Not my undiagnosed teenage self thinking "huh, well everyone else is having sex, guess i should too" then finding a guy who was a friend and then proceeding to have sex with him just to get it over with...ps I did mention this in my recent diagnosis assessment at 46 (confirmed and very late diagnosed AuDHD)
I feel like I need to say this, but this and part one have a lack of representation in regards to other genders as to how autism effects them in these videos except for woman. I know that Ella relates as nonbinary, but when the other two people are both women it becomes clear that this is about female autistics and sex, and while that is fine and perfectly understandable if that is what you want the videos to be about considering the lack of female representation on the subject (I say that as someone who was afab) This series is thus far been one sided. Please keep in mind that I am saying that as someone who associates as being genderfluid and would really like to hear the thoughts, feelings and experiences of other genders on the spectrum in regards to this subject.
The title is too general, the content is too vague. Like everyone involved is beating around the bush about everything, I'm not really sure what this video is supposed to help with. Is it for people just starting or trying things out or for more experienced people? I'm kinda confused, I guess, there's no narrative I can follow
I've had several men put their hands around my neck and say "I thought all women like that!" When I tell them to let go. I'm assuming that comes from porn?
Yeah, a lot of what people assume you're supposed to do is from porn. Which is kinda scary, because most of it is made for men and the women are treated like objects
I don't think it is just from porn. I think it is from mainstream media romanticizing that sort of thing. While there are people that enjoy that kind of thing and that is perfectly fine so long as both parties are of age and consenting, assuming that someone else is going to like something because you saw it in show or read it in a book is unhealthy. Sorry you had to deal with someone disrespecting your boundaries. Hopefully you find someone who treats you better than that. 👍
great video :) any chance of a similar video on gender identity and ADHD/Autism because our POV is often different, it would be good to see
I'd like a part 3, with autistic young men. I'm a mum and the flirtation of sex, the unwritten codes, the porn- how they impact of young men.
Not my undiagnosed teenage self thinking "huh, well everyone else is having sex, guess i should too" then finding a guy who was a friend and then proceeding to have sex with him just to get it over with...ps I did mention this in my recent diagnosis assessment at 46 (confirmed and very late diagnosed AuDHD)
Another great video, thank you so much!!!
I feel like I need to say this, but this and part one have a lack of representation in regards to other genders as to how autism effects them in these videos except for woman. I know that Ella relates as nonbinary, but when the other two people are both women it becomes clear that this is about female autistics and sex, and while that is fine and perfectly understandable if that is what you want the videos to be about considering the lack of female representation on the subject (I say that as someone who was afab) This series is thus far been one sided. Please keep in mind that I am saying that as someone who associates as being genderfluid and would really like to hear the thoughts, feelings and experiences of other genders on the spectrum in regards to this subject.
The title is too general, the content is too vague. Like everyone involved is beating around the bush about everything, I'm not really sure what this video is supposed to help with. Is it for people just starting or trying things out or for more experienced people? I'm kinda confused, I guess, there's no narrative I can follow
Sensory deprivation? 😸
I've had several men put their hands around my neck and say "I thought all women like that!" When I tell them to let go. I'm assuming that comes from porn?
Yeah, a lot of what people assume you're supposed to do is from porn. Which is kinda scary, because most of it is made for men and the women are treated like objects
I don't think it is just from porn. I think it is from mainstream media romanticizing that sort of thing. While there are people that enjoy that kind of thing and that is perfectly fine so long as both parties are of age and consenting, assuming that someone else is going to like something because you saw it in show or read it in a book is unhealthy. Sorry you had to deal with someone disrespecting your boundaries. Hopefully you find someone who treats you better than that. 👍