First Baby Bath Failed Horribly Ep.06
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- Опубліковано 21 гру 2024
- This is Wolfy's 2nd day at home in his Tokyo home. He takes his first newborn baby bath. It was going so well in the beginning... We also share our experience with the first night and how Maiko is doing with newborn breastfeeding. This is life in Japan and our family experience in Japan with our new baby. We hope you enjoy.
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You’re a first time parent. This means that literally everything you do you are terrified you are hurting or scarring your child. Trust me, you’re not. You’re doing your best, show yourself some grace!
In terms of what you can do, since she’s recovering your goal is to do EVERYTHING she can’t. Food, dishes, diapers, etc. since you’re using formula you should take the night feedings too if you can.
You guys are solid, don’t be so hard on yourselves!!
Great advice!
Unfortunately he can't night feed while she's working on getting her milk supply going as it will hinder production.
@@catchyname5403 she can always pump....
@@Sabouma28 I didn't think of that 🤦♀️
But wouldn't she have to be up to pump? I'm not being a smart ass I really don't know I don't have much experience.
Lori79 Pumping can be difficult at the best of times. Doubly so if you’re having problems producing milk.
My husband used to wake up with me when our son woke up to feed him. I had to exclusively pump, because he never latched. So he would feed him the extra breastmilk and I would pump. I didn't produce enough, so after 4 months I had to start supplementing with formula. Did it for 10 months.
Bless your hearts! It will be okay. It’s a learning process. *Love the bottle machine!
Much love and many prayers from the States!
Thank you so much!
@@TokyoZebra in China Women after birth a baby they stay home. For one month to just like Japan
My wife (also Japanese) and I live just a prefecture south of you and are due just about any day now! These videos are so timely and comforting as this is also our first. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. All the best to you and your lovely family!
Good luck ^^
Enjoy the experience it is a blessing.
Good luck. Just be confident, you'll learn from all the mistakes and things get easier as you learn.
Hope everything went well !!! Congratulations 🎉 wish you and your family the best :)
For us, my husband was home for two weeks. During that time we made a bunch of meals that could be frozen (soups, beans, things like that) and that way when my husband went back to work it was easy to make a meal without all the stress. Sleep when the baby sleeps and let the hubby do what he can.
Interesting on the frozen meals. But 100% agree on sleep when the baby sleeps. Easier said then done though. Me and my wife couldn't get that down pat with both our children.
@@xPreatorianx1 Yeh sleep when the baby sleeps only works with your first child, so take full advantage of that xD
No one will judge you harder than yourself when it comes to being a parent. You're both doing great ❤
Being a new parent is hard. Give yourself some grace. Congratulations stay calm and do not panic you were great
He’s absolutely the sweetest cutie pie! Lol I think boys love to mess with daddy with diaper changes.
My brother and nephew were like that. Never messed when mom changed it tho
Always stay calm even when baby is crying! Never panic 😃
Slowly learn what different cries mean as it's baby way to communicate...
And for bath time it looks good the way u bathed him just be careful and watch your surroundings to avoid bumping his head into hard objects.
Gambatte! From daddy of2
Awww he was so chill at the beginning of his bath!!
Also first time parent here! My son is now 7m and I love watching these episodes b/c it reminds me of all the emotions of having a newborn. It is absolutely terrifying but give it time. You guys will learn each other and will bond. It’s the best thing ever being a parent! This is giving me baby fever! Lol
This video gave me haunting chills of nostalgia. It's nerve wrecking, it's beautiful, it's so many things. Being a parent is the hardest and best job you will ever have.
He so cute. I love how they use subtitles to make him talk.
Oh my God this brings back so much memories!!! I had such a struggle breastfeeding my newborn but after 2 weeks I was gold! He ended up nursing for 3 years! It’s very important for mom to eat!!! She’s breastfeeding and she needs to eat plenty of nutritious food. I was blessed bc my mom took care of me for 40 days. She fed me and I just rested so I could heal faster and feel better. It took my mom, my sister and myself to give my son his first bath Lol! You’ll be ok, life will never be the same bc kids do change your life forever in a positive way❤️
Hated breastfeeding my sons
Agreed! At first it was very difficult and painful, now it seems so natural ... my boy is 3 years and 2 months old and breastfeeding him is one of our moments of connection
Hi,Paolo. Please watch this video to see how content Wolfy was to be in the warm bath. Your tenderness in washing and massaging him got him smiling! He was so relaxed, he even yawned. Perhaps the little fellow was wanting more bath time! You're first-time parents and you're doing a great job! Blessings on your family!
Hang in there! You are doing a good job, mama and daddy! It just takes practice. I remember how scared we were when we brought home our 1st born. In fact, she hated baths at 1st and screamed like crazy. She's 18 now and a college student. You did great with the bath. You made sure he was safe...that is most important. Caution, You can end up being advised to death! So, do what is right for you and your baby. In no time, you will feel like pros! Remember, both of you are adjusting, mama is still hurting, be there for each other. Lots of love from the US, Michigan.
