Unko realise ho gya k unhone ne kitna galat kiya....ab mujhe khud bolte hai k main kitna galat tha....12 sal ki shadi main aisa pehli bar hua tha.... isliye muje b digest nhi ho rha tha.....Allah ka shukr hai k unhe apni galti ka ehsaas ho gya
Bilkul sahi kaha. sb sy pehlay ye sochen k ap is bat ka end kia chahtay hain. Usi k according step uthaen. Agar ap chorna ni chahti to then deal accordingly
Assalamualaikum mam!!!!mam ye topic muje bohat relate karta hai...2-3 mahine pehle mere sath b aisa hi hua tha....and jab muje pata laga to gussa to bohat aaya jagda b kiya maine apne husband se ....but inside the bedroom.....kisi ko ni bataya maine sirf apni ek dost ko bataya .....muje laga k main logo ki gossip ka topic bn jaugi and hamara relation khrab hoga ....
Aslamu alaikum wrwb Mam, ap husband ,wife k relation pe itni ehm baten sikhati hain ke jo kabi nhi suni hotin. Lekin wo khushi o sakoon ke liey lazm hain. Masha Allah you are very strong and mature lady. Meri dua h Allah ap ki r ap ki family ki hifazat karen. Nazr e bad se bchaen. Sdaa khush aur abaad rahen.
Assalawalekum from India' bahaut sahi advice diya aapne because aise advice bahaut kam log dete hai watching u for the first time really liked it I am 6o now allah bless you
Me apny husband k affairs 20 saal se jheel rai hn or har doosre saal wo meri hi behnon k sath maan k sath bayen krty hue pakrdy jaty hen bahr to muje jana allow ni h to bahir pata ni kea kea krty hon gy.or wo is bat pe zara 0% b sharminda ni hen or na hi unhen meri koi qadar h or men ne ye bat aj tak kisi ko btai b ni thi or men un se 15 sal choti b hn or pardhi likhi b hn jab k wo sirf 4thy pas hen ...jab kisi bat ki demand krti hn to naraz ho k kai kai din ghr ni aty ...muje btaen men kitna suffur krn or muje allah pak kab phal de ga is ka
Yes your point is very well 👍.... Never share your thoughts of worries and sorrows to anyone accept Allah Almighty...just talk to him say everything to him only Allah that's it...
M b asi hi situation face kr rahe hon.bt m khamoshi sy sb ignor kr deti hon bachoun ki khatir..apki bat api belkul true h..husbnd chup krny vali wife sy sherminda hoty hain..Allah p bahrosa sb sy bari power hoti h.plz all womens .ap hamesha strong rahye plz.chay anadr sy ap toty huy hon..thanks a lot api for this veloge..salloute h apko..apki batin strong bna deti hain.keep it up.Allah pak apko seht o salamti ata kry.ameen.
Hi erum. Nice way of explaining things. But I have a question. So my MIL went thru the exact same thing which you have described. But she stayed strong and put and held her ground. She stayed and worked thru the toxic marriage for her five kids (3 boys 2 girls). But instead this let to over possessiveness of the children. She can’t stand us DIL ki marzi chaley ya kuch. Baki you can imagine. No doubt the way you mentioned and the way my MIL seems correct. But from what I saw it affected badly when the children got married as it somehow made the MIL feel less important to her children once their spouses arrived.
Very serious topic but know one elders will talk to youngesters abt this always the ladies have to adjust ..... In all situations. If a wife makes a just friend if her comes to in next movement she will b out of her house only 😢
Hello dear Shaadi k apkay jo b events ki rasmain hain ..hamaray b same aisay he hotay hain...bht acha laga dekh k ...i am from quetta too but meri family karachi sai hai...stay happy dear
I rarely comment on any video but i recently found ur channel and i saw alot of ur videos,i have been married for 2 years i dont have mother who can guide me about these stuff i lost her when i was 3,i suffer alot in my married life and i used to tell everyone but now i have learn alot from ur videos i dont share my life with anyone and it became more peaceful now thanku so much keep making more videos like this it really helps❤
Or demand b kbi puri ni krty phir men hi bachon k liye apni wants ko daba k un se bat kr lati hn mere bachon ko ye bat bht feel hoti h k papa ni aw rae or kasm utha k kehti hn men 20 sal se apne shohar se be panah muhabbat krti hn lakin wo mera bas faida hi utha rae hen or kuch ni
Or ma to ab daily subo ready hua bgair room Sy bahir nhi niklti JB Sy ap k vlog dekh rhi hnn .....but Kisi din agr jldi me hnn or ready hua bgr bahir Jany lgu to mirror me dekhty hua mje apka ye dialogue yad aa jata "sar jhaar mun phaar"😂😂😂
Asalam o alaikum Mam I m mentally sick person and I m working women. Mujhy lgta hy k mere waja sy ghar ka mahool kharab ho raha hy to my chahte hu k mery husband 2sre shade kr ly q k mujhy apny halat pata hy k mere tabyat ka kuch bhe pata nhe chlta hy. Aap ke kya advise hy??
