Yes you should, who wouldn't want to know. People have the right to make their own decisions regarding their life. I've told someone before that their spouse was cheating, I dont gave any regrets about it. Pisses me off that people walk around lying and cheating, it's unfair and selfish.
Knowing someone is cheating, and not exposing them just shows Your low level of Moral Character, If You will ignore it, You will condone it, If You will condone it, You will do it Yourself, and Justify it, Just Low Value People, Sad Really.
No, many people absolutely do not condone this behavior. But to ruin the lives of people around the cheater and to possibly place yourself or your family members in danger is really not worth it.
I just went through this. The guy acted like he casually dates, yet when looking him up on social media, he just celebrated an anniversary with his real girlfriend. She was completely clueless, hurt, and thanked me for helping her get out of this situation.
The gag is, they only say “ you should’ve told me” when they see the truth with their own two eyes. But if you told them before they saw, they wouldn’t have believed you. Best thing to do is not say a word and let them see for themselves b
@@princessm6355 Exactly. I told a friend once that her guy was cheating and she got mad and called me jealous saying I would never have anyone, etc. Of course she came back after knowing the truth and apologized but I was done. I sent her on her way.
Thx, I just set up a personal meeting to let them know. I will be direct, clear, and non-judgemental. You never know if a couple can work through it or if its just a confirmation that's it's over. Relationships can be hard. So I will just be truthful and a friend. Simple as that! And wish them the very best no matter what.
The best thing you could do is to tell that person in good conscience then let them be. Whatever the person chooses to do with that information will be and should be up to them. My bestfriend cheated on his fiancé multiple times until I suggested he confess to her or else I was going to since she and I started to grow close. They're still together 3 years later and I'm happy for them. I know I'd appreciate it if someone did the same for me.
Hi Ashley! Thanks so much for sharing this. My situation is a little different but I liked how you handled yours and I’m wondering if I should do the same. I have a friend who lives in a another state who was on a dating app and matched with a guy who flat out told her he was married and only looking for a physical relationship against his wife’s knowledge. This friend and I share crazy dating app stories often so she screen recorded this guy along with the messages and then sent them to me. I recognized the partner right away and realized it’s the husband of someone i used to be friends with in middle school. We have not been close from since middle school but interact with each other sporadically on social media. I feel like she should know because how coincidental that this guy happens to match with my friend. But others are saying to leave it alone and turn my head. I’m so so conflicted.
@@kathy5374You can always ask her hypothetically, "If your man was cheating on you would you want to know it?" It's always right to tell the person though.
If I was in this situation and had money I might hire a homeless indivual to make a phone call. Then help them get cleaned up and out of town with enough money to start over some place else.
I agree whole heartedly. If someone was cheating on me I would want to know. I'm in a situation right now where I sent a lady messages to tell her that the man she is with is sneaking around her back with me. I had no idea that he had a girlfriend until I saw that he added her on his social media for the first time a couple of days ago. I took a look at her profile and saw the post about them celebrating their one year anniversary together and her pictures. He and I don't have a relationship we had fun online and wanted to get together to have fun which we haven't done yet. I told him that I know what is going on now and that what he is doing to her is not right. He lied to me twice about not being in a relationship, that he was single. Then he turned it around and said that they had an open relationship. Why lie if his relationship really was open? I told him to tell her to check her messages and confirm the open relationship. No response. Now she and one of her friends thinks that I'm a scammer trying to get her attention. I wondered if she had an inkling of what was going on and she didn't want to face it.
I'd want to know and will tell someone if I have info. Unique situation where she did overnight pet sitting/house watching, I found out all at once that she was cheating (multiple people) a BAD alcoholic and drugs. I was clueless. It ROCKED my world. Thought I was okay and could tough it out...WRONG. We have one life to live, why would anyone want to waste it with someone who isn't true? People need to know the truth.
Good advice.!! This woman seems very genuine [1:24: people came out of the "workwood"]. Seems very much concerned about truly helping people resolve relationship issues.
Hi Donna! I need your help! I have a friend who lives in a another state who was on a dating app and matched with a guy who flat out told her he was married and only looking for a physical relationship against his wife’s knowledge. This friend and I share crazy dating app stories often so she screen recorded this guy along with the messages and then sent them to me. I recognized the partner right away and realized it’s the husband of someone i used to be friends with in middle school. We have not been close from since middle school but interact with each other sporadically on social media. I feel like she should know because how coincidental that this guy happens to match with my friend. But others are saying to leave it alone and turn my head. I’m so so conflicted.
So I've been in a relationship with a boy for 6 years and I realized that he has been cheating on me with this other girl, when I tried to tell her, he proved me crazy and manipulated her and now they are together and she still thinks I'm lying. What should I do?