Wolfy acts like an Emperor 😂 his stare is like he's giving out Orders and the way he relaxes during the bath 🔥🔥🤣🤣
You guys are amazing. You guys have this! There’s always moments like that. He’s so precious. You guys are great parents. You’re not a failure, you’re a father! ❤️👍🏽
i love how wolverine zoned out during his bath xD
Every time I hear that they named the baby that..makes me think of the Marvel character. :D
Dad of 2 beautiful girls here! Trust me, you guys are doing great! With our first, I was nervous, scared, worried all the time about everything. It'll get better and "easier" as the days progress! Great job you guys!!!
You did well Paulo. I can see you will be a great father. God bless you and your family 👪
You and Maiko did great! I have 6 months old baby girl. It was hard for the first couple months but getting better now.
Oh, a little tips from me for Maiko if you want breast milk come out just keep breastfeeding Wolfy (or pumping it). The breast will keep producing milk if its often emptied.
Second, but also (and I know this is contradictory advice considering how much you're advised to feed) if you have to bottle feed, it's not the end of the world. Sometimes life happens, stress, the rest of the week, who knows.
I had my last baby and after having little issues feeding the siblings, didn't expect to have any issues. I actually stopped lactating even though I managed to eat and sleep as much as I could manage during that period. It also didn't help that we had to move unexpectedly cross country.
We are very fortunate to live in a time where we have access to safe water and formula, considering that wet-nursing is no longer a reality for most modern day parents. (And besides that the history of wet nursing is ranges from relatively
healthy to downright horrific when you look into the historical reasons woman became or were (as I implied) forced into the job.)
Your family is adorable. Be kind to yourself and try not to panic when taking care of your baby. You both are doing great. Blessings to all of you, stay safe... 💜💜💜
Wolfy had that good salon/spa experience! LOL You two are doing great. Being a first time parent is a learning experience and as long as you both work together, you'll be fine. Lil Wolfy is just too adorable!
U're doing a dope job man, everyday is a learning day, the fact that you care so much about bathing him the right way means that you're already a dope dad. Definitely not a failure man
Congrats Paolo & Maiko!
I’m also a first time mom and my daughter is 1 year old already! 😊
First few weeks were very hard. Post partum, crying hungry poopy baby, sleep deprived, and taking care of my baby on my own since the husband is out working 5days a week.
Anywho, it is really a tagged team effort. Its nice that Maiko has Paolo to assist her when getting stuffs, doing the chores and taking the baby from time to time so Maiko can do her own thing. And little boy loves to take a bath 👍🏻 my baby was crying for about a month until she gets used to. And now she so loves water that we are taking a lot of time in the bath.
Anyway, stay safe and indoors.
Enjoy you little one as much now coz kids grow up soooo fast!
Y'all are too cute. These videos are so sweet and as everyone has stated, you guys are doing a great job w/ Wolfy.
You guys are not failure but wonderful parents! Every parents go through that with their first child. Not sure of anything but instinct kicks in.
Beautiful baby boy!! God bless you and keep you.
Pad?? 😅
hes the cutest when he took a bath 🥺
I know for sure that they will be really be kind, caring, and thoughtful parents. I wish you both the best of luck in raising your child during these times and I hope you guys continue creating precious memories with your child.
You guys are the sweetest family!!! Wishing all things well!
Aww so sweet. These are some special days and it looks like you two have it together, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Lots of love there! He’s darling.
Don't panic, you're both doing great! He's such a beautiful baby. I love watching these videos, they're adorable ❤🐺
It is amazing how fast we as parents learn, and how great our children are at teaching us, one day you will look back and realize that you were doing amazingly all along. I feel like I blinked and my babies grew up! They are now 18,13 and 9 years old. Enjoy these precious moments, you guys are all doing amazing!
Don't be too hard on yourselves, as with everything new, there is a learning curve. You both are and will be great parents. Lots of Love and Prayers to your entire family.
I just realized that one day Wolfy is gonna watch all these videos, and as audience we are gonna see him grow up alongside you guys. Plus i'm always eager for the next upload. Happy parenting to u two.💞💞
Awww I think you guys did a great job, it’s ok if he cries a little, nothing will happen
And he’ll learn you are there to comfort him. Keep posting please, loving yr videos and seeing
Wolfe growing so much in every video. Be well. Dali
Awwww poor baby didn't want to leave the bath and massage. 😆 You guys are doing your best as first time parents. Don't beat yourself up too much. Much luv from NYC. 🌃🌆🗽
I want to hug both of you guys :) it's okay. You are doing your best. Wolfy is blessed to have a mom and a dad who love him so much.