Assalamualaikum sisiter mene wahi Kiya tha 10 years se Jo apne apni vedio me btaya BT ab 10 years ke baad mene apne Ghar apni saas aur Nando ko btaya fir bhi mere husband aur zyada ye sab krne lge mere bachche nhi hai na hi sasural Walo na husband bachcho ko khwaish h na hi sasural Wale qadar hai na husband mene sasural me bht takleef uthayi ki shayad ye log sudhar Jaye BT wo nhi sudhre ab mene apna galbleder ka operation kraya h apne father ke Ghar na hi mujhe koi dekhne aya na koi call ki husband bhi us din aye jis din option tha koi care nhi koi humdardi aap btaye me kya kru bht thak chuki hu me is rishte ko nibhate nibhate plz advice me
Plzz manai aap ko both barai mess kiya aur insta pai b kiya mera b yahi haal h Mera husband mji cheat karta h hamaisha mri aak bati h ab meri life itni khraab b itni mji lagta h ma khatam hovi h mera face mera wait lose hova tension sai ab mera husband mji bolta h to achi nhi h..phali ma both cute both achi thi ab mji khud ko jab daikhti ho ma roti ho mera kai haal hova ab nhi samja ma nhi ata h ma kai karo ma apni bati ho b ab cear na pyar karskti ho both tension ma ho
Yes truly said don't spoil ur children future for the sake of that stupid third person it's just seems to be like a fake gud topic to discuss & gud suggestion unfortunately u also suffered but I m still here for my daughter
You are very wise MA, but i would disagree at a point, mard agar kisi dusri aurat ki taraf jata hai to zaruri nai k uski bv men koi kami hai, bht achi achi bivion k husbands shoqeen mizaj hte hen, ye admion ki apni masti hoti, aurat bechari qasoorwar ni
Irum plz male video on how to deql with student as a teacher aur teaxher tyyar hon aur kese sb se bt krein plzzxz😢😢 Mene 3 montHs se Apse request krrhi hon
Hello dear pls make volg on body shamming ...specially on short height ...I am very upset because of my short height my height is 4.11......everyone said to me your height is short....
AOA.sister ap nay sub tyk Bola but Koch mard kabi ni change hoty .Mary husband dubhai may hoty .13 sal ho gay 2 shadi ke ha may Pakistan hu bachy pas ha Mary boht zada pershan time dakha bacho KO kabi Chor Kay Janny Ka ni socha .mujy itni saza Mili gar pasy ni bajy os nay 6 sal ...bachy ab university ha Mary Kam bi karty ha to gar chal Raha ..gar rant pay ha Mera.. Allah Ka shukar ha bacho sth Khush hu may ..but husband AJ bi ni badla Koch log kabi ni Chang na gilti feel karty ..reply lazmi Kery ga ..mujy kis bat ke saza Mili .😂
Bahut ache se mind ko sukun de jati h aap ek baat or ye to chiting wali baat ho gi but ching na kre husband cear na kre ghar me koi mann sammn na de to kya kre
Unko realise ho gya k unhone ne kitna galat kiya....ab mujhe khud bolte hai k main kitna galat tha....12 sal ki shadi main aisa pehli bar hua tha.... isliye muje b digest nhi ho rha tha.....Allah ka shukr hai k unhe apni galti ka ehsaas ho gya
Kabhi Kisi ne aise nhi smjhaya...thanku soo much bht bht zaroori hai tha ye topic...hats off
Exactly no one is sincere ,only ur husband ur kids are important rather than any other relationship❤❤❤❤so be patient
Very good advice for our lovely ladies and also for beloved mothers ❤you are such a wonderful person stay blessed always 🤲💞💐👌
Same situation I'm facing badly but I think aese husband k sth survive krna mushkil hai.