Let it go and keep moving forward! You are better off without someone who lies and manipulates people. You deserve much better!!! That girl with him now will eventually learn what you now know. You tried to warn her, now take good care of yourself. Look for somone new who will be honest, faithful, and truly make you feel loved!
You see this is a tough one. Because if it's your best friend or a family member you are close to, you're going to want to tell because you feel like it's the right thing to do and you probably also think if that was me I would want someone to tell me. But sadly, it doesn't always turn out that way. I can say this because I was in this position. my now ex best friend: her husband was cheating, and I saw it with my own eyes and me thinking I'm being a good friend I told her and even had a witness which was another friend of ours. she confronted her man, kicked him out the house, we took her on vacation to "forget about him" did everything in my power to help her heal. Then he manipulates her into thinking we wanted them to break up because I was jealous of their relationship, and she believed him and now were not friends. so, I feel like with this situation, even though your heart is in the right place, its best to stay out it let them find out on their own and be there when they need a shoulder to cry on.
You did the right thing which showed your good moral character. Your friend has unresolved issues which made her susceptible to narcissists like her boyfriend. People are removed from our lives for a reason, your friend was removed from your life for a reason. Always tell the truth it’s worth it!
But what if her father was dying and her daughter just had a baby and he came on to me. Her best friend l also knew him as long as her so l told him no way and l thought if it happens again l will tell her but it never did and l let it go but 6 months later she found the texts he sent and somehow l am the bad person for not speaking up and she stayed with him???? ALWAYS SPEAK UP NO MATTER WHAT BECAUSE I HAVE LEARNT THE HARD WAY. 😢 20 years of friendship gone in a second 💔
Thx. Cheaters should always be exposed.
Yes you should, who wouldn't want to know. People have the right to make their own decisions regarding their life.
I've told someone before that their spouse was cheating, I dont gave any regrets about it. Pisses me off that people walk around lying and cheating, it's unfair and selfish.
Unfortunately your room temp IQ doesn't consider all the innocent people that get caught up in the crossfire though.
@@yishihara55527 What are you going on about? The person who did the cheating is the one to blame. He/she is the one that needs to get it together.
This is not true. Women don’t wanna know and they will blame you for being bitter, jealous and trying to break them up.
Telling someone your partner is cheating is I believe the best advice, nobody wants to be in the dark.. eyes wide open to see 🙈 truth.
Knowing someone is cheating, and not exposing them just shows Your low level of Moral Character, If You will ignore it, You will condone it, If You will condone it, You will do it Yourself, and Justify it, Just Low Value People, Sad Really.
Well said
No, many people absolutely do not condone this behavior. But to ruin the lives of people around the cheater and to possibly place yourself or your family members in danger is really not worth it.
@@yishihara55527 Doing Right is Always Worth It....
@@yishihara55527 I'm thinking that you must be a cheater.
Yep
Telling or not telling is telling about your character. I’d tell, no question!
I just went through this. The guy acted like he casually dates, yet when looking him up on social media, he just celebrated an anniversary with his real girlfriend. She was completely clueless, hurt, and thanked me for helping her get out of this situation.
And now you with him?
@@renee2641 I wouldn't even trust a guy like that to be with him just for fun.
ALWAYS TELL!
The gag is, they only say “ you should’ve told me” when they see the truth with their own two eyes. But if you told them before they saw, they wouldn’t have believed you. Best thing to do is not say a word and let them see for themselves b
@@princessm6355 Exactly. I told a friend once that her guy was cheating and she got mad and called me jealous saying I would never have anyone, etc. Of course she came back after knowing the truth and apologized but I was done. I sent her on her way.
You should tell your friend. They’re STIs out here!
Thx, I just set up a personal meeting to let them know. I will be direct, clear, and non-judgemental. You never know if a couple can work through it or if its just a confirmation that's it's over. Relationships can be hard. So I will just be truthful and a friend. Simple as that! And wish them the very best no matter what.
🙏 thank you for having a heart
The best thing you could do is to tell that person in good conscience then let them be. Whatever the person chooses to do with that information will be and should be up to them. My bestfriend cheated on his fiancé multiple times until I suggested he confess to her or else I was going to since she and I started to grow close. They're still together 3 years later and I'm happy for them. I know I'd appreciate it if someone did the same for me.
Hi Ashley! Thanks so much for sharing this. My situation is a little different but I liked how you handled yours and I’m wondering if I should do the same.
I have a friend who lives in a another state who was on a dating app and matched with a guy who flat out told her he was married and only looking for a physical relationship against his wife’s knowledge. This friend and I share crazy dating app stories often so she screen recorded this guy along with the messages and then sent them to me. I recognized the partner right away and realized it’s the husband of someone i used to be friends with in middle school. We have not been close from since middle school but interact with each other sporadically on social media. I feel like she should know because how coincidental that this guy happens to match with my friend. But others are saying to leave it alone and turn my head. I’m so so conflicted.