I guess he enjoyed that bath so much that he didn’t want to get out. 😂 But he is so adorable♥️. You guys are totally acing this. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
you two are doing a great job. one advice I would give is don't be nervous and just stay confident on everything you do with Wolfy. Looking forward to more episodes.
Swaddle! I didn't read all the comments, but this saved me with all three. My son was so good at the hospital, the nurses would bring him in with his arms tightly swaddled in his blanket, I'd think "how uncomfortable", unwrap him and he'd fuss. I had to read a book a couple of months to realize my mistake. You guys are doing so good! Your baby is gorgeous, and I wouldn't say anything if it wasn't true. I'm so glad you are enjoying everything about him. Congratulations!!
You both are doing great! Don’t be too hard on yourselves and each other. Being a first time parent is a learn curve. Definitely not failures. I’m a first time mom 4 months now and learned that if we make mistakes, we learn from them and do better the next time. Keep up the good work! Wolfy is absolutely adorable!
You guys are doing an amazing job and I look forward to these videos!! I’m due in December so I really appreciate these videos :)
I think you guys did amazing for your first time bathing him! Its always scariest with your first. I had 3 mids and each of them screamed through their first baths. Just take things one step at a time and remember to breathe 💙
Beautiful! So much trial and error with first bubba. Make sure you're feeding Maiko! Don't let a new mummy skip meals. ❤
NOT A Fail! You guys are doing great!
You are amazing parents bravo❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👏🏻👍🏻❤️
You both are doing great. He is so cute! God bless your family 😘🙏
Man he has such a look of intensity just taking in everything, it’s adorable!
My dad was Ethiopian and he always used to tell young couples this Ethiopian proverb: “Eat before you have children” 😊 OMG he’s sooo precious!!
So proud of both of you with your parenting! Paolo you are adorbs with Wolfy and Maiko is so calm and natural. He is cute as a button! xox
Your generation gets all the best gadgets! When I had my first born, we warmed up the bottle the old fashioned way, boil water and dunk the bottle in to warm it up.
Next generation? Robot nanny lmao
Wow Your Both doing Great 👍 Just Love you all ❤️ Thank you for taking time to shared your life with me❤️❤️❤️❤️I really appreciate it so much ❤️❤️❤️
I had twins my first time!!! My husband was like you and a lot of help but each of us never had a break!! Lol. I loved watching Wolfy settle into his bath. You will get better every day and he won’t remember any mistakes ❤️
Same! Mine are 17 months now. How old are yours?
He is so precious!! I am so happy for you all!! What a beautiful family^_^
Thank you so much!!
It’s the cutest family ever !
My husband and I were in a very similar situation as you and Maiko almost 12 years ago. We were nervous, bath times were a disaster, we were sleep deprived, you name it. It does get easier for the both of you, trust me. Enjoy the moments while you can because they grow up fast.
He's so adorable.. hope he stays healthy forever.. you two take care as well.. love from India 🇮🇳
Maiko & Paolo! I’m so happy for you two! Congrats on the baby boy! He is adorable and he looks like his Daddy! You two are fantastic and amazing parents and you are doing great!! Maiko is such a champ!!! You are a great team! Prayers for strength, resilience, patience, healing for Maiko, and lots of rest! Much love from MN, USA! It’s gonna get better and it will be worth it! 🙂😍
you guys are the best!!, thank you for sharing this warm and honest moments!! And wolfy is so cuuuteeeeee
Y’all are doing great! You learn daily with new babies. Just have patience and determination
You guys are doing an amazing job! Please don’t be so hard on yourselves. You are first time parents and aren’t expected to have all the answers. Your little boy is gorgeous and he has the best parents in the world! ♥️
You both are so cute. What great memories you are making to share with Wolfy later.
You are doing a great job guys! First time parenting is hard. If you are worried about doing a good job, then it is likely you are doing a great job! This is so wonderful to be able to see you guys go through something I went through 6 years ago. It makes me a little misty eyed to be honest. I've been following your channels for many years so it really feels like I am watching my good friends becoming parents.
Ill keep watching so keep taking one day at a time and upload when you can. I think we all understand what challenges you are going through right now. Ganbatte!!
you both are doing a great job!! Keep going it is a learning process with each child. We all struggle in the beginning.
You did great Paolo!! Try not to be so hard on yourself you're doing amazingly! Hope things have improved for you now gorgeous Wolfy is a few months old
My almost 10 month old twins still cry half the time I give them a bath. You two are doing great. Every day you will learn something new. It is ok to cry sometimes too with your baby if you feel lost. Love from my little ones to your little one.
What a little cutie pie. I love this new series. It brings back so many memories.
DONT BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF! You guys are doing GREAT! You are acting out of LOVE. Wolfie will survive you❤️
Aww y'all did fine! so precious. Take lots of video and pics, they grow so fast. We are so happy for y'all. :)
You are brilliant first time parents.