Bilkul sahi kaha. sb sy pehlay ye sochen k ap is bat ka end kia chahtay hain. Usi k according step uthaen. Agar ap chorna ni chahti to then deal accordingly
Assalamualaikum mam!!!!mam ye topic muje bohat relate karta hai...2-3 mahine pehle mere sath b aisa hi hua tha....and jab muje pata laga to gussa to bohat aaya jagda b kiya maine apne husband se ....but inside the bedroom.....kisi ko ni bataya maine sirf apni ek dost ko bataya .....muje laga k main logo ki gossip ka topic bn jaugi and hamara relation khrab hoga ....
A.s.a I geniuenly don't comment but you really deserves thumbs up .
Aslamu alaikum wrwb Mam, ap husband ,wife k relation pe itni ehm baten sikhati hain ke jo kabi nhi suni hotin.
Lekin wo khushi o sakoon ke liey lazm hain.
Masha Allah you are very strong and mature lady.
Meri dua h Allah ap ki r ap ki family ki hifazat karen.
Nazr e bad se bchaen.
Sdaa khush aur abaad rahen.
but how left out one feels. that being sincere to ur husband and in return he is giving you his affairs with other women
Hello di bahut sahi tareke se aapne samjhaya di I agree with u ❤😊❤
Assalawalekum from India' bahaut sahi advice diya aapne because aise advice bahaut kam log dete hai watching u for the first time really liked it I am 6o now allah bless you
W salam. I'm honoured dear 🩶
Asalam o alaikum dear ❤
Just well said each single word thank you so much for spreading positivity and awareness regarding such sensitive issue❤
My pleasure 😊
Iram g main to apki awaz sun k he fresh ho jati hn..Masha Allah apki awaz apki batn...❤❤❤
Bilkul sai kaha ap ny q k jis insan k sth rahna usko 2ry k samny discuss kr k apna khud tamashai bno gy ignore krna chahiye buht sari bto ko
Irum ji iam from Bangladesh, i wach your video sach batau bohot peace milty hai love you ap ik gurdian ki taraha ho❤❤
Bilkul theek kaha apne husband ki koi bi fault kisi ko nahi batana chahiye
Me apny husband k affairs 20 saal se jheel rai hn or har doosre saal wo meri hi behnon k sath maan k sath bayen krty hue pakrdy jaty hen bahr to muje jana allow ni h to bahir pata ni kea kea krty hon gy.or wo is bat pe zara 0% b sharminda ni hen or na hi unhen meri koi qadar h or men ne ye bat aj tak kisi ko btai b ni thi or men un se 15 sal choti b hn or pardhi likhi b hn jab k wo sirf 4thy pas hen ...jab kisi bat ki demand krti hn to naraz ho k kai kai din ghr ni aty ...muje btaen men kitna suffur krn or muje allah pak kab phal de ga is ka
Bht achi advice di hai ap ne ladies ko.
Yes your point is very well 👍.... Never share your thoughts of worries and sorrows to anyone accept Allah Almighty...just talk to him say everything to him only Allah that's it...
Salam sis Allah pak apko hemisha kush raky i like u because ap Bht achi ho ap ek teacher ho hamry ly mainy Bht kch apsy seeka hai
I'm honoured dear 🩶
M b asi hi situation face kr rahe hon.bt m khamoshi sy sb ignor kr deti hon bachoun ki khatir..apki bat api belkul true h..husbnd chup krny vali wife sy sherminda hoty hain..Allah p bahrosa sb sy bari power hoti h.plz all womens .ap hamesha strong rahye plz.chay anadr sy ap toty huy hon..thanks a lot api for this veloge..salloute h apko..apki batin strong bna deti hain.keep it up.Allah pak apko seht o salamti ata kry.ameen.
Mera sath ye ho chuka ha mje koi samjana wala nhi ta es Lia me na bhat galti ki kash ye advice mje pehla mili hoti
200% true you have good gifted mind
Very matured and good advice.surely family is the foremost important one.
Thx
Excellent vlog....... honest thoughts
You are 💯 percent right. For the sake of our children we have to digest the dilemma and just focus on your self development
Thx
Brown bread healthy hoti hai khas kar ham jasi woman k liy mai bhi brwon bread khati hn
Assalmulakum dear! Allah pr Tawaqal is Super power to Our lifeline!! Nice vlog ❤
Jazakallah
Yes this is the right way to advice some one
Zabrdast shearing sister❤
Hi erum. Nice way of explaining things. But I have a question. So my MIL went thru the exact same thing which you have described. But she stayed strong and put and held her ground. She stayed and worked thru the toxic marriage for her five kids (3 boys 2 girls).
But instead this let to over possessiveness of the children. She can’t stand us DIL ki marzi chaley ya kuch. Baki you can imagine.