Why would you ever remain friends with someone like that?
@@kathy5374You can always ask her hypothetically, "If your man was cheating on you would you want to know it?" It's always right to tell the person though.
If I was in this situation and had money I might hire a homeless indivual to make a phone call. Then help them get cleaned up and out of town with enough money to start over some place else.
I agree whole heartedly. If someone was cheating on me I would want to know. I'm in a situation right now where I sent a lady messages to tell her that the man she is with is sneaking around her back with me. I had no idea that he had a girlfriend until I saw that he added her on his social media for the first time a couple of days ago. I took a look at her profile and saw the post about them celebrating their one year anniversary together and her pictures. He and I don't have a relationship we had fun online and wanted to get together to have fun which we haven't done yet. I told him that I know what is going on now and that what he is doing to her is not right. He lied to me twice about not being in a relationship, that he was single. Then he turned it around and said that they had an open relationship. Why lie if his relationship really was open? I told him to tell her to check her messages and confirm the open relationship. No response. Now she and one of her friends thinks that I'm a scammer trying to get her attention. I wondered if she had an inkling of what was going on and she didn't want to face it.
I told the guy and he got angry at me and wondered why I even told him? Starting to think she might’ve been using his phone
If you tell someone their partner is cheating and then they break up with them and get back together it's just going to end up biting you in the butt.
I'd want to know and will tell someone if I have info. Unique situation where she did overnight pet sitting/house watching, I found out all at once that she was cheating (multiple people) a BAD alcoholic and drugs. I was clueless. It ROCKED my world. Thought I was okay and could tough it out...WRONG. We have one life to live, why would anyone want to waste it with someone who isn't true?
People need to know the truth.
What do you do if its not someone you know and kids involved
Good advice.!! This woman seems very genuine [1:24: people came out of the "workwood"]. Seems very much concerned about truly helping people resolve relationship issues.
Hi Donna! I need your help!
I have a friend who lives in a another state who was on a dating app and matched with a guy who flat out told her he was married and only looking for a physical relationship against his wife’s knowledge. This friend and I share crazy dating app stories often so she screen recorded this guy along with the messages and then sent them to me. I recognized the partner right away and realized it’s the husband of someone i used to be friends with in middle school. We have not been close from since middle school but interact with each other sporadically on social media. I feel like she should know because how coincidental that this guy happens to match with my friend. But others are saying to leave it alone and turn my head. I’m so so conflicted.
Tell her take it from me
Should you tell if you “think” the boyfriend is cheating, but you are really not sure ?
If the person is important to you, I think you should share what you know and let them decide.
No. Only if you are absolutely sure. Just the suspicion may destroy one person. Why do it in vain?
So I've been in a relationship with a boy for 6 years and I realized that he has been cheating on me with this other girl, when I tried to tell her, he proved me crazy and manipulated her and now they are together and she still thinks I'm lying. What should I do?
Let it go and keep moving forward! You are better off without someone who lies and manipulates people. You deserve much better!!! That girl with him now will eventually learn what you now know. You tried to warn her, now take good care of yourself. Look for somone new who will be honest, faithful, and truly make you feel loved!
Be glad you were removed! Level up you can do better!
Well she is with a liar. He will do it again. He didn't even have the honor of telling the truth.
You see this is a tough one. Because if it's your best friend or a family member you are close to, you're going to want to tell because you feel like it's the right thing to do and you probably also think if that was me I would want someone to tell me. But sadly, it doesn't always turn out that way. I can say this because I was in this position. my now ex best friend: her husband was cheating, and I saw it with my own eyes and me thinking I'm being a good friend I told her and even had a witness which was another friend of ours. she confronted her man, kicked him out the house, we took her on vacation to "forget about him" did everything in my power to help her heal. Then he manipulates her into thinking we wanted them to break up because I was jealous of their relationship, and she believed him and now were not friends. so, I feel like with this situation, even though your heart is in the right place, its best to stay out it let them find out on their own and be there when they need a shoulder to cry on.
You did the right thing which showed your good moral character. Your friend has unresolved issues which made her susceptible to narcissists like her boyfriend. People are removed from our lives for a reason, your friend was removed from your life for a reason. Always tell the truth it’s worth it!
But what if her father was dying and her daughter just had a baby and he came on to me. Her best friend l also knew him as long as her so l told him no way and l thought if it happens again l will tell her but it never did and l let it go but 6 months later she found the texts he sent and somehow l am the bad person for not speaking up and she stayed with him???? ALWAYS SPEAK UP NO MATTER WHAT BECAUSE I HAVE LEARNT THE HARD WAY. 😢 20 years of friendship gone in a second 💔