I'm a single mum to a 8 month old boy. You are doing a wonderful job xx
So far so good :). You're doing fine - It's a learning process for all, both you and the little one, so don't be too hard on yourself.
The most cutest thing about wolverine is his laugh and cry 😅😅
Is that weird but its sooooo cute
too young to laugh. They don't giggle till around 3 or 4 months. But I agree on the cry.
Not failure ~ learning moments! Sweet~ you will all be just fine. Adorable and caring 🤗♥️
I’m not 30 years old with two wonderful children . The first time for everything is truly scary. As long as your learning and improving you two will be great . Wolfy has some awesome expressions! Thank you for the content ! Keep being awesome lady and gents
Diaper changes with boys are always an adventure. I quickly learned to cover him with a wipe while changing. You two will get the hang of it. I’m sure as each day progresses you’re becoming more comfortable as parents. He is precious and the cutest baby. Enjoy! And rest when you can.
You guys are doing amazing!! It’s hard as new parents!! I hope maiko heals well :)!
You guys are doing such a great job! Way to go mom and dad! He’s the cutest little guy ever.
Doing great guys, its an adventure and constant learning experience, but enjoy every second, they grow up so quick.
As a new parent, my son just turned 1 recently, YOU'RE DOING GREAT 👍 👏. No criticism, maybe tips, but we gotta support parents! You guys LOVE and adore your son. You may think it feels like a failure, but look, he's clean, fed, healthy and happy. Wolfie has 2 parents that love him. There's no real right or wrong way, but what feels right for your family. 💕 You two are both wonderful parents and doing great. And trying to sleep when the baby sleep is no joke. Do it. 🤣頑張って👊😆
You guys are doing great. It is a learning process so always forgive yourselves if things aren’t perfect. Babies can sense emotions.
I think both of you are doing a wonderful job, I enjoy how real you both are and I love watching your journey. You never know until you try and that’s what you are both doing everyday. Sending positivity and blessings to your trio. 🌻
He's such a little cutie! Those first few weeks/months of parenting are stressful and full or learning and sleepless nights. Don't worry your not failing, your doing great!
Babies cry, it’s ok. It is stressful to hear a baby cry especially giving a bath, or changing or with anything. But it’s ok, you guys are too being to hard on yourselves. It’s ok, the baby cries. Try a song, singing , shushing, rock’em... whatever.
I think it’s also a cultural thing, thinking it’s a bad thing when a baby cries. They can’t talk so their only way to communicate is through crying. Don’t worry it’s going to be ok.
Congratulations to Paolo and Maiko... All the best on parenting... Enjoy every moment....
I'm new to your videos but I absolutely love them I'm here in Canada and I have a nephew who lives in Japan is married to a Japanese girl and they have two children. They've been married for several years and he works for Japanese company. I was very interested to see how it works in Japan for everything and you have provided that. You're both fantastic I can't seem to get enough of your stories.
Your baby is adorable. I just hit on the one where you gave the bath for the first time. I'm a senior now but I had three children but I still remember the first time I gave my first child a bath I was exhausted..lol. your wife is a great mom and so cute and you are a great father.
You guys are already doing great! I had my baby last December and I remember being so scared to give him a bath too. It will get easier :-)
Omg he is so cute! I think you and Maiko are doing a great job as first time parents!
You did great at bath time. Babies hate getting out because it’s cold - expect that to happen most days. Keep up the good work! Parenting is scary at first but you catch on really quick.
Congrats on your beautiful little Wolfy!
Don’t worry! Babies are way more resilient than they look! Your both doing fantastic! 🥳🥳
wolfy is seriously such a handsome little man! its going to be so interesting to see how his looks develop as he grows!! u guys are doing a great job :)
Its scary being first time parents and yes its a learning experience.
My cousin said to me once that if everyone is still breathing at the end of the day, you did good. Take deep breaths. It will be ok 💜
Aww you guys are doing wonderfully 😊 Wolfy is such a cute wee lad ❤️❤️
This was a super cute video yall! And remember its your first baby. Its gonna get easy day by day.😊
Yeaaaaaaaaaaa
Very happy to see you three together
What a beautiful family
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Hope Wolverine and Maiko are doing great too
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Aaahh the parenting adventure.. it's all good.. thank you so much for sharing..
You two are doing a good job,fear does not equal failure. It’s natural to be scared,but I can tell you are good parents😀
Wolfy is sooooo cute!! ❤️ You did great for the first bath time! He was so relaxed...I really don’t think you can help it much when he comes out of warm bath.
You are both doing great!! Being a first time parent is always scary but you will learn from mistakes! Dont beat yourself up about them. You are amazing parents!! And Wolfy is such a cutie