No doubt the way you mentioned and the way my MIL seems correct. But from what I saw it affected badly when the children got married as it somehow made the MIL feel less important to her children once their spouses arrived.
Mashallah bohttttttttttt achay way mai explain karti hai her topic❤
Assalam O Alaikum dear sister may Allah bless you and your family
Thank you so much
U r great nd sincere lady
Bst vlog always be a strong woman ❤
App Multi grain 🌾 flour use karyn mery baba diabetic hain ..woh multi 🌾 flour use karty
Mashallah good job
Great advice
Bahot hi badhiya vdo he ❤❤
Very serious topic but know one elders will talk to youngesters abt this always the ladies have to adjust ..... In all situations. If a wife makes a just friend if her comes to in next movement she will b out of her house only 😢
Brilliant advice
MashaAllah such a nice advice every woman shld handle it like this❤
Thanks for liking
Hello dear
Shaadi k apkay jo b events ki rasmain hain ..hamaray b same aisay he hotay hain...bht acha laga dekh k ...i am from quetta too but meri family karachi sai hai...stay happy dear
AOA apii ar Jin larkyn ke 26 m divorce kr dia H husband me ak beta H wo kesy move on krnn
you are right 💯
I rarely comment on any video but i recently found ur channel and i saw alot of ur videos,i have been married for 2 years i dont have mother who can guide me about these stuff i lost her when i was 3,i suffer alot in my married life and i used to tell everyone but now i have learn alot from ur videos i dont share my life with anyone and it became more peaceful now thanku so much keep making more videos like this it really helps❤
Don't worry dear . Allah hai . And just remember me n my kids in Ur prayers
Ap apni jeweelary aur clothing collection pr b videos bnaye
Good advice dii thanks 😊😊
I am from Delhi ur regular viewer like ur videos alot ur videos give us motivational ❤❤
Erum singal girls also watching u.Hamesha u r foucs married woman.volugs achy hoty Hain.❤❤
Asslam o alaikum ap jo tawa use kr ri hai wo konsa ha?
Or demand b kbi puri ni krty phir men hi bachon k liye apni wants ko daba k un se bat kr lati hn mere bachon ko ye bat bht feel hoti h k papa ni aw rae or kasm utha k kehti hn men 20 sal se apne shohar se be panah muhabbat krti hn lakin wo mera bas faida hi utha rae hen or kuch ni
Arrange marriage hogi apki
Best word 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💯💯
Asalam o alakum! I love your sentence SAR CHAAR MOO PHAR 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Allah bless you and your family Ameen Summa Ameen ❤
Hehe
Or ma to ab daily subo ready hua bgair room Sy bahir nhi niklti JB Sy ap k vlog dekh rhi hnn .....but Kisi din agr jldi me hnn or ready hua bgr bahir Jany lgu to mirror me dekhty hua mje apka ye dialogue yad aa jata "sar jhaar mun phaar"😂😂😂
@@rabiyauzair6872 Irum is right. We must look after ourself.
Your video Watch every time very nice information
Thank you so much 😊
Really aap bohat acche ho mam.....love from india❤
Love u more
100% sahi maa sirf apne bachon k lie sari zalalat bardast karti hai 😢
Assalamualaikum me upper Dir se ap ko sms kr rahi hun Lakin ap jawab hi nh deti
Alot of love for u and ur vlogs
Thnkw for today message 😊😊
Assalam u alaikum ji.plz make video on narcissistic behaviour s.thanks
You’re right
Allah sabar karne walo ke sath hota he hamesha
Api Great advise
Many many thanks
You are always right mam
Hi... Very nice vlog..
Ap ne video me black and white with yellow dupata dress Kon se brand se liya hy??
Sana safinaz
Hum orton ko bs ye dar hota hy k ye second marriage na kr lain es liye hum dar k jaldi jaldi main sb ko bta dyty hain sb Kuch 💯
Thank u sister aapny bahot acha vlog bnaya
Jazakallah dear
Mny hi aapko 1 week pehly husband sy tang aa kr reacted video ka kha tha or thank uk aapny bbahot acha vlog bnaya
Love u sis😘for beautiful advice
i agree with you💯
Asalam o alaikum
Mam I m mentally sick person and I m working women.
Mujhy lgta hy k mere waja sy ghar ka mahool kharab ho raha hy to my chahte hu k mery husband 2sre shade kr ly q k mujhy apny halat pata hy k mere tabyat ka kuch bhe pata nhe chlta hy. Aap ke kya advise hy??
Apna treatment karwaye i think ya solution ha
Maa sha Allah zbardst❤❤
Ap konsay pathan hain, What caste? i am pashtoon too, I really like it when i hear you speak pashto
Well Said👍
Assalamualaikum sisiter mene wahi Kiya tha 10 years se Jo apne apni vedio me btaya BT ab 10 years ke baad mene apne Ghar apni saas aur Nando ko btaya fir bhi mere husband aur zyada ye sab krne lge mere bachche nhi hai na hi sasural Walo na husband bachcho ko khwaish h na hi sasural Wale qadar hai na husband mene sasural me bht takleef uthayi ki shayad ye log sudhar Jaye BT wo nhi sudhre ab mene apna galbleder ka operation kraya h apne father ke Ghar na hi mujhe koi dekhne aya na koi call ki husband bhi us din aye jis din option tha koi care nhi koi humdardi aap btaye me kya kru bht thak chuki hu me is rishte ko nibhate nibhate plz advice me
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Love ur vlogs😊
Bohtt bra msla or boht achy sy isko takcl krny ka btaya v nice
Assalamu alaikum. First comment. Love you so much❤
🎉
Aap bataiye mai kahan se hun?
You are too wise,,,
Best lesson❤
Plzz manai aap ko both barai mess kiya aur insta pai b kiya mera b yahi haal h Mera husband mji cheat karta h hamaisha mri aak bati h ab meri life itni khraab b itni mji lagta h ma khatam hovi h mera face mera wait lose hova tension sai ab mera husband mji bolta h to achi nhi h..phali ma both cute both achi thi ab mji khud ko jab daikhti ho ma roti ho mera kai haal hova ab nhi samja ma nhi ata h ma kai karo ma apni bati ho b ab cear na pyar karskti ho both tension ma ho
Text me again
Good topic dear
stay blessed.
some men r shameless ..they keep on talking to women despite knowing their wife is not liking this thing
Great ❤❤❤❤
Hello irum. Plz don't eat white bread. Take bran bread. It is good for sugar patients
Dear I'm searching for a good brand for bran bread . If anyone knows then comment plz
Bread n beyond
2 pis khane me kuch ni dikkat itna to sayd chalta h
United bakery has good multi grain bread
Sir jhar mun parr😂 good
Yes truly said don't spoil ur children future for the sake of that stupid third person it's just seems to be like a fake gud topic to discuss & gud suggestion unfortunately u also suffered but I m still here for my daughter
You are very wise MA, but i would disagree at a point, mard agar kisi dusri aurat ki taraf jata hai to zaruri nai k uski bv men koi kami hai, bht achi achi bivion k husbands shoqeen mizaj hte hen, ye admion ki apni masti hoti, aurat bechari qasoorwar ni
Dear I've said k people say k is Mai koi Kami ho gae . Thys y he went for another woman
Same case with me
Irum plz male video on how to deql with student as a teacher aur teaxher tyyar hon aur kese sb se bt krein plzzxz😢😢 Mene 3 montHs se Apse request krrhi hon
Ager apke student ki age 7 say 15 k beach ha tuh strict teacher bano
Male boys is age main sexulize karte female teacher ko
Hello dear pls make volg on body shamming ...specially on short height ...I am very upset because of my short height my height is 4.11......everyone said to me your height is short....
Sure 😊
AOA.sister ap nay sub tyk Bola but Koch mard kabi ni change hoty .Mary husband dubhai may hoty .13 sal ho gay 2 shadi ke ha may Pakistan hu bachy pas ha Mary boht zada pershan time dakha bacho KO kabi Chor Kay Janny Ka ni socha .mujy itni saza Mili gar pasy ni bajy os nay 6 sal ...bachy ab university ha Mary Kam bi karty ha to gar chal Raha ..gar rant pay ha Mera.. Allah Ka shukar ha bacho sth Khush hu may ..but husband AJ bi ni badla Koch log kabi ni Chang na gilti feel karty ..reply lazmi Kery ga ..mujy kis bat ke saza Mili .😂
Apki chanal b abi sy strt kiya hai dekna but i really love you
Jazakallah
Usko izzat ki parwah ho to wo afair hi n kare, aur agar husband flirty ho to kya kare, har ledies ko aur ladki ko gandi nazro se dekhe to kya kare
Bahut ache se mind ko sukun de jati h aap ek baat or ye to chiting wali baat ho gi but ching na kre husband cear na kre ghar me koi mann sammn na de to kya kre
Nice vlog, could u advice a wife whose husband is having multiple affairs ...around 7 at a time...
Reality of life.... 👍
Very well said
Bohat zabrdst bat ki
Zabrdast advice