayo
Makhumalo when you choose to marry , dress code will change obviously cuz usuke usuhlonipha amadlozi wako munye umuzi ... mseleku .he is not wrong
Kube bekungomu nye ..bamazipho ngabe awsawafaki
As an African women we understand much of a girl friend and a wife so😢! I'm filling sorry for makhumalo 😮
Ma Khumalo doesn't understand that igqebhezana sakhe sasimufanela esayi ntombi not esewu nkosikazi. If your husband feels un-easy in what u wear then try to change it. It a simple compromise
Wow maKhumalo uyinkosikazi uyasimela Mtungwa💝
Wena ubani okutshela uthi wenzeni ungenzini kumakhosikazi wakho?
Aze abuhlungu lamazwi kushawa edonswayo
Yhoo nka lo MMa marriage with alot of rules 😌 ezivuka emtshatweni while umnt enezanciza zakhe
There is a difference between courtship and marriage
Communication to solve problem
I really lv u makhumalo
NguMtungwa oMbulase.
Uzoze engashad ngexa yokugqoka igqebhe🤣🤣🤣
Ngithanda ngoba ulimele ikini ngenhlonipho oyinika indoda ngisho isikucasulile
Ooh yes Makhumalo uyi💥
Hay mseleku ngeke ungadlali ngomakhumalo isandla asiqine kubona bonke no way mmmmm
Mseleku noMayeni yibona abaganile ekhya
Litho Musa aksiwo muziwakho kd okababakho
This marriage thing is nolonger working for Thobile, i just wish she was as brave as Mangwane, Thobile is too submissive
This polygamous thing ke matsapa...i cnt commit to something that i wont be happy at the end of the day...
Uyaphupha nje😂
Uyilento ephezulu ekhekheni
❤
Izigcebhezan nama bigin kumuntu kunkoskazi womuntu aay akunambithisisi
Exactly
Makhumalo!!!! Oh no....efaziland kubusa umthetho wendoda emzini wayo. Isigqebhezana wayesigqoka ngoba eseyintombi esafuna ukubukisa ngomzimba wakhe, cover yourself gal respect your husband and also respect yourself.
@@thembigwala2282 Exactly
Angeke wenze sengathi kukini,
Ugcebhezela ukuthi umzimba ubukwe ngubani nje ngempela
Yes its true but ngikugcoka once in a while
Ma Khumalo hlonipha umnyni wakho isigqebhi wawo ntombi manje sew Nkosikazi kunomehluko ukugqoka kwentombi nonkosikazi
No uyaphupha nje 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 uyaphupha nje
It was that part for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dictator Mseleku
Too much. All cheaters are that way
Iriliy love you.mashobane